Honestly!! What's so hard about being without someone you love or care about? Like if you don't love/care about them anymore, just open up to them and talk about your emotions, easy!!
Exactly. Rather break up than cheat. The guilt of cheating would kill me. Why hurt and betray someone you love, right? People who do such a thing are deplorable and are the scum of the earth. Lower than the dirt I walk on.
@@crashh-course This mindset has always confused me because it’s so obvious that he is just protecting the man in this situation. If it was a woman cheating, it wouldn’t be “he chose a girl like that” it would be “all these hoes for the street, can’t trust women” then spouting some alpha male bullshit. Like if you’re gonna make everyone else the villain at least be convincing abt it 💀
I don't think there is a bigger red flag in one single text message than asking your partner if their "period got you trippin" when they get upset. It reveals SO much about who you are as a person.
My girlfriend knows when she's on her period and I know it too when she eats chocolate after being a bitch. If a girl is on her period it's not that hard to tell the difference so the fact that this dude had to ask means she probably wasn't
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Before I make any decision, I ask myself “Would Charlie judge the shit out of me if I did this” and it’s kept me on the straight and narrow ever since.
*"Life is short, have an affair."* That's their slogan? That triggered me. How can people live with themselves making money of ruining peoples relationships? Holy.. A lot of us programmers/developers don't take jobs from gambling websites, I can't fathom how people were able to work on this.
Not to say I agree with it but if I had to guess their mindset is prolly something like, “People who will cheat will do it anyway whether or not I make/run this site. These people make their own choices I’m just cashing in on it.” Like a “if it wasn’t me it’d be someone else” type of justification.
@@justskiddingaround-idontkn7519 yeah, unfortunately many people try to justify their wrongdoings with that type of logic. "If i didn't scam those elderly people, someone else would, I'm not making the world any worse"
Since when does evil have standards? There is no special rulebook, they just do whatever they want because their evil and dont care about who they hurt. Be glad it didnt endup worse, their evil so if it did then it would be expected from them.
@@jugginator2.068That is what we call a bot. They are programs designed to comment on popular creators saying that the channel that left the comment is better, or leave some link that claims to be either part 2 or a video of the creator of the original video the comment is left on meeting the "commenter". That is not a real person, and should not be treated as such. Safe travels my friend!
my dad was actually on the signup list for the data breach, which led to my parents breaking up, among other things. so im personally quite thankful it occurred
Are you serious. That sucks. I always wondered how many families were wrecked. I hope your mom moved on. Do you mind if i ask- What happened to your dad after?
"period got you trippin". That is so wonderful. If I was writing a screenplay this would be the perfect line to set up a character. The brevity with which this tells you so much about the character is honestly genius. It is manipulative, misogynistic, douchey and yet flippant and glib.
I don't do this, and this is purely hypothetical but if the woman this is being said to in said "Screenplay" often times starts fights, or causes issues out of nowhere and then blames them on the fact that she has her period. Would it still be misogynistic given the context?
@@SneakyWindex Nah, it’s just douchey to blame any negative feelings a woman has on her period for no reason. If she’s using that unfortunate event to escape accountability, that’s a different matter. I’m a girl and I would never in a million years use my period to excuse my clown behavior
@@SneakyWindex Yes, especially if the male also then comments on it. Because both parties should know better that a period makes you mildly irritated at best, and in a lot of pain at worst, not outright violent if the opposing party didn’t fucking do anything. A woman’s period doesn’t mind control them. The person that says it and context is very important. If someone who’s “allowed to say something offensive” says it, it doesn’t give consent for people who shouldn’t be saying it in the first place to also say it. Also, no sane person in real life will blame anything other than irregular hunger and pain on their period. If someone actually blames their shitty mood and behaviour on their period, it’s a red flag. Which means that said hypothetical character would just be bad writing.
i once dated someone who liked playing dumb everytime we argued and its honestly one of the worst things to deal with. we both know you're lying, just drop it already
fun fact: The CEO of Ashley Madison was also caught cheating using his own dating app even though his wife always said in interviews that she'll be heartbroken if he did.
