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@johnhill4937
@johnhill4937 Год назад
TOXIC FAMILY: *wants you out of their life* ALSO TOXIC FAMILY: *blatantly makes it as hard as possible for you to actually leave their life*
@MissRandomNomad0o
@MissRandomNomad0o Год назад
It feels more like they just want someone to control. Or a punching bag. Leaving is bad because they're losing control, but they never treat you like a person either, because to them, you might as well not be one.
@JustSmileyFace...
@JustSmileyFace... Год назад
My life (no really, it's my life)
@MissRandomNomad0o
@MissRandomNomad0o Год назад
@@JustSmileyFace... That's miserable. Hope it gets better.
@DWithDiagonalStroke
@DWithDiagonalStroke Год назад
@@JustSmileyFace... oh my...
@starfire2178
@starfire2178 Год назад
​@@JustSmileyFace...same..
@dinocatgaming2127
@dinocatgaming2127 Год назад
We should open a hotline for victims of insane parents to call whenever their parents do something, so they can have a professional lawyer tell them if that's legal
@RunOut25
@RunOut25 Год назад
Heck yeah
@drintrovert4564
@drintrovert4564 Год назад
Yes please, so many people need it
@shuu-wasseo
@shuu-wasseo Год назад
i would need this a lot
@dinocatgaming2127
@dinocatgaming2127 Год назад
@@shuu-wasseo that's sad... Do you need someone to complain to? Go ahead if you do
@bluesforeveryone
@bluesforeveryone Год назад
thehotline and childhelphotline are both websites with hotlines for people in these situatuons!
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Год назад
A note to potential parents and just everyone in general: If you want to treat your children like a Provident Fund, invest in a Provident Fund instead.
@GreyPunkWolf
@GreyPunkWolf Год назад
Yeah but the fund doesn't have a 0.0004% chance to become very successful and carry your sorry old ass until the end. That's what these people bank on. And it never works, obviously. Even if they win the 0.0004%, child will most likely invest and move tf out fast and far.
@melancolielupine2023
@melancolielupine2023 Год назад
Just don't have kids if you're driven by selfish reasons, such as being taken care of when you're old, or playing with a human doll, or transposing your own lost/failed dreams on your children, or stepping up the social scale. Have kids if you want to love and raise tiny humans and only if you're emotionally, financially and mentally ready.
@kissit012
@kissit012 Год назад
@@melancolielupine2023 it would literally be cheaper to invest the money into an account and put it towards retirement and elder care than to have kids and hope they’ll take care of you later. You could pay trained professionals to care for your needs and it’s less stressful
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
@@kissit012 And to add to your last point: In some states in the US, the law _will not allow_ children to take care of elderly parents once the degree of care goes above a certain point. And the reason why the laws exist is because the adult children _are not trained professionals_ in elder-care, and therefore cannot provide the minimum care for their parents deemed necessary by the law.
@CarbonatedCondensation
@CarbonatedCondensation Год назад
@@melancolielupine2023 the human doll comment made me scrunch up my face, but it’s too true.
@MaridoDoFelps
@MaridoDoFelps Год назад
The worst thing is that these parents think their job as parents is to make sure their kids have no secrets, while in reality it should be to make sure their kids feel safe enough to not WANT to keep secrets, and feel free to talk about anything with them.
@PyroWolfofEarth
@PyroWolfofEarth Год назад
Exactly! I know a lot of people who should have never been parents. There are also the parents who ignored all the problems that came up and also taught their children to keep secrets because their problems never mattered.
@PatTheCat1014
@PatTheCat1014 Год назад
I feel very happy that i can talk to my parents about almost anything; obviously, a few things i dont trust their advice with, but i feel very glad that i can talk to them about most things
@geminiphoenix
@geminiphoenix Год назад
Yeah - that's what my step-mum and dad did. Just led to me keeping even more secrets.
@Goth_boi_kyaru
@Goth_boi_kyaru Год назад
​@@PatTheCat1014 .... *How is like to live my dream?*
@flyingwaytooclosetothesun
@flyingwaytooclosetothesun Год назад
and half the time it’s not even that the children are “keeping secrets” it’s that they have their own lives and not everything needs to be shared with everyone. having a parent who doesn’t allow them to have their own private life is what makes child feel the need to keep secrets from their parents
@RiveroftheWither
@RiveroftheWither Год назад
My mom bought me journals multiple times as a kids, tried to write in them but never really got into it. My mom, who is physically unable to go a day without getting mad at someone over even the most innocuous bs, played herself. She stomped over to me one day while I was on the couch and angrily asked why I never use my journals. I asked confused "How would you know?" and she was silent for awhile before changing the subject and yelling at me for something else.
@i_like_videogames9517
@i_like_videogames9517 Год назад
That is one of the worst kind of people. Trying to find any possible excuse to start an argument and the worst part is that, no matter how hard one can try, they’ll never stop because they enjoy arguing with people, for some goddam reason. The only way to live with one of those people is to make them realize that there’s no reason for them to be mad, which is exactly what you did, so good job.
@FlyingBisonSuperiority
@FlyingBisonSuperiority 7 месяцев назад
My therapist told me to start journaling because I bottled up all my emotions to make sure not to upset or hurt anyone. So a journal would be a safe place to let it out without censoring myself in fear of offending someone. But my mom started reading my journal because “I never talk to her and she needs to know what’s going on with me”. I stopped journaling and was never able to do it again even after moving out. I’m sorry that you lacked privacy in you home. I hope you have a safe space now
@acsaudiodramas
@acsaudiodramas 2 месяца назад
Oh that’s sneaky, your mom bought you journals and expected you to write in something she might get angry about, but you never did. She obviously planned to read them, as she bought them. My mom didn’t read what I wrote. She knew I wouldn’t write anything bad about her, since she had so perfectly brainwashed me, I wasn’t even able to think bad about her. My subcounciounce not so much. That’s why my mom never liked the fiction I wrote, since all the characters were parodies on my parents and my surroundings - I wasn’t even aware of that. Also my mom got mad that I didn't open the boxes with dolls she bought from my grandparents' money, since I had grown out of it and enjoyed drawing anime fanart more.
@ronen44444447
@ronen44444447 19 дней назад
Ooof damn you hit her hard there, when kids really think and ask the right questiones, it's one more step to freedom. I hope you found peace later in life, and managed to get past the lackluster parenting.
@Scarlett.Granger
@Scarlett.Granger Год назад
"As a mum I don't want my kids not to feel negative emotions when they see the message is from me" resonates so much with me, and I don't even have kids. If i ever did, I'd hate for them to feel like i felt.
@riverstein7251
@riverstein7251 Год назад
Honestly, because of my mom and prior roommates, it used to be that anytime I see a long text message no matter who it’s from I immediately panicked and went into fight or flight. Like my world was crumbling every time, because that’s what people in the past did to me. It took me a lot of therapy to get over that trigger
@Scarlett.Granger
@Scarlett.Granger Год назад
@@riverstein7251 Uff, i feel that so much :( Hope you're doing better and got far far away from this.
