He didnt dodge sh1t, he got hit, lost half of his brain matter but somehow managed to make a miracle recovery. He lost 1 house and half of the custody, thats not a dodge lol
Just dodge all the bullets and never get married in the first place (unless you want kids, I do not). As a man, once you get married you have a 60% chance to lose half your stuff in the next 1-5 years. Have kids? Courts favorite the mother. You paid all the bills but the house is in both your names? She's getting it AND child support.
I cannot completely write off that story as "written by an incel man", because I have a sister exactly like her. And my best friend does too. There ARE women that bad. I'm not saying it's impossible that it was written by a dude, but I know from experience that women can be this out of touch with reality.
there's a reason mark twain said "the truth is stranger than fiction" not that terminally online people would know since often times the only truth they're exposed to is fiction and i've also known someone that was pretty bad. was amusing that they somehow took pride in saying they were "young and dumb" whenever they didn't want to take accountability
There are compilation videos of women telling the same or mostly similar stories online. But maybe these are all just incel men in wigs trying to make women look bad.
I mean, a woman wrote an article in a news website saying something similar. So whether or not this particular instance is true, it's definitely happened before.
Lots of women hate seeing men happy and love/ get a mood boost from seeing men down. If anything I find that this often tends to be younger women more often then not.
@@keonkla Just goes to show this `Superiority complex` from an obsession to be a girl(or man) boss without the normal challenges of everyday life is gonna stay till the crazies die off and it eventually evens out enough to where prioritizing a simple life becomes more important then whining about inequality for them, even when they are riding a golden plated limo and live in a mansion, yet some `poor joe` actually has a happy family life. Seriously, either be happy with what you have or strive to better yourself to reach what you believe will bring you happiness. Since i certainly rather prefer keeping away from anything that makes me miserable, instead of turning into a stalker because my `previous griefs` learned to move on and better themselves instead.
@@keonkla interesting, does this happen even when they have good parents too? must be a phenomenon
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I'm in my forties and I've seen women that used to be a catch and that had dozens of men fawn over them end up alone and childless because they've overestimated their market value. Hypergamy is a thing and this is the kicker; It can also be a woman's downfall.
She didn't just shoot herself in the foot, she absolutely obliterated both legs and tries to cry out saying its all his fault that she made her own life a jealousy, spite filled, hateful existence, am glad that guy is with a woman that loves him now and that he even gets to see his first child who clearly likes their dad way more than their mother.
This will sound mean spirited and petty asf from me to her, but welcome to being a man girl. Time to buck up and learn to face the end with nothing but alchoal and a dusty cardboard box of a home.
"I used to have him wrapped around my finger." It's always hilarious and ironic when these kinda people sound more like cartoon villains whenever they try to vent and think they're being sympathetic. And also funny some comments think it's fake, and can't even comprehend someone being that narcissistic can exist. They should see things some rich Hollywood celebrities say.
They believe it's fake because they likely haven't seen women being like this in reality. They always base their "experience in reality" on TV shows and social media. Speaking from my experience As a nurse working in people's residences, narcissistic and pathological liars like these tend to be women. They know what they're doing is wrong and will continue to do it because it's easier and more convenient instead of the alternative
@@zelz3011 Indeed, Slow White says we should love and respect each other, after she tried to dogpile and cancel culture several people... It's no wonder people are protesting that movie. (And it sounds bad too.)
@@beauwalker9820 She literally hates the Movie and is essentially somehow able to abuse her rights to re-write the movie while only being an actor and talks as if her co-star can just get all his scenes cut like it's nothing. She's also not white and this movie also takes jobs from people with dwarfism. I'm most certainly not watching it and hoping for its downfall.
@druidofscosglen2868not to mention seeing random men enter the house and become worryingly physical with your mom knowing you still have a dad who is in a loving household
@luisiana1121 bro, ironic my aunt was already dating a guy when breaking up with my cousin's dad. Also my dad when I was very young when he and my mom broke up would always fool around with other women, my mom saw one chick with him and got upset but at the same time I would understand my dad's pov do to it's free game.
