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I want to get a billboard that advertises keeping trans men out of women’s sports and see how many conservatives are like “YEAH! Keep MEN out of WOMEN’S sports!” because they don’t understand that trans men are AFAB and trans women are AMAB.
@@randomgamer-te8op Trans men, under conservative logic SHOULD be women- but because conservatives don't follow a consistent logic, they'll say a trans man is a man, which is hypocritical on their other comments about trans women.
@@randomgamer-te8op Forcing trans athletes to compete against people of the sex they were assigned at birth rather than against people of their own gender means that trans men would be competing against women, even after they’ve transitioned.
@@usernameisusernam , transphobes: normal people. Yeah, we do get confused a lot, because you people keep coming up with new definitions as you go along. One quick question: how do you avoid "misgendering" a "gender fluid" person? Some of these nutjobs even change their gender every few hours or even minutes!!
@@gromenteal2133 Conservatives still haven't realized that a decent chunk of the beer they're buying in order to boycott Bud Light...is made by the same company.
"tastes like freedom".. .The fact that conservatives think they fight for "freedom" is so hypocritical . Freedom, but not if you're gay, trans, identify lgbtqia+ in any fashion or are an ally, a person of color, a woman ,a child, or have any political opinions that don't align with theirs.
Yup. It's always "America is the best because it's the land of Freedom™ " but then in the same breath they discriminate against entire groups of people and say they shouldn't have any rights
@@amthystxx It's already been removed, but if it's the comment that posts the same stupid, "I burned the LGBT flag in my profile" garbage, I think it's a bot. I always just thumbs down it, or report it as hate speech. It never posts anything else, anyways.
Some ministries and pastors are so deep under the delusion that strong-arming the general populace into submission to their chosen theology's dictates IS freedom, that TheocracyWatch was created to keep an eye on such blatant autocratic fantasies.
My parents are transphobic, and a few weeks ago, they were ranting about trans people in sports. I said, "Trans men shouldn't have to compete in women's sports," and they agreed with me! It was funny that they knew so little about the people they were badmouthing, they didn't even know that I was supporting trans people!
@@juniorqindes8335 Learn how adjectives work before claiming to be scientific or anyway logical. (a man and a man being a gay relationship, oh no.) Also you do know gay is also an umbrella term right?
As a cis female, I'm frankly insulted by the notion that someone could beat people who have trained for years just by having a different assigned birth gender. Like really? Is Jimothy from high school who works an office job and plays video games all day going to beat the top runner in a women's track team? Never mind that women teams outperform mens teams in multiple areas. So inane.
I've seen women first hand outperform men in sports like my schools basketball teams. Women always outperform the men. So much so that the announcements ignore the men's team every so often when men play at the same time as the women
LGBTQ+ community: * logical argument * Bigots: * screaming and crying like an infant * Edit: I might as well change this comment to just say "Preschool" with how many babies are throwing fits in the replies.
Saying things like “trans women are just men who wanted to compete against women to win sports” is not only transphobic towards trans women, but also extremely belittling towards cis women since it implies that any man could just walk in and beat professional athletes who happen to be women.
It’s also not even accurate. HRT for trans women reduces muscle mass. It turned me so squishy I’m sure any cis woman could wipe the floor with me in any sport (hell, I’m sure that was even true before I came out).
We need to start calling out these arguments that are obviously trying to hide from backlash for ideas that might alienate people from there much least popular ideas by finding more popular forms of bigotry. Call them as they are. They are being sexist, not just transphobic.
@@paigeseliger836 To drive the point home, they should have done a second poll on those dudebros to find out how many of them have actually held a tennis racket or won a game in their lives
@@groudoggoUnathletic transgirls unite! I had a coach describe my swimming stroke as "almost not drowning." Which fits because I taught myself to swim by throwing myself in the deep end of the pool and seeing what came naturally, and it turns out that doesn't optimize for grace or speed.
Your kids are the only people you can legally beat up :/ and apparently that's a right that needs to be preserved, among other totally normal choices /s
Republicans don't actually care about the kids. They accuse the LGBTQ+ group of being predators, WITH NO EVIDENCE, and they keep saying we have to "protect the kids" but Republicans are working: to deny school lunches, to cut benefits for lower income families so it is harder to feed their kids, to allow children to be mass murdered by guns, to allow children to be preyed upon by actual predators by distracting from who those predators are (notice their silence about the long history of child rape notated in the Catholic Church), to increase harmful mental health in children by telling kids to not be themselves and by saying they don't matter unless they are the way Republicans say they can be, to deny sex education (and ban birth control) which puts kids at more risk for disease, to support candidates with accusations/history of sexual impropriety towards kids, and so much more... Ask a Republican why diversity terrifies them so much. The party of toxic masculinity is terrified of others and has to try to keep them down/deny EQUAL opportunities and rights...that is a cowardly move, no matter how you cut it. Imagine being so scared you have to make laws to discriminate against, and harm, others just so you can feel better about yourself.
