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Agreed.

The series would’ve been stronger and lasted longer. That season finale was female fantasy.

Yes, exactly👍

Totally agree

She could have picked someone better!

I keep asking myself did they change writers for the reboot because it sure is awful

And Carrie was never as good a friend to them as they were to her.

I've been rewatching the series (now on series 4). The writing, timing and delivery are superb.

As well as different writers, I sense those involved in the original series actually liked the characters. In the reboot, they were reduced to personality traits and anti female sentiment cloaked in virtue-signally wokeness lead by a team that congratulated itself endlessly. And before, we get to the glaring absence of Samantha.

Glad you recognize the writers are flawed.

Yes! It was heartbreaking i really could relate

They all acted sublime in dramatic scenes. Every single one of those bitches acted the dramatic scenes in the series 10/10.

And look how that turned out

i cry with it

@@mskidi I’m rewatching and you’re so right! Especially Miranda she could pull out those teary eyes so quick, and it hurts extra bc she’s so closed off.

Miranda does and did!

@@gertrudemilhouse5626 As she should. I can’t pretend like I’m happy my friend is being an idiot for a bastard who doesn’t deserve her. It’s my job to tell her the objective truth and help her get the life she deserves

Have you met Miranda?

That's no reason to judge someone anyway...

@@monmothma3358 Uhm there is. When your friend is being pathetic. You criticise them but also show support. Tough love.

I actually liked the fact that he called her “kid”. It showed his playful side.

carrie doesnt look like none of the women he was dating. Natasha looks like his first wife, the model who said he had her passport & the other one she caught him on a date with

Lol calling her kid has nothing to do with not being serious about her. It’s affectionate cute nickname for her

@@vturner Big's first wife was a literary agent. He only dated the model and if I remember right she treated him like he treated Carrie

@@wickedwitchoftheeast88 Never said she wasnt, the model is another girl who ran into him & carrie at a party

Haven't we all been a Carrie at one point in our lives or another though?

lmao, I love Miranda so much

@@aidacailar1126 Lol. And look at her now. Swimming in a huge pool of hypocrisy

miranda's always been right

The bitch (i mean Big) had to die for her to finally move on, ugh. She really wasted her youth on an selfish and boring dude who didn't love her until the very end (when she "won" him by wearing him out)

That is really awful. I'm so sorry.

Just happened to me :(

Same. It’s just the worst feeling.

The exact same thing happened to me years ago, we were engaged too.. He ended it & married the next woman. It is heartbreaking.

8 years and he married the next one. This was my scene in my life.

there is no one more perfect than us

We have been replaced , not sure if they were more perfect . But that hurt is killing and often transforming!!

Being replaced by someone else doesn't necessarily mean that the other person is better than you. I have had 3 exes who replaced me with other women. Not one of them got their happily ever after

They're never better... Always remember that... He just wasn't right for you... Celebrate his loss 😊

It is not about, waiting for someone your whole life. The series, told us about being unable to forget the one person you really love. I don't say that he was the perfect man, but he was the one. That is why she could not get married to Aidan, but she proposed herself to Big. I agree with you, that it is better to live by yourself, but only not to enforce yourself to be with someone who don't love. To be with the person that you will always love, is another story

@@eirinistalos I hear you, but at a certain point, it becomes toxic to stay involved with someone who can't give you what you want in a relationship, but continues to weasel their way into your life. Big was allowed to do this because they both had a lot of emotional issues and Carrie never set a proper boundary with him. The last episode, where Big finally settles for Carrie after 6 years of dating other women and 1 marriage, is portrayed as romantic when it's actually incredibly depressing. It's almost like gaslighting on the part of the writers. The reason most people accept that ending is because he's rich and handsome, and he's "rescuing" Carrie from an unsatisfactory relationship. It's sad because in the previous episode, she finally said what needed to be said to him, she just didn't stick to her guns. In the real world, men like him don't change and it wouldn't have been the happy ever after that followed in the two subpar films.

@@humanormachine2936 I totally agree with everything you said. Usually, such kind of relationships are toxic and disastrous. But sometimes, people need an extra chance, especially in such cases. You see, even though Carrie told Big that she had moved on with her life (when she was with the Russian), the time she spent in Paris being lonely, she did not think of her boyfriend's absence, but of Big. In very few times, those toxic people, might be given their last chance.

