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Over the past week, a lot of transphobic hate comments came in on our coverage of the Nex Benedict murder but today, we're responding to the craziest ones.
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@KymGedinski-wp6iv
@KymGedinski-wp6iv 4 месяца назад
Fact: a Trans youth was assaulted by known Trans hating bullies and died. No matter where you stand, there is no defense for a child dying due to bullying. None
@kyleinthejar6829
@kyleinthejar6829 4 месяца назад
Exactly. Nex wasn’t a criminal, Nex wasn’t a groomer. Nex didn’t deserve to die over a minor dispute in a bathroom, and to suggest they did is goddamn evil. So much for the “pro life” party, I notice they’re the only ones saying this disgusting stuff.
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
Fact: Such bullies aren't as discriminatory as other transyouth are.
@SuperSimpForTheStars
@SuperSimpForTheStars 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICE girl what are you talking about, trans people literally get bullied every day til they either commit unalive, or someone else kills them. gtfo with that BS straightie
@Localcatgirl_
@Localcatgirl_ 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICEwow, love how your defending/justifying bullies who beat a child to death
@corbinallen4562
@corbinallen4562 4 месяца назад
​@@WAEVOICEI've seen a couple of your comments most of them tend to make claims you can't back up with evidence and are obviously made in bad faith due to your own bias. We have plenty of scientific and historical data that proves all your points wrong however you actively ignore those points in favor of complaining about issues that don't affect you nor anyone else in any significant way.
@255ad
@255ad 4 месяца назад
using the wrong pronouns deliberately is transphobic. Doing it by accident is a little careless but I've never met a trans person who's done anything more than politely correct people who do it.
@cherryfroggo
@cherryfroggo 4 месяца назад
I've known so many trans girls who literally never even correct people
@jurassicsmackdown6359
@jurassicsmackdown6359 4 месяца назад
The only time Ive seen trans people flip their lid over being misgendered is when conservatives are pretending to be trans for a "prank" or "joke" So... Only ever in works of fiction. Trans people are scared of getting hate-crimed for just existing in public, they're not about to make a scene about being accidentally misgendered
@Codisrocks
@Codisrocks 4 месяца назад
Bingo. Getting hung up on something like that doesn't help you.
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
You don't read stats-- got it.
@SuperSimpForTheStars
@SuperSimpForTheStars 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICE what stats, youre rtarded
@zachnesmith
@zachnesmith 4 месяца назад
I will never understand homophobia or transphobia (not like I’ve tried) but it takes a SPECIAL kind of fucked up and evil to go after a murdered non-binary 16 year old kid. As an ally to your community…love ya. Keep up the good work.
@djk5758
@djk5758 4 месяца назад
I used to be homophobic and transphobic, so I understand alot of what some people who are believe. I had believed it was dangerous to be anything but "normal". It's terrifying to know I would have hated who I've become.
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
What good work?
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 4 месяца назад
@@smokyquartz5817Watch the videos and you’ll get your answer
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
@@djk5758 Why did you stop believing? This tragic outcome should clue you in.
@djk5758
@djk5758 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICE the outcome of me discovering who i was and not living in depression or anger at people because of my anger at myself is a far preferred outcome for me. I never stopped believing in god, however i did stop believing that it was right to hate people for something they could not change. Who i was when i was younger would have hated that I am being myself and not what i was always told i had to be.
@veronicafoxx8590
@veronicafoxx8590 4 месяца назад
I have no idea where you find the strength to go through the absolute sewer dredge of these comments and still be so reasonable and calm. Your coverage so far has earned my respect and sub. Stay strong, my friend.
@thisisdeath
@thisisdeath 4 месяца назад
Even if you can’t vote, you should still take a stand against this bs in any way you can, people are gross, rip Nex
@adrielstout6844
@adrielstout6844 4 месяца назад
Yeah the whole LGBTQ plus community need to be protected at all costs what happened to Nex demands justice and I hope these people involved get there proper punishment. And the people of the board of their education committee need to be sued to financial ruin and put in jail.
@KindlyKalen
@KindlyKalen 4 месяца назад
As a minor, I don’t have a legal right to vote, but I’ll fight like my life is on the line.
@FlareFox9002
@FlareFox9002 4 месяца назад
Yes
@KrimsonKattYT
@KrimsonKattYT 4 месяца назад
Every last LGBT person needs to vote in the next election. If we lose America ends and we all have to game end ourselves. It's a life or death senario. If you're 18 or older and are a citizen no matter what gender you are, you can vote. VOTE OR WE DIE.
@FlareFox9002
@FlareFox9002 4 месяца назад
Yeah, its especially gonna be bad if Project: 2025 happens@@KrimsonKattYT
@bleubird7682
@bleubird7682 4 месяца назад
The toxic bigotry online is really disturbing and disgusting. People can make excuses for it but regardless it's poisonous negativity.
@kermitthorson9719
@kermitthorson9719 4 месяца назад
bully tactics 101, aggravate just outside the bounds of getting in trouble just waiting for the victim to escalate so they have the slightest justification to be at the least equal in blame the fight whenever they have been attempting to start that fight for weeks or monthes. next had been harassed for years and threw one water bottle so transphobes thinks they deserve death. fascists
@voltijuice8576
@voltijuice8576 4 месяца назад
The same people saying that Nex should just suck it up and endure verbal harrassment _for years_ are the same tools who cry crocodile tears and claim to be "oppressed" when told their bigoted "jokes" aren't funny.
@kermitthorson9719
@kermitthorson9719 4 месяца назад
@@voltijuice8576 it shows, nex put up with years of torture. these girls had a lil water thrown on them once and were willing to kill. Nex is soooooo much stronger than the murderers snowflakes
@Cap_Briggsy
@Cap_Briggsy 3 месяца назад
@@voltijuice8576 They're the same ones who call everyone who doesn't think their 41% joke is ok, a snowflake.
@unyu-cyberstorm64
@unyu-cyberstorm64 4 месяца назад
Horrible things happened and are happening there in that school. Killing kids, and killing LGBTQIA+ people, especially when they’re children, is wrong and horrible and immoral, if you support what is happening in that school then you should be put in isolation.
@MorgynGreyWolfASMR
@MorgynGreyWolfASMR 4 месяца назад
I live in Utah which is a very conservative state. I also work in my county library. I am out as trans. I am worredied that something like what has happened to Nex could happen to me. Im luckly not bullied by coworkers. I just dont understand why people hate so much. It does not make sense to me. If anyone is feeling down today remember that you are loved, accepted, and valid! I love you and hope your day gets better! ❤💛💚💙💜🌈
@itsniqilisitsme4701
@itsniqilisitsme4701 Месяц назад
I love you for this comment, you are loving and kind, Morgyn! From me, a fellow Transgender and Bisexual person, I hope you continue to live safely, congratulations for being out as Transgender!
@solomonverrico
@solomonverrico 4 месяца назад
I fell down the stairs once and didn't realize I had a concussion for about a week. It's pretty alarming how many of these idiots could be parents endangering their children because they don't know basic information about the human body, but I guess they've never had to worry about it since there's clearly nothing in their own heads to damage in the first place.
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
You're blaming her mother when she was sitting up talking to that cop just fine? And the whole hospital let her go home? Is she supposed to be a neurosurgeon too?
@SirMaddaMMetzo
@SirMaddaMMetzo 4 месяца назад
@@smokyquartz5817 nobody is blaming the mother, nor did the commentor blame the hospital staff, you just made that up as a strawman argument. BUT there have been reports of people saying, that normally if a minor looses consciousness they have to stay in the hospital over night to make sure, they are fine. This didn't happen, so there need to be questions why they let Nex go home, just like there have to be questions why nobody called an ambulance or the police over the fight in the bathroom. What OP is referring to, are the countless people in comment sections about Nex, claiming that because Nex looked fine, spoke without problems and walked on their own, they could probably never have a concussionr or brain bleeding or other things from the fight that could have lead to their death in the end. And if so many people truly believe that when you black out while getting hit in the head and you'll be fine, then yes that is a danger to these people's potential kids if they ever suffer a concussion or brain bleed and their parents don't "believe" that this can happen.
