REACTING TO MY OLD BISEXUALITY CONTENT *cringe* 

I love mlm couples in TV shows and books,etc and what I've realised for me as a pansexual girl is that mlm couples allow me to kind of experience romance in a queer way without all the emotional baggage that sometimes comes with reading about wlw couples. Of course I relate to mlm in a way as well but most of the times I don't have to deal with my own trauma connected to my sexuality as I do when I'm reading about a lesbian couple for example. But I'm just not really interested in straight romance so although I now read a lot more wlw books, in the past mlm romances were the only way for me to experience queer romance and I heard about this same experience from soo many of my queer friends.

When I started watching you and Georgia Bridgers I genuinely thought I was bisexual, but it took me some time to realize that I was confusing anxiety from comphet for attraction to men. Now, I’m a lesbian. Labels can change as you grow and realize who you are.

I would love to see in the next video something about the gender spectrum, although I would watch anything you post cause ✨quality content✨

I grew up watching you girl 😭you were basically my bisexual idol 😂🥰

I grew up with these videos! Your video on ‘how I knew I was bisexual’ helped my younger self so much :) x

BIROMANTIC/HOMOSEXUAL IS EXACTLY HOW I IDENTIFIED WHEN I STARTED WATCHING U BACK THEN TOO AND IM ALSO QUEER TODAY 🥺 BITCH i am so proud of you. watching how far you've come has been the best thing that's ever happened to me

HEY! i started watching you through your bisexual cringe.

To the Coming-out thing: I've heard a lot people who said that they don't want a Coming-out for LGBTQ+ people in the future anymore, which I totally understand. But I also think a good solution would be that everyone can say what their sexuality or gender or... is ( also straights ) like a Coming-out for all people, because then you know how to speak with them about their future fiancé or their pronouns or sth.

super fun video. i just wanted to mention that for anyone wondering that attraction to non-binary/trans people does Not necessarily mean you aren't bi. Bisexual means attraction to two Or More genders

this brings so much nostalgia!! the way i’ve “grown up” with these videos and found who i was through these and still continue to with the content you post now. you’ve grown so much and i’m proud of you! i love you so much keara. thank you for everything bestie ♥️

its cool to see how you've evolved to understand yourself better than before. can i just say!! i found you through that second video. I've always used the label bi and still do for now. But let me tell you- you made me feel so normal when you explained what biromantic was. I couldn't tell if i was a lesbian, if the lack of sexual attraction cancelled out the romantic feelings i had in a long term relationship with a cis male- it didn't make sense til i saw that video. I can't tell you i have it completely figured it out now as an adult. But having content like this is comforting as a whole.

I found your channel around 4 yrs ago and honestly your videos really helped me come to terms with being bisexual, especially coming from a homophobic Catholic republican family, (we won’t talk abt the period after that when I went through a republican phase for a yr and let my internalized homophobia re-convince me I was straight) and then your videos helped me again re-realizing I’m bi last yr 💖💜💙 Also I totally get what you said abt gay men, idk why that is but I do hahahaha

I remember watching those videos when I was younger to help me try to figure out my sexuality (still currently identify as bi) and all of it really helped me. Any positivity around the LGBTQ+ community was good for me to hear so ty Keara ily ❤️

4 years ago I was struggling with my sexuality and 16 year old me came across your videos and helped me know that i am bisexual. I came out last year to my friends but not my family. I just wanna say I love you thank you for being my inspiration 🥰

Keara's sexuality is her business. I support her either way. She's a very nice person #1. PLUS: Keara is on my top 5 favorite LMN actor's ever!! Super talented. DO MORE MOVIES, Keara!

It can be cringy to look back on our younger selves but so much of those vids are still 100% right on and that's what really drew me to your channel. OMG you weere the cutest baby gay!! Also your sweater is bomb!! Love always 💜💜💜

i really liked bisexual baby keara and grew up with you hehe ♡

Whenever Keara goes into her masculine voice is so cute.

As an older Queer, it's also the term I prefer for the same reason. Like, I will evolve to whatever version of myself i'll be in the future, we're always changing! Introspection is important :) Bravo for all you have accomplished in the recent years!