@@juniorqindes8335 by saying things like "stop grooming kids", even though we never do, and telling us that what we're doing is wrong and to stop doing it
Absolutely! I'm sooooo tired of the appropriation of "woke" as the new "PC gone mad" 🙄 (i.e. what people label anything that even slightly challenges their biases...) As a term it's so incredibly rife in online discussion and with so little actual attached meaning....? Wish we could just retire it now. Although I guess at least it's a useful flag that anybody who uses it probably haven't fully engaged their brain when commenting? 🤦🏻♀️
@@robertmarshall2502 Learn basic grammar please. The silent majority is neither silent or a majority and you are projecting or parroting someone else's projection.
It drives me nuts that people will say that young girls are trying to be turned trans because they're tomboy, and we need to keep our young girls safe. I grew up with a trans person in my life, and my mom taught me about trans people (in a positive way, she was very pro LGBTQ) at a very young age. I was also very much a tomboy, hated dresses, played in the mud, didn't like makeup, etc... It was because I knew about trans people at that young age that made me comfortable in my own gender as I got older (I'm cis and now pretty darn fem). Having the vocabulary and knowledge gave me the tools to have that conversation with myself as I was getting older and struggling with my identity. I was able to give myself the headspace to figure myself out much sooner and saved me a lot of pain.
My daughter was raised with older brothers and from a very young age wanted to be just like them. Now in her 20's, she has become somewhat terf-ish, and even said she was glad she grew up when she did, being afraid I might have forced her to transition if she was growing up now. It was very hurtful, my philosophy was and still is to treat children as gender neutral, just let a child be a child, without pressure or expectations. I had to remind her that she also had a few favourite dresses, had a complete meltdown when she had to have her hair cut short after getting chewing gum stuck in it, and although she may have behaved ''like a boy'' in some ways, she never once told me she believed she *was* a boy.
@@kayew5492I love the treating your kids gender neutral! My parents never pushed any gender roles on my or my brothers; the school did. I was almost kicked out of the bathroom because I have short hair(afab) my brother wanted one of my old dresses(I was getting rid of it because I hate dresses) and he wore it everywhere until he took it to school then he decided he hated it. My other brother got a purple skirt because he wanted to at the store and my parents let him he loved it wore it to school came home and declared he hated it. They were first grade and kindergarten. My brother also went to school and came back and said he hated the color purple out of no where. And he still likes the color purple just not in public. You sound like an amazing parent!! Sucks about your daughter though.
I bet it's really hard to make a parody of those people since the already do things that parodys would have them do but they do it without any self awareness
I’ve been bombarded by straight people IRL and in media from the day I was born; definitely not straight. I watch lots of trans creators now; still not trans. Amazing how I can resist this hive mind the transphobes insist must be happening. 😂
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@@TransKidsMafia Well, I don't see any harm in that. There is a decent chance that they aren't actually trans and are just being a kid, but if they are, what's the harm in letting them be a kid? Let them call themselves trans like you'd let them say they'll be a superhero when they grow up, there's no harm in it. And if they do actually end up being trans? You could get them on HRT around when they start puberty and save them from living through the absolute nightmare that is living through the wrong puberty. (or even just puberty blockers if they're still not sure yet, all they do is pause puberty - it wouldn't change anything at all, no harm could be done.)
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I feel like since speaking about being trans online and comsuming more trans related content I've been recommend or I've receieved more anti LGBTQ+ content and ads which sucks. There definitely seems to be a ton more of it in general as well
Yes, they know exactly how to work the algorithm. And the thing is, it's not just about promoting their stuff, it's also deliberate bullying. Imagine being a young LGBTQIA person living in an unsupportive environment, being harassed in school and unable to talk about it to your family. You watch channels like Jamie and OT to try to feel an ounce of support and belonging, but before you can watch the video you're forced to sit through another ad telling you yet again what a terrible person you are just for existing. These advertisers are really evil, not just for their opinions, but for forcing those opinions on the most vulnerable people.
I've almost seen something similar with consuming atheist videos or videos that go over dangerous religious sects, and having to sit through ads for the Mormon church (or "Jesus christ of latter day saints") or ads basically saying "CONVERT"
Imagine if the Internet existed in the 50’s and black people were looking for videos deconstructing the segregation laws, only to get ads from white supremacists going “YOU ARE NOT HUMAN” over and over. That’s basically what’s going on here. These people are cold and sadistic.
I block ads for this reason alone. I struggle with my mental health and I got so many anti-trans ads, I almost quit youtube as a whole to avoid them. Someone introduced me to a blocker that works and I've felt a bit better since. I also actively click "Don't show me this channel" whenever anti-trans content shows up in my reccs. Ignoring it won't stop it from coming back, and neither will "Not interested".
fun fact, before transition I was finishing around mid pack in my races (cycling). I started transitioning and didn't race again until this year (thanks covid). I entered the women's category and I've been finishing mid pack in basically every race. Almost as if my hormone and strength levels are that of a cis woman....hmmmmm
"stay away from our children" why would bud light be around your children, are you actively getting drunk around your children? Do your children have access to bud light??
