Of all these relationship gurus, I only listen to Tony Gaskins and R.C. Blakes - both men with integrity, with Christian values, and in healthy marriages. "By their fruit you shall know them."
"These men with child bearing hips but they look like SpongeBob" Tony's comment had me laughing 🤣🤣🤣 These are the type of men who will put women down and chip away at her self-esteem. Ladies we have to be strong, confident and know our self worth. So we don't seek approval from LAME MEN.
When these men have been hurt from previous relationships the new women always pay the price for their BROKENNESS . C’mon men no two women are the same .
I have said it for a while now, social media has given people with insecurities the boldness to now start a movement based upon things they need to get healed from. We need a prayer life, because too many are following the wrong things and the wrong people. Not everything is meant to be followed. People have made more trends out of dysfunction and insecurities, and it makes no sense!
@@veronicawilliams1957 Help Lord...I'll even go so far to say, from a spiritual aspect, these challenges that have become so trendy, are actually initiations into the occult. The devil is authorized to traffic in ignorance. But God leads us into ALL TRUTH. The blind leading the blind. So many are lost, thirsty and unloved. Yet God can satisfy every thirst we have....and like Tony stated, we won't have to try so hard when we know who we are and who's we are....in Jesus.
PSA TO MY SISTER QUEENS 👑: Unhealed and broken people are seeking revenge by mistreating you! Whole and healed people seek to be a positive source of support in and honor your healing process to feel whole and healed! Pay close attention to how they TREAT you to know the difference! The universal spiritual law of cause and effect is ALWAYS working!
I am disgusted to know that there are angry, hurt, ignorant, grown BOYS out there trying to spread their demonic spirit verbally to our young men coming up in the world. I pray that their message will break apart as they’re trying to deliver it. I truly pray that the supposedly grown MEN out there, are not listening & putting into action their messages.
When you do evil, for what evil was done to you, you’re setting yourself up for some SERIOUS payback. You Will Reap what you sow. Trust that. Vengeance belongs to God. And as women, NOTHING will change until we do. WE hold the key.
This is some good stuff Uncle Tony speaking.. I talked to a guy briefly who was 5'5" , 250 pounds.. and had the nerve to talk about heavy set women. Although, I'm not heavy set but the nerve of him.. and he don't believe in the Bible. That was our last conversation.
It makes me sick just thinking about how many men waste their life away and do harm teaching others wrong messages full of hate, bitterness and injustice, instead of choosing to do good by finding a good woman to be happy with and educating their children to create a better generation. People cannot understand that we only have one life and even if there is bad out there, you cannot be so weak, angry, bitter and hateful to make your entire existence about the bad and choose to remain blind to the good. Because anyone who opens their eyes will see the world is also filled with loving women, with good mindset and character. But you have to become a real good man in order to meet and keep a real good woman. If you choose them for their outer shell, don't be surprised when that's all you get.
Ladies, I've got a friend who's got a guy chasing her. She don't want to date him because he's been with 19 other women after he broke up with her in high school. She's got a body count boundary. I would highly suggest women to think about that and come up with their own body count boundary.
@@rebeccasharpe879 Really? I've had plenty of guys tell me their body count. Including the one that used to sell his body for drugs. I've never had to ask. They willingly supply the information after I tell them my body count is none of their business. They do that to make you feel obligated to reveal your own body count before they judge you on yours.
Also, keep an ear out if their number changes over time, or they keep adding another woman to the list as time goes on. And then you question them when their number keeps changing. They know they've been caught and they're lying. Which is a deal breaker for myself.
