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Red Flags or Healthy Boundary Testing? How To Know The Difference 

Briana MacWilliam
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⭐WHAT ATTACHMENT STYLE ARE YOU?⭐
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If you have struggled with personal boundaries in love, and you find yourself questioning the line between holding a boundary and making a discerning decision in love, versus being emotionally abusive and/or manipulative, this is the video segment for you.
For example, a member from my online community recently submitted the question:
“I know if you have an insecure partner, then they might test you a bit before they feel secure and safe. And that’s OK. But where is the line between testing somebody’s security, or being manipulative and exhibiting a red flag?”
Today, we’re going to talk about the nuances between normal and even healthy limit testing in relationships, so you can make a sound and discerning judgment about a potential partner, versus the manipulative and emotionally abusive game playing that can occur, in the extreme.
In this video, we’re going to explore a few common scenarios that may leave you scratching your head, and offer clear guidelines on how to interpret it.
More specifically, here are some timestamps with the topics we’ll be covering...
[04:06] If a partner pulls back a bit after having sex for the first time
[06:32] If a partner cancels a date out of the blue
[9:05] If a partner ogles another attractive person when they are with you
[10:37] If a partner teases you with sarcasm or banter
After watching this video you will be able to…
Make a discerning decision about whether or not to continue a sexual relationship with someone.
Stop putting your life on hold for a wishy washy partner.
Stop being pushed around by the green-eyed jealousy monster and take control of your relationship.
Be able to tell when someone is challenging you to flex your “no bullshit” muscles, or really demonstrating toxic behaviors.
So make sure you catch this video; you won’t want to miss it!
⭐Want to learn more? ⭐
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27 авг 2024

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Комментарии : 20   
@dominiktadic6459
@dominiktadic6459 3 года назад
Cant wait for the video The way you talk is kinda psychedelic, thank you for putting out this type of content with this level of quality and best of luck in life :)
@ilovelearning6529
@ilovelearning6529 Год назад
My ex liked to test my principals and values. Although I understand his intentions but I was uncomfortable and feel like he didn’t trust me.
@cherylotinyhousecellist
@cherylotinyhousecellist 3 года назад
oh, how I wish I had seen this 12 years ago... thank you, as always. Better late than never !
@jennas.9063
@jennas.9063 3 года назад
Yes. Very helpful. I’m burnt out from dating but when and if I’m ready to pursue it again I want to have a better idea of what’s healthy and what are red flags because clearly I didn’t get the memo in the past 😣 some are more obvious than others.
@barryives4916
@barryives4916 3 года назад
Stop over thanking sex. If someone pulls away right after sex. There is a problem and it's their problem not yours. If you want to help go for. If not walk away. Inquire only once, Out of Being polite, No answer no response it's over.
@susansnyder854
@susansnyder854 2 года назад
Thank you Briana. Very helpful to what I am working on...❤️
@nellautumngirl
@nellautumngirl 2 года назад
Ooh I would be so hurt if my partner had pulled away after we had sex for the first time. You are so vulnerable in that state! I don't think I could have forgiven that.
@angelamossucco2190
@angelamossucco2190 Год назад
When a person is unable to accept any banter or sarcasm does it show an inability to be vulnerable and a severe insecure attachment?
@chrysanthemum3464
@chrysanthemum3464 3 года назад
This was so very helpful! Thank you so much 💜
@docnoproductions
@docnoproductions 3 года назад
I'm very interested in knowing if you're taking a break (and why) from relationships or if you're in the game 😊🙏👍
@heatherjohnson9001
@heatherjohnson9001 2 года назад
Excellent video, thank you
@tommywetegrove9227
@tommywetegrove9227 3 года назад
Yes.
@wildwoman4911
@wildwoman4911 3 года назад
Thank you! Yes, it was helpful!
@chrisbigarani1691
@chrisbigarani1691 3 года назад
This was very helpful!
@leamubiu
@leamubiu 2 года назад
I find a lot of people are hypersensitive to sarcasm, they stonewall instantly. Of course sarcasm can be offending at times, but I find that a little sparring, or even a straight answer, can go a long way to restore some connection without assuming bad intentions.
@TaMundas
@TaMundas 3 года назад
Yes!
@nihaofamily
@nihaofamily 3 года назад
Q- i've taken the attachment quiz (spice of lifer) but feel more akin to rolling stone - is there another , longer , test .,.?
@wehrlemama
@wehrlemama 3 года назад
Hi Briana, Thank you for your insightful videos. I am learning so much from your content. Question: Can the pulling back topic be applied to similar situations that happen after you've been dating for a couple months? For example, if we were not dating exclusively and then decided to commit to each other only, and then my partner pulled back. Or is this when it goes into the manipulative arena? I can't tell if he's overwhelmed by being scared of feeling too deeply or if he's regretting his decision.
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