Reasons Not to Worry What Others Think

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It’s generally a good idea to care about other people’s opinions to some degree, as they could contain some worthwhile insight. But focusing on them too much to the point that we spend hours and hours dwelling on what people might think can leave us in agony. It’s not only potentially harmful but also unnecessary. This video explains why based on several concepts from psychology and philosophy. Hence, 7 reasons not to worry about what others think.
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00:00 - Intro
00:46 - (1) You're giving away your power
01:55 - (2) It's beyond your control
03:22 - (3) It's a reflection of them - not you
04:53 - (4) You're not the center of the universe
06:37 - (5) It destroys authenticity
08:12 - (6) Life is too short
09:59 - (7) You know yourself best
#worrying #motivation #stoicism

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@timlee2580 2 года назад

"Stop trying to be liked by everyone. You don't even like everyone"

@glennmccudden8574 Год назад

That's absolutely right. I'm straight forward to People yes and no Black and white. Don't care if people like me Or hate me. I was talking to A hippie chick. Homosexaul Was brought up. She was Camp. So I said to her. To Each there own. She raved On about iher sex. So again I REPEAT the same to each There own as long as you Don't shove it down my Neck. Other people were there Too. No one said a thing. And she left. And I thought She had to except it or Didn't. But I wasn't rude To her. To each there own. And go live your life.

@caldwelllittleton4903 10 месяцев назад

@@AmitKolekar-ie5ph😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@TJTHABOSS 10 месяцев назад

Literally never heard that before genius!😊

@elstherley228 9 месяцев назад

Agree

@MacaronBruh 9 месяцев назад

@@caldwelllittleton4903what

@Dacademeca 3 года назад

*"Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner."* - Lao Tzu

@PeakHealthTypicalLiving 3 года назад

That one is very powerful!!

@Ayztee23 3 года назад

@Big Limmy knowing things is great, the more you know the better. so keep on learning and do things you want.

@nuggetsss2526 3 года назад

Yes. Let's ignore others

@hieroprotoganist3440 3 года назад

Care about your body and you will be always it's prisoner.

@EmilBlueMan 3 года назад

I have had that problem all my life, and still do a bit. But this quote is so true! I need to remind myself ones in a while not to worry what people think.

@jorianx2197 3 года назад

As my Grandma used to say "don't worry about what they think, they ain't feeding you."

@Tiffany-mw1du 3 года назад

Or they ain't paying your rent lol

@True38 2 года назад

And in that exact sense, the only ones that are worth thinking about are those who ARE feeding you. As the saying goes, never bite the hand that feeds you.

@tos100returns 2 года назад

My granny used to say, "Consider the source and ignore it."

@mtn1793 2 года назад

My Gram used to say, go ahead and put your eggs in one basket. Then watch that basket dearly.

@C4INE 2 года назад

she spoke facts. I am on my path to achieve this sense of not caring for what others think of me.

@gregbors8364 3 года назад

“You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.” - Maya Angelou

@True38 2 года назад

Prove it to yourself. Show, don't tell.

@mtn1793 2 года назад

And no reason not to share it with those who might be enlightened and pleasured.

@fjj310 Год назад

Does she live by herself on a deserted island?

@alulim4968 Год назад

I misreaded it as "You are alone enough to have nothing to prove to anybody". Considering how I lived the pandemy, that made sense. In the current time, society are too broken and the tecnology and social media had isolated great amounts of people, and many of them are still trying to get aproval for complete strangers. Many people are alone enough they have nothing to prove to anybody, but they still trying to.

@blacklyfe5543 Год назад

You have something to prove because the burden of performance is on you and as a man you have to show results

@user2653 3 года назад

"What a waste of energy to spend this short and vulnerable existence wondering what other people think" I felt that

@clr977 2 года назад

Agreed, applied to the global populace. But experience proves that energy is gained FROM people, not from your own existence but from it interacting with others. This statement is like a beautiful oxymoron, valuable when needed, but toxic when overused, like everything else. Some people want to be Nietzsche, yet forget he died a somewhat dark death. Kind of a silly trade honestly, people like this set the foundation for us to do better, not the same. I noticed the past few years people becoming, almost addicted to influence of past minds. I’m sure they wouldn’t want that, they’d want us to combine their “new” views at the time with the new of today and the facts of the past before either. Really rational in my opinion. Most Psych majors I have met in my life are very bland and don’t seem to enjoy reality, according to their own words at times. This baffles me, they say the more intelligent you become the more sad you can be, but at the end of the day it is your choice. None of this applies to anyone that do not wish it to. Peace to all and strength through hard times, be stoic, yet be uncontrollably maniacally joyful in the moment.🙏🏽

@khimaros 2 года назад

@@clr977 wise words, basically, forge your own path but try not to be a dick whilst you’re doing it…

@clr977 2 года назад

@@khimaros Exactly, inevitably, in a world where most cannot fly, a hawk will look like a vulture. It’s almost impossible to “forge your own path” without seeming like a dick. 😭. I try to separate my personal life from my social life and only include the two in a vesica piscis. That keeps being a dick to a minimal and with least backlash. 🤣

@True38 2 года назад

@@clr977 Well, look at it this way. You can't control how others perceive you unless you're actually behaving like a dick to their face. Second, you don't owe anything to anyone just like the world does not owe you anything. So just stay on your own path and forget everybody else. What you choose to do with your life is none of your buisness. The only thing that matters is what YOU want to do, not what everybody else is doing. Because if you get influenced too much by what everybody else is doing, you're going to find yourself in a maze you can't get out of. You'll lose a sense of who you truly are and what truly matters to you. You know this to be true if you look deep within yourself. You don't want to do what everybody else is doing and you don't want to be a steretotypical man. You have something deeper inside you that you want to show the world. And only those with great courage and fearlessness do just that. When you act with love and abudance in life, you always win no matter what. How you want to be remembered in life is your choice, and your choice only. Make your legacy worthwhile because you only get one chance.