They want unfettered access to children to assault and abuse. They think everyone else is that way, and if others did what they think they would, they wouldn't have sole access to the people of their fascination.
Not even joking about this, i'd imagine people making a news story about a gay race horse and some jackass wrote a homophobic hate letter to a BLOODY HORSE. That, is an onion video, everything I described happened in the video, now tell me on a scale of 1-10 how likely would you expect that to happen
Even though it's been significantly more of an economic issue rather than an equality issue that causes all of these problems, this false sense of bigotry has inadvertently created a self fulfilling prophecy, and caused harm against the LGBTQ as a result. The mainstream news media has been creating these false narratives for more than a couple of decades and continues to use peoples misunderstandings against each other. And from that, they reignite the bigotry.
The bathroom thing is ridiculous. During Mardi gras, the city sets up portal bathrooms up around lee circle. They are not gendered, you use it as what it is, a bathroom. You decide which one to use by cleanliness and being occupied at that moment.
Which is fine But where they are based on sex you go to it based on biology You can’t have blokes thinking they are women cutting about while teenagers get changed
@@lifeonlowbatteries8153 that’s difficult But 99% can be simply by looks The other 1% is a challenge But if we catch a man pretending to be a woman then jail him That will put most off trying it
@@dave2408 right, I'm sure that explains the cis woman I know who was kicked out of a women's bathroom while visibly pregnant because the people in there "knew" she was trans.
this was my immediate thought too. like why are you bringing a beer with you to a public restroom anyway? and if you didn't bring it with you, you found it in there, which is WORSE
I recently had a "conversation" with an anti-trans guy. He was ranting about the recent wins by the trans-woman swimmer being unfair. I showed him the study about hormone advantage fading. Then he said, "He is 6'1" because he is male. So that is a biological advantage". It took me a second, then I said, "So it wouldn't be fair if a 6'1" woman who wasn't trans competed? Doesn't SHE have that same advantage"? Height is not an exclusionary factor. "So what about a 5'5" trans-woman competing?@ I asked. "She hadn't got that advantage". That stumped him. Sure, height is an advantage in some sports. I was a fencer. I'm 5'1" and couldn't compete against 5'11" women with longer reach and stride. Should tall women be excluded? Where do you draw that line? The swimmer's advantage was not different from that of Michael Phelps. He's got a weird shaped body that allows him to swim faster. Sports in the end are about natural ability. There are tall people who are bad at sports too. Later, there was a conversation about men transitioning so they could go to prison at women's prisons and sexually abuse women. OMG. I'm so tired of these Conservatives who pick the most out-there unlikely-to-happen situation and a t like it's a realistic concern! That's what's going on with the anti-abortion demand for week limits. No sane woman gets to 24 weeks and decides, Nope, don't want a baby. They abort for tragic medical reasons. When week limits are out in, in delays healthcare for ALL pregnant women, most NOT wanting abortions. They are hemorrhaging and the drs don't want to go to prison and don't know how close to death is close enough for it to be "life threatening". So they want to let 1,000s die for the 1 in a million mentally ill woman wanting an abortion at 8 months? No dr is going to do that already!!! Viable third term fetuses are DELIVERED, not killed. 1 sex offender vs 1,000s of straight white make sex offenders and they are making a big deal? Back to Drag Queen Storytime: so they post that there were 3 readers who were sex offenders. First, it was 1 in the US. The offense was 20 years ago (and probably unjustified), the person had left storytime several years earlier and since then, background checks are being done. So these storytellers are vetted far more than priests, scout leaders, teachers. Then the trans school shooter. 1 ever! And ever other one was male. Yet they started to say that trans people were more likely to be mass shooters? What? The Far Right are using extremely rare scenarios to justify punishing groups of people. They will now use anything--no matter how unrealistic--as an excuse to repress women or trans-anysex humans, or LGBTQ people. They start with a grain of truth and then claim it as a certainty that it WILL happen occur. So stupid. So wrong. And too many people don't fact-check and think this crap is legit.
As a trans woman, I can assure you that no one in their right mind would go through the long and tedious process of HRT and social transition just to go in a woman's prison.. not to mention that I've lost a lot of physical strength since the start of my transition, some of it that I could gain back through a lot of exercising, yet all the cis women in that gym physically outperform me at everything, people are just insane and insist on making everyone believe the "any random dude in the street could beat up a pro athlete woman" stereotype which hurts both cis women and trans women alike
@@quisait5794”no one would ever go through her to not get brutally beaten to death in a male prison and also probably be graped.” Actually most would considering how many of those people were in there for sex offenses
@@quisait5794 the people transitioning in prison were usually sex offenders. They were doing it because they beat sex offenders to death in prison. So yea, I bet people would do that to save their lives
@@juniorqindes8335 We're talking humans. Not conservatives. Conservatives might do something like this, as you things are only capable of reproducing through nonconsensual sexual contact, but humans have no more in common with conservatives than a Rembrandt has in common with what was left in rte toilet after my first colonoscopy prep. We aren't going to punish innocent humans for attacks committed by feral conservatives: instead we are going to focus on efforts to reduce the population of wild conservatives to manageable levels through things like catch and release spay/neuter programs, establishing tightly patrolled conservative wilderness preserves, and public education on what to do when they encounter a wild conservative. A brighter, conservative-free future is possible for humanity.
