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Ruby Wax on Mindfulness 

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LECTURE @THE SCHOOL OF LIFE: Ruby Wax argues that by better understanding better how our brains work, we can learn to rewire our thinking and find calm in a frenetic world. Wax seeks to help us start becoming more the master, and less the slave, of our own minds.
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@Labb
@Labb 9 лет назад
This woman is an absolute godsend. She makes so much sense to me.
@Maddie9185
@Maddie9185 3 года назад
And she does it all with great humor. Priceless.
@fattidiliberta
@fattidiliberta 2 года назад
same here! and... i just found out about her 1 day ago....
@celinehorgan2351
@celinehorgan2351 9 лет назад
Ruby is just wonderful and so brave. It can't be easy to stand up and talk about something that affects your own life, but its wonderful that she does this, and makes it sound interesting and amusing at the same time.
@helensegger1997
@helensegger1997 5 лет назад
Ruby Wax, a truly beautiful person ... inside and out. I really admire and respect this wonderful woman. I'm in awe ❤
@PatMeruseye
@PatMeruseye 6 лет назад
When you learn to be mindful the first question that comes to mind is: WHY the heck did we not learn this in school as the most IMPORTANT subject of our life ? The world would be much more peaceful than it is today if we did.
@faygriffiths6175
@faygriffiths6175 6 лет назад
Pat Meruseye this is very true, such a shame it wasn’t taught in schools, thankfully though there are videos like this online so those who want to make a change will have access to information that can help them do so.
@andreicotofan3105
@andreicotofan3105 6 лет назад
Interesting rant, although it would've been gibberish to a lot of us in school; exploding sexually and getting around the next cool thing our peers did. First thing mindfulness kicks in I would call it The mind's puberty, and then it matures and we reshape our thinking in perspective. Why aren't we hanging out ? 07475951584
@chloezub154
@chloezub154 5 лет назад
THIS! SO MUCH this!!
@PhoebeJaneway
@PhoebeJaneway 5 лет назад
So true. I'm a teacher and I don't get it either!!! I'm still an apprentice but once I'm done I'll found a "school of life" club at the school where I work! SO important and the kids are so grateful.
@PhoebeJaneway
@PhoebeJaneway 5 лет назад
@@faygriffiths6175 Yeah, this kind of information has ALWAYS been available - also in libraries!!! But people don't look up what's good for them! They just don't. It HAS to be in school and I really don't get it why this isn't implemented - depression is THE disease in our modern societies. It's all the same here in Germany and we don't have that stuff at our schools either. So crazy!
@z4k4z
@z4k4z 10 лет назад
I love the look on the faces of some in the audience when Ruby Wax described her driving habits (11:57). Lighten up, people.
@Marcoplo
@Marcoplo 10 лет назад
basic suburban people that are frightened or appaled by the slightest expression of anything aside from *Hello Yay Good Day!*
@MichL_71
@MichL_71 4 года назад
Ya, what was up with that, so grumpy 😂
@chucky29949
@chucky29949 2 года назад
LMAO
@mirandabunting9841
@mirandabunting9841 10 лет назад
This was just fantastic. I was in the front row. Ruby is phenomenal. Her books are a masterpiece and I highly recommend seeing her on tour.
@elektrotehnik94
@elektrotehnik94 6 лет назад
What's the topic of her books, if I may ask? What would I get more in the books, that wasn't shown here? (is what my brain really wants to know)
@andreicotofan3105
@andreicotofan3105 6 лет назад
4 years ago ?????
@aislingholianartist
@aislingholianartist Год назад
Finally someone that actually explained “Mindfulness”
@johnconcepcion186
@johnconcepcion186 6 лет назад
Ruby has a way of making complex ideas sound so simple. Such a great speaker
@shannonb082905
@shannonb082905 8 лет назад
Ruby is one smart lady! She makes me happy!
@MACVERITAS11
@MACVERITAS11 7 лет назад
I love this woman. I love that she was in Ab Fab. God I love her!!!!!!! And her Madonna interview was fabulous.
@vickicrowell9729
@vickicrowell9729 8 лет назад
This is so awesome! It makes so much sense to me now. Achieving this goal may be difficult, but I have to begin this journey. Thank-you for posting this. I finally feel hope.
@sherrypunch7518
@sherrypunch7518 9 лет назад
Absolutely loved Ruby's neurolanguage!! My neurotransmitters are presenting a standing ovation!! :)
@regplate4139
@regplate4139 7 лет назад
I saw Ruby Wax live at a private function. Laughed my socks off. Now, I admire her, she made total sense.
@natashaaylott783
@natashaaylott783 8 лет назад
Ruby honey, you always make me laugh so much. Thank you for opening up this topic to the world. Bless you xx
@celiafanning7006
@celiafanning7006 8 лет назад
Loved this talk - perfect mix and humour and science. Survival of the wiset and hopefully kindest.
