Saying Yes or No: What Is Consent?

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You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do. If you're being pressured to do something you're not comfortable with, that's called coercion, even if it's your significant other. Sexual consent means that two people are actively willing to engage in a particular sexual behavior and express their consent by saying "Yes! That is ok with me." But just because someone consents to engage in one kind of behavior, doesn't mean they have agreed to engaged in another. You have the right to change your mind about what you want or not want to do at any time!
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@bruisedchampions1004 6 лет назад

Sisters aint never been this friendly...

@eden1872 5 лет назад

right, like my sister would be like:"Bitch how tf did you get a boyfriend?"

@user-xs3lc4ky4h 5 лет назад

KittyMia Heartz Maybe for five minutes. Then it’s back to full on rage. 😂

@hanubhakt- 5 лет назад

RIIIGHTTTT

@SoCalledLife.X 5 лет назад

Not all siblings fight, my brother and i never fight

@gorillafartgaming9360 5 лет назад

KittyMia Heartz I got 2 brothers not any sisters

@onettaviator5396 6 лет назад

I love these character designs!

@humanbean8590 6 лет назад

Me too.

@assimilationsynthesizer 6 лет назад

Agreed

@Emilys_stupid 5 лет назад

Same

@herbly._.grunge 5 лет назад

Same

@galaxytoon514 5 лет назад

The other character designs are gross I love this designs

@enzothegift 7 лет назад

Constructive criticism: The animation is amazing and what its talking about is a serious subject , the vidio would be a 10/10 but you guys need to get a better recording studio and anything can really help , like recording in a closet , the echo was kinda coming through at times Hope yall work tht thnks :)

@amazeorg 7 лет назад

Hi, Enzo. Yes, totally agreed. Thanks so much for watching and giving us your feedback. We will hopefully have an audio corrected version of this video in the future! Cheers :)

@enzothegift 7 лет назад

AMAZE Org this is why i like you guys , you guys give care to feedback , thank you for that, keep doing a good job

@tseriesfans255 6 лет назад

SP1K3 AKA ENZ0 a

@asielmilian38 6 лет назад

Love the animation, love the characters and love the video:)

@louise4152 6 лет назад

SP1K3 AKA ENZ0 Video*

@TheBlumieriest 7 лет назад

*puts phone on bed* *phone vibrating like it's on a table*

@MahimStuff 7 лет назад

The animation it's great but the audio needs to get better

@amazeorg 7 лет назад

Agreed. Thanks for watching! :)

@yukaii0 6 лет назад

I WANT THIS SISTER AAAA

@basicallystevenuniverse511 4 года назад

I’m an only child so me too

@user-ij8bc3db1g 3 года назад

I have 2 sisters, an older one, and a younger one. And they are are both CHAOTIC. my little sister, she is the MONSTER in my family. And my older sister, she is of coarse the smartest and the funniest in my family, and me- I’m just the middle child :’) . if you guys want to have a sister, then ok! But they will be annoying sometimes- actually, all the time 😂

@lcw2426 6 лет назад

I really want the hoodie that the girl in the red hair is wearing

@ssksksksksksks3680 6 лет назад

changwoo LEE I have a hoodie exactly like the one she’s wearing.

@minhaesposanaomeama362 6 лет назад

Bubble Gum animation I cant find a hoodie like that in any local stores of my town, did you purchased yours by the internet?

@ssksksksksksks3680 6 лет назад

Lol I got it at jc penny

@cms3816 6 лет назад

Go to old navy or something

@spacean4832 5 лет назад

I'm wearing that kind of hoodie rn!

@sketchieexists6652 6 лет назад

Can I just say that I love the art style so much

@loading3119 6 лет назад

SketchieExists Sammme X3

@jamescarmody4713 6 лет назад

SketchieExists Me too! It's why I watched this particular video; I think I'll watch the rest as well.

@basicallystevenuniverse511 4 года назад

It’s like better than anything I’ll accomplish in my life lol

@adoriiah8924 6 лет назад

why would the 13 year old be high or drunk?

@lerose8385 6 лет назад

That's society now. I know a few 11 yr olds who have been.