That first one, “stay the f away from our kids”… excuse me sir, but this is a beer advert. Mate, if you’re worried about your kids getting Down With the Wokeness because of Bud Light, maybe your kids shouldn’t be drinking beer.
Someone also made a really good point that a lot of people who think kids being trans is indoctrination is because they can't understand that children have their own personalities and thoughts. All of their children believe what they do because they were told to believe these things. Mom says to be Christian, so the child is. Mom says to be polite, so the child is. Mom says to be or have a housewife, so the child will. It genuinely doesn't even cross their mind that someone said "hey, trans people exist" and their child said "I think I am one" completely of their own accord because they don't let their child even have an own accord. Thus, it must be people pushing their children to be trans, because they push their children to be everything else.
Daniel Kelly was the conservative candidate for Wisconsin’s judicial branch. The race was incredibly important because the race decided the balance of the court between the democrats and the republicans. Luckily the Democratic candidate won the race and swung the court to a democrat majority, so the state of Wisconsin could have fair maps that represent the majority of Wisconsinites rather than the gerrymandered minority.
@@dominicfucinari1942 as a born wisconsinite, i ask myself this every day. the same people pushing for their continual election are the same ones complaining later about policy changes and labor deals THEY made. so glad the fellow young people in my state are waking up to the importance of voting people other than conservative shills into public office.
Women’s sport is for ALL women. Boxing, wrestling, horse racing, asian combat sports, … are divided by qualifications of skill, weight, etc. Why are other sports not following similar criteria.
If you were to divide equestrian sports by gender/sex, should geldings compete against stallions or mares? Or should they be their own class of horse athletes? Do you also need separate classes depending on the gender of the rider?
Sports in general are separated by sex not by gender. So when we say women’s sport we mean biological female not biological male that dress and try to look like a woman. You can bring the strongest biggest most skilled and greatest woman to men’s sport and will still perform shit against even the lower ranking men athletes, let along the top tier athletes.
@@gromenteal2133every thing about that comment is incredibly incorrect. Proficiency in athletics is 99% training and determination. Sports were segregated by gender because female athletes were beating male athletes and the sports industry separated them to stop that.
@@andreaallson765 Female athletes were beating males athletes 🤣🤣🤣 in which world this nonsense is/was happening? I challenge you to mention just one name past or present where a female athlete beaten a male athlete in a pro/national/high level competition?
@@andreaallson765 not long ago the national women’s football team in Australia were absolutely smashed and shamed by high school boys players lol, now imagine what the out come would be against the national men’s team.
If you think about the word ‘woke’ and how it literally means being AWAKE like you have your eyes open and you see what’s going on around you, it makes it extra funny when people are ‘anti-woke’ because they’re just saying out loud that they pro-ignorance
@@smolwavingbear9676don’t even bother replying to them, (as tempting as it might be lmao), they’ve been spamming it on almost every comment which tells me all they want is attention.
@@smolwavingbear9676 That account is a bot. It never says anything other than that one stupid copy-pasted comment in any comment thread, ever. Just report it for hate speech and move whenever you see it. There are sever bots that paste the same, or similar comments on RU-vid. Report them, too.
It's absolutely dystopian that anti-any-group-of-people-who-share-an-inherent-characteristic ads are legal at all. Sooooo fucked up. How is this not flagged and pulled as hate speech by the authorities?
Right??? Can you imagine if people made these ads about being like, overtly anti-ginger... Just an ad saying stuff like "do you HATE gingers as much as we do? Do you wish they would just stay away from your kids?? Well, come live in our gated community where gingers are NOT ALLOWED" It'd be insane Pretty much can only see that happening as an SNL parody
If we could retaliate like them overly LGBTQ+ ads showing their true colors. Do you want to protect your children against groomers and far right crazy agenda then don't leave your children alone and especially in presence of religious members,showing stats and facts about their abuses etc oooooh the rage and tears
It’s kind of difficult, because if you try pulling them as Hate Speech, that’ll just give credence to the narrative that they’re being silenced and persecuted and freedom of speech blah blah.
@@ChaoticArtCat and you can replace ginger with anything, black, asian, women... It just goes to show that they are full of hate for anyone who isn't like them. They start with the LGBTQ+ community then once we don't have rights anymore they'll move on to another marginalized community.
You know what I would want to see as a reaction ad? A pro woman athlete vs just an average dude (with a bonus pro trans man and a trans woman in there), I just think that would be very amusing to watch and would drive the point home quite well
@@mirandarensberger6919 "see if you use these numbers to rank all tennis players Serena Williams doesn't even show up until 180-something and that's the level of Just Some Guy and *I'm* Just Some Guy so I would _totally_ win" Yeah uhhuh sure
I love that they're complaining about people being woke. One could say woke could be derived by being awoke (as in being aware). What's the opposite of being awoke? Being asleep. They want everyone to be vegetables.
