Reacting to your spicy queer stories from catholic school!🥵

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Queer AND Catholic can make an interesting combination... thanks for sending in your spicy, shocking, dirty & emotional stories from Catholic/Christian school and/or church! just know that despite what you were taught by your teachers, school or church, YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID and YOU ARE NOT WRONG or PERVERTED for feeling them❤️🌈 ALWAYS LEAD WITH LOVE! xoxo
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@alexandraesc8999 2 года назад

Ok but the fact that nun used BABY dolls to demonstrate sex. Like that is so wrong on so many levels. The whole situation was just wrong but the fact it was dolls that look like babies just makes it worse.

@KingTillyI 2 года назад

Yah

@lemonmeat 10 месяцев назад

OH MY GOD I THOUGHT IT SAID "BARBIE" OH NOOO 😭😭😭

@katiecreech8103 2 года назад

Keara feels like that queer older sibling I and I'm sure many others never had but are glad we do now 🥰💙

@imawakemymindisalive13 2 года назад

i am the queer older sibling 💀

@raccoon8686 2 года назад

I'm that queer older sibling and I've helped my sister who's only a year younger than me understand a lot about the lgbtq community.

@artistic_lesbian5435 2 года назад

@@imawakemymindisalive13 me too 💀

@ngsrkive 2 года назад

@@imawakemymindisalive13 same

@chapa2282 2 года назад

I'm older than Keara but I still really enjoy their content, wish I had that growing up

@noonecallsmeotto641 2 года назад

I came out to my parents today. One of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do but I’m glad I did! Your Chanel really helped me when I was struggling! Love ya keara

@Naomi-ns1lo 2 года назад

Lots of love to you 💜

@jasper4150 2 года назад

:0 yay very proud of you

@FinnPethybridge 2 года назад

Congrats. Even though I don't know you I know coming out is hard no matter what so I'm proud of you :)

@talia.m.c 2 года назад

I know we are strangers to each other but I know what it feels like to come out to parents and I am so proud of you! Lots of love to you!!!

@violetcarnation1063 2 года назад

Yay congratulations I really hope they support you

@alexandram2486 2 года назад

"I thought being gay was like a movie thing" No no I feel you, for YEARS I thought it was just some weird fanfiction thing

@stargirl_1114_ 2 года назад

omg sameeee hahaa

@cactushotsauce362 2 года назад

I didn't even know gay people existed until I was 10, because I never saw a gay person in my life.

@alexandram2486 2 года назад

@@cactushotsauce362 I was 13 when I realized being gay was something you could be irl, and it took another year or so to realize that I was

@nithi9638 2 года назад

I just thought only white people could be gay.....

@nithi9638 2 года назад

Anyways I'm gay now

@_.Ozair._ 2 года назад

"Because... yknow... the pieces don't fit together" - This nun is just- Oh my god, girl no...

@gglovesgorillazmj7784 2 года назад

😭😭

@lemonmeat 10 месяцев назад

she forgot what we have on our lower backs bro ☠️☠️

@jamesbates9038 6 месяцев назад

"I know the pieces fit, cuz I've watched them fall away"

@conejitoburrito6526 2 года назад

I got called my preferred name for the first time by my theater class instructor the other day! I hate my given name sm so it was so amazing :)

@ChristineChang20 2 года назад

yayyyyy congrats!!!!!!!!!!

@Naomi-ns1lo 2 года назад

Yay! Lots of love 💞

@conejitoburrito6526 2 года назад

@@ChristineChang20 Thanks :)

@conejitoburrito6526 2 года назад

@@Naomi-ns1lo ty you too!

@jackie1437 2 года назад

Omg congrats! That's so amazing ik how it feels. My best friend use he/him pronouns for me for the first time yesterday (I use all pronouns) and it was so amazing

@samjensen392 2 года назад

I grew up Mormon, and in my 9th grade seminary class one day, my teacher had the class debate on a few current issues, and when it came to gay marriage, literally everyone on my half of the room (which was supposed to represent the “for” side) stood up and walked to the other side of the classroom (the “against” side) except for me. It was seriously the kind of thing that would make me roll my eyes and say, “yeah, sure, that totally happened,” if I didn’t witness it myself. Not to be overly cheesy, but that moment taught me the meaning of the phrase, “stand up for what you believe in, even if that means standing alone.” I was fully preparing myself to argue my side single-handedly (although I’m sure I wouldn’t have done a very good job of it back then), but my teacher just decided to move on to the next topic instead. Tbh I’m still lowkey salty about that

@swifts_and_swallows 2 года назад

THAT THING ABOUT DISCOVERING YOUR SEXUALITY AS A KID AND THEN PUSHING IT DOWN FOR A FEW YEARS AND THEN FINALLY ACCEPTING IT AHHH I DIDNT KNOW ANYONE ELSE UNDERSTOOD THAT!! thank you that makes me feel so much less alone❤️

@bubba283 2 года назад

I wish I could be this open about being a gay guy it's depressing

@inouridletown 2 года назад

I was at my bffs house (we’re both teens who haven’t come out yet) and I was explaining the storyline of friends to her. All I said was that Ross married a lesbian and she said “shhh my parents are in the next room” WE WERENT EVEN TALKING ABOUT US BEING LGBT!!!!!!

