@@lostshadows768 and as a Gynecologist, that tightrope is already pretty freaking specific. Like he said at the end: gynecologists make a shit ton of money. for him to be in some backwater town, unable to afford a medical co-pay, and demanding to give his GIRLFRIEND’s 18-year-old weekly exams for no reason says some shit.
The whole “he’s my mom’s BF” aside. He got his license TAKEN AWAY!!!! You have to frick up bad to get your medical license revoked. Holy crap. Have you checked the offender registry for his name?
Yeah. Something is off about that. Either he is lying about even being a doctor in the first place or, he was a creep to multiple women and got fired. Unfortunately op's mom sounds like the kind of person who wouldn't care if she saw him on that theoretical list.
To the mom it doesn’t matter. She’s an idiot who thinks just because he doesn’t have a license that it doesn’t mean he doesn’t have his training or knowledge in tact.
She needs call the police and tell her mom she will report him for SA if he tries to touch her. He has zero business with her body at all, fake revolked license or not. This guy is a predator.
I have never seen that many red flags, not even in communist countries. OP MUST tell a teacher, a cop, a doctor (not the creep), a school counselor, SOMEONE!
Yep. Though I do wonder, as she is now 18, are there as many options available to her since she's now an adult? Still, she needs to be talking to her school, friends, anybody she can to find a way out of that house.
@@wingracer1614I'd say so, they are trying to force her to let her moms boyfriend do weekly inspections of her vagina. That's still SA no matter how you phrase it, even if she's 18. It would still be against her will and thus a violation of her body and judging how her mom is acting she'd probably admit to it even if the BF tried to deny it, I say tell anyone that will listen and get some sort of help
Not only that, how is he going to do anything diagnostic? No tools, no no imaging, what's he going to do other than poke around? OP needs to get a gal pal, find the nearest Planned Parenthood, and get herself seen. They can bill on a sliding scale, and she can get worked up for the issue.
first story : hold up a second! lets not ignore that 34 - 18 = 16 ! mom was 16 when she had her daughter and MOM now is >grounding< her 18 yo daughter for not wanting mom's unlicensed (due to being REVOKED), creepy boyfriend to get under her skirt ? wow, this story ! and that update !? RUN GIRL RUN !
I am legitimately afraid for OP 1. I hope there's an update from her since rslash's recording. Eta: the story was fake af. One of the updates was basically fanfiction nonsense + hints to "pwease gib me moneh!". In the end, OP deleted their account after being called out.
@@sagejungwirth4155 It is fake, you can look up the reddit post and the account was deleted but the comments call OP out for lying and shaming her for posting a gofundme because she wanted to travel out of country to get away from her mom/stepdad but she was asking for like 10k; who needs 10k to move away from family?
I do not usually comment but...the first OP needs to RUN for the HILLS! She is 18! Her mother and her mother's boyfriend hold no power over her kitty or what she does with it! She needs to gather get social security card, birth certificate, and all of that and just escape to one of her friends houses and explain the situation.
She also needs to involve the cops, and the DA. He'll be charged for practicing medicine without a license a d arrested in a heartbeat. Also, her mom not only wanted to save money, she's "afraid to be alone." BS! Mom needs someone to validate her. Let's not forget that mom is too lazy and too much of a tight wad to get her daughter the proper medical care. OP needs an exit plan. The sooner OP gets out, the better.
I would also recommend getting some kind of protection (cops, bodyguard, gun, etc) because I guarantee that if OP leaves, they will track her down and something tells me they're not above violence.
@@torturapesnorrarapeI wouldn’t be surprised if it was but do u have any sources?? :O first story is so outrageously unacceptable it sounds somewhat fake if that makes any sense??💀💀
Her mom not caring that her boyfriend said he could take a look at her daughter's bottem is a red flag like madam there is a reason doctors don't really do certain medical care on close family members Her stepdad is like the main villain van Lolita but the mother is blind to red flags this time
Skin tone story: I'm a light skinned Hispanic woman married to a black man. Our son came out my skin tone despite having both our genes. Genetics are crazy 🤪 the movie Encanto was really great with showing a rainbow of color even between sisters. It happened with me and my two sisters
I pray she calls the police. What kind of mother refuses to take her daughter to the doctor to get checked out when she’s having female issues?!? She sounds mentally unfit if she’s dating a creep who wants to check her daughter’s lady bits weekly.
@@kierrific1357 They live in a rural area and she relies on her parents for transportation. OP has literally no choice but to be the mom's boyfriend's personal sex toy.
