This is so hard for me sometimes. I only have one friend but she lives in a whole other state. I hate the fact that I'm a shy person, so I've never made friends throughout college (approaching senior year now). It makes me feel terrible about myself, but I try to learn to be happy alone.
Damn right on time. I have been praying for ONE good friend. I cut off two of my ex bffs from HS due to toxicity && only holding on because of history three years ago. Now, i’m married and 30 and i’m like Lord please bless me with just ONE good female friend. I don’t need a group.
I hope it goes well!✨, a lil tip is to put yourself out there. No matter how awkward you might feel things are just put yourself out there and give it a try. Also try watching some videos on how to lead a conversation (those be helping me sometimes)
i bet, i’m only a year into adulthood and i still have my high school friends but i haven’t met anyone new or anything due to the pandemic, it’s rough.
Omg girl I am on the sameeee journey I feel like covid closed me up and I graduated college with only 2 friends I kept in touch with! It’s super lonely sometimes but I’m so excited to make friends as an adult and find friends that are aligned with the journey I’m on rn
she's so real, ugh 🥺 I've been thinking about the importance of true, loving, genuine, friendships for weeks now. this is really reaffirming everything I've been feeling and yearning for, thank you girl
i swearrrr it’s like every time u post it’s directed at me 😭 i was jus thinking wow... now that i’m officially an adult i want friends but i’m too much of an introvert 🤦🏽♂️
Thank you for posting this video! I was just crying about how I am so lonely. I recently moved to a new town and haven’t been able to make friends I’ve always struggled with talking to people. I am going to try to talk to people tomorrow!
try to find the positive, solitude creates a greater connection with ones self. i found my truest self alone which helped me find my tribe after. I’m proud of you for deciding to put yourself out there, you got this!
totally agree with you. I just finished my first year of college and due to the pandemic I only met like a handful of people. I just lost a lot of friendships recently and I am in a rut about my social life which is nonexistent
didn't even meet my best friend until last semester. now, we plan on rooming next semester of college. we have the same passions and motivated drive, despite we have completely different career plans. i have had very little friends as a child because of my social anxiety. and the friends that i have had left me. we were both dealing with bad anxiety and family issues. God made us friends at the right moment. ❤️
It's the alignment for me! This video was right on time. I'm in a similar season in my life where I'm evolving and I need more friends that align with who I'm becoming or have experienced the things I'm experiencing now. The conversation with your friend is so real and raw. I'm the same way where I distance myself when I'm dealing with something and when I'm trying to get my life together. So, good to see that I'm not the only person who is like that. Being more social and appreciating the good friendships I do have is something I'm working on. I definitely need to try bumble Bff. I wonder if you can do regular bumble and the BFF version at the same time?🤔 lol
Ouu girl I feel you 💯, I moved to the USA like 5 years ago and girl it’s so hard to make friends. Especially friends that are on the same level as you and are genuine..loved this video ❤️
All I had to read was the title and that hit so hard before even watching the video. It’s so refreshing to see I’m not the only one who is struggling with this also. And it sucks making friends bc most people just wanna use you nowadays so I’ve just kinda given up tbh.
You aren’t lying about people using others. Especially backstabbers... I got tired of making friends. It's hard for me to make friends plus anxiety on the side. Ugh!
Ugh I wish i were in Atlanta cuz you and i are so alike!! I love being outside and hiking and half my closet is thrifted 😂😂 im so glad you are finding friends I love that for you!!❤️
I loved this video Kera. I honestly needed this. I’ve always had a hard time with making friends because of my anxiety and me being shy. I’m in college and it’s so hard for me to make friends. This video gave me a push to try to get out of my comfort zone & possibly meet new people😊.
This was such a great video!!! I can definitely relate to you a lot with not being able to make/keep friendships and just getting anxiety when trying to talk and meet people. Im wishing you so much luck on your journey and growth
Loved this video, related to Aisha in trying to know yourself before you make friends if not it’s going to be hard to be meaningful. Loved your coming content !
Girl! I have multiple things to say: 1. I am so proud of you for being so vulnerable with this. It’s something a lot of young adults struggle with, and it’s so refreshing to see someone using their platform to be open about it. 2. I used to live in Atlanta. And I started following you in here when I was there. I wish I had reached out so we could’ve gotten to know each other. I just worried about the age difference and that you would’ve seen me as “old” 😂 I’m 26! 3. I recently moved to the northeast, and had the same epiphany as you. I didn’t have many friends, and I realized I had the power to change that. So I downloaded bumble BFF and made some great friends through the app. Again, so proud of you for taking that step. 4. I LOVED THAT CONVERSATION WITH YOU AND YOUR FRIEND AT THE END!!! We need more of that! I love this turn your channel is taking! I see the growth ♥️
Hey. I was always to afraid to mention this but I always felt so relateable and comfortable watching your videos because it seemed like you have a similar life as me. Can’t explain why somehow but I don’t have many friends and I noticed that your circle isn’t as big as other youtubers circles for example which made me feel comfortable, less lonely or sad. I know how to be able to be alone and I don’t have a problem with it. It’s worse on days where there is nice wheather but atleast I’m going out with my crush sometimes😅 I like you so much btw :)
Thank you for documenting this. I am an extrovert close to my 40s and have found it very difficult to cultivate friendships with women as well. What I find is people just want to do things for social media instead of putting in the hard work. I too am on bumble and have not yet to find my person or people to hang with but I'm still going at it
You have so much in common with my soon to be graduating high schooler. We live in Ktown Germany. We watched your videos since helping us to prepare for coming to Germany. Everything you said was sooo true! Keep inspiring, you are a blessing. I wish you could shout out my teen's birthday this Thursday, it would mean alot.
all my past friends snaked me, so the only friends I'm working with is my family and the friends I've had for 10+ years. NO NEW friends here and its sad but man genuine friends are hard to come by.
I love your videos 😭 I just moved to a new city in a whole pandemic so it’s def hard to make friends. I might just try this. And I want to meet other youtubers to Vlog with bc my friends don’t get it 🙄
Hey EVERYBODY... It's me yall NEW FRIEND! Chile, I've been there before sad, depressed & lonely. But I speak HAPPINESS & Abundant Joy to each of you... God will see you threw,🧡
I would love to be friends wit you and i live not that far from Atlanta ❤❤ i feel u on friends cuz ppl dont value friendships no more and it make me sad but i rather b lonely than b around fake ppl
I get anxiety too when it comes to calling people. I do text and keep up with people on social media though. I feel like I reach out alot to people and people dont always reach out to me. Its nice when I am not the one to always initiate things.
I don’t have any friends either except for my bf and he always tells me I need some friends and I say whereeeeee can I find these friends that you speak of???? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’ve been a loner since high school so it doesn’t bother me.
GIRL....how I feel w me being new out here to atlanta and people being "different." lol. if you ever want a REAL friend, hmu! ❤️cus I also only hang with my bf LOL.
I would love to be ur fren girl trust me .....I would if I was closer because u are such a positive female , always giving off peaceful energy . You also have very good reasoning ability which I love , I love discussions literally about any and everything
Can we just be friends 😩!! Like deadass😂 I know we would be some coo ass friends😊 lol. I fucking love yo personality and ur maturity. Don’t be shy frienddd😂🤪. And btw I’m a Sagittarius ♐️