@A Raymond I agree with you to the extent that a grown man won't care about a body count, so he won't ask his date, or partner or whatever. And will understand, from an equal standpoint that a woman will have a past much like a man does. However, grown boys seem to care a great deal about a woman's body count. That is what the number is for. From my own experience, if a guy feels the need to ask me what my body count is, then his insecurity will get in the way and he will judge whatever number I've given him. And those are usually the guys with the very high body count, despite looking down on women who has a lesser body count than he does. For example, the guy I met who sold his body for drugs turned to me to tell me that it's a good thing I had never modeled for Playboy, otherwise there would be a problem. I told him that's a deal breaker for myself and I walked away from him. I don't do double standards. So, if I'm never asked what my body count is, the discussion never needs to happen, because the man - the leader and head of household (also the role model), is placing me as his equal partner and is secure enough with himself that he is content to get to know the person I am today, and not the younger, dumber version I was. Other than that, people are welcome to have whatever boundaries they want or are comfortable with. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
For real, I was concerned 3 years ago listening to some of these guys. TG helped me separate who to listen to, within 2 years ago. I looked at some of these guys, like I can't be losing to these dudes. Even moreso, I know they didn't give him a football scholarship and not me. Oh no, he must have went to a school where all of the recruiters just check in at their practice regularly or a recruiting service to match them. One of the platforms went from being a decent platform to exactly what TG calls "grown boy captains". It's not worth my time. I'm here to be called up higher.
@@lauramapani3627 thank you. To be honest, most are not in. They don't want to watch the videos. Phone calls with them are not all in on growing and serving, it's more like acquiring and what I want. There are different levels to it, you have: the jokesters and hecklers, and you have general good guys who work hard and plan on and work on business/credit/investing but not willing to submit to regular structure like life coaches and authors. It can be rough, but when I break through in a big way they may follow.
Guys out here jealous of women they're in relationships with. I was looking at an old video of Whitney Houston and she talked about throwing BB a b day party. Why she say when they got home he was mad and he spit on her. Smh.
He’s talking about the Red pill, GYOW (Go your own way) Alpha Male men on RU-vid that are ruining women today. Some of these femininity women on RU-vid are doing the same thing. Women getting your bag. Men getting over. It’s clash of the titans!
Tony thank you for calling these so called men out! They are destroying the dating market. These guys aren’t telling these boys the repercussions to their actions! It’s like these men have given up on love and rather “sit in the dark” to compensate a women’s love and self love.
Wow he is real ! So many men put women down for being themselves. Being Godly, being beautiful , confident and loving . I can’t stand when men do that. Thank you for calling it out tony . ❤️
Lol. 😂😂😂. Even more scarier when they change back to Freddy Jackson with no warning!!! Yikes 🤔🤐😱😬. That can be too big of a shock!!! They will say ; who the h&!! are you? Lol.😂😂😂
You are spot on with this video. Your videos have helped me the last few years. I can see the passion in you with this video. Men and woman are both to blame we need to hold ourselves accountable in order to grow.
I fell out laughing and hit my chin on my desk laughing as I am typing a email to my supervisor and spit my water out when I heard TG laughing 😂 oh my goodness. A good time, be blessed. French bulldog pahahaha
I think the world got crazier and crazier by the time and it got to a point nowadays where men bash women for anything and think it's in their right to act however and say whatever. But that doesn't mean women should ever accept this as normal behaviour, just know how a man should treat you, what is respectful and what not and hold on to these standards. For example i find it so disrespectful how most guys act when they ask you out without even knowing you, then start having an attitude or even bashing you for not accepting to go out with a total stranger who just liked 1 of your photos and now thinks he has rights and demands over you. What a joke, for me that's a clear tell sign of low character and would never accept to go out with someone who doesn't put effort in getting to know me. Ladies never accept to be with a guy who shows spiteful revengeful arrogant behaviour anytime there is a problem, instead of showing patience, kindness and willingness to solve and get through anything.
This is real talk! I’m glad you speak on these type of things Tony these men now a days think that they don’t have to stand on certain principles but God get the last say so at the end! They will pay 💯💯💯
I once asked, 'would you like your grown-up daughter treated like the way I got treated?'. Needless to say, that comment went down like a lead 🎈. LoL.! In Barbados we say, 'the higher the monkey climb the 🌲 tree the more he show he tail. Be careful out their ladies. It's a war zone out there. Watch how you're treated, it's not about the 💰 or the man's position in life. It's how well he treats you for real. Is it genuine, or just an elaborate game? God 🙏 bless.❤️❤️❤️
Teach!!! This is a Rhema word in due season! KINGDOM PRINCIPLES! KINGDOM INTEGRITY! Thank you for your obedience. Standing in the gap for you my brother.
