I call the level of focus he is describing as hyper focus. Nothing gets in its way. It is wonderfully terrifying in how productive in the moment you can be.
Tô Solto eu tô solta porque eu tenho as provas e tô falando a verdade eu tenho meus direitos como cidadão se eu tô com as provas estão com a verdade não tem macho nenhum que me prenda não tem nenhum do que me prendeu com a minha verdade com as provas as provas e a verdade porque que ela vai me prender que lei é essa reage Pelo certo ou pelas mentiras agora eu queria entender porque que eu estou solto que ele não tem as provas e tô mentindo e tu me condenando se eles tem o direito de mentir me condenar e tão solto da mesma forma eu tenho medo
Tudo isso aí é no rabo da p****** da v**** que eu vou botar toda essa sujeira aí tá tudo dentro do rabo daquela vasilha aqueles cura todas as conversas furadas aí que eles inventaram a minha vida projetario é tudo no rabo da p*** das mulher dele todas as palavras que você falou aí que não tem nada a ver comigo é tudo socado dentro das p******* da mulher dele por isso que eu sou direto no assunto solto eu sou grosso mesmo porque que eu sou grosso que eu vou direto no assunto eu não fico p*** era babá Não quando eu quero ficar com p*** eu vou para a zona eu vou direto no assunto
Desenganado comigo esses que me atacam coitado deles se eles acham que eu tô apavorado com eles se eles acham que eu tô preocupado com eles pelo contrário eu tenho todas as armas contra ele por isso que eu tô tranquilo na paz não tem dia nem hora não tenho pressa
This really hit me. I went through some horrific stuff, ran away, and was pursued by a group of men who had participated in my trafficking experience. That constant vigilance and survival wrecked me from feeling like every day would be my last. But it doesn't matter. Anymore. The abuse doesn't matter anymore. The trafficking doesn't matter anymore. Running away from everything (including trying to run away from myself) doesn't matter anymore. I feel truly relaxed for one of the first times in 18 years.
Hyper- Focus Flow State Extreme Mindfulness All tactics to silence distraction and achieve your goals. Go for the one that works best for you; and get after it!!
I really appreciate and respect how humble these brave men are. I get to listen to so many great role models and learn from them. This is my favorite podcast on the internet. Hands down #1!
16:10 Absolute fire. This ties in to what Andrew Huberman says about tying the short term actions to the long term goal. There is no goal without the steps to get there. Tell yourself it matters because without it, you won't get to the goal.
Long ago I had a TBI (traumatic brain injury), and I lost the ability to "push out" unwanted information. They call it damage to the "executive function." A lot of mental stretching helps. Find the things that make you clam up, the things you do are scared of (not intellectually, but the things that make your heart beat fast in a bad way)... LIVE THERE. Breathe slowly. Work. Allow yourself more time. Talk to people who may be out of your group: kitchen workers, construction workers... I'm just saying. This fragmentation is part of the loss of executive function. Jocko hasn't faced it. It's not voluntary. It's Whim Hoff level. Stick with it, brother.
Had the same but Mild version. Had trouble filling out forms and paperwork post deployment. Never heard of term damage to the "executive function". Took two plus years for the brain fog to lift. This is excellent advice from Jocko.
I appreciate how Jody is keeping it honest with his personal struggles. I can relate a lot. Sometimes Willpower just ain't enough...let's get real about that. If that was the case then there would be NO problem with Follow Through.
That has to to with them being successful guys as opposed to tough. It's because successful guys aren't as insecure and the other thing is they're often times consciously aware of what their weaknesses actually are. A lot of people aren't really aware of what their weaknesses are and that alone could be the reason they aren't successful.
he is just in constant cycle of self pity and avoiding responsibility, blaming everything on his bs diagnosis, drug use, talking about how his brain this and that, oxycoton replaced with social media, this idiot is probably daily binging on social media and all he can come up with is complaining how he cant focus and how it bugs him, he is barely listening to jocko as he is too bussy thinking about ways how he could make himself seem like a victim, its just pathetic
Mike Earls its also a really important part of Extreme Ownership. You need to know your own brain if you want to have a strong foundation of self-leadership to be able to lead others.