@actualgoblin
@actualgoblin 4 месяца назад
​@@smokyquartz5817 im not gonna argue with someone who doesnt understand basic health protocols
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
@@actualgoblin Then why are you posting...
@silverschmid4591
@silverschmid4591 4 месяца назад
first one sounds like an actual child lol
@HotDogTimeMachine385
@HotDogTimeMachine385 4 месяца назад
Bigots are inhuman. Take care of your mental health. And physical health.
@sharktenko267
@sharktenko267 4 месяца назад
I disagree with this, while yes bigots are bad and evil, calling any person inhuman is not ok
@heidinewcombe696
@heidinewcombe696 4 месяца назад
@@sharktenko267 I disagree with this, anyone who thinks they should be able to harm or kill someone for the gender they are, have no humanity! Human identity revoked, take a life and spend the rest of your life as a human study zoo exhibit!
@user-no2fj3qd6d
@user-no2fj3qd6d 4 месяца назад
I disagree, bigots are inhuman But you do you
@jonnaking3054
@jonnaking3054 4 месяца назад
@@sharktenko267 ok bigots are human in the biological sense BUT they are horrible pieces of sh*t and should be made to feel as unwanted, unwelcome and unsafe as legally possible. How's that?
@huntermello-potvin7164
@huntermello-potvin7164 4 месяца назад
@@sharktenko267 i kinda have to both-sides this...bigots are misled people with unique fears that came about because of their upbringings, but they are a global problem and a threat to human decency and freedom of expression. i would never say to go out and commit an act of terror, but it's perhaps just as bad to suggest bigots be coddled instead of treated in a harsher way.
@heidinewcombe696
@heidinewcombe696 4 месяца назад
My heart goes out to the community! Religion is the biggest danger to any person that isn't a white straight male. Just leave people the hell alone! Mind your own business. You have a right to practice whatever religion you want. You do not have the right to force those beliefs on others! Imagine being so scared of rainbows....
@voltijuice8576
@voltijuice8576 4 месяца назад
It's BS though, there is nothing about transgender, abortion, guns, or any of their other stupid talking points in their bible. They are only using religion as a shield. If it's not codified into their religion, then religious protections become irrelevant and these matters are easier to address.
@KrimsonKattYT
@KrimsonKattYT 4 месяца назад
Jesus supported women, equal rights, helping the poor, being kind to others, etc and heavily criticized the religious leaders of the time as well as the wealthy. I don't think the issue is religeon. The issue is sinful hate and fear that comes from the devil, who leads sheep astray by pretending to be a force of good when really he is a force of pure wickedness. God supports LGBT people! All those "religious" people who hate them are all false prophets being led astray by the devil's lies.
@Olliemaxx1
@Olliemaxx1 3 месяца назад
@@KrimsonKattYTIm not even christian but… Every instance with christians I encountered were the same “Men>Women” “Women☕️” ahhh christians 💀🤦‍♀️
@KrimsonKattYT
@KrimsonKattYT 3 месяца назад
@@Olliemaxx1 I've met some of those as well, but trust me, they aren't the majority. My mom is a Christain and is a hardcore feminist. My dad is more conservative and sometimes makes offensive jokes but even he respects woman. The bible is actually pretty feminist when you dissect it. My mother's college thesis was about feminism in the bible. She wrote it in the early 90s.
@edgyspaghetti
@edgyspaghetti 4 месяца назад
As a trans dude who is the same age as Nex in a republican town, this entire case is absolutely terrifying to me.
@GhostlyArtistAj
@GhostlyArtistAj 4 месяца назад
Not going to say my age just cuz- but yeah, close here. It fucking terrifies me, especially when I've had a few close calls and have to use the family bathrooms when someone else is in there. This is because I tried to advocate for a trans support group and I've gotten threats.
@veronicafoxx8590
@veronicafoxx8590 4 месяца назад
Stay as safe as you can. If possible, get out, but otherwise I hope you have safe people and places you can trust.
@KymGedinski-wp6iv
@KymGedinski-wp6iv 4 месяца назад
Stay safe 🙏
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
As long as you don't start the fight, you have nothing to fear.
@veronicafoxx8590
@veronicafoxx8590 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICE you have never been bullied, clearly.
@FlareFox9002
@FlareFox9002 4 месяца назад
That first comment, bro "Bath Rom, Giy, no way that dude has a developed brain"
@DreamLionViolet
@DreamLionViolet 4 месяца назад
I wonder if they typed like that to try get past the filter?? But they did it so well that it’s not understandable by anybody 🤣
@FlareFox9002
@FlareFox9002 4 месяца назад
Secret genius, nah, that comment fries my brain, it defenitly fried his more than American "cuisine".@@DreamLionViolet
@falcon_arkaig
@falcon_arkaig 4 месяца назад
The fact people think throwing someone against the wall and beating them up till unconsciousness is an appropriate response to water being thrown at you is crazy.
@PlanetCharnBaby
@PlanetCharnBaby 4 месяца назад
Genuine question: Can you tell me where you got the claim that Nex was beaten unconscious during their fight with those other girls? Because I've heard something completely different and I just want to figure out what actually happened here.
@falcon_arkaig
@falcon_arkaig 4 месяца назад
@@PlanetCharnBaby I'm just going off of the videos I've seen talking about this case.
@falcon_arkaig
@falcon_arkaig 4 месяца назад
@@user-fh6uq6wt7p Source please
@shirleyallen1418
@shirleyallen1418 4 месяца назад
Nex threw the girl against the wall into towel dispenser Nex told the policeman in interview.
@falcon_arkaig
@falcon_arkaig 4 месяца назад
@@shirleyallen1418 What Interview?
@GoldMan8322
@GoldMan8322 4 месяца назад
The fact a child was beaten to death due to how they identify themselves should be a massive wake-up call for people to grow the fuck up. It's 2024 and hate crimes still happen. At this rate I'm losing more and more faith in humanity
@nininoona
@nininoona 4 месяца назад
The people trying to justify the fight by saying that Nex threw the water, therefore they started, make me sick. How in the hell is that equal justice? You threw water on me, so now I can unalive you? How is that acceptable?
@Mae_Dastardly
@Mae_Dastardly 4 месяца назад
These are the same "people" that play defense for trigger happy morons that shoot people who pull into their driveway
@jackiemcgough2997
@jackiemcgough2997 4 месяца назад
That first comment has to be from someone who's drunk.
@HydroArchonFurina1
@HydroArchonFurina1 4 месяца назад
You know, same people are being outspoken about "protect our kids" and literally saying this about a literal child. That is pretty freaking telling. These people are freaking crazy and DELUSIONAL. As someone who is a Choctaw I feel so bad for them. They didn't deserve to be treated that way, they needed to be PROTECTED in school. What happened to standing up against bullying???? Like tf??? Just because they are NB that just excuses talking like that about a LITERAL MINOR????
@Iquey
@Iquey 4 месяца назад
They only care about their perfect straight white children.
@allieridgeway3670
@allieridgeway3670 4 месяца назад
Translation for the first one, he's basically saying, I think, that he is in favour of gender neutral bathrooms in schools? Though his reasoning is backwards, he's saying it should be a thing because "as a guy with a girl he cares about, they're not safe having boys who say they're non binary in the bathroom with them." He's also making the tired transphobic argument of "what about guys who'd use it to attack women in bathrooms." He's probably the kind of person who thinks the gender neutral bathroom would be a quick fix and they could make all the trans people go there instead.
@paulhammond6978
@paulhammond6978 4 месяца назад
Yup - the first commenter definitely thinks that the kid who died is one of those "dangerous predatory trans girls" they have heard about, and is assuming that Nex was amab. But see, the people who are in danger of being attacking in bathrooms are the trans people - I mean, in comments on THIS PARTICULAR CASE the fears of women being attacked by a potential male predator are being given a higher priority than the teenager who actually has died as a result of being attacked by transphobic bullies in a bathroom they were forced to use due to transphobic advice from the school board.