I love everything about this video, but above all, the different aesthetic killed me 🤣 Idek why but seeing your older style next to your current one is just so iconic and relatable, the visual representation of different phases. And I feel a little bit called out, because when I started watching your video I was a straight girly girl, now I am a chaotic bisexual with a beanie lol Lots of love for this quality content 🌈❤️😊

Hey! I love your videos but I have one thing to say: Bisexuality includes trans people (obviously I don't understand why people think it doesn't because trans men are men and trans women are women and if you like men and women that includes trans people too like come on) AND nonbinary people too! The definition of bisexual varies but some of the most common ones are: 1. Being attracted to your gender and other genders 2. Being attracted to 2 or more genders And this includes everyone. Now the difference between bi and pan with these definitions is that pansexuals feel attraction REGARDLESS of someone's gender while for bisexuals gender is a part of the attraction.

Can we take a moment to appreciate how amazing keara looks then and now

omg I love Jessica too! I watch mostly watch her, you, Alayna Joy (who I think you know) and The Queer Kiwi!

I'm so happy that you started making videos about LGBTQ+ things all those years ago if you hadn't I wouldn't of found out Im gender fluid so thanks lol!

“my family is very divorced” FELT LMAo

what would my soul look like? I've actually kind of thought about this a lot. but i see it more in colors and shapes? like picturing my soul in my head, it's mostly a flat black that fades into my brain, but there's a bit of almost maroon-ish red. it's kind of square ish and overlaps the blackness. the edges of both colors are sharp but they also blur out

i just realised that i've been watching your videos for like a year now and omg i'm so glad and happy that i have found your channel hfjdjdncn❤️

Ian and Mickey were my gay awakening! Still love them to this day

Aww it makes me sad to see you emotional when your grandma is mentioned 😭 just remember it's ok to mourn her and we all have your support

Me: barely registering that there was a time when Keara DIDN'T have her special chair 👀

I swear me too Keara about gay porn! I’ve never been with a guy either and don’t want to but yeah gay porn is hot.

I came out a a few months ago as bi and watching your videos was so inspiring and helpful! Thank you so much Keara for staying true to yourself and I hope you have such a lovely day! 💕

I came out about a week ago because of you and Thankyou SOO much because it was the best thing I’ve ever done and you were the one who gave me the confidence to do that 💛

Hey keara! You talked about dating other people, I’d really love to see a video about relationship concepts, or how you experience dating and marriage❤️

Your bisexual icon was lesbian Jesus. I always have felt like I struggle with sexuality labels, and I read my old Yahoo Answers questions not long ago and of course I asked a lot of "am I lesbian or am I bisexual" type questions and my attraction has never changed. Which was honestly validating!

Not Hayley Kiyoko as a bi icon 😭lmao

My soul looks like a tiny stressed dot that is scribbled all over with thermodynamics equations right now. I just love exams :/ And that pullover is really cool and it suits you ;)

my soul is pretty much a small primate (like a capuccin) in a suit and a bowler hat eating a banana with their foot.

hey keara! can you make a video about possible struggles your family has with your gender identity? And your "how i knew i was bisexual" video was my comfort video. I used to watch it daily and i sometimes still do. Iysm :)

Thrift store sweaters are my entire wardrobe. Unless its summer… then I go sleeveless.

Waitttttt.... she said Hayley Kiyoko (lesbian jesus) is her bi idol? Lol that's why she made that face

Somebody should have warned Trudeau to practice saying lgbtq+ in front of the mirror. 😂 I felt so bad for him. That clip was everywhere.

I feel like my soul would be a floppy rainbow dragon cat.

You, Georgia Bridgers, Dutchy, and Jessie Paege are my LGBT icons!!

awww baby Keara was so cute, so baby faced with the freckles

My soul is part mermaid part angel and just covered head to toe in glitter 🤩

Whatever my soul looks like it hates getting a cringe feeling in every possible shape.Thats why stopped the video at 2:58.