OP’s mom has a such a soft spot for kids with rough home lives that she punished OP and forced him to have a rough home life for not liking that she’s working with the guy that’s been tormenting him for years. Right, that makes sense. Even after all that mummy dearest still doesn’t think she did anything wrong, only reason she was so compliant was because she was pretty much forced to. She can cry and beg all she wants, doesn’t change that she’s being selfish and totalitarian. OP should keep his guard up. Like he said, she and daddy already failed him once, there’s no guarantee they won’t do it again. Next thing you’ll know they’ll adopt the bully and give him OP’s room while they chain OP in the backyard.
As someone who has helped two people at once, you *cannot* do so if either of those people hate the other for whatever reason. Even if they will never see each other during that time, one will know you are helping their enemy and will also see you as a threat, and will resist your help. You need to decide who needs you specifically and stick to them. It’s way more cruel to betray someone you’re helping than to leave someone else alone to possibly find help that is more suited to them. Helping two people is nice, but ensuring the safety and care of someone by listening to their needs is true kindness.
@@Nerobyrne The mother wasn't the one being bullied, it was OP. After OP was understandably upset about HIS OWN MOM helping HIS BULLY, his mom punished him for it. No one is owed kindness or forgiveness, especially if said someone was helping someone else who spent years hurting you. Her own fucking kid, man. She put someone else above her own fucking kid. She will never be forgiven in my book.
In the beginning, I was thinking nobody sucks, but when OP was punished for feeling a type of way, I changed my mind. She should've handled the situation better than that.
The school bully story gets me every time. She not only foubled down to get her kid compliant, she tripled down by getting the school involved. Shes a terrible mother
Story 4: Really cringe that the sister is making this much of a fuss over skin tones and is being upset at a *young child* because a drawing isn't 100% accurate or something. And yeah, the sister better drop this mentality before it unintentionally messes up the niece
Its probably cope coming from her. Light skin is highly valued in latino culture, so she feels bad that her kids are whiter (and thus "better") than her.
He had his license revoked for a reason. Keep him away from your kid wtf Edit: yeah no way this dude is a doctor, he’s just a creep. I repeat *keep him away from your daughter wtf*
I believe this creep probably was a doctor. Look up the news stories about Dr. John Story or Dr. Paul Harnetty (both practiced in the state of Wyoming and both are serving time for SA of multiple patients). Or go listen to a few female ExMo influencers about the premarital medical exams they were subjected to… The same attitudes about purity probably apply in the Southern Bible Belt as in Utah, Idaho, Wyoming, and western Colorado.
Yeah, definitely ( run far and fast op) plus op said she’s never had a boyfriend or made love before so the creepy boyfriend probably just made up the whole made love so bad that her insides hurt. ( he did ) Not the jerk ( op not the guy who probably needs to be on a registry and probably jail) ps definitely registry ( again run fast and far op)
Story 2: But think of the poor little bully who has a bad home life, so, if you don't want to talk with me, I'll punish you... the mother instead of trying to repair the already damaged relationship, she punished OP. As someone who also got bullied in high school, and my mom had to hear from our teacher that "these boys have a rough live home", while one of them had their parents outside of the country working, meanwhile, I was the poor kid that was raised by my mom since my dad was dead since I was 8. Yes, I get it, sometimes people have a harsh home life, but this doesn't excuse taking it on others. And again, instead of trying to repair the relation, the mom just punishes OP. "Oh you're so dramatic". Hope you'll enjoy your son going no contact once he turns 18--
@@ricardodemarco3486all whom haven’t learned a lesson. The parents only learn to not bully their son at this time. They don’t care about his feelings and are only sad that they’ve been professionally called out for their bs.
that first story was a huge scam. she was saying how she needs money to do anything. she refused to go stay with friends or relatives. people kept giving her ways to help herself, and she'd just respond with things like 'I dont have the money for that.' all her comments were basically hint hint, give me money. there's a reason that account is gone.
Don't forget the third update about her running away, mom wanting to let the boy friend have sex with her to bring her back to purity once a week, and all of it happening in 48 hours, yet all posted in like 16-20 hours. A few other things like Mom using meth and all being blamed on the daughter being impure or some shit. I wish I was joking.
The latest update to the gyno story involves a car chase away from random Nazis, so needless to say, the entire thing ended up being fake from the very beginning.
@@scylvia Yes it would but the first tip off it was fake was she kept being given good advice that would have resolved the situation. Her situation as presented was not hopeless but she kept saying "but I have no money, I can't do that." It doesn't cost money to talk to your guidance counselor.
Story 2: So the parents think OP is wrong for him not wanting his mom to mentor his bully and their solution is to bully him into getting over it and thinking it's going to work out well?