@SharowbladyeGaymerPorate
@SharowbladyeGaymerPorate 4 месяца назад
I’m so sad that the mods had to read all the hate. I hope they’re doing ok
@sandwichqueen
@sandwichqueen 4 месяца назад
Didn't you know that if you splash bullies with water they'll melt?!? It's a pretty well known fact.
@jurassicsmackdown6359
@jurassicsmackdown6359 4 месяца назад
If only
@ninahagn1519
@ninahagn1519 4 месяца назад
Thank you for that mental image 😆
@paulhammond6978
@paulhammond6978 4 месяца назад
They are witches from the Wizard of Oz?
@JPSportman
@JPSportman 4 месяца назад
Throwing water at someone is assault. She instigated. She committed suicide the next day. Completely false narrative that you’re trying to push.
@sandwichqueen
@sandwichqueen 4 месяца назад
@@JPSportman hun, you posted this on the wrong comment. I've never mentioned how they died or if they started a fight. It was just a bad faith joke that was pointing out the over reaction. Now for the facts ATM. TBH they shouldn't have poured the water. But to beat someone on the ground due to that seems a bit much, don't you think. If it was the other way around, I bet you Nex still would have been the one suspended. There's a big difference between self defense and what actually happened. Second, we actually don't know how they died. Maybe they did die from suicide. Maybe they were poisoned. But the report never said suicide. It said natural causes. I don't think it takes a genius to see that suicide is not natural causes, which still brings up the point of why didn't the police say that instead. So even if it was suicide they would still be covering it up and every adult that is responsible is still responsible for neglecting what happened. I'm sorry you feel the way you do, and I hope you get the help you need hun.
@Spring_rollzz
@Spring_rollzz 4 месяца назад
love is love guys, remember that! 🫶🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
@Im_niaxx
@Im_niaxx 4 месяца назад
If only some straight people think that
@Leethebeagle
@Leethebeagle 4 месяца назад
​@@Im_niaxx I was almost pushed to suicide because of these homophobic assholes yeah that wasn't all of it but I got tired of hiding myself and I felt and I couldn't take it anymore people will hate we saw that with reconstruction
@TD-py4qy
@TD-py4qy 4 месяца назад
As long as it is 2 consenting adults. No MAPs! No beastiality! Too many sickos who will use that phrase to excuse their evil actions.
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378
@alicebthegachaweirdo8378 4 месяца назад
Exactly
@El_chara
@El_chara 4 месяца назад
@@Im_niaxx When you see the number of "I hate my wife" jokes I wonder if they even believe in straight love at this point
@StripesChaosGremlin
@StripesChaosGremlin 4 месяца назад
The people trying to claim Nex was the one who started the fight are the worse, they willingly say events A and B are either connected or not based on which fits their narrative. No one, trans or ally I know or even met wants to fight. We just want to live our lives peacefully, but we will not stand for being pushed to the brink. I don't know Nex, but they sounded like they were a really cool and in tune with themselves. My heart goes out to their family, I'm sorry you had to go though this.
@Saturn_Drawz
@Saturn_Drawz 4 месяца назад
I watched the police footage of them getting questioned, according to Nex, they didn’t throw the water bottle on the girls, they poured the water on them. I might have misheard, but y’know. I think it’s an important distinction to make because water can’t hurt you but having a water bottle thrown at you miiiight if you get hit in like, the head or like, the stomach. My point is, you can’t IN ANY WAY say that that’s assault
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
If someone poured water on her, people would gladly call it assault. This has all gotten so twisted.
@Saturn_Drawz
@Saturn_Drawz 4 месяца назад
@@smokyquartz5817 even if we disagree on weather or not it was assault the legal definition of self-defense, "in criminal law, justification for inflicting serious harm on another person on the ground that the harm was inflicted as a means of protecting oneself" and that is copied straight from Google, btw. That is not "serious harm" and those girls had no right to murder that kid. They were not protecting themselves. (And we probably wouldn't have counted it as assault, we would consider it bullying which is also bad, by the way) but yeah sorry for using facts against your argument.
@Saturn_Drawz
@Saturn_Drawz 4 месяца назад
@@user-fh6uq6wt7p dude, you are defending the murder of a child. Do you seriously think taking someone’s head and smashing it into a sink REPEATEDLY is a reasonable response to some water? Because if you do then you’re the snowflake.
@Saturn_Drawz
@Saturn_Drawz 4 месяца назад
@@user-fh6uq6wt7p Okay first of all, what are your sources on the paper towel dispenser because that isn’t in any story I found, secondly you are defending the MURDER of a CHILD. Do you really think that smashing someone’s head into a sink MULTIPLE TIMES is a rational response to some fucking water. And they didn’t follow the girls in, they just happened to walk in at the same time. Ask yourself why you’re defending this, would it be different if they weren’t trans?
@colorbugoriginals4457
@colorbugoriginals4457 4 месяца назад
They seem to think there is not a difference between "accidentally" and "intentionally" misgendering. Normal people who accidentally misgender apologizes. Some people just suck at it, as long as they make an effort and apologize, it's not as hurtful because you know there isn't disdain and sadism behind it.
@jennifern1453
@jennifern1453 4 месяца назад
I wonder why people are so like this. A kid DIED because of bullying. And people are relishing it or saying its lies... it's sickening. A CHILD DIED, trans or not, I wonder what would happen (god forbid it does) if one of these jerk Conservative's kids was bullied to death. I wonder if they'd try to cover it up or make it a conspiracy? No, they'd be grieving.
@MmmmJuicy
@MmmmJuicy 4 месяца назад
Anyone who says that anyone "deserves to die" for simply existing is an evil person who really needs to reflect on their evil and hatred before they hurt someone. NOBODY deserves to die for simply existing. "Zero tolerance" policies for fights is a very bad thing because it stacks everything in the favor of the bullies. The ones being bullied usually don't want to get in trouble, they just want to be left alone. However, the bullies don't care if they get in trouble. They will poke and prod and torture the victim verbally and emotionally until the victim lashes out in even the slightest physical way, then they beat the crap out of the victim because at that point, they get in the same amount of trouble as if they slapped the victim. "Might as well make it worth it.". THEN, the victim gets punished too. People don't want to believe that things can be "that bad" for kids in school, but it can. When I was in school, I was bullied for many reasons, and the teachers let it happen and looked the other way. Even the principal looked the other way and dismissed the bullying saying I was "overreacting". I've been beat down more than once and only once was anything done and only because they couldn't look the other way. I had retaliated against the bullies on a few occasions to try to get them to just leave me alone but of course, I was the one who got in trouble and got beat up by a group of bullies on top of it. It felt like there was no escape from the torture. I almost ended myself, but I failed, thankfully. People wondered why I hated going to school. I loved learning. I loved learning new things. What I hated was the constant torture every damn day for years on end with no escape and nobody to help me. This is why I'm outspoken on a number of topics. I know what its like and NOBODY deserves to suffer like I did, yet it still happens even today.
@birthdaycake4636
@birthdaycake4636 4 месяца назад
People learned to be cruel from past generations (who lived in the Lavender Scare times and Anita Bryant's moral panic era) to spread it to other generations (this time the era of cruelty created by LoTT).
@jdmmg4904
@jdmmg4904 4 месяца назад
What does LoTT mean? I'm not from the US
@birthdaycake4636
@birthdaycake4636 4 месяца назад
@@jdmmg4904 Libs of Tiktok. A notorious Twitter troll.
@jdmmg4904
@jdmmg4904 4 месяца назад
@@birthdaycake4636 thank you:)!
@birthdaycake4636
@birthdaycake4636 4 месяца назад
@@jdmmg4904 You're welcome. 🙂
@deadpoetoftheyear
@deadpoetoftheyear 4 месяца назад
If Im informed correctly Nex had a friend that also was ruffed up. How hard it must be to go back to that school for them. To a place that killed your friend.
@Reinatakahara115
@Reinatakahara115 4 месяца назад
I've recently started my transition around 6 months ago and the amount of homophobic and transphobic hate ive received is pretty bad .