@kbirby 6 лет назад

BlueberriPieSquid youd be surprised man,,,,sadly surprised but surprised nonetheless

@venus9455 6 лет назад

BlueberriPieSquid Merica

@e.g.5212 6 лет назад

ICB*AC*JL*, wow, that's young!

@jamescarmody4713 6 лет назад

I thought the same exact thing. Eve might be giving too much information to her little sis.

@mocha.raemond 7 лет назад

I want to see more of Eve and Pip! Maybe Eve can help some person who might be having a hard time with their sexuality. It'd be great for a vid!

@amazeorg 7 лет назад

Glad you liked the characters! Great suggestion :)

@Pandacalifornia 6 лет назад

Yes, definitely. These are the most tolerable.

@GhoulishCinnamon 6 лет назад

So... I decided to take the polls and it genuinely concerns me how many high school students, including myself, aren't taught about consent in their sex Ed course. Seriously, schools. You need to really start teaching kids the important stuff. Most states teach students about reproduction in their middle school health class, and some even teach about the dangers of unprotected sex. Students need to know that it's ok to say no to sexual contact.

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Hi! Thanks for your comment and for checking out AMAZE! A reporter with the Huffington Post is interested in speaking with young people who are new viewers of AMAZE. If this is something you may be interested in, please consult your parent/guardian first and then email AMAZE@BerlinRosen.com to learn more. Stay AMAZEing!

@awk-wordwriter7179 6 лет назад

MintyDoodleArt agreed. We leaen about sexual reproduction...but not sexual protection and consent.

@namkedi 4 года назад

My elementary school: Teach sex Ed! TEACH SEX ED

@rachaelkp 2 года назад

Consent should always be mandatory starting in kindergarten or earlier.

@cielphantomhive9305 7 лет назад

Maybe you shouldn't be doing that at 13 I'm mean seriously I get highschool but ya

@maemae527 6 лет назад

Ciel Phantomhive you would be surprised about the 13 year olds I have met

@virpunen 6 лет назад

yo someone from where is live, had a kid at 12 lol

@lunawolfe5185 6 лет назад

Ciel Phantomhive two 8th graders made out beside the school bus

@kiwigang7232 6 лет назад

Ciel Phantomhive Well Kissing can’t be stopped. People are gonna do it if they love each other. It happens. This video is just an example of a teen getting into a bad relationship with not talking about consent. Not all 13 year olds have problems with relationships and are fine with kissing.

@megandavis2819 6 лет назад

Youd be surprised

@ds4933 7 лет назад

If you don't say yes or no does that count? Like people in movies don't ask for consent they just do "it".

@amazeorg 7 лет назад

Hi, Beanie. People in the movies aren't always the best example of how to handle real-life scenarios. The problem with not saying either yes or no is that neither of you can express honestly and clearly what you're ready for or not ready for. You might think, for example, that your partner's body language suggests they are cool with something, but that doesn't make it true. After all, you'd be assuming. Consent also isn't a one-time thing. You might be cool with one thing, but not another. It's an ongoing conversation which is why it's best to talk these things out and ask for an explicit "yes" or "no." Hope this helps!

@BlueSkidoo13 6 лет назад

Always ask if you’re unsure. It won’t ruin the mood or come off as unsexy. You can only really do it without talking if it’s someone you know and they’re giving off the body language for it. Even then, asking isn’t a bad thing.

@Tsuki14Moonlight 6 лет назад

sometimes people who know each other for long can tell by body language, but surely not in the first time of doing it, and even then it's possible to get the message wrong. besides, some people panic and freeze, so they might not be able to push the other person from them or say no, or be scared that the other person might not respect a no, so it's a good idea to talk about sex with your partner if possible, to know their visions and boundaries and communicate yours, before the sex too, and ask if you can keep going or if they are okay and keep an eye if they are still consenting till the end. sex in movies is a bit romanticized tho, the idea that love makes you a psychic doesn't really carry on to reality nwo

@gummie2737 6 лет назад

Beanie Baby I

@megthemarshmallow816 6 лет назад

Cuz it's a movie

@tealwashablemarker8886 6 лет назад

the dropping your phone on your face at the end was the most relatable thing about this

@cookied1669 4 года назад

IS THAT S Q U I P

@stejac133 7 лет назад

"Webflix and chill"

@adamlaclair2514 6 лет назад

Great job really but....why does no one ever make this about males like we can be pressured too but just something we all need to think about..