One that is clearly indoctrinated into her religion, I know Christian like this, there insane, and I'm betting the creep is also religious in that way so he can get away with being a creep
I have a bad feeling about this but it may be because he might have convinced the mom that it was for bs reasons. Heavy bleeding and more painful period cramps than normal are usually something other than passionate hugging.
@@electromad6385 well mom is 34 with an 18 year old daughter. You do the math. Clearly there's a history of bad decisions there and it sounds like mom is projecting her own bad decisions on her daughter.
Story 3: I'm a firm believer of not catering to stupidity so NTA. She should be happy instead of having a nasty break up you're going to let her go back to her ex with no fusse or drama. And it's funny that she's dumping you to go back to her garbage ex, you're not supposed to have sympathy or be kind of her.
What was she expecting, OP to grovel like she does towards the ex? Did she hope OP would be her stand in for when things go bad again? OP is just letting her know the truth and she can’t be shocked after dumping him that he’s not going to be delicate with his feelings.
Story 2 + Update: If I was a parent, my child of mine was bullied by someone, and I was given the offer to mentor/tutor said bully, I'd decline on the spot and recommend someone else. My kids first, other kids second With how much the mom was insistent on mentoring the bully, you'd think the bully had something to offer if she accepted, and it turned her into this mess of a mom.
to be honest, it baffles me how strong that mom's hero complex is... like... it's a stranger, who harmed your kid's wellbeing... and she's like "yup, i need to step up and essentially be that kid's guardian"
I disagree. I think the mother is trying to get this kid on the right track. Sometimes it just takes one adult to change the future for a child in need. Extending forgiveness and an opportunity to grow is incredibly wonderful. Now, taking everything away and punishing your own child, isn't the answer. I don't understand why the son is freaking out...she isn't moving him into her home, she's working with him. Does the son stay in her room for the whole day? It doesn't make sense. I think they are both overreacting.
@@Beena2020Yeeeaaaah…no. This is an abominable take, a horrendously bad take. You should be ashamed of yourself for going along with the moms delusional ways.
Story 2: Mommy has a savior complex, convinced herself she could save the kid, and in turn lost her own, due to the neglect. Choosing to do it was one thing, punishing their own kid for pointing it out just made it far, far worse. Even after being confronted with the reality of the situation by other people, the mom still didn't want to give up the other kid. OP is incredibly insightful regarding people's true intent and that shows a maturity far beyond their young age.
Couple of things to keep in mind: this story is being told entirely from the perspective of a teenager - an unreliable narrator by default, and we don't know what's going on with the other kid. Why is there absolutely zero benefit of the doubt being given to OP's mom here that the kid in question DOES in fact desperately need help "Why does it have to be YOU who helps him when there are so many other teachers here" Because that's how the world works sometimes kid. There's 40 other faculty members here and every single one of them is saying that it's not their problem. The question isn't "why me", it's "if not me, then who"
@@znerd3664Someone gets it but people jump on the side of OPs like these because of all of the stories of evil parents. Also not understanding how bullies get created.
@@znerd3664 I am so glad I’m not the only one thinking this is crazy. I can’t believe everyone is so against this mother helping out another student simply because her son doesn’t want her to. Honestly I think op is crazy for giving her that ultimatum. She needs to understand that the world doesn’t revolve around him. It sucks that this just happens to be his bully but if someone doesn’t help him who knows what will happen? And yeah, you’re right if not up his mom then who will?
The 1st story turned out to be a troll poster making up a story for karma points. OP started asking people to send her money and buy her things. 2nd story was also a fake one. The Reddit mods removed their posts.
A bully is a bully regardless of the situation. OP's mom should never have even considered having Dave be her aid. Edit: OP's sister needs to stop commenting on her daughter's looks. If she keeps it up, her daughter is going to have little to no self esteem or confidence. What kind of life is that?
Yeah… as someone who actually works in the medical industry… if you’re close mates or relatives with someone… NEVER offer them a medical exam, you will see and learn things you can’t unsee. When it came down to helping my mate with some issues he had (we’ve known each other for 10 years now) and involved getting to discuss some intimate issues with him, I learned that day was a horrible day to have eyes. Makes for a good drinking story though. Long story short, there is now no secrets he has between me and him…
What makes OPs situation worse is that this guy had his LICENSE LITERALLY TAKEN AWAY FROM HIM! I may not be a doctor myself but considering his attitude i can see WHY EXACTLY THAT HAPPENED.