@gergyta9211
@gergyta9211 Год назад
I panic whenever either of my parents text me, or call me cause I’m assuming I’m in trouble for something stupid
@navnher1135
@navnher1135 Год назад
Me in an Office like family therapy: "What I would like for my kid when they get older? Well I'd hope they wouldn't dreads coming back and would see it as a nice thing to see us whenever they have the time" The therapists/guidance peoples faces were priceless, seems like an answer they were not prepared for. Especially right before the holidays. So yeah.. i feel this, but I have a kid. (Family guidance/therapy because we are working on being better, doing better, not because it's bad - we just don't want it to get bad)
@esmee6308
@esmee6308 Год назад
@@navnher1135 Being able to talk very open to a colleague (who's a mother around my mother's age without knowing my mother) has given me so much perspective. She's one of the few who'll talk about how she'd feel if her son felt that way, rather than saying what my mum has done is unforgivable. (And it might be, but with boundaries I'm open for a relationship with her.) She makes both my feelings valid, but also show how much a little openness from my side might mean for my mother nowadays even if she messed up badly in the past.
@yomeiko
@yomeiko Год назад
The first time I tried making a diary, the very next day I opened it and found my mom left a "cute" note in the first page for me. She thought it was innocent, but I immediately gave up on the idea of having a diary because I felt like my privacy could be violated at any time after that event.
@MrJulio632
@MrJulio632 Год назад
Same thing for me, but it didn't write, I drew what I was feeling and how I was feeling, woke up next day to see all censored and she said "a good Christian don't think like this" So no more drawing diary
@mistbiene774
@mistbiene774 Год назад
There are diarys with a lock on it. So much for respecting privacy...
@yuki97kira
@yuki97kira Год назад
God i would be furious..i hate it when people just do something permanent on my personal things without permission...even my test papers. We used to have tests checked by other students and this girl just doodles everywhere...pisses me off...i was 9 but i would really show them the disappointed eyes if someone do that to me in adulthood now
@gracen8010
@gracen8010 Год назад
Honestly! My first diaries as a kid were always pretty innocent stuff but I knew my mom went through them, so when I got access to phones and computers I started doing my journaling there instead, but that wasn’t safe either. When I was 14 my mom snooped through all my devices, found out I was questioning my sexuality and my gender identity, and grounded me for (I’m not even exaggerating) three years. She changed all of my passwords, wouldn’t let me so much as touch a device without her looking over my shoulder, and basically just kept me locked in my room until I finally got put into foster care at 17. Journaling had been the only coping skill that worked for me, and to this day I still don’t feel 100% safe writing any of my private thoughts down, even though she hasn’t been in my life since I was put in foster care.
@hannahleigh6152
@hannahleigh6152 Год назад
@@gracen8010 If it makes you feel safer you could just write it down and then burn it.
@3y3b411
@3y3b411 Год назад
Remembering when my adoptive mom would call me emotionless and a husk when she would scream at me whenever I showed any emotion, and then complain to her friend that I just always smiled and look dead on the inside doing it. “I bet your kid isn’t a psychopath like mine” was the straw that broke the camel’s back, and why I show no emotion
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
I hope you've completely cut that woman out of your life. It infuriates me that gay couples I know have to jump through all sorts of hoops just to be approved to be allowed to adopt, when cvnts like the woman who adopted you can just go and get a kid easy-peasy, then emotionally and psychologically abuse them like she did to you.
@WildArtistsl
@WildArtistsl Год назад
🫂 here buddy get a hug
@nicoleonard2420
@nicoleonard2420 Год назад
🫂
@Veltrosstho
@Veltrosstho 8 месяцев назад
They don't get to tell you who you are.
@RexytheRexy
@RexytheRexy 4 месяца назад
🫂 I'm so, so sorry she treated you that way. You're worth so much more than that.
@Beansidhe413
@Beansidhe413 Год назад
When my sister in law was younger, she kept a private journal. Not only did her mother read the journal, but she actually wrote notes and comments in it like "That never happened", "You have no right to feel that way", "Don't talk like that", ect. She would also yell at and lecture her over it.
@Dahlily
@Dahlily 9 месяцев назад
Oh my god what a nightmare
@alexletiny5155
@alexletiny5155 3 месяца назад
Get in contact with your SIW and convince her to call the cops on the parents That is madness
@kevkevplays5662
@kevkevplays5662 Год назад
For that story where they ask the child for the lawyers info, they could have just said “so you are attempting to blackmail me into violating someone’s right to privacy?” I think that would have shut them up
@pikathechao3701
@pikathechao3701 Год назад
The one person's grandma who gave them covid during Christmas just because 'this is how we used to do it' gives me very strong Typhoid Mary vibes.
@kissit012
@kissit012 Год назад
My grandma invited my sister and I (diff moms) to her house one weekend to make me get chicken pox because that was how they did it. I never got it and she got shingles instead
@andrewfunchion367
@andrewfunchion367 Год назад
@@kissit012 i remember that growing up .
@andrewfunchion367
@andrewfunchion367 Год назад
i grewup in the early 1970s.@@kissit012
@Super_Panda_BS
@Super_Panda_BS Год назад
Fun animal fact: Honeypot ants have to be seen to be believed. During wet season, certain ants consume huge amounts of nectar, making their abdomens swell up to the size of a grape. Then, during dry season, they provide the other ants with food by throwing the nectar back up again
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Nice! Also you are the 12th comment!
@undyingUmbrage413
@undyingUmbrage413 Год назад
supposedly, they're pretty tasty too, since they're so swollen with sugarry nectar. best enjoyed dipped in chocolate.
@Roadent1241
@Roadent1241 Год назад
Interesting and fascinating. Thank you! Quite an odd Social Stomach. As AntsCanada taught me is called XD
@hypernovasoup
@hypernovasoup Год назад
I read about them in elementary school :) my personal favorite, I forget what they’re called, but they’ll build their nests near the nests of other ants and tunnel to the other ants’ nest to steal food from them. The thing is, the thieving ants are so small, they don’t build very big tunnels, so the other ant colony can’t pursue or really retaliate
@stephholt7629
@stephholt7629 Год назад
@@Roadent1241 I watch AntsCanada too!
@Aavazandum
@Aavazandum Год назад
Click laughing at his own jokes just makes them funnier
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 28th
@salmonofknowledge3229
@salmonofknowledge3229 Год назад
You a bot? This comment just seems botty
@Aavazandum
@Aavazandum Год назад
No
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
@@salmonofknowledge3229 who, me? No. Just a random teen that has too much time on my hands
@ebbenazor7857
@ebbenazor7857 Год назад
Yep. Sometimes he's funny for taking things too seriously. Sometimes he's laughing at other people being ridiculous. Sometimes his own material is genuinely funny. Sometimes he's funny for laughing at his own jokes. Sometimes he's funny, for laughing at himself for thinking that what he just said would be funny. Net result: 90% of the time, Click is funny. If Click ever isn't funny, it's because he's being too wholesome to be considered funny rn.
@cory8526
@cory8526 Год назад
The one about the son getting dropped off the parents' health insurance policy hit so hard. My ex insisted I had Munchhousers (that's probably not how you spell it, sorry) by proxy so he dropped our daughter off his health insurance without telling me. Turned out she has a rare condition called autoimmune encephalitis and needed very expensive treatment. Long story short, by the time we realized he'd dropped her off the insurance so I'd "quit taking her to all these appointments she doesn't need", the bill I received from the hospital was $280,000 USD and she's not even finished her treatments yet. It's about $20,000 USD per treatment and she'll need a total of 15 to 18 additional treatments yet.
