Chile, I went down to da after hours club the other night and just about every woman in there was selling her cookies. Y'all have go to hear this! #Prostitution #Miami #FunkyDineva
As a former dancer - the Black women who turn down Black men often it for safety issues. White men pay more & will pay just to have someone to talk to. I'm not saying it's right. But just explaining why.
Like I’m a SW and that’s literally the basest rule Can’t believe funky surprised at this Safety They known to b “cheap” They known to b big and go too long These are the reasons I’ve always heard forever Other races understand it’s a transaction and treat is as such Do the transaction and leave Sigh
So FRIG… Dance is code to Prostitution? I understand they’ve the same clientele but this vid asked act the latter of the “professions” and people freely doing it
Yes, most female escorts try and dodge black men like the plague. 😅😂 Often times they are cheap, and want the most bang for their buck. #punintended. Sucks because I suppose it ruins it for the honest hearted Black tricks 😅😂
It’s funny they get upset when the woman said she she was not into black guys. But if it was the other way around and his friend told the woman he wasn’t into black woman those same men wouldn’t have batted an eye or be offended.
Yea lots of sex workers dont deal with blk men. But blk men rarely deal with darker blk women as well....so i dont see why this exchange was surprising.
Seen enough Soft White RU-vid videos to know that a lot of women of the night don’t usually like to go with Black men because Black men usually give them trouble
I Watch SWUB too! And I do remember hearing this said by Asian, black etc women who are on this lifestyle that Black men are often aggressive and have issues with them
Sex worker or not, cheap dress or not, she’s allowed to have her preference. Black men have their preferences and they announce it, unsolicited, all the time.
I AGREE TOTALLY.. MAYBE THE OFFENSE WAS HOW SHE DELIVERED HER PREFERENCE.. MAYBE SAYING I'M NOT INTERESTED AS OPPOSED TO SAYING I DON'T DATE/TALK TO BLACK MEN!.
🗣 it. Cuz, NONE of them "fine, affluent and established yung fellas" were seeking anything other than base sexual depravity. N yet, when a black woman says "if u want sex from me...its gonna cost u" sumhow SHE is the deviant? Im so confused at the logic n black males
Why is it okay for men not to want black ladies but to get disrespected when black ladies don't want to date black men???? Then you disrespect the girl for no reason??? Amazing...
Because black men are not used to being rejected by black women. No matter how dusty they are. Black women have put black men on too high of a pedestal and it's time we knock them down.
I have heard the same. An acquaintance of mine used to work at a “massage” spa and said that she did not like black men as clientele because they wanted to do everything and then not pay
I have a homegirl who escorts (who is black) and she says she does not do black guys for safety reasons. She says the black clients tend to be more aggressive and disrespectful whereas the white men treat the working girls better. I played this video for her and that's what she told me. She said it's basically common business practice for the girls who have either had a bad experience or fear for their safety.
Yes, SoftWhite Underbelly on RU-vid interviews escorts and pr-st-tes. They don’t date blk men either, due to safety and many of them being undercover pimps. They’ll get the first in the hotel room to kidnap and traffick her. This is all races of escorts btw.
I hear you Funky, and agree with you on most things; but I think most Black women have outgrown the expectation that the brothers are going to come to their rescue.
Right! Like sis probably has trauma around her skin color or features from black dudes especially in Florida..but Funky right she didnt have to say all that sad she has to even do that but hey inflation is up
That’s how black women feel when we hear black men say they don’t date black women. I think more black women should have the same attitude when we hear black men down us!
No, we shouldn't react the same way. A better reaction would be to stop dealing with them together. Stop having their babies and start dating other men. Overreacting because a BM says he doesn't like BW would just make us look desperate and embarrassing. Black men really aren't anything to get upset over. 98% them have nothing to offer.
Those chicks know those guys are not into them, but those same guys expect them to open their 😺 for free?! It's the audacity to expect something for free or cheap, but then get mad when she has her own standards. Maybe I just think different.
