Just reading the comments and realizing how many of us are in a dark spot, hoping everything will get better i really wish u guys positive vibes its great to know ur are not alone.
Hello to the person who's reading this, welcome. You've entered the sad zone. How are you feeling? Would you consider us as..."Family"? You're safe here. We all feel the same pain. We get that pain off our chests and try to help others. Sometimes, it's alright to feel sad and stressed. Just relax. Look around you. It's dark, isn't it... Well, I'm here with you. Not physically....but in some type of way I'm still here with you. Let's listen to music together, maybe even lay in the grass of a hill. Watch the stars, and feel like we've met peacefulness. I'm sure you'd like that...get away from this thing called "Reality". We're strangers that feel the same emotions. So why not try and heal each other? It's always a good thing. Look at yourself, what do you see? Personally...even if I've never seen you. You're beautiful. You're worth more than anything this world has. Forget about the bad things that are happening in this world. Everything gets better, eventually. It just takes time. Here, breathe in. And then breathe out. Great job! You've just exhaled a lot of that stress you've been carrying for a long time. We're all human, we should help one another out. We shouldn't be being hateful to each other. Listen to your mind, it's getting tired. Maybe it's time to sleep... It's really late. Remember, you are loved. There's no reason to be sad, relax. Then doze off to sleep. Tomorrow will be a better day, trust me.
no... i dont understand you.. i think youre being soft! see? there will always be people that treats you bad and do bad things to you outside in the world so stop being soft!
@@cocrete leave the guy alone, he was clearly upset. delete your fucking comment, why you being so heartless for? stop calling him soft. it wont make anything better for him
Jesus loves you and got big plans for your life, seek him ask him to show himself to you, he’s a miracle worker, have faith in what you pray for and don’t give up on him
Everyone in this comment section doesn’t feel okay and even though they don’t feel good they keep trying to make others feel good and I honestly love that
there might be multiple reasons a person clicks on this video. some want a soothing track to lull them to sleep. to those people: leave the comments and get the rest you deserve. sleep well. some are lonely or are feeling very sad. to those people: all pain ends eventually. the good will come soon enough. you can do this. some may be studying. to those people: leave the comments, I wish you good luck, you’re going to do amazing. some can’t stand the silence and the thoughts and tears that accompany the silence. to those people: take a deep breath in. now exhale. now say, “I’m fine. I will be fine. I am in control. I am okay.” to anyone who is reading this right now, i love you. and so do many others. you have nothing to worry about. take a breath and appreciate the good things about this world. everything is and will be okay. you’ve got this. and i love you.
Time can heal your wounds. As time passed, you became stronger, looking back to the times when you were deeply hurt, you will realise that it's actually nothing and you have walked this far. Thank you for continue living everyone, you have worked hard.
Jesus loves you. He loves u sooo much. Will show ur marvelous things ur mind had never thought of and that ur heart will never be thankful enough for. He’s got plans, plans to prosper u not to harm u, he’s and will be ur greatest encourager and will redirect u when it’s not meant to be urs. Will forgive u on every mistake u’ve made even if u don’t deserve it and will forget about it just if u ask to. Will fulfill ur heart with what ur soul needs, all of that, just if u ask him to show urself to u.
Lofi is such a beautiful thing.. You are sad and need beats to think to? - Listen to lofi You are happy? - Listen to lofi You are studying? - Listen to lofi It's late at night and you're laying in bed? - Listen to lofi This music really connects so many people. It's like we can't see or talk to each other but we are still connected, through the music
The worst part is when you get to the point of it being 2am and you're no longer able to stay distracted or keep busy and like an avalanche, everything comes crashing down submerging you deep under it all not knowing which way is up or which way is down.
"If I die.. Don't be discouraged, dont end your life, I will always be with you🥺" -My dead bestie🥺💗 Edit: its 3:59AM and good night dead bestie.. 💗🥺🥺 Thx for helping me a lot You will always be in my heart😭💗💗
Your friend still exists on as long as people remember him, i guess you could say as an egregoric spirit. If anything, hes just about as real as we are.
Im sorry. It sucks when someone doesnt feel the same way that you do for them. Ive been crying myself to sleep every night for the past four months over someone I fell in love for. The hardest part about it is that she didnt know until days before she moved away but by that point it was too late. The wheels were already set in motion and she wasnt going back. So its probably more from self-loathing than anything else that I didnt tell her how I felt until it was too late. You definitely have a better excuse to be sad, but I wish you happiness and love.