Thank you 😏

That's what I've been saying for YEARS now

I think we've all been there . 😓

It would be awful if she had learned how to be a wife and mother and he dumped her, but she didn't.

@@freshstart4423 i don't get it, what is your point?

@@nenisguevaragomez8122 Excuse my wording. I apologize.

I don't think it's just Jealously, Anger or Bitterness. Sometimes its just Pure Sadness of losing something you Love (or in Carrie's Case.. her Father figure as well). Been there done that, w/ my losing My 1st Love at 18. Cried till I downed a shot of Cognac from my Parents' Liquor stash. BUT Everything happens for a reason... Nearly 30 years later, that guy, MARRIED has tried to come back - I rejected HIM and now I'm Engaged to someone 100x's better, has VALUES, and is an Amazing, Wonderful Man - who I would NOT *Be Marrying if I was still the Cocky, Liberal Arrogant Status-Go-Getter at 20. IMO, Life ALWAYS happens for a Reason. (Very #Charlotte-y).

Haha I thought the same thing

I thought the same thing as well

I thought so too, I think Charlotte and Natasha could be really good friends, cause they are both classy ladies.

That’s exactly what I thought because Charlotte looks just like her and has a very bourgeois style and expects a rich husband.

Exactly

She vomited plenty of other times though.

I'm surprised to see a man say this. (Are you straight? No judgment either way - it was a beautifully done show at its best, and entertaining in a way I thought lots of people could enjoy....because it's just well-done.) I watched many times and yes, it made me long for this life in NYC (lol, I live here - my life is much harder) and friends to share that with. Very much. Friends that stick it out with you even as things change. That's one of the reasons its so easy to come back to it over and over again.

You don’t want Carrie as a friend

Carrie is a shitty friend

Charlotte was the ❤ of the group.

My daughter is named after Charlotte York 😊

Lmao

I would have preferred that over the second movie we got, to be fair. Natasha was such an underrated character

I wanna see it!

Y? The hopeless romantic constantly centering men? 🤢

Sometimes love will fo that to you, no matter how hard you tell yourself you’re better than that. A break up can skew your self esteem for a while before you finally learn you are better than this and move on

Thats the most difficult thing in life- to accept yourself the way you truly are. Give up all expectations one day you gonna be something else

@@Biboche23 Perfect. Thank you. And you arent kidding. 😔

or not having careers but just being....that is not enough either. sadly

I watched the first episode & had to turn it off!

AJLT is good in its own way. They needed to adapt to 2022 versions of these characters and 2022 version of New York.

The train wreck rated its socks off. That is why they do it.

I agree!!

​@iris089no it's not. No it isn't. Those of us who watched SATC in real time, in our 20's know that it's not good in it's own way.

Wooooowwwww!!!!!! I never picked up on that before! Omg that hits different knowing what happens in the movie. Oh lord they were a square peg and round hole always.

And less than a year later, he cheated on her in her home.

Also, the announcement in the NYT is hardly private.

Poor Natasha! He cheated on her repeatedly after that

SHADE

I never got it either. The main thing I hear people say about Carrie is that she is self centered. She is the central character and the protagonist of the series so it's natural that the story revolves around her. The show was designed to see situations mainly through her eyes. Sometimes the focus shifts but most of the material she gathers is for her column so her inner monologue before she writes her column is explored..so I don't see her as being self centered as the show is designed to center on her ( carries) self.

@@leeannasloan2292 exactly, you've hit the nail on the head there. i read these comments and always thought, 'but she's the main character of this tv show, of course it's gonna revolve mainly around her!' as you say, it's in her voice, her perspective. anyway, i always 'got' Carrie - i found her funny, irritating as hell sometimes, considerate, selfish, selfless, understanding, impatient, angry, calm, accepting....a typical human being. perhaps i just 'got' the concept of the show as it was meant to be viewed, or perhaps i'm just self-centred too. who knows. but i love her. i always loved her. and i love the others too.

She is written as a realistic narcissist.

@@erinnichols4866 No, she's written as the lead. The show is from her point of view. She even narrates the encounters of the other three women.

​@@erinnichols4866 In other words she's human

Exactly

omg so true!!!

and like Charlotte did with Trey..