@CakeofRage
@CakeofRage Год назад
i had to go back and make sure that said "ex" because holy shit
@KattoTang
@KattoTang Год назад
You should talk to a lawyer, because that sounds like deliberate neglect of the child. Also any doctors' offices/clinics/hospitals should've made you aware if they weren't able to bill insurance after being provided with insurance information. (It's "Munchausen" btw)
@amypond7631
@amypond7631 Год назад
The password journal one hit wayyyy too close to home. I had a locked journal entry online that was somehow attached to my email and my parents (who shouldn't have been in my email/gmail, didn't tell me they had access to my email, and definitely shouldn't have been reading my private notes) read it. I was about 12 and had written about how hard and confusing it is to be abused by a father and family you still manage to love. They immediately confronted me about it and not only gaslit me by telling me what I lived through "wasn't" abuse, but told me never to tell anyone what was going on because it "could get them sent to jail". 7 years later, my mother is only JUST starting to admit that my dad is abusive (and my brother is following in his footsteps) and that my trauma is, in fact, trauma. I myself am only beginning to stop gaslighting myself and call things for what they are. I really regret not sticking to my gut feelings; the fact that my dad at least appeared to genuinely think he could be arrested for "not" abusing me should have raised red flags. Emotional abuse is still abuse. I'm glad I haven't let myself ignore that.
@vanillathebard
@vanillathebard Год назад
I get the journal thing because even after buying a straight up industrial lock at like 7 for my journal before even being confident enough to use it, my mother still pried open the journal enough for her to read it and I immediately got in trouble for writing something along the lines of "I hope now my mother won't be nosey and read my things"
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
You were in the right. Your mother was in the wrong.
@rynzlrthesynth5758
@rynzlrthesynth5758 Год назад
Try writing in a code, and/or getting one of those invisible ink pens. With the pen, though, be careful not to press too hard or it’ll indent the paper and still be visible. One more idea I’ll give you- make an email account without telling anyone, and write things down on a google doc. I’ve done all of these at some point in my life, and they all work. Hope this is helpful. From one internet stranger to another, hope you have a lovely day
@vanillathebard
@vanillathebard Год назад
@@rynzlrthesynth5758 Thankfully, I don't have to worry about this anymore, but these are very good recommendations and I did eventually do something of the such with writing in code, though that was more because of my obsession with the Vladimir Tod books than preventing anymore invasions of my privacy.
@rynzlrthesynth5758
@rynzlrthesynth5758 Год назад
@@vanillathebard Glad to hear (well, read, technically) that you don't have to live like that anymore. With any luck, anyone currently in a situation like that sees my suggestions, and/or someone else's, and gets any help they need. Love that name and profile pic, by the way.
@theidiotwithnoname2801
@theidiotwithnoname2801 Год назад
something similar happened to me as a child my mom bought me a diary with a padlock on the front for my b-day a few months later I woke up to the lock broken.
@alexw.7097
@alexw.7097 Год назад
I still maintain that with all of the adorable designs submitted after the original video, Click should do an entire line of Emotional Support Demons If you collect them all, put them in a circle around a pentagram and speak Swedish, you can summon the Click directly to you for a hug and/or to tell you you smell dandyfinalicious today!
@alexw.7097
@alexw.7097 Год назад
After a line of Collegic Style "Click Academy" Merch
@zeratir7873
@zeratir7873 Год назад
How about an emotional support demon of every color in a rainbow, and then an ultimate one that is rainbow colored... that would get real expensive, but damn if I don't want it.
@autumn7143
@autumn7143 Год назад
Please. I love the thought of a line of emotional support demons.
@justaperson4656
@justaperson4656 Год назад
This is a good sales pitch
@alexw.7097
@alexw.7097 Год назад
@@justaperson4656 Thank you!
@HyperWolf
@HyperWolf Год назад
It’s hard to believe parents like these exist. I am now reconsidering every time a classmate told me they wished my parents were their parents because I always took it as a joke. Looking back, it was always some moment where my mom or dad would do something nice that I took for granted as being a normal parent thing that I couldn’t fathom other kids didn’t get from theirs.
@okichime9486
@okichime9486 Год назад
Honestly the diary thing is why I always have my phone on me and hate leaving tabs open at the computer. I'm rarely doing anything worthy of hiding, but my parents have snooped into my stuff and gotten irrationally upset a few too many times.
@watching_us
@watching_us Год назад
Holy shit are we twinning? But in all seriousness, that sucks bro
@KaiCreator09
@KaiCreator09 Год назад
I now can't give my phone to anyone for fear they look at my deleted search history of gallery and find out anything about me. (I have major trust issues from my parents)
@laurelelasselin
@laurelelasselin 2 месяца назад
My mother looked through my Chromebook without asking or telling me, lied when I asked her if she'd looked at it, and later admitted to looking at it and going through my tabs... (the funny thing is that she didn't know how to use it and had gone through my bookmarks instead, I knew someone had been on it so I could ask her because all my bookmarked pages had been opened and every time I pressed the back button it would take me to my next bookmark lmaooooo)
@CodenameTurtle
@CodenameTurtle Год назад
My dad would always poke at my insecurities in front of my siblings, but not when we were alone. He would joke and say I was fat, ugly, dumb, female in all kinds of ways. And whenever I almost cried, he would say "looks like someone's on their period!" Then if no one else was laughing, he'd say "come on, it was a joke." And at the end of the day by ourselves, he'd say "you know I still love you right?" Somehow that just broke me. I'm glad I'm not young and questioning myself anymore.
@sarahthesarah2850
@sarahthesarah2850 Год назад
It's terrible that you had to go through that. It sounds so demoralizing and hostile. I'm glad that you believe yourself. Recovering from those attacks is a trial in itself. I hope that you are as well as can be. Take care.
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
That man whose DNA you have sounds like Utter Garbage. I hope you are recovering. And I believe that you are totally within your rights to cut contact with him.
@ThEjOkErIsWiLd00
@ThEjOkErIsWiLd00 Год назад
You are loved, you are valued and you deserve better, I hope you find/have found that betterness. ❤
@Sr_ECO
@Sr_ECO Год назад
Jesus
@LadyAneh
@LadyAneh Год назад
Holy sh*t. That’s horrible-I really hope he mends his ways- mental abuse is the opposite of what parents ought to be doing. Hope you are in a better situation now, and are happy!
@Raaslen
@Raaslen Год назад
Reddit taught me that I actually have a very nice structured family with parents that love and respect me.
@mikethegoo
@mikethegoo Год назад
Is the cat alive?
@Raaslen
@Raaslen Год назад
@@mikethegoo I have to open the box to check
@mikethegoo
@mikethegoo Год назад
@@Raaslen But you are the box...
@dianacardoso4885
@dianacardoso4885 Год назад
I'm so glad you have a nice, loving family! Make sure to always show them how much you love them 😄✨
@isacarral2736
@isacarral2736 Год назад
I wasn’t aware that this was even an option. Must be nice 😅 cherish it
@Just_a_commenter
@Just_a_commenter Год назад
Congrats on the award, Click! You earned it. c: On a more serious note, my deepest sympathies to anyone that has to suffer with parents like those shown in this video. Just know that you're more valuable than they will ever admit and you deserve better. Hang in there and build a support network with those you can trust to fill the role your parents aren't fit for.