@johnmacward
@johnmacward 6 лет назад
This was INCREDIBLY enjoyable - a nice dose of dark humour around an extremely important topic.
@sandram5062
@sandram5062 7 лет назад
I love her self deprecating humor and crazy eyes!
@namechangedtopunty7659
@namechangedtopunty7659 8 лет назад
Thank you Ruby, I'm currently going through some stuff now 2016 & listening to you has helped me understand my mindfulness . Thank you
@marksartor
@marksartor 9 лет назад
She is brilliant! Rumination and Mindfulness..
@rubberbumm
@rubberbumm 8 лет назад
what a wonderfull honest vibe you have !
@Soudade2011
@Soudade2011 8 лет назад
Why School of Life doesn't upload any more long talks like this? The short videos are great but it's good to have long talks with guests and with Alain too :)
@abhinavnair9678
@abhinavnair9678 7 лет назад
Soudade Kaadan you need mindfullness
@davidsangels5347
@davidsangels5347 7 лет назад
I like Ruby, she is great at delivering talks and make boring topics so interesting and funny. I hope she goes back on TV.
@arelymartinez315
@arelymartinez315 10 лет назад
I love this. I had to watch this for my english 101 class, so happy that she made us watch this. :)
@j-the-isso2087
@j-the-isso2087 10 лет назад
This is Fantastic! I remember in the 90s when Ruby used to do Louis Theroux style journalism and I'd be amazed how she could experience such extremes and still be herself. Maybe it effect her afterall
@andyd6338
@andyd6338 3 года назад
One of the best people ever
@AnneTurner62
@AnneTurner62 8 лет назад
What a gem of a woman just so well worth watching
@wendyknox-leet1034
@wendyknox-leet1034 6 лет назад
She is so brilliant. Sending love, admiration and gratitude. Shared on Facebook.
@Competitive_Antagonist
@Competitive_Antagonist 10 лет назад
It's interesting that she says how we can't attend to our senses and be in a stte of stress at the same time. I guess that's why I sometimes found chilli to be helpful for my OCD. Having it really hot just seemed to blast through the psychic debry like plasma. I finally found temporary relief from my obessesive thoughts and the mental pain subsided. The hard part though is finding a sensory stimuli that can over power the default mod network. Sometimes it feels like pushing a boulder up hill.
@Magic1Angie
@Magic1Angie 10 лет назад
From what I am understanding, it sems important to make sure you use a POSITIVE stimuli, rather than one which the brain may see as a punishment
@bradleynoneofyourbizz5341
@bradleynoneofyourbizz5341 9 лет назад
Chriscom28 I use sand paper. Really. I carry a small piece in my wallet. Focus on how smooth one side and how rough the other.
@AlecBrady
@AlecBrady 9 лет назад
Chriscom28 Sounds like you've found a neat trick. You need to watch out for tolerance effects, though - you know, needing it more and more painful to get the same effect. What Mindfulness does is different - it's about practising the skill of tuning in to mild stimuli, rather than requiring the strength of the stimulus to do all the work for you. Get yourself a meditation teacher (there will probably be a Buddhist meditation centre somewhere near you) and learn how to do it. It's amazing.
@AlecBrady
@AlecBrady 9 лет назад
AngieMusic Better still (in the beginning) is a neutral stimulus, since you're encouraged to suspend judgement during mindfulness. Like +Bradley Noneofyourbizz and his sandpaper.
@thunder23JOE
@thunder23JOE 5 лет назад
Yup multi tasking hasn't been debunked with the fact that the mind isn't able to be conscious of two "things" at the same time, be it an emotion, a thought, or a sensual stimulus. In your case you cant be anxious AND feel the heat in your mouth at the same moment. That is why meditation and mindfulness work since these activities focus your mind on one object (usually the breath) and hold it for a long period of time to increase mental energy
@miriamwilson9542
@miriamwilson9542 Год назад
I SO love this lady. God bless her. Ruby, you are my hero.
@koulster2
@koulster2 2 года назад
This is a LIFE CHANGER talk/lecture, at least for myself. RU-vid or internet has a lot on mindfulness but this talk IS REALLY USEFUL. I request humans to listen to this with geat expectation, hopefully this will truly help.
@rachelmaund9045
@rachelmaund9045 6 лет назад
This hits the nail on the head for me. Stripped back in an archaic way,but she’s on point for everyday life. Who,what,why,when...a thousand thoughts a second! *LOVE
@sergeypanfilov3397
@sergeypanfilov3397 5 лет назад
first time after a long time watching mindfulness talks, finally I understand what it means and how it works. I love the way she talks.