@druidofscosglen2868 unfortunately many kids are stupid, but I really can't blame them because I myself was that stupid kid. My mom hated my dad, constantly berated him, even though he made everything to help me and make me a good man even after separation. I didn't listen to him, didn't want to work on myself as he said me to, and was always irritated when he talked with me about life and gave (as I see now) VERY useful advices. I don't know how my mom achieved that, because it's like some really strong low-level programming that she instilled in my psyche... And I still sometimes struggle to resist that programming and perceive my dad objectively as he is, even though I understood what she done to me long ago and constantly work on my psychology... So guys, be REALLY cautious about woman you choose to have children with, she can not only destroy your life, but she can cripple prospects for your child's future too
This lady is the pinnacle example of modern women. One girl left me because she thought she could move to the big city and get someone better, but she came crawling back begging me to take her back. Situations like this have happened to some friends of mine too. I hear so many of these stories lately.
Yes, many women are like this but the way of how it is written is seems like this one is false. I don't know just my gut feeling. As if it was some sort of story that is really articulated well and doesn't seem as much emotional as it should be.
I agree too. And twitter saying a man wrote this or not, we're unsure if it was fake or not. However, that doesn't mean it doesn't happen in real life. Sometime man leave woman, sometimes woman leave man such as this one did. And we're not sure if a woman or man wrote it. I'm male and couldn't tell if it was written by either gender, just feels like a very well written short story. And besides, some people call my texting feminine so everything is speculation. Even if it's not a real story that happened, it's definitely happened somewhere else to some people, regardless of gender.
@@Tyhond Y'know... that's a good point to watch out for, actually. 🤔 Fake stories. They happen a lot and for many various reasons and if a person is crafty enough, it's too hard to distinguish one from a genuine story. Specially if the author wrote it in a way that triggers our emotions in one way or another, since we think less rationally in that state. _(dammit, it sucks not knowing if this is a real narcissist blowing off or someone just getting a giggle out of our reactions!)_
“She took my husband” “She took my kid” Even now, can’t take accountability from her own actions and blames it on someone completely irrelevant to the divorce
@@wrongthinker843 What an amazing reply. At least now I know you can't be older than 15, so there's still hope you'll learn to actually go outside one day.
Stories like these make me smile, remember guys, men or female, you deserve better, value yourself, love yourself. Even if it's just made-up, I hope the message get across.
@@bobagucci502bro theres 8 billion people in this world theres going to be atleast one who do the same thing that the Storie above did anyting is possibel
But that's exactly what this woman thought... that she's great and always deserves better, and look where it got her. Yes, you need to have some self respect but you also need self awareness, humility, and realistic expectations. Toxic positivity and unearned self esteem destroys people, too.
The new wife didn't TAKE anything -- you THREW IT AWAY. Jesus, I'm so glad her husband and son have their new family. They deserve better, and they got it. And she deserves nothing, and she got that, too. Sounds like everything is as it should be.
"I was a stay at home mom, but I expected him to do more of the housework AND Childcare while he worked FULL TIME" Bruh....This chick is a narcissist. Never once do you think how your actions hurt this man. Never once did you mention how you took his house away from him and he had to start from scratch. You're a horrible woman and you're getting your just desserts. Thank god this guy gets a happy ending.
That’s one of the reasons why I don’t think this story is real. There’s too much self-awareness going on; she would have framed their living situation differently because it introduces sympathy to the husband, not to her. Additionally, she supposedly takes accountability in the first half, and then completely 180s in the second half. This story reads like two completely different people wrote it (or one very angry incel).
@@Shortestcoment I have seen people like this IRL, so there is a chance of it being true. There are some very fucked up people out there that lack enough awareness to realize what they said makes them look bad because "how can people not see that it is me that was truly wronged." Even had a woman tell me, to my face, that it was perfectly acceptable for a woman to manipulate a man to get what she wants while in the same breath saying that the opposite is not acceptable and was "grape" culture. Hell, roughly twenty years ago (I was around 13 to 15 at the time), I had a girl (approx. the same age if not a year or two older) try to cause a scene about me "stealing her money" when I refused to use the money, given to me by my friend's parent to buy lunch while we were at a water park, to buy her stuff. She apparently thought that flashing some cleavage and winking at me was enough to prove that she deserved the money. Narcissistic morons exist and this story could very well be one of them. However, as with all stories like this, take it with a grain of salt. No one here has the ability to say for sure that it is real, just like they can't say it's false.