@strangevol5264
@strangevol5264 Год назад
thanks voretias
@Aaron_NEO
@Aaron_NEO Год назад
​@@strangevol5264haha, *funny*
@Just_a_commenter
@Just_a_commenter Год назад
@@Aaron_NEO It made me laugh so they've got that going for them. lol
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 41st
@Aaron_NEO
@Aaron_NEO Год назад
​@@Just_a_commenterlol
@chatboulon743
@chatboulon743 Год назад
Every time I see this subreddit being covered, the more I realize how much of a legend my own mom is. I really only found out about this as an adult, but we were not exceptionally wealthy. We barely had enough to make ends meet. My mom worked her ass off to keep my sister and me in the best life possible because our dad couldn't hold down a job because of his attitude. Needless to say, they got a divorce when I was in high school. My mom remarried back in '04, and recently lost her 2nd husband last October after he underwent surgery. She's living alone, but still being strong. I would do anything for her because I know now, she sacrificed a lot in order to keep her kids happy.
@ash-ot2bo
@ash-ot2bo Год назад
ur lucky
@cold_hands_hot_lead
@cold_hands_hot_lead Год назад
Mom with a capital M ❤️
@noodlepoodlegirl
@noodlepoodlegirl Год назад
I'm a mom, and I can tell you that your comment is a love letter. Show it to her, if you're comfortable. It will mean the world to her.
@LissaDIY
@LissaDIY Год назад
I'm a mom too and that's future relationship goals with my kids right there. ❤️
@Tridstan
@Tridstan Год назад
Same
@Vampkits
@Vampkits Год назад
My mom should have the spotlight in this. You wouldn’t believe how much of a emotionally/mentally abusive, and a controlling mother she is. I’m 18 and I’m too scared to make my own decisions because of her and yes, she drives me insane. I’m grateful for the videos you post though, they bring much joy to me, like a light shining through a dark tunnel. You’re amazing, you definitely deserved the reward.
@glados4759
@glados4759 Год назад
Hugs for you
@dragonsarebutterflies3663
@dragonsarebutterflies3663 Год назад
I kind of can relate to the journal thing. My parents are far away from abusive, but it did happen that they found my notes and private stuff and read it and then i got in trouble. So i text everything important to my best friend, the only one i would trust with that. Basically i use this chat as a journal and show it to my therapist when needed. This is the best solution i could come up with and it works just fine for me
@elomin03
@elomin03 Год назад
Dear, ruining your child's privacy is a type of mental abuse. I hope you're doing better now
@Ababa3256
@Ababa3256 Год назад
As someone with an uncommon, non-english name I feel very secure knowing he will never uncomfortably, flirtily say my name and stare at the camera.
@ameliasellers6396
@ameliasellers6396 Год назад
Or will he?
@Ababa3256
@Ababa3256 Год назад
@@ameliasellers6396 [insert the rock raising an eyebrow with that overbearing sound effect]
@DuskSummons
@DuskSummons Год назад
Same
@eyalm867
@eyalm867 Год назад
Everytime I think my parents are bad, I watch videos like this. I realise they aren't that bad after all.
@lamarasawyer850
@lamarasawyer850 Год назад
I understand, but make sure ur not downplaying urself.
@kissit012
@kissit012 Год назад
They can still be bad, just not by comparison, which is how a lot of parents get away with abuse
@bakugokatsuki2302
@bakugokatsuki2302 Год назад
That can be true, but even if it's not as huge as these stories it can still be abuse
@franciscodetonne4797
@franciscodetonne4797 Год назад
That may be true, but you still have the right to improve your own situation. "Not as bad as terrible people" doesn't mean it isn't bad though.
@Sinovian
@Sinovian Год назад
Kinda wish my sister would see these. She thinks my mom has been absolutely terrible and refuses to let my mom have contact with her grandchildren. This is the woman who raised us single handedly after my father left the picture around middle school after having to find a job for the first time ever since my dad wanted to be SoLe PrOViDeR for the family 🙄. When my sister got pregnant at 19 with her abusive ex she didn't kick her out. She helped get things for the new baby. Helped pick my niece up from child care when my sister couldn't because she was trying to work. Helped with home repairs and the moving processes when my sister finally got her own place. Continued to offer "phone babysitting" when my sister moved out of the city and my preschool aged neice had to sit in the employee room while my sister worked to keep my niece entertained. Canceled plans last minute to babysit. My mom wasn't perfect, no parent is. But she did her best to be supportive and let my sister make her shitty decisions without judgment while letting her know that mom would be there to help wherever she needed it. But apparently that was all toxic behavior on my mom's part.
@pom_likes_to_watch
@pom_likes_to_watch Год назад
I never kept a journal because I'm trans and queer and have always known. My parents snooped heavily already and I was terrified to write most of my true thoughts and feelings down with how evangelical my parents were/are. It was for these same reasons I always resisted anesthesia whenever possible. I didn’t want to say anything that would expose myself as who I was accidentally while coming out of it.
@Katra21
@Katra21 Год назад
My family has a great way of dealing with lights/doors/tech being left idle or in some unsatisfactory way. Gremlins. We pretend that little creatures changed things rather than blame anyone in the family. The most common was saying that the Gremlins had turned up the car radio inbetween drives. Even though everyone knew who was driving and blasting it last. It meant we could all laugh about it rather than get salty at each other.
@bridgetbenson6291
@bridgetbenson6291 Год назад
I say ghosts did it. Everyone forgets something small at some point in time, I don't understand how yelling about it will fix anything.
@ared-ainu
@ared-ainu Год назад
This was good for me right now. I have just cut contact with my family for the time being, and it does make me feel a bit lonely. These posts remind me that I made the right decision. I am autistic with more support needs than many autists you meet in the wild, and between my mother constantly telling me every thing I am doing wrong, and my father complaining that I am not getting better, I am just drained. I had a house fire last week (nothing bad, but still a big shock), and spending a weekend with my family was just too much.
@ThEjOkErIsWiLd00
@ThEjOkErIsWiLd00 Год назад
Just remember, when/if you do get in contact with them again, it's very important to let them know how they make you feel when they say harmful things to you. If you do that and they keep pulling their BS, that'll make the decision to permanently cut ties with them much easier.
@bombdotcom2168
@bombdotcom2168 Год назад
If you do ever make contact with them again (which is entirely optional), be sure to set boundaries and let them know your limits. Best of luck to you.
