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Ways I live slowly in spring - rethinking time management
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Time seems to move quite slowly in my rural home. The animals take their time to feed and build their nests just right, the plants to grow to full bloom, I felt inspired to make a video on it ... this is just a little insight on what a ‘morning or evening routine’ is for me, since I don’t really adhere to a routine at all. As someone who likes to make everything productive, it can be a greater challenge to simply not plan a day and let the season, weather, and how I feel to determine what I do or don’t get done. Productivity is not the goal for me, simply to enjoy being. Disconnecting from the ticking clock definitely helps, and realizing that minutes and hours are a product of our own making, and we can let time management be as important or unimportant as we wish 🤍 of course, we all need to work and be productive in many ways, but I do think there is much worth in letting go of your own expectations from time to time.
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@TheCottageFairy 3 года назад

For the majority of the week I work, and have limited time to spend how I wish. But on days off I am able to follow a routine of sorts (if I can even call it that), and that is to spend my time with the intention of being only as productive or unproductive as my heart desires. As someone who always wants to add on more work and things to accomplish in my day, I force myself to start and end the day with no expectations. Maybe it is a day to putter about my house, paint random panes of glass, and wander outdoors. Maybe it’s a day to eat peanut butter toast and hide under blankets for 10 hours 🤍 Here’s a common question I wish to answer: “can you do a what-I-eat-in-a-day video?” I get this question a lot and am aware that I am, again, not sharing my daily meals in this video. Over a decade ago, as a young teenager, I remember first logging on to the then ‘new’ world of RU-vid. I was often recommended videos on specific diets and ‘what-I-eat-in-a-day’ vlogs. There is absolutely nothing wrong with these videos and that, for the most part, they are meant for those looking for fun recipes and meal prep ideas. Due to personal experiences, I do not showcase what I eat daily because I would never want my diet to be an example that a very young person should ever feel they need to emulate in order to achieve health (it’s also very boring, a lot of pasta and porridge.... and potatoes...lol). I will always enjoy sharing fun recipes and occasional meals, but I wish to step away from showcasing my daily diet as a source of content, since I there are few if any diets that suit all bodies, conditions, and circumstances. ➡️Again, I know this is not the intention of ‘what-I-eat-in-a-day’ videos, they have an enormous positive influence on so many people, and definitely watch them if you love them! ⬅️ This is simply why I will refrain from making such a video. But I will continue to share favorite recipes, snacks, and many herb and nature inspired dishes! Since I love to cook and bake❤️ Warm Regards, Paola

@abeach5420 3 года назад

Hi hi Miss Paola .... yesss here-here to eating peanut butter toast and then hide under one's blankets for 10 hours 🤍 😁👌 p.s. I am *A-OK* in not seeing anyone's what-i-eat-in-a-day shares. Good on you for having boundaries as well.

@TheCottageFairy 3 года назад

I see we are kindred spirits 🤍 ahh peanut butter lol Thank you very much 🥰

@abeach5420 3 года назад

@@TheCottageFairy Haha . . . oh and if I had a *Mr. Darcy* in my life, I would sooo take a lot of time just to watch upon such. Your wee bunny has encapsulated my very hearts-of-hearts, as you hear from me of in *EVERY VIDEO* , haha. Hope you are having a lovely spring alongside your rolling hills and winding waterways.

@Togglefree 3 года назад

Yes! Peanut butter and strawberry jam toast sandwich is an occasional treat for me. Or peanut butter on celery. Have you ever tried sliced bananas on buttered toast? My mother would always fix this for me when I was a young mud eating kid. LOL

@justme-uw6bz 3 года назад

My favourite treat is banana and honey on buttered toast, never margarine.

@manbeardogstar 3 года назад

Can we just take a moment to appreciate this woman's beautiful, peaceful and calm demeanor?

@milktop1 3 года назад

That’s the reason we are all here.

@cynthiajomocan6297 3 года назад

Yes

@elevationview673 3 года назад

@@milktop1 very true

@lindamaldonado6807 3 года назад

A female Thoreau.

@sallythompson4404 3 года назад

even my siamese cat is drawn to this calm space and shows up and even watches it with me...pure lovliness!

@lysanderext17 3 года назад

My two year old Ocean woke up and said "Cottage Fairy, watch Cottage Fairy", and lucky for us you had a new video up. She's a big fan, and it's so lovely to show her your delightful little films, with great messages. Thank you. 🍃

@cosygracegames 3 года назад

Ocean is the sweetest name 😊🌊☀️✨

@AshleyRobjohns 3 года назад

There's depth in that Ocean already :-D Beautiful.