@dustydew 2 года назад

I needed to be called out like that tbh

@TheOverThinker92 3 года назад

I don't remember where but I saw quote once that said, "Don't set yourself on fire, trying to keep someone else warm."

@sorrychangedmyusername3594 3 года назад

Got it. Set everyone on fire.

@fredericksharon6908 3 года назад

@dizzy why do we need to be warm? To stay alive??

@danielr2194 3 года назад

@dizzy Valuable insights in this thread.

@bhavyajain336 3 года назад

@@clevername8832 just like my dad who went for milk

@JaysonT1 3 года назад

It's from a book.

@thomashugus5686 Год назад

I grew up with my mother saying thousands of times to me “ what wil people think?” It was very harmful to me! It contributed to a lot of issues

@Justanacc01 Год назад

Me too, and unfortunately, most people are like this for the same reason.

@lewin9841 Год назад

Now you seem to be aware of one root cause and that is more powerful and influencial than anything anyone has/will ever say to you, its up to us what we make out of it, what lessons we are willing to learn and what oppertunuties we are choosing to take

@bhaveshartsy7805 Год назад

Make a note, get a screenshot of these comments brother. you can now understand it, you have become aware of it, you got the power, now make sure you use it for your own growth.

@sinking5258 Год назад

As a chinese,so do I.

@melodyline2541 Год назад

I’m on the list too…

@lifeintranquility5322 3 года назад

"Be indifferent to what makes no difference." - Marcus Aurelius

@mcfcfan1870 2 года назад

Thats a brilliant quote

@NetSkillNavigator 2 года назад

for real!

@kyachevall3758 2 года назад

👍💪💛🙌👊👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

@mtn1793 2 года назад

And to that which does make a difference? In this age of ogres rising? What then is the way of a stoic?

@mis0282 2 года назад

it's too deep for me

@HumbleNewMusic 3 года назад

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” - R.W.E. 👊

@GamerSix66 3 года назад

It's difficult sometimes for sure but I do my best

@sardonicsisyphus 3 года назад

The Cult of personality is just that a Cult.. Free your mind.

@ZeriocTheTank 3 года назад

A quote I definitely needed to see. Thank you for posting, and thank you for those that up voted it too. While I've been dealing with stuff like this my whole life (like practically everyone), and I've been successful & being true to myself, I've felt myself faltering in my resolve which has made me a tad depressed the past few days. Feels like everything around you is trying to change you in some way. Sometimes the urge to just fit in is so great because being part of the collective is easier than standing alone. However when you realize that those in the collective will never truly accept you because of who you really are you begin to realize how alone you really are. That's something I'm trying to come to terms with. Sorry for the incoherent rant. Needed to get it out of my system.

@GamerSix66 3 года назад

@@ZeriocTheTank big mood brother

@PeakHealthTypicalLiving 3 года назад

I agree

@Chatsu8o 3 года назад

"Your boos mean nothing; I've seen what makes you cheer." - Rick Sanchez

@Erizedd 3 года назад

That's a really good one!

@hazeydayzzz5169 3 года назад

Lmao the wisdom of Mr. Sanchez

@rickydiggz104 3 года назад

Hahahaha 👌

@somchai9033 3 года назад

Great one

@verZatile_bmotp 3 года назад

Ok… now that’s powerful!

@brandonjoseph3422 3 года назад

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations “ - Bruce Lee

@frankasturino3416 2 года назад

Bruce Lee was not only a great martial artist but also a great philosopher.

@Dr.Jekyll_ 3 года назад

The best way to overcome the fear of what others think of you is realizing that you don't even control what you think, how can you possibly control what others think about you when you can't even control your own thoughts and feelings. After I realized that I literally spend zero time worrying about this. Thoughts about others will arise, observe them and move on that's all you can do. You can't stop them from coming because you don't control your thoughts trying to will just create fustration.

@smuella6454 3 года назад

Love this

@NoMoreLockedDoorz 3 года назад

Life changing advice 💯💯 I’m going to apply that mindset

@helenaville5939 2 года назад

Flawed analogy. You need to spend some time learning about how to be in control of your thoughts. But I agree that we should not care about what others think of us.

@smuella6454 2 года назад

@@helenaville5939 don’t think of an elephant. Boom you thought of an elephant. Her analogy is accurate.

@Dr.Jekyll_ 2 года назад

@@helenaville5939 good luck with that buddy

@mr.bnatural3700 3 года назад

"My Greatest worry is I will be misquoted on the Internet"--Lao Tzu

@sorrychangedmyusername3594 3 года назад

"Information is not Knowledge, but it is the sexual gratification of it" - Mr Libido

@fe9335 3 года назад

"shut that damn door if you want to open it" - Me, just now 😂

@terrodactyll 3 года назад

"Yeah" - Plato

@leebennett1821 3 года назад

"No Shit Sherlock"-Dr Watson

@stevemchadd 3 года назад

:))

@danielconde13 3 года назад

"Don't cry for the idiot, you'll be crying all day". Alexander Anderson, Hellsing Ultimate Abridged.