@incestfetus 2 года назад

Yes but sometimes its not safe to talk about lgbt

@inouridletown 2 года назад

@@incestfetus it’s not like that we both know that when we come out our parents will be supportive

@skeet6316 2 года назад

EVERYONE THANK KEARA FOR THIS MASTERPIECE OF A CHANNEL!

@KearaGraves 2 года назад

THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE ❤️❤️❤️

@skeet6316 2 года назад

@@KearaGraves omg thank you I did not expect you to respond (love the string lights btw)

@rosecooke4147 2 года назад

Yes keara your are amazing 👍 keep doing what you do

@joelmole4696 2 года назад

THANK YOU

@FoeNyxRising 2 года назад

@@KearaGraves I love you and you are the best you tuber in the world

@ruruwitchh 2 года назад

Also yes, the girls locker room is SO incredibly nerve-wracking and I just go to the shower and avert my eyes if anyone is still changing after I come out... 😩

@anadd6195 2 года назад

In Portugal we all just looked at eachother and chatted normally just hanging out xD But I get you. If I found someone atractive I would look away respectfully because they don't know and they did not consent so to me it felt more fair to do it that way even though most people don't care. :)

@chilllaxin13 2 года назад

You should totally read the book "Walking the Bridgeless Canyon: Repairing the Breach Between the Church and the LGBT Community"! It covers a lot of information on how politics influenced the Church's view on being gay and it addresses what the Bible actually says about same-sex relationships (spoiler, there's not actually anything in the bible saying same-sex relationships are bad, it's all misinterpretations, mistranslations, and other BS).

@conlon4332 2 года назад

@Botanist Baddie I'd read the book they suggested, rather than asking for the information in a RU-vid comment. You don't have to agree with the book, but you should still read it so you know what you're disagreeing with. Read the book, ponder its opinion, do your own research, and form your own opinion. At the end of the day you can think whatever you want to think, but make sure you're informed and hear the other side first - and don't expect to get all that from RU-vid. Read the book, and decide what you think then. I'm not saying don't go in biased - that's almost impossible, but try to keep an open mind, and please, please, don't just decide you're right without hearing both sides - and in this case reading that book seems like a great way to do that - because people make the worst decisions and form the most irrational opinions if they're not informed on different arguments. Please, please, don't be one of those people. If you love us that means listening, even if you don't agree.

@paigiegirly2009 Год назад

I haven't came out to my parents as lesbian yet, but I did my research and have tried to explain how it's not against LGBT and they don't believe me no matter what I say. I always get the same answer: "It's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve."

@broadwaybrat1986 2 года назад

As a lesbian who went to catholic school and suppressed her feelings for way too long, I highly approve of this video. Also my story: we had this one girl in our class who shaved her hair before PE and went to the Prom dressed in a suit and I always admired her for just being herself. Now this person is non-binary and goes by they/them. They travel live in a camper with their girlfriend and dog. I envy them so much. They’re such a mood!

@sam-cz8nt 2 года назад

Last year in my ethic class we talked about getting children and the fear of being pushed into the cliché women role by our husband. I (lesbian) wanted to to make a joke that I can relate to this fear to my best friend. We sat in the first row and when I made the joke my teacher looked at me. In the next question the teacher said "your husbands.. Or wives" and looked at me and my friend

@anadd6195 2 года назад

Well, that's is what you should have said in the first place teacher person, hi! 😁😂 - lol *You* did well, people need to start using more realities in their speech then they do. 🤗👏

@thatonekid8570 2 года назад

Wow that's cool

@rainbowkittyz9629 2 года назад

I came out to my parents, and then they came out to me.... This was literally what happened: (Btw, don't question the relationship lol) Me: I'm pan (I later realized I'm omni) Mom: I'm bi! Mum (kind of like step-mom): that's cool! Your dad and I are pan too! Me: 😲

@azure4631 2 года назад

Aww thats wholesome

@BassicallyKiyash 2 года назад

Aww

@anadd6195 2 года назад

Hahah! That was so cute! 😊❤

@crystaltheweirdpotato 2 года назад

Omni rep yasss

@crystaltheweirdpotato 2 года назад

Also that's amazing I love that

@gneesocks 2 года назад

hey keara! your description of how you believe god exists in all of us instead of as a separate entity really reminded me of quakerism and i was wondering if you have ever explored it? i grew up going to a quaker school and feel really connected to the community; even though i don't believe in god i believe in the quaker concept of the "inner light" within everyone which is basically what you were describing

@cvsmicplant2244 2 года назад

I came out to my friends as non-binary and last year I came out to them as lesbian. Religion has always been something weird for me because of seeing people hate on LGBTQ+ but I do believe in a higher power.