@@gobalbucs This is one of those 'stranger than fiction' dilemmas. The problem with writing fiction is that it needs to be somewhat believable. Real life insanity has no such constriction. Also, some people can straight up admit to being wrong while still adamantly telling you that you're wrong. That being said, Reddit stories are like Tiktok journalism. One paragraph into someone's life is about as insightful as a 15 second video of a complex social situation... we won't have the full picture no matter what, even if it is real.
She stressed out the one person that cared about her, made threats and actually toyed with them. And now she hates that her ex moved on. I can see this as real from personal experience with friends I had.
I find these kind of stories to be funny. She wanted her ex-husband to be miserable but instead she is the one who is miserable. Poetic Justice at its finest.
The clearest part where she went wrong in her attempt to try to make him miserable is the fact that she focused so hard on getting him to do extra work, as he clearly is a real man, and simply increasing the workload that he was already doing wouldn’t have a significant effect because in his mind he’s already going “well, this is already what I do it’s just a little bit more.“ and considering that he had the strength to despite her woes, trying to still make of the marriage work, it clearly indicated that there was nothing she could throw at him that would actually break him.
The people saying its 100% a true story = cope The people saying its 100% not a true story = cope Reality is that all anonymous stories online are a 50/50 shot on whether they are real and to assume anything else is cope
Even if it's not true, that exact same situation happens all the time, it's very common. So it doesn't really matter whether it's true or not, because it does happen.
The stort may not 100% true but it literally happen to my uncle. His wife wanted more from him so my uncle decided for a divorce. And he got a new wife that treat him better. And his kids love him spending time more with him than spending time with his ex wife.
I'm gonna go with real on this one. The woman writes like a cartoon super villain with no sense of self-awareness... but sadly a lot of women are like that these days.
It just tells you whenever those kind of women are not happy, they also want men to stay sad as them however when men are happy but women aren't? Yet they call us "misogynistic"?
Proudly claims she's an stay at home mom, that she had her working husband wrapped around her finger and that she expected him to do the work she was supposed to do as well. Also she apparently was too beautiful for him, and she totally could do better. Decades ago I could have proudly said that this was fake and people were better than this. Nowadays? nope, totally can believe this is a woman who is genuinely unable to connect her current misfortune with the decisions she took. Feel bad for the kid though. Half of the time she has to deal with a woman who thinks of him as the living reminder of the life that was "stolen" from her.
There are women that genuinely think like that, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's fake. It's reddit after all. Also those redditors sound like the "all women are queens m'lady types." If it is real sounds like he was the catch not her.
So she manipulates her husband, divorces him because she "looks better", took the house in the divorce, but then tries to play the victim when he gets a new house and gets remarried to a woman who i would assume cares for him. Reddit 💀
This very well could be a real post, there are people delusional and narcissistic enough to post something like that and think that there's no way their current situation is their own fault.
Total narcist. ""I use to have him wrapped around my finger and I used that as an advantage to get what I want." who say this crap toward her partner? Use divorce as weapon, and think she can do better, where is your love for him? Totally dodged a bullet. Tower of God, love it in the beginning, so much potential. Last arcs tho, I'm not so sure.
One of my main reasons I think this is real is that I have heard something similar to this during an internship (not online btw). Not to the extreme of this one, but similar enough for me to know it happened. Anyway, she got what she deserved. She made a horrible choice out of pure arrogance and stupudity. It backfired and oblitirated her. None of this is the husbands fault.
Same, If anything Id love more stories like this where a men gets a win rather then a depressive end. Men need to value themselves and love themselves above anything else.
"A man wrote this. Women don't write this way." He's got a point there. The average bitter middle-aged woman wouldn't have written 3 paragraphs on Reddit where she at least in part takes responsibility for her actions of pushing her husband away. She would have written something cryptic and passive-aggressive on her Facebook wall every day for an indefinite amount of time, coupled with passive-aggressive memes featuring Minions pointing at a block of text about how she's the smartest and unique person she knows or whatever.