@Panguinolucy
@Panguinolucy 4 месяца назад
Well, I love ya, keep going, I’m proud of you
@Reinatakahara115
@Reinatakahara115 4 месяца назад
@@Panguinolucy thank you🩷🩵🤍
@bobdavis4848
@bobdavis4848 4 месяца назад
Congratulations on your transitioning, I wish you the best and I wish I could stop the transphobia for you.
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie 4 месяца назад
Big support and respect to you ✊🏻
@MxPotato84
@MxPotato84 4 месяца назад
Ive heard from Nex’s friends (on many videos taken at the vigil) that Nex prefers them/them and he/him. I haven’t heard anyone use she/her for Nex. I just wanna bring this up. No hate. Im non-binary as well and use he/they pronouns. Even tho im much older than Nex, this all shook me to my core. Last year, i got badly harassed at a bus stop in the freezing rain after renewing my ID with my gender marker changed to X. A scary moment for sure.
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
My boyfriend was stabbed and left for dead. He pulled the knife out and walked to the nearest business. A few hours after surgery he was cracking jokes in his hospital bed. People have really lost touch with what's scary.
@nio804
@nio804 4 месяца назад
​@@smokyquartz5817 What's the point of that story? Scary things are scary even if someone experiences something worse. Being able to walk after pulling the knife out sounds suspicious; that's a good way to bleed to death quickly if you're stabbed; you should *never* attempt to remove the knife yourself.
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
@@nio804 You're welcome to have him explain ot to you. I know it wasn't what you wanted to hear, therefore you decide not to believe it. It matters because the hysteria of the world now is slowly unraveling what everything means. It's moving us backward.
@nio804
@nio804 4 месяца назад
@@smokyquartz5817 What are you babbling about? Who said anything about deciding not to believe you. I did say the story is suspicious, but either way, my point stands whether it's true or not. As far as I know, coping with humor can be a trauma response (and if you're stabbed, there will be trauma), but it's not any more or less valid than someone feeling scared.
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
@@nio804 You went through alot of trouble to say you didn't believe it. Look what this attitude has gotten you, you're arguing against someone who nearly died to say being put off and being stabbed are equal.
@SharowbladyeGaymerPorate
@SharowbladyeGaymerPorate 4 месяца назад
Thanks for explaining the difference between agender and non binary. I didn’t realize there was a major difference between them
@SirMaddaMMetzo
@SirMaddaMMetzo 4 месяца назад
Some consider agender being under the non-binary label, some don't. Also depends on whether NB is an umbrella term for you or specifically only refers to one gender identity. It's the same with non-binary being under the trans umbrella or their own category beside cis and trans. Most would probably agree that by definition NB-people are also trans, but some don't want that label applied to them. Either because they think that being trans is the same as going through surgical and hormonal transition or simply because the label doesn't sit right with them.
@SirMaddaMMetzo
@SirMaddaMMetzo 3 месяца назад
@@JakeC-xx8zq I simply see it the same way that not every woman likes to be called Babe, Girl, Honey, Sweetheart, Lady and not every man want to be called Bro, Dude, Boy, Buddy, Champ, Darling and so on. Some are totally fine with these, use them themselves and some find one or two of these words offensive no matter if they are called like that by a stranger or a friend or partner. You can either do the try and error method or simply ask for preference.
@shameacortes
@shameacortes 4 месяца назад
I wish I had seen this video sooner and don't know how anyone can sit with such hate in their heart. I'm straight, but will continue to follow this and other LGBTQ+ channels because the best way to respond to transphobic hate in my opinion is love. I'm still learning how to be a better friend and ally through the friends and family I have, some of whom are out and proud. My heart breaks for Nex and those who were taken. Not sure I'm saying this right but I too, had to take a look into my own heart and acknowledge human rights should not be an opinion. We all deserve them.
@Panguinolucy
@Panguinolucy 4 месяца назад
Been keeping up With this thanks to you all at powered by rainbows. Appreciate your work a lot
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 4 месяца назад
You’re welcome. Thank you for being here and your support.
@Panguinolucy
@Panguinolucy 4 месяца назад
@@PoweredByRainbowsno problem, I’ve definitely spread the word.
@KawaiiCat2
@KawaiiCat2 4 месяца назад
Thank you for standing up for Nex and despelling the fakery. As a bigender trans person and an educator, I am so heartbroken this poor child had to go through this pain, never getting comfort before they died. May they rest in peace. 💜
@Dayglodaydreams
@Dayglodaydreams 4 месяца назад
St. Francis is, in general a top of the line hospital. Top of the line. Even top of the line hospitals are capable of discrimination.
@dontquestionmysearchhistory
@dontquestionmysearchhistory 4 месяца назад
One kid said the F slur in my class today I started shaking since that is a triggering word for me and then the class yelled at me for telling the student to shut the F up multiple time and asking the student if he was brain dead
@RenaMoonn
@RenaMoonn 4 месяца назад
Guess the rest of the class must be braindead too. Hopefully you have people who support you at school. People like that, even if they're not super knowledgable about queer issues, can really help
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
Check your personal problems before tackling somebody else's.
@dontquestionmysearchhistory
@dontquestionmysearchhistory 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICE Excuse me?
@PossumMedic
@PossumMedic 4 месяца назад
@@WAEVOICE GTF out of here you troll! How about you check your personal problems before tackling somebody else's? 🤡
@Koroeatspotates
@Koroeatspotates 4 месяца назад
​@@WAEVOICE they said a slur
@NYAtKitty
@NYAtKitty 4 месяца назад
Nex's Friends had come foreword saying that Nex used He/Him Pronouns with them and They/They mostly around family (literally only heard of this a few hours ago myself)
@NYAtKitty
@NYAtKitty 4 месяца назад
so if this is the case (would need to look into it more) then this is a direct connection to the bathroom bill/ law that was passed, that and being a hate crime and sooooo much is wrong with the whole situation and things need to change. This should never EVER have happened to this poor child...
@SirMaddaMMetzo
@SirMaddaMMetzo 4 месяца назад
1. Comment: Even if they are not a US citizen... this person is probably allowed anywhere in the world to vote... and that is scary. 2. Comment: As I'm white myself, I clearly can't speak on the behalf of other people, but isn't Black also widely accepted or even wished to be used? African-American can also exclude black people from the Carrabean, is what I have heard been mentioned. But personally I would say in the end it depends on what a single person wants to be called. Like not all non-binary people also use trans as a label (although we technically fall under the trans umbrella) and not all feel good about called Enby, or using the same pronouns, so I assume it's best to ask what their preferred term is? The claim about Nex dying from an Overdose is something I have seen so many times but never any proof of it. Instead I found an article that's 2 days old that first says, that just because the head trauma was ruled out, it doesn't mean the fight they were in did not contribute to their death as well as that the toxicology results could take months. So how would anyone know by now that this was a case of OD??? On the other side I haven't found reports on them being thrown into the sink. They don't say something about a sink either when talking to the officer in the hospital. So I'm not sure where that comes from, but I would be happy to get a link to the source. And yes I totally agree, that them pouring some water on the girls might be legally seen as they started the fight, but beating someone up who is already on the floor is NOT self-defense!! Not even after Nex threw one of them against the towel dispenser in the midst of the fight. Self-defense means you avoid immediate harm happening to you or someone else, but the moment the aggressor is no longer able to harm you, you also stop and flee/go away, not punch or kick or stab or shoot on to your hearts contempt... And if you think Nex deserved to die because they poured some water over someone, I can't help you find your humanity ever again... I personally would still not call it murdering, as it was probably (hopefully) not planned by the three girls, but killing. I get that Powered By Rainbows and others might use the word murder, in a sense that people who push for those transphobic laws are openly admitting, that they don't care or that they are even glad/celebrating that there is one less trans person. So their actions are aimed at killing us and therefore planned.
@desmond3828
@desmond3828 4 месяца назад
When will justice be served on a platter?
@KindlyKalen
@KindlyKalen 4 месяца назад
When we fight back with arms.