Better things are coming! And the next person that comes into your life will love the heck out of you, will love every single part of you and it will be mutual ❤️
@Protoss2 Same i really loved her. She understood me in my self deprecating humor and all. She moved just before spring break and I was ready to spend the summer with her but she left and it hasn’t sunk in yet because I haven’t been back to school cause coved but I try not to dwell on it because if I did I won’t come out of that emotional pit and I could have had a discord with her but I didn’t see it until she was gone and I hate myself for that and everything else. Worst part is I think she liked me too but was too shy to act on it
isn't it funny to think that we find comfort from the strangers on net rather than our parents. edit : if you ever feel unmotivated and defeated you may go slow but promise me you will never stop okay? slow but still going. love you
Because if they disappear from your life you know that it won’t come back and bite you. Unlike if you tell it to a significant other, a parent or even your best friend. Venting to a stranger (if willing) can be the best person to talk too. They don’t know you they have no reason to insult you or use your emotions against you. Unlike if your friend was no longer your friend, a parent getting upset and repeating what you told them in confidence same with your significant other. I may be completely wrong and sound dumb but I feel like for me.. that’s why people I don’t know (if willing) are the best ones to talk too...
My mom takes my social anxiety as me just not wanting to meet new people. But she's so wrong. I want to go out and meet new people. Have a conversation with someone that I've never met and keep it going. I feel like such a jerk sometimes. I just feel so mean, I tell my siblings to leave me alone. But I really want someone to talk to without being judged and I feel like they would judge me, or tell someone. I havent talked to any of my friends in so long. They probably forgot about me. they are probably all having fun together and I'm just stuck at home. I feel like this fall, when we all go back to school I won't have any friends. Wow that was a lot, I'm sorry to spill this all out. But I have nowhere else I can't talk about my issues except for RU-vid comment sections, isn't my life fun.
This comment section actually makes me cry and there tears of joy because how much you guys care for each other even when you don’t know them. I never felt this much love in a long time and it’s weird that just reading some comments from people I don’t know make me so happy and make me feel good inside. Thank you all for commenting the great things you guys are the best keep being yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down your stronger then them
It’s because in this time of need, everyone should help and accept others, all the lost souls in the world have joined together to make one big happy person, I love it and I love you all
*When people say, "Don't cry", it's like saying, "Hide your emotions and don't express your feelings"* *Instead, we should say, "Cry, let all the pain and feelings out. Everything will be OK."* 💘
I always tell myself to stop crying. To me, it is better to hide my feelings. I mean its not like anyone cares. No one checks up on me anyways. I am always the one to check up on other people because I know what its like to be sad.
People say don't cry cause they dont want you to be upset, then dont want to to feel sad, they care and want to see you happy. Atleast to me and my opinion
I would disagree a bit humans are emotional beings who need space but •There is a season for everything• there is a season to cry but a season to move on to the next.
“If life isn’t great now, it will get better somehow. Don’t worry about the past, all those times have passed. Try to go to sleep, and get something to eat. Tomorrow is another day, and to all of you I pray. *I know how truly beautiful you all are, you don’t even have to shine to show me you’re a star ⭐️ ❤️ “* I love all of you! Don’t give up. You are enough and I believe it will get better soon! ❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜 💖 💝 ♥️ 💓💗🤍🖤🤎💘💕💞🌟💫⭐️🌙✨ Sending virtual love, - *Wisdom Duck*
Hello!!! Sending love back, Jesus loves you and got big plans for your life, to prosper you not to harm you, plz seek him, ask him to show himself to him, he’s a miracle worker and transform you for the best, have faith in what you pray for and don’t give up on him cz he will never. He will show you marvelous things that even your mind never imagined. You’ve got nth to lose, talk to him.
Reading these comments is like a comfort I've never felt before during a shit time. All of you are my lights in this dark place I'm in at the moment. I wish you all the best no matter what you are going through. You are not alone. These comments will remind you of that and may they guide you to a better place too.
In quarantine, I just feel as defeated as you are and I don't care if I die back then. I don't feel anything anymore. And then a certain person and this other person, they came to me in IG. They felt like angels. They always helped me when I'm down and always made me think that I'm actually not worthless. But that eventually went bye bye as my mind will always say "Those people are fake." "She doesn't love you." "They will all go away and you will be lonely." And eventually I just don't feel any good anymore. If I did I just feel it a little bit. I appreciate them a lot and they mean a lot to me. They taught me patience and not to be an asshole Thx to them I was finally being a little bit of a good person. (p.s oh shit I accidentally vented 😂 I'm sorry I vented here I could've vented somewhere else) And you, have a subarashi day and a good time 😎
Carlos Ayala I relate to zombies. Just a walking corpse, something that should be dead but is somehow alive. Slowly decomposing, until there’s nothing left but instinct.
@@rainandhail67 "something that should be dead but is somehow still alive." You just summed up my life from 12-25. I hope you're okay and things get better.