“Life is short, have an affair” Literally what the fk? 💀 When you marry someone or choose to date someone, you make a commitment to be loyal to one another, and it’s not just “no big deal” to cheat on a person you are supposed to love and care for. If you want to have relations with someone else, your partner deserves to know because nobody should have to go through the absolutely heart-wrenching pain of finding out that your partner has been unfaithful. Cheaters don’t take into account how traumatizing being cheated on is to their partners and it’s disgusting. Life IS short when you look at it objectively, that’s why you should look for ONE (unless you are poly) person who you genuinely want to spend the rest of your life with. The other option is to stay single and sleep around or be single for the rest of your life. I know which one I would pick 🤷🏻♀️
exactly. but when youre poly, you gotta consent with your other partner and make sure theyre okay with another partner too. like an open relationship too, you have to make sure your partner is ok with it. dont cheat first and then tell your partner. talk to your partner BEFORE you do that
6:04 this is my favorite message. After all he has done he manages to top everything by telling himself and his gf that he is too cool to be a weirdo that goes on dating websites, And even if his girlfriend had believed him, he would still have admitted that he was capable of going with girls he met in real life. That's some high level ingenious sigma shit
Seriously, bro was all like "c'monnn, you know I'm not *PATHETIC* enough to need a _DATING WEBSITE?_ right? Right???" it reeks of insecurity 💀 like wtf that's the part your emberessed of?
Ladies, if a guy tries to gaslight you into believing that you're just crazy because of period hormones, then you already know he's the type to intentionally go out looking for someone to cheat with on purpose... It's premeditated. I don't know how these guys get second dates with anyone, much less multiple women. They don't respect women at all.
Then you're probably a dumb dropout who doesn't understand anything about the dating world😂 most women will date a douche bag with game before a nice guy who's a little shy. Anyone denying that lives in a fairytale world.
7:09 The saddest part, is that she said “I KNEW”, not “I KNOW”. She was already insecure about this husband being careless, and now it’s just been confirmed.
@@WadeAlmathat's the problem all the Ben's are either the most majestic people or the most downright fcked individuals to walk on planet earth there's no other stuff in between
I audibly screeched at the "😂I don't think I ever had a conversation with anyone on there. It's full of bots. Definitely never met with anyone." It's the EXACT SAME message my ex sent after denying he was on multiple dating sites talking to people. He even still denied it after I sent him a dozen screen shots THAT HE TOOK of girls profiles from different apps and the conversations. So first he denied ever being on an app, then he said he never talked to anyone, then he said they were all bots and he didn't meet up with anyone, even though I know for a fact he did. Why do people do this when they've obviously been caught? Nobody is falling for your BS.
Kudos to OP for not losing her cool to this arrogant lobotomite _once._ He was probably trying to piss her off as much as possible so she'd retaliate and blur the line between victim and assailant (somehow). This is a new level of self-control. Respect
I suspect she was already three parts done with his bs already and had one foot out the door. Its super over when the other person gets downright clinical.
Every deceptive strategy known to unfaithful men worldwide is embodied in this guy. He masked his anxiety with ease, acted clueless when confronted, and used gaslighting tactics in an attempt to take control of the situation. He needs to be studied.
The best part is an innocent guy wouldn't behave like this. If it were me I'd be confused and eager to find out how my gf came to this conclusion, and then I'd show her how she misinterpreted something she saw on the internet. Then we'd laugh it off- together- and breathe a collective sigh of relief. But cheaters think an innocent person's normal reaction is to laugh in their spouse's face and relentlessly make personal attacks in an attempt to break their resolve and destroy their sense of self worth. It says a lot when a grown adult has no idea how innocent people behave.
I agree. I will never understand how people like that really go with “Huh?? What are you talking about” when they are CLEARLY caught. It must be some sort of instinct- if I don’t admit it then it can’t be true. Why not just be like- yeah. I did it. Sorry. The lying and then gaslighting makes it infinitely worse.
This has the same energy as a guy who cheated on me and then when I confronted him said he’d been wanting to end things for a while but “didn’t know how to say it” I responded “English would have been fine.” He didn’t like that. 😂
@@C4ndyC4neLan3he made himself look bad, she really didn't have to do anything. And if she did cheat, it wasn't at all mentioned when she was accusing him for cheating, he was just quick to act like he didn't
From what I heard it's a fetish thing for a lot of people. Cheating and going behind their partner's back gives them an adrenaline rush, a feeling of power and of pulling one over on their spouse. They find that rush addicting. It's so stupid.