@kinkyii2405 3 года назад

thanks

@p52893 3 года назад

At 65 years of age I have met many people who think they were put onto this earth to tell me what I’m doing wrong.

@lavanya_s_art 2 года назад

My relatives are like that, they always find something wrong in everything I do. It's really hard to ignore those idiots at family gatherings and other occasions.

@p52893 2 года назад

@@lavanya_s_art Jealous of what you know

@junc2191 Год назад

Some people just like to preach

@Kaydewrites Год назад

That’s how I feel and I’m only 21 😂

@Kaydewrites Год назад

I honestly just ignore them now, we all have a different perception of the world

@nolisarmiento1719 3 года назад

“Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” - Steve Jobs

@thehistorian9871 3 года назад

Great quote!

@4Mikes4Mindset4 3 года назад

Guilty I am of that. Guilty I want to be no more.

@jsihavealotofplaylists 3 года назад

@@4Mikes4Mindset4 Use past tense and it'll have a psychological effect already

@4Mikes4Mindset4 3 года назад

@@jsihavealotofplaylists thank you for saying that

@user-zt5dj1gz9n 2 года назад

You die if you worry, you die if you dont

@cowboyofscience7611 3 года назад

I worried about what others think...until I realized that I will be dead much longer than I was EVER alive.

@kimberlyceulemans6015 3 года назад

Omfg.... That is so true!

@mistastealyogirlll 2 года назад

woah! That’s deep and kind of alleviated my worries. Thanks! Have a blessed day.

@cowboyofscience7611 2 года назад

@@mistastealyogirlll Thanks! You too.

@kani7188 2 года назад

The comment I needed THANK YOU

@fitlife1205 Год назад

Great thought… when u soak this comment into your head u instantly become free

@metamorphosis_77 3 года назад

I have read many philosophers, but, always, the one that stood out for me was Friedrich Nietzsche. Especially this quote: "And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music." The deeper you will go in life, the more you will encounter people who won’t understand your way of thinking. Keep doing what you do. Keep dancing and just let others think that you are insane. There is so much truth and beauty in this “insanity” of yours.

@immortalserito774 3 года назад

I think you're nuts, thus your point is proved.

@skyerscape8454 3 года назад

Brilliantly put, cheers for the quote too.

@martynfosterqwan 3 года назад

Nice seeing you here, Adrian, and I understand your use of Nietzsche's quote in this regard.

@robman2095 3 года назад

Or you actually are insane.

@fredericksharon6908 3 года назад

Word❤️

@jakeportolese4031 3 года назад

“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” -Dr. Wayne Dyer

@brees5697 3 года назад

Brilliant.

@AA-wc3tw 3 года назад

My mother treats me like shit and I don't want anything to do with her and she's super hurt about it and blames me. Karma's a bitch when you're a narcissist, ma.

@brees5697 3 года назад

@@AA-wc3tw Ouch. Have you tried talking with her about it?

@katybug6572 2 года назад

Great quote! 💜🙏✌️

@DragonTamer17 2 года назад

@@AA-wc3tw I’m in the EXACT same situation, and vibe with this deeply. Haven’t talked to my mother in years because of her actions, but she blames me and says I’m the problem. Yet, she’s such a narcissist that she doesn’t even realize that she’s the problem.

@briterry4961 2 года назад

It’s easy to say “don’t care what other people think” but it’s a difficult balance, because on some level it benefits us to care, being as our world is formed by those around us and they directly impact our life. I think it’s more beneficial to care less about the majority and more about the opinion of those you deem worthy.

@Novastar.SaberCombat Год назад

"Reflect upon the Past. Embrace your Present. Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled. But to earn final peace at the universe’s endless refrain, We must see all in nothingness... before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

@Jakobvielsted 9 месяцев назад

Good thought … that are some truth to you statement 🙌🏾

@IKEMENOsakaman 3 года назад

I think I've worried too much about how people view me the first half of my life. The remaining half of my life, I've decided to live my life to the fullest, just for myself.

@livingartdesigns06 3 года назад

Same here.

@rronsherifi4210 3 года назад

"Half of life is lost in charming others. The other half is lost in going through anxieties caused by others. Leave this play, you have played enough" -Rumi-

@mtn1793 2 года назад

A life alone is empty. Solitude is a double edge blade one has finally stepped back from the fray long enough. Where is destiny? does not just fade away.

@rayali9854 2 года назад

yes.i like this.

@ivorfaulkner4768 8 месяцев назад

“Be yourself: everybody else is already taken”(Oscar Wilde)

@ReynaSingh 3 года назад

Most people aren’t concerned with you at all. Realize that to let go of other peoples thoughts

@brownpunk1794 3 года назад

so true..something i need to remind myself daily..btw u are super cute!

@SD-ym1rt 3 года назад

I have unfortunately had some rather unpleasant experiences that are contrary to this. Alot of projection of insecurity was at the heart of this I believe, as well as a herd mentality. That being said I do believe these to be rarities and I am glad it happened.