@kat8canary77
@kat8canary77 4 месяца назад
Oklahoma statute § 21-643 . This statute states that you are within your legal rights to use force against another person who is attempting to harm you physically or trespass upon or interfere with your property. However, the level of force that you use in defense must be proportional to the threat. As you have said, getting splashed with water is not proportional to bashing someone's head on the floor. Why don't people understand this? I got a reply to a comment that I made about Nex's assault saying there was no murder. It said that Nex was vaping and that was what killed him and the autopsy report would show that. Really? We shall see. I haven't had a reply to my Talk and Die comment. I pointed out that actress Natasha Richardson bumped her head in an accident. She refused medical treatment at first but had a bad headache and went to the hospital. She fell into a coma and died 2 days after her accident. This does happen with brain injuries. Someone looks okay but as their brain swells and bleeds they fall unconscious and can die. The 7 year old shot in the head at the Joel Osteen church shootings is surviving because doctors removed a large portion of his skull to allow for the swelling of his brain and have cleared the blood. It is possible to survive traumatic brain injuries but only if the problem is dealt with quickly. Nex seemed fine. I read that he had a MRI at the hospital the day he was jumped but I only saw that mentioned once. I have no medical expertise and am not sure why an MRI would not show a brain swelling and bleeding. www.thecut.com/article/oklahoma-nonbinary-student-nex-benedict-death-explained.html
@darciwasaman1259
@darciwasaman1259 4 месяца назад
Thank you for doing this work. It's hard, it's heart breaking. I'm in my 40s, and trans in Alberta (think Canadian Texas). We are all watching, we are angry and scared for ourselves and for our LGBTQ siblings. Keep fighting it matters.
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie 4 месяца назад
Do not sort by new everyone. The third comment I saw was “blah blah gr00mer garbage” 😤
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 4 месяца назад
We removed that comment. Thank you for calling our attention to that trash. Much love ❤️ and rainbows 🏳️‍🌈, Professor Pride
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie 4 месяца назад
@@PoweredByRainbows hello, just clicked to show my support for the LGBTQ+ community and to laugh at some of the comments with you. Like I bet that first person had a little too much to drink before they posted that 😂😂
@Koroeatspotates
@Koroeatspotates 4 месяца назад
​@@PoweredByRainbows hey thank you for covering the story i couldt bear reading articles they hit to close to home so thank you for doing this
@kermitthorson9719
@kermitthorson9719 4 месяца назад
the only thing ive seen our side call for is everyone guilty to be fired or jailed as needed
@TheNonEdibleCheese
@TheNonEdibleCheese 3 месяца назад
So Nex? Because Nex instigated the fight by throwing water on one of the girls, and when that girl defended herself by grabbing Nex's hair, Nex threw her into a hand-dryer. Nex's death, according to the autopsy, was due to suicide. So who exactly needs to be fired or jailed?
@kermitthorson9719
@kermitthorson9719 3 месяца назад
@@TheNonEdibleCheese The medical examiner is who
@TheNonEdibleCheese
@TheNonEdibleCheese 3 месяца назад
@@kermitthorson9719 Eric Pfeifer, MD, is the Chief Medical Examiner in Oklahoma. Weird that you act like you care so much, but haven't done a bit of research into this tragic case.
@Hey_im_Marcy
@Hey_im_Marcy 3 месяца назад
@@TheNonEdibleCheese the one who performed the autopsy was actually Dr. Ross Miller
@justnaidbro
@justnaidbro 4 месяца назад
Rip Nex
@amatanata
@amatanata 4 месяца назад
Hate comments be like - “how binray work
@PyrrhicPax
@PyrrhicPax 4 месяца назад
Oklahoma doesnt have a Coroner. We have a Chief Medical Examiner. There is a massive difference! Coroners are democratically elected, an not always required to have medical knowledge. Medical Examiners are unelected officials who are legally required to have a high degree of medical knowledge.
@roger1962retired
@roger1962retired 4 месяца назад
Some background info on the girls who attacked Nex and her friend, as well as the parents of the attackers, would be interesting.
@RenaMoonn
@RenaMoonn 4 месяца назад
And informative too. I just hope we don't have to wait months to see who they are like with what happened with Brianna Ghey
@ItsCoreyLynxxYall
@ItsCoreyLynxxYall 4 месяца назад
I can't watch the whole video because I've seen enough but I do commend you for responding. This is taking a lot out of me and everyone else in the community. It helps to feel that we have a platform to defend ourselves and educate.
@jaynederp5236
@jaynederp5236 4 месяца назад
Thank you for to the brave souls who are sifting through these comments and throwing the hatefulness in the trash where it belongs. Please take care of your mental health
@vintagecringe
@vintagecringe 4 месяца назад
Congrats on 100k!
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 4 месяца назад
Thank you!
@annalynhart4409
@annalynhart4409 4 месяца назад
It's easy to make a mistake on pronouns to. The best way to be respectful here is say I will probably make a mistake. I'm sorry ahead of time. Please correct me... kindly. Make it clear you are trying and open. That goes for taking to LGBTQ+, racial, and many other situations. It's just being respectful and asking for respect in return. As for the OD comment, that's an old down play trick. They did the same thing to Matthew Shepard. Anytime there's so much as a hint or any kind of drugs, or mental health issues, it's a quick go to.
@leekestner1554
@leekestner1554 4 месяца назад
I raised sheep for 20 years. One year I had three of my rams have a head smashing fest. I separated everyone but found my oldest ram dead in the morning with a brain bleed. They had seemed fine the night before. If the hospital didn't do an MRI then they could be libel because only an MRI will show the damage. An X-ray won't show the damage.
@leekestner1554
@leekestner1554 4 месяца назад
Sorry that should be "liable" not "libel",
@brendabowman622
@brendabowman622 3 месяца назад
Toxicology results say she overdosed. So, there's _that..._
@whywouldyoudothat1346
@whywouldyoudothat1346 34 минуты назад
@@brendabowman622 Oh dang, I noticed you said "she" instead of they. You must be talking about a different case because Nex uses they\them pronouns.
@jennosyde709
@jennosyde709 4 месяца назад
Maybe Nex splashed holy water on them and is why their demonic asses decided to attack him.
@dramonmaster222
@dramonmaster222 4 месяца назад
Thank you so much for keeping us updated on this story. And Thanks for bringing some levity into a 🌑 situation.
@nolord2563
@nolord2563 2 месяца назад
As a black person, calling someone black instead of AA is not racist. Are you serious 😂?
@d.r.u.
@d.r.u. 4 месяца назад
Whoever is moderating this comments section; thank you! I really appreciate when I see a comment section that isn't flooded with bigotry. Sending positive vibes to you!
@alexanderteaganfawkescrawf446
@alexanderteaganfawkescrawf446 3 месяца назад
I am transgender and, I was jumped in a bathroom. I have had head trauma. I have overdosed. Overdose and head trauma while they may have some symptom overlap, overdose presents far differently than head trauma. I spent a decade in nursing and this is something I learned in my training. Also, if people have no idea how to insult me as a transgender person, don't bother. I will laugh and walk away. Your bad English is my bread and butter. To add fuel to my fire here, English wasn't my first language either. How is it that so many who insult me can't bother to insult me with proper language? It is hilarious!