When I start to feel sad about all the anti-LGBT things, I remember these numbers - 60 000 (atendees of Prague Pride Parade last saturday on 12th August, myself included) vs 20 (anti-LGBT "activists" protesting Prague Pride). We have the strenght in numbers 🖤🤎🩷🩵🤍❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Which means that even if those assholes were to get violent they'll be still overwhelmed, even if all of them were pro-wrestlers and all the parade attendees were children... 😂
I’m on T and yesterday my friend pointed out that my voice has gotten lower and I’m so freakin happy!! Soon people on Xbox live won’t be asking if I’m a woman or a prepubescent boy
Can you imagine the absolute outrage if they actually got their way and that meant trans men would have to compete in women’s sports or enter women’s restrooms, 😮 I don’t think they’ve thought this through
It's already happened, a Trans Man who wanted to compete with Cis Men got banned from doing so because his birth certificate said he was a female, and thus had to compete with Cis Women and ended up winning because he was on masculine hormones.
If anything they welcome it. They have spent plenty of time removing critical thinking from schools and society, no point if they don't use it to spread outrage headlines of articles their base won't read. Pretty sure Jamie has covered transphobes complaining about articles with trans women in sports when in reality it was a trans man forced into competing with women.
The Council of Geeks RU-vid channel has a how-to video about making sure trans-phobic ads are not played on your channel. Meant for creators. It has OT on a thumbnail, they used his video to make a point. (Sorry if I didn't cite correctly, I don't usually comment).
Yes, I saw that video too. I hope the word gets out to more creators. It does sound like it's more work to do, since they would constantly have to update the list of sites whose ads they block. But she made a really important point about people who are already feeling harassed and vulnerable having to sit through these ads before they can watch a supportive video from their favorite creator.
I keep getting that damn epoch times “doccumentury” and they talk about trans people existing in peace like it’s gonna end the world. annoying as hell, no idea how that isn’t considered straight up hate speech
Im actually kinda glad i grew up at the time that i did because i hated girls clothing and would shop the boys section instead. My mom let me because thats what made me comfortable, but if i was a kid right now you know she wouldve insisted i get girls clothes anyway because clearly id only want boys clothes if id been brainwashed by the transes. I feel so bad for kids right now, people just view them as political scapegoats instead of people
I would not even say "its starting to hurt cis woman now" because it Allready did from quite some time, with a few cis woman of color not being allowed to participate for having naturaly highier testosterone that the average, thing that just happens because life is annoying
In my own personal experience and all that I've seen from the bigotry where I live, a LOT of the homophobic and transphobic arguments are also based in racist beliefs and stereotypes. For example, "real" women don't have deep or brassy voices, when a lot of people of color, particularly Black people, DO tend to have deeper voices or are stereotyped as "too loud." A lot of bigotry tends to connect to other forms of it.
The beer isn't a parody!! Unfortunately for him though, he can't find a brewer that will actually make it for him after they all realized what he was doing.
the first pride I went to with my sister, there was a rainbow ringed around the sun. If that doesn't scream support from the universe, I don't know what does, lol.
@chris135x as a gay person I wish. My family hates gay people and I'm not sure what they would do if they found oyt I'm gay. I've had violence threatened towards gay people i know. Even a classmates brother agreed gay people should face violence. There is still much tk be done in the world regarding homophobia.
@@chris135xthere are places where you could get killed for being gay, but of course every gay person has support from all people across the entire world. Lol stay bad hateful bigot. Also, incase you say that I don't know what bigot means, here's the definition big·ot /ˈbiɡət/ noun a person who is obstinately or unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, especially one who is prejudiced against or antagonistic toward a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group. "don't let a few small-minded bigots destroy the good image of the city" Truly, stay mad
I had a man coming to my gas station and make a comment about somebody buying Bud light I straight-up responded to him "oh you mean when Bud light sponsored a trans woman to advertise to people that were in her audience on twitter? I don't get why so many people have their panties up in a bunch about it if you don't follow her you didn't see the ad"
I'd like to say something important that I heard a long time ago: Children are a group of people with little to no voice for themselves at ALL. They never get to speak up on how they feel, they never have any effect on laws that have a negative sway over them, nothing. Like the child labor law. The reason why "children are oppressed" is often a talking point for predators is because it's true. People don't respect their kids, and predators take advantage of that. They'll listen to kids and hear their stories. "Oh, that was very mature of you" or "Yeah, your parents were in the wrong for doing that to you." Predators often listen to and respect kids at first in order to groom them. Don't give predators that kind of weapon. Don't make respect for your kids rare enough to the point that they'd be willing to trust a predator over you.
I think we should just get rid of the gender system as a whole, just purely base it on hormones levels if it’s that important since some people will naturally have higher or lower hormones levels than other people of their gender that will give them an advantage/disadvantage (kind of how sports work tbh, you’re not allowed to take drugs to be better at it, it’s just your body). That’s a more fair match to me than ‘these people all have vagina’.
