Report My Friend for Committing Fraud? 

My dad always told me “When you mind your own business, you’ll live a lot longer.”

Who needs enemies when you have friends like this?

“That guy has a wheelchair and here I am using my legs like a sucker!” Homer Simpson

Karen needs to find something else to do with her free time 😂

What irritated me the most from this call is the fact she called herself a friend.

I loved when Jade said "she's home eating a ham sandwich and you're ripping your hair out" Spot on! 😂

"not your monkeys, not your circus"

It's not jealousy, its distain. The caller needs to let go & move on.

You called into a radio show for this?

The friend lacks integrity! You need to end that friendship!!

Most states have a workers comp fraud line. If she is that concerned, she can call it and try to get an investigation started.

Jealousy of a fake friend, stay away from the fakes

Sometimes we outgrow friendships. She doesn't align with your values, so maybe it is time to step away from this friendship. The most important thing is to not ruminate over this. Make the decision and move on and let go.

Because of fraud like this, taxpayers get punished collectively. The treasury never loses, taxpayers do.

She is jealous 😂

That's none of your business mam 😂

"Sometimes a friendship has run its course." Accepting that sad but true fact can save you an incredible amount of time and energy in life.

“Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future”

They were very kind to this caller, I wouldn't have been so kind. She obviously has a lot of trauma in her life.

What Amy really wants is to report her

I had a friend in the navy that was able to get full disability pay and jokes about it. It’s the integrity factor. Funny enough that safety blanket of a monthly check has made him completely useless. He honestly could be a doctor if he had any ambition but he sold himself out for a monthly check.

Ugh, spineless people annoy the heck out of me. Get new friends, lady, and stop being such a pushover.

Amy just went Ultra Instinct Karen 😂😂😂. Dave is right 💯 you become who you hang out with.

LMAO this is not a FRIEND!😂😂

If you can't tell a friend the truth and confront them on their messed up behavior, they're not your friend.

I don't think they understand what she is asking. She is part of a GROUP of friends they hang out with. If she deletes this woman from her life then she is losing her relationship with the other real friends in the GROUP.

They basically told her “mind your business lady” No wonder why she’s divorced lmao who takes the time to call a talk show about personal finances just to talk about your “friends” financial being

Not my problem, not my business. If it bothers me, Im just moving on.

This is why you don’t tell people shit. Keep things to yourself. I’m sure this lady has told lies in the past. If she has an issue with what her friend is doing then she should stop being her friend.

The people without integrity are really putting it out there in the comments. They really really wish they could get in on this scam and they're mad anybody would be bothered by it.

I think this would've been a call for the John Deloney show

I work for the post office and there's a poster on the wall in the break room that TELLS us to report it if we think a coworker is guilty of workman's comp fraud. It has a photo of a guy, at 8:00 am, visiting the doctor with his arm in a sling, and the same guy at 5:00 pm, rolling a bowling ball with the same arm that he "hurt". I wouldn't hesitate to report someone like that. They are stealing; plain and simple.

I would be rich if I had a dollar for every person I ever known that committed fraud. Leave that alone.

She needs Delony😂

To quote the late, great, DMX, “mind yo business, lady”

Never let someone else's actions effect your actions

This is weird. Mind your business and move on. Why are you even calling DR with this nonsense?

She is definitely jealous of her. And she is looking for ways to get back at her and hurt her in some sort of way. She is looking for somebody to tell what she wants to hear. Someone that agrees with her

Comparison is the thief of joy. move on and live your life.

Worker's Compensation where I live does all they can not to pay. So I am surprised they didn't come up with some weird reason to cut off compensation. You also have to have doctors look at you all the time and send reports to them. So I am wondering how this person is conning the system.

"You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with."

I’m working hard my kids don’t have money, my “friend” is getting free money and I’m jealous

She needs to be reported to the Bureau of WC. Wrong is wrong and she needs to be called out. She will be responsible for repaying all of that and my get some jail time depending upon the judge. I work in HR, I've seen these cases before. She is the reason that so many that SHOULD get WC, can't get it. It can be reported annonymously.

she’s just mad she was collecting free money while she’s busy working 😂😂😂 play the system or they play you

MYOB, the truth will come out on its own eventually.

she sounds a bit jealous more than frustrated. maybe the frustration comes from jealousy... im not gonna be mad at someone for winning against the system unless i wanted to have that. lol

She is jealous .

Amy, if you read this, I understand where you’re coming from about you work hard and others take advantage or get it easy whether that be things handed to them or committing fraud. I would say that once you distance yourself from this person, you won’t think about it so much and you won’t ruminate on it and drive yourself crazy. Thankfully, this person is a friend that can be easily let go and not family. The people I deal with this kind of stuff with is family and I wish they were friends so they were easier to remove from my life.

Heard a story about two neighbors calling the cops over an allegedly neglected dog. No amount of proof was ever enough. Cops kept asking them both to knock it off. Not sure how you would ever prove workman's comp fraud.

Sounds like she’s bitter that her “friend” is getting money in and not working while she’s over here busting her butt off at a job she hates for peanuts. This is not her “feeling bad about it.” This is her feeling jealous and bitter about that particular person.

Workers comp has doctors and investigators that determine disability. "Karen" isn't a doctor and seems to me like she is resenting her friends situation. She needs to stay out of it.

