SIGNS Of An Abusive Relationship & How To Leave To FIND HAPPINESS | Marisa Peer 

When you fix and heal yourself you'll attract fixed and healed people who respect you. What an important sentence and so true!

Leaving my narcissist toxic relationship was the best decision I ever made in my life. I was trapped with him for 5 years.. alot of emotional and physical abuse. But once you start loving yourself, learning and knowing you worth.., you'll naturally conjure the inner strength to leave toxic people. For good. Once you raise your frequency these people no longer match your vibration.. as you'll no longer have a vibration of low self esteem, etc. 🙏

Have no words to express my kind sincere gratitude to you Marisa!!!!! you saved so many lives and one is myself ❤ since few years ago I am following your word and I am in a much better place in my whole entire life like never before.... May this video go viral is my utmost wish

I have so many problems, i don't know where to start!!! I have depression and i am on meditation. I had cancer and i just finished chemotharapy. And i have a husband with a bad temper... Now he told me he wants a diffetent life! After 20 years of marriege! Anyway, just my story. But thank you for helping me understand ME. 🌺

Don't continue watering a dead plant!

I was seeing a guy and I realized he had emotional ups and downs like my mom. He would say mean things to me. I broke it off with him because of this. His sis had mental disorders and his brother was schizophrenic. It was good I got out of that relationship.

"My husband makes me know I'm the most important thing in his world." Cherished, adored, loved. Someone who loves us would make their fondness towards us obvious.

Iam more than enough even if i dont have a penny in my bank etc..... Know your worth and increase your value !!!

If you know...You go !!

I cried real tears. Thank you for all of your wonderful information. You are so lovely, Marisa!

So needed this thank you living with alcoholic I am trying to make peace to leave 💗🙏

Thank you for reminding me that I am worth love. I will take your advise to heart and say beautiful loving words that I have longed for.

I realize what was wrong with me, your wonderful Marisa Peer, Thank you always

Hi Marisa, I just love you. .🤗This video was the lightbulb moment for me. All the questions I had was answered today. Marisa you are so amazing. Thank you so much for the clearty and making my life a better one. You are simply the BEST. Thanks for all you do. MUCH LOVE..🤗🙏💞

Thank you Marissa for always reminding us with your videos, who we really are. I am worthy of love, fulfilment and peace!

Love comes to us when we are ready to receive it when we believe we deserve to receive it, not in just in our head, but in our heart. Thank you, Marisa to remind us every day we are lovable. I love you ❤️ Your R.T.T program changes me every day to live a life I deserve. Thank you!

What a genuine, sweet, nurturing and inspiring advices. I can hear Merisa all day alone. Thank you for sharing your wisdoms.

Marisa, you're sensational. What an inspiration!

Dear Marisa, Let me thank you from the bottom of my heart for your wonderful work. You helped me a lot. You're a blessing.

The only thing I disagree with is don’t “fake it till you make it” have “FAITH until you make it” ❤️

It's always good to hear Marisa's voice. She is really hypnotic . Thank you

Thank you again Marisa for all your healing insights.

I just started reading a book called "self-compassion - the proven power of being kind to yourself" by Kristin Neff. It is not only informative but also has exercises. Loving it so far and can recommend it!

Something that helps me personally is my Faith. Trusting that even if I don't feel loved by people and I'm struggling to learn self-love, to trust that God loves me unconditionally and wants the best for me. Prayer helps me a lot.

Thank you Marisa, for this beautiful speach. You are such a precious helper in this world. Love and healing vibes to you today. 💐

I cant stop myself crying since I watched your video Marisa. I'm leaving an abusive relationship now and each single word you said made me crying. It sounds I have wanted to hear such things so long ago. I been have trappep with what my husband used to portray of love that was just sort of abuse that he used to control me to make me feel unloveable and wrong.Thank you Marisa

Thank you so much Marisa❣️ You’ve helped me to recognize how powerful our words are, where they come from, & how to find happiness regardless of my circumstances. The world is a more beautiful place with you in it & I am so grateful for your sharing your gift with the world. Love is truly the solution. 🙏✨💖✨

Thank you Marisha!