@sadhephaetus3266 3 года назад

ocean is such a beautiful name.

@ashleesheridan6051 3 года назад

Wow. Ocean is such a powerful name

@meepcity48 3 года назад

That’s so cute🥺🥺🥺awww 🥰

@shesmoonlight514 3 года назад

We don't always need to be productive, sometimes we need to stop and breathe and enjoy the smallest moments. Thank you for another beautiful video. 🖤🕊

@mesalouis8976 3 года назад

That’s hard to do in this fast western society. 😰

@lamar9331 3 года назад

It's so important to replenish our souls.

@riannatripp6594 3 года назад

I am gong to use this comment as if I said it first 👏

@shesmoonlight514 3 года назад

@@riannatripp6594 Ya lil thief 🤠 jk you can steal my comment. Sharing is caring 😝

@DANIMALVISION 3 года назад

I hurt my brain during the Iraq war. Coming to grips with an invisible injury that has limited me in every aspect of life has been beyond excruciating to put it kindly. Every day I try to honor my boundaries and not tear myself apart for just laying in bed, as that is often all I am capable of. Through the use of psychedelics/plant medicine, studying Toltec wisdom and the Buddhist teachings, I have found a deep understanding of life and a profound sense of meaning. Even armed with this knowledge I struggle. To see you succeeding at the very ideas I am trying to implement in my own life, the psychological process of being ok with time and actually living, finding peace from the programming, staying present...it brings tears to my eyes. Thank you for the inspiration. 🙏❤️

@Emkfry8020 3 года назад

Sending well wishes and may you continue to find peace Danimalvision.

@matios6013 2 года назад

The best for you🙏👍🎈🎈

@saltressX 2 года назад

THANK YOU FOR YOUR BRAVERY AND SERVICE I HOPE THIS FINDS YOU WELL AND YOU HAVE THE BEST LIFE YOU DESERVE‼️💪🤝✌️🙏👍🇺🇸🦅 🙏🕊❤️🌎

@sweetbudgie5829 2 года назад

Wishing you health , tranquility , happiness from Bangladesh .

@morganniciomhair8284 Год назад

FRIEND HAVING A TRAUMATIC BRAIN INJURY AND VISION LOSS AFTER ACCIDENT 2 YEARS AGO,JUST WANTED TO SEND PEACE TO YOUR HEART FROM IRELAND.PLEASE DONT PUNISH YOURSELF FURTHER.ITS A HUGE ADSPTION.ITS GRIEF,ITS PAIN AND LOSS AND SO MUCH SADNESS.BUT CAN WE PERHAPS ALLOW OURSELVES TO NOTICE ANY LITTLE THING THAT TOUCHES OUR HEARTS AND GIVES US A SPARKLE OF HOPE?IN MY EXPERIENCE EXPERIENCE IT WONT COME FROM ANYONE ELSE .JUST SOMETIMES I GET A SWEET MOMENT TO REMIND ME THAT YES,THERE IS BEAUTY AND KINDNESS IN OUR WORLD OFTEN HARD TO FIND,BUT EVEN IF ITS GLIMPSING THE MOON ON A STARRY NIGHT;TAKE IT ALL IN WHEN U FEEL IT.SENDING YOU STRENGTH.

@gretasander9116 3 года назад

I’m in middle school and because of Covid and drama I have a lot of anxiety whenever I watch these videos I feel so safe, thank you

@emoses 3 года назад

'Sometimes we put a high value on being productive - In fact, just sitting or thinking or not doing anything, in particular, can be a very productive use of our time'

@withlovekylie 3 года назад

Every Wednesday I come here to spend a few minutes before I go to bed, totally enchanted by these videos. The little plants and flowers, along with the naturey aesthetic makes the most calming combination you can think of. When I’m sad, and can’t go outside to experience Mother Nature herself, I come here, and it never fails to leave me with a smile. Now I always make sure to watch all of the ads to give back the greatest amount I can. Thank you, Paola. 🌱😊

@390453 3 года назад

Watching this is like story time for adults. It makes me feel like I’m watching something from when I was a kid lol.

@amyjessica2456 3 года назад

My mom is going through such a tough time, so I sent her the link to this video. She loves watching the cottage fairy, she loves all the same things herself and she is reminded of finding joy in the small things.