@m_c_d
@m_c_d 9 лет назад
Fantastic talk. Ruby is a wonderful advocate for mindfulness
@sharonrocheparrett455
@sharonrocheparrett455 7 лет назад
brilliant work rudy you have help me so much
@emmcatherine1460
@emmcatherine1460 2 года назад
Thank you Ruby for your honesty.
@astrophonix
@astrophonix 8 лет назад
Brilliant, both insightful and funny, this is one of the very best videos I've seen on this topic, love you Ruby!
@Matty725
@Matty725 8 лет назад
+astrophonix I agree. This is THE best video I've seen on this topic.
@ChristianIsai
@ChristianIsai 7 лет назад
Thanks for the video, and all your work!
@vinnytnecniv
@vinnytnecniv 6 лет назад
Great speech Ruby , Ruby is and always has Been Awesome x
@moniker12
@moniker12 10 лет назад
Wise and wonderful. Thank you Ruby!
@elektrotehnik94
@elektrotehnik94 6 лет назад
10/10 I loved it above and beyond. Stayed up much too late to watch this to the end. Thank you for this, made me wiser
@Tapecutter59
@Tapecutter59 10 лет назад
Didn't know about this side of Ruby, very impressive nerd cred. We used to call the behaviour she is advocating "introspection", neuroscience is rapidly building up the details of how and why it works so well. Fortunately I was born a serotonin addict, when she asked the audience to listen for 10 seconds, I closed my eyes and my mind went blank, another 10 and I would have nodded off. :)
@FlowerPot9198
@FlowerPot9198 8 лет назад
Amazing talk, I absolutely love Ruby
@user-zi2nt2ez8x
@user-zi2nt2ez8x 8 лет назад
what a great woman!!! I am impressed
@dieguis86
@dieguis86 8 лет назад
Amazing! Thank you for sharing this!
@dancewomyn1
@dancewomyn1 7 лет назад
Brilliant...Have loved her for years, but this is really great stuff!
@geoffreyallen888
@geoffreyallen888 4 года назад
2019, first I've seen this. New depths to Ruby Wax who started out as a pushy C-lister. What a great lecture! And so likeable! I play the guitar, started when The Beatles happened. That's mindfulness but you never stop learning. Great to know that you can change your mind, ain't it? Really good lecture.
@RainbowLane
@RainbowLane 8 лет назад
Thank you - I really needed this.
@Michaelcurtsinger
@Michaelcurtsinger 9 лет назад
omg u just saved my life
@sharleandocking6445
@sharleandocking6445 5 лет назад
Ruby changed my entire concept of mental illness And how I choose to deal with it, understanding the science helps me be objective about emotions and decide to stop them graduating as oppose to his submitting to them xx
@michaelureadi2884
@michaelureadi2884 7 лет назад
This is fantastic!!...Should have more coverage, especially in School(s)....
@anaqderen5175
@anaqderen5175 7 лет назад
@fattidiliberta
@fattidiliberta 2 года назад
i am happy i found this... better late than never
@teresajohnson1352
@teresajohnson1352 4 года назад
You are GREAT Ruby!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!
@foboski
@foboski 6 лет назад
Such a great lecture, thank you for posting this.
@chee5935
@chee5935 6 лет назад
Amazing and very enlightening.
@TheKona2k
@TheKona2k 10 лет назад
Thank you ruby.
@frazzleface753
@frazzleface753 4 года назад
You have to laugh. It's really so important to laugh because that little moment of peace that comes with it makes us think that maybe, just maybe I can do this. I can go on.
@emmabeckley3116
@emmabeckley3116 7 лет назад
Awesome. That felt like the quickest half hour ever. Really really interesting.
@ElizabethHernandez-gp2xg
@ElizabethHernandez-gp2xg 10 лет назад
phenomenal !
@MyRainbowangel
@MyRainbowangel 7 лет назад
Thank you Ruby
@dualit11
@dualit11 10 лет назад
Great advice. Thanks for uploading
@crotchet1586
@crotchet1586 8 лет назад
Brilliant!
@archanasahu5052
@archanasahu5052 5 лет назад
It's a pleasure listen to her
@judylivingston8724
@judylivingston8724 9 лет назад
Thank you.
@engotis
@engotis 7 лет назад
Thanks Ruby that helped
@tedl7538
@tedl7538 5 лет назад
Great job Ruby!
