She didn't treat him as if he were a predator. She simply was not attracted to him. She gave him a chance because she wanted to see if there might be chemistry between the two of them, but there wasn't. Women don't owe you anything.
Imagine what she was like in high school, oml. She’s so mean it’s like she’s not even real, like she’s a movie character or something. He’s not even bad looking either.
no, its the opposite, he has no guts, the gril humiliated him infront of her viewers and a normal person would get up and leave or roast her back but he DIDNT have teh guts to do so.
Guy most likely has low self esteem and didn't know how to react during the interaction/how to get out of the situation. I just hope he's doing ok, she was actually hurtful with her comments.
@@Oddo22 he likely didn't kept calm because of self control - but because he is harmless, meaning he was incapable of defending himself in that situation
@@zubetp i appreciate Billy Idol demonstrating enthusiastic consent for me with "Rebel Yell" all the time. I often wonder what people after me had, if anything. It definitely wasn't a consistent message. Because britney in a schoolgirl outfit as the poster for consent...I felt very boomer seeing my 5 year old cousin performing it. I feel less boomer after hearing what her dad was doing.
@@emmaaaa2839 I think people would be surprised, even still, how many dudes there are. Feet dudes too. Some guy I've never met and never has seen even a picture hinted at money. That's an insta-block. But "stripped through college" has nothing on "dommed through my PhD and then realized a PhD is BS and now I run a cathouse in the Nevada desert."
He doesn't have a chiseled jawline, clearly doesn't work out (noticeable flab), and there's a bit of facial acne at work. To make matters worse, he has zero confidence. He let everybody know that he's never kissed a girl without saying it. Any real man would have pulled her smoothly toward him and made out with her. It was painful to watch due to his virginal behavior.
yes they are, he is too good for her. Take her make up off and you are just left with her ugly personality I mean the guy is a fucking doormat, but still
She's like a 6 with all that Make up, ans showing cleavage doesn't really push it up. Dude's like a 4-5 if he went to the gym he'd probably be better than her.
Just a few years ago I was a massive piece of shit, but I thought I was just joking, my teacher told me “when you are always jokingly mean, it’s not really joking anymore is it?” And that really resonated with me, the people saying she’s joking should take that to heart.
Bro isn't even ugly, or even moderately unattractive. This is just a normal guy getting his esteem destroyed over something he didn't come up with the idea for. Genuinely sad.
@akshlo879 Dude, what is your obsession with calling this chick ugly??? She is very much conventionally attractive it's okay to admit pretty people can be horrible towards others.
@@akshlo879 idk my boy I’ve had a few pretty women. I would never date her, but I’m not going to act like she physically ugly. Mentally she’s fucked for sure.
She's acting like spending the day with him is this massive challenge she's trying to overcome, yet the irony of it all is that the majority of people would rather hang out with Dilly over her, her constant loud noises and overreactions to everything would give me a migraine.
This man is my friend irl. He's been doing pc builds for streamers for about 3 years. He's a good guy that deserves the best out of life and I hate how he's been humiliated like this.
Truly one of worst "But im a creep, i'm weirdo, what the hell i'm doing here, i don't belong here" moment ever, i hope he can find his confidence again after this
I want to see Dillys villain arc where he works out, gets shredded, starts his own stream, and absolutely blows up, and gets literally everyone's approval.
Pretty disgusting how she treats him but even more disturbing and disgusting how he doesn't have enough self esteem to know where he's not wanted. People can't be this desperate for mistreatment.
If she was being real about going back to her abusive ex before dating someone she does not find physically attractive, she is also desperate for it. But you are right, this guy should not be so submissive to the end. He should have seen how toxic and childish this girl is and realize he is actually above HER.
Considering how many people have most likely already ran through this 304, for her to act like this should be a wake up call to any simps she has watching her. Poor poor guy
Yeah it was definitely overdramatic. Like she must have known that this was the plan all along to do something like this so, the fact she's really playing on that ''i really don't like him in that way'' but coming across like she finds him repulsive is just disgusting. Like, we get it, you don't like him in that way but you don't need to do the childish wretching noises. That's next level bitchiness.
@@nickdee24I felt the same,especially the throw up part,you can hear her sounding like she’s throwing up but only like once loud enough for the stream to hear I imagine and then instantly coming back looking the exact same as she left
Yeah like perception is reality, even if this was like a stage play for her to make money on, she came across like a horrific person and after Charlie signal boosted it she might not like the attention she gets. Though internets imps being what they are, she'll probably be fine
Agree. I banter with my friends a lot, but if they are friends, she's just straight up insulting him and her comments or jokes are a lot meaner than they have to be.
As a man I just recommend you not to associate yourself with this guy. If you cringe from this shit I believe that you would be smart enought not to ever be in his position. This should be a wake up call for him if he's not into shaming kink anyway.
