It’s a major felony. You can’t have sex in your car across the street from a playground and or school. This could put him on the pea doe list for life if the prosecutor goes hard enough.
No. legally it’s not the same as soliciting sex from a minor lol. It’s an aggravating factor for doing a sexual act in a public place. There is a huge difference.
I've been cheated on once, and it was in the worst relationship I've ever been in. She told me she'd kill herself if I left her, made me waste my teenage years with her, and then cheated on me with our mutual friend, who was also my drug dealer when she turned 18. Awful feeling.
I feel bad for Paula (the wife). Not only is she learning that her husband is a cheater, but the video of it is posted on the internet. Not even allowed some privacy while she works through this.
I feel bad for the former husband. Imagine what he had to go trough to start looking for satisfaction elsewhere. I know cheating is bad, but if the wife performs the bedtime routine right, there should be no cheating. Just saying
@@netspiderczPeople still cheat when their needs are met. Cheaters still cheat when they are the one who cause their needs not to be met. There's no reason to feel bad for that mf. All it took was to talk with his wife to sort things out
This is actually a sex crime. Like doing that stuff in public and in front of kids or that close to a playground can (and with enough evidence *will*) get you on the offender list. I’m pretty sure that’s kinda the drama that happened with dreamybull. So for them to say everyone should consider this as though it was an average civilian is even worse. An average civilian would be on a list. Immediately. He has no excuses
It's incredibly important for people to remember this. Even if you aren't doing it as some type of fetish and it just "happens there", you can end up on the registry. Same with public urination in a lot of states. I will say I think the context should matter when it comes to having to register as a sex offender, and the context in this situation ABSOLUTELY justifies the outrage. Having sex in your car behind a building and having someone walk by is one think, parking in front of a school to hook up AS A COP, IN YOUR SQUAD CAR, is going to obviously draw attention to what you're doing. It's so dumb that it honestly HAS to be some type of kink or fetish for them. "Hehe I am the law, we can even hook up HERE" , he obviously knew what he was doing
OMFG I said the exact same thing. Treat him like everyone else? Okay so jail. And fired. And the list. Cops get away with everything what the actual fuck
@@brodyca1898Having sex in a car in public is a sex crime. If you get caught it's treated the same as flashing people and you will get put on a sex offender registry.
@@brodyca1898too bad he deserves to be on the registry for that. Very illegal 3 different sex crimes in one video. Near two public areas for CHILDREN!!!! And sex in public even in a car. which is most definitely a sex crime
Is it so easy though? Buying cheap clothes means you're likely getting clothes from a sweat shop exploiting their workers in a poorer country. The food you buy from the grocery store is often farmed with the help of illegal immigrants getting exploited so the price of your food can stay that cheap. Good luck trying to avoid Nestle or their subsidiary companies if you want to avoid helping them with their goal for water domination.
Nature has physics that punish us for stupidity for a reason. Because it’s easier to destroy than to create. If stupidity and chaos weren’t punished by natural law then the progression of order cannot develop and will collapse in on itself
My father had a longtime affair with my mother's (now former obviously) best friend and they divorced 13 years ago. She's better now but it still fucks with her to this day. There's really no excuse for cheating. If you're not monogamous, disclose that. I know it's probably tough as hell to tell someone you don't love them anymore but my god, I feel like this would be even harder to hear… Also "you broke 11 of the 10 commandments with this act alone" took me out 💀
Thank goodness for the mistress clarifying that this wasn't a one night stand. This changes everything. That officer is a hero too, doing oral searches and checking every cavity in the backseat to make sure she wasn't hiding anything dangerous to harm the nearby children.
Gamers, if the person you’re dating ever has been investigated for “spanking a girlfriends son so much that he went unconscious” make sure you watch out, he could also be a cheater.
@@noparkingnoparking He prob didn't even tell her. Most of people who done these things (mom's ex bf) flips it over to be the victim. He made up that his ex wife was mean and to spite him he can't go near their kids (some distance) lol. Turned out he was and is abusive and this is the maximum punishment that fker got.
What's worse is that the woman he married had her son rightfully taken away from her when she stayed with this guy after he hit the 3-year-old so hard, that he was knocked unconscious. This guy's abuse was swept under the rug.