My mom used to be a children's nurse and my great aunt also used to be a nurse. Even though they'll do a normal "check up" ( checking fever, blood pressure, basically nothing like what op's mom was suggesting) if a family member isn't feeling well, they'll still tell us to see a doctor.
Just making it known that story 1 was fake. The third "Update" (Which I'm surprised Rslash didn't cover because it should've been around) basically had her running away and asking for donations because she "Didn't have anything to her name"
Last story: your sister was talking crap about her own daughter because she didn't like that she was white, and talking bad about your daughter because she doesn't like that her skin tone is darker than her daughters. What the hell is your dad talking about? From the sounds of it at least you care about your your niece feelings and developing any kind of insecurity because her mom doesn't like the fact that she's not a different skin tone.
Most Latino people are partly Caucasian and getting upset over the color of her daughters skin tone is so wrong, on many different levels. She needs a reality check.
@@dinlupus3196 it's a chronic illness, one that I have! It doesn't kill, but it can be very painful and it's very disabling. I'm not a doctor, just a woman with that illness, so if you're experiencing worrying symptoms, please go check a doctor!!
For Story 1, RUN. He either got his license revoked for a reason or more probably never had one . Either way these “purity tests” sound like he just wanted another reason to peek down there when you didn’t go for the exam in the first place. Mom’s an idiot and POS. Also go to a guidance counselor and school nurse about everything For Story 2, It’s not even taking the bully on as an aid at this point. The length they’re going to punish him is the real problem that will make him go no contact. That’s isolation and mental and emotional abuse. He’ll never trust them again regardless
Story 1: He's literally trying to manipulate you so he can SA you. Mom needs to (maybe literally) be hit with a reality check. Badly. I feel genuine fear and anxiety for OP that sounds terrifying. All I can really suggest is seeing if the cops can help but I wouldn't have too much hope there even though this guy is basically threatening to violate OP.
and sex that makes you BLEED?! i know it can happen, but i'm pretty sure that many of the cases are actually from rape , is this guy actually saying that he is an expert in SA? cause so far it seems like it. i'm afraid for her, she needs to tell the cops, look this guy's name on the internet to make sure he isn't an ex-convict and make a backup plan because sometimes police doesn't do a thing...
A lot of reports calling the story fake on the grounds of finding any excuse to avoid taking advice and low-key begging for money. The account also ended up taken down after she was called out allegedly.
The Pervy Gyno story had more to it. I remember reading it on Reddit. Apparently, they basically attacked her when she refused to agree to the exams and she ran away. I don’t remember what all happened, but I don’t think she’ll be going back home.
I just looked at the posts from OP, and the comments were mentioning something about mom's bf getting a biker gang to find OP and bring her back. a lot of the commenters were skeptical after that that any of OP's posts were true because she wasn't responding to anyone's messages and kept saying that she doesn't have any money - ie, all the posts were just a scam to get money.
Story 1: if the bf ever had a license, OP should be able to find out, right? Are license databases for doctors public record? The age gap between the mom and OP is 16 years, so she was a teen mother and has no room to get sanctimonious with OP. Story 2: I’m surprised that school allows aides to grade papers. When I used to teach, we couldn’t even have aides run copies. But the mom in this story, yikes. It’s great to have an open heart and want to be understanding - behavior is usually the tip of an iceberg - but your first duty is to your own kids. You can be cognizant of other peoples’ struggles, but still be in your kids’ corner.
Re: Grading. My High school (over 10 years ago) allwoed something similar. We didn't get to grade subjective questions but were allowed to go scan scantrons and write what the students got right or wrong. But this was Wayyy before we posted grades on computers/online so that may be a different thing.
This 2nd story really hits home, My parents tried something similar, taking more and more away until all I had was an empty room, a desk and a bed. Haven't spoken to them in decades. Go ahead and try this shit see where it gets you. Good luck with the nursing homes.
Don't worry. The majority of doctors are in it because they care about health of the human body. Also, you have the right to ask for a chaperone for an exam if it would make you feel more comfortable. They'll typically have a female nurse in the room if requested.
Update: It went well. Got my first Pap smear, which was really uncomfortable but I’ve been meaning to do it for a long time, so I’m glad I did. Thanks for the responses and likes, guys!
Yeah... there is a reason why some people get their license taken away and most of the time its something very serious. You're better off trusting people who don't have one than people who had it taken away.
The Bully story… I would say, if it was a minor bully, and he was just a jerk but not outrageous, then OP is a little over the top.. but the fact that he decided to cut his mom out of his life really speaks volumes as to how badly this bully must’ve really hurt him. I can’t imagine having somebody torment me in such a way for so many years just for my own mother to “mentor” him. Part of me initially wondered if she took him on to try and resolve things between him and OP, but if she really was doing it for their best interest, she should’ve dropped him the moment her son brought it up. It’s a shame she did that to him.