@Nathlondon11
@Nathlondon11 10 лет назад
Ruby wax has made neuroscience, the mind & mindfulness much more accessible & so funny:) Indeed neuroplasticity means can change the neural pathways and neurons so learn things, try new things and change how you are and think can break patterns. I am on a similar journey and also interested in attachment, emotions & psychology having studied yoga for the mind.info. I am very interested in making more accessible to parents and kids so next generations can be more compassionate and understanding. Indeed as Ruby says cut down on what media etc you watch and see. Practice mindfulness, t'ai chi, yoga, swimming anything for present mind connection and the mind boy connection. I'm working on it all. work in progress WIP:)
@0fficer47
@0fficer47 8 лет назад
I don't get why this isn't trending
@treelee2602
@treelee2602 7 лет назад
Because emotional well being is considered embarrassing and taboo
@0fficer47
@0fficer47 7 лет назад
I guess hell is other people
@t.tysonkeanum7257
@t.tysonkeanum7257 7 лет назад
That would be your ego talking, which means you are not being mindful. Enjoy that.
@0fficer47
@0fficer47 7 лет назад
T. Tyson Keanum could very be the ego. But avoiding emotional well being and possibly self-development in the process because of embarrassment or social taboo is no way live for the personal growth of the individual would be inhibited because of others. Granted that it is about the individual believing that emotional well being is embarrassing and/or taboo to the first place.
@t.tysonkeanum7257
@t.tysonkeanum7257 7 лет назад
First of all, I read your original comment incorrectly! I read "I don't get why this is trending". Ugh! So, my reaction was completely off base. As reacting to anything often is. My truth is that quote "hell is other people" is one I really dislike. Only because I used to believe that quote to be true. I am struggling to come back from my old belief of "hell is other people". I realize that none of this has anything to do with you. I still have much to learn. My apologies for projecting.
@TheLotusManFILMs.
@TheLotusManFILMs. 7 лет назад
Great video, hilarious too.
@sophie-bt2rd
@sophie-bt2rd 5 лет назад
i really like this woman, this was so interesting and entertaining to listen to
@BrianWhisenant
@BrianWhisenant 5 месяцев назад
Incredible!!! Really needed this! ❤
@clairyfaery
@clairyfaery 8 лет назад
Yes love her!!!!!!
@grai2376
@grai2376 8 лет назад
Really fantastic x
@MrGyftario
@MrGyftario 5 лет назад
I just love her
@JJ-lr8em
@JJ-lr8em 9 лет назад
Ruby Wax is my hero
@simonedenning8785
@simonedenning8785 8 лет назад
Brilliant.
@weerobot
@weerobot 8 лет назад
Welldone Ruby.
@KoolIsKeith
@KoolIsKeith 10 лет назад
Great talk.
@Aerolin01
@Aerolin01 8 лет назад
Anyone who finds this interesting might want to check out Eckhart Tolle. He teaches a near identical philosophy.
@jonrendell
@jonrendell 8 лет назад
You're the best!
@OuterSpaceCat
@OuterSpaceCat 7 лет назад
ruby is a treasure!
@tru2harris998
@tru2harris998 Год назад
A GODSEND
@Creepovision
@Creepovision 9 лет назад
Amazing.
@Daysed.and.Konfuzed
@Daysed.and.Konfuzed 4 года назад
We weren't taught in school about some of the most important things in life. But we were taught how to calculate the trajectory of a cannon ball. They thought that's what really mattered.
@joshuabolin4440
@joshuabolin4440 7 лет назад
She is absolutely wonderful. I'm in love ♡♡♡♡
@elizabethlewis3636
@elizabethlewis3636 7 лет назад
Fantastic
@fernandobaetajr
@fernandobaetajr 3 года назад
Very good!
@martinmcdonald9575
@martinmcdonald9575 6 лет назад
That was really good..
@jennyspanner4373
@jennyspanner4373 7 лет назад
excellent
@tapher1969
@tapher1969 10 лет назад
thank you
@mikecook5258
@mikecook5258 8 лет назад
Very interesting....
@Absolom333
@Absolom333 9 лет назад
I fucking LOVE her this helped me do muh
@Nick1Cox
@Nick1Cox 10 лет назад
Thanks Ruby
@sannimcable
@sannimcable 3 года назад
ive met ruby shes a lovely lady
@sparklesupreme8170
@sparklesupreme8170 7 лет назад
tried learning about mindfulness for a while and every video I come across is so vague or poorly explained. Ruby hit it on the mark!
@stephentreanor5044
@stephentreanor5044 6 лет назад
I absolutely fucking love you Ruby, I saw you live once here in Clevedon, Bristol and you was just as good then. Thank you so much, you’re amazing and I love you. Xx
@JorgeJames12
@JorgeJames12 Год назад
Yes
@muha2762
@muha2762 Год назад
nice
@simonpaynton8251
@simonpaynton8251 10 лет назад
Big up Ruby
@shimronnetia
@shimronnetia 8 лет назад
she is good
@subbtopp
@subbtopp 10 лет назад
Ruby Wax has become a world leader... I have serotonine and oxytoxin running thru my vains for her.. thank you for post
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