These things happened years later

​@@KishBish Trey's family made Charlotte do that and she was completely miserable. The " I choose my choice " was Charlotte being in denial .

People are flawless... I don’t understand Why right now ppl Chase this protagonist...

Lmfao Carrie is extremely selfish: 1. Sent Aidan to help Miranda who happened to be NAKED on the bathroom floor 2. Refused to help Miranda after she got LASIK, citing her column deadline. 3. Called Big to Aidan’s country house, aka the man who she cheated on with the other man, with no warning. 4. Went to see Miranda with bagels just to rant about Aidan. 5. Ditched Miranda for drinks because Big was making veal?? 6. Intensely slut shamed Samantha on many instances 7. Burst into Charlotte’s house and demanded why she didn’t help her out of the immense financial mess she had put herself in 8. HIT BIG IN THE NOSE, and didn’t let him sleep after, just because she couldn’t sleep. She ended this argument with “wow maybe I should hit you more” as a joke. 9. Let’s not forget the cycles of cheating - sleeping with Big when with Aiden, kissing Aiden when married to Big. 10. Shadowed over Charlotte’s engagement to Harry with her stupid post-it breakup story. She’s not flawed. She’s a terrible, self-centered narcissist. Nobody is hating her because of her flaws, people hate her because she never seems to have a character arc of becoming a better person.

That's probably why later we got her only EUF moment in the series since we need to see Carrie in her underwear

Its a tv show calm down lol

@@Swiiitdriiim Never seen it in full, but if it can get people worked up even after all these years, it must have been a damn good show!

He was not a poor working stiff. In the pilot episode, Mr. Big was dubbed the “next Donald Trump”. That being said (and the context it was being used for that time period), he was already very successful.

She's obviously being bitter. She's not perfect. That's the attraction of this show - real women, real emotions, real experiences.

I liked that’s moment actually bc it was a good example of how pessimistic someone usually is in those type of situations usually as a coping mechanism (obviously jealous) but when the When a man loves a women song was mention even Carrie had to comes to turns with the way things were, and it hurt her.

Exactly, it is the case when you become in what you criticized before hehehehe.

it's a sitcom

@@mayechka Oh wow! Really!? I didn't know that! Oh my god!!! Thank you, mr/ms/mrs. Obvious. That's a very good information.

@@Embrinna you are welcome. do not compare it with a documentary next time thanks!

@@mayechka Oh right. I will remember that. Your are trully one of a kind.

@@Embrinna same as you la

Does anyone know what the song is?

Exactly, yet Natasha was way more mature than Big

I thought they were in their thirties.

@@telepromptthe girls are, but natasha was in her twenties!

Old enough to be her Dad he’s so creepy

Yes,I’m old as dirt,lol,so I can relate! But the cast in SATC were fun, & young @ heart! In the re-boot,they tried way too hard to age the ladies! Even though I’m 77 yrs old,yes,my body doesn’t look the same,but my heart,my mind & my spirit still feels like a young beautiful girl of 35!

I like this comment 💜

Definietely Big was just scared of feeling. He wanted a pretty wife and simple marriage without too many feelings and complications... is what I think. I recognize the type... Didn't help that Carrie was quite pushy with him... She should still have let him go though. Definietely should not have helped him cheat, just say "you chose Natasha now be with her and leave me alone"... I think if she was less pushy and if she had more self respect maybe he would've commited to her sooner.

Thats bullshit. Its this kind of thinking why some girls stick with their emotionally unavailable and emotionally abusive partner who treats them like shit. The women have this delusion that "he really does love me, hes just scared of his emotions." So the poor girl sticks around, putting herself in the situation to continue to be treated like shit, hoping that one day he will all of a sudden open his eyes and realize the "love" he has for her. Lifes not a disney movie. Big didnt want carrie and was just using her as his play thing until he found someone to meet his standards. The sooner women accept that some men will use them as a place holder until he meets someone he really wants , the sooner these women can cut the guy off in his tracks, block and delete and move on from these user loser men.

🙄when they first started dating, Carrie was deeply insecure, manipulative and childish. She would pick fights with him over nothing and always wanted her own way. She felt entitled to meet his mother even though he made it clear he wasn’t ready for that. Carrie made a big stink about it and dumped him. Then she stalked Natasha like a psychopath.

They were probably twin flames. That's why it was so hard, why they drew out the best and worst in each other, and why they kept going back to each other.