It’s getting worse… Don’t just take a stand, make a plan to escape. Get connected to every queer person you can. We have to prepare for the worst. 😫❤️🏳️⚧️
@@luthientinuviel3883best of luck to you, little trans duckling. My egg cracked two years ago, and I just got top surgery earlier this week. Keep fighting, and make as many connections with LGBT+ people and groups as you can. I know it's hard, but I believe in you!
@@luthientinuviel3883 Hi, same! I don't know how I'd be coping without the large amount of pro-trans creators I've found on RU-vid. This really is a terrible, awful time for an egg to crack. I hope you can find a safe space to explore yourself and find out who you really are
Well if they are sexualised wear king stocking suspender showing fake cleavage them maybe we should But easier just to have normal folk dressed normally reading to kids Having weird men play dress up is not a good example
I don't know what to do stuff like this makes me feel so forlorn about being trans and it's really hard to have hope when the whole world looks at me and wants me to disappear constantly
I can't begin to imagine what that must feel like. But I promise you there are allies fighting for your rights every day. We don't want you to disappear. We want you to have the freedom to live and be happy and loved like anyone else. It's going to take a long time, but we will win eventually.
@@mirandarensberger6919 i genuinly doubt trans people will ever go away we arent a modern "idea" or "ideology" we are people and in 1000 years we will still be here
@@tyrnanreply958 Of course trans people as a whole will never go away. But OP was talking feeling like transphobes want them, personally, to disappear. I was just letting them know that there are plenty of us out here who don't want that and who do support trans rights.
I hope you know there are people who care about you I may be just some random internet stranger you dont even know, but I care about basically anyone, sometimes more than I care about myself. Things will get better, I promise.
There is a way for creators to keep that from happening but it's a bit intensive and most don't know about it because they have to go through AdSense rather than RU-vid. Council of Geeks recently made a video on it. I wish more creators would put in the effort though, even if it does take more effort. Saying they're wasting their money is just a way to comfort ourselves but in reality they're not trying to convert people they're trying to convince people on the fence about the subject and so they think by putting it on queer vids they're helping "combat queerness" that way. it also has an effect on the mental health of the queer people who watch these vids and makes us feel worse, which is also what they want.
@@normalhuman9878 It's a bot. It never says anything other than the one lame comment. Replying to it is useless. I just report it for hate speech and move on.
Like I know that strong trans women exist, but earlier today I spent a whole five minutes trying to open a jar of pickles until I decided I just wouldn't have pickles
did you try slipping something thin in the little crevice in between the lid and the neck of the jar and twisting it? once you get air in it's immesurably easier to open. pickles are too good to pass on (sincerely, a weak-af woman)
Also helps to run a metal lid under hot water, because it causes the metal to expand slightly, loosening it. And if you have any rubber wristbands, putting one on the lid and one on the jar really improves your grip so you can actually use your full strength - someone with stubborn jars of salsa
If it's the type of jar with a thin, metal lid (kinda bubbly in the middle, where you can push in the middle and make it 'pop' in and out), interlock your fingers and squeeze either end of the lid with your palms. Works every single time, for any container with that type of lid. Absolutely fucking perplexes everyone I've ever done it in front of.
i've allways found it "funny" that is always just "no trans women in womens sports!" you never hear anybody complaining about trans men in mens sports, interesting right? it's like they don't care about that because "oh they don't have an advantage" or it's just plain old sexiscm (it's probably a mixture of both actually, who we kidding?)
A lot of transphobic arguments are deeply sexist. They’re literally saying people inherently always act, think and look certain ways, purely based on their assigned gender at birth and on nothing else.
You're right, it's because transphobic people see trans men as women and trans women as men, so they apply their own sexist beliefs about women onto trans men. Y'know, inherently weaker, in need of protection. Completely ignoring that testosterone can make you quite strong, especially if you train for it.
I'm pretty certain that the people behind that beer don't care one way or the other about trans rights. They just saw the discontent over Bud Light and smelled money. The beer is probably some standard off-brand that some generic company makes that they just rebranded as their own. I'm not defending them, I'm commenting on how sad and amoral and money grubbing the world is.
8:29 Seeing as this is in America, where bigots of all persuasions are all too keen to assert their first amendment rights of free speech to excuse their expression of bigotry, this ad is blatant hypocrisy.
As a kid (13), I was denied being part of my local kids soccer team because I was too tall (at least that was the excuse given to my mother) I wasn't just denied playing with my age group but the whole underage soccer league. I had to play with the women's team, wasn't fair for them having to play with a kid and it certainly wasn't fair for me. Hell it was dangerous, the women's teams played rough. I see forcing trans women to play with men or not play at all in the same light.
Separating men and women in sports is a silly idea to begin with. I'm pretty sure the reason why we do it is because women used to be forbidden from doing sports until they got their own category. But the natural next step would be to stop separating men and women. The only useful categories are like weigh and sizes and every thing that actually matters in sports. Not sex and gender. We dont have to be in separated categories at school and there isn't much difference in men and women...