@That80sGuy1972
@That80sGuy1972 Год назад
I came from a family where my dad was the guy who said "Happy 18th birthday, all the bills are in your name". He also preached that whole responsibility, job, etc... like all dads do. Every time I went out for a job, he did his thing telling me how horrible the place I was applying to was while also saying how great it was that I was seeking employment there in a way where I decided to just throw the application out... so he could keep being oh-so-helpful in supporting me. Fast forward a bit. Each time one of us turned 18, the same thing. It turned out, my dad stole every one of our identities and used it, more than just transferring bills, decades "before it was cool". When I finally broke away from my dad, on top of some eh... issues... related to my falling apart, I also had to file bankruptcy for far more money than I currently make in several years' pay. Finding any landlord that would rent to me was quest on its own because my name was obvious that I was my dad's firstborn son. I lived a lot of my life as a criminal, outside of the system, with my dad's encouragement, so going straight was a hard transition and I didn't even know how badly he legally f^cked me for a LOT of years. When I was 18 to 24, I didn't legally exist except for what he was using my identity for. He did the same to my younger brothers. When I turned my life around to become a boring tax-paying square after I got help for a HUGE moment of falling apart, he tried guilting me for "making him look bad" by flagging my ID as stolen to try to recover it... that's how I found out he was the ID thief. There, to this day, is a LOT more stink because he still (from time to time) tries to use my name, SSN, and DOB to leech from that. Those insane parents are funny, some are POS's. Try being the son of a Dr.Workhorse / Mr. Hyde Scammer who was 27 when you were born who also felt like beating his oldest kid was okay (not spanking, literally kicking his ^ss) and defending pervert relatives who abuse you because somehow it's your fault. Yeah, having most of these parents would be an upgrade for me. I'd have to say this positive thing about my dad. He was an awesome, perfect 10/10 dad... for the kind of total POS he was who should not even be trusted with the life of a pet, even a goldfish, that he was and is.
@theherooverthere
@theherooverthere Год назад
My bio mom is an insane parent, she blamed I missed my abuser (ex step dad) and that's why I was uncomfortable with my brothers talking to him over the phone. Thanks mom, that was in 2019, I haven't forgotten about those words you said 🤗💜 (Also I'm fine, I live with my bio dad now)
@ameliasellers6396
@ameliasellers6396 Год назад
I'm glad you're in a better environment now! I hope he's a good parent.
@erin1569
@erin1569 Год назад
The first one's mother has been probably told off by that person's brother and father, so now she's looking for the next victim
@sleepdeprivedpikachu7235
@sleepdeprivedpikachu7235 Год назад
The screenshot of the mother complaining about her kids not wanting to take pictures is a scary combination of my parents. My parents aren’t too bad, but my mom constantly acts like a victim when I don’t want to take pictures, and my father has continuously threatened to take away all of the Christmas presents and donate them if my siblings and I don’t behave. Not to mention he has physically abused me on multiple occasions, not to mention treating me like a ten year old since the age of 12. I’m almost 16 and a half. Last year, when he found out I was watching RU-vid, he attacked me and literally gave me a panic attack. Not to mention that they made me delay my schoolwork because of this whole thing. It’s exhausting having to walk on eggshells around him.
@Alexander59059
@Alexander59059 Год назад
It sounds like they are too bad
@richardarriaga6271
@richardarriaga6271 Год назад
@@Alexander59059 I second that.
@s0lastsummer7
@s0lastsummer7 Год назад
I promise that you won't feel this powerless forever. 😞 just survive each day the best you can, and if they do something to you that you aren't sure is legal, tell your most trusted teacher or another adult, anyone who can help you figure it out. Hang in there. 🖤
@wilbur1425
@wilbur1425 Год назад
My parents are like this, can’t ask them a questions or socialize with them without feeling like I should be guilty about a questioning I’m asking
@JustSmileyFace...
@JustSmileyFace... Год назад
I feel that, and now I don't celebrate christmas with my parents anymore
@jaymevosburgh3660
@jaymevosburgh3660 Год назад
My parents got me a therapist that would come to my school and one time he gets this pained look on his face and pulls out MY FREAKING JOURNAL and says that my folks want me to talk about certain issues. He handed it back and told me to maybe hide it better. So after that I did hide it much better but I also kept a false journal out for them to find. It was literally filled with gibberish and the most bizarre and random nonsense. Thanks for the advice Mike 😂 He was an awesome therapist, and a good person.
@gasterthemaster6490
@gasterthemaster6490 Год назад
Whenever Click mentions how he was a teacher, I can't help but imagine him going into a classroom like: "Hello class I'm Clickky Thicchy Witty UWU".
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 59th!
@rbexcess
@rbexcess Год назад
@@kittydemonoverkill me 😂😂😂😂
@talcorp9998
@talcorp9998 Год назад
@@kittydemonoverkill but... Why?
@cole.j02
@cole.j02 Год назад
When I went off to college, me and my mom's relationship got strained for a little bit as we tried to balance out this new step in my life. It took some time (almost my entire first year), but we now have gotten back to having a good relationship. Being able to mature and change your relationship with your children is so, so important. If that relationship had continued, I probably would've cut my mom out of my life eventually, but I'm so thankful that I now have a good relationship with her.
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
Everyone, once they're living on their own as an independent adult, needs to renegotiate their relationship with their parents from "parent-child" to "adult-adult".
@cole.j02
@cole.j02 Год назад
It also didn't help that I'm more independent then my older sibling. She treated us both like adults, but my sibling needed more help then me in general. Once we found a rhythm that was right for both of us was when our relationship got better.
@lemonwhipp
@lemonwhipp Год назад
When I was a teenager, I kept a journal and a few vent drawings in my closet because I was struggling mentally, but I was trying to work it out on my own before I sought out help. My mother decided to snoop and she found it, and the way she went about confronting it was having her friend tackle me (which gave me permanent rib damage) and force me to talk about it with them. I get the concern but that’s not the way to go about it man
@villaintoon2350
@villaintoon2350 Год назад
Hope you doing better,Do you still taik to your parents?
@lemonwhipp
@lemonwhipp Год назад
@@villaintoon2350 I do, they’re getting better but I’m still pissed off for how they handled it 😭
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
@@lemonwhipp As you should be. They had no right to do that to you.
@aaamogusthespiderever2566
@aaamogusthespiderever2566 Год назад
rib damage… 💀 those are really bad parents if they break your bones/limbs for having personal stuff
@yongqianchen4037
@yongqianchen4037 Год назад
I used to keep journals as a kid, but my brother would find and look through them, we shared a room so no matter where I hid them, he would always find it and read it. I wrote down all my secrets and feelings in my journal and so it crushed me when he looked into it and told all his friends. I never kept journals since then
@rottenriver394
@rottenriver394 Год назад
Bro when Click starts laughing it always makes me explode a lung trying not to laugh with him. If I laugh my grandmother will be like, "DO YOUR SCHOOLWORK", so I just sit here and die.
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 54th!
@rottenriver394
@rottenriver394 Год назад
@@kittydemonoverkill Not necessarily the earliest I've ever been, but I'm glad I got here before 100. Also, go get some rest. You deserve it.
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
@@rottenriver394 I'll finish the video first, but thank you! I am actually in achool right now, though, so I gotta get through that before I can rest.
@rottenriver394
@rottenriver394 Год назад
@@kittydemonoverkill Well, good luck with school, and have a good day. :)
@ActuallyDeath
@ActuallyDeath Год назад
*Well, if you insist~*
@FluffyGhost294
@FluffyGhost294 Год назад
8:25 really hit home. Privacy is such an issue for me because my parents wouldn’t let me have it. I still get anxious when people look over my shoulder just cuz I feel like I’m being evaluated
@voidspooks6372
@voidspooks6372 Год назад
The sadness that comes with having a one of a kind name, knowing Cliky wicky will never comment on how amazing Voiden smells :'(
@idislikemints
@idislikemints Год назад
you never know...
@voidspooks6372
@voidspooks6372 Год назад
@@idislikemints That sounds so oddly ominous. I'm suddenly afraid.