Charlie, PLEASE feature Dilly in a stream. Just imagine how wholesome and uplifting a celebratory Dilly stream would be. Dilly and the community will love it.
her behaviour screams "peaked in highschool" and she's absolutely not obliged to give dilly anything but as a human she owes him respect for the help he's given her with her literal JOB and she could just not lead him on??? there are nice ways to do this
I actually looked into it, and the stream was actually a dumb media joke type of shit. They've actually hung out a bunch off stream at parties and stuff (theres photo evidence).
@@NonboboehehI would still be upset, just like Charlie said she is acting as mean as she wants and justifying by saying ?we are good friends” even if they do hang out if this is their relationship then it’s toxic.
That’s just downright bullying it’s so disrespectful how she keeps on bringing up all the embarrassing and unnecessary secrets about him, he’s not even allowed to say anything back or else she will be like “wow so your going to treat me like that” or some bs.
It's great how she mentioned that she's been through traumatizing abuse, and yet she's abusing this guy to the max IN FRONT OF A CROWD OF PEOPLE! NO awareness at all.
With this side of her being shown this could mean she lied about the accusations which I’m not saying she has at all because I do not know the background but she seems like the type of girl to say something like this especially cuz she said she’d rather be with her ex what type of victim would say that
She said she was in an emotionally abusive relationship. Her behavior in this stream indicates that her ex-boyfriend may have not been the only emotionally abusive person in their past relationship.
I appreciate that you've labeled her as abusive, instead of additionally accusing her of lying about her own abuse :) kinda wholesome and balanced RU-vid.
i don't understand why putting all her flaws on her ex. like she is awfull ohh must be coz of her ex. that doesn't mean anything and unrelated who is to say that her ex wasn't in an abusive relationship himself before thats why his actions were like that ?
Genuinely sweet guys get friendzoned and shat on the most, or used as emotional tampons :D A**holes on the other hand, women say they dont want them but somehow they always end up with them XD Never believe what a woman says, always trust in what she does, they can talk all about how they want a sweet guy and romance till the cows come home but thats just a facade, their emotions and instincts tell them to be with a badboy, they are not attracted sexualy to nice guys in the least.
the way i've seen her defend it like "i've done this before and always act that way about these kisses" but then you look up footage of her doing it with other guys and she in no way treated them the same. she acted cute and flirty and blushy about others and then treated this sweet guy like he had oral herpes, its so gross
I feel so bad for him because he seems genuinely nice. When she “had” to kiss him he didn’t lean in and he didn’t push boundaries. He just sat there waiting so he didn’t come off like a creep. He deserves so much better.
you should feel bad for whoever is in this situation, understand that you are somehow defending her, by saying that if he was a creep he would had righjts to treat him like she does. instead of analyzing uselessly the video you sohuld just say that you are sorry for being a girl and that's it.
Charlie, my man. PLEASE feature Dilly in a stream. Just imagine how wholesome and uplifting a celebratory Dilly stream would be. Dilly and the community will love it.
Man, I do wish the best for this guy because he genuinely seems like a good person. It’s just that you got to know who you’re friends are and choose wisely about the people that you do hang out with
he does stream he mentioned it on a call with charlie. she doesn’t even pay him and he claims he gets paid in exposure but no one even knows that he streams as well. sad
That’s what I don’t understand. SHE was the one who made kissing a goal but then acted disgusted by it. Her screaming immediately after their lips make contact is so horrible to watch as well being able to hear her performative gagging from the bathroom. What a disgusting person
Anyone who is a moderator for anything on twitch is a loser, plain and simple, and he was treated as such. Sad he had to find out the hard way though...
@@riceypooie7428 That wasn't his f*cking idea. I get that creeps are a thing but he legitimately just quietly sat there the whole stream. She made that goal a thing herself...which is fair enough, if I wanted to make fun of a weirdo I probably don't want a real one RIGHT next to me regardless of whether I'm streaming it or not.
He is hoping she will pass out in his presence. Just once. He is a secret creep and will wait forever if he has to. Simpus Maximus is not a creature to emulate. But be nice to girls, still don’t be a dick.
He actually does if you are a grown man and let a little slu.t like her treat you like garbage than thats what you actually are . Bein a sweet person doesn't equal bein a person with no self respect and value
the fact she did all of this _publicly_ , and clearly found such degree of degradation and bullying all humorous and trivial makes me wonder what she actually considers "bad"
This guy is so used to being mistreated that he doesn't see the problem at all. I hope he opens his eyes, seems like a great dude actualy. I wish him the best.