@iMonikah 6 лет назад

She does say it goes both ways multiple times ..

@kyubeyz_7062 6 лет назад

*men can be raped* it must be known

@adamlaclair2514 6 лет назад

Yes no body seem's to care anymore or just make fun of them, It's sad.

@lukero818 5 лет назад

Adam LaClair Boys never tell anyone.

@Mehk 5 лет назад

Adam LaClair they make fun of women victims too

@periderptsmls5079 7 лет назад

How did i even find this? I dont hate it but just how??

@Kat-zn5xk 6 лет назад

Wow, this is amazing! Thank you! The older sister explains a lot without sounding unnatural or like she is directly reading off Wikipedia. It sounds like a real conversation! I also Love the animation and character designs. This is great for any young teens (like me) to watch, as it explains important things without sounding boring or generic. I also like that it doesn't criminalize the boy, as he does not realize that he is taking it too far, and most likely doesn't know enough about consent either.

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Thank you!

@Kat-zn5xk 6 лет назад

You're welcome :D I didn't think to mention (because I didn't think you would see my comment), but at 3:56 Eve's voice sounds a bit strange. Sorry if you already know, I'm not trying to be rude or anything. But again, love the video!

@C_Sock 6 лет назад

Did you know you haft to be 14 or older to legally have sex but it has to be protected and needs the other persons consent

@killme1647 6 лет назад

TheWildZackary _ thought it was 16? In the UK it is anyway I think

@TurtleInATopHat 6 лет назад

TheWildZackary _ I got sexually harassed when I was 9..........

@cidcada 6 лет назад

From what I’ve heard, no if you live in America.

@George_E1907 6 лет назад

TheWildZackary _ in England it's 16

@-somatryoshka 6 лет назад

TheWildZackary _ Depends on where you live, here in Australia you have to be 16

@lovelyh.969 7 лет назад

Sister goals

@ajjauqson6491 6 лет назад

I love this art style! It’s adorable!

@angelcake3646 6 лет назад

okay, so, i have one complaint, they never specifically stated weather it was considered rape AFTER the fact even if consent is given. Like, if they did consent on both sides, but afterwards the female/male regretted it. That isn't rape when that happens. I've seen people go to court claiming to have been raped when in fact they consented and just regretted it afterwards. I guess that's something that needed to be stated to make sure there are no mistakes made out of confusion.

@buttons6816 5 лет назад

Regret isn’t rape

@SoujaGyrl Год назад

caught recant consent after the fact, however, you can access and decide the next time and any time after that, not to consent or recant, before any thing happens. regret happens some times.

@FoxInAShoe 6 лет назад

This video is amazing. I feel like it explains consent clearly, and should be used in classrooms! The animation is beautiful and so easy on the eyes and easy to follow. I think you did an amazing job, you should be so proud on yourself(ves)

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Thank you! Please feel free to share our video.

@zoemochi 5 лет назад

This is so true!!! *DON'T LET ANYONE TOUCH YOU!! ESPECIALLY AT THIRTEEN, LIKE NO!*

@PheadrasArts 6 лет назад

This video was amazing! I'm so glad I watched it. Wish I could have seen it sooner! We really need to teach kids that on these situations they have to act a bit selfish. You decide what to do with your body, in any situation

@sparky3071 6 лет назад

7:52 that always happens to me 😂

@Pandacalifornia 6 лет назад

Drop the phone on her face? Yeah, I do that too, mostly because my arms can’t stay up without getting tired.

@coallbe2240 6 лет назад

Chispitas Clash of clans LMAO same

@kyubeyz_7062 6 лет назад

Oof

@DaniiDearestt 6 лет назад

Sparky JC I have a really big tablet and when I lay it over my head I usually drop it from how heavy it is, but I'm to stupid to stop doing this and it happens repeatedly

@Brisk_Deer 5 лет назад

Chispitas CP same XD

@KazerOnYoutube 6 лет назад

Haha the style is so cute, not to mention the way it's set up is more of a real-life type setting which makes it feel more authentic. Good message too :)

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Thank you!