If OP is willing to burn his relationship over this either: a) the bullying was tramatic or b) OP's parents were emotionally abusive and this was the final straw.
Right?? You would think that OP literally changing his decision to go to COLLEGE because of it would click in the mom's head of how badly that bully must've hurt him.
@@threecards333Considering their reaction to him ignoring her and the mom trying to downplay the whole situation to the counselor....I feel it's both.
A)contact the police B)contact the medical board . Both will want to know he's still acting as a doctor. Also, he can't be trusted, which is why he doesn't have a license... Edit: Go to the cops
Story 1: Uhhh, not only would I not want an family member looking at my privates.... you have to listen to your gut. But the real question... why is he lying or why did he loose his license. At the best he's horrible at boundaries, and worse he's a very VERY bad person... The update: GO TO THE POLICE, LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. DONT EVER LOOK BACK, DONT LET THEM TAKE YOU BACK HOME ULESS HES GONE FOR GOOD AND YOUR MOM SUPPORTS YOU! (Like op is going to see this, but still... holy crap.)
First story is a fake post. She posted 3-4 more updates and the timestamps and scenarios weren’t matching up. When people started questioning her she just deleted her account and updated posts. Also a very, very similar story was apparently posted last year.
While OP can she should check public records and find out why his license was revoked and submit this and what her mom and bf want to do to her to the cops
Story 1 update: Due to the escalation of update 2 and 3, there's discourse that it's fake. I honestly think it's real and it scares me. Update 2 talks about OP waking up in the middle of the night to her drunk mom and mom bf. Mom bf tries to take away OPs phone. He says there's a demon inside her from having s** so he needs to have s** with her to exorcize it or something which OP absolutely refuses but mom bf tries to SA OP but OP bites him on the chin and runs out of the house to her friends house. OP tells her friends mom what happened and they go to the police station and she gives a statement. Here's where things get even worse. The guy who takes her statement goes on about hearing about fake statements this crazy behavior and ENCOURAGED HER TO TAKE BACK HER STATEMENT! If this is real, looks like more people should lose their jobs... WTF. OP is staying at the friends house and not going to school. Update 3 wasn't available but OP supposedly asked for money which might be why the user was removed and is now deleted.
This is fake, trust me. For starters the person says in update 2 that it’s been 48 hours, but it had only been a couple hours. And also update 3 says that the boyfriend found her at her friends house, and said that he was going to “punish her by edging her instead of letting her climax”, and “impregnate her with an angel to kill the demon living inside her”. Then a neo-nazi biker gang pulls up on the house, and the friend, the OP, the friends mom, and the friends brother all get into a pickup, and a car chase with the neo-nazi motorcycle gang with connections ensued. Thankfully the ops friends brother shoots back at the gang and pops a few tires, then pulls out a handful of caltrops that he just had somewhere and uses them to stop the gang. Op gets to the brothers army base and says they are safe, but by god they have no money and they wish they had some money. Unfortunately, I’m not joking
Story 2- My mind went straight to the bully is being abused at home, either sexually, emotionally, physically or neglectfully. Mom obviously can't tell her kid anything but she and her husband went about this situation all wrong.
Why was the mom so absolutely adament on being the one specific teacher to teach the bully? That's so goddam weird and odd to me. It's even creepy that she prioritized some dude because of his home life over her OWN CHILD. She downplayed everything she did to her child AND tried to make it seem as if op was overreacting
1st story: He's objectively NOT a doctor anymore. He lost his license to practice. This would be illegal in addition to weird. Edit: Holy s**t! This is so psychotic. Run, OP!
@@kiracaroso A teen wouldn't need money to run away from that situation? A teen wouldn't delete their account if everyone decides they're a scammer and turns on them?
@@Richard_Nickerson People kept giving suggestions, they made excuses, people then asked questions, they dodged most and for the few they answered nothing was adding up. A number of other comments and replies have gone over what happened, and I do not want to rehash what has already been said too much. There was also an update they gave that read like a bad Blues Brother fan fic with nazi bikers hunting them down randomly.
Story 1: Is the mom honestly so desperate for companionship that she's willingly overlooking the walking red flag that is her boyfriend? She had better not reach a point where she has to depend on her daughter for anything, because the daughter would be more than justified in dropping her mom from her life.