Marisa, as usually beautiful video, you are amazing. So generous and kind!!! You help with all your heart!!❤️💚🧚🏾‍♀️

That was so wonderful to hear! Thank you so very much! You are so very correct!🥰🙏🏻❤️

I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOU MARISA I LOVE YOU

Thank you sooo much, Marisa!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️

That is NEVER your wold EVER again! Incredible and true. Thank you Marissa Peer!

So true, so true. 😘 Thank you so much. Thanks to you I am getting better and better. 💜

This is so helpful. Thank you so much.

Thanks. We all need encouragement

You are so great Marisa! Thank you so much!

I love your videos! Its like having a precious friend that seems to be available just for me! Thank you, everyday i listen❤

So glad i listened, needed this

I wish I had met you a long time ago Marisa!! I listen & watch your videos everyday, and they certainly do help! 🙏🏼❤️

Sometimes I’m not sure if the problem is mine to heal or the other person’s.

Hi Marisa, just want to say, "THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video.🙏🌟" So wise, such beautiful words. I have hidden them in my heart ♥️, a great treasure. 🙌💯 Bless you. 💋

Marisa you are incredible! Thank you for all your videos ⚘! Keep going ❤💚

Amazing, lifechanging, thank you!

Thank you Marissa

Thank you ❤❤❤

Thank you, so glad I subscribed to your news letter as well. I share and try to help others I love learn to love themselves. You are an inspiration to many. RTT is working for me, love your books too.

Thank you. I so needed to hear this

The 21 day relationship challenge should be added to the description of this video!!! So good!!

Thank you Marisa . I am so grateful to have found you. You are inspirational, inspiring and truthful . Do you have any tips on how to market a new book ? I am slightly lost at the moment.

This was simply BEAUTIFUL and CLEAR!! #ThankYou ❤

Really good advice. Thank you

This is a very comforting video! Thank you.

The perfect message. Thank you so much for your insight and truth!

I am so grateful to you Marissa. I’m so glad you grew past your parent’s estimation of you. Thank you! Going to train in RTT soon

I liked, shared and im a subscriber. I love you. Every time i feel low i watch your videos almost everyday. Your voice calms me. God bless you.

Thank you!!🙏🙏🙏💋💋💋✨✨✨

🙏😇🤍 Thank you so much for this positive, useful inf!

I got out but the damage is done for life! I can’t love again I just can’t and it’s sad!

Love her! ❤️

I cried

Many thanks for the video! Marisa, I would be very grateful if you could please upload about how to be satisfied about certain things - how to make ourselves feel satisfied, why we actually want or long for more expensive, better and better things all the time instead of being satisfied with what we actually have or own. Thank you very much for that in advance.

A thumbs up just for attempting to take on this topic haven’t even watched yet.

Thank you

This message is so lovely, thank you :-*

I like this content. Sometimes i feel like I don’t know if my relationship is a healthy one I would love to talk to you about it.

I have just being ghosted by the man i loved after one year of text messages and at 3 days of the true meeting...i am devastating. ...i don't understand what is happening... it is so difficult. ..so painful...a real choc...i don't cry in front of my children. ..but i am sad. ..and they deserve a super mummy...your videos are such an help for me....thank you so much Marisa. ..i know one day all Will be behind me...because i deserve someone who treats me with respect kindness...someone brave

Everyone deserves happiness! It starts with yourself! AMazing video!

I loved this video! Marisa, you are so helpful and I feel very lucky to be a part of this community. How can we work on a relationship with a father that's psychologically abusive to his wife and kids? I would love to hear your opinion about it on a next video perhaps... Because I think that's where all the problems begin. Just a thought.