@sketchypotatogaming7767 6 лет назад

if the sister is blue and the girl is red does that mean the parents are purple?

@lerose8385 6 лет назад

No, You have your logic backwards.

@zthehuman7051 3 года назад

@@lerose8385 actually, according to punnet squares, that’s the only way that could possibly work

@lerose8385 3 года назад

@@zthehuman7051 Oh wow, its been 2 years and I completely forgot about this- I agree with the op now anyways lol

@ExpectoBangtan 4 года назад

In the end when the phone falls on her face, I can relate to it so much. Whenever you're like so into something and the device just falls on your face lol😂

@starfireunicorn2813 6 лет назад

I don’t have a big sister to talk to about this who do I talk to

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Speak with someone that you trust. Whether its a friend, a parent or another adult in your life.

@not2quid 6 лет назад

Starfire Unicorn if you have a mom talk to her!

@user-ey9ny9ie1r 6 лет назад

GoofySquid what if no one lieks u

@not2quid 6 лет назад

StarSailorMars "your mom"***

@rachaelpitts7631 6 лет назад

I’m here, You have a big sister now. Let me know how I can help

@sackofbugs7065 6 лет назад

UP TO FOUR YEARS OLDER AT THAT AGE?!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU, AMERICA?!! great vid tho

@megandavis2819 6 лет назад

My bros 10 years older then me

@zaggora7316 6 лет назад

Three years in Texas but yeaaahhhhh

@rattatattat1954 6 лет назад

wait wym? whats wrong with siblings having an age gap? theyre siblings. not dating. 😂

@MsBlackroseblood 6 лет назад

My eldest sister is 14 years older than me.

@samsmith958 6 лет назад

Sakura Kurofodu My brother is seven years older lol

@holisticlifestyle9894 6 лет назад

Lol that relatable phone dropping on face moment 🤣🤣🤣

@toxicincpotc2725 6 лет назад

You videos are really entertaining

@chaosbeam4654 7 лет назад

Thanks for the tips! I'm 3 years always from giving consent, but it's good to know these kinds if things ahead of time

@ivang3021 4 года назад

Now 1.

@undefinederror40404 6 лет назад

7:50 HAH me So me Also this video is great, I really do hope you fix the audio someday. Then I can recommend this video to teachers! It would probably make the lesson less awkward and we'll be sure that they don't forget anything. Also the mood between the sisters is great, it's serious but not so serious that it gets scary or uncomfortable. I wanted to mention that because it's really important and you did a great job! :>

@liamqueef3875 4 года назад

The animation style is so cute!! Love the colors.

@gunhead7159 6 лет назад

" It can be a really... umm... *positive experience* " Nailed it

@cipher0328 4 года назад

NoizyBoi why

@mlgredpanda724 7 лет назад

0:53 I know there eyes are shut but it looks like the eyes are rolled in the back of there head as they cry out black goo while summoning our dark overlord.

@dragoomz409 6 лет назад

MLG Red Panda wtf lol

@w.a7731 6 лет назад

Ok I see that....and now I'm scared

@MinerKitten 6 лет назад

omg 😂

@imcarressa 5 лет назад

@@dragoomz409 0:51

@Xaphannnn 6 лет назад

the character designs in this video are so cute like I'm attached to these characters already even when they're just one-offs for a consent video and I'll probably never see them anywhere else

@AnomGamerGirlPOTATO 6 лет назад

My school taught it, but only in high school. It was last year, and they even showed how to find red flags of an abusive and or manipulative person when dating.

@downrightdanny3226 6 лет назад

This hit close to home, thanks for making this

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Thank you!

@cipher0328 4 года назад

AMAZE Org how old is that older girl?

@TheLookoutStudios 4 года назад

I wish I'd remembered this video when my ex boyfriend kept pressuring me into sexual activity. Looking at this video now, I understand that was not okay, and I need a partner who will respect me, so I can respect them too.

@amazeorg 4 года назад

I'm so sorry that you experienced this. Its not your fault. Please tell an adult that you trust what happened and they can help you get the help you deserve. Keep telling adults until someone believes you.

