I can totally relate... however, I went to therapy and learned how to have difficult conversations where I'm able to communicate how I feel in a clear and tactful way. I've been ghosted / ignored myself before and so I know It's way more hurtful to NOT be upfront with someone. . Which is something i don't want to do☹
Omg, you're on a hard situation hahaha. I been on that situation before... I think the best thing is for you to say you really, REALLY don't have time. She might get the clue that you're not into it.
Firstly your the cutest thing alive, secondly what matters is how you feel during the engagement, if your dreading it, it will come out that way and hurt feelings. Bring positive emotions and don’t pre- meditate anything. People ONLY care about how things are said to them not what is being said. It’s not about figuring out what to say, it’s about summoning the right state of mind before the engagement. A good mood flow state.
Be me: an ENTP A spontaneous maelstrom of extrovert energy. At work, New girl starts, she's my type. We connect, talk a few times, but my promotion comes through. I'm off to work at another store. We won't be working closely together anymore. I panic, as I put myself out there and make my move. Give her my digits. It doesn't immediately blow up in my face, she takes my number. Now I’m wondering if that’s what's going through her head.
But how do you even know that she's into you? Maybe she was just being nice. There are girls that I find to be awesome and who I want to give compliments to, but sometimes I'm acting like I have a crush on them, even though I'm straight and I'm only romantically interested in men. I just admire some girls. It's also called a girl crush. Maybe she admires you and just wanted to be genuinely friends with you, but doesn't have any romantic interest in you. Do you even know if she's into girls?
Hi :D I'm very intuitive. I know what being friendly and flirting is bc I've had it happen enough times. I know what it looks like when girls and guys do it. I used to be clueless, but with experience, you can pick up on things. The way their eyes comb over your body or look at your lips. The way they touch you when trying to be playful. Trust me.... I know.