I've been in an abusive relationship for 2 years now and I keep thinking it will get better and that he will love me better... I'll keep fighting to let it go

It has taken me 2 years to leave an abusive relationship. I haven’t spoken to my ex in 5 days and I already am experiencing withdrawal symptoms of depression and anxiety. I cry everyday with mental and physical pain. I have broken up with my ex probably 20 times and then because I can’t stand the severe pain I go back to him. He is verbally and physically abusive to me. He has lived with me for about 2 years and paid no household bills except for food. I had to call the police on him several times because he would throw a temper tantrum or anger outbursts that would scare me. But when the police came to my house he would act calm , cool and nice to the police. He is extremely manipulative and gas lights me all the time. I have kicked him out of my house 2 years ago but wasn’t ready to give him up yet. When he moved out I had terrible separation anxiety because when I was 11 years my mother dropped off me and my siblings at my dads doorstep. Both parents were abusive to me so having had a 4 year relationship with my ex was very familiar to me. But now at the age of 56 years old I am learning to love myself for the first time ever. I felt that my ex was a parent figure in my life because growing up with anxiety and depression as a child. I wanted him to love me and take care of me because I was too scared to be alone. But I realize now that he is extremely toxic to me and I am working on myself and to know that I am worthy of real unconditional love. Thank you Marisa for your love and wisdom. Kim

Love you Marisa In my life i kicked out right ppl n tried to change wrong man I was totally failed i could not understand why did I do so... But because of you i can understand me It may be difficult bt i wil change my belief Yes that's the only way Thank you so much

THANK YOU for ALL YOUR VIDEOS🙏🏻 Chére Marisa, everytime I feel super happy, I fear smtg bad is going to happen. It is almost like I start self sabotage because I fear being “happy”. I am conscious of it but I cannot control it somehow 😰😥 Can this be due to a terrible thing happening in my past when I was 21 years old on a super happy day? I am 45 now.

Can you do a self hypnosis on healthy romantic relationships?

Thank you so much Marisa I appreaciate all your efforts in educating us..my question is that if a person is in an emotionally abusive toxic marriage not relationship and there are kids involoved ,what to do,please?

Every time she talks of Love it's sounds more like friendship ..

I'll make it familiar!❤️

I try to but I am always negative self talking and I'm driving myself mad. It's ruining my marriage because I've always been uncomfortable with my body and even though I have a dream husband who always tells me he thinks I'm beautiful but I have some serious problems with myself. I try to talk to myself more positively but I just don't believe it. Don't know if I can ever get to a point where I will like the way I look or my body

😢😢😢 I need this n I need to get help! I need to leave an emotionally abusive relationship

I appreciate all your helpful uploads! Can you pls pls pls create something for anxiety and panic attacks from driving.. I live alone and I am in isolation and I feel so disabled bec of that.💔 i can't breath and I have chest pain when I try to be behind wheels. I am missing good opportunities of work and in life in general bec of this and I fall into deep anxiety and depression as an effect. I am so sick and tired of being confined but I tried driving school for 5x, hypnosis once and still nothing. Marisa I hope you read my message and get a positive response from my request. You are beautiful inside out! I look forward for your next upload. ❤

I'm not sure..if ever it is a little bit toxic..how can u help? Any expert advise?

Marrissa 🥰

Thank you, Marisa. Much respect and appreciation for what you do. You are changing the world for the better. Sending much love. 💓🌍✨

I’m feeling cynical today so I’m just going to say that I don’t think it’s possible to feel happy again after an abusive relationship. Two years after leaving, I exercise, journal, go to therapy, eat right.. and I still feel like somethings not right. It requires tremendous effort to do all of these things. I’m also enrolled in school. I feel like I’m just trying to be someone I’m not. I still miss my ex. I’m petrified to get close to anyone else because I don’t want to get hurt in the same way. I’m just stuck.

Hi Marisa, i couldn’t find a link to submit a love question. I am in an abusive relationship and I have been advised by my therapist to leave, my question is how do i believe a man can love me after narcissistic abuse? I believe I am a good enough person, but being with a narc it’s like it doesn’t matter how much you love yourself or if you are good enough a narc will still not truely love you and so it’s not so much a self esteem/lovability thing for me but just believe that a man is capable of loving me if that makes sense? So I believe men can love me even though I feel lovable and believe a good relationship will happen for me. I will try the advice in this video. Thanks.