I'm with Ramsey, have friends who vote and think differently than me. Good to check my ideas, and they are around when the game is on and enjoyed!

Stop being a hater. 😂 She's just mad her friend has it easier than her. Girl, stop it, mind your business.

This is the type of caller to call L&I on a neighbor for doing work in their own house

She needs an entirely new friend group. She’s hanging out with toxic people.

Dave says it's none of her business? Fraud affects all of us.

Had a casual friend who worked for the state but checked in every morning, went to a second job and then checked out in the evening. So slimy. My tax dollars at work!

1:18 "I'm divorced". No surprise there. How lonely, empty, and obtuse must someone be to call a financial advice show for this other than to hear herself online? This is Dr. Phil's territory.

She's jealouuussssss 😂

She's definitely jealous. I have an Ex friend that abuses the WIC system. She wanted me to write a letter stating i gave her money. No...we are no longer friends and i just let it be. That's her karma....

Yes. Unless there's a reward, then hell yes.

Basically everyone former military collects money for ‘disability’

Bro what is this? 7th grade lunch table drama?

Frenemies 😂

Agree, You need to cut ties with her. She does not have the morals you do and as said you not going to fix her.

I was playing my then public golf course a few years ago and the guy I paired up with shared that he was not working & collecting disability injury compensation from his "logistical company - you have definitely heard of them" while we were teeing off on the 15th. 😂😂

She also needs to call her state workers comp fraud hotline.

everything moves at the speed of trust! I like that!

What kind of "friend" is she if she breaks the law and is committing fraud? You have integrity - report her. You have lost no friend here.

It’s easy to look at other people’s lives and not understand their emotions. I admire this lady who wants to do the right thing….while knowing in her heart this is a broken relationship. I imagine so many of us that are commenting have a similar situation going on in our lives. In summary, it is easier to solve other people’s problems than our own. Thank you Dave for helping us walk through emotional situations with your rational thought.

Something makes me think Dave would consider me “someone who votes wrong” lol

Karenism is at finest 😂

Keeping a friend that was your best friend in grammar school could be a great thing, or it could just be a sentimental attachment. Sounds like this one is the latter for Amy. Sentimental attachments to people or things can really weigh you down if that’s all there is to that relationship.

It’s wrong too!

They had a falling out. It's been YEARS. Either she always hated her or she is her in other areas of her life. If all the others in the friend group felt the same way, this woman would have booted out mean girls style. She likely turned them against her and her only avenue were to call strangers online, which says a lot. Smh. This lady is seething. 😂😂😂

3:55 NO SHE WANTS TO PUT HER NOSE IN OTHERS BUISNESS AND THATS THE ACUAL PROBLEM

I would absolutely report her! It’s weird that Dave and jade didn’t think of that?!

I busted out laughing when Dave realized Jade said ham sandwich 🤣

Those friends are gonna know who called in on her 😂

Report her then ditch her. You pay taxes. Fraud is theft from taxpayers.

Friend is a smart lady 😂

Karma will get her.

How do you know what disability she has?

This is why I dont have friends groups. I have acquaintances. Someone is always going to be misbehaving. Hang out with your family.

Sounds like an envious lady 😆

I wouldn’t even tell no one about my money blessing that’s not a friend

Get over it.

Be careful, some rather serious neurological conditions can be hidden…if you turn her in and you are incorrect, there can be ramifications for you regarding the situation.

Honestly just mind your own business and stay in your lane. If it bothers you that much then just don't be friends with her

She is not angry. She is jealous 😂

Truth is that we don't have many real friends. We have a lot of acquaintances but don't trust too deeply. My default expectation of everyone is zero.

Things are already "uncomfortable"

Why would you call Dave about this? Sheesh

Report her to the attorney general

Just report her to the Social Security Administration and move on.

So the bottom line is, Mind your business lady 🤣🤣

Wow jealousy at a whole new level

It’s not easy to cut people completely off when you have a lot of mutual friends and move in the same circles. I have an ex- friend I stopped speaking to after she said some foul, condescending crap to me and to service workers multiple times while we were on a trip. She also referred to other people we know as “low class” and brags her dad is a doctor. I don’t go to her house, call her, or hang out with her anymore, However, I have been to some events and she was there. It is awkward but I speak and am polite. I never went around bashing her to our mutual friends but they noticed we no longer hang out and asked me about it. I was honest.

i have a sibling that was badly injured on the job and collected workers comp for several years. for about half the time he was fine and healthy. that said, it isnt fraud. people injured on the job have suffered immensely physically and mentally. my sibling was physically fine but terrified of going back to work because it almost killed him, so he didnt for several years. not only that but he wasa chronically depressed due to the level of suffering he'd endured, and became addicted to opoids due to being on painkillers for years. injuries leave marks you cant see. dont judge people with injuries that you havent had. from the outside it may look like theyre living life and having a great time but the truth is most of these people have a justification for still being on workers comp, as they have to justify it to workers comp itself. this lady to me seems to be overly invested in what other people are doing and needs to mind her own damn business. the arrogance of assuming you are the arbiter of whether or not someone should or could go back to work is appalling.

Man this happens a lot. Up to you if you want to condone defrauding of taxpayers. You’re not a tree. Move yourself on. Cull your ‘friend’ group..