Thank you Pastor Gaskins..smiles..You're anointed nd called to preach nd teach this truth in order for others to be loosed nd set free! God Bless you & Lady Gaskins 🙏🏾💜🙏🏾
These men are modern day Sauls who are persecuting women on a soul level. My prayer is that they will have a road to demascus and truly be transformed by Jesus Christ before it’s too late for them. Time is winding down and this isn’t the time to be doing the devils work. God is not pleased
Girl I thought I was the only one who said/says "He look like the bottom of a shoe". Lol love it!! Meaning run over, run down, scuffed up or all of the above. 😂😂😂
I'm catching up on all my Tony tube and I realized it's 2:30 a.m. !! OMG Tony!! You aren't crying in the wilderness with no one listening. I AM LISTENING!! God bless you.
Tony you are amazing. I needed this video today. Got me back on track and focused. God is really using you! You hit the nail on the head every time. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 🇬🇧
Tony, I’m most definitely LISTENING to your words of wisdom! I only listen to male relationship advice from you and Pastor RC Blakes. The two of you are Godly AND happily married men. God bless you and keep on teaching!🙏🏽💯
I'm floored too Tony 🤣🤣 ain't nothing about them alpha male. Manly men don't need to punch down on women to feel better about themselves. I've been watching videos about them for days 🤦🏾♀️ Edit: not the three digits 😂😂 good night! The very definition of LAME. I pray for more sensible voices in the "manosphere" to combat these beliefs
Yeah it's definitely sad to see our men doing things like this. I've experienced it and saw others experience it as well. It happens on both sides of the fence as well. Us women aren't exempt unfortunately. I always talk about healing and finding out who you are which is key to everything that we do. That has to come first, but for many it doesn't. We gotta change that.
I pursued him I didn’t know any better the women who raised me spoke openly about their sexual conquests as a teenager and would make fun of me for being childish at 12 years old I overheard my brothers wife saying that she was already having sex at my age while she giggled about it with her friend she had legal guardianship of me so I thought this was normal also we watched movies like “never been kissed” and “American pie” at 11 12 years old watching these movies with my legal guardians looking back is very inappropriate not to mention I was severely neglected as a child so I grew up to exploit myself and now I’m trying to learn how to love and respect myself
Amen and blessing to you Tony! The way god has brought you into my life is amazing! From your book to your RU-vid you are amazing sir! I appreciate what you do! Thank you 🙏🏾 and God bless!
The moment you said it’s 2 guys, I knew exactly who you were talking about!!! They are trash. You can tell they are hurt. I watch their podcasts to laugh cause it’s funny af!
The type of men we have to today are the ones who have platform to speak chaos and the ones who have access to listen to the chaos and actually apply it to their lives. Thank God He still has a remnant of good men.
I’m glad you said it! I wasn’t trusting those sistas. One of them got locked up, Michaela Pink. She sat here and argued with me in the comment section about baking a man a cake for his birthday… I was like sheesh it’s just cake… immediately unfollowed after that. And don’t get me started on the Red Pillers. 🤦🏽♀️
What women must understand is there's a difference when a man is buying vs investing in us. Its a big difference cause you will be either be a priority to him or just another option.
Wheww this is A Word ✨✨ I love this video so much ! In some ways it stepped on my toes, because I was there once ! But thank you God for Growth ❤️ I truly wish this video could be viral on a huge platform ! This is the TRUTH that the world needs , especially in this generation/society! Thank you so much brother Tony , more Blessings,Abundance,Peace and love be upon you and your family 💪🏽💯✨❤️
SHARE SHARE SHARE. WE NEED TO BOOST THIS VIDEO. THESE LAMES ARE PAYING FOR MARKETING AND ON AN EVERY PLATFORM. LET'S LIFT THE VOICE OF TONY TOO🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Sad but true. You can really tell the men who were bullied and looked over as kids. They become super bitter as adults. And don’t be fooled by the ones that have money and are successful. Some of them can be the worst ones. This is why Tony keeps preaching about studying a man’s character. It will tell you so much.
I’m so thankful that I clicked on this video. I always had this feeling towards pinky in the brain and something didn’t sit well with my spirit with their message. I left my ex over their ideals and how he all of a sudden viewed women and relationship. No thanks!