Yep! And it’s THEIR body, they don’t have to give their bodies to anyone they don’t feel like giving it to. No one should guilt you into f- them. You can “discriminate” when it comes to your body parts 🤷♀️
You noted she was a dark-skinned woman then proceeded to shade her looks. Black men collectively (including yourself) are notorious with anti-black woman, colorist remarks and views. White men probably treat her better as a dark-skinned woman than black men do. She had NOTHING to apologize for IMO.
Funky has gotten real disrespectful every since that Chloe video I’ve been giving him the side eye… gay men are still men at the end of the day they just like peen
Right, but mad because she has her own standards. Those same guys wanted her to do them for free or cheap. As usual, as soon as they don't get what they want they go to demeaning the chick.
@@lebou9540 Thank you! I feel Funky has always given me , jealous vibes, when it comes to black women. I am still confused , why did that hurt his gay ass feelings!
1. Your white friend is cool ASF. 2. I think it's dope that straight men can be friends and hang out w you just like they wld any other of the guys. 3. I gotta chuckle that BM are so shocked and offended by that woman's "preference" bc it is rare that BM give other BM the same energy and take such offense when it's reversed. BW been hearing that since the beginning of the and rarely are there think pieces on it. Lastly, she's just as ignorant as them and should be just as cancelled as BM who think like this!
Stated perfectly. BM BEEN having a preference AND expressing it. EX: Kevin Samuels telling BW we’re average at best and that every other race of women are better than us. Not only that, BM supporting the message! Now 1 lil Black prostitute does it and now it’s WWIII 😂 Like, you literally can’t make this up 🙄
Here's a little perspective, many sex workers don't deal with Black men of fear of being robbed and not paid they put that disclaimer on their profiles.
Just playing devil’s advocate here. But she probably feels that way because I’m sure many black men has expressed the same thing to her. Especially with her being dark.
i seen enough 'lady of the night' videos on youtube to know ... BLACK MEN DONT PAY. most of them (ladies) never want to do dates w black men bc they cheap and want more for less. so thats why she said she didnt date 'black men'. i always find it funny when they say it and it seems to be universal knowledge.
Blk males are at the bottom of the patrichorial totem pole for a reason. These ninjas can't even pay for a woman's company. Oh well...they didn't to themselves.
What ive learned from listening to working girls stories on Softwhite Underbelly is that they all say they don’t date black bc they been hurt or robbed by black tricks
Right?! Now all of a sudden Funky wanna be conscious about colorim,featurism in the black community? Why because it was BW who gave the same energy that BM would give. Especially with how colorist Miami is? Funky know good and Gotdamn well
Regardless, there was no need to be rude about it. That’s like when black people walk into stores and aren’t acknowledged because of perception. Either way, you have a product and should be personable .
I'm so proud to see the room has changed as far as BW being supportive of this black woman and her standards. Funky was so wrong for calling out her skin color and calling her sick and indoctrinated as a mean of putting her in her so called place. Keep it up Black women, you can choose not to want to deal with black men. Black femicide is real. Stay safe ladies😍🥰
Black women should be open to grant or deny access to us. For generations we've seen what being race loyal had gotten Black women...NOTHING!!!! I love to hear Black women being loud and proud about their preferences. What does it matter if it's a Black woman prostitute or a Black woman who's a lawyer? They have a right to their preferences.
She probably had a pimp to answer to who told her to stay away from black men. But she didn’t have to say what she said. That was just rude & ignorant!
1. She shouldn’t have mentioned that she doesn’t deal with a specific race. Workers that I’ve crossed paths with during my bartending days, always said that black men were the most hostile during their transactions. That could play a role in her decision making. Also, you really don’t know if they were being coerced. A p*mp does not have to be somewhere waiting in a corner to have control over them. It’s psychological.