"Women do not think like this" Bruh. Im a woman i have been in a boarding school. Different hostels for gender, i schooled there for 6 years and have met to many different types of girls a lot had this evil womans mentality. And before you say they are children and teens doing stupid stuff. I also have seen MANY grown women do this sort of stuff, its bit a rare occurrence in where im from (well at least the country i grew up in). That one meme about women (women ☕) i laugh at a lot cuase a lot of them do stupid shit. Guys do too but for some reason they get more blame and attention even though its for the samw thing. Most of my friends are guys and im close enough with them for them to be able to share a few vulnerabilities here and there and the things ive heard omg 😅 Good for him though. I'm glad the witch departed herself. And in the case that this story is not true, just remember it happens A LOT
"He worked full time, I was a housewife that demanded he do my job too so I could sit on my a and do jack all all day" yup, he dodged a bullet, well, partially. He'll still have to deal with the lazy narcissist for the rest of his life because of their kids.
See, after years of being on the internet, I know that many people have zero self-awareness and would share their whole life story (obviously a version in which they are the victims) just to have some attention. I believe this story is 100% real.
Nah, for topics like these, some people are Reddit are missing a brain. There is TikTok video similar to this post where a woman divorces the husband, the husband remarries, and now the ex-wife is crying
Story is probably real. Or, even if it was written by a man, it's probably based on real events. As for the meme at the end, as a training gunsmith, I'll take Samantha, she won't be wary of my work, will consider going to the range as a date, convenient and awesome, and her only requirement is that I prove my manliness in the most manly way possible, or at least give off that vibe. I'll take it.
Not just jealous, but jealous when it's 100% her own doing and is in denial since she was clearly the problem that stopped her ex-husband from being happy.
Big if true, major props to the husband. It may sound fake but there are plenty of cases out there. Also, Ashley, Samantha and Liz you can work things out and achieve a decent relationship. Every other option is a road to stress and misery
@@UCmDBecUtbSafffpMEN3iscAas a nurse taking jobs for hospice and going to family's households or to pt's room in care facilities, I have seen that stories like these are true. They may have the self awareness but still choose to do horrendous things. These people are the narcissistic, smart and pathological lying types. They know what they do is wrong but still choose to do it because it's easier. I notice these types of people tend to be women and the single, divorced or separated ones at that. In all my years of working as a nurse, this is the trend that I observe
Ememine seemd like a pretty good choice too. Wealthy, has a good business (even if barely working it much herself), but doesn’t necessarily state any major personality issues that would make a relationship hell.
Well, being real or not I can see a lesson to be learned, she gave up everything because she was thinking that she could have better, blinded by her pride and too greedy to think on what she had.
Also, real men wouldn't want her even if she was the hottest looking female on the planet. The second they get a real glimpse of that personality of hers, she'd be in trouble. The guy was probably trying to keep things going for the sake of the kids they already had but... that's not helping, it just ties you down more and makes things worse
The story clearly tells how men can easily snap in and out of a funk like that deadweight Ex. Find another woman with better faith in you, or go Sigma, learn those mistakes and use it for the next run.
What is she on about? She divorced him and expected him NOT to find another relationship? How did his wife TAKE it when you literally gave it all up by divorcing him? Either this actually is fake or This lady is really really lost
2:25 You GAVE AWAY your Husband, you GAVE AWAY your kid, YOU GAVE AWAY YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!! And that's why you live in an empty house. Because you choose yourself over the family you had. Selfishness is not kind.
I do not believe this story is real simply because there's no way someone is that snark, narcissitic and uptight but also self-admitting of their wrong doing crazy
I don’t believe that reddit post was real. She takes accountability in the first part of it, and then decides to do a complete 180 and blame the other woman in the second half. 10/10 rage bait given how many people it’s triggered.
I will be frank : I have a feeling it happens a lot more often than we think. People always think others doesn't deserve happiness or they don't care when they build themselves back after a while, but the most desperate people like OP are the one who can't build themselves back and think it's other's fault when it's just the consequences of their own decisions
Real or not real, it's still a story and we can comment on that. We do it all the time for movies and TV shows. Even if it's not real, what's important is that it could be real, and it probably has happened many times