@danseaman2257 3 года назад

Now retired, I find much comfort in sitting and wondering of the Life I have lived... questions or puzzles whose lessons eluded me when I consumed the hours on the clock, reveal themselves now and add a sense of purposefulness to what was once just passing time. Thank you for your gentle reminders.

@Elizabeth-de1uv 3 года назад

that is a very lovely comment Dan. I wish you many days to enjoy exactly what you're doing and the wisdom you're finding in it.

@danseaman2257 3 года назад

@@Elizabeth-de1uv Thank you, Eliza... a very kind and appreciated wish

@milacreating 3 года назад

every video of yours heals my soul a little.Thank you.

@TheCottageFairy 3 года назад

❤️

@bluejay5531 3 года назад

same here 💚

@maricdawson5842 3 года назад

Here too😌

@keiraLeeYuna 2 года назад

Perfeito.. cura minha alma também 🇧🇷❤

@milktop1 3 года назад

I quit my job a month ago. I have no back up plan. I spend most days just relaxing. I’m not independently wealthy and need to work but it has really expanded my relationship with free time, stress, money and work.

@haydeeandrade7648 2 года назад

I've been there before..untill I let God control my life..it lead me a meaningful life in this temporal world.

@chloepasma5471 3 года назад

I LOVE THIS CHANNEL THANKYOU SO MUCH FOR BRINGING ADVENTURE AND CREATIVITY BACK INTO MY LIFE

@chloepasma5471 3 года назад

@My everything Channel I’m sorry, who is Isabel? But I am starting a channel soon!

@chloepasma5471 3 года назад

@My everything Channel Thankyou so much!!

@sweettony9359 3 года назад

“All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.” - Gandalf the Grey

@katerinamudrova7928 3 года назад

I also like this one "It is not our part to master all the tides of the world, but to do what is in us for the succour of those years wherein we are set, uprooting the evil in the fields we know, so that those who live after may have clean earth to till. What weather they shall have is not ours to rule"

@kindcounselor 3 года назад

Yes! I'm resisting working. After 47 years on a job, now, in "retirement" people judge me for not working. But I realized that all we ever have is time...and if we can choose how to spend that time...thats my version of heaven.

@lesleydonnelly2622 3 года назад

I love days off, not noticing the time, pottering about or sitting reading with a blanket over me and suddenly realising it's evening and I am not aware the day has passed❤️

@miranimation 3 года назад

" D'ont waste your time in doing something you d'ont love " Can we just think twice about this precious advice ...

@thundermybabycat 3 года назад

This week has been the saddest week of 2021 for me. I feel like in order to be productive, I need to have a good morning routine to get things done. I usually wake up around 5-6am but these days, I am oversleeping and it results to me not getting anything done. Thank you for reminding me that there's nothing wrong with spontaneous mornings, that I shouldn't beat up myself for not getting things done and to once again, enjoy just existing.

@jensummer3549 3 года назад

If you are oversleeping then your body is needing this extra sleep! Take it. It will cycle back around. And as an older mom of 2 young kids I miss sleep. PLEASE take an extra nap for me! 😆 I do hope your days get better.

@thundermybabycat 3 года назад

@@jensummer3549 thank you for saying that 😭

@azimaa1463 3 года назад

How lucky you can oversleep...i have imsomnia. Most lucky nights, i only sleep 3 or 4 hours. How i wish i could oversleep. So count yourself lucky, be thankful that you get ample rest. Take care.

@klmac3721 3 года назад

I think it's OK to be like this for a short time when you've had a difficult time. Be kind to yourself. Rest. I hope things feel a little brighter for you very soon. ❤

@thundermybabycat 3 года назад

@@klmac3721 thank you for such kind words. I wish you all the best too. 💜

@faerymeri 3 года назад

Your videos are like lullabies, or bedtime stories. I've been repeatedly watching all of your videos for months to help me go to sleep. Helps me put my mind and soul at peace. I fall asleep at peace and after waking up, I find myself loving each day more. Thank you for being my escape from a chaotic day. Sending my love from the Philippines 🤎

@debby891 Год назад

Me too❤

@nons1206 3 года назад

Playing the violin in the wilderness is the most relatable thing ever I forget other things exist.