How did it come to this? This being me laying on my couch at an hour no one should be up just contemplating anything and everything. My thoughts drifting through the inky black sky. Old memories intertwining with the new ones. Names and faces slowly leave my memories the feeling still there. Like when we were pretending to be lost survivors on a remote island where there was no one else. It currently feels like that... Lost and alone I mean it just feels like I'm drifting all over again I don't know what to do or to say. These are just random sporadic thoughts. Please remember me I don't want to be forgotten.
Every one is going to be forgotten. In the end it doesnt matter. Have you ever thought of what it's like to be dead? It's crazy. All I see is black. I dont know why. But I also have this feeling but I don't know what it is. Try it. It feels weird. Just concentrate on things you can do when your dead and things you'll think when your dead. You cant. Idk y I'm saying this but IT FEELS CRAZY and I need some one else to experience this.
0:00 TABAL - Dancing Trees (w/ felio) 1:54 Ambulo - Stargazing w/ mell-ø 3:52 towerz - bloom 6:06 ☁BROCKBEATS☁ - Solitude 8:20 recueil - The road is long, we carry on 11:05 Jay-Lounge - High Up 14:28 a[way] - Where are you
I sometimes wonder if i can go into a coma or sleep for a while like five years I wonder how the world is gonna change and I can forget everything The world won’t know who I am since I’m forgotten and I can go into the streets and watch how has the world changed
Don’t think that you are wonderful beautiful you are the most amazing girl. that could happen don’t let nobody not even your self bring you down or think like that ok just know I love you and people love keep your head and and go the right way and don’t go the wrong way ok I think like that before and almost killed my self but you don’t do that ok we love you 🥰💕 just know your are the most wonderful precious person In the world ok. ok don’t let know one NOT EVEN YOUR SELF BRING YOU DOWN OK. 🥰🥰💕😭
Sometimes I just think what if I could just fall asleep forever and leave my reality and my brain gets this absolute burst of serotonin and it kind of scares me lol.
Lately I've been having this weird feeling. Everything in my life is great, my grades are good, all my friends love me, my family is happy. I"m grateful for all these things, but to be honest lately I haven't felt truly happy, I don't feel like my normal self, I always feel nervous or anxious and I don"t know if its because I'm growing up or if I'm a lost soul, but right now all I want is a new fresh start in life.
i'm one of the young ones here, i'm only 14, i have all life ahead me, yet i still feel like i've felt too much things for a kid like me. most of people who will read this, probably feel lonely and misunderstood and not blaming anyone but themselves. i want those people to know that even in few years from now i still care about every person reading this. i'm sending so much love to them. i love them with all my heart. please, don't forget that you're beautiful, kind, too good for this world. but please, stay here and show the whole world how amazing and breathtaking you are. i love you, i'm proud of you. you are more than enough.
Believe me everything happened to u it will help u in the future if it happened again u can resist it easily everything is happening for some reason that we don’t now and we will know someday............. all love ❤️👍🏻
I’m 11 and I have been a ‘’perfect’’ kid I’m a only child and I don’t feel anything really it’s just like someone is watching all my mistakes and I feel like a train wreck so I like to be alone but when your a only child there is no time alone from your parents which I am scared to tell because when I tell them stuff they don’t believe it so I hang out at the local barn to be with the horses or I play Minecraft and listen to lofi it helps me but I still feel that way since my grandma moved in and she is always yelling at me when my parents are not home
I just want the pain, And the never ending emptiness to, Just piss off, I try and open up to my friends, But hey they dont care, All these people saying, "Oh theres someone who loves you", Fucking who, Theres 7 billion people on this world, So who cares if one leaves.
Being young and wise is a gift and a curse, As you have experienced alot, I was bullied for pretty much all my life (4-12), I'm 15 now, It's better but now theres always a new problem, So just try and enjoy the years were theres little to no, responsibilities. As hard as that may be, as I don't know how you exactly feel, just try and make every day better than the last, and then you will be happier than most people in the world.
the thing that comforts me is seeing that I'm the only one going through a difficult time. We are all here and we are not alone because there are thousand of people commenting this video and feeling the same, understanding each other. That's kinda comforting at the end of the day
"friend": How are you Me: oh..idk im feeling pretty bad lately "friends": oh why? Me: well so ok it started wh- "friends": Oh did you see the new smash character that came out other "friend": Oh yeah I really like their final smash its so op Me: ........*mind slowly drifts back into the deep dark place it usually resides in*
I feel that bro. I got friends like that too. This is reason why I just stopped talking to them about it all together. I guess they just got other things on their minds.
i can’t stop overthinking, and that eventually reminds me how alone i am. i know it sounds stupid but will i ever be loved? will i experience those electrifying moments with someone really special? i just feel like everyone hates me, that i’m not pretty enough or i’m just boring. the worst part is that it’s 2x difficult to meet ppl to me because of my anxiety. i just tend to freak out and imagine weird things that won’t ever happen. everything in my imagination is better. but then reality hits. i feel alone.