@@patriciacairo4002 Contrary to popular belief, there actually are some decent pimps who take care of the women. The majority of them are abusive tho. You’re right about that
Chile that woman has every right to have a preference ESPECIALLY if she was working. You literally said the BLACK dudes werent spending so WHY be mad cause she ALREADY KNEW they were cheap. Yall kill me. And furthermore I ain't mad at the girls for not getting ran thru for FREE....
Nope. Dark skin black man are the biggest antagonist against Black people and black women. And by the way, we’ve since stopped expecting y’all to take up for us. We know what it is with y’all. It would be nice to see you have this reaction toward a black man who feels the same way about black women, but I never have 🤷🏾♀️
Who is we? I’m a black woman and have never had a negative interaction with a dark skin black man. Y’all need to stop speaking for all black women when you say stuff like this smh
@@christianab429be the exception and move on because I’m light skin and have witnessed It and defended plenty of dark skin woman ( even on the internet). Your experience is a positive one. Be grateful and do not try to minimize the matter at hand because you haven’t been victimized by it.
@@exoticallovergirl Her pimp could have told her not to pick up Black men. We don't know her situation, neither did Quinton. His estrogen level notwithstanding , Quinton is not keen to the struggles of cis girls and women: particularly Black girls and women who are forced into sex trafficking. He is way over his head on this topic. Very judgemental. Very flippant. Very insensitive. Very colorist. Those of us who work and mentor in the community don't appreciate his disposition.
Naw … for some reason there’s a tribe of ppl who constantly shame 9-5s workers. 🤷🏾♀️ ijs … seems pretty on trend for there to be ppl now turning to non 9-5 “careers”
Well let them shame them. At least you know you're working an honest paying job. You're not putting yourself at risk for STDs. If a serial killer was lurking on here, he'd know where to find them.
The rent prices and wages in Miami just don’t add up. I looked into moving down there and said “you gotta sell a little cat on the side to afford this”
yesssssaaa, FD!!!!!. Funky Bunch is here for this!! love u on TEAGif..BUT there's nothing like u on your channel!!!! thank u for gracing us here!!!! much love ❤
Although this behavior may be shocking to you, I am Afro Caribbean and this happens in the islands and in central and South America all the time. If you go to Colombia, like 90% of the women in there are working girls. And it’s been that way long before social media. 🤷🏽♀️
Totally agree I’ve had male cousins vacation there and it’s almost like part of the vacation package and that’s the expectation of paying for sex…it’s not about the money for them but more so about the experience just like we pay for anything else we find exotic like an exotic drink or exotic food etc…,,they enjoy paying for prostitutes because they can get what they want or what they can afford and not have to worry about any other than that when the transaction is over
In Miami Beach it wasn't always this way, though. Back during the beginnings of the SoBe Renaissance in the late 80s, early 90s the scene consisted of an eclectic mix of college kids in art school or UM's music department, wayward children of powerful celebs, Euro fashion industry folks, LGBT, and the kids who had formerly survived the Studio 54 era and were now in their late 30s. There was one older stripper on the club scene named Roxi and when she came through it was an event, because that "element" was a novelty back then. EVERYONE knew each other. The hooker era on the beach started late 90s with a few young teens on Collins: they stuck out like a sore thumb and reeked of "trafficking". I haven't been on the Beach in a minute but seems like the working girls have taken over the scene.
Been working for a Casino on the Las Vegas strip for over 20 years. This is not new, it’s been the norm. A lot of people do not know what they are witnessing or just close their eyes to it.
A lot of ladies who are strippers are not prostitues or thots. There are a lot of good ladies who are strippers. Once people lie and say all dancers are prostitutes people want to believe even though it is not true. All ladies who dance or strip are not prostitutes.
I totally understand her possible reasoning behind not dealing with certain men but she must find another way of dealing with the situation as that response (unfortunately) can lead to trouble for her
True. If she was in an isolated place with him, it would've led to an assault or "un-aliving". He wasn't gonna act a fool in front of white folks. Our femicide rate is through the roof. Me and many other black women have had our lives threatened for simply rejecting these men, politely or not.❤
New hustle? Q, you know good and well they BEEN laying it low and spreading wide for years back in the brothel days and ain't much changed except they get arrested/ticketed for it now!!😂😂😂💯💯
Think about it Funky, us dark skinned black women get disrespected by black men more so than anyone else. How many times has something went down and no brother has come to our aid? And most of us don't be saying that crazy stuff!