My soul probably just looks like a slice of old bread😂

Hey Queera! I am struggling with my gender Identity, I use she/her, she/they and they/them with a preference of the last two and feel like a girl and am comfortable with my body and assigned gender. I don't really know my gender identity and would feel better if I did have a label but the thing is I DONT KNOW IF I AM EVEN APART OF THE GENDER SPECTRUM and it's just agggggghhhhhh I would love to see a video where you go into depths of some of the genders and what is valid and what is not that could be very helpful!

Thank you so much for this video, it has made me realise that I don't have to fit into one lable, 💛 sometimes I do feel that being Bisexual does not always fit me! Btw, I love Love LOVE your beanie!!!

not the mlm sexualisation

WE STAN U STANNING GALLAVICH !! BEST HUSBANDS

Sweater looks amazing and I would watch anything you bring us but maybe something on spectrum and how you look at it. You do change over time through friends situation attitudes and things that go on in the world and life experiences. Enjoyed this video a lot and see that there was a lot of stuff you were then has come more clearer, and thank you so much for this comparison videos

Hi Keara, I love your channel. I wonder how you define the difference between bi and pan? From this video it seems as though in the past you would say that being bi was not (or was less) inclusive of non-binary and/or trans folks. And present day you seemed to allow this interpretation to stand. I am leaving this comment in hopes that perhaps, if this is actually how you define bisexuality, you might consider the other definitions of bisexuality that have been reclaimed by bi and queer people, wherefore bisexuality can and does include non-binary and trans folks within the realm of attraction. As a non-binary (gender fluid) bisexual myself, it is important to me that other people attracted to more than one gender know that bi is a valid label to choose if they know they are attracted to non-binary folks as well. I’ve had folks in my life look down at me for ID-ing as bi because they assumed simply due to the label itself that I wasn’t being inclusive with my attraction. That couldn’t be further from the truth for me. I’ve also had folks I know say that they stopped ID-ing as bi themselves for the same reason, and that doesn’t feel completely necessary to me. There are many valid reasons to choose Pan over bi for ones label and that is a deeply personal choice that I respect. But I do feel I needed to stand up and say that bisexual is not inherently exclusive of non-binary people. I subscribe to the definition that bi is attraction to two or more genders, and/or, attraction to one’s own gender and other genders. I hope that helps make things more clear. I enjoyed your video, and I always love to see how you navigate your life and identity. I hope you have a good week!

I was the opposite actually and originally posted on my Instagram I'm pansexual but realised I'm bisexual 🌈 Also you are definitely one of my bi/pan icons! 😍

my soul would be like a really considerate chipmunk that's always checking up on the other chipmunks with really fluffy fur that sometimes goes a little crazy

My soul is a fucking lion. Thank you.

I like p*** with 2 gay men too... but then I realized it is because I just wanted to be a guy, and I wanted to be a guy who likes guys hahah (same can apply to NB as well) but I think this might be common for like NB/trans/gay people? can anyone relate?

You know when couples start to kind of look like each other… yeah.

i just realized that i watched your youtube videos in early middle school before i ever told my friends that i’m bisexual- DUDE I DIDNT RECOGNIZE YOU AND IVE BEEN BINGING YOUR VIDEOS RECENTLY I CANT BELIEVE I BLOCKED THOSE MEMORIES OUT

“Cool to be a part of it” “Now I’m rooted” SAME THO

To be honest, I thought that being a bi gender fluid man was a whole new thing but all you get apart of the bisexual starter pack is, ice coffee, more stress, always having to deal with the stress of what others think of who you are dating (meaning girls are guys), IDK, on top of also noticing that I am gender fluid. Sorry about some of the grammar, But overall the last 2 years have thrown me, my gender, and sexuality into a tailspin.

Ngl when the video started in my head I was like "I love that jumper" and then they said "do you like my sweater" and I was like "lol ye"

Your sweater gives me gender euphoria

I love your new sweater, it's so frickin' cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Пришла на ваш канал, после видео Билли Айлиш увидела реакцию на ваш кавер 😉💜

Blue light flow of iridescent waves That’s what it looks like 😁 I’d love to see our souls playing together!