Welp, I shall answer all of your questions for you. *clears throat* 1. I overthink too, and it sucks, but you aren't alone, trust me. And you're definitely not the only one who struggles with that. You are part of so many like you that constantly fight for peace of mind (including me) and we'll all get there with time. 2. It's not stupid to wonder if you're loved. However, it IS negative and a toxic thought that no one should ever have to think about. You are loved. Family, friends, people in this lofi community, and so many others. Just try to love yourself just as much. It's tough, ik, but you can get there. People who treat you shitty are just insecure and you aren't defined by others treating you badly. 3. One last time for the people in the back, shall we? YOU ARE NEVER ALONE AND I LOVE YOU 💖💖💖💖💖 Thank you very much and have a day as inspiring as you are for dealing with these emotions. Stay strong!!
Will you ever be loved? To answer that question love is all around you, in your everyday life starting from the evenings of spring those good vibe and smelling flowers that give you the energy to move on, the pets, the family wether you don’t feel like it everyone will miss you, how would the flowers feel if you just let go of them, flowers are a sign of love so yes you are loved by humans and nature,
And not being pretty enough? Everybody has imperfections but those imperfections, are what makes you unique and beautiful, the way you look does not resemble you, who you are in the heart remember that, and take it from me I’m 18 last year of college and I’m in no way sad. Granted you’re not me, but you could live my life because those imperfections are what makes you, actually you, Anytime that you need help or support please phone a friend or you could always reply back anytime, hope this helped :) and do me a favor. Continue living.
Life really has changed so much for me within the last 9 months...lost my mom, moved to Kenya to start work, made friends, lost friends, fell in love, got my heart broken but one thing did stay the same.... One tiny yet important thing...my love for lo-fi. Thank you so much Bootleg Boy for the amazing uploads since finding you In Jan 2018...it's been a ride man.... here's to more sad and happy boi hours....ur loyal fan.... Eddie God I love lofi.....sigh
I've been self-harming for the past few years. Right just now my mom came into the room while I was cutting my wrist. I thought my mom would finally start to care about me and acknowledge the fact that I'm not well mentally but little did I know, she said "it's your own problem to cut yourself so deal with it" she never try to understand me. Never. My household is so so so toxic and I know it. But what can I do? I'm still a teen after all. She'd ask me to talk to her when I need someone to talk to but she never actually listened and always dismiss my feelings by saying how it's just a phase, it's your hormones, you're being too emotional, too dramatic, overreacting, and so on. I wish I could have someone to talk to freely. I wish for my parents to try to understand me and stop putting so much pressure on me. Is it too much to ask? Sorry for the cringy rant I just had to let it out. Please love yourselves everyone ❤️ you're worthy. Update: oh my god I never would've thought that I would get so many replies cheering me up!! YALL ARE SO NICEE
Once my sister said talk to me if you had no one around i did but she didn't listen, she said *these are nothing, there are people who are suffering more then you it's alright your okay stop acting like your depressed*
A mother who ever says something like that isnt a mother, shes a heartless slave owner. Shame on her, get the help you need. If you're whole family is like that, then to hell with them, look towards friends or a therapist. They arent family if they dont care enough to stop you from hurting yourself.
It’s sad time once again boys . . . The world is big and time is short, and too often we may find ourselves with looking whichever way for something that can help us make sense of the lives we live, no matter how small or trivial these anchors may seem. For some, however, gravity is nonexistent, and they float with neither direction nor dedication, left to the devices of whatever good or bad things come along. It’s alright to be confused and wandering, trying to locate something that gives you a purpose - that’s what life is all about, really. While it may seem maddening and saddening from time to time, you’ll encounter something that gives you that reason to push on in this place known as life - I have faith in you, and know that you can achieve something great in the future. If anything else, for now; you’re just a lost souls, listen to lofi; waiting for better times. Until then, in the mean time, listen to some music. Enjoy.
These comments have me in tears. The lofi Community is just so loving and wholesome. I almost feel in a different reality when I'm lying down alone, earbuds in, listening to lofi music and scrolling through endless, wholesome comments. And I love it. Detaching from reality for a while is a nice escape :) I love you all so much with all of my heart
I listen to this with my little birdy at 3 am an we just chill out. but when he puts his head so close to mine and closes his eyes its the most precious thing ever and its really something to cherish, I cry with him. I sing with him. I jam out with him. we both love lofi, being loud and obnoxious when left with no attention, and sleeping, we just have so much things in common. I regret not caring for him as much as I am now. i hope you stay with me forever, tommi. I love you.