It used to be in a way since it was about being aware of racial discrimination, I think it became broader later on to include other prejudices and then the far-right made it a dog whistle :/
@@MazdaFan-wt6sl”inclusive” lol bigot. Nah trans is how you fit in an idea. Gender is an idea. You aren’t being inclusive. Your changing what things mean. “Hurr to include more poorly” if I added str8 you’d have a problem.
My grandfather is one of those MAGA guys who keeps saying "Oh, but I'm only concerned about the safety of the children!" Bold words for a man who made a p3d0phillia joke about me when he was called up 33 years ago on the day I was born. 😬
Decades ago, on The Phil Donohue Show, they actually had a show about being gay and whether it was a choice or not. You know, 40 years ago. One guy said "I am black and I am gay. I can't change either, and I shouldn't be told to." Oooh the audience really didn't like that. I'm sure some supported it, but the loud ones were very angry over what he said.
You weren't born being able to walk. Walking is a behavior. Not a civil right. The argument falls apart if you just take the smallest amount of time to think about what they're even saying.
By this logic you weren't born being able to breath either were you? Or think? Gay people are born gay, end of story. There is no scientifical proof against this. Is you say you found any, you're lying. I looked it up myself
That beer is only available in 42 states... while being an online order only. That means there are 8 states that looked at that anti-woke beer and said "nope, don't ship that crap here." and good for those 8 states.
Eating disorders come from external factors. If they learn that there's something wrong with their weight and that people who are skinny are better and happier, that comes from insecurity. Being trans comes from inside, that's the fundamental sense of self. The only benefits of being trans is being happy and not feeling like you're stuck inside yourself. It's hard being trans, you lose friends and family over it, it's expensive, you have to constantly justify your existence to people that you're worthy of being yourself. It's just not a good comparison.
@@martind2520 There are lots of studies that try to pinpoint a cause to being trans, including biological factors, but none of them have been totally confirmed, just a lot of theories. To me it seems like it's just a way people are sometimes. I know several transgender people who grew up in households where being transgender would not have been accepted. People who lived in rural areas, not in a liberal/progressive environment and they were still trans. Those people certainly were not convinced and "showed benefits" of being trans. I can also tell you of plenty of people who grew up in progressive environments and don't turn out trans.
@@normal_biscuit Yes, most trans people come from families, or cultural area, with very strict gender roles. It is hardly a shock that a girl that liked football and videogames, from a family with strict gender roles, would end up believing that she was "really a boy inside" to explain why she didn't like Barbies and ponies like she was "meant to".
yeah, Jamie is so right about anti-LGBTQ+/anti-trans voices being uplifted, I often get ads (sometimes on Jamie or OT's vids) of some anti-trans "gender identity exploration" documentary but straight off the bat, the ad says that transness is a social contagion and detransitioners were interviewed as a way to further anti-trans talking points
“Stay away from our children.” Do you typically get drunk around your children? Do you let your children drink beer? What is beer doing around your kids?!!?
The idea that a mediocre man can outperform an elite woman in any sport is so misogynistic. Even though two cis women just beat one of Michael Phelps' swimming records. I just 🙄🙄🙄.
They get this idea because cisgender men typically are better than cisgender women in most sports due to male puberty producing bodies that don't have to foster a child.
I really liked the storyline in Grey’s Anatomy with Owen Hunt’s sun Leo when they talked to the counsellor after Leo expressed he was a girl. The counsellor didn’t talk about socially transitioning yet (Leo was only 4ish) but she said to just let the child express themselves how they wanted to
The beer ad was right at the start of the bud light thing, and the theory at the time was that they were rebadging a beer from a small brewery (happens a lot) and based on the state they were based out of, the breweries they were likely to have gone to were owned by the same parent company as Bud Light
I fully concur... The naysayers have to move beyond this pathetic argument of "testosterone beats oestrogen"... It's a garbage argument, there are so many week and weedy men who would get their butt kicked in women's sport, even if they trained really hard to compete and there are plenty of trans men who could give any biological male a real run for their sweat in physical combat. There is a far more scientific approach than is currently used to sort fair play in professional sports
Anytime someone insists being gay is a behavior, just point out to them they’re essentially saying that the only difference between them and someone who has gay sex every day is that they’re choosing not to.
I was talking about how I wanted to show my baby cousin some more "girly" shows like my little pony, her response was, "you will not make him gay." For contexts my cousin is not even a year old and we were looking for colorful shows with songs in them so I suggested my little pony. P.S. Sorry this is kinda long😅
This reminded me of a trailer that I saw for a documentary (idk if thats what you call it) about detransitioners and painting it as a story about how the gays preyed on impressionable children and forced them to transition. As a transgender and non-binary teen, I strongly disagree with this message.
As a trans person who's been actively fighting against my conservative parents in order to transition, I agree. I just spent the last year and a half actively fighting for top surgery. No one forced me into doing this. If I didn't want it, why would I be willing to go through all that shit?