@kdphotos4691 3 года назад

@@brownpunk1794 - 🤣🤣🤣🤣 You say you need to remind yourself that others aren't concerned with you at all, then you proceed to make a direct personal comment about a complete stranger's appearance - something they cannot change. Take more time to let that "not being concerned with you at all" statement to sink in. She doesn't care what you think about her appearance.

@ClearChoiceMethodology 3 года назад

If they have thoughts of you of any kind then they are concerned with you.. personally I always thank them.. it's not being concerned with them that matters.. simply as it states.. having 0 dependency on what they think never allowing their thoughts to influence yours.. if people talk about you good or bad it's because they're a fan 💪

@ClearChoiceMethodology 3 года назад

@@kdphotos4691 you're embarrassing yourself

@schrodingerdiscovery 3 года назад

I wasted my teenage years and my 20s always worrying about what other people think of me. Due to this, I've lost several opportunities in life that could have been transformational for me. I'm 33 now and I am not going to make those same mistakes again.

@LawysArt Месяц назад

You got this, how’s it going

@jonathanprince3724 Год назад

I stopped caring about what people think of me years ago. People always going to think good and bad about you no matter what you do. I care more about what God think of me more than man.

@sabrisaad8858 3 года назад

"One must be a sea, to receive a polluted stream without becoming impure" - Nietzche

@user2653 3 года назад

Powerful

@mairuzo 3 года назад

I don’t get it. How does one be like an ocean?

@sdla690 3 года назад

Like 'be water' as Bruce Lee said

@sabrisaad8858 3 года назад

@hentai addict GTFO dumb

@fe9335 3 года назад

@@sabrisaad8858 Lol so much for receiving a polluted stream without getting impure.

@rogerm3708 3 года назад

I was raised to be concerned about what others thought and found it to be so damaging in my own life that I choose to not pass that belief on to my children

@omeyiin1626 2 года назад

I feel betrayed by the things I was made to believe as well

@georgebell9634 2 года назад

😂😂😂

@thomashugus5686 Год назад

Boy! Same here! It was drilled into my psyche when growing up!!

@alexandermadu3801 3 года назад

For some reason my life has always been a constant struggle between wanting to be alone and becoming popular and social, it is a real struggle for me, I really do love the quiet life at the same time I love the thrill of observation and venturing into the unknown

@chickenstripsp4222 2 года назад

u can do both if u want

@p52893 2 года назад

Alex I’m 66 years old, I’ve seen the popular kids at school become total failures and some total successes. Instead of trying to be popular try to be witty, funny. That will exceed on the Social aspect. You speak well that’s why I respond.

@ServeraServera0 Год назад

Once you finish school everyone that was popular will lose almost all of that popularity

@SJC12345 Год назад

@@p52893 what if I'm not funny

@iiCounted-op5jx Год назад

LMAO SAME BRO

@miketython5824 3 года назад

“ The problem is we spend more time outside our mind than inside it ” - myself

@katybug6572 2 года назад

Lol great username

@zoorrken 2 года назад

No the problem is we spend more time inside it than outside

@miketython5824 2 года назад

@@zoorrken yes but what are you thinking about when you’re inside your head? You’re think about what’s on the outside(other people minds and opinions)

@zoorrken 2 года назад

@@miketython5824 Yes, partly. But im still inside my mind, I rather be completely outside of it not engaging in thoughts and just flowing, experiencing.

@olivermateee547 2 года назад

I spend too much time in mine and others heads. It's a problem. So you're quote is plain wrong.

@HumbleNewMusic 3 года назад

“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everyone will respect you.” - L.T. 👊

@True38 3 года назад

Perhaps but I love competing and destroying my opponents. It's one of the few pleasures in life. And people respect and admire those at the top and they despise those at the bottom. This is the problem with being an outsider, you need at least to find a group where you fit in.

@sdla690 3 года назад

Thanks for the opponents who push us to compete with our limit. The goal is within, so that it is all in your control

@hissyfitz7890 3 года назад

“I” am my biggest competitor. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@mr.bnatural3700 3 года назад

The quote is from Hannibal Lector

@kdphotos4691 3 года назад

@@True38 - you have no opponents. You only have your perception of others.

@MindsettoMastery 3 года назад

Those who matter don't mind. Those who mind don't matter. Food for thought 💭

@magill4046 3 года назад

Dr Seuss 👌

@PK-fd9fb 3 года назад

deep

@waynebaker4977 3 года назад

Good response…

@somchai9033 3 года назад

Pearls of wisdom

@olivermateee547 2 года назад

Not really. Some of the most mindful people have been very important. You just spew quotes that sound cool.

@Fear_Therapy Год назад

This is very helpful for those who are an overthinker. Thank you for sharing.

@bennyrivera7857 Год назад

Are you A therapist?

@Fear_Therapy Год назад

@@bennyrivera7857 yes I am! ❣

@highliving-animatedvideos5831 3 года назад

*Reasons Not to Worry What Others think* 00:46 - (1) You're giving away your power 01:55 - (2) It's beyond your control 03:22 - (3) It's a reflection of them - not you 04:53 - (4) You're not the center of the universe 06:37 - (5) It destroys authenticity 08:12 - (6) Life is too short 09:59 - (7) You know yourself best

@tPlayerioT Год назад

thanks!