Charlie saying “god has abandoned you after this act of sin” in a calm voice while looking directly at me might be one of the most terrifying and confusing moments of my life…and I wasn’t even the target of his wrath.
Got cheated on 4 months ago, it is one of the worst feelings a human can go through, it makes you feel meaningless and tiny, it destroys your self confidence, especially when u get told all the details from her friends. Don’t cheat people, talk to your partner or just break up with them, it will save them from so much hurt
Fun fact: a couples therapist said that cheaters consistently come in the same categories: cops, fire fighters, bartenders… not surprised to see that they’re keeping up the statistic !
i'm sure that shameless pride in her cheating with a married police officer on duty isn't going to absolutely assassinate her and her children's rapport in their respective social circles.
Well SHE isn’t cheating. He is. She’s technically right, (ignoring the children part) she technically is not wrong here. HE is a piece of shit, she just needs to make better choices
They need to be charged as sex offenders. If some guy was peeing in the parking lot that cop could have done that to him these people need help accountable.
It doesn't help that majority of sexual crimes are committed by men, men naturally raise more suspicion backed by stats and prison population, I don't see why thr officer wouldn't go to the guy who's peeing lol
Yep. A guy who worked with my dad at his company got slapped with that bullshit when he was in college. It was night, he was drunk and caught pissing in an empty park and was charged with indecent exposure. Because it was a park with a playground it got him on the sex offender registry. Ridiculous overzealous power hungry college cops with nothing better to do and courts that have no problem fucking over average people yet this cop had no problem doing this where kids were actually present in the daylight. They're disgusting.
"We ask that you reserve all judgement until we finish our investigation" They're so blatant as if any regular person would have that leeway after doing something so incriminating. They'd be put on a registry for that in normal situations.
The fact he’s not being charged with corruption of minors or endangering a minor or any other charge that any other person who commits a crime on or near school grounds shows how biased our judicial system is.
@@AMGKITTENZAnd who are you to defend it? Trust me it does not care about your pretty view of it, there is always a reason to criticize and bash the justice system
@@AMGKITTENZit can still be charged as public nudity. What's your point? It's Infront of a school, they had the right to do it anywhere else. Kudos to your stupidity
My lovely ex girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me hard. After living together for 3 years, and raising a baby girl for 2 1/2 years I had finally caught her. Her response was to exaggerate the argument to police after I leave and had me arrested. In court fighting for my half of custody, she finally admits that I may not be the father. Lo and behold the DNA test was a 0% match. She got no repercussions for lying and is now a groupie for a local band. While I lost everything; the person I thought I loved, my "daughter", my dogs, and the apartment. Cheaters and liars deserve no respect whatsoever.
Damn homie that's a rough one. Just know that she is the lying sack of shit, you did nothing wrong. Hard thing to move on from I'm sure but there's only one way forward my friend. All the best.
Is her lover by any chance (one of) her ex? The same thing happened to me, it's with her ex. For years she told me they're just friend. Although I expressed that I don't like the situation.
The cheating is bad enough, but the lack of morality and accountability and just being straight up delusion…humanity is just tanking real hard these days.
Yeah man “we” (brackets cause I ain’t the common denominator) are fucked. I predict a full swing though within 2 generations. These soft times and soft people will create hard times which will create strong people . Takes a few gens but it’ll correct itself.
Oh the mistress is definitely glad this all came out. She wanted the wife to know so her partner would get divorced and she could have him for herself… I’m willing to bet the cop said he was going to divorce his wife for her at some point, too. I can’t wait to see her reaction when the cop doesn’t choose her, or if he does, when he eventually cheats on her.
i love how delusional people can be, “oh i left my dedicated significant other for my affair partner” and then surprised when the person cheats on them! wow!
Suspended? You cant trust him to remain faithful to his wife (let alone cheating on the clock) but can trust him to police the community? Terminate the dude and be done with it. Every single public official that cheats on their spouse should face harsh punishment
I mean, cheating on his wife has nothing to do with his job. But having sex in a squad car in a kid’s playground, while on the clock? Yeah that’ll do it.
"I don't think they were going back there for an aggressive game of chess, or to exchange any kind of information; unless we're talking about genetic information..." Peak Charlie line
It's extra funny after reading the (very recent) news about Mozilla's report that most car manufacturers reserve the right to collect and share information on your sexual activity and genetic information. They must have been in a hurry to share it.