Hope I’ll make my parents proud. I know they’re not here forever, none of us are, just want them to know how much I appreciate their sacrifices and that they’re not going to waste
My big brother died today. I don't know how to feel. I have never really experienced a family members death before. I just have to remember to keep my head up and keep going. I wish who ever reads this comment good luck. Cause you need it. ❤ Have a good day/night/evening. Later gators.
I’m so sorry. U don’t have to feel anything right now. Loss is a very weird experience. One moment u want to cry and scream at the world but at the same time u want to feel peace again. When someone that close to you goes, all u have to do is focus on your self and anyone in your family. I promise you it gets better eventually. Sending all my love to you and your family 🤍🤍
I was reading some of these comments, and now im realizing how many of us are sad... But its okay to cry. Its okay to tell somebody how you feel. Its okay to want to scream and scream because life isnt going the way you wanted it to. A teacup can only hold so much tea until it overflows, but you should let yourself be that teacup. let all your feelings out.
I always feel like I'm not sad enough to cry. So I can't let the tears out even I'm at the lowest point of my life. I compare myself to other everytime, everyday. I don't have anyone to share my sadness. I have a bad relationship w my parents, I don't have someone I trust. And I always feel I don't have to tell anyone bcs I'm afraid of their reaction. But at least I can tell you. I hope no one finds out :)
@@jjuunneeee in a similar way, ive always been scared to cry in front of people, im stuck in a place in my life where i feel like i cant tell anyone who can help me whats actually going on because if i do itll make everyone around me stressed and upset but theyve been working so hard to get where they are in life and they finally get to a good place and i dont wanna ruin that, so i guess you could say i have an alright relationship with my parents, except that none of it is real, no i dont feel anything when i sing katy perry in the car with my ma, so no i dont have a real relationship with them but i have an alright fake one. Everything around me is changing and growing older but i am is aging in numbers, i still look like a little kid and my brother is buying an airplane and all ive ever done is give up and draw. I almost learned how to play guitar well but im starting to give up, and i have honors in school but thats just because my aunt makes me redo every test i get lower than an A in. Do i know your pains? No, and i never will, so no im not saying that i know how you feel, but i can still sympathize with you in that everyone can be sad, and sometimes people get really sad over stuff other people dont care ab, and just wanted to say that Im here for you :] ❤️
I'm not actually related to the comment section since I have overcome my depression so. I think my purpose in this world is to share what I've learned For those being judged *"No one will understand your journey, and it's fine. You're here to live your life not for others to judge"* For those having low self-esteem *"Try appreciating yourself just like how you appreciate others"* For those lonely *"Don't just use your alone free time as a DEPRESSING time, instead use it as a level up time. Upgrade yourself, try new hobbies and talents till you're ready to shine like a diamond and for you to prevent mistakes in public"* For those bullied *"Try smiling when your bullies are around it'll piss them out. Try to look at the mirror, do funny stuffs with your face and think that YOU'RE THE BEST, YOU'RE ALWAYS RIGHT and YOU DESERVE TO GLOW, I mean no one will judge you if you'll think that way"* (but for those physically bullied you need some real help) For those people who's having a trouble from being themselves... *"You can receive likes from being fake and hates for being yourself. But don't ruin your real image for fame, follow your heart. Wait for the moment till someone will actually LOVE you"* Adds: *"People will hate you not because you're wrong, but because your different that meant to be special"* *"People come and people go, so let people be temporary in your life. People come in your life not to entertain you, but to teach you. They leave not to hurt you, but for you to open another door"* *"Take criticism as a fact and a joke and a motivation to improve"* *"People are sad not because of the environment, but because of how they think. So stand up and look up to yourself as a great human being that loves everything"* *"You don't need to hate each things about you even how negative it is, as long as it makes you being you"* If the time comes and you're relieved. Please, still respect others. Even what kind of human are you always have respect even if others feelings doesn't mean anything to you. If you think no one loves you then look out the window. Think that your neighbor's dog loves you more than it's owner. Or love yourself EXTREMELY.
There comes a time when you just feel tired. Everything seems so empty. The people around you, your studies (or work), you. That’s when I found myself listening to this kind of music, it’s like these chill beats can bring me more serenity than a thousand words. And that’s when I finally recollect my thoughts, that’s when I finally feel like I can survive this. If you’re experiencing this emptiness today too, keep going. Life can be high and low, but we all have to experience the lows to truly appreciate the good times. If you’re reading this, I wish you to find the serenity you’re looking for. Have a goodnight 🌙
Same.... When you try your best to cheer up ur friend, but when ur the one who's sad or not feelig well it's like they don't even know you 🙂...... That's why I'd prefer being a loner.... I don't care what people think about me....,🙂 I just don't want to be hurt.......