@kawayananazioly Год назад

thanks! ♥️

@UnbaIanced Год назад

@clivehalpennyireland Год назад

Thanks for doing this mate

@satnamo 3 года назад

The trouble of mankind is worry because Worry is a misuse of imagination.

@plantmama7442 3 года назад

loved this , so true💯

@smuella6454 3 года назад

Really like this one

@cezarlacusta4955 3 года назад

I'm glad that I mastered this a few years ago . I can say that I can now Express myself how I want without putting a mask and without pretending to be something else.

@sorrychangedmyusername3594 3 года назад

proud of you

@cielmichaelis8426 3 года назад

ok but still wear a mask tho COVID is not done yet

@kimberlyceulemans6015 3 года назад

@@cielmichaelis8426 whahahah XDDDDD

@kayl2307 2 года назад

@@cielmichaelis8426 This made me laugh!!!!

@laurab.e.k.7437 2 года назад

How

@bluestrife28 3 года назад

I really needed this today after being treated like crap on a dating app. Thanks!!

@barbaramurunga3301 3 года назад

I am sorry that happened to you :(

@anitadarling4592 2 года назад

Yeah Im sorry but I’m also glad you don’t have to waste your time on people like that any longer!

@TimeWizard727 2 года назад

At 21 I got "be unapologetically you" tattooed across my chest so I would wake up every day and not fall victim to becoming anyone else's puppet once again. I haven't ever regretted that decision. ♡

@GayleCreates Год назад

Love this idea

@jsquire5pa Год назад

You’re a tool

@michaelparsons2290 Год назад

I like the creed that you live by.

@vihaanpant285 2 месяца назад

Beautiful facts stated.......absolutely agree,life's too short to be concerned about what others think Just remember to be true to yourself and noone knows you better than yourself

@Irisphotojournal 3 года назад

As an introvert I don't have much trouble with other people.

@airishviscara2326 Год назад

😂

@memyaccount8213 Год назад

Lol I’m an introvert, too. But my problem isn’t that I need to be liked; it’s that I fear being hated. I struggle with doing simple/repetitive tasks too slowly, being disorganized, being late, etc. It usually results in a lot of negative or venomous feedback. And the bitterness persists regardless of how apologetic I am or how much I try to improve, so caring less about others’ opinions would be really helpful 🫠

@ServeraServera0 Год назад

@@memyaccount8213 Don't worry about having enemies, they are everywhere, even under the rocks And as you said it, what matters is being liked, having people on your defense But... Your context is that they critisize you for doing your job your way, not much you can do here, you could be more puntual, that is at least a thing

@xxxod Год назад

@@memyaccount8213 Just tell them to shut up

@tobyjuanbaloney 3 года назад

If anger is a punishment you give yourself for something someone else did, then worrying about what others think must be a punishment you give yourself for something that doesn't really matter.

@boritico25 3 года назад

Never let other people's opinions of you become your opinion of yourself...

@ZealotPara 3 месяца назад

I learned that one the hard way.

@Azir223 3 года назад

Hope everyone has a blessed day and have the courage to be who they truly want to be despite of others opinions. Believe in your vision

@apparently_sonam 3 года назад

Cheers bud 🙏🏻

@sheldonk5747 3 года назад

I enjoy this type of dialogue. It also sheds light on why I do not have any other platforms such as Facebook Instagram tiktok and so forth. I do not need other people's approval of what I'm doing in life. My feeling to this is whenever you seek out approval from others /strangers on these types of platforms it weakens you as a person and your beliefs in not believing in yourself and feeling the fulfillment that you need from only self. You are adequate in how you feel and not needing others to be on board with you to feel complete or correct.

@mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад

Agreed

@p52893 2 года назад

I could be happy with just a stamp collection.

@junc2191 Год назад

But how your boss feel about you, will affect your career

@sheldonk5747 Год назад

@@junc2191 my boss says I'm one of the best employees there and I have a very good record there.

@junc2191 Год назад

@@sheldonk5747 thank you for your reply. How did you manage to get such high ratings from your boss? My boss hates me

@jbear3478 3 года назад

We all have our own path, and that includes ways of getting there. If someone discourages you or doesn't show you support and it brings you down, their opinion should be like a brainstorm idea you throw in the trash.

@iNOS22 3 года назад

"Squat deep. Get money" -Sun Tzu probably

@johngalvin3124 3 года назад

'Cooked in the squat...' Zig Ziglar on Goals

@classiql 2 года назад

I felt that

@saas4987 3 месяца назад

nah it was plato dude

@mjolninja9358 3 года назад

Sartre said “Hell is other people”

@mjolninja9358 3 года назад

@@mikelisteral7863 Hell is actually dark souls

@Buzzoit 2 года назад

Idk why, but this gave me a chuckle. Perhaps because I work in customer service.

@danicorvin 2 года назад

But Cap... For them I am other people

@MyPersonalCoachingClub 3 года назад

Indeed! People's thoughts about us based on what they perceive often doesn't align with reality, and so someone's opinions of you does not have to become your reality, unless those opinions are relevant to you!

@nomorepowderpuff 3 года назад

If you knew how little others really think about you, you'd be so much less worried or concerned about their opinions. Also, why give others' opinions more credence than your own.. Do YOU.