Anti-trans people acts like if trans activism would be ( at least only) about promoving kids to hormonizing and surgering. No, trans activism don't do that; trans activism speech only two things: "Love yourself, you are valid and perfect" and "please stop killing us"
also the idea that a man who's mediocre could beat women who are professionals is literally so misogynistic. A MAN WHO'S MEDIOCRE COULD NOT BEAT THEM omg
Wasn't there a whole rash of video's/shorts/TikToks of people smashing Bud Light cans and bottles to protest? ...cans and bottles they'd had to buy first...?
Yup, that was after it was revealed that they hired a trans woman to advertise to a wider market. Then Right-Wingers caught wind and started protesting, even getting pseudo celebrity Kid Rock in on it. It was just a sad little shit show that ended up hurting them because Anheiser-Busch donate proceeds to the Right-Wing political side.
That's actually why I didn't get why AB didn't stick to thier guns with Dylan Mulvaney. They should have just stuck behind her. They were selling waaaayy more beer by invoking the right to fire guns and blow up thier beer then they ever sold when it was just a diet beer to drown that horrible day you have to spend with your family ( that's kinda how I view beer lol). Hate can drive a lot of profit. That's why cancel culture really isn't real.
"Woke" NEVER meant "performative activism", unless you were a White, Birkenstocks-with socks wearing, latte-sipping Yuppie who though he was "with it". "Woke" originated with the Black community & referred to the racism inherent in our institutions like politics, police, employment, housing, the courts, banking, medical care & so on.
I grew up in a homophobic and transphobic household, and their favorite beer is budlight (buying a 30 cam case at least once a week). When I heard about budlight sponsoring a trans person, It feels like their finally getting what they deserve while giving trans people the voice they deserve. It gives me joy on multiple levels.
@@juniorqindes8335"They deserve this for rejecting and invalidating an entire community of people because they've got their heads in their arses" That's better
@@officialpigeons9921 “rejecting and invalidating” yea this literally is just you trying to pretend not sharing your ideas is wrong. “Hurr you don’t speak as if you think like me? That means you invalidate me!!” You’re just a bigot trying to sell your bigotry off by being the victem. But the only thing I ever did to be transphobic was not adhere to a social construct. Yea…. Not accepting what is by definition just an idea soceity had…. Is evil and hateful? It’s a phobia? It’s invalidating you? Should i have to speak as if god exists because it would invalidate Christian’s too?
@@juniorqindes8335 You aren't being scientific and are wedded to a faulty premise of what a social construct is. Jump out a building and see how the social constructs we use to define physics feel about you not believing in them.
@juniorqindes8335 it goes beyond not having the same ideas, but about how the people who raised me were actively hateful towards me for existing . I'm still hurt and bitter for the life time of pain and fear they shoved onto me, I can admit that. So yes, I'm happy that something they enjoy doesn't align with their hatefulness.
Adverts peddling anti-LGBT propaganda won’t stop me from supporting any gay pals I have or will make in the future, I’m a heterosexual, not a heartless monster.
Its really insulting and belittling to these women athletes that work so hard and train every day to suggest that a middling man athlete (or any man for that matter, as is often portrayed) could automatically outperform them by a large margin by feigning a transition. The physical capability gap between men and women isn't THAT drastic. Trans or cis, these women work really hard to be as competitive as they are and they deserve to be respected for that!
@@WillieManga My apologies. Let me be perfectly clear what my opinion is. Trans women are women and should compete with cis women. They don't have an inherent advantage from having been AMAB. I am merely pointing out that the narrative from transphobes being that any male middling, failed, and non athlete can easily and immediately dominate the competition by simply competing against women is insulting to said women. It is incredibly harmful to trans women, but it's also another example of a "protect the women" narrative not being about protecting women and actually being about hating trans women because it hurts cis women as well.
I am not trans phobe, but I do understand the confusion, because in a transition there is change, and it can be hard for an outsider to see when the change is enough to switch which bathroom they use. Personally, I have always preferred the idea of single room omnisex bathrooms, though I do understand why that can't be a thing in larger establishments.
They say trans people don’t know what bathroom to use when we do, what we are debating is “how likely is it that I will be hatecrimed for using the correct bathroom vs should I just hold it for the next 6 hours till I get home”
(Shocked gasp) This episode is not about your hair!? 😂 Thanks. Enjoying this video very much so far. 😊 Edit: the bible verse billboard is totally ignoring the VERY Homosexual relationship between David and Saul. Yes they were Bisexual. It’s in the bible. 😂
The thing about the whole sexuality is a choice argument is that even if it were a choice, Who cares? Do what makes you happy. Also if it were a choice and no one was born with a particular sexuality, and people can swing whatever way they want, that means everyone alive is bi.
Not to hijack your point, but I actually have a theory that most people are actually bi, like seeing straight guys be attracted to feminine men or some straight women being attracted to tomboys (I think that's a thing, idk, not a woman tbh) (and I have seen some similar things in reverse for homosexuals). I just think everyone has types