4:21 this really made me uncomfortable, even if you are non binary that doesn’t mean it’s okay you really reminded me of straight men fetishising lesbians relationships

awww I got kinda sad about the grandma thing cuz I love my grandma and that made me realize that much more :33 I wish I could see her soon

The grandma calling made me cry too 😭😭 I miss my grandma SO MUCH, she passed in November

We all say things when we are confused and young so we do and when we have no since

So bisexuals can and are attracted to GNC and trans people and saying that you "must be pan" because you date non-binary peeps is kinda damaging and reinforces the idea that bisexuals care about the gender binary and/or only someone's genitals when that isn't the case and bi just means "genders like and different to my own"

4:11 I too can relate bestie 😚😭

There are some solid explanations for why women are drawn to and consume MM content; it's just a shame that "MM for women" isn't recognized as a different category from "gay" as the former has now drowned the latter out, though perhaps not yet to the same extent as how "lesbian" is still mostly "FF for men". Gay fiction is almost absolutely dead and I mourn it deeply. "Toxic positivity" is good.

I definitely watched the how I know I was bisexual video multiple times when I was a confused lil teenager

11:10 people are definitely still watching that. people was me a couple of months ago :)

That's a nice sweater and you pull it off really well I could never lol

THAT WAS FUN TO WATCH!

Love your sweater🏳️‍🌈💙

9:28 hey so as a trans/bi person it is kinda weird to call yourself pan just bc you would date trans people bc it is kind of invalidating to our identities as men/women, you can be bisexual and still like trans people, to say you can't is both transphobic and biphobic... idk if this is just unfortunately how it's come across in your video but it does come across like you're saying you're pan and not bi bc you like trans people...

i recall those videos of yours !! great idea to live review them !!! 👍🏻💚

I’ve been binge watching your videos the past 24 hours

It's nice to see you reacting to your old videos I love it ❤️🏳️‍🌈

0:19 My soul would be a piece of moss on a tree stump. No gender, just moss. I have no reasoning as to why

4:08 i- this literally sounds like just flat out fetishization. it's not "funny"- imagine if it were a guy saying that gay women were hot, or that wlw p**n was hot. either way, it isn't cool.

Actually not embarassing at all. You said a lot of things that are very true. I would say that bisexual fits you best because your attracted to 2 or more genders, but you have preferences. Pansexuals, like me; are "gender blind", meaning that they don't have any preferences.

9:37 LUZ NOCEDA! It is Luz Noceda for me! Please please tell there's a fellow Owl House fan here

thanks for the video! it made me feel a bit happier when I was feeling down :D

haha i just recently watched both of those videos recently 😂 i love how this video came out reacting to them

My family is very anti-trans and barely ok with people being gay. So this weekend I explained to them all our mom has actually been gender neutral all along. Always short hair, no makeup, and neutral clothes.

9:00 nowdays the term bi includes two or more genders, not just men and women

Wow, Keara! You look so beautiful and cute with the blue dress outfit like Anne Hathaway, the actress from the movie "The Princess Diaries!"😊💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙👍. And now, the new you in 2022 with the prettiest smile and the new short hair upgrade look!💙💙💙💙💙💙. Happy Tuesday!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷🌈💜💜💜💜💜💜💜😊⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍

Love the sweater! 💕

I've been watching you since these videos and I've loved every second of it😂🥰❤️

I only dated cismen and had boyfriends ... which is odd... I never had a crush on a girl but I've been sexually attracted to them... so I thought I was heteroromantic ... but since I'm non-binary ... I feel Androromantic fits me better ... and I had my first romantic crush on a genderfluid person (confirming I'm not heteroromantic)... but she didn't return my feelings so big sad... (She uses she/they/he pronouns and is AMAB)

I LOVE your sweater!

My soul would be a snail. Maybe also an alien snail.

Baby Keara looks like current Keara's sister rather than younger her haha

When my grandmother died they were throwing out her old clothes and I came across him and I got turned on by him and I wanted to try them on

Lol I feel the same way you do, like- EW... I WAS SO CRINGE 😬