Relationship Requirements 

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At this point, Idc about hurting men's feelings, you either give me the life that I want or I find someone who will. At this point, I'll go ahead and send my shopping wishlists to suitors. They're always asking women to be direct and "coMmUniCate". If they don'ty like that then they're not for me.

I think I’d rather be single & keep getting the money. I’ve gotten gifts, money, etc as a single woman more than in a relationship lol. It’s stress free, and I can still go home to my own bed.

Exactly. I told my current boyfriend upfront that I expect an 80/20 relationship. He respected that and has stayed true to his role in that fraction. He puts in 80% and I put in 20%. I’m happier this way 🌟

" ladies " Rule one....... if" YOU" WANT THAT MAN HE AIN'T PAYING FOR NOTHING. Men who want youuuu pay for everything.

side note: Ladies when men tell you in full glam they prefer the natural look/no makeup they are NEGGING! The same dusties will go up to a no makeup chick and say "I love it when a woman wears makeup and takes care of herself" I've seen this with my own eyes. #tea

This video is not for the emotional 💯

All the people who gave up in relationships on this channel don’t want to settle. Like Shera said you can’t find the “perfect” someone with everything that you want. You have to sacrifice on some things to get what you NEED. The perfect someone isn’t out there but the close to perfect guy is. We can’t expect perfection out of anyone including ourselves. I got myself someone close to what I want and so far he’s providing for me in the best way. He is a nice person and has good morals. I wouldn’t give up so easily unless you extremely picky, but being picky is just gonna end up nowhere. You can also get to learn to love someone. Those who are going for looks are chasing after the wind. Those who are going for personality and a good provider shine like a gem. I don’t know about you, but I’d rather shine like a gem 💎

Romance is a lie. Literally one of the definitions...lol then col 😭

It has to be on our terms and if we settle we will suffer... Keep your standards and we have to be alone for awhile to fine the right one. Learn about manifesting it works! We definitely can't get all our needs met from one person. This is why I have a handful of close trusted friends. Yep... I'm disgusted about so many married men hitting on me! Sick of it!!! It's been either gay, Narcissistic or married!

I can’t stop laughing meet him at the atm lol

They don’t make them like they used to. The ones that made the most impression on me were 80yo+

Ladies, Get ya list sparkling gold because every queen needs her jewels. Set your expectations high! Blessings and light on your journey ❤💥💋💯

I think I've given up.. I have tooo much going on to even start believing in anyone anymore.

Grateful to Miss Shera. Dusties are hardworking but she is harder than them. Got my Nigerian men paid my food, cinema and clothes. Since I am Asian, organically those men interested in interracial just like Jamie Foxx. I see some Black queen tried Asian dating in my nation.

This video came just in time ♥️♥️♥️

Shera you’ve gotten so wise and you seem so at peace. I’ve let my power go. You’re reminding me I can take it back. Thank you.

The perfect person will find you. Don't look for the perfect person ladies especially if your attractive and financially stable on your own. None the less work these clowns 🤡.

Shera please talk about how to ask for a monthly girlfriend allowance from your new rich boyfriend 🥺👀

Yes, ma'am. I leran femininity and class because of you. It was hard journey but I can't wait for my dreams to be shown on RU-vid soon. ♡

Literally my favorite youtuber y'all better listen!

It is definitely worth the wait. True love is irreplaceable, it's so valuable that you can never put a price on it if you tried. I pray every woman learns what that's like, transactional relationships are such an energy drain.

I love your eyes shape and color, beauty queen😍

Lol I have to take a break and reconnect with my self as bad as I really want to date around but I have to regroup. I love Shera's advice 💵

Hello Shera hope you and yours are safe and well

Sometimes we do clean out our closett

Once I don’t feel the passion I’m out

Nope😂Happily Single

Not me missing the live 😢

YT has been failing me lately, I haven't been receiving my notifications on time. : (

Hope you are doing well!

Sherah what lip color are you wearing? I hope it's yours because I want it!

Hey there, Where you at? Miss you!

I 💘 😻 this LADY!! 😃 #idhermajesty

Hey friend what was the two books you mentioned again?

Shera MY GAWDDDDDDDD AS A GAY MANNNNNN GURLAAAAAA YOU ARE BEYOND MUVA....... YOU ARE LORD SHERA 🙏. I WROTE A SONG ABOUT BEING LEVELED TF UPPP BECAUSE OF YOU

what do you think about long diistance relationships

Is it unrealistic to want a romantic committed monogamous relationship what's someone that is one of my relationship requirement because I don't like to share.

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I had a married rich man did not no for a while so I don’t judge

what does the positive aspect mean. it means stay in the now. think ack literilerly rich as far as you can do it. pucsh

hey Shera been watching since 2017. How do you link enlarging your lips ups your looks? I am African American with already semi-large lips and considering fillers this summer Requirements for men to settle down with : always willing to make happy and solve simple problems in the moment -has educated themselves and leveled their lives up in some way since childhood/smart -little to know emotional baggage or at least seeking therapy -likes you more than you like them/still chasing you Sugar Daddy - at least in top 10% of earners and has considerable disposable income to spend on you/someone that can afford to be -has respect for you -is consistent and does what they say -time = money$$$$

Old enough they don't say nothing 😂😂😂😂

Woooooow 😂😂😂😂

Hey Shera, I have an attorney I been running into several times at different events. I reached out to him regarding a wrongful death lawsuit in my family. I spoke with him and he gave me a referral to a friend who works that area. I ran into him again last night but he didn’t approach. I know he wanted to. We kept engaging in intense eye contact. He’s a well known attorney in the area and I’m finding out he’s married, so he can be seen in public approaching women. So I txt him just being flirty. I guess because it’s a work line he kept texting safe responses. Then ended it with texting his law website. I had to change the dynamic back to professional so I told him to reach out to me regarding the case and provided an alternate number. He says he will call me later today. I’m need advice on what to say to keep him engaged.

Is that the same for men. Isn't it emotional cheating? I getvwhat you are saying but temptation will be an issue if it is a good looking friend and they are fulfilling needs your partner does not.

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Okay, so I'm hoping you will answer this. I always need a boyfriend who is a mechanic and can fix my cars. HOW do I get them to do that? I'm thinking boost their ego and not give up the cookie until it's done? And I would have to look phenomenal?

Why won’t you use a mic :(

Lol comeon shera, U contradict yourself on law of attraction on your other channel , and then saying U can't have it all with a man . 😆U sound like a grandma when U say that low vibrational stuff lol . And U aren't a grandma are U ?well Grandma's can be either sweet and kind ,uplifting and true or negative nancyish and stuck in some bad past . We have pour out alllllll the doubt. We shifting to a higher newer dimensions. U kno how MANifestations come quicker and some others take timing to brew ! But even before these few years, IV met some sweet couples from yrs ago that make U pause for a few and Ur heart warms a little at the warmth between them, they have each other and less friends. So many realisations lately that time isn't linear ! Ur purpose was weldone and done , letting females kno the intentions of men aren't always what it seems. U helped highlight the flaw in the false foundation to help unclog the movement forward. So now it is able to move freer when truth of lies are revealed. Change. Big changes are coming . Hope U are having a great time away 😊🎠

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