@@anaalicia5029 He has no self respect, she's probably also the only woman he actually knows. Even though she's one of the worst humans i've seen in a bit he also let this happen to him by allowing her to disrespect him the first time it happend. He essentially gave her approval to do this because if he stopped her the first time she wouldn't act like this around him or he'd leave her and wouldn't associate with her
@@suggondees4882 The problem with people like Dilly is the moment he snap. Everything is justified.. for him. Because its so fkin insane how she treated him. People also will mock him for how coward and he have no self-respect. But the moment he snap, people goes silent. And that is what i actually worried about.
I feel absolutely ZERO sympathy for this guy. Let me tell you why, before you slam your angery fists on the keyboard with caps lock on like mad ragebabies. Everyone is saying they wish him the best and that he "opens his eyes" and doesn't let anyone treat him poorly anymore. Just to make yourselves feel better about a bad situation. And I think you all just don't realize the harsh truths. The reality is that all of those things are _never_ going to happen. If he's coming on a stream for millions to watch while some skank belittles and mocks him for more than 0 seconds, he's already a lost cause and there's nothing anyone can do for him. Chances are he doesn't have any real friends that he listens to for counsel or advice which would slap some sense into him. He has no self-respect. Just like that girl has no self-respect. The only difference is he's respectful to others, whereas she is not. My respect only goes so far, and I would have already slapped her and unplugged the computer, among other things. But honestly I wouldn't have gotten to that point anyways lmao. Modding for a person with such low humanity, actual scum of the earth who treats people this horribly. And then actually flying out to meet her? Dawg if I had even clicked on one of her streams in the first place and saw what kind of person she was, I woulda clicked off and never looked back. Maybe that's just me. Maybe I'm built different. You guys need to have some respect for yourselves and outside of the bedroom, not let a woman hold you by a (metaphorical) leash or order you around/humiliate you. I understand being a sub or having humiliation fetish, but save it for the bedroom bro. And romantically, not for a stream where millions can see and are gonna rightfully clown on and criticize you. I feel no sympathy for him, like I said. He put himself in this position regardless of how shitty the girl is.
@@user-ed8gy7jq1cliterally. It would’ve been different if he was the one who suggested it and she didn’t want to go through with it but got pressured, but it was her idea?? She didn’t have to bring it up if she didn’t want to do it. And then she used it to humiliate the guy for seemingly no reason.
No no no he felt shit he’s just good at keeping the pain on the inside and making it look like he’s okay on the outside that’s what is looks like to me
Stand up for him? He broadcasted the event to millions of people who would have never had seen it otherwise. On top of that he is profiting from the spectacle. Reply for the glazers who can’t read between the lines: I watched the video before commenting, Charlie defending him doesn’t matter, it’s just a virtue signal to 15 million people who otherwise wouldn’t have seen this embarrassing moment. Best thing to do for the guy to save face have been to never bring up the event and quickly let it fade into the abyss of the internet - not highlighting it on your platform that’s 10x bigger. Of course he defended him, why else would you speak on the issue and drag your own character through the mud - anyone that talks about this will be on the guys side because that’s just the right side to take, you don’t need to overtly present your opinion and sacrifice this man’s dignity even further just to earn internet brownie points looking like a nice-guy for strangers. He does this shit all the time, at first I loved his content but over the past year I’ve seen how he just panders to a certain audience, being their hero grows the parasocial relationship of all the viewers
The benefit of criticizing this kind of behaviour probably goes way beyond the subject here. I can see it being a wakeup call to a lot of victims to abusive relationships. That moment of realization is hard to make happen, but there must've been a lot of them that came from this.
I can see the sadness in Dilly's eyes but he always kept a smile to not ruin the stream and her career even though she's humiliating him all over again, this is just really sad.
Nah, he's one of those guys that gravitates to women like her, just happy to be in the same room. Watched the followup interview with Charlie and this dude needs serious counceling. He just made excuses for her and stood up for her behaviour. Similar to chat members who continue donating to streamers after being shit on. They have 0 self respect and think they 'have a chance' just by weathering it out and being with them long enough. He's seen all these responses but still chose to defend her. At some point an adult needs to be responsible for their own actions and you can't really feel all that sorry for them.
Is there a reason she was acting like she hates him? Did he harass her or something? Is the friends comment sarcasm? I feel like she is a true C who is proud of it . Hopefully she will meet her match .
@@lynnlynn9124 eh, I haven't watched her streams but from a brief look at her twitter, degrading men seems to be her thing kind of? I am making a quick assumption here so I could be wrong but the fans seem to be in on it at the very least
this is truly sad, I went through something similar in high school, where a girl I liked let me hang out with her and her friends at lunch time, and they all just started insulting me and making jokes, I feel for Dilly.