@STPLafou
@STPLafou Год назад
Time to boost this comment by another reply--
@isacocca3187
@isacocca3187 Год назад
Well, while you're waiting for your dedicated intro we all know that Voiden looks and smells absolutely amazing today :)
@voidspooks6372
@voidspooks6372 Год назад
@@isacocca3187 well looks like I've chosen death by wholesomeness /lh
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
There is a way to go about having a child without them having secrets from you, without invading their privacy. It's called being a really good parent, despite the world. I've been through a lot in the 16 years of my life, but not a single negative thing in relation to my parents. They were the only supports through all of it, and even in times where I was in the wrong, they supported me, got me out of the situation whilst still helping me to improve, making sure I know what I did was wrong. In other words, to have your child keep no secrets from you, without invading their privacy, you have to do what it takes to have them truly trust you, and trust you enough to let you see their secrets. Sometimes, they might keep it to themself for a bit before sharing it with you, and when that happens, don't pry. Support them in their hurt, even if you don't know why they're hurting.
@hazybubblegum
@hazybubblegum Год назад
My grandma said something that has always stuck in my head to the principal at my high school when a teacher i was questioning what he was saying the he saw as me jusy disrespecting his authority.And i hope more people can learn this because its helpful. When explaining what happened i didnt lie or omit any part i didnt have to lie to her. And that was "i trust my granddaughter and you guys didnt disagree with what she said happened.Since shes right, i think the lesson here is for your teacher to learn that STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF TO AUTHORITY DOESN'T EQUAL DISRESPECT. Adults are wrong all the time and you shouldn't be able to make up new rules because you don't like being challenged, If you want respect show respect. Just because youre an adult doesnt mean you shouldnt show children especially teens respect. if you dont all youre showing them how to to give respect but not how to recieve respect and how to know when to draw the line and standup for themselves, and i am NOT going to have a socially anxious and people pleasing grandchild that would rather be walked all over than stand up for herself." It was amazing i got moved from that teacher to another class. Turns out he was singling me out because i look exactly like my mom and he assumed i was just like her and that i was slower than the rest of the class without realizing because i went to a french school till the 10th grade and in some subjects never learned the english equivalent words that arent typically used. Sure i know all the parts of a cell just not in english and since the teacher didnt know french it looked like gibberish to him and he assumed i was making stuff up. French was only offered as an elective at my new school and the stuff they were learning in grade 12 i learned in grade 5, but no teenager is taking the time to translate everything and doing effectively double homework.
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
Just Remember: It has been shown that there is a correlation between being monolingual and developing dementia. If you could find that teacher, and track down one of the studies, and you want to put in the effort, send him that study with a letter saying, "Thank you so much for assuming I was stupid because I'm bilingual but only knew the French scientific terms. But I take consolation in this study, knowing that I'm less likely to develop dementia than your arrogant monolingual ass. Have fun getting old!" But, that's just me.
@maryamshaaban74
@maryamshaaban74 Год назад
Hi Click. I've been subscribed to your channel since late 2019, these insane parents videos made me realize how abusive my parents have always been towards me. It's much worse now that I'm standing my ground but at least I no longer feel guilty over being a bad daughter like they made me believe my whole life. Thank you so much, click 💗
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
You are not a bad daughter. They are bad parents.
@maryamshaaban74
@maryamshaaban74 Год назад
@@John_Weiss thank you, I see that now
@ThatOddChickenHippie
@ThatOddChickenHippie Год назад
My mom locking me into a room with her and refusing to let me leave until I told her what was "bothering me" is the reason why, to this day, over a decade later, I still can't spend any time alone with her. I have a visceral reaction where I go into fight or flight an had to actively try not to puke.
@nyxx5357
@nyxx5357 Год назад
26:52 Translation: "I tried to force my kids to put on a Happy Family act and fake smiles for a picture to post on Facebook, but they showed their real feelings of annoyance at being pulled around like puppets, and now I'm pissed! How DARE they have thoughts and act on their own?! How am I supposed to get validation if I don't post a bunch of fake happy pictures to get likes??"
@nyxx5357
@nyxx5357 Год назад
I know this because my mom did the same fuckin' thing. I hated my step dad and didn't like my step brothers, she knew it, but still made us pose for Christmas pictures every year. I look dead inside in every single one.
@juliameyer10313
@juliameyer10313 Год назад
I have a diary story as well. Years ago when I was 15/16, I was really down. I had spend 3 months in a psychiatry due to depression and an unaliving attempt. It didn't really help me other than teaching me to mask it better but I had always been honest to my diary, which I kept in a bag inside another bag in my closet. a few months after I was back home my dad and stepmum sat me down and talked about how they considered sending me back for all the things I wrote in that book. I started writing pretend happier entries until I stopped completely. Needless to say I moved out when I was 18
@EmSaysHeyy
@EmSaysHeyy Год назад
When I was younger, my mom tried to get me into journaling. SHE never read them, but my sister would take both my used and unused journals and read them and draw in them and tear them apart, and then tell my mom what she'd read. I remember one time, after my mom got me an Elsa journal for Christmas(my sister got an Anna one, it's not like she didn't have one) and my sister had opened it, broken the pens in the pack, and drawn in and torn apart the journal. I remember crying and showing it to my mom, and she was upset at my sister, but she didn't punish her because she was 'so little and didn't know better' She was 7.
@megandunnett7900
@megandunnett7900 Год назад
Ahh. The trials and tribulations of the elder child. I feel you.
@metalheartsrejik2219
@metalheartsrejik2219 Год назад
I don't know the whole story, but the way my dad explained it was when my grandparents passed away, they didn't leave a will behind and my mom has seven siblings, so all of em, excluding my mom and her younger sister, were basically at each other's throats trying to figure out who gets the money/property/stuff they left behind. This was around 6 or 7 years ago. And we still only have a positive relationship with my youngest aunt. The others haven't spoken to us since lol
@bonnie_death
@bonnie_death Год назад
Not gonna lie, those journal stories reminded me of the time my sister read my diary and then proceeded to say ''There wasn't even anything interesting'' when I confronted her about it. Sure, I was young, so it was true, but that doesn't mean she had any right to do it, I've kept my thoughts and feelings to myself ever since.
@SyIzumakai
@SyIzumakai Год назад
…sis is that you? XD I pulled this shit when I was a kid- elementary school. Obviously I learned but dang if I don’t feel bad remember this. Oof.
@bonnie_death
@bonnie_death Год назад
@@SyIzumakai Honestly, the fact that you learned already tells me you aren’t her. I actually confronted her about it after some years because I couldn’t help but feel like I couldn’t trust her still, not only did she continue to think she did nothing wrong, my family all sided with her and one of them even laughed at me. Still, I’m glad someone else who went through it was able to have some semblance of closure.
@Sans_The_Skeleton
@Sans_The_Skeleton Год назад
So many parents seem to think “I am your parent so I own you”
@autumn7143
@autumn7143 Год назад
Congrats on the award!!! I’m looking forward to the rerelease of Mango too!!! Also, as a parent, I was never this toxic. I did my best. My daughters are adults now and say I do a good job at loving them where they are, and not pressuring them to do more. Yes, I got us all emotional support demons and will be getting all three of us Mango.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Год назад
7:53 That’s such an unreal invasion of privacy. Thank you, Grandma, for the trust issues.
