I think something I’ve learned with my bf is that you have to push yourself to communicate. I think we expect people to know how we’re feeling and wait for our partner to ask what’s wrong. Although that seems cute for our partner to be intuitive and figure it out on their own, we shouldn’t put that responsibility on anyone nor that pressure. I am someone who isn’t used to expressing feeling but creating a space with your partner whether it’s romantic or a friend helps form a relationship where both people can say things with respect and love .
Thank you so much for sharing!!! I love the fact that you also mentioned relationship with God because in our relationship with the Lord, we build the foundation for ALL relationships, including a healthy romantic relationship !!! 🙌🏾‼️‼️
Sara thank you so much! This video helped me a lot because I just joined a Christian school and I don't have many friends. This video makes me feel like theres someone out there that understands me. Have a great day!
Sara at this point we're COUSINS 😂😂😂 + for me, undistracted devotion with the Lord has done windersssss! Keep putting God first brothers and sisterssss 🫂🫂🫂🫂
I LOVE this. Hit the nail on the head. One thing I’d add is the power of NO. Saying no to protect your peace has been a huge addition for me. And that’s no to, not just friends, but family too. And then speaking up when a boundary has been crossed as well. Those who love and care for you will understand. These two things have really help narrow my circle frfr
Such a great video!! I think one of the most important things I’m learning in my friendships right now is boundaries. Not only learning who is a friend and who is an acquaintance, but learning when to say no to friends. We should absolutely be generous with our time and energy, especially with those whose presence we value, but it’s important to recognize when we’re doing more than we can handle ❤
My advice is always be the friend to someone (even when it comes to your family) that you wish that you had. Also always remember that God gave you that good friend or family member, so learn to cherish that relationship and be thankful. Many people have no one, so be grateful to the Lord that He loves you so much that He thought of you enough to give you that friend, that sister, that brother, that cousin, that parent that many people wished they had.
Say these prays it works very well God please give me what meant for my highest good (with everything) God please remove ppl that don’t have the best intentions with me from my life God please guide me towards my path and show me signs of what I need to do God may you walk before I walk, may you choose before I choose, may you speak before and I know as long you’re with me and I’m with you I will be set And your best friend is god tell god about everything in your day and whatever you want it to happened just say it and be sure that it will happened 100% You will literally see miracles literally!!!!! ❤
Relationship advice. Keep your options open when dating. You dont need to jump into the everything all at once. Thats also goes for friendships, be open to meeting people anywhere like games, grocery store, in line somewhere. Also make time for yourself whenever you do start dating again. YOU before anyone. I wish someone told me this out of college but dating yourself is a blessing as well. ❤
❤❤❤ Love love loooove your content Sara!!! I love that you embrace your faith and share it publicly, girl you inspire me big time! I followed you recently but I am staying ❤... One thing I am learning is to listen actively to your friend when they are sharing something with you that might seem small to you but it could mean a lot to them. It could be good or bad but just understand them and NOT talk about yourself in that moment... Like just shutting up and listen. 😂 #bigfatlove from Rwanda🇷🇼
I agree with you, I was baptised without my consent and I turned out to be an atheist, I respect freedom of religion while also having freedom from religion, I believe it should be a very personal and conscious decisions, and you're spot on about the friends, it must always be two sided, respecting boundaries and celebrating what's important to the other while also giving advice whenever solicited, being there even if you don't talk all the time as if time hadn't passed when you get to see each other. :)
Can u plzz do a video on how to find ur true friend or like how a friend should really be because I am really struggling with my friends some hate me and I don't know 😭 how to find a real friend So plzz❤
I was wondering if like, like you said about self-awareness right and to take what other people say to you and stuff, what if you oppose what they say or you don't agree with what they said because what you did already wasn't even between that person because they eavesdropped on you because you were talking to another close friend about sensitive stuf? am i wrong for calling them wrong for whatever this person confronted me of?