@ashdawson7418 2 года назад

Tw: mentions of suicidal thoughts This is my vent. A few months ago, I forced myself to believe that I was going to hell for being a lesbian, and because I like girls god doesn't love me. I would lay in my bed crying, wanting to kill myself. Keara's videos have helped me feel valid, and comfortable with myself. I am no longer in that dark place. Remember if you are ever feeling depressed, don't be afraid to reach out. You matter.

@anadd6195 2 года назад

People may dislike you all they want but God would *never* dislike you. There are animals and so many different cultures were same-sex relationships happen and are okay, if God created all there is on Earth (if that's your belief) and They are about love, how come They would not love all of us? Jesus was always on the side of everyone who were rejected by society. He would be the first to support us. So, no. It's beautiful to be a lesbian and it's absolutely okay. We are regular people and can have loving healthy lifes *and families* ❤❤❤🏳️‍🌈

@pokaay3163 Год назад

christian raised bi girl here. I have had people try to tell me that it is against god to be queer. but there is so much muck surrounding the bible, how it’s been translated, re-written, and re-published bajillions of times that people have inserted their own narratives into some texts so they could speak against things like homosexuality to denounce it as if it was God’s word. But it’s important to note that the Bible is god’s word as written and translated by man. this statement implies that people have had a large role in twisting the message to fit their own views of what’s right and what’s wrong. Throughout history, christians have used the bible and their faith to justify colonization. To normalize misogynistic practices. Basically, to do a lot of bad things that hurt a lot of people. and queer folk were no exception to this. It’s astonishing how many people are made to believe that being queer is intrinsically against God or something sinful like that. sins imply that you can atone and change, so as not to sin anymore. but being queer is not something you can just change. so why would God design you like that just to send you to hell for it? homosexuality has been observed in hundreds of species, but homophobia is only present in one. glad you’re doing better.

@juliii53 2 года назад

After I came out I felt it was necessary for me to ask my friends if they thought it was uncomfortable for them with me in the changing room at school, which is kinda sad I felt the need for that. Luckily I have some amazing friends who obviously didn't have a problem with it

@isaiahjoiner1625 2 года назад

Your hair is really similar to mine (trans girl) and you are the definition of what I want to look like. Gender envy to the max!

@KearaGraves 2 года назад

aww that’s so sweet🥺💕 hair twinssss

@kaylea155 2 года назад

Legit, I remember from middle school, I remember all the things you would get called "gay" for. All my friends were gay, and I didn't realise until highschool that I was genderfluid, but I remember when I wasn't with my friends that people would get called gay for doing "weird" shit. Like, how does eating a nectarine make you gay?!

@imawakemymindisalive13 2 года назад

LMAO EATING A NECTARINE

@alrighty.aphrotide 2 года назад

HONESTLY like people will legit call each other gay just bc they couldn't catch a ball or something dumb like that and jts so annoying

@anadd6195 2 года назад

Who doesn't eat nectarines?? Wtf indeed! Apart from people who dislike the fruit but that has nothing to do with sexual orientation xD indeed a really weird usage of the word, what the heck 😅😂

@peggy5244 2 года назад

Thank you Keara. Your videos always make me feel better💙

@KearaGraves 2 года назад

this makes my wee heart warm🥰 ily!

@dani-8013 2 года назад

I love your pfp!

@Alicewonderland5280 2 года назад

Hi Keara! Here is my story! So I was struggling with the depression and one day I just broke down and luckily I was able to talk about it with my stepmom. I started growing comfortable around her, she asked me if I have a crush on anyone, I said yes. She then said oh is he handsome. I then quietly said “actually, I have a crush on a girl”. To my surprise my stepmom had a happy and shocked look and said I knew it! Apparently she had her suspected me being LGTBQ. She told me nothing is wrong with it and that in highschool she used to date many girls and found it and poly relationships really cool! She is really supportive and the first one I came out to! I am pansexual by the way 😊 however I was not expecting for her to be Bisexual! We r now even closer

@madelynreecer2920 2 года назад

Awww that's so cute! Congrats 🥰

@Alicewonderland5280 2 года назад

@@madelynreecer2920 thank you 😊

@AnnabethOwl 2 месяца назад

My friend went to catholic school. TW for severe bullying She told me a story where she was pinned against the wall by other students(it was her and one of her friends) as they yelled kiss the f-. Right outside the counseling office and started muscling them to do it and assaulting them(like the other students were physically trying to force them to kiss). They didn’t know what being gay was or what the f slur was at the time. They eventually managed to push their way out. Did I mention this was right by the counseling office. They were clearly traumatized by this(they were spacey and disassociating when they told me) as anyone would be. The main girl who pinned them up against the wall and the main person had bullied them for a while making sl*t and wh*re comments in the hallway unprovoked and would constantly go out of their way to bump into her and push her around she and her friend just ignored it. That was the first incident where it got really physical. No the bully’s weren’t punished(even though multiple people told on them) that would be crazy if school actually punished bullies They also now identify as bisexual.!