Born 1993. I feel so lost and I don't know maybe it's too old and too drunk to listen music like this but finally I can close my eyes after I got my self 4 days overthinking - thankyou internet
You know when you just start crying out of nowhere, it’s not because your weak but because you’ve been stronger for the longest so now it’s the time to weap your heart out , have a good day my friend
I’m pretty young (14) but I’m scared to grow up. I don’t want to grow up and be a disappointment to everyone. I’m expected to have all A’s in my classes but it is so hard on online. Thinking about college and the financial problems. I don’t even talk to any of my friends and I don’t find enjoyment in anything. I don’t just suck at anything but I don’t succeed either so what am I supposed to do. I’m always putting up a smiling face because I don’t want to bother anyone with my problems. (Sorry about this I just felt like ranting a bit) Edit (9-2-21): Hi! I’m currently 15 and I am not going to lie school has been pretty stressful but to be honest I have been feeling happier lately. I don’t talk to my old friends anymore but I have been hanging out with new people and they have been making me happy. I still have the same fears, growing up means that I have to face what happened when I was younger and to come to terms that I couldn’t help my mom. I have to actually face the fact that even though he was a horrible person towards my mom I still somehow long for his presence. I don’t know why but I find it weird that sometime no matter what someone does you still want to be near them. I think that is all I have to update so far but I did reply to a comment a while ago that went a bit more into details about other stuff going on since I am too tired to rewrite. (I’m going to go to bed now since I have school) I’ll probably update in a month. I hope you have an amazing day and I want to say that you are loved and cared about :) buenas noches
Only advice I could give you is find out what job you want do the college you need for that and get out and get a roommate or a spouse to split rent with you so financial problems won’t be too bad and believe in yourself 100% I promise you’ll be fine in the end
just dont try and fill a void too quick, idk it might just be my situation, but dont do anything rash always think of the consequences weather good or bad.
is anyone else so awkward/shy, that even when they’re surrounded by so many people, you just don’t know how to talk to them, or how to tell them how much you appreciate them, or even how to make friends with them, so you just end up alone from your own insecurities? cause same..
It's not like I don't wanna talk to them, I really do, it's just I have nothing interesting to talk about. I always stutter, Skip between my words, talk quietly, ect.
Calista Powers I know exactly what you mean, I just don’t know how to say what I’m thinking as clearly as I want to, and it just ends up as a stuttering mess 😖
@@lee-wb2wn haja neglects I also do not know much English even if I live in CostaRica a country where all people speak Spanish, being sincere I would like to live in the United States because there is better than here, and I still did not know that where you live was the name jeancarlos hahaha, equal greetings and I hope you have a good time
I see so many people I can relate in this comment section... people with depression, people with anxiety, people with eating disorders, people who are suicidal , people that do self harm.... no matter what I love you all to death and no matter what people do or say, don’t worry about it... they are just jealous of how beautiful you are , inside and out.
I know a lot of the comments here sound like they came straight out from r/I'm14andthisisdeep, but sometimes people just need to let their feelings out. and not everyone has somebody to talk to, so, they talk to their internet friends, or try to make people feel better, like in this comment section. I think this is just a safe place to spread positivity. So, enjoy your stay here, and try to relax. overthinking never got me anywhere. I don't even know you, but I still hope you have a nice day.
Ahaha I love this and I agree. Just let people open their hearts, there’s not a lot of judgement free zones in this life so we should be grateful for the ones that’re here :)
“Depression is like a heaviness that you can’t ever escape. It crushes down on you, making even the smallest things like tying your shoes or chewing on toast seem like a twenty-mile hike uphill. Depression is a part of you; it’s in your bones and your blood.” But those of you who are reading this and know this pain, it will all turn out good in the end. don't give up.