@Luxembourgish 3 года назад

I'm sorry you were pressured, that is bad. However its important to know that with the law, the pressure needs to reach the level of threats or blackmail for it to be considered coercion. Threats or blackmail are what invalidate consent, not just pressure.

@nunzonuzzo2899 6 лет назад

Omg I always drop my phone on my face when I'm on it...

@xoxobubonicbaddiebimbo9169 5 лет назад

Good job making this believable this is how me and my sister talk

@thornbushy 6 лет назад

1 That last part me I always drop my phone on my face every single time 2 great information I'm glad I got to know a bit more about this

@littleoreo7717 6 лет назад

I love the art style. It's so cute X3

@koolboi6610 3 года назад

This art style is really good!

@JulieanaLexus 7 лет назад

I love this video and I'd love to see more videos with these characters

@leasagna2202 6 лет назад

I looked at the votes and consent isn't taught in the most sex es classes ????? But this is a really important thing

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

Agreed!

@EmilXOM 6 лет назад

If he touches you without your consent, THAT'S NO GUUD!

@Mehk 5 лет назад

Let me define consent for you after scrolling through your phone without your consent lol

@gnuresk1201 6 лет назад

Hehehe she has Pokemon go

@kyubeyz_7062 6 лет назад

genuresk 330 ikr

@sponchi8678 5 лет назад

She catches Pokemon

@dashi1838 5 лет назад

This helped me out a lot. There's someone that I love a lot, but kind of made me feel pressured. He was trying to get me to do more than kissing. not that I don't want to do any of that, cuz I kinda do. I was just so uncomfortable when that happened. I've wanted to talk to him about it for a long time, and I think I'll use this info to help talk about it.

@Luxembourgish 3 года назад

Pressuring someone is bad. But under the law, only threats or blackmail make it coercion and illegal.

@stardust8305 6 лет назад

Great video. This helped me understand a little more I guess.

@spill_myguts 6 лет назад

I LOVE THIS ART STYLE

@dillpckl 5 лет назад

This animation is *goals* . But do you have a room with a lot of soft things? It helps stabilize and ignore echoes.

@sashamensh7028 5 лет назад

I’m watching an ad for this Chanel rn

@joleebaldridge420 6 лет назад

I absolutely loved this

@wahat472 6 лет назад

Why did it make me laugh when she said "even when your doing...*it*" (thank u this really helped my understanding)

@apersonfoundinyeshua529 2 года назад

This is an interesting video but it’s nice to have someone point out that you have to give consent to everything.

@polaroid8338 4 года назад

HEY lets not forget that men can also be pressured to send a pic but when we talk about it they mostly say "get over it."

@emmajohnson1241 Год назад

i love these siblings, i hope i get to see more animations on them in the future :)

@5etal1a 6 лет назад

I wish my older brother was this supportive

@veryinactiveukmapping 4 года назад

I love the little sister's hair!

@realitypolice470 6 лет назад

That art style is so cute.

@SoraTheKeyToEverything 8 месяцев назад

I watched this video in class just today and its a Great video that’s very informative on this subject. and I sorta got a bit of Ruby and Yang energy (From the anime RWBY) from Pip and Eve while watching this. I know that doesn’t mean anything but it’s just something I noticed. Edit: Also I love that 0:04 Pip has a poster of Cloud from Final Fantasy Vll

@persia5566 6 лет назад

I had by first boyfriend in 6th grade. It was horrible,he had anger issues,He kinda pressured me to try masturbating And Other sexual stuff. When I refused he threatened me and I finally told my mom after a week. Also he got in a lot of trouble with the law. Im in 7th grade now,I dont even look or Talk or even try to touch him now

@amazeorg 6 лет назад

We're so sorry that you experienced this in your first relationship and are proud of you for speaking up about the situation.