@crobinsmusic 2 года назад

I went on a church youth trip. When it came to bedtime there was not enough space on the boys side of the sleeping quarters and so I was placed in with the girls. Little did they realize how right they got it (heck at that point even I didn't know) your friendly MTF Pastor --- p.s. I woke up holding hands with one of my crushes.

@soleneptune9498 2 года назад

I friggin love you the vibe is always so comfortable

@This_is_how_1_roll 2 года назад

At my school we get shouted at and told of if we say someone is gay or a member of the LGBTQ+ community.

@jennsumbera6435 2 года назад

first of all, NATASHA LYONNE SUPREMACY 😭✋🏼 ya'll are literally my fav people and the fact ur ALSO obsessed like TASTE>>> and second, KEARA YOU INSPIRE US. you are the reason i've gotten through every day and the person who led me to finding my gf! (our fan accs and being apart of this fandom that accepts everyone and then all of us looking up to YOU) like thank you once again for every single word you say in your videos and the content you give us outside of it! YOU'RE AMAZING BESTIE ILY ENDLESSLY!! ♥️

@jackie1437 2 года назад

Before I even knew I was queer, I was so nervous in changing rooms because I didn't want to look at the girls and it was just so nerve wracking because my eyes would stray to some girls when they were in their underwear (I distinctly remember this one girl wearing a matching blue lace set a couple lockers down and I thought it was gorgeous lmao). One year later I realized and I only just remembered these moments four years later fnlkshdfdk I'd like to add that that was my first year in that school which made it even scarier :]

@novanightshade2829 2 года назад

My friend and I (both female) used to do the thing where we'd "examine" each other when we were like 8. Now I'm bi and genderfluid. :)

@katiieproctor 2 года назад

mine is the confession about making out with my gf in the counselling room - can’t believe this is on the internet now HAHAHA

@crystaltheweirdpotato 2 года назад

LOL

@gglovesgorillazmj7784 2 года назад

yall were getting it in the counselling roomm slayyy 💃

@alice598 2 года назад

Our girl Keara just SLAYIN this hairstyle! I love you x

@Salam-nk4qz 2 года назад

I have an incident, but with my English Literature professor.. I have always been happy because of her intellectual openness and acceptance of difference, unlike what prevails in our Arab society.. But in one of the lectures, one of the students asked about queer studies and gender studies, which are the only theories that we did not study! She started by telling the student that this is genetic deviation and that it is contrary to religion, even though she herself disagrees with many of the prevailing religious opinions, especially with regard to women.. which made me argue with her from a scientific point of view, and that it is no longer considered a disease, neither from a genetic nor psychological point of view.. She started giving justifications and trivial and ordinary arguments that made me shocked by this contradiction in her personality and way of thinking.. Anyway, because I had been in love with her since my undergraduate days (I am currently a master's student), I felt annoyed after this incident and started crying... Fortunately, the lecture was online, but from then, I became cold in my feelings for her...

@_a_d_r_i_j_a_2791 2 года назад

me and my mom had the same argument today, im sorry that happened

@Salam-nk4qz 2 года назад

@@_a_d_r_i_j_a_2791 thanks.. hope you're feeling better now

@RobinhOoD-jq1qo 2 года назад

My dose of serotonin is finally here

@junipha7684 2 года назад

Okay, this video is wild, BUT CAN WE TALK ABOUT YOUR LOOK?? GORGEOUS.

@souperbulous7861 2 года назад

when i came out, my parents pulled me out of school, took my phone away, and started limiting what kind of clothes i could buy/wear. #brocken

@nilimahaque1436 2 года назад

Are you okay?? I'm genuinely concerned...

@violetcarnation1063 2 года назад

Are you ok? Like seriously?

@Naomi-ns1lo 2 года назад

Woah hope you're OK ❤️

@souperbulous7861 2 года назад

@@nilimahaque1436 i'll be fine!! i only have to live with them for four more years anyways.

@catdogorboth7087 2 года назад

@@souperbulous7861 you will be? That’s a lot and that’s not okay at all. Four years is a long time. Please get help if you can

@Potatoes_are_very_gay 2 года назад

I am so jealous of people that have genderless pronouns (like they/them) in their language. We talk spanish in our home but there arent any official genderless pronouns, or a pronoun that works for both genders :/

@idibidi3724 2 года назад

is there a neutral pronoun like the equvalent of "it" ? (I don't speak spanish, I'm just curious, because my lamguage only has a non-gendered pronoun for everyone so I have no idea...)

@eszti498 2 года назад

@@idibidi3724 same, what is your laungage?

@idibidi3724 2 года назад

@@eszti498 Turkish, I'm from Turkey.