@hope1531 3 года назад

i am utterly enamoured with this channel. i really needed to hear this today, i’m in the midst of exam season, and seeing people rushing around desperately trying to cram has stressed me out to no end, the wonderful story about the boy has reminded me to slow down and pace myself. thank you

@debby891 Год назад

I feel that way too about her videos❤

@mindyrobertson6203 3 года назад

You've perfectly captured the essence of the Sabbath; 24 hours of timelessness that restore your soul.

@jaileen4ever 2 года назад

Halleluyah !

@janiceharris5475 3 года назад

You are so on point on time. When I was a child and in a hurry, my grandma would tell me not to wish my time away. Just live in the moment.♥️

@Avocadotoastytoast 3 года назад

I don’t understand people who dislike this video. She so calm and beautiful

@jjharvathh 3 года назад

I understand the dislikes having had the misfortune to work with many people who would find her, frivolous, and dislike her for that.

@modasarrasul6350 3 года назад

Paola should be a voice over artist for our souls 🙏 This paradigm about how we use time is so full of resonance. We should be free to be how we want to be without being slaves to time.

@sallythompson4404 3 года назад

My cat hears this and shows up whenever I watch. He even watches it...quite lovely! I am from New Zealand but living in California and it somehow takes me back to my childhood on the farm...this is such a blessing to my life...ideas...inspiration...wisdom and calm...thank you so much.

@lindseymae4065 3 года назад

The entire time i watched this video my cat has been staring at me. 🍃

@Onlinesully 3 года назад

good luck to you, visited new zealand once and it’s quite lovely

@sallythompson4404 3 года назад

@@Onlinesully thanks so much💜

@Onlinesully 3 года назад

How is California for you ?

@sallythompson4404 3 года назад

@@Onlinesully It's been a good place for me to live...moved out of more urban spot up into the hills...it's lovely...thanks💜

@mariarohmer2374 3 года назад

When I''m out in nature the beauty and perfection of Mother Nature is often too much for me to process. How does one take in such vast magic? This is the answer: moment by moment. Slowly, thoughtfully and fully present. Continue sharing your wisdom.🌻🐝

@kevinharris1392 3 года назад

The matter of " time" reminds me of this saying about a river. If I can recall...There is no rushing a river, when you go there, you go at the pace of the water. That pace ties you into a flow,that is older than life on this planet. Acceptance of that pace, even for a day,changes us. Reminds us other rythyms beyond the sound of our own heartbeat. I choose to live my life with the flow of the river.

@smeenasiddiqui2374 3 года назад

True....if time is on your side. Then you can concentrate on the things that you need to get done without looking at the clock for a change!!!!!!

@kimr2361 3 года назад

I'm inspired by native traditions that view time as cyclical rather than linear. When you have no real concept of past or future, it is a lot easier to be present in the now. Thanks for another thoughtful video!

@ritaharker4466 3 года назад

One of the joys of my week is when this wonderful Cottage Fairy uploads a new video. It’s time to sit down calmly with my coffee and enjoy the peace that emanates from the scenery and her lovely voice x

@Elizabeth-wr7mn 3 года назад

You are so right.I used to be focused on time management and it never made me happy. Just stressed.

@bsmith5522 2 года назад

Sometimes, what you experience, takes your breath away. You can't say much. You capture what you can, while you can. It's "breath-taking". That is what I just experienced. All I can say, is, "Wow!"

@maggie192 3 года назад

Thank you for another beautiful site of your life & for putting Hafez's poetry in the beginning. I was by his grave site years ago in IRAN. People go there all the time & recite his poems. He is very well respected & famous in our country. It took me back home. Thank you so much.

@cliffp.8396 3 года назад

Your gentle spirit gives me rest, thank you.

@kamalikabhattacharya7560 3 года назад

You fill up my soul. So grateful for having you in my life energetically!

@lilyoil 3 года назад

I finally realize that your voice is so soft, gentle, and very good at story telling. furthermore, the art you make, the detail you film, all together make me keep watching !

@SpiritDwellSacred 3 года назад

I received a blessing one day a couple of weeks ago. I found this beautiful channel. Thank you for these videos. They are a source of joy to my heart.

@rocket_raisin 3 года назад

You are "The essence, the purity, and the innocence of Beauty itself" - You are such a precious reminder of how beautiful and rich simplicity is. A reminder to myself of who I am and who I want to be. Watching your videos is so inspiring and nourishing like healing food for the soul. Thank you for sharing your light with us, so that we can also be our light in this world.

