Reimagining BDSM | Tshegofatso Senne | TEDxCapeTownWomen 

As a Dom/Top, I have to say this was extremely beautiful. All I ever want is to help the other to realize their strength and true potential; to help them to help themselves. In doing so, I'm able to realize my own potential in helping others.

You are one brave woman to publically speak about this topic as an African woman in SA. Respect to you as you know exactly your boundaries and what you want. Well done

Damn! I wish everyone would watch this talk and understand what BDSM is about.

Very well done to you! It's great to hear more people in D/s dynamics talking about the "deeper things" that go on in the dynamic. Thank you for your video. My upmost respect to Dom's and Subs out there, the D/s dynamic is not always an easy one, but so beautiful and so genuine.

Very articulated and incredibly well presented talk on BDSM from a personal view point experience. I really love how the points are broken down and analysed. Also the whole structure of her intimate journey is wonderfully presented, whit accurate and beautiful vocabulary. It takes a lot of courage to do this private type of talk on such and intimate and still rather taboo subject. I have enjoyed the rythme of her talk and the repeated team, ''He was my Dominant and I was his submissive''. I have only one hope for her, that she finds another incredible Dominant and that she shares her day to day life with him, but this time in close and personal intimacy. She fully deserve it. I am a lifestyle BDSM Master and I live out of the closet, but many don't and i can understand why. MC

wow one of the most courageous talks!WOW! Thank u!

I always thought that BDSM is something highly philosophical

You are a remarkably powerful feminine spirit. It was a very insightful experience listening to this. Thank you.

Awesome explanation. Roleplaying can be healing. Not destructive.

You brilliant ! Your conference is at the top ! Thnaks for sharing so genuinely your experience aand insights.

A brave and eloquent lady

Wonderful ❤ thank you so much. You did so well especially as you mentioned having anxiety. I loved your message.

Thank you for this brave talk!

Well said. Thank you.

Amazing video:) This is the representation we need!😄

100% truth

Beautiful, thank you for sharing

Wow.. So bold and lovely.

Thank you my lady

Great Dom!!!!!

THANK YOU!

Wow amazing, I love BDSM!😁

Wonderful

Nice ... love it ... thank you ... real talk :D

Can I use her voice for song?

I wish I could speak at this... I've got a lot to say XD

I am sorry, this woman's story just doesn't make any sense. You cannot have a BDSM relationship ( or any other romantic relationship ) without ever meeting the person.

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No no no no no no no she literally told that story about the elastic band around her hand that she literally used as self harm

Wow.. a PenPal... Umm ok.🙄

Спаси и вразуми Иисус Христос, вас, и всех родных.

She doesn't seem genuine almost robot like reciting definitions disliked