@elliek1847
@elliek1847 Год назад
CLICCY My bunny likes your voice, so we put on your vods when we have to leave the house so that he doesn't feel alone It actually helps him a lot :)
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Just wanted to say; that's adorable! Also, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 51st!
@dragonalpaca3530
@dragonalpaca3530 Год назад
that's adorable
@ranting2daMAX
@ranting2daMAX Год назад
BNUUYYYY
@gamingkitty6744
@gamingkitty6744 Год назад
Or you could be a good bunny owner and get him actual company in the former of at least another bunny… keeping very social animals like bunnies as single animals is abuse.
@randomtinypotatocried
@randomtinypotatocried Год назад
@@gamingkitty6744 I didn't realize that with rabbits. I knew it was the case for ferrets
@whyamihere1563
@whyamihere1563 Год назад
I love insane parents posts. It's "uplifting" to know that there are people who are crazier than my parents. And it's good to listen to those stories to get some ideas on how to deal with my insane parents.
@RunOut25
@RunOut25 Год назад
Yeah, it helped me realized my parents are just a bit crazy, not insane.
@dameneko
@dameneko Год назад
Sending support to all in these comments who were forced to go NC with abusive parental units. Please know that you are not alone, and that it does get better!
@ellamayo9045
@ellamayo9045 Год назад
The message at the end was so important. It really is so rare that a parent openly acknowledges that they are not entitled to their kids. As obvious as it seems, many just don’t act like seeing their kids is a privilege that their children have the right to withdraw. If I ever have kids, I really hope that I’m able to show them this, and reassure them that our relationship’s value comes from how we treat one another, not because their “supposed” to love me.
@PokhrajRoy.
@PokhrajRoy. Год назад
There’s community support and there’s getting an award for having a proactive fan base.
@jpsylvy7598
@jpsylvy7598 Год назад
When he said we should get stuffed by the emotional support demon I truly felt something awaken inside me
@RunOut25
@RunOut25 Год назад
Ah yes, the emotional support demon
@solitaryfrog-_-
@solitaryfrog-_- Год назад
I love how The Click speaks out about how difficult it is to be a teen. We all have problems, no matter our age. You never know what another person goes through babes ❤
@artikulv731
@artikulv731 Год назад
I am so, so glad that I got a pair of completely reasonable and rational parents, but I still hate doing things like keeping journals or talking about my feelings because of how easy it would be for someone to find it, even if they wouldn’t care. My mom has tried to convince me to make a journal several times, but the most I ever wrote about in it was the day’s events, and I have always HATED talking about my emotions (especially after getting tangled up with a friend who turned out to be an incredibly toxic person)
@caninesketches
@caninesketches Год назад
Okay but this man is the only one who has gotten me to buy a plushie by just being so handsome, nice & making my days better
@JustBathroomTiles
@JustBathroomTiles Год назад
Thanks to Reddit posts like these I can actually see how awesome my parents are. I think the only thing that has even happened in my family that was negative was before my dad was medicated for depression and anxiety. He would commonly have huge outbursts of rage towards me, my sisters, and my mom. That went on until I was like 9 maybe? Even me and mom still occasionally talk about how calm he is now and how we don't have to be afraid to talk back to him as much. He still gets mad, sure, but everyone does. He just doesn't blow up and knows when to separate himself from the situation physically. Now I know I can tell him to cool off without being scared of getting yelled at. Therapy and getting professional help is not only beneficial to you, but possibly to others around you. Don't be afraid to reach out.
@disappointedcreepyaj8168
@disappointedcreepyaj8168 Год назад
9:20 I didn’t keep a diary until about November last year, because the last time I had one was 10 years ago, my mum found it, most the entries were about how she made me feel, she tore it up, screamed at me for making her out to be so horrible, and demanded I write nicer stuff about her
@Meximagician
@Meximagician Год назад
15:25 I looked up Death by Toys, they make custom action figures, like Deadbeat Dad (an empty package) and post mugging Martha & Thomas Wayne (Batman's parents). The only connection to this rant was probably their Adam & Steve action figure set.
@darthzayexeet3653
@darthzayexeet3653 Год назад
A friend of mine had a physical Journal when he was younger, but his parents always kept reading it. So someday he decided to switch to an online Journal. Ever since then they never did or even could read it, because they were very technically incompetent and they didn't even know it existed. He threw the old one in the trash saying he doesn't need it anymore...
@misterblue3514
@misterblue3514 Год назад
I've argued about gay marriage with my uncle once. Finaly after half an hour of him ranting that "Marriage is holy bond between man and woman!" I've came to realisation, that we are arguing over A F*CKING NAME FOR THAT SH*T. He is 100% ok with all the same rights and duties for the homosexual partners, but his problem is, that it would be named same. 😂😭 I didn't knew if I want to be angry, laugh or cry.
@ADADEL1
@ADADEL1 11 месяцев назад
Once upon a time I thought the same way. Not because of any holy bond type of stuff but because of a want to be a people pleaser and I thought it would cause the least fuss. Comes from to long listening on the sidelines to adults fighting.
@shadowking278
@shadowking278 Год назад
0:05 when he said Bobby. I don’t know why but my brain defaulted to Hank hill saying Bobby. Please tell me I’m not the only one.😅
@thelazygamer2195
@thelazygamer2195 Год назад
Me watching the Click read r/insane parents: 😃 Me realizing I relate to half of the posts: 👁👄👁
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 29th
@persassyjackson6924
@persassyjackson6924 Год назад
Yuppppp-
@thelazygamer2195
@thelazygamer2195 Год назад
@@kittydemonoverkill I may end up stealing this idea at some point 😂
@LB0206
@LB0206 Год назад
9:50 Now I kinda want that app... I am pretty safe and trust the people around me, but definitely can't hurt
@silverlynxclaw1460
@silverlynxclaw1460 Год назад
I have a journal. One day while I was at school, my sisters babysitter decided to snoop. I didn't really have any secrets and it was more odd things I noticed and was wary of and people don't usually think I'm so perceptive. Along with some very angry thoughts because I am a being of wrath that I was never allowed to release. But still I came home and the babysitter is holding my journal like "You wrote in this before you moved here didn't you?" Like Ma'am, why did you even find that, it was under my bed in my room.
@candidsandie
@candidsandie Год назад
Insane Parents is one of my faves. I thought about why. It makes me think of my parents, while also grounding myself as a parent. It disallows me to be cocky, (thinking "at least I'm not like that") and instead forcing me to look deep and see areas where I need to change to be the parent my kiddos deserve. Thank you, insane parents, for giving me examples of what NOT to do!
@BRACE_The_Ace
@BRACE_The_Ace Год назад
9:14 Back in 2017 my 'mother', siblings & I just moved in with my aunt because we were in a women's & children's shelter for a while. I walked into the garage & caught my 'mother' reading it. She stopped & said "is it ok if I read it?". Which was stupid cause she already was. That was the beginning of the time she started loosing my trust. It's been years now & I've cut ties with her completely. I am now living with my loving grandparents.
@rubseydoo
@rubseydoo Год назад
watching the click at 4am is such a life goal 😍😍
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 21st!