@migueldiaz2050
@migueldiaz2050 4 месяца назад
Screw these bigots & Haters!!! 👎👎👎
@desmond3828
@desmond3828 4 месяца назад
Agreed, fuck these bigots, they are complete and utter monsters
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie
@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie 4 месяца назад
✊🏻✊🏻
@KrimsonKattYT
@KrimsonKattYT 4 месяца назад
For the second comment, no, it's not transphobic to make a honest mistake with someone's pronouns before correcting yourself. It's only transphobic to misgender someone intentionally and knowingly out of malice. How were you supposed to know? And some people do slip up. I sometimes call my brother by my sister's name or by my dog's name. We sometimes mess up what we call someone and it's okay to make simple mistakes. It's also not racist to call someone black? It's literally what they are, as African American doesn't apply to every black person. Also black is a lot easier and shorter to say. As long as it's not used in a derogatory way it's perfectly fine. Almost no one, including black people, have an issue with being called black. And you're not black either, so you have no say on what is and isn't offensive to black people. My mentor is black and my best friend in middle school was black and both didn't care that they were called black because they WERE black. It's not a big deal or some racist thing. For the third comment it's probably just an honest mistake in not knowing about the correct categories, that non binary people are under the "trans umbrella" due to neurologicly being a gender that isn't their birth gender, but aren't trans SEXUAL as they don't usually physically change from one gender to another. Being non binary is usually more so based on how you present yourself rather than your physical body and having dysphoria due to having the wrong one. They probably thought that trans and non binary people were different things which is technically true, but what he missed was that non binary people are under the trans umbrella, they just don't physically change genders like trans people usually do. Edit: Corrented trans GENDER to trans SEXUAL in the second paragraph to help clarify my points.
@Am-uj6qn
@Am-uj6qn 4 месяца назад
I pretty much agree on the first half, but the socond half i do not understand at all. The literal third sentence for wikipedia on transgender is "Transgender is also an umbrella term; in addition to including people whose gender identity is the opposite of their assigned sex (trans men and trans women), it may also include people who are non-binary or genderqueer." And what do you think gender means? You wrote non binary people have "a gender that isn't their birth gender" meaning that their gender must have changed at some point. And what does "physically change genders" mean? I know you mean hrt, but how does hrt change gender? Wouldn´t hrt make you look more like the opposite sex?
@KrimsonKattYT
@KrimsonKattYT 3 месяца назад
@@Am-uj6qn Gender comes in two forms: physical and mental. For trans women for example their mental gender from birth is female but their physical gender at birth was male, and through transition they change their physical gender from male to female. Having their physical gender and mental gender mismatch causes dysphoria, and since mental gender cannot be changed they change their physical gender to match their mental gender to alleviate said dysphoria. Physical gender, or sex, isn't just chronozones, it's a variety of physical traits all combined to make that distinction. (primary and secondary sex characteristics) For non binary people they're physical gender at birth can be either male, female, or intersex, but their mental gender is either intersex or agender, the later meaning that they have no internal comprehension of gender. Non binary people are literally mentally intersex and can be physically male, female, or intersex. Non Binary people, who are mentally intersex, can be born physically intersex as well, making them cis. Therefore, non binary intersex people are not trans. What I mean by "changing gender" relates to the old term "transexual" which is someone who physically transitions from male to female or female to male using hormones and surgery. This term went out of fashion because scientists acknowledged that someone is still transgender even if they choose not to transition physically, but there is still a medical distinction between trans people who physically change their sex/physical gender and trans people who do not. Both are transgender, but only one of them are transexual. Most non-binary people from my experience do not go through the process of physical transition unless they are a demigirl who is AMAB or a demiboy who is AFAB which is that case they are more similar to a binary trans person than not. But AMAB demiboys, AFAB demigirls, agender people, or bigender people usually don't have a need to physically transition because 1: bigender people can't transition into being intersex because of our current technological limitations and 2: the bodily dysphoria isn't usually bad enough to warrant transition. So while being transGENDER due to their mental gender not aligning with their original physical gender, they are not tranSEXUAL due to not having the need to physically transition. TLDR: -Physical gender = a collection of primary and secondary sex characteristics that may or may not apply to all people. Also known as sex. -mental gender = someone's inherient cognitive identity of who they are. Also known as just "gender." This is confusing for most people who always equated the two so I use physical gender vs mental gender instead of sex vs gender. -HRT and surgery changes physical gender, but not mental gender. -Mental gender cannot be changed and is inherent to the individual from birth. This is why so-called "conversion therapy" doesn't work. (also because it's literally torture and not therapy at all) -Chronozones do not determine physical gender. Instead hormone levels cause characteristics that are assigned to physical genders based on biology. Hormones can be manipulated by science, so physical gender can change. Hormones are normally regulated by the gonads which form either male or female by the SRY gene which is stored in the Y chromosome. Disturbances in this process cause intersex conditions and misalignments cause trans people. -Transgender = Mental gender doesn't match original physical gender. -Transexual = Physically transitioned from one gender to another. -Intersex = Somewhere physically or mentally between male and female. -Non-Binary = Mentally intersex. -If someone is physically intersex and non binary/mentally intersex, they are cis, not trans. -Most non binary people do not transition, making them potentially transgender but not transexual. -However some non binary people do transition such as AMAB demigirls or AFAB demiboys.
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 3 месяца назад
3/15/24 UPDATE: Let’s make a few things clear, Nex Benedict did not die from suicide. 1. Pushing someone to end their life is still manslaughter at best and murder at worst. Nex was bullied all school year and pushed to it. 2. You cannot die from diphenhydramine, an antihistamine unless you drink gallons of it. So, this medical report that was released today needs to be investigated by the DOJ and the family likely needs to do a private autopsy to find the true cause of death. Sadly, far-right terrorist groups are already celebrating Nex’ death because they would rather us dead than be alive and LGBTQ.
@lexxotic
@lexxotic 4 месяца назад
just wanted to let you know but nex's friends have come out saying that he actually used he/they pronouns, however he preferred he/him :)
@sodaaccount
@sodaaccount 4 месяца назад
I just discovered this channel due to this horrific murder, but I gotta say: Its sooo encouraging and "life energy giving" [dont know the right word] to see sane people speaking up for us! I literally cant do my gratitude justice with words... Im from germany and we just lost all trans rights! (Feels like 1930s allover again) It feels amazing to see any affirmation! Thank you so much! EDIT: 4:20 I disagree, if its seriously a mistake, they are not transphobes imho! I even misgender myself from time to time (binary trans woman, not enby or male at all) and it hurts soooo much. Even that horrible pain doesnt prevent me from "slip ups", so how could I expect a cis- person to get it right every single time?? None of my friends (and they are VERY supportive and quite literally saved my life over this) get it EVERY SINGLE time. But they try everytime! Thats what counts imho. I honestly feel more pain by proxy for them messing it up than my gender dysphoria :D EDIT2: And I just asked myself, is "POC" offensive? I dont want to offend any person and I currently think thats a valid descriptor?
@unknownuser6940
@unknownuser6940 4 месяца назад
Long comment. Also, this channel rocks! I agree with you. I genuinely feel concerned for you. You don't deserve to lose your rights over being different. Everyone is objectively different and unique in their own way, and both externally and internally. I legitimately thought Germany would be better, given how Germany became more moral to the point of creating the phrase "struggle through the past." However, it looks like I need to study German history a bit more. As for edit 2, I genuinely don't know if it's racist or not. As far as I know, it's like calling a caucasian man a white man. Okay? It's not like I'm calling them a colonist slaver, no where near this level, and I'm a white cisgender man. So what if someone calls me a white man? I don't care, just don't accuse me of being hateful of anyone over a skin color just because I'm white. Not exactly the same, but I'm going to take an educated guess and say it's a similar situation for people of color. Racism in any form is objectively and morally stupid anyway. I honestly think people of color throughout history generally had better cultures than European cultures, as far as I know.
@sodaaccount
@sodaaccount 4 месяца назад
@@unknownuser6940 Thank you very much for your effort to reply! I cant go into detail (YT doesnt like it at all and I didnt figure out what the "wrong words" I said were...) but I love your curiosity! We sadly never changed in some aspects... I would love to say we had FINALLY overcome this worldview. In general you are right, we have been close to overcoming "the right mindset" (h*, x*, t*, etc. phobia), but in reality we are not! The current government is more positive (but not the courts... US folx will understand...) towards trans people, but the ruling falls under their legislation, so it doesnt help a lot. Thank you very much for your input on the "POC" term!
@jdmmg4904
@jdmmg4904 4 месяца назад
​@sodaaccount so in which way did the legal situation in Germany get worse?