@unouni2548 2 года назад

@@idibidi3724 no, in Spanish is more complicated than that. The whole language is gendered, so we even "assign genders" to inanimate objects so we can use a gendered pronoun to refer to it. So, for example, the moon would be a "she" so we can say 'la luna' instead of 'el luna'. There are a few exceptions, but that's the gist of it. We are now adapting, however, and have added the personal pronouns 'elle' and 'le' (this one already existed and was in use to refer to anyone, although considered "incorrect" in that use) to refer to non-binary people; which is great, but not many people have taken up on that. It doesn't help that we have a Royal Academy of Language that we are supposed to follow and that they have forgotten that grammar should be descriptive, not prescriptive.

@paupaupau7037 2 года назад

@@unouni2548 AGHHH sisi, odio como ya se tiene una forma de referirse a las personas no binarias, pero no se usa por excusas sin sentido. Amo que al menos en ingles sea mas sencillo :(

@StarEatsRocks 2 года назад

Sometimes i am really glad i live in Belgium, saying anything homophobic or racist or whatever is illegal( at least if you say it to a gay person,…) and even in a catholic school if a teacher say anything homophobic they would get fired

@bonnie_bennetts_wifey4165 2 года назад

I came out to my mom kind of (Just kinda said that I'm definitely not straight) and the first thing she did was tell me I'm too young to know so your vids are a life saviour and I love your channel Keara, thanks so much for making me laugh ❤

@msschaf2003 2 года назад

You're not to young to know who you are and who you want to be. Don't listen what other say

@emilytae6081 2 года назад

You are never to young! You know who you are, don't let others tell you that your not

@imawakemymindisalive13 2 года назад

my dad says it’s just a phase. idc though because i don’t want his approval, i disagree with most of his opinions and i take pride in disappointing him.

@anadd6195 2 года назад

I was like 5 when I thought of Little Mermaid, obv in an innocent manner bc of my age, but what I mean is that there is no such thing as being too young to understand that you like girls (in this case) a lot even when you don't know how to explain it yet. And it's so harmful when our parents tell us those stuff. Feel hugged girl, I get you. ❤

@livc3687 2 года назад

theres this kid in my class, it was health and the teacher was doing this assignment where in groups you would match the problem to the description, like for example: racism, violence, ect. i was put into a group with 3 of my gay friends and this one guy. when i saw "homophobic" i started joking with my friends "lmaoo imagine being scared of gay people" and this guy said "thats not how homophobia works." i knew that obviously as a lesbian so i just said "what??" and he replies with "yeah i am homophobic so i would know." LMAOO anyways so i start like questioning him "is it cause you're religious??" "no im an atheist" THEN i said "does it make u uncomfortable to know i can pull more girls than you?" then he left our group and sat with his friends LOLL

@airavatara 2 года назад

The energy in this video is immaculate

@carmenmercedes9903 2 года назад

I have this “friend” and he makes SUCH a conscious effort to prove he’s not gay “Yeah, I took the curl out of my hair cause it looked gay” “I wish I could have more colorful shirts, but, y’know, straight” “I WOULD join the dance team but I’m too straight for it”

@carmenmercedes9903 2 года назад

@Jael frrr 😭

@manal-sb1zk Год назад

Or mabey it means that people have turned the word gay into an insult so now both genders can't do anything that's stereotypically considered of the opposite gender, cuz they'll be called gay even though they're not. It's specifically an issue with guys. They take being called gay too much at heart.

@KateronaOne 2 года назад

I am a trans woman and after I came out I was comphet. This year I have finally faced that it’s ok to be a trans woman and a lesbian and want to date. The shame lasts way too long. Just wanted to add you are adorable so thanks just for being you.

@iris_sagitta 2 года назад

keara has such good vibes ✨ their content always just makes me feel so warm n fuzzy 🥺🥺🥺

@clo._.096 2 года назад

As a queer kid who goes to a Catholic School, I'm so thankful you made this video!!

@urgayfriend 2 года назад

In just a public school, my favorite teacher yelled at a kid for saying the word gay She’s no longer my favorite teacher 🙄

@joelmole4696 2 года назад

My dad threw me, and my sister out for being bi now we live with my mom and her wife and their daughters

@alenaneumann3772 2 года назад

Omg I used to think people were only gay in like certain cities😂I literally can’t with myself

@jamesfv1 2 года назад

Yes! Someone else who was smooshing faces at catholic school! I used to do that as well with a beautiful gal I adored for a long time, but we couldn’t be together thanks to her family. But I also realised I loved women, since they always gave me the adorable butterflies which still happens. I fell in love and dated my best friend, but we ‘had to’ have boyfriends so it took me years until I had a girlfriend who said ‘You don’t have to date men, you can date a woman publicly’. That actually blew my damn mind, yay internalised homophobia….