What makes this even more upsetting is that this guy doesn’t even look like the stereotypical mod, he looks well kept, clean and decently attractive, yet she’s acting like he’s repulsive
Because streamers like this only care about their followers, mods, and friends in the sense that they can exploit them. It happens all the time with IRL streamers, people just don't talk about it as much because those types tend to be obnoxious or have fanbases that are already terrible.
He's definitely a 2 or 3 out of 10. If I were competing against him on OkCupid, I'd get all the girls on the site, except for the Asian chicks who refuse to date non-Asians.
So impressed with how well Dylan kept his composure in this situation. He took everything in and managed to represent himself well during the stream. He did not deserve to be berated like this.
@@daneonate5714 have you not watched a mizkif stream? Mizkif shits on his mods all the time and even brought one to his house and essentially did the same thing. You don’t see everyone losing their shit over that
You know its fuck up when you acknowledge the fact the he can't upset her just to keep his job. If this guy start streaming, someone will loose for sure viewers.
this is how girls think towards guys they aren’t attracted to which is about 80% of men according to a study on tinder. she just was dumb enough to vocalize it
Just your regular generic CCP attitude, and she can’t even speak English ffs, what was she even saying? I had to repeat the same clip 6 times just to barely make it out on what she said, it’s just a mumbled bunched up words like a toddler trying to communicate so they just create a language of their own, this is basically Chinanglish but she speaks through her nose to sound as American as she possibly can, like how RiceGum does 😂
I sincerely hope that after the stream ended, Dilly showed her the middle finger, walked out and instantly quit modding her streams, she's a walking red flag
I mod for a few Twitch streamers with mods that are clearly in that parasocial relationship status, and I can totally see them being exactly like this. It's cringe every time I see them on stream, donating subs and bits trying to be the number one guy on the channel.
Since we're doing the psychology thing she might just be looking at it like "if I'm not disgusted by him then chat won't donate money to me to kiss him and other stuff because I already want to" which doesn't make it much better but at least she's not genuinely attacking him like this and it wouldn't matter at all unless she checked with him before the stream and made sure he was ok with it
@@donothesitate1198 you have a point there to be honest. like I have no idea what they could have worked out before the stream started, it could have all been staged
@@ibrake4rappers If this situation is your idea of a 'win', you must have a pretty sad life.. I hope you're okay, and that you seek some help, or some actual friends who wouldn't treat you the way she treated him..
justice for dilly :( dude honestly seems like such a sweet and fun person, i can't believe that streamer was so enthusiastically mean to him for no reason. it says everything about her character: straight-up evil.
Sweet and fun? Really? You really think someone that on his own wish mods and spends literal days on this women stream, is genuinely sweet and fun? Also this looks just like he got paid 500$ for the content knowing it will blow up.
I feel absolutely ZERO sympathy for this guy. Let me tell you why, before you slam your angery fists on the keyboard with caps lock on like mad ragebabies. Everyone is saying they wish him the best and that he "opens his eyes" and doesn't let anyone treat him poorly anymore. Just to make yourselves feel better about a bad situation. And I think you all just don't realize the harsh truths. The reality is that all of those things are _never_ going to happen. If he's coming on a stream for millions to watch while some skank belittles and mocks him for more than 0 seconds, he's already a lost cause and there's nothing anyone can do for him. Chances are he doesn't have any real friends that he listens to for counsel or advice which would slap some sense into him. He has no self-respect. Just like that girl has no self-respect. The only difference is he's respectful to others, whereas she is not. My respect only goes so far, and I would have already slapped her and unplugged the computer, among other things. But honestly I wouldn't have gotten to that point anyways lmao. Modding for a person with such low humanity, actual scum of the earth who treats people this horribly. And then actually flying out to meet her? Dawg if I had even clicked on one of her streams in the first place and saw what kind of person she was, I woulda clicked off and never looked back. Maybe that's just me. Maybe I'm built different. You guys need to have some respect for yourselves and outside of the bedroom, not let a woman hold you by a (metaphorical) leash or order you around/humiliate you. I understand being a sub or having humiliation fetish, but save it for the bedroom bro. And romantically, not for a stream where millions can see and are gonna rightfully clown on and criticize you. I feel no sympathy for him, like I said. He put himself in this position regardless of how shitty the girl is.
Because he is used to it and lacks self-respect. He's not being cool and collected. There are times when you should be heated and intolerant, throwing the table. Clearly he's too far gone to care about himself. It's happened more than once. He isn't gonna stand up for himself ever. If you lack confidence or self-respect, then you aren't gonna flip out when you're disrespected so flagrantly, like you're supposed to. She should be holding her red cheek from being backhanded, and he shoulda been packin it up in the first 60 seconds to leave. Dude is a joke.
This shit gave me Vietnam flashbacks, this kind of shit happened when i was hanging out with my female friend and her friends came over and she started to literally just bully me to shit, she called me the ugliest being on this planet and "joked around" about me dying alone