There's a difference between having a soft spot and a glaring weakness that will always be exploitable(an Achilles' heel). What your mother did is rooted in the latter
@grizzly_manbanimation8436 it's not her job though. She chose this kid out of hundreds of options. That's not a job. That's a choice She than made another choice to punish him, and another, because he wouldn't talk to her? What's damning evidence is that this was her choice and not responsibility is her bosses had to jump in and stop her without OP ever asking them too. They agreed she was making the wrong CHOICE As for who else will help, another teacher. Because that's exactly what happened. Another teacher was assigned to him We can help people by giving them resources, I am not a woman's shelter but I can connect someone with one for shelter. Just like OP said from the beginning that his mom could have another teacher help him
@@grizzly_manbanimation8436her job is to teach kids. She can. Pick any student to aid and she chose the bully. It would have been super easy for her to tell another teacher the bully need help. Tbh the school knowing the history shouldn’t have even allowed her to pick the bully as you could never be 100% sure she didn’t pick the bully to get revenge it’s. Conflict of interest.
@@grizzly_manbanimation8436im with you in this.... He has everything, even a car. How could the bully interfere in his life? Some people need a positive person on their life to make them give up grief and be a better person. Mom was trying to do that. Her kid has all The priviledges and still complains... What kind of bullying did he suffer? That would be important to know.
In regard to the first story: PLEASE be careful when you read stories like this on Reddit! I've heard a lot of people point out some interesting details: For one, OP was insistent that she had no money, that she couldn't leave because she was broke, etc. etc., also, some people are saying there was a third update where OP's mother reveals she's on meth, and has changed the punishment again where OP has to agree to have sex with her 50-year-old boyfriend to "make her pure again", also, the story, the second, and third updates all were posted within 48 hours. Not saying this story was fake, but it is suspicious OP refused any practical help and things escalated so quickly. Just saying, remember this is Reddit, probably 90%+ of the stories are fake, remember that before you offer any monetary assistance to any posters! If someone is really in-need, they should accept practical help (women's shelters and abused women's homes, etc.), when they keep hinting how they need money ... well, it just sends up red flags.
It *was* fake. The last update had OOP and her friend's family running for their lives after the BF sent a N*zi biker gang after them. She said the friend's army brother had a shootout with them, there was a car chase and they all ended up safely at the brother's army base. It's BS. OOP deleted when it was revealed she was trying to scam people for money.
Also - Yikes on that story with the mom supporting her son's bully over her OWN SON !. What a betrayal of trust. Yikes - and then the parents decide to punish OP after years of abuse from the bully - and they now are bullying him - OMFG !! O_O
Apparently, it was a con according to other posters. Nonsensical updates that turned down any advice offered as well as low-key begging for money. Allegedly, the account was deleted by the poster as people began questioning the stories legitimacy.
The first story has some truly insane updates. The BF has OP’s mom on something that has her tweaking out of her mind, believing that OP is possessed by demons and wants to put a chastity belt on OP! He also wants to do things that I can’t and don’t want to elaborate on but it involves SA so OP takes off to her friend’s place. There’s also a car chase with neo n@zis involved, it’s BONKERS!
Yeah, that can’t be real. At first it seems so bizarre that no one could make this up, but then it gets so crazy that it just seems like it’s a ridiculous story made by an attention-seeking teen. Women’s shelters don’t ask for money. Neither do CPS, the cops or the Salvation Army. Her refusal to accept common sense help is also highly suspicious.
@@threecards333 It was. She was asking for money and refusing advice from the comments. After she was called out, either she or reddit deleted her account.
I always love parents who react to learning that their kids are going to leave the second they turn into adults by further abusing them. Do they somehow think that all that hate will loop back around to love at some point?
It's actually really hard to lose your license in the US. He must have messed up really bad multiple times to lose it. So if he really was a doctor and lost his license they shouldn't let him anywhere near their body.
That first story: HOLY SHIT!!! OP needs to GTFO ASAP! Call the cops, call CPS, and get out of there! Honestly, the way the story went, it feels like an abuser isolating a significant other. I also noticed something else: The account was a deleted account, meaning it's possible that OP's mother followed through on her threats. Also, they came up with the punishment together? Not a chance. The deleting social media and isolating from friends is CLEARLY the BF's idea. I really REALLY hope OP is able to get out of there because this is classic abuser behavior. God damn, that is just insane!!! Second story: OP is not the AH in any way. This mot...no...she doesn't deserver to be called a mother. WTF is with these horrible people?! David clearly needs help, but there is no reason at all it has to be OP's mom. What a kick in the balls this must be to OP. Then, OP's mom tries to get the counseller and AP involved to fight her battle?! Wow, just wow. In the end, I'm glad OP got their stuff back, and that they have a future plan. Maybe one day the relationship can be repaired, but definitely keep them at a distance for now.