@Katiemomo 3 года назад

I am beyond grateful that you spend *your* time making these enchanting videos and sharing your gift with the world. I also love the community that is created here in the comments, you’ve called us all out of our quiet hideaways and make us feel more connected with the kindred spirits living all over the world 🌎 ❤️

@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT 3 года назад

Your videos are such a refreshing contrast to so much of what is on RU-vid and in all forms of media in general. Watching and listening to you has a physical effect upon me, like the presence of a contented, purring cat in my lap. I can feel my heart rate decrease, my respiration slow, and a sense of calm reflection gently push aside the cares and anxieties of the day. I look forward to enjoying more of the gifts of your channel. Thank you so much.

@letinhsong8024 3 года назад

The day did not “pass you by”: You absolutely GLORIED in it!!!

@milenapastuszak9053 3 года назад

You have this rare gift to take all the preasure from people who watch you or listen to you, even if they didn't know that they feel any preasure in life. You're making life simple and beautiful. It's always pleasure to see your videos, Paola. Every secound of it is very productive to me, because thaks to you I'm again falling in love with life. ❤🍀

@sannelelie4206 3 года назад

I've been in therapy for the past four months and one of the things I had to relearn is to do things more slowly, thus I had the feeling I wasted my time. I first it was hard but now it is one of the most valuable things I learned. Now I praise myself for sometimes 'wasting time', whilst it actually is appreciating the moment!

@briandavid1355 3 года назад

Thank you once again for your insight and honesty. You are truly a gem. Peace and love to all who are drawn here. 💛💛💛

@willow9719 3 года назад

One productive day wipes me out, and I need like 3 unproductive days after to recover. Lol i hate myself

@joyceconnolly1065 3 года назад

Instead, love yourself for it. ❤️

@tourmelion9221 3 года назад

Don't do that That's just your nature You don't need to make or do things to be good

@yeralizardjerry7716 3 года назад

I'm like that too. I find I have a lot of guilt on the days when I need rest. So much so that it ends up tainting the quality of that rest. The extra guilt means more stress which means I need more rest. It's a nasty cycle that can only be broken by being gentle with myself and not letting the productivity expectations of others weigh too heavily on me.

@willow9719 3 года назад

@@yeralizardjerry7716 you get me 😭 thank you for helping me feel less alone. That cycle and the constant struggle to be gentle w myself too

@yeralizardjerry7716 3 года назад

@@willow9719 Never alone :) But really, I'm glad! Best advice I've ever been given on that is to treat yourself like a good friend.

@jessicacarlson347 3 года назад

I love your videos. I think they are the only videos on RU-vid that I don’t fast forward the speed to get through them. And while I want to sit and watch all of them at the same time they make me want to get off my phone. Love, love, love.

@ziggy__stardust 3 года назад

In a short time you have become one of the people I admire the most, I think you are the person I aspire to be. Keep doing what you like, you're doing great. 🌿♡🌿

@Christophertracy09 3 года назад

Your videos remind me of the way films were made in the early 90’s during my adolescence. Dances With Wolves, Legends Of The Fall, and so many others. My heart and mind are forever stuck in the 20th century, I resist much after it, so your videos are such a comfort to me❤️

@nancywestern1390 3 года назад

Being lost in the zone, is finding yourself.

@bengtrubin2981 3 года назад

Paola, you did it again, bringing up a subject so seldom admired, so often forgotten, ....like the art of doing nothing or go in the direction of your nose. Everyone should have the possibility to now and then, take this path, ...with no pressure, no time limit, ...just watching and admire the nature in all its aspects. Daydreaming....is the best remedy. And you manage to learn us all. Thanks again

@dreenyan 3 года назад

I absolutely love the incredible amount of inspiration that spring brings you, Paola! It's infectious, and we're all the better for it 💚

@Amaditis 3 года назад

When your words touch the especially deep strings of my soul, I take out my journal and write them down, so I can always come back to them later. Thank you! 🌿✨🙏

@maicstar7520 3 года назад

Paola, so incredibly soft, gentle voice. Listening this for me is like it used to be listening a good story before a sleep as a little child. Real woman, thank you.