@bryann9689 3 года назад

Ain't that the truth

@True38 2 года назад

If you want to get better in life and climb the ladder, there's no other way around caring what other people think. You don't get better by just listening to your own opinion. You need feedback, at least when it comes to working. Personality is something else, and although we can all improve ourselves personally, nobody is perfect so just tell people to fuck off with their self-righteousness.

@p52893 2 года назад

You win the prize for the laconic response with only two sentences. Impressive. You nailed it.

@nomorepowderpuff 2 года назад

@@p52893: ) But it wasn't always that way. We just need to learn MUCH much sooner than we do...

@p52893 2 года назад

@@nomorepowderpuff. I went to catholic school, Boston, sang in the choir in Latin. Moved to Los Angeles at 24 years old and was astonished because of the fact that I could comprende a Mexican news paper.

@Howdonei 3 года назад

RU-vid: "You shouldn't worry about what other's think". Also RU-vid: "Hope you all liked it!'".

@ayarikiyo2178 2 года назад

All truths are but half truths. Life is a paradox.

@Live4Freedom23 3 года назад

"We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like."

@True38 3 года назад

The majority yes, I just do whatever makes me happy and keep focusing on that :)

@nihilist6008 3 года назад

Yeah yeah we have all seen the movie, shane, douche

@yogendermohann 3 года назад

Bless you man. 1000%

@tool27 3 года назад

@Block Chain you are a very disturbed person.

@sorynn1991 3 года назад

@@nihilist6008 What movie? It is a cool quote that I have also heard but I do not know about a movie.

@LucasW.B 3 года назад

Man I really needed this, I hope this helps other people on their journey too

@TomFooleryTheAustere 3 года назад

“I’m quoting myself because I don’t feel the need to find a quote that aligns with this video’s point to illustrate I understand it.” -Me

@abulhasnat33 3 года назад

Nailed it

@sinisterjuggalo4364 3 года назад

- Michael Scott

@asktheetruscans9857 3 года назад

That's great. Stealing it!

@Justineyedia 3 года назад

"The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you." - Carl Jung I wish you would do a video going into all the aspect of his shadow work. You delved into persona here. Love you videos.

@sabinabasnet7963 2 года назад

The world will tell me what???

@Justineyedia 2 года назад

@@sabinabasnet7963who you are.

@sabinabasnet7963 2 года назад

@@Justineyedia i dont thinks so yr the world is only judge me

@raven.4815 2 года назад

@@sabinabasnet7963 Hmmmm, he literally said exactly that...

@PotofTreasureExplained 3 года назад

"We are a sad generation with happy faces on social media". We tend to please people we don't even know or like with money we don't have

@khydo 3 года назад

Thank you, I was chilling getting shade from the rain yesterday and some people walked by and called me weird...

@vampirethespiderbatgod9740 3 года назад

Then maybe you are...maybe they are...maybe everyone is.... A human mind thinks someone else is weird when they see something foreign to what they knew before.

@bobdiddlydoe7770 3 года назад

You would’ve been weird if you were playing in the rain too.

@asktheetruscans9857 3 года назад

When someone calls me weird, there's only one response. Thank you!

@mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад

@@asktheetruscans9857 agreed

@danaalfie Месяц назад

We are all weird. Humans are weird. Those people will realize that one way or another and get over it. It’s not your problem.

@WayneCXT99 3 года назад

"Don't care what people think but care what you think." By my mother...

@True38 2 года назад

How you think about yourself and carry yourself is what other people think of you as well. Thus, why not just create and be the very best version of yourself and surround yourself with people with good and winning character? Makes sense right?

@sabinabasnet7963 2 года назад

Umm hmmm

@therealjohndoe3862 3 года назад

When you finally realize that what others think means absolutely nothing in terms of you and how you choose to live your life, it is what can truly liberate you. In fact, when the screw turns and you finally refuse to allow it to matter, you will say "How could I have ever lived like that." Other people can only affect you as much as you allow them to.

@Zongada 2 года назад

Wondering how the character of Mads Mikkelsen in the movie ‘The Hunt’ (2012) would have responded to this

@halaenahurisse7799 3 года назад

"Focus on your own frame"

@Super_Broly 3 года назад

I recently got banned from a discord server for asking a question, everyone turned on me so fast and I really didnt use the server to be upset about being banned but what you said about herd mentality stuck out. I said something that the boss didnt agree with and then the herd singled me out and tried to use their power over me. But they have none, I was never in the server for approval from my peers, just to play videogames with like-minded people and I never even reached out to do that because it was a bother to begin with. They would only play 2K and CoD and chat was nothing but complaining about them whenever they weren't playing. I was sulking about being kicked out for something as simple as defending a game, but it really doesnt matter. I didnt know those people and couldnt really care about their opinion one way or another. Thanks Einz!

@fu3997 3 года назад

You hope one of them sees this which is why you posted with ur username so u do care

@Super_Broly 3 года назад

@@fu3997 lol naw, I dont have the same username on discord and that shit was typos that I didnt feel like correcting

@e_i_e_i_bro 3 года назад

What did you ask? 👀 Just curious. Seems dramatic without a history of this group being against you to begin with. "Us VS. Them" psychology is one hell of a drug. Starts young too. Our brains are hardwired for it from birth.