Story 2: your mom is trying to make you have sympathy for someone that has made your life a living hell, she knows exactly what he put you through and looked you dead in your face expecting you to feel bad for him. That is sad and I feel bad for anyone who has to deal with that but that is no excuse to take out on anyone else. And regardless of your mom's sympathy you are her number one priority and she should have already known you would have a problem with this. I'm glad the school tried to help a little bit, not for your mom but out of concern for your own future. Although I'm not a fan of how the counselor tried to get you to apologize when you have nothing to apologize for. I hope someday your mom can finally realize how much she hurts you and take the school device about going to family therapy, and not take you talking to her as a sign that this is over and life's going to go back to normal.
I truly hope the first OP called either CPS or talked to a teacher or counselor at school. This is 100% SA being enabled by a overly suggestible mother.
The mom is essentially pimping out her daughter for this guy. Offering her to do gyno exams at 18 years old to a random man ??? Literally OFFERING her to him. If he’s being told to TOUCH her by her own mom.. he’s gonna assume anything else he does is gonna be okay. I’m genuinely scared for Op’s safety. She’s 18… how tf is this even legal.
Story 1 was fake. In her third "Update" she claims that the bf tried to SA her and she ran away, and somehow the bf got N@zi's to try to get her back. But she was effectively asking for money and refusing advice from the comments
I'm no expert on this but my understanding is (and this varies a lot from state to state) CPS has very limited powers over 18 year olds. That said, they do have some powers for people still in high school. She really, really needs to talk to her school. They should be able to help her in some way, even if that's just get her in touch with the right government agency or independent support group. Of course, not everyone is fortunate enough to have guidance counselors that actually care but that would the best first step.
Girl screamed Wolf too many times. She lied about everything for "Karma" and later to straight up get people to send her money! She's not the victim, she's the asshole.
Story 4: It boggles my mind that the sister is obsessed with "Latino" (darker American) skin tones, when a significant number actual Latinos prefer "White" (lighter European) skin tones. Not to there's anything wrong with her preference, but it's confusing to me. Especially considering the fact she herself clearly prefers lighter tones in her partners. I have to wonder if she's coping with insecurity about her darker tones by masquerading as confident about them.
When my Mom was a teen she had heavy bleeding that became so frequent she was bleeding every week. She knew that she had to see a doctor but her Mom (my grandma) wanted her to go see her gynecologist, who happened to be a man. My Mom wasnt comfortable with that and my grandma tried to force her. When she locked herself in the doctor's bathroom the doctor told my grandma that my Mom was probably not a virgin and is trying to hide things from her which of course wasn't true. My Mom ended up making a doctors appointment by herself in another city and took a bus to and from there because somehing was very wrong with her. She ended up needing a surgery. The real kicker, my grandma had my Mom when she was a teen so her shaming my Mom for something that wasnt even true was just one of the many reasons why they werent on good terms.
Digging around on Reddit, the first story was made up. There's some further updates where it goes off the rails and OP deleted everything after being called out
2nd story: Mom really thinks OP should just accept this? You're never talking to your kid again, lady. Make your own kid's home life unbearable for the sake of your own kid's bully? C'mon, mom... Edit: Dad is supporting this too? Neither of them realize how they're actively making it worse? Jfc
*1st Story:* OP has several options for dealing with Creep. 1 (most obvious): _RUN!_ 2: Tell _everyone_ what her mom & Creep wanna do to her. 3: Metaphorically turn the tables on them and ask Creep where he got his alleged medical license and how exactly he lost it (if he ever got it). 4: Quietly run a police background check on Creep.
First story: Run. Leave. Find Somewhere else to stay away from "Dr." Creep . Even sleeping on the streets is preferable to being isolated with him. (Which is exactly what he's trying to do by taking OP's phone and not allowing her to go out and see her friends.)
Story 1 was fake, hence why her account was deleted. In her third "Update" she claims she ran away after the boyfriend tried to SA her, and something about the boyfriend trying to get N@zi's to bring her back, but she was also asking for money and ignoring advice in the comments.
Story 3: the fact ops mom was so willing to make excuses for her own son's bully is disgusting. Hell, even if she wasn't his mother, excusing bullying just because of a bad home is disgusting.
Gyno exams are more than taking a look. Lab work is a significant part of it. My armchair diagnosis is ovarian cysts. Mom arranging weekly SA of her daughter is horrifying.
So... did no one else do the math and catch the irony that OP is _already 2 years older_ than her mom was when she was born?! 34 - 18 = 16 years old! No, just me??