@sodaaccount
@sodaaccount 4 месяца назад
@@jdmmg4904 We still have an unconstitutional law in place. It was declared unconstitutional several times. Last time in 2008 iirc. Now our highest court ruled that insurance doesn’t have to pay for ANY affirmative care. Well we still get „therapy“. Fun fact: We banned conversion therapy for homosexual people, but didn’t ban it for trans people… Oh and there were mandatory sterilisations if you wanted to change your name until 2011… Right now the just do it by denying cryo conservation… Hence my comparison to the „darkest time in german history“
@SirMaddaMMetzo
@SirMaddaMMetzo 4 месяца назад
@@jdmmg4904 the latest court ruling about a non-binary person trying to get their top surgery covered by the insurance company made it clear that no insurance company has to pay for gender affirming care for non-binary people since the court thinks that NB is a "new thing" and that another organization within the system has to evaluate if the gender affirming care that is covered for binary trans people, should also be applied for us enbies. Which totally goes against the new ICD-11 (that is the equivalent of the DSM 5, is in the process of translation for probably a couple of years, still) and also other guidelines put together by multiple German health organizations that all say that non-binary people are trans and should have access to the same care. While we are waiting for a self-ID law for years now, although we got it promised by the current government in late 2021 or early 2022, it's also getting worse and worse. Including more and more paragraphs spurred by transphobic lies to inflict fear and further writing discrimination into a law that should end discrimination. One of the latest additions was, that when you change your name and gender marker, then this info will be automatically send out to every police station and other law enforcement bodies, so they can check if you are a criminal. It's not like we have a problem with right-wing extremists being in our police force, allegedly using their position to send out death threats in a NSU 2.0 manner... Because of this, many trans people are trying to change everything now, accepting to pay money and go through potential harassment and abusive questioning from the so called experts who have to evaluate under current law if you are trans enough.
@heiress.
@heiress. 3 месяца назад
No, it’s not racist to say black instead of African American.
@caledunsmore
@caledunsmore 3 месяца назад
How about Coloured person?
@Panguinolucy
@Panguinolucy 4 месяца назад
33:35 hey mind showing them on RU-vid? I looked in all the Nex video descriptions but haven’t found any links that might be sources
@corbinallen4562
@corbinallen4562 4 месяца назад
There are so many people in the comments saying fact: followed by something easily disproved and when i ask for a source they just never respond or they just say the same thing again.
@Leethebeagle
@Leethebeagle 4 месяца назад
I gotta be honest im tired of this culture war shit im tired of people who hate queer people who hate trand folk who hate LGBTQIA plus community members im tired of people like that not to say that you cant joke about that because if there is any movie that helped me come out it was full metal jacket ya know that scene were lee ermy says to pvt cowboy only steers and queers come from texas that scene kinda helped me idfk why
@smokyquartz5817
@smokyquartz5817 4 месяца назад
We used to yell that line at eachother all the time. You're not being a pussy. That's what it's called. You don't have to apologize.
@NauerBauer
@NauerBauer 4 месяца назад
It didn't all start with Stone Wall. From Wikipedia "The Black Cat Tavern is an LGBT historic site located in the Silver Lake neighborhood of Los Angeles, California. In 1967, it was the site of one of the first demonstrations in the United States protesting police brutality against LGBT people, preceding the Stonewall riots by over two years.[3]"
@tristanband4003
@tristanband4003 4 месяца назад
Part of me fears that most of the comments hail from regressive, transphobic or at least "critical" members of the community. At any event, thank you.
@hilduremblaragnheiardottir763
@hilduremblaragnheiardottir763 4 месяца назад
This is so terrible. This is the reason you should watch a person who got a head injury next hours. I think it's reccomended for almost 24 hours afterward. Nex's head was beat into a sink. The doctors should have warned their parents and tell them to watch Nex to see if some changes in their consciousness would start the next 24 hours. Not let them go to sleep😢 I'm afraid it will be open season in attacking our trans kids if the bullies doesn't get any consequences for this terrible act
@zmonster3698
@zmonster3698 4 месяца назад
Godzilla read the first comment and literally died from a stroke
@ZombieRatFlesh
@ZombieRatFlesh 4 месяца назад
Next week im going to legally change my name for the first time! im so excited since i have been waiting for 6 years, usually i only watch transphobia reaction videos when im bored since im usually not in a good mental state to do so but im really happy at the moment so im glad i can watch these types of videos again :).
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 4 месяца назад
Good luck with your name change and congratulations!
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
"I'm usually not in a good mental state" is the takeaway here.
@johncheese1705
@johncheese1705 4 месяца назад
Nex didn’t deserve anything that happened to them. I don’t understand why people can’t leave everyone else alone as long as they aren’t hurting anyone.
@WAEVOICE
@WAEVOICE 4 месяца назад
Making a universal problem out of a personal one denotes a cry for attention. Too bad the parents failed to foresee the right kind of attention for Nex.
@bookworm5433
@bookworm5433 4 месяца назад
My mind keeps going back to the same place. A child was mortally wounded in a place they should have been safe. This is wrong long before anybodie's politics becomes part of the conversation. That baby should still be alive.
@DatDapperBoi
@DatDapperBoi 4 месяца назад
Unfortunately, legally speaking the fact Nex poured water on the bullies makes it legally a mutual fight. Pouring water on someone does technically count as an assault. However if the court can prove that the injuries that the bullies caused killed Nex then they can be charged with murder. Edit: I'm not defending the people who murdered Nex. There was no reason to be so violent to someone who just simply poured water on you.
@Koroeatspotates
@Koroeatspotates 4 месяца назад
But there response does not count cause it needs to reasonable defense unless in OK
@DatDapperBoi
@DatDapperBoi 4 месяца назад
​@@KoroeatspotatesI'm just setting up a reasonable expectation of what the court rules based on my understanding of the law. I'm not that versed in Oklahoma laws.
@Koroeatspotates
@Koroeatspotates 4 месяца назад
@@DatDapperBoi sorry i wast trying to be rude thankbypu for your response
@DatDapperBoi
@DatDapperBoi 15 дней назад
​@@Koroeatspotates it's okay. I don't think it was a reasonable response either.
@Koroeatspotates
@Koroeatspotates 15 дней назад
@@DatDapperBoi ye sorry anyways i was very emotional at the time
@Dayglodaydreams
@Dayglodaydreams 4 месяца назад
Sometimes progressive activists display this smug self righteousness; “I know what’s right and you don’t “. Also morality is black and white here (no). I’m closer to being a mainline liberal than a progressive activist.
@pathevermore3683
@pathevermore3683 4 месяца назад
i actually do this, usually as a subversion of the right's tendency to do this.
@lorenzwinterhoff8049
@lorenzwinterhoff8049 4 месяца назад
Comment #1 was advocating for a gender neutral bathroom... very badly spelled, but they were trying to say something helpful, so yeah...
@Panguinolucy
@Panguinolucy 4 месяца назад
That makes sense. Just very hard to tell without a translation. Sadly we do generally kinda have to fear the worst
@lorenzwinterhoff8049
@lorenzwinterhoff8049 4 месяца назад
Translation: I say schools need a non-binary bathroom because as a guy with women I care about, I don't think they are safe having a boy (or a non-binary) being in their bathroom. If they're just non-binary, that's ok, but I know at my school - back in the day - bad guys would use it to attack women in bathrooms.
@PlanetCharnBaby
@PlanetCharnBaby 4 месяца назад
So, can anyone tell me what this channel and MSM are basing their claims that this was definitely a transphobic hate crime, on? Because so far it seems we don't actually have sufficient evidence to draw that conclusion. But maybe I just haven't come across the right information confirming that speculation yet. Thank you.
@abramvorhes3315
@abramvorhes3315 4 месяца назад
19:16 it also wouldnt make sense that a perfectly healthy person dies a day after a fight
@jamesphillips2285
@jamesphillips2285 4 месяца назад
5:20 I can see how he can be confused: I consider myself non-binary, but not trans. 8:00 Suris (RU-vid) did a video speculating that Nex may have OD'd. They are generally supportive of trans rights. That presenter was trying to get ahead of any possible tox report that may come out in the future. 12:20 Even IF trauma from the previous day was not the immediate cause of death: being beat up the day before would have been a contributing factor (for both OD and self harm speculation).