I fucking love this community, you guys and girls are the only that can make me feel happy❤️ sry hqs to put this emoji somewhere I had to show my love to someone
Imagine if all of us just gathered in a small island in our vast planet so called "Earth" and decided to hang out and share our thoughts for one single night... and that night is now and this is our tiny little happy island =) Peace ♡
You know what? I might consider meeting ya. In fact, i wanna meet everyone in this comment section. Im a very associative person, id be more than happy to share my thoughts with some nice people. :)
I think I’d feel a little better but I wouldn’t stay that way.... the island would be our little neverland that made everyone happy for just a night or two.. we would spill our emotions to people who actually understand and we wouldn’t be crammed into a therapist office where things seem to be glued to the ground as if we went to neverland our minds and hearts would float and all of our stress, anxiety, and depression would be lifted like a curse as we step on the beach and we can actually know what happiness is.... (Sorry this was really long)
during the pandemic I was here, and now I'm still here. I've read a lot of manga and I've had a lot of moments listening to all of these. To the wonderful person who uploaded this, thank you very much. and for you who are reading this, we can go through absolutely anything, no matter what it is, we will always make it through. Good luck, thanks again, bye
I've stopped trying to find validation in my relationships with people. Sometimes people just can't love me as much as I love them. Sometimes I can't love someone else as much as they love me. So I've just decided to try and find peace in myself. You're enough. Just you. Alone. You really are. After that, love becomes easier :)
Today my best friend left me, because she didn't feel like this friendship is something important. We've been together for almost 2 years. What happened with "I'll never leave you, I'll always be by your side"? Lies. She left me in the worst moment, now I'm struggling with eating. I can't eat. She said that it'll be okay, but she left me. How is it okay? Now I'll need to wait for a long time to move on. It's not easy for me. She was the only person that cared for me, even my parents didn't care about me as she cared. I feel numb. I'm not sad, angry, happy. I don't feel anything. My parents never ask "How was your day?". I would think "Horrible as always.", but I would just say "It was good." Why nobody notices when we have problems and we're stuggling but they notice when we're happy and energetic? I want somebody to help me. I want to feel happy. I want to eat, but I can't. My body says no. It won't accept food. I don't feel hungry. It's been a month since I was hungry. I eat like 1 or 2 things a day, because my parents say so. But I don't want to eat. It's so hard. I hope that no one goes through what I'm going right now. *Remember to take care of yourself, I love you. Thanks for reading this.*
I've read your comment. And, I struggle with similiar problem. She is everything to me, but I am nothing to her. I can never accept this fact even after 4 years because no one in my life understand me but her. She is the only people i let and feel save to know my true self. Ah, sorry. But if you read this, thanks to you too. We are going to get over this soon. I know it (◍•ᴗ•◍)
I would like to hug them and say that everything will be fine. People come and go, that's fine, if they left it's fine, it's also right to feel bad. But at some point they have to improve I guess. I hope you guys feel good and happy again. I support them, they are the best that will come out. I love you very much unknown humans from the internet. (Excuse me if my English is bad, I am not good at learning languages and English is lacking)
I was in a friendship of 8 years, and i stopped being friends with her, cause she was arrogant and never accepted, and also my mom and my dad are divorcing, and they were together for 20 years, things like this happen, no one never stays forever
I know this sounds flat but I really mean it... keep it up and love yourself:) don’t let that circumstance defeat you. Its ok to feel how you feel but you will see how time fixes those scars :)
@@claudiomoran4329 It's getting better but I still can't forget about her. She was very important for me and I would do literally anything for her. I texted her yesterday and she sent me a very hurtful text. I cried alot. I didn't think that a person that meant the world to me could do something like this. But life goes on I guess. I met some new friends but this time irl. They're helping me with my problems. I started to eat normally. I see some progress but there is still a long way for me to be fully happy.
Hey everyone I know we're all feeling sad right now...I just want to tell you that you're doing great! You can beat the pain and struggles that you are experiencing right now and I know you can do it! Be strong and don't let anyone take you down. Sending virtual hugs to everyone, Goodnight, I love you!
Damn, I'm seeing alot of depressing comments while i'm Just here because music like this help me concentrate on my story writting... To all of you stay strong and love yourself untill the very end❤️
Have you ever had that feeling when you don't want to do nothing and just sleep all day? I know is not a feeling...I don't have motivation to do nothing...
Anyone else crying and searched this up..? I love whoever reads this. I hope you have a wonderful life. I hope you don't cry your self to sleep every night.
my dad died at someone else’s hand when i was 7 so i’ve had this dark twisted mindset where i always feel empty and homicidal and unforgiving.Good luck to us all in this demonic place we call home
I just need someone to care, my friends barley talked to me before quarantine but now they don’t even talk to me at all. They stopped asking if I’m okay when it mattered most. There’s nothing wrong with my life I don’t really have any reason to be sad, my parents are fairly nice and at least I have friends. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. The only problem I have is that no one really cares or understands and I can’t fix that. I’m too scared to die, but I really don’t want to live anymore.