@wonderqueerTT
@wonderqueerTT Год назад
I'm 41 and went NC approx 8 years ago. It's never too late. Keep your head up if you're going through shit
@Ocalvolamina
@Ocalvolamina Год назад
"So i guess you are 18-19" Some messages ago "And i don't deserve a lecture from 23 year old"
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Hello! Sorry for a non-personalized reply, but I'm too tired to bother right now. So, I'm going through the first 69 comments, and telling them what placement they are! Like, first, second, third, 4th, 5th, etc. As for you, you are the 66th! Add a 6 to that, and it's the digits of the Devil! :)
@Ocalvolamina
@Ocalvolamina Год назад
@@kittydemonoverkill Gosh dang it, only 3 numbers away!
@May-or-May-not
@May-or-May-not Год назад
The journal thing is why I learned runes, and not the most common rune alphabet, a weird one, and wrote my diary in runes 😂 I can still read it with a bit of effort.
@GreyPunkWolf
@GreyPunkWolf Год назад
Wow. Now that's impressive. And I thought I was a genius of some kind because I trained myself to understand english and Spanish to know what my parents said when they didn't want me to understand. You're a few steps ahead lmao what a chad
@May-or-May-not
@May-or-May-not Год назад
@@GreyPunkWolf haha, not genius. Just ADHD/autistic hyperfocus and obsession with runes. I still wrote in my native language just using a different alphabet. I think I also created my own alphabet by combining the runes I liked from different alphabets and added/modified a few to accommodate the letters æ, ø and å.
@blumist4332
@blumist4332 Год назад
On journals, I used to have one but it wasn’t hidden (didn’t hide stuff because I’d loose it) and I knew if my mum found it, she would read though It. So I eventually just made a journal type thing on my notes app, since she doesn’t have my password. It’s been very nice to have, writing down my thoughts helps map them out and figure them out
@SlothDaan
@SlothDaan Год назад
Congratulations on the award, you deserve it. To everyone out there who had these parents. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. If you want, I will love you, validate you, and respect you just the way you deserve ❤
@deathofallthingspotato9919
@deathofallthingspotato9919 Год назад
"Its really weird to take money from someone without asking" - The Click, 2023 Clicky just discovered theft.
@RiverSongFox
@RiverSongFox Год назад
What I cannot understand is parents assuring they will not read your journals before… reading them. Like, what do you expect your children to think of you after that?
@Robin93k
@Robin93k Год назад
Theya don't care what their childrens think~ They consider them to be their assets, not human beings.
@Centyme
@Centyme Год назад
14:58 "only parents feel kids' pain" no tf they don't????
@squiggle463
@squiggle463 3 месяца назад
i had a journal once, it was a comic relief notebook with jokes in. my mom accidentally read some things i wasn't comfortable with telling her when she went to look in it for the jokes. she was super upset with herself, and although i never really keep journals now, i don't hold any blame to her
@lonesavior
@lonesavior Год назад
God, the "Why don't you call me" one I relate to way too much. My father would call hurling abuse if I didn't call him often enough, even though he had a painfully irregular schedule and wouldn't answer 9/10 times.
@flowerleelee
@flowerleelee Год назад
14:10 as a feminist I think we can all agree we dont claim her, in fact, what she says actually goes against the intent of feminism by a lot
@GrimmTheReptileMan
@GrimmTheReptileMan Год назад
Its always Bobby, or Jerry, or Hannah but its never Click himself is it? Click you are looking absolutely fabuloushious, fellow Swedish man! I hope you're having an absolutely wonderful day! Keep up the great work, my man!
@ratthew_patthew7408
@ratthew_patthew7408 Год назад
About the jornal/diary thing: Parents who go through them makes kids hate writing in journals, causing them to either express their emotions in negative ways, bottle them up, or talk to someone they trust about it. Do not go through your kids journals, if they are writing in it and not talking to you, it means it's a *private* thought.
@thecrimsonmonarch4113
@thecrimsonmonarch4113 Год назад
I tried starting a journal in my teens because I was starting to realize that I was in an abusive home, but couldn't tell anyone so the journal was the next best thing. I would start and stop journal entries over and over again because I was so afraid they'd be found by my sperm donor (abuser/bio father). He constantly waltzed his happy ass into mine and sister's room when we were sleeping or not at home and go through our things. Hell, we had to keep our phones in HIS room overnight (and he had the passwords to both). Because of that, there were times when I'd black out entries and even considered burning them so he didn't find them. It sucks having a controlling and possessive parent Edit: Hell, before he was kicked out finally, I was afraid commenting (like this) on RU-vid videos or other platforms about my own experiences. It's truly sad that parents can't let their kids have privacy sometimes
@invadernav3422
@invadernav3422 Год назад
I remember having one of those Password Journals and how after about a month of using it, my mom had me go get it and unlock it in front of her and made me sit and watch as she read it and yelled at me about what I'd written and how it was wrong and to change it.
@John_Weiss
@John_Weiss Год назад
I hope you limit or have cut contact with that woman, because that's abusive, manipulative, and a violation of boundaries, what she did to you.
@peculiarlymorry
@peculiarlymorry Год назад
Hi!! I'm early for once so I wanted to say that I love your channel and your videos help me get through hard times!! You're a source of inspiration for me!! Thank you so much for what you're doing and for posting such amazing content :] About the video, some people should really never be parents, it's scary. Btw, quick question, how do you choose the name you say in your intro for each video? Have an amazing day and a wonderful life, You are worthy of love, kindness and respect, Lots of love from France, Moony
@kittydemonoverkill
@kittydemonoverkill Год назад
Congrats on being the 69th comment! You are the final one I reply to with a placement. Now, enjoy your bragging rights!
@sleepy-emerald
@sleepy-emerald Год назад
When the Click makes an InsaneParents video, I know I'll experience feelings. Makes me feel a bit better about my own insane parents.
@jennifer7685
@jennifer7685 Год назад
I love my kids so much. Every child deserves to feel absolutely loved no matter what’s going on.
@AshyProductions
@AshyProductions Год назад
26:16 3AM Gone wrong video titles:
@shirothefish9688
@shirothefish9688 Год назад
The first one The very fricking first one That is 30.00 and 570.00 Those are EXACT dollar amounts in USD Those weren't purchases. Those were transfers to her accounts
@Guidingsonar
@Guidingsonar Год назад
18:21 or, just maybe, they also have broken phones that 's audio doesn't work when calling out, but only when someone calls you (cause yes, my phone is that broken)
@beauxbatten
@beauxbatten Год назад
I also don't keep a journal because my stepmom would go through my entire room, bathroom, trash, etc. then, she would rip into me about my entries about things like harming myself and how she hurt my feelings. she once found a ripped up letter (I used to write letters to people I wanted to vent to, then destroy them and never sent any letters) and taped it back together, then berated me about writing things like that to my sister, who I hadn't even spoken to since I was 8. I was 14
@noeldoesstuff
@noeldoesstuff Год назад
Click I know you probably won’t read this but wtf. You helped me through one of the hardest times in my life and I wish I could ever make it up to you.
@gocbep7425
@gocbep7425 Год назад
I never thought I’ll hear someone say “don’t let your toddler wrestle with alligators” as if it wasn’t common sense
@Squidwardsfirsttentacle
@Squidwardsfirsttentacle Год назад
I've just realized how deteriorating and horrifyingly controlling my mom is of my sisters life and how I can't even help 💀
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