@persia5566 6 лет назад

AMAZE Org he actually told my Ex Bestfriends I hated them and Didnt want to be friends with them. My Ex bestfriends are twins if one stopped talking to me the other did to. It was kinda weird I was bisexual and He was trying to go out with one of my ex besties and Me and one of my ex besties both liked liked each other (tip:I was having trouble finding out my sexuality at the time)

@9tolera 7 лет назад

Can you do a video on racism equality and sexism please xx love this

@amazeorg 7 лет назад

Thanks for the suggestion. Will let the animators know! :)

@Utubs 4 года назад

I thought she would say, “yea I have a boyfriend but, I’m more interesting in this girl..” and I would be surprised but nope. Either way this is an ok video!

@Ravenomics 6 лет назад

I would never let my children date until they are ready. not just when they reach a certain age.

@jackw8268 5 лет назад

Ahhh seventh grade, I will always remember that time where life got 1000x more complicated 😂

@humanbean8590 6 лет назад

The blue girl's audio is bad. It sounds like she's speaking through a tube.

@consumetm 6 лет назад

oh, i didnt expect this to be an informational video < . >

@BeautyBlonde-yi1yz 4 года назад

People need to be in the same page

@indigocook1732 3 года назад

wtf was that at 3:59

@lexiewuzhere4196 4 года назад

Who else felt that when she dropped the phone on her face

@BuyBBStonk 6 лет назад

Do women want men to ask for permission before he can kiss her? Or is it more romantic to just lean in and surprise? Perhaps it's best to just avoid these situations and abstain from relationships altogether.

@olioliver1606 6 лет назад

GlennCocoGuitar kissing is different from sex. Kiss her and if she kisses back take it slow. If she stops you then stop. That simple.

@emersonjasper1493 6 лет назад

Yes, he still needs consent. It says that in the video.

@pearlyp9898 6 лет назад

GlennCocoGuitar I think it depends. I say, first ask, but maybe that's just me since I would be super freaked out if someone just... kissed me for the first time without asking first. I personally wouldn't find asking for permission as unromantic or anything, just that it would show that you're a caring person who respects boundaries.

@wwsmom 6 лет назад

ASK. Asking can be very, very attractive when it's someone you want to kiss!

@jamieheinrichs3242 6 лет назад

if its slow and you both go for it thats consent

@felixxcantfixit 5 лет назад

i got an amaze org ad before this 😂

@FpSMuffin 6 лет назад

This is definitely a good message and I don't disagree with it, however there are two issues I must ask about, first, this doesn't really touch on implied consent, consent doesn't have to be verbal, body language is key to consent too. Also, does alcohol always make it rape? As what if the two parties get drunk and get involved? And is it off the table if even the odd one drink is involved? Finally, one is responsible for drink driving so why isn't drunk sex considered ok? I'm not attempting to debunk, these are genuine questions. Great video :)

@SoujaGyrl Год назад

I have answers for this question, not sure if they are pertinent at this time

@0_deleted_038 6 лет назад

Omg this animation is amazing ;0;

@lpstoons8181 6 лет назад

I love this video! It's great. Who animated it?

@ibguertena1053 6 лет назад

If someone continuously ask you to do something and you don't want to but they get mad, then they're probably not the person you should be seeing

@SlasherSlushy 5 лет назад

Could someone link the artist if they know what websites or social media they used?? I honestly LOVE the colors and characters!!

@OlivergwrThomasthetankenginefa 6 лет назад

Very good series

@luckygirl88cool11 6 лет назад

I love AMAZE. Org cool video

@jena_rese 6 лет назад

I know this has nothing to do with the video but I Love the older sisters outfit

@cyberwyvern6499 6 лет назад

lol wish someone in my family would actually react that way instead of just avoiding the topic in any way possible

@scrotec5070 5 лет назад

That older sister be a snacc don't hate me for a joke ejbeuogreougb

@InternetPirate7 4 года назад

My mom freaked out when she thought i had a boyfriend, im 13

@cadieblanchard6474 6 лет назад

Aaaaaaaaaa i love this animation style they're such beautiful sisters and characters and voice actors awwwwww

@danimaru9714 6 лет назад

i only like the video because of the character design/style and animation. The aesthetic is cute :3

@sponchi8678 5 лет назад

The main reason i clicked this video was because of the designs xd

@aidenjace3958 6 лет назад

i love this video! my only criticism is with the survey... transgender isn't a separate gender. cis men and trans men are both men, and the same goes for cis and trans women