@daylenestaneart775 2 года назад

I love how you can look at a flower and then paint it, right then and there. What a wonderful gift!😃

@Bamgeutcutiepie 3 года назад

I want to say another thing as well... on this specific topic, I feel that in today’s world, especially when you live in a big city - and for me I still live in the busy capital city. - people these days almost compete with who can be the busiest! Even time off has to be filled with social events and scheduled activities and going going going. Now I may be an introvert , so that life tires me anyway, but I have always felt that me “waisting my time away” in others eyes, compared to their hectic life, is something I’ve always found an accomplishment. Haha I don’t want to be living in a state of always chasing. I’m enough as I am. What I have. Like you once said Paola, the future is important but it shouldn’t be your holy focus every waking hour to create that future. Because truly the best days of my life is when I disappear into a world of my own making and if someone were to ask me what I’d been doing , they’d think “that’s it?” Haha. But to me those days of your inner child coming to life and just being, are the days that make life beautiful to me.

@dianebethel4676 3 года назад

Emily Jane, well said:) thank you for sharing 👍👍

@rogeriosoares1363 3 года назад

I feel exactly the same way. Thank you so much for sharing. Love from Brazil 🙌🏻

@RunninUpThatHillh 3 года назад

Yeah. It's city people. That's why I stay in my rural community and never take trips to the city lol.

@kathyr.6825 3 года назад

I love this...my best days are just puttering around my house...Sometimes I feel my life is not significant when compared to others but then I realized it brings me joy just to be

@valeriedimilia6902 3 года назад

Your words resonate deeply and I appreciate them more than words can express. They inspire in me a kinder gentler way to treat myself, others, and the planet. I have promised myself that I don't have to ever listen to another sermon that inspires fear, guilt or shame. Instead I chose to be inspired by goodness and love, beauty and gratitude...thank you! Sending love from Oregon, Valerie

@teynya 3 года назад

everybody needs a slow weekend. thank you for this! 💛

@angelagrimes8237 3 года назад

Once again you hit the spot! Just being is sooooo hard to do. It is the Puritanical work ethic that is engrained in our society that we don’t even acknowledge or understand and yet accept. I have been retired for 3 years and I am just beginning to realize that it’s ok to just ‘be’. Thank you for reminding us we are empowered to just have moments, a day or whatever to just ‘be’.

@Patti-1962 3 года назад

Living most of my life finding my value in what I accomplished each day, setting very high, often unattainable goals for myself. This meant that I seriously lacked contentment. THEN, I became very sick, developing multiple chronic health issues. One of them could be fatal if I don't rest and limit my activity. It's sad that it took this to get me to slow down.... but now I have such a different view on productivity, and have found contentment in just being.

@KrissiCreates 3 года назад

I am in the same boat with you ! So sad it took health issues to slow us down !

@Patti-1962 3 года назад

@@KrissiCreates I'm so sorry to hear that you have health issues. I hope you have a wonderful spring!

@snezanamatic6986 3 года назад

This is one of my favorite videos so far. Has a very strong and impactful message in our speeding lives. The value of joy and peace over the cost of time is the difference we should learn.

@user-cz8zi1nz5u 3 года назад

Im korean and love your videos!

@libbymiller5240 3 года назад

When I listen and watch your beautiful, heartfelt vlogs, I feel such PEACE!...Your ability with words is simply magical! You have such a gift....I hope someday soon you will publish a book with your beautiful drawings and your beautiful thoughts! The world NEEDS to hear!! Hope you have a lovely night my friend....

@ainyevelyn 3 года назад

I can relate when you said you don’t have a daily morning routine. Every morning is different for me too. When I have the time off I would just do whatever I want. I’m glad to find someone whom I can relate :)

@witty2u 3 года назад

You spread out so much gratitude for God's creation, and the beauty you spread is heartwarming. - Thank you! ❤️ I love your little pieces of art. They are shipped with so much love. I am glad I found your channel. 🙂 Much joy always, dear Paola!

@theuniquebean 3 года назад

This one reminded me of one of my favorite movies growing up. The Legend of the Falls. Thank you for everything you share. It’s a beautiful thing to share what is truly precious to us. I often think of how lucky your students are. In a way all of us are your students too. Hugs to you and everyone here💕✨

@finjie 3 года назад

I try to do that on my day off. Last time i went cycling and i just said to myself i'm going left and then right. Because otherwise you always tend to go to places you know. Discovered a whole new area around our town. At some point i didn't know where i was. It was awesome 😀 getting lost in place and time is soooooo soothing

@hanni_honey8128 3 года назад

This 7 minute video changed my life

@rubychew6535 3 года назад

The painted glass is so beautiful and yet so simple at the same time. We tend to think more is better but in actuality less is more.