I was broken up with for another person and that felt soul crushing enough, so I cant imagine the agony cheating must feel like, especially when the evidence is plastered all over the internet and it shows the person breaking your heart breaking laws and abandoning basic common sense or empathy for children who might see what was going on. All around awful situation, I just hope everyone who didnt sign up to be involved in any of this (the parents and especially the children who had the possibility of being scarred for life and have repercussions with fear of law enforcement for this consentual yet very degenerate act between adults that scared them because they didnt understand what was happening)
@@creola2910 I was making a dark (heh) joke, the implication being that since there’s greater awareness of police brutality cops now need to figure out other ways to spend their on-duty hours
When i heard about this story I thought it was funny until I realized he was cheating and then i was disgusted when i realized they were near children.
The most shocking part of this story is that the cop actually got suspended. It's crazy to me how they (justifiably) suspended him for this, but other police agencies refuse to suspend officers for beating the shit out of innocent people, or making shit up, or violating citizen rights.
@@brianneh1547no you wouldn’t, to don’t get classified as a sex offender for consented sex between two adults, that would mean all of us are sex offenders
as a victim of cheating and a child of divorce due to cheating, i have no idea why people cant do the simple thing of breaking up begore cheating...literally seconds before you physically AND mentally cheat you can send a mf breakup text. the only reason people stay while cheating is because they rely on the other for support, wether it be she cooks you meals, does your laundry, or is financially keeping you stable
amen. ive been cheated on twice, both by people who, I could only in the end surmise they wanted the best of both worlds. I 100% believe cheating is done out of selfish greed, theres never any circumstance in which you are forced into a relationship with someone else like that, so it must be for one's own gain. I can't wrap my head around it otherwise because it's in itself cruel and inhumane, let alone people who get a kick out of it
Because cheaters are cowards. They don't want to lose their relationship even when it's not a relationship they want to be faithful in and even when it's not one where they're satisfied in. And they don't ever think they'll get caught. And sometimes they're right. I think at least half of cheaters never get caught. Probably more.
People who cheat just want the best of both worlds. They want a stable home life with a partner but also want the thrill and passion of a love affair. It's rooted completely in narcissism, especially since the one doing the cheating would not be okay with their partner sleeping around on them either.
“If you wanna cheat just send them a breakup text moments before the act” You haven’t ever been in any sort of relationship ever and if you have it was a “middle school hallway” relationship.
@@cruisingscenesandtakingbea4197 Breaking up hurts but cheating hurts worse. They’re being hyperbolic but (provided you haven’t been cheating emotionally and ignoring the fact that breaking up over text is obviously shitty) this is a better thing to do than cheating. End one relationship before you pursue another.
The spanking incident was the worst part about this whole thing. Yes, cheating is bad too. But to spank a 3 year old so badly, that they LOSE CONSCIOUSNESS?!?!?
Yeah, that part sickened me the most and I'm shocked more people aren't talking about that part. I used to get beat as a child. That REALLY is a horribly abused innocent victim - I guarantee you that wasn't the first damn time that cop beat that kid. It's so vile and sick. I can hear that poor child screaming and choking on his own sobs until he suddenly just... stops. It's disgusting and I hope that sick f*ck never knows a moment's peace.
I'm from Maryland and Prince George's County unfortunately has gotten worse and worse over the past ten to twenty years. DC has just been pushing their poorer residents out into the county instead of investing into them and trying to improve their education. PG County cops have been in the news with corrupt things like this a lot recently and I imagine it's only going to continue to get worse for Maryland doesn't invest into poor communities and only segregates. For a LIberal state Maryland is one of the worst segregated states in the entire country
Imagine getting arrested and one of the officers says "Yeah, this is the squad car that the police officer fucked in in front of a school. We haven't cleaned it since."
it should be illegal for police officers to EVER turn off their body cam while they're on the job. the only reason they'd have to turn it off is to do something that would get them fired, so why is the police department cutting him any slack??
Better not sleep nude anymore if the cops raid the wrong house. Also kids & victims don't want every minute of their situations all ending up on RU-vid cop video channels depending which parts are deemed public owned.