@RenaMoonn
@RenaMoonn 4 месяца назад
Oh hey, Suris! I don't think i saw their OD speculation, but its not like watch every single bit of their content constantly
@unyu-cyberstorm64
@unyu-cyberstorm64 4 месяца назад
I hope I haven’t accidentally said anything bad. Tho knowing me that’s unlikely.
@electroseal5822
@electroseal5822 4 месяца назад
HEY! I have heared recently that Nex might have used he/they pronouns (mainly he him) and that he was a trans boy, wanted to let ppl know (Alot of trans ppl might ask others to use neutral pronouns just to avoid being called by their agab ones)
@RenaMoonn
@RenaMoonn 4 месяца назад
Yeah i heard that too, supposedly it was from his friends, but i don't have the original source. I'm prolly gonna stick with they/them out of caution, plus they're the universal pronoun
@PossumMedic
@PossumMedic 4 месяца назад
"Whif wpmen I cher a bot" One of those words was correct... 🤖 🤣
@Dayglodaydreams
@Dayglodaydreams 4 месяца назад
Okay, I heard a news story, where the coroner said, they were not ruling out the fight, they just said, “it didn’t appear to be trauma” it’s how scientists are. In absence of empirical evidence, the answer is negative not affirmative (but they should have said “we can neither confirm nor deny”).
@ismaelrivera4709
@ismaelrivera4709 3 месяца назад
And its recently confirmed to be suricide by overdose. Will you apologize for your idiocy now or will you more likely double, triple, and quadruple down?
@maryfreebed9886
@maryfreebed9886 4 месяца назад
Nex was adorable, and they were going to be valuable to society, besides the value they had now. Anybody capable of hating such a sweet person isn't right in the head.
@THEZEROECLIPSE
@THEZEROECLIPSE 4 месяца назад
I have just found your channel keep up your good work
@jdmmg4904
@jdmmg4904 4 месяца назад
Thank you for your content ❤
@Panguinolucy
@Panguinolucy 4 месяца назад
37:11 there is still reason to have links. Convenience, it’s nice to not have to scroll through a video to find the sources
@Dayglodaydreams
@Dayglodaydreams 4 месяца назад
Oh! I thought trans meant binary, and non-binary meant non-trans. I think somebody explained it to me wrong.
@lexxotic
@lexxotic 4 месяца назад
6:55 LMFAOOOOO THE WAY I GASPED. you better GET his ass!!!
@shirleyallen1418
@shirleyallen1418 4 месяца назад
Now saying death was not trauma related so did not die from the fight. Sad either way
@BackgroundCharacter1
@BackgroundCharacter1 4 месяца назад
I was talking about the Elijah suicide you were talking about I used various searches but nothing came up all that came up was the stories about Nex.
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 4 месяца назад
Sorry, Elijah’s obituary was on screen during that video. I’ll try to get you some sources for Eli tomorrow when I’m back in the office.
@Christmas_wolves
@Christmas_wolves Месяц назад
I have a question I’m not too sure if you have a video on this but can you please explain neopronouns and neogenders? Bc my friend is wolf gender and star gender etc and I would like to know more about it not forcing btw just curious I love your videos and you are one of my top idols keep up the good work ❤️
@whywouldyoudothat1346
@whywouldyoudothat1346 36 минут назад
I'm probably not as educated as this person, but I use neopronons\xenogenders, so I'll try to help. Basically, neopronouns are pronouns that aren't the typical set of pronouns we use. For example, some common ones are thon, xe, and zem. Xenogenders eogenders are genders outside of the human understanding of gender. Some people have a gendered connection to xenogenders, others think that their gender can only be described using xenogenders . It really depends on the person.
@Christmas_wolves
@Christmas_wolves 8 минут назад
@@whywouldyoudothat1346 thank you so much ❤️
@Thelona
@Thelona 4 месяца назад
The second comment seemed more like it was from a place of concern rather than any bigotry. It seemed worried more about an honest screw-up and it being portrayed poorly. These are the people who can be reached and the ones we should be more welcoming toward to at least understand that we just want people to be nice, not dictate our terms.
@Susanmugen
@Susanmugen 4 месяца назад
I agree that for people that are unsure, it's scary of being falsely labeled "bigot" for just being uninformed. The bigots tell their stories in ways that make it seem like it's so easy to get labeled as such. Yet those who pass poorly or are non-conforming choose their battles. You gotta be intentional about it to get called out. An honest mistake when asking a woman how far along in pregnancy she is will hurt, but won't get called out as immoral unless you're intentionally asking women not pregnant to cause bad feelings.
@geraldfinn436
@geraldfinn436 4 месяца назад
Congratulations on reaching 100,000 subscribers.
@PoweredByRainbows
@PoweredByRainbows 4 месяца назад
Thank you very much!
@Dayglodaydreams
@Dayglodaydreams 4 месяца назад
We are getting censored news.
@wesleybarrett9502
@wesleybarrett9502 4 месяца назад
When it comes to the medical care absolutely they needed a full neurological battery at least in the military there are Concussion and Truamatic Brain Injury Protocol that they clearly met the criteria to have full CT or MRI and treatment algorithm that requires rest and monitoring based in the results. I do not know what was done but this should have treated different based on the evidence i see, though biased. I am not saying your conclussion are wrong or right and that they aren't similar to mine, but there is still latent bias in almost any investigation
@lloroshastar6347
@lloroshastar6347 4 месяца назад
Even if the hospital is a good hospital, it's entirely possible they took a gamble and assumed there was no internal bleeding. It's also entirely possible the hospital has discriminatory staff, you can't always rule out discriminatory views from staff you hire, especially if you need the staff. People think the systems in place are perfect but they aren't, bad apples slip through the system all the time, and people make mistakes too.
@ismaelrivera4709
@ismaelrivera4709 3 месяца назад
It was a self removal from overdosing
@lloroshastar6347
@lloroshastar6347 3 месяца назад
@@ismaelrivera4709 Yes I'm aware we know that now. Doesn't change what I said.
@ismaelrivera4709
@ismaelrivera4709 3 месяца назад
@@lloroshastar6347 no it Does. It just makes you look like your WANTING it to be bigot murder to justify your idiotic victimhood cult.
@ismaelrivera4709
@ismaelrivera4709 2 месяца назад
@@lloroshastar6347 yes it does
@lloroshastar6347
@lloroshastar6347 2 месяца назад
@@ismaelrivera4709 lol you respond four weeks later to say that. No it doesn't change anything I said in the above message, I was talking about possibilities that were at the time possibilities and may still be, especially in communities where a lot of people hold similar prejudices. These things have happened before in the past many times and still do. Ruby Franke for example was able to get away with torturing her own kids for years because in Utah she was held up as someone exemplary, as a pillar of the community. She had multiple complaints against her and the way she treated her children, especially as there was damming evidence of it she recorded herself on RU-vid. But judges would strike down requests for search warrants, Ruby was protected from on high in that part of Utah. It was only when one of her abused children escaped and the physical torture and malnourishment that child had received was easily visible on him that action was finally taken and those who protected Ruby before could no longer do so. Similarly we had the subject of Killers of the Flower Moon recently, everyone was involved in that conspiracy to murder dozens of people from the Osage nation. Yes even the Doctor's were involved in that conspiracy, which is why clear murders were being ruled out as suicides and accidents after the autopsies. The fact of the matter is there is a State wide push in Oklahoma to dehumanise trans people, and it affects other LGBTQ+ people as well, but currently the main targets are trans people. It's entirely possible there are facts being covered up to avoid scrutiny and further investigation from the feds. Even if it is 100% true the child committed suicide, people don't do that for no reason, it can't be ruled out completely that the bullying they experienced was a factor in that suicide. In most cases that situation would consider involving those who did the bullying as part of the investigation and they may be liable to an extent even if they didn't do the job themselves. Driving someone to suicide is still a crime. So no, it doesn't entirely change what I was saying.
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