Um New York times

Who would read that section lol. It's trash and a waste of paper and space

@@lepetitchat123 exactly...who does that.

They are very common in a lot of papers in the UK.

how old are you? five?

EXACTLY MY THOUGHT!

Yup

Well, yeah, but that's different!🙄

Me, too

I am sorry.

Same here.

Me too. He left me, for my close friend. It took me 5 years to get over him and the whole incident.

same.. he married someone else quickly, just like in the show.. and he came back to have an affair, just like in the show.. but I said no.. broke my heart bc I really do miss him and I know he misses me too, but no good can come of it.. he made his choice.. I think I've watched this show so much, my life is beginning to mirror it 😏😩❤️

Exactly! I was looking for that comment!

Carrie is the biggest hypocrite!

I believe you’re on to something

me too

Great observation

Believe it or not, women like to dress classy to this day because they like the style. Just go look at department stores where women’s clothes are sold, a lot of classic and nice clothes. Even women who have business careers, dress neat and classy.

Jeanette Marie she’s not talking about that. I think the woman was referring to the Oedipal complex & in psychology where men who are emotionally unavailable can trace that to the attachment styles that their parents created , it’s either the mommas boys (no one will ever be as good as their moms, hence they chase after women who resemble their mothers in physical characteristics or personality wise) or they use women who look like their moms b/c their mothers were there “first heartbreak” or bullies. The Oedipal complex is created by The incredibly sexist Freud but it’s interesting no doubt. but yeah, I agree with your clothing comment. I think women should dress however the hell the want! Hope my comment helps.

Both of their marriages remind me of making a list .... wealthy families, good appearance, impeccably groomed, lots of money.

After it keeps happening you begin to not care anymore. The first heartbreak is the worst.

Are you 20

Same

Never is a strong word - especially if you’re under 100 years old. I can’t speak for you, but I got over being dumped and replaced by the person I thought was the love of my life. I didn’t realize until a decade later he was the love of my life until that point. Your life is long if you’re lucky- I thank every guy that ever rejected me because it put me in a place to be with my husband.

Facts

i didn’t even make the connection…. and the crazy thing is usually men who say the whole “i want you to do this for yourself not me” have met someone new… wow.

@@higgsstudy Neither did I - I picked it up from somebody else's thread.... I wish I did though....

Very astute observation and it explains how cold he was.

What is NY now?

@@eve3363 toilet

@@eve3363 Its not the same place. Before NY was bustling, it was incredible restaurants, clubs, museums, boutiques and everything in between. It was light and safe and noisy and active. Now its dark, shuttered store fronts, ugly outside dining made of unpainted wood sitting off the sidewalk, its random attacks, its homeless drug addicts all over the upper west side. Its a subway you cannot use in fear of someone throwing you on the tracks or slicing your face (they are not even robbing you anymore they attack just because) its innocent people being beaten to death with a rock by some stranger as you walk down the street. Its the city opening drug centers around the city so people can get high without repercussion, its a bunch of people taking over Washington Square Park to have a party where there is drugs, open sex acts and attacks. In short its a mess no decent person would want to live in for very long. NYC lost its splendor and glamor but not its high rents.

Natasha was a WASP and a product if her environment. She was stiff and boring with her white and beige lifestyle. Carrie was her own person. That's why big never stopped loving her. Why he cheated on his wife.

@@babytooty04 He did a lot of hurtful things to her.

Not true, Carrie was professional when she needed to be. She was very stylish, always had manners and presented herself with confidence. Natasha was a was supposed to represent simplicity in a character while Carrie was supposed to represent complexity.

Did you mean neurotic?..

“…the most submissive, easy to control ones…”. Are there actually women out there nowadays that fit that description?

This show was a live action anime harem

😂😂😂I wanted the same life especially staying skinny without working out 😂 And also walking down the street of NY at 3am alone in a expensive dress and shoes seems so fun 😂

Yes, it is a fantasy. But it is way more glamorous than Harry Potter. You see, poor working-class backgrounded Rowling doesn't have enough taste or class to create something like SATC.

But Carrie would have found out over Instagram!

Carrie was a writer she didn't quit her job..

Hey, it's been 9 months since you wrote that comment. Going through a break up alone is though. How are you doing hun?