@Super_Broly 2 года назад

@@e_i_e_i_bro The admin said that Dragon Ball Kakarot was a trash game, and having played 100 hours of it, I was curious as to why he thought this way. but they moved on and as i persisted with my question the chat started lashing out at me, it seemed that they all agreed that the game was trash instantly without discussion. I dont play bad games, I despise them entirely, so much so that I've deemed good games bad too soon and never picked them up again because I dont wanna waste my time. but DBZK is not a trash game. is it amazing? no. but its a great introduction to the anime and adds clarity to a very long and messy story. As a fan, I can appreciate the finer details and small nods to the manga, and i can see where the game gets repetitive but so does every game. it was nonsensical but it happened and ive moved on, they were just followers.

@laszlomiskolczi2036 2 месяца назад

Hope you're alright. There are a lot of judgmental people in this world that don't care to listen you or believe in you. And then they come to you when they need help. You decide which way you go.

@justarabbit1982 3 года назад

As long as my dog likes me, I'm good

@p52893 2 года назад

Nine words and you said it all. Laconic. Sparta

@StarBerry92 3 года назад

For me its hard to just "simply stop" overthinking what others may think of me. Yes it does drive me up a wall and give me awful anxiety. Yet thats where my mind goes. Im trying to work on it but for me it is not just a snap of the fingers and done. A friend sent me this video, a friend who always tells me to quit wondering if iv annoyed them. Lol

@PriestessAusetRaAmen 3 года назад

Facts. I have been saying this for years, which is why I always tell my subscribers, I am not here for clicks and like. Never seek validation outside of self.

@johngarbutt2857 3 года назад

A man is being interviewed for a job. The interviewer asks "what would you say is your biggest weakness?" The man replies "I'm too honest." The interviewer says "I don't really think that honesty is a weakness." The man says "I couldn't give a f**k what you think!"

@loganwolv3393 3 года назад

That man seems like someone with spiritual ego. The interviewer wasn't at all reinforcing his beliefs strongly on the man. My answer to that second question would be: "It is, you just didin't get to expirience that side of the coin"

@7hilladelphia 3 года назад

Best, definitely 😇😂

@MegaAlsf 3 года назад

Haha now that was funny LMFAO

@PaulTavaresEmpowerment 7 месяцев назад

Be yourself. People will always have something to say

@granddesign Месяц назад

I think I’ve done 6 years of worrying in the past month

@realtimeprivacy5085 3 года назад

Agree. However in most instances when dealing with deceitful individuals lies and excuses are created in order to diminish another individual's character and credibility to present a false reason to keep them suppressed.

@seppyteppy 3 года назад

So what?? Even if that is true, its functions more as a a long way of rationalizing your lack of effort to change how you view others. When you should gove yourself the keys to free yourself, which is what this video is trying to do. you just gave a false reason to keep yourself suppressed, in most instances.

@brees5697 3 года назад

@@seppyteppy "keys to free yourself" Yes!

@asktheetruscans9857 3 года назад

Sounds like you just got out of family and divorce court

@manimations7007 3 года назад

This is something I really needed to hear and to remind myself. It makes more sense that when people online say their opinions about you they often may be projecting their insecurities onto you. But when they see you don't live up to their expectations it's a crime. Like why would you want to be a copy and paste of something you are not. I'd rather do what I like than be a mindless sheep following the crowd. It really makes you think that all these persona's on social media is not the final result of that person. We have many faces we wear as humans. The Japanese have a saying you have three faces. The first , you show to the world. The second , you show to your close friends, and your family. The third you show to no one

@fal4784 2 месяца назад

these type of psychological videos from different channels are not what i expected but im here for every single one of them

@HeatherHolt 3 года назад

The only things I care about what other people think of me is I’m not dirty or smell bad and I’m polite. That’s about the end of how much I give a shit.

@ClearChoiceMethodology 3 года назад

And you're doing a terrible job.. pee yew!

@cooperparts 3 года назад

Whatever stinky

@karltheman266 2 года назад

I totally agree with you

@BeIIeDelphine Год назад

What I like to think about is that everyone has an individual mind that only sees a fraction of you. It's not a single hivemind that combines all the judgements it might have.

@nathandrake9129 2 года назад

I've tried many times and I've honestly came to the conclusion that you are who you are. You can't change your personality, there's much worse things than caring what people think anyway.

@bigh7972 Год назад

As I get older the less I think about other peoples judgements/opinions. Now that I’m 60, I just don’t give a damn. If you are a negative person feel free to give your precious time to someone else. I’m not interested and enjoy my own company. Little mind means little.

@mvrao29 10 месяцев назад

Every video prepared and presented by this Team takes huge effort, extensive study, compilation of subject matter, interconnection of topics and vast knowledge. I feel that they are a genuine TEAM that are themselves at self-actualization level. ❤

@iamexisting5992 Год назад

Sometimes if you’re worried about what someone thinks about you can just think about how they might be worrying about what you think of them

@edgarguzman8888 3 года назад

Other people's opinions about you, are none of your business! Focus on your purpose 💪🏼

@ElizabethGonzalez-hl9ls Год назад

Im glad this video was suggested to me, I needed this … I would teach my daughter to worry about other’s opinions because I was taught that, but seeing this opened my mind

@johnmcallister9678 3 года назад

Thank you for this, it is not new to me, but it is a perfectly timed reminder. I have been causing myself pain, concerning myself with the opinion and views of others, that I have no control over. 🙏

@dahuja 3 года назад

Living a life thinking about what others will think of me is really not living. It's like dying. Moreover, what others will think of me is not my responsibility. It's totally theirs. At the end of the day, why I am even supposed to care.

