🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 01:25 🧠 *Dr. Liberman is a leader in human behavior with 9 translated books. * 02:18 💡 *On dates, focus on the other person, not yourself. * 05:20 🔍 *Psychopaths know right/wrong but don't care; they choose evil.* 14:00 🤝 *Dr. Liberman became religious in his late 20s, married at 35. * 27:29 👥 *Ask your date questions about themselves to build connection. * 44:16 📱 *Too much texting hurts relationships. Real connections require depth.* 55:40 😡 *Anger arises from fear. Take it off the table. Empathize with others. * 01:13:36 😇 *Rabbi Twersky's optimism let his wife overlook flaws in their boys.* Made with HARPA AI
Amazing episode with an incredible person. Must be the most productive hour spent online in a while! So much to learn from him, and enjoyable as always with Nachi and Momo!!!
Hahaha I love the way this guy roasts y'all! Got me laughing throughout the episode! Thanks for the great content you always manage to deliver! Shavua tov
Wow! what an incredible episode it was lovely and amazing listening to. Thank you Dr. Lieberman and thank you to the meaningful people program and of course thank you hashem
I loved this episode!! It was very fascinating and I learned a lot from it. The anger part was very interesting I'm still processing this. Thank you meaningful people for another amazing episode!
Wow what an episode! It is always super fascinating getting a little understanding of how our brains work and why we do or feel things! I found this super insightful. thank you for bringing Dr Liberman on!
I also hate phone calls to the point where I might panic when I find out I have to call someone. I finally found a place to get tested and it turns out I have APD (Auditory Processing Disorder). In children this is reversible, however, in adults, well, learn to live with it : (
That's so interesting! I have a suspicion that I might have this disorder for different reasons, I thought my dislike of phone calls were anxiety based. Fascinating that it could be connected. I should probably check it out. Is there anything that can help with it?
I have to be honest when I saw that you had Dr. Lieberman on, I was thinking that this would be an intense and boring episode. But you guys actually did a fantastic job on making this conversation very enjoyable and chilled. I really enjoyed every minute. Thank you. (I also appreciated that he mentioned that his new book has no stories. This way I’ll know in advance not to buy it).
39:33 because it is like a job interview! Why do you want to work here/get married? What are the job/life expectations? And that’s why frum marriages work. As a married non-frum Jew, I wish I went through shidduch. I love my husband, but we dated secularly for years before marriage and we never talked about the important topics like life expectations that all my frum cousins discussed with their husbands within months.
Hi. Great podcast as usual. Nachi, about dress code, I am just wondering. Why didn't you ask your guest, what mad we him come to your interview without wearing a tie??
I also wanted to say that I also don't love talking on the phone its much easier to text but what I will say is that let's say when you have family chats on whatsapp all the sudden your texting your siblings who you used to not be able to talk to so I agree that texting is not a real relationship
the discussion at 38:00 about the dress code highlights a generational divide. I'm a youngish single and agree with Nachy that people should dress nicely but casually for dates. Wearing a suit and a tie for a first date is kind of a yellow flag. That makes you look stuffy, rigid and old fashioned. This is part of the danger in having older people with different cultural norms advise young people on dating.