@@HannahWoods-yp8edYeah it's true for some. Ever read the adultery subreddit? Place is full of low lives discussing how best to cheat and gloating about it.
Honestly cheating is simple, if you know your partner is cheating, ask them if they are and if they lie to you then dip. Hell dip if they are, don’t even have to say anything because they aren’t worth your time.
Is that not a common tactic of cheaters? Playing dumb and making the victim feel stupid and horrible? In my experience I was made to be oblivious and then called out for being stupid when cheated on. It's all just taking advantage while maintaining that they are guiltless somehow.
there's something wholesome about charlie, after years on the crustiest parts of the internet, being absolutely perplexed that a man would try to gaslight someone by assuming they're on their period.
God i hate cheaters. How dare you have the audacity and the sheer arrogance to ruin somebody who loves you. That person will NEVER be the same. EVERY relationship afterwards will be tainted by your decision to be a disgusting cockroach of a person.
Yes it will. And they are. I am. But somehow she forgave me, and we struggled on. Then she cheated, and I forgave her. And now we continue forward, hoping for the best. But still in love. I will never cheat again.
Cheaters confuse the hell out of me. If you're unhappy, break up, and find someone new. I don't get it. Is it the feeling of getting away with it? Freaking weird. Be better.
I think people like to get with people who have significant others because it gives them a power trip like they are taking it away from the other person because they are simply better. I also think people who cheat also just like the idea of emotionally hurting/embarrassing their partner.
It can be explained with evolutionary psychology. For most of human history there was an adaptive advantage for individuals that were able to cheat and get away with it, in certain circumstances
we need a new internet rule: "if somebody uses a laughing/crying emoji in an argument, they officially lost the argument." Every time I've seen someone use it in an argument it's them overcompensating. It's usually because they are on the ropes and they need to make their opponent argument feel like it's clownish even if it's not. So they drop the emoji to make themselves feel like they are clowning on someone and are above the stupidity, even though they are flailing
It never ceases to amaze me how men dare use their period against a woman. Men have never experienced something so painful. I literally faint, puke, crawl on the ground in a cold sweat from the pain
3:00 this is like when i ask my dad "Why is the entrance door wide open?" When he leaves it open when its below 0 °C outside and he responds with "What door?" He almost never closes the entrance door and the house isnt very well insulated or designed so it loses what little heat it has really quickly
The only worse way to respond to getting caught cheating than this would be to act like a total narcissist and get mad at the person for snooping and spying on you.
So did she not go looking for a sugar daddy? Funny how she ignores the text but feels the need to address it on a different forum once the guy can't respond 😂
I once made an instagram account and contacted my GF posing as some other man to see how she'd react after multiple attempts to gaslight me into thinking i was paranoid and saying everything was fine and i shouldnt worry. Once i confronted her with the text messages she unhinged at me and cursed all sorts of terrible words. I cried all night because i loved her and couldn't believe she was being so mean and narcissistic to me. It was the worst emotional pain i ever felt. I didnt even accuse her i just asked what was that all about and she turned me into a super villain. I felt terrible as if i was being a bad person for feeling betrayed. 2 days later i broke up after weighing my values X my love for what i LIKED about her (not her person). It was very painful at first as it was my first relationship but i felt SO much better afterwards
I despise cheaters with a burning passion. Literally any chance that I have ever had at a love life was ruined because of a cheater. I don’t like cheaters, I try not to associate with them, and the one person who I still talk to who is one learned from his past mistakes and is becoming a better person because of it.
it should be a criminal offense the mental harm to the victim ,ruining relationships etc ppl have livelong trauma cuz cheaters or commit sudoku idk why but modern day stuff that deserved the unalive sentance is now ''normalised '' and ''decryminalised'' and victims get shamed and told to ''get over it'' or blamed we need basic human deceny and common sense and empathy and actual justice not corruoption
watching charlie makes me feel better, because my girlfriend just cheated on me a couple days ago and we just broke up so this video hits close to home. His humor will help me get through this🙏
It makes me so sad when people tak relationships for granted when its so damn hard for others to get into one or stay in one. And especially cheating that shit is so wack. Im over hear fearing ending up alone and this is what people do with their relationships
I've heard that there's multiple sites for the sole purpose of having an affair. Unpopular opinion: People who are on these sites should have their data leak (as in they were trying to have an affair, not where they live.) You played with fire, so don't be surprised if you get burned.