Hey dude when i felt that no one understood me I started journaling; writing down how i felt. I know that doesn’t stop the problem of others not caring but give it time you will find someone who cares about u. Try pursuing different activities to meet new people. Try volunteering or doing something which spreads kindness in your community. You will meet like minded individuals who are kind and it feels good to spread positivity in the community! Take care dude :)
I get how that can feel sometimes, and honestly it might feel like we’re so far away from each other but trust me we’re all connected. I might not know you but I do care, and it would truly sadden me if i were to find out anything happened to you❤️
You might have depression or something similar... Or you might just feel really lonely. Quarantine is doing that to people. But trust me, you can be happy without those people who you call your friends. Seeing a mental health professional doesn't mean you're crazy, and so many people need it but avoid it like the plague... You should give it a try, vent, get real advice. It's never too early :) good luck and stay safe.
Happiness changes throughout life. It can go up or down, but always returns to your personal "baseline". That can be different for everyone. If you're under 24, your body is still evolving to its final form. So, you're going to have changes in your emotions while that's happening, too. Look for meaning instead of happiness. Meaning is limitless, all the time. That's what "growing up" really is. It's finding out what is *meaningful* to you, and making those things the focus of your life. Be true to yourself, even if other people don't like it, and you won't ever get too lost.
The lofi community is so understanding and beautiful. I actually played a very nice game, and met many nice people. They were all very kind, and everyone talked to each other at least once. The music there was all lofi, and the game itself was a very good vibe.
That's exactly the point of our community!!! We all love you and keep fighting! I'm so proud of you 💞💞💞 You can do this, and your life has meaning beyond anything you can comprehend. You're loved by so many, just remember to love yourself just as much. Have an awesome day bro :)
Does anyone else feel like they're not good enough for anyone? Edit: I'm not doing this for likes, I'm doing this to see if anyone else feels the same because I'm already alone enough. Everyone in my entire life that I've liked never liked me back and recently all my friends moved to different schools. I'm not excited for 7th anymore because I'll be all alone again. So I'm not asking for likes or roasts, I'm asking for people out there to not be afraid to reach out and know they arent the only one who feels like I do. 💕 Edit 2: holy crap thanks for all the support! Its crazy how we all find comfort on random people on the internet and not our family. Thank you. Im in a really tough time rn.
are you feeling sad its ok to cry sometimes just let out all that built up emotion but just know that i care a lot of people care you just probably haven’t meet them or maybe tou havent noticed and thats ok it takes time but never give up ✨
Being 12 and sad makes me feel like im not supposed to be unhappy. No I'm not depressed. I have a wonderful family, I have a house, everything I could ask for. But I don't have friends, my parents constantly fight, I lost my best friend, and now im always in my room crying myself to sleep. I regret my past and for always messing things up. I tried to fix things with my best friend but he avoids me. My parents think its just a stage, maybe it is. That still doesn't change the fact that they have no idea how hurt I am, and when I try to tell them they bring up that they have a harder life than me. They always compare me to my sister. I just wish that I was okay
Yeah. I’m 13 and have a moderately okay life. But my dad is always working and when he gets mad he yells at me so much I begin to cry, my mom is brushing off my emotions, my brother is having some health issues that are making my parents more focused on him and not have much time to talk to me, My friend hates some of my other friends now, one of my friends seems to be having some serious mental issues that I can’t help her with, my grades are dropping, my hamster just died, I haven’t left my house in about 4 days, my room is a mess, and now I feel like all the days are blending together and nothing is exciting about life anymore.
Johanna Batt same exact thing but my stepdad us a drug addict, and he used to beat my mom while 8 year old me listened downstairs i hate this my friends hate me
(sry for my probably bad english) Idk will my words matter to you or not, but i just wanna tell you that you got the full right to feel every emotion and feeling, regardless of age. Even if everything seems to be terrible try to search for that one ray of hope - i'm sure, you'll find it. Even if you've been searching for too long - don't give up, please. Live on.
Let's see how long I'll listen to this cause' of depression January: yep Feb: yep March: yessir i did a lottt of times i just forgot about my comment 😂 April: yea. time really is going fast, huh? May: may isnt over yet but yeah ill probably listen to this everyday 😂 June: June's here. Oddly enough, no- maybe it's not that odd... Time feels so fast but slow at the same time. July: im getting better now. There's still some things I have to take care of, but overall, everything has been going pretty decent. Also, I hope good things has been happening to you. Thank you and I wish you the best. Aug: Yes, I'm back. It's been a while since I listened to this. Probably 2 weeks. But I need calming music right now. Things aren't the best, but I'm somehow still happy. Hopefully, you guys are getting through your problems.
Ey bro I'm out here waiting for the next update, I just hope that by the end of it you'll feel a bit better. Remember you're loved. Your life has meaning beyond anything you could comprehend. I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. I have a friend who goes through what you are going through and it's killing both of us inside, but we're holding onto hope. Please keep fighting and finding ways to cope. 💞 Sending all my love and support from Massachusetts!! ily