@beekeefer3253 2 года назад

Anti bullying/mental illness ads: tell somebody you trust Me with my trust issues: haha…no,

@mahnamescallie 2 года назад

as someone who goes to a catholic school and is queer.. i love this 💀

@hanadellasala1236 Год назад

i just discovered your videos today and i’m so glad i did😭 you have such a refreshing personality! and i’m glad i’m not the only queer person that believes in god but not traditionally 🙏🤧 thank you for making me feel like there’s a place for me🤍🤍🤍

@sashamelike5474 2 года назад

Dude one time I told my counselor I was getting bullied (I was in 5th grade) and she told me it was just the guys personality and sent me back to class 😂😤

@nivedhprem 2 года назад

WTF!!! WHAT??!!? What the actual hell is that supposed to even mean?? lol

@sashamelike5474 2 года назад

@@nivedhprem yea I also told her my sister threatened suicidal and she was like do u tell her I love her like lady yes 🙄

@katrinagauci26 2 месяца назад

So I have one tooo So when I was in middle school I was a closeted bisexual and obviously no one knew Everyone in my school was very homophobic and one day 2 ppl from my class were talking badly about gay and queer ppl during science. The next day a priest comes into our class to talk to us about queer people and initially to tell us why it's wrong but we shouldn't be talking about it So basically the priest starts saying how the point of sex is to have kids and God wants us to have kids and a family and so on. He also says that we should "help" them and not make fun of them and talk about them like those 2 were doing. And then one of the two who were talking in science starts arguing with me Because me being a closeted bi girl got mad at the priest and started saying nothing's wrong with it, you can still have a family, and so on and then the other girl starts arguing with me and it was a whole thing we spent the entire time saying the other was in the wrong and the priest was just... we ended up at the guidance counsellor and obviously I'm the one that got in trouble But I do not regret it at all

@waffle2413 2 года назад

I was watching a tv show with my mom that had a few queer characters in it, and i ended up jokingly saying “its not like im a lesbian”. Got treated to a 40 minute rant about how wrong it is to joke about that.

@abbz7455 2 года назад

I remember the first time I ever admitted to my mom I like girls. She essentially said, you can either make a big deal about it, or don't. Which one will it be? The vibe I got at the time, was "ignore those feelings, and they will go away." I had so much self loathing for being something other than straight. It was how I was taught. Years later, I fell in love with a man, (I'm bi), and now we are married. Man, I think my whole family feels like they dodged a bullet. And surprisingly, my husband is the most accepting of me being bi. 💙 Oh and btw, you can be monogamous and bi, and you are still bi. 😂

@sophiestough3237 2 года назад

Omg 2 years ago my 8th grade English teacher made me get up and do 10 push-ups in front of the whole entire class because I said the word “gay.” And I was literally just telling my friend about this guy I met at a basketball game that was really nice and funny. Like not offensively at ALL. Like if she wasn’t listening to my private convo then she wouldn’t hear it

@tommoway1574 2 года назад

Funny story my cousin (bro) and I used to change clothes together when we were like 2 or 3 when our parents used to do it for us and I remember asking my mum if I would grow what my bro had (p***s) when I grew up like him😂😂

@idibidi3724 2 года назад

we used to hold up a towel or a big piece of clothing like a big puffy jacket for eachother with my best friend in the changing rooms bc there were only two stalls with functioning locks... and they were occupied by other now-out queers... aaah weird times.

@sunny-4549 2 года назад

i was in a theology class last semester and the teacher was talking about how gay marriage isnt right and all, and he knows that im gay cuz i have those pride converse but anyway, i wasnt contributing discussion when he was talking about marriage being between a man and woman, and he was like “summer, i know you don’t believe in this, so tell us what you have to say” yes i dont believe in straight marriage, ew

@jh5401 2 года назад

I'm so thankful for you being open about your spirituality - I still identify as a Christian and seeing the increase of queer people of faith (and/or spirituality etc, whichever related but distinct word works for you) representation. I've found that being both is very hard, because I'm excluded from both spaces if I'm open. Anyways, thank you 💜

@lucass1717 2 года назад

The stories: nudes, devil's tango Keara: oops, shouldn't have sworn

@krisswiftt 2 года назад

Who else grew up so repressed that they didn't realize they weren't straight until long after moving out of their parents house?

@anadd6195 2 года назад

The person that screamed they're gay at church - wow 👏😁

@gracefulolivetree4218 4 месяца назад

Okay, so I am not catholic or religious in any sense but for some reason this video reminded me of something so here goes. My kindergarten teacher had a daughter who was like four or five grades above me and she would come hang out in the kindergarten room sometimes and I developed this MASSIVE kid-crush on her. Like, I would get super excited whenever I saw her and would run at her and be like "Sky's here! Sky's here!" and follow her around like a puppy whenever she was in the classroom. I also remember getting kid-crushes on some of the eighth grade girls who would come help with our knitting in second grade (I went to a K-8 school at the time). Is it any surprise that I turned out to be gay?