I honestly didn't know that this site even existed, until this video. I mean seriously, how much of a crap stain do you have to be to make a website like this?
@@Daydream3rza girl once gave me a midol in school cause I had a headache. I got roasted for being on my period for the rest of the week. I hate midol.
The fact that a website like Ashley Madison even exists really shows what our society has become. If you don't want to be stuck with one women/man, don't date people.
You don't understand the mindset. It's not about being "stuck" its about having your cake and eating it too. It's not enough to be in a committed relationship, they want the committed relationship, AND they want the side piece, the best of both worlds.
The fact that he really only cared about emphasizing that he wouldn’t need a website to get girls instead of denying the allegations or showing any emotion says enough.
possibly my favorite moment in this video is the few seconds of silence and that turn back to the camera after charlie says the 'period got you tripping?' text. the sheer disbelief as he says "that is fuckin wild" is so real. we all felt that one.
I kinda agree with this. From all the stories and what not I've read (cheaters regrets in particular) they love their partners, but overtime they start taking them for granted. They want that "spark", the "excitement" they once had, and instead of, idk TALKING about it with their partner, they look somewhere else. Usually, under the pretense of "It'll only happen once," which then turns into "They don't appreciate me anyway." And then ultimately, "What they don't know won't hurt them" They create a fantasy where they can have their cake and eat it to and no one gets hurt. Eventually it becomes normal and they hardly feel the guilt. But suddenly, they're partner knows, and it's only when that fantasy crumbles that they realize and see the damage they've caused. Now, how they react is a whole other conversation, but in the end, they fall, and reality wins once again.
@@rubystone9074universe isn't aligning to expose cheaters. Only people getting caught are idiots and serial cheaters who only get caught through allowing constant opportunity to get caught. Human deception has no end, and you best believe people are hiding and taking secrets to the grave.
@@Cookiedible You can also not be in love and cheat. If anything, people are far less likely to feel any inclination let alone act on it when they’re _in_ love or just feel any love at all. Completely agree that it shouldn’t be the sole deciding factor for a relationship though.
KiraTV did a great video on the hack a while ago. The most pathetic thing about it all was that it was revealed that the majority of the women on the site were fake and they were pumping their user base for credits you had to buy to even send and receive messages from them.
I love this new text messaging arc. I started writing down old texts in my phone before deleting them to save space and now my Reddit is full of suggestions from text theory and texts subreddits. Thanks Charles. Now I can listen to my favorite content while driving without looking at my phone.
Not sure if you will see this charlie, but i think the only time cheating should be allowed is if you cheat in single player games for fun. That way you dont ruin the game for anyone else and you get to mess around. But cheating on a partner is absolutely disgusting.
When your man asks if you’re pissed/upset/crying/whatever because of your period- run. You have every right to feel feelings and not have them blamed on your cycle.
I will never understand cheaters.. Even had to yell at some "friends" back in the day "That they should just break the fuck up with their girlfriend if they wanna live that single life, its not that hard..."
by around 3:50 I was laughing out loud at Charlie's emoting, he doesn't usually reveal facial expressions much (he has mentioned this himself) so it was so funny to see him just going off. And of course the clever word play that is his style. Even though the context is uncomfortable, Charlie made it hilarious
The fact he eventually admitted to having an account and said it was "full of bots," makes this read like a criminal suspect slowly breaking down during a police interrogation.
Going from "whats that I have no idea what that is" to immediately after "I never had a conversation with anyone on there, its all bots, I never met anyone" and he never even feels the need to address that he lied in the first place. and somehow feels like if he keeps lying he'll get through the desert, kinda wild
@@yasyasmarangoz3577 usually people say "yeah, thats what men do all the time" or "yeah, thats what women do all the time" while you generalized everyone
@@johnsm7th Yes, slightly charging your lie since the first one is so obviously wrong is not something only a particular human group does. I did not mean that literally everyone does that, just that you can find someone in every group that does.
2:36 come on, what do you mean you don’t know why he’s pulling this angle? Hasn’t Shaggy taught you anything? Even if she caught you on camera, “It wasn’t me.” 😂
I'm picturing a room full of military folks, in full fatigues, gathered around a bunch of computers and hooting whenever they find out a superior officer is abt to get his shit rocked 😂