@annietapia2340 3 года назад

Couldn't agree more. Sometimes, doing nothing could be the most productive thing one can do. Based on experience, just being still and gazing at nothingness from time to time brings out more creative ideas and allows visualization of what would eventually prove to be one of many personal and professional successes. God bless you, Paola, in all your endeavors. Thank you for sharing yourself with the rest of us.

@annepower3313 2 года назад

Yes this is exactly right. Society gives us all the pressure with time constraints. I feel like I have a phobia of time. And always feel sooo bad if I haven't been productive in the day. Now I try to give myself days where I do nothing but think and relax and nurture my senses. Your channel is perfect for those days 😊

@ritikajyala 3 года назад

Paola gives me so much joy and calm.... She reminds me how my poetry helps me find peace and calm and maybe it'll help others too and therefore i should not give up on my tiny poetry channel, even though it might not grow as fast as I had hoped... Good things take time❤

@WithLoveKristina 3 года назад

Your videos are poetry. Moving poetry, spoken poetry. They're just beautiful and I am endlessly inspired to slow down and value my moments as precious and beautiful.

@cassiefrie4466 3 года назад

Dear Paola, I have the translator in Google write my English, so I hope that you can see my intention in it, if you have the time. Your subtitles are valuable, so I can translate into German. I'm from Germany and I love your videos. You have found a channel, even with your introvert, that can help many people. I see a lot in you about my youngest daughter, who has just started studying art. Seeing the way you look at the things around you and your wonderful voice show a lot of appreciation for life. So I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the joy you share. Kind regards, Martina

@Jmaninaz1 3 года назад

At nearly 60 years of age, I have been, and still often am, a Master at being a "Human Doing," but the last 15 years I have grappling with becoming a Master at being a Human Being. Our society in the USA has disconnected us in some ways from remembering that we simply need to just "be." I am only speaking for myself and my life journey, but being in the moment, this moment, instead of in the past, in my head or in the future is where contentment can be found. I fail at "being" almost daily but perhaps in time it will be the majority of my day instead of just a few minutes here and there. Thanks for this wonderful reminder of the joy in just "being."

@sandybeach3235 3 года назад

So many can relate to what you just wrote... realizing I need to "be" let's me know I'm on the right path..

@nicoleonfeels 3 года назад

Be kind to your sleeping heart - love it & love your videos so sooo much. 💓

@cathylynnpietranton 3 года назад

The landscape around you is absolutely breathtaking and gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your day with us.❤

@henzykenzy2043 3 года назад

Powerful&Profound, just what I need to break the shackles of my insomnia. I recently fell back into conventional dogma & paid the price with my mental health. This video has just confirmed to me what my body has been trying to tell me. That I've been going out of sync with true self lately. You voice is healing. Stay abundantly blessed.

@ajpotter518 3 года назад

Your videos are so tranquil. A much needed break from reality. You are correct when you say we need to make time for ourselves. This is so important to our mental health. Thanks for sharing a part of your life

@Катаринка 3 года назад

The spring is coming! Congrats everybody! Hello everyone from russian girl!

@raros5475 3 года назад

Hello friend

@fransousa7828 3 года назад

Hello! 😊🤗

@phyllisharries2742 3 года назад

Hello from the UK! Hope is on the at, love

@suzannamangovski4198 3 года назад

Hello from Canada:)

@tammiehammett5054 3 года назад

The other day I was mowing the lawn and the sunny evening was so beautiful I shut the mower off and just sat there smiling and crying. Life is a gift. Since I lost my mom this summer I've been working hard to enjoy the magic of each day. Videos like this help keep me in the gratitude mindset. Thank you 💗

@shereemcmahon2285 3 года назад

So sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs

@caga-ananchristine2885 3 года назад

Just finished my 3-hour exam. This video just relaxed my exhausted brain. Thankyou for this!

@sileb2698 3 года назад

Paola your videos are like a gentle gust of summer wind that caresses the face and soul 🧡 thank you!

@laurenwilson2254 3 года назад

I can't believe you play the fiddle on top of everything else, your talent and creativity is spectacular!

@OverKillJill 3 года назад

I was thinking the same thing!!