Good morning Marisa! I'm going to buy RTT, just wandering how therapy will work if english is your not native language. I understand English ;) just curious how brain will consume that ;). greatings from Poland ❤️

Hi marisa Leaving a toxic relationship not sure its so confusing he's good to me on one hand and the other he puts me down not badly but little name calling the new thing i have noticed is he will make me feel intimidated worry about the relationship the time their's no physical abuse sometimes i feel it's me because I didn't have very good up bringing and seam to always frustrate him he says on other hand he's good to me not sure what to call this any advice would be appreciated thank you

I have a very angry, depressed son with bad anxiety. He is just so angry. He is homeless and currently staying with me but its miserable! He is in such pain emotionally but he also is very entitled and he thinks the entire world owes him and he shows no appreciation for any help we give him. It is very frustrating and I am feeling so stressed and feel no relief in sight. I've been calling mental health near me and I'm getting nowhere. I live in a very small town in Kansas and have very little resources near me. I watch your videos and I watch a lot of Law of Attraction videos everyday for years! I believe in it! I just dont know where to turn to get him the help he needs. He shuts me down or screams at me everytime I talk to him about changing his life. I cant get through to him. Any advice or tips would be appreciated! He has no money, no car, no home and no insurance. I'm at a loss...

Ho do you have any advice on winter blues?

Hi Marisa, I need help. How do I get a coaching session with you?

As I'm in my late 40s I find it difficult to date as men are usually looking for a much younger woman. I tend to attract the lame ducks. They generally don't have their shit together as a person and I usually can see why they are still single. Do you think it is something I'm doing to attract these kind of people rather than the emotionally stable person? Am I too sympathetic and therefore become a crutch for them, rather than helping them get themselves together? I have been married and had kids before and I tend to think I have a balanced life. Is it something I'm doing/not doing?

Marrisa is your 30 day challenge in oct in the uk? No one from your team calls me back

I like what is being said but not entirely . Basing ones judgements on how someone makes us feel is not entirely effective or the best way to know if someone is right for us , in other words it is a yes and no scenario. Meaning there are plenty of people who are prone to assuming and have very poor discernment and judgement some them have super low self esteem already and some have super sensitive nature like pathological narcissists who get offended and misinterpret other people’s behaviour all the time . Furthermore many people have many masks and layers to them which means that most people will need to know someone longer sometimes even over a period of two years to see and know an individual much better , for example : covert pathological avoidant attached cerebral narcissists are experts at hiding their true nature until you are well into about two years or more with them so the idea of changing the beginning is correct and incorrect as well because it requires a lot of discernment to rule out certain toxic behaviours . So yes obviously I believe everyone wants to choose an ideal partner wether it be based on not having the sort of relationship they desire or purely over fantasized traits of someone else based on unrealalistic and unreal expectations conditioned by the media , movies , romance novels etc . This is very dangerous as well in my opinion as too many people do not recognize the blueprint they are programmed with both form their families and their surroundings which in many cases also tends to oppose each other . As you say people tend to choose what is familiar even if it is toxic because it feels normal , safe or is being associated with love or family , but people also choose based on the external influences from the above mentioned mind conditioning sources like movies and romance novels that is why men are more likely to choose a woman who looks like porn star and their own mother , aunt, grandmother or even their father as gender does not seem to matter in whom people copy in their blueprint of familiarity . And we all know that is very misguiding it is almost as if we have to take the blueprint of influence form our family and exterior and really really seriously reassess it and realize what we absolutely must not allow ourselves to accept however this is easier said than done because in many cases people have to actually go out there and meet other people make mistakes , get hurt and burnt potentially which can trigger old wounds and pains and further deepen the person issues /beliefs one has with relationships , opposite gender etc .

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Is it possible ,that u would talk about Gays relationships ?

what she say is great, but the musik is too loud, I can not concentrate on the content ;-((

I know a kid thats toxic.

we need translation to Arabic .

Hi Marissa, I have been listening to your audios for over a year, everyday a new video of yours pops up and you deliver exactly the right word I need to hear. I learned to love myself and just as you promised my change was drastic and super quick. I wanted to know if you can recommend something or someone who suffers from chronic pain due to nerve damage. Thank you for sharing your gift! 🫶🏻