@GabyDeGyves 2 года назад

I'm glad at my school we just wore a different uniform the day we had PE, I cannot imagine dealing with changing rooms as a pre-teen/teen

@agustinaledesma2957 2 года назад

6:00 No. Bullying someone for being gay means you have homophobic views and prejudices, not that you're automatically queer. That's such a bad take and it only enables homophobes into not taking accountability, and makes the community responsible for "hurting each other".

@missjakson9028 2 года назад

did not went to a catholic/religious specific school. But my country is overall very religious, so we have religion classes from first grade to last year of highschool....and i had nice teachers some really crazy teachers...in high school, i had this one cool teacher he was a pastor, he was joking with us, put us movies and answered our questions and he was open to talk about anything from moral dilemmas to demonic possessions. But the breaking point was homosexuality. He literally compared gay people displaying public affection to someone forcefully coming into his house and taking a shit in his living room. and the whole class revolted. He basicaly said he cant accept when their freedom is infringing on his freedom, of not seeing same sex relationships publicly

@ryanmorejon5813 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing these videos with us Keara ❤️🏳️‍🌈

@gemma3021 2 года назад

Me and my friend used to…explore each other when we were like 9 and 10 lol. We’d also pretend we were pregnant and do like “checkups” on each other. And when we would play with our Barbie dolls we would make them kiss and “make babies” and shii😭 And we’d watch ✨videos✨ together 💀 God I hope my parents don’t see this.

@geumdisrud3720 2 года назад

I absolutely LOVE your view on religion it makes me feel so valid. I've had quite a few anxiety issues from living in a small town that's really homophobic and I'm a closeted fem lesbian so basically my small town school sounds like your catholic school

@loupelizzo2399 2 года назад

I enjoyed this video a lot as usual with you again and loved and agreed with all your advice and tips. Thank you so much again and just love these videos a lot and love you so much.

@Nagitokomaedaaa Год назад

There was this girl I liked in middle school and we started dating and my parents checked my phone and found out and I told them “I’m not gay I just started dating her cause she told me she liked me and I felt bad”. They believed me and I broke up with her the next day, I still know her and I have a huge crush on her and idk what to do.

@CITornado 2 года назад

When I was in elementary school, me and some of my friends would streak around the swim locker room, 2 years latted, and lots of self discovery I came out to this same frineds

@charlie_solace 2 года назад

At the summer camp that I go to, there are cabins for guys, girls and nonbinary people an it is based on how you identify so a trans guy can sleep in the guys cabin or a trans girl could sleep in the girls cabin

@ericadattilo442 2 года назад

Proud to say Keara was one of my first gay awakenings here in YT

@wolfsign9168 2 года назад

Im an Atheist but im glad u mentioned that not all religious people are homophobes etc. Within less religious spaces a lot of the time there is the idea that religious people are 'dumb and hateful' But that just pisses me off. Like its literally generalising a whole group of people in a shitty way... why? There are def things we need to tackle within religious spaces but the people who are fighting loudest for those changes are often religous themselves and have a far more intimate knowledge and experience to speak on that stuff.

@jerrykitich3318 2 года назад

On day 1 of high school, not really having met any of the other students, a girl went after me with ethnic hatred right after the teacher read the roll. She immediately demanded to know my ethnicy and thus my religion. She also disputed the neutral answer I gave. She turned out to be Catholic and I am not. My legal first name is common to either group in that part of the world. She also turned out to be a lesbian, I found out much later on. I think today that she was overdoing the ethnic hatred because she dreaded the day she would have to tell her father and mother why she wasn't making ethnically pure babies. She was playing the dutiful daughter in the meantime, to chalk up brownie points. Otherwise, I can't imagine why someone of my age would be so supportive of a WW2 Nazi era regime. We avoided each other for the remainder of school.

@diegowolfe2744 2 месяца назад

I much rather the word Saphic for all the WlW content that has true substance and purpose!!!! Like even as a femme presenting trans-enby (still mostly shell stage) I consider myself saphic!

@AphelionBooks 2 года назад

5:40 i legit got god's not dead closing argument vibes from this.

@Zachyboy413 2 года назад

16:14 couldn't be more true my only middle school friend got called the f slur and they told a teacher and absolutely nothing happened the student wasn't even talked to. I didn't go to a Cristian school. Also I don't know the time stamp but these 2 girls bullied me and the person in the other story because we're gay and said that we were dating. In high school the 2 girls I caught them making out. Turns out they were dating since 6th grade.