From my understanding, cars are private property normally so you can drive naked. However you can't step out of your car naked in public. However, that's a police car. Owned by the government, paid for by taxes, and possibly public
I’m not even surprised about the media trying to downplay this disgusting behavior or even the fact that he got a paid leave but it still pisses me off. A slap on the wrist is not enough.
Can't stand cheaters, my dad did it to my mum so much and it really messed her up. It's so scummy and a vile thing to do, nevermind hurting someone to a point it will always stay with them and affect future relationships. Adultery should still be a serious crime. If you have issues, work em out, if that fails separate. Don't cheat
lol the police is trying so hard to convince people that this is a misunderstanding while the homewrecker is going out telling everyone that it's exactly as advertised.
Its almost like most Christians these days use Christianity as a status symbol rather than actually following the religion and applying the laws to their lives. No wonder Christianity is dying.
I watched this local movie in the Philippines where the female protagonist says it best where she says "Cheating isn't an accident. It's a choice." And that couldn't have been more true than that.
I am completely depressed because my father cheated on my mother three times, so they hate each other and take it out on me. I can confirm that cheaters never change, and that it harms everyone around it
Thats some lame shyt. Your completely depressed because your most likely a very depressing individual. Trying to pawn off your depression blame on your parents is beyond childish & weak. So maby stop it
Your mother should've either excepted it or left. But the other thing is that men like variety. As long as your father returned home to take care of his family I don't see what's the issue with him twirling his cane in different holes.
I seriously cannot even begin to imagine what goes through someone’s mind when they cheat. As someone who has been cheated on, it’s clear that people like this don’t care for their partner and only for their glam, it’s sickening
same...its morally wrong there is no justification i now dont concern myself with cheaters i been cheated on twice by the same man and learneed my lesson i was younger thenbbut now i am wiser and more aware and anyone who cheats is just a problem and their partner should not have to go through with dealing with them its not worth it
@@GeneralRamm910not even close. It’s such a complex topic and people cheat for many reasons. It’s easy to objectify when you haven’t been on both sides do your research before speakin on shi you don’t understand lil nigga
If you were caught cheating and had no idea the dude was married then no one who is sane would blame you. But what makes it hilarious is that she instantly went to "I DID NOTHING WRONG AND I'M GONNA KEEP DOING IT". lmfao a true homewrecker right there.
What is really shocking is that there was enough room in the rear seat of a police cruiser for that kind of action. Those are small areas to operate in. Kudos for their flexibility!
it’s absolutely insane that they ask to reserve judgement “as anyone else would ask” like they literally do not absolutely shit on that exact context on the daily.
I know this is off topic, but I want to thank you Charlie and the rest of your team for giving all of us a fantastic time at the watch party. It was surreal and genuinely one of the best days of my life.
We all had sex when we were 15-16 years old. This moral panic is dumb. If he was on a break or a pause he shouldn't even be suspended. The only person who should be upset with this is his wife.
I lived in PGC all through covid up to earlier this year, this doesn't surprise me at all. Half the time cops are just parked in lots near problem areas (shopping malls and gas stations) and reporting something like gun shots or vandalism takes an hour to get a response. Though, heading 20 minutes west over the bridge to Virginia the cops will pull you over for driving 3 mph over the limit.
@@dennisraeimakers5218he could just be an honest, responsible, and considerate adult by telling his wife that it isn't working. But nah, I guess cheating on her in front of a high-school is the appropriate course of action. Especially as a police officer, they should be held to higher moral standards than your average civilian. It's probably even in their job description to do so, I know it's part of mine as a firefighter.
If a non police officer was accused of spanking a three year old into unconsciousness, there'd be an investigation by the police and there'd be a trial by a jury of peers. But apparently if a police officer is accused of doing it, the police departments internal affairs shuffles a few papers around until the head of the police union tells them they're done pretending to be busy and are cleared to say he's clean. It didn't happen when the officer was on duty! Why is it somehow an internal police matter!?
I'm having too much fun watching Charlie talk about these crazy stories happening in the world. These are some of the most irrelevant things that I could not care less about, but Charlie commentary made everything so interesting I can't stop laughing! Thank you Charlie for bringing so much joy to our lives. Love you!
you're right, but he does tend to focus on stories from America (which is not a bad thing, he is American) and I just wanted to point that out @@bandit4648