You’re not going to believe this but I was listening to this story while I was waiting for my gynecologist appointment (wearing headphones of course). And I was just…what the heck? So I went in and decided to ask my gynecologist if there was a need to do weekly exams. She looked at me like I had two heads. I played the video and she was floored.
*First OP:* It's okay, rSlash; I also sometimes laugh as a coping mechanism, or out of disbelief, so I get it. On to the story: Why should OP get checked out by an EX gynecologist _who had is license yanked?!_ And that's not including the creepy vibes he gave off to OP. OP is NTA, and shame on her mother for choosing her boyfriend and her convenience over OP's safety and well-being. _And_ OP's grounded for it?! That burns me up. OMG at the update. OP's 18; she can leave. I understand she doesn't have any place to go, but she is _not_ safe in that environment. *Second OP:* I've read this before. I don't know if rSlash covered the update, but OP's counselor had to intervene and have OP's mom drop the bully from the TA program. OP is NTA. These parents are fumbling in this video. *Third OP:* OP's ex decided to dump OP for her previous ex, which was her right. OP laughed at his ex for dumping him for a bum, which was _his_ right. I don't see a problem here. OP is NTA. *Fourth OP:* Colorism is wild. OP is NTA.
“before he had his license yanked” I also believe he's lying about ever having been a gyno, but I would ask why he got his licence revoked. I just want to know what lie has came up with too explain why he can't practice any more.
First story: Wait - she says she 18yo! How does the mom have domain over her body? She is now a legal adult. Anything that perv does to her lands him in jail.
3 step plan Step 1: find out if this guy really had a medical license, pretty sure you can google that Step 2: IF he does (unlikely) find out why he lost his license also probably googleable if it’s bad enough Step 3: as everyone has said, CALL THE COPS cause it’s an invasion of privacy, SA, normal assault and probably could be pushed into R*** This is my 3 step plan to get any type of creep like this TF outta your life
1) license revoked means hes not qualified to do it any more. 2) you're 18 you cant be grounded. 3) you're 18 you can't have your property seized without proper legal proceedures. 4) any practicing doctor would NEVER try to force an exam on someone who doesnt want it. 5) this feels like he's trying to set up a coersion and control situation where he cuts you off from your friends, makes sure your mother doesnt believe anything you say and has unrestricted access to your body. RUN, dont walk.
Nope. Nope, nope, nope. Run away. Call me if you need a place to stay, but run away. This is not just gross, It is sexual assault. If he touches you in ANY way, call the police and press sexual assault charges. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I’ve never heard of insides physically getting destroyed in a literal sense. The worst I’ve heard were tears and some bleeding(which I’ve personally experienced), but I doubt severe physical injuries as possible .
Attempt 3 of trying to post this in some manner. I STRONGLY ENCOURAGE people to check for further updates on the 1st story. I think people will find it interesting.
@@Mokuteke The other 2 updates are still there and, as you might have guessed from 'attempt 3', I have been running into some problems speaking to people about it.
For the first story OP should go to the ER, and ask to speak to the police about the planned sexual assaults. R/Slash Read the update for the second story, You skipped the one where OP first went to the guidance counselor
That first story, the one about the creepy man trying to be the kind ecologist of the 18-year-old There has to be a follow up on that just peace of mind that she got the hell out of there. I hope there is an update.
The final update is how the gyno BF sends a N@zi biker gang after OOP at her friend's house. The friend's brother, whose in the army, fought them off, with extra gun fights and car chases for added affect, and that they're now all safe on the brother's army base. No, I'm not kidding. That's the actual final update they give. And, yes, 98% of the commenters called it out for the BS it is.
Second story mom, I bet you she favored Dave so much bcs he's the son she never had and found him as an outlet to fulfill her dreams of being a boy mom. 🙄
This. Similar thing happened to my friend when we were in our teens. His mom started taking in foster kids and neglecting him and his sister. Eventually she threw him out all together, mother of the year for sure.
Oh my goodness! The first one is CRIMINAL!!! OP needs to call CPS on her mother! Talk to a teacher ASAP! Or a friend's mom or a grandma or SOMEONE! I am HORRIFIED!!!
First story. I hope she called the police immediately. I don’t think her mom realizes she is talking about aiding and abetting a predator with a sexual assault on her own daughter.
Story 1: Tell him, if he comes near you, you’ll call the police. You need to leave. He defo got with a single mum to get close to the daughter. Red flag. I agree, he either got it revoked for good reasons or he a liar. OP needs to find someone or somewhere to go.