@nonexistenty4152 3 года назад

When I paint, whenever I am tired of work, in a moment of respite, I come to this video. You, Paula, have taught me how to fall in love with myself, To become calmer, to fall in love with the day to day mundane .... the amount of impact you hVe had on my mind is phenomenal! You are one of the best teachers I have come by.... I feel lucky for a lot of things in my life n one of them is finding u

@524FrmGrl 3 года назад

The older I get, the more disconnected from the clock is what I love.

@kimcartwright8111 3 года назад

Always so lovely! So many different wildflowers , what a treasure. Time is so precious. I am a fanatic about not wasting time. Watching your videos is time well spent! I hope you are having a joyous week.

@kendra8845 3 года назад

Your videos are so relaxing. Here's some more time-related advice for anyone who wants it. Don't spend your on useless things (and no school is not useless), spend your time on what makes you happy and what will set you up for success; spend less time worrying about what was and start thinking about what you want to happen because everything that happened in the past shaped who you are today and who you will be tomorrow. Much love to everyone during these difficult times where everything seems to blend together and things are becoming more and more difficult💖💖 You got this!!

@clairzu4461 3 года назад

I always wrote a timetable and followed it. I loved it when my goals were accomplished. But since last month, I've been taking a break from everything. I feel very happy, doing what I want to do like lying on the grass, walking in the rain, and making my art crafts. I feel free and realize that I should give more time to myself like this instead of studying and working for the future all the time. I feel guilty sometimes too, thinking that what if I'm wasting my precious time. But suddenly, I saw your video and got motivated. You literally said what I wanted to hear. Thank you so much, Fairy!

@cassiewatkins9828 3 года назад

I think it's so important to take some time to have nothing going on and nothing to do. Especially when you've completed a lot of work too

@darlene2483 3 года назад

And her voice is very calming just love to hear her talk about all these things really neat channel 💓

@susuum4369 3 года назад

The only problem with this is I always reward myself for the tiniest things like lifting a pencil

@cassiewatkins9828 3 года назад

@@darlene2483 It really is! I always enjoy watching her videos after a long school day especially 😊

@cassiewatkins9828 3 года назад

@@susuum4369 I feel that hahaha

@sallymichaelsdesigns3045 3 года назад

I have listened/watched this video countless times. And again, I have it on repeat. Every single second feeds my soul in a way I didn’t know was thirsty. Like answers to questions I had not asked yet. I have loved every video you’ve made , and have watched you from your first video. This one is my favorite . I feel that it was just for me like a present from the universe . Thank you, Paola 💕🌸💕

@carobeci 3 года назад

Oh, I needed this today. Thank you.

@janet-Spirit_of_the_Living_God 3 года назад

Simply beautiful. I've enjoyed these truths even more since being retired and master of my own schedule. And yet, even beyond wandering hills or pages of special books, of digging in my garden or creating/crafting, it's the times I connect with my Heavenly Father that truly leave me feeling connected, fulfilled, and achieving the highest calling I could in that day - my most important work!

@sav3dgirl194 3 года назад

"Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God" -Matthew 5:8

@Collias85 3 года назад

You're so wise and peaceful. Been going through a difficult time, and your videos have brought me a necessary reminder to slow down and enjoy the little things. Thank you.

@TheSpringDiaries 3 года назад

The best thing I've watched today!! This video just comforts and soothes the mind❤️

@youtimeful 3 года назад

Loved this. Spring is finally here and now I can sit outside. My favorite time is my Saturday morning when I rise when Iike, usually early, and just go sit outside. I listen, I watch, I breathe. Maybe read a book maybe not. Just be.

@melissar6365 3 года назад

This is one of the best unproductive days, filled with so many activities, I’ve ever seen. What a fabulous nothing day to unwind. And you play the violin, too?! My, your talents are endless! My days are, unfortunately, quite routine, boring and basically, Groundhog Day. When I do get time away from work, I’ve got a personal to do list, filled with chores, a mile long. Still, I’m the worlds greatest procrastinator and can completely waste a full day doing nothing at all being a couch potato, leaving me mad at myself for wasting it. I aspire to spend off days similar to yours, but they rarely seems materialize.

@joyceconnolly1065 3 года назад

Respectfully, I say to you that these days are not wasted. Depending upon our outlook, they can be some of the most fruitful days we have. Said with Love. ❤️

@jenniferkessener1111 3 года назад

So beautiful to see your Spring. It has become my favorite season now that we live with 4 distinct seasons. Everything comes to life, and all the small beauties abound. I have begun to collect little things to enjoy, and some to press. Lord bless you.