Omg I'm brown skinned black woman not mocha not high yellow you get disrespected because of your attitudes sometimes you have to take responsibility I'm in between should I cry out I'm brown why why why me omg
But how do you know they weren't forced into prostitution or weren't being trafficked? Miami and Vegas are known for this. A lot of prostitutes (of different races) share the same sentiment about catching dates with BM. They usually don't pay, end up being violent , or pimps themselves and kidnap them.
Most of them aren’t forced into prostitution. They usually say that shit to spite their “pimps” or a lack of money coming in. Maybe it’s different in California but most of these hoes choose to walk that blade by choice. Not by force
That’s was my thought when he said that after the bar closed MsGreenGress was in walking the track…I mean that felt like a she “Berta not bring her azz home with no money” type situation….and Q was partially right if that was the case cuz without some mo ey for the night she didn’t have a place to go…..so is that the checks bd balances of that lifestyle and that is to sell kewchie and life ok from day to day or do t sell none and hope you don’t starve the next So it’s really a nightmare come true if RU-vid ever hear real stripper or prostitutes or even drug dealers talk about getting out of the life and the result feels the same they are flying high when the monet is consistently good but when it ain’t there is a bottom that’s is so hard to hit most of them try to avoid it as best they can
You said a word right there. Like back in a day, people did it because they needed to take care of their families. And nowadays, people are just doing it because they feel like it's the " in thing".
It’s happening in Chicago too. I kid you not a lady on 62nd and Western by the Marquette bank pulled her pants down and shook her dirty a$$ for advertisement and yelled $40 and a good time. I was heated because It was broad daylight in front of all them kids just getting out of school. The men ain’t no better, I’m walking from ALDIs and I was offered $100 for a good time and I was so offended and scared. A stranger female walked with me to make sure I was ok and she told me he felt comfortable doing that because they be hooking at ALDIs. The ish is out of control 😂
It is out of control. I was leaving Dollar Tree recently, looking plain and regular, nothing hoochie about my attire, no makeup or weave. This older white man walked up to me and asked if I needed anything or any help. I said no thanks. He then says "Do you need money?"😩 I said no thanks again. It was odd!!❤
@@caressaclark1042oh my God! I was propositioned at a grocery store too recently! By a middle aged white man here in Texas. He started off normal like he just wanted to take me on a date. So I gave him my number. Then, he texted me and told me he was married. I told him I wasn’t interested then he propositioned me. I went back and forth with him over text just to see how far he’d go. We agreed on my rent. Then I blocked him because I got scared 😮💨🤣 but if you really need your bills paid there are men willing to pay for it. I’m just too scared to do it myself. But I wish I wasn’t. I’m tired of working chile 😮💨😂😂
I think the city girl and hypergamy/soft life trends on social media have made women turn away from working hard to trying to acquire a nice lifestyle through a man. The disturbing thing is that sex work can be dangerous and extremely taxing on a persons mental health. No one can convince me that its an easy way to make a living.
Why should a woman work hard, and also give up sex FOR FREE to men who are not looking to commit? Even if she works hard I hope and pray that she isn't sleeping with a man in exchange for a dinner.
@@exoticallovergirl I'm not sure I understand your comment. I never said a women should have sex for free. Women with no background in sex work, are underestimating the risks of engaging in sex work in a very informal way. The women funky described are picking up men in clubs with no vetting, it's very dangerous in my opinion.
Years ago there was a show on HBO that followed a bunny ranch in Nevada. I remember a couple of women choosing to do sex work simply because they liked it and felt they were good at sex. I'd much rather women choose to do it on their own accord for fun or just to make extra money, then be forced by circumstances.