@briannaromero5943 2 года назад

this is so funny because when i was in like 2nd grade, me and this girl were totally into eachother and we would go behind the playground ans like kiss and "make out" and cuddle until our parents came to pick us up. she unfortunately moved away but when she comes back after we graduate, were getting married. also thank you sm for this channel it really helped me accept who i am

@Allysepearl 2 года назад

Keara: LGBTQ+ and not super religous Also Keara: wears a cross necklace

@MP-kc8nr 2 года назад

I just want to say that you are so so pretty, and your videos are very comforting and entertaining, lots of love

@brendonuriestan9358 2 года назад

Lol funny story so one time my "straight" 70 year old homophobic pastor at my school described *in detail* how gay seggs works. In front of the whole school. My friends group and I (all very gay) were sitting there trying not to laugh and everyone else was just😯

@ChiaraFacciolo 2 года назад

I went to a private catholic high school in Italy and you might think that going into a place like this and being lesbian and gender fluid might have been probably the worst idea ever... BUT NOOO In my school, from teachers to nuns, everybody was super open minded and super supportive. Plus half of the students were LGBTQIA lmao So yeah it was a great five years (in Italy there's 5 years of high school) Just wanted to share some catholic/LGBTQIA good experiences

@jillroeleven1369 Год назад

So I didn't realize being curious about what your friends body looks like at age 4 is normal until I worked with 4/5 year olds. I always thought I was weird for being so curious but is indeed very normal and part of growing up and learning and developing. love you channel. I recently found out I'm non binary and your channel really helps me!

@Talon5Karrde 2 года назад

@12:48 - The older I get, the more I think this is not about sex and more about no teen pregnancies... i.e. They can stick their head in the sand about b/b or g/g sex. Just, if you are all in a room, then the couple would have to not mind been seen, and the others would have to not mind watching/hearing... Also, really good blackmail material...

@sadieeekp 2 года назад

Hi Keara I love your videos so much! Thank you for all you do 💛

@me-cn3im 2 года назад

In the girls changing room, my gym teacher said we were not allowed to change in the stalls or else we would get in trouble. We also had assigned lockers so we had to change by our lockers luckily mine was by the wall and I could face the wall. She would also know if we left the changing room because she had an office inside the changing room with a BIG window. She was either doing work or looking at us to make sure we weren't getting into trouble. 😑

@ellie9380 2 года назад

oh my gosh! they banned having more than one rainbow loom bracelet at my catholic elementary school because it looked "unprofessional"

@moose6089 2 года назад

Mine is kind of funny I used to go to this church youth group till I was in middle school and my church never mentioned anything about being gay at all because we were children and we all had gay crushes on each other literally it was just so gay and I don’t think the adults realize but almost every single girl had a crush on another girl same with guys and now almost all of us are gay now

@ashflight2470 Год назад

I used to be that homophobic person, and now I'm bi; I felt so bad about it and texted apologies to all my queer friends whose numbers I had.

@Escap3ist 2 года назад

I have no proof so I can't say for sure, but I'm fairly certain that my old English teacher was homophobic and the only evidence I have of this is three things: - He immediately decided that he didn't like me and I assume its because I was the most tomboyish girl in the class - He said that "Lesbian" was a derogatory term???? - He just had that vibe He was never outwardly homophobic, but that could be because he could've easily been fired for that so I can never tell for sure if he was actually homophobic or if he was just old (He was the oldest teacher at the school)

@Unidentified952 Год назад

RIGHT AFTER THE BANDANA PART, I KID YOU NOT, AROUND 8:30 I GOT AN AD FOR A SHOW OR SOMETHING THAT SAID, “I- (deep breath)- I don’t even know where to start.” AND I LEGIT LET IT PLAY FOR A FEW SECONDS BEFORE I REALIZED IT WASNT APART OF THE VIDEO😂

@roomfullofrocks275 2 года назад

Honestly sometimes I forget people unironically think/say ‘I didn’t know gay people actually existed’. Me and my queer friend group say this to each kinda thing to each other so much that it feels so weird to hear it seriously

@unstableratdog4179 2 года назад

My school was mostly accepting of queer people but the catholic school board wasn’t . A few years ago it was like era like the don’t ask don’t tell era of the military. But my principal when I was in grade 2 made the mistake of accidentally coming out. She was only our principal for 1 year. (Edit): apparently she was actually only at my school for less than a month

@inouridletown 2 года назад

Love You Keara!!

@Imanacrlesbian1234 Месяц назад

How did I get a Bible ad before this💀💀💀

@Robin_hood.100 Месяц назад

LOLLLL, I keep on getting them too and as a Hindu enby I just stare at it with confusion

@sondergyatt 2 года назад

Hi!! I know that technically I probably should have said this before the video was uploaded but here’s my story :) I’m ten and on Friday I’m going to start at this catholic school (grades pre k-8th) with super strict uniforms, also every Thursday all 400 kids in the school attend mandatory mass at the church next door. I’m non-binary and lesbian and I’ve already met all of the teachers and they are all transphobic and homophobic, I’m AFAB so I have to wear the girls uniform... and change in the same room as all of the tall girls after volleyball practice... anyways that’s my story so far, wish me luck? P.S. I came out to my school and family as non-binary and that is the reason that I am going there... P.P.S. I’m 5’4” and taller than most of the teachers :) this should be fun... *Anxiety*