@livingartdesigns06 3 года назад

I have dealt with different forms of judgements and prejudices throughout my life up to this day. I am now in the latter half of my life and single. I pursue what enriches my soul regardless of what others think. I completely agree with Nietche's philosophy of the master and servant dichotomy. I have transcended that dynamic since childhood. There is a small part of me that is uncomfortable, sad, and lonely about that, but there is a much greater part of me that is strong, happy, and free because of that.

@p52893 2 года назад

Never apologize, you know what you’re doing! Don’t stop

@livingartdesigns06 2 года назад

@@p52893 Thanks so much!

@patrickhoneyman9019 3 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing this as it resonates to a degree. Being yourself without making others uncomfortable is possible, albeit within the space that modern society allows.

@WayneCXT99 3 года назад

"But we can influence people" sounds like The Art of War to me

@indridcold8433 2 года назад

I care nothing of what others think of me. This may be why I have no friends. People are likely embarrassed of being around me. Since I do not follow the status quo, it is likely others want no association with me for fear they will be judged like me. They are slaves to the social herd mentality. I am free and follow no herds.

@sunnydaze2359 2 года назад

I don’t really think of anyone as being a loser ,& I have always been for the underdog. Just remember that loser in someone’s eyes could be a winner in someone else’s eyes. ❤️

@indridcold8433 2 года назад

@@sunnydaze2359 Nobody knows me. Thus, nobody will think anything positive of me. I have truly am a loser. Everything I do ends in ruin or failure, save maybe my job's payrate. But what good is income when everything else ends in ruin?

@sunnydaze2359 2 года назад

I’m sorry but I see 196 people that seem to care about you enough to subscribe to you. Does that sound like a loser ? Very few people have that many subscribers unless they’re famous so there must be something special about you . ❤️👍

@samratchattopadhyay3057 3 года назад

What you have explained so beautifully is actually the crux of Stoicism and the essential teachings of Epictetus. Thank you for making this incredible video. Keep up the good work. From - A Stoic. 😇

@marykrone5652 3 года назад

Thank you for this. I won’t cheat myself out of fully living by worrying about what others think anymore. Love yourself.. speak your truth.. and the rest will fall into place.

@jahnsymonrivera89 3 года назад

I only listen to those who genuinely care for my wellbeing for their advices are meant for my growth.

@kaizen_5091 3 года назад

This is my favourite upload so far. Provides such an amazing shift in perspective for me personally. Thank you Einzelgänger for another insightful video.

@renzo5172 3 года назад

I wish you have podcast versions of these vids, I usually listen in before I sleep. Thank you for your content. Helped me a lot.

@Nonoodle2 Год назад

I spend every day worrying what others think. It's genuinely 90% of my thoughts

@patrickhoneyman9019 3 месяца назад

Are you able to make 80-90% of your day what you think and 10% what others may think? It could also be a different percentage if that also works. Wouldn't that be a healthy rebalance of your day-to-day? Its not always easy but many are focused and busy trying to realise their own goals and dreams (you can make eye contact but it doesn't mean they're interested in your situation and are more likely focused on their own).

@Garfield_Minecraft Год назад

Someone texted to me last night and say “nobody cares”

@harishs7723 2 года назад

“So many who were remembered, already forgotten and those who remembered them, long gone” - 💯

@PeakHealthTypicalLiving 3 года назад

This is so authentic, to say the least. It is no-brainer, yet authentic.

@karolwithaz 2 года назад

So basically all that we can do is go about our daily lives without worrying what strangers will think of us as long as we are not inflicting any harm towards them

@XTFiles 3 года назад

Giving away power is tantamount to hobbling your own sense of agency for yourself, essentially imprisoning yourself in your own worry and thoughts over that which you have NO CONTROL. Good video!

@elizabethjennings231 Год назад

"You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. It's their mistake, not my failing." I have come to this same realization a couple years ago and I don't know how. It's so freeing.

@aayushivasnik 3 года назад

"Within the pack uniformity is a virtue and authenticity is a threat."

@p52893 2 года назад

Born in Boston left the pack at 24 years of age, spent 40 years on the coasta westa. Retired now in New Hampshire. Happy happy, joy joy. My wife said that I got out of the back yard.

@eliane8704 3 года назад

This was brilliant and on point. Thank you! Much love from 🇨🇭

@kevnar 2 года назад

I have a friend on facebook who does nothing all day every day but share posters about how they don't give a shit what anybody thinks. After a while you begin to wonder who they're actually trying to convince.

@MegaRobot11 3 года назад

it’s insane how i looked up a video that was posted a day earlier. this information has given me peace. ~thank you~

@RP_mayt Год назад

I appreciate your video. it helped me regain my confidence as someone who is occasionally insecure. I am a non native speaker of English and trying to do an English degree with foundation year in the UK is embarrassing (or should I say planning to do one, currently in hs). But if you love something you should strive for it regardless of what others think.

@mandybeth512 3 года назад

Needed this

@Amaryllis-was-here Месяц назад

Thank you for this-I always come back to this video when I begin to worry too much about my appearance or what others think It’s incredibly insightful.

@RJGAMESHD 3 месяца назад

This video was suggested to me via the algorithm and I'm really happy about it because it came around right at the perfect time. Thank you for making this! ❤