He says "ADD" as a bit of a throwaway in the beginning, but... does anyone know if he got himself a really solid course of treatment? ADD is *not* attention deficit. No. It is attention *Dichotomy* disorder. They got the name wrong trying to get kids to focus. But as an ADDer myself, I can focus *really* damn well. It is called Hyperfocus. So in the highly structured environment where priorities were made *really* clear, you might perform to a Michael Phelps level. Sniper sounds like the *best* job. A spotter communicates directions and a squad takes care of any possible other priorities. The ADDer gets to do breath meditation and *literally* hyperfocus down the scope of a rifle. Sounds like Heaven. But in normal life, you can't do that. In normal life you have to actually flexibly manage "How much attention should I give this thing?". ADD makes it harder to manage that *dichotomy* of *self*-leadership. Good ideas if you have ADD: - Take ownership: Learn how your brain works. Look up who invented the electric vacuum cleaner and why. - Hit the gym and work out *intensely*. Every push-up is giving your dopamine-starved brain some love. - Build habits to turn clutter into order. You might find that normal todo systems don't work well enough and you want some help from someone who can systematize things to an extreme degree. An autistic friend can perform really well in collaboration here. - When you have a task, give yourself a crystal-clear idea of what a successful minute looks like. (Hint: a minute spent on a "failure" where you learned how to do it correctly is a successful minute.) - Find a job where you get Commander's Intent: clear priorities and why. - Get a prescription for properly-dosed (probably stimulant) medication. Bad ideas if you have ADD: - Do a randomly-dosed amount of cocaine just because it hits the brain kinda like Ritalin[1]. - Becoming a politician and letting a whole town try to demand your attention in 1,000 different directions. That sounds like hell. [1] www.mdedge.com/psychiatry/article/88937/addiction-medicine/your-patient-using-cocaine-self-medicate-undiagnosed
@ I only got medication last year. I could hyperfocus plenty of times beforehand. Your experience is yours and I hope even over the internet that you can feel my sympathy for the suck. My philosophy: You should get medicated only if you take ownership of your health and body. Kids often live under the roof of the "micro-managing commander" who doesn't trust "subordinates" enough to let them take ownership of *anything*. ADHD kids? Even less trust. So without ownership, these kids don't get a voice in titrating their own medication. So kids get stuck on meds with side-effects where an adult would report and switch.
Jocko brings a great perspective to things. Mainly in the sense of holding yourself accountable the getting over an ex video really gave me some perspective. Much appreciated man.
Thanks for sharing your deep personal feelings and setbacks your going to through. Hope things got better since and you followed through. We all have our battles and they are all very similar.
balderrising1 Tyler Laurie get evaluated for ADHD. Really. Take ownership of your brain and get the tools you need. Everything Jocko says about discipline and leadership is a great foundation for high performance. But a strong foundation will crack if the soil hasn’t been prepared. So know thyself and learn how ADHD works and if you have one of the 3 subtypes. Get the tools and build the systems and disciplines to manage it. Your future self will thank you.
this is exactly what i needed to hear right now. ive been completely addicted to training for boxing all day and completely neglecting all my school work. its caused tension between me and my family. ive been so focused on "discipline" that i was blinded to the fact that i could achieve more success and exercise real discipline at the same time by just doing the work i need to do
I walk 2-3 miles at a time while reading a book... I’m a head case... former panic attacks, former psoriasis, former depression, classic ADHD... walking and reading is a drug. A sensory reset. I’m back to reading a book a month. Thanks for sharing this story
This guy is literally me. I go from subject to subject until I'm satisfied and then move on. It's a struggle because I don't finish anything - except my degree in Engineering. Even at work I'll follow a project for a few weeks and then I'm bored to tears and I move on.
Tyler Laurie get evaluated for ADHD. Really. Take ownership of your brain and get the tools you need. Everything Jocko says about discipline and leadership is a great foundation for high performance. But a strong foundation will crack if the soil hasn’t been prepared. So know thyself and learn how ADHD works and if you have one of the 3 subtypes. Get the tools and build the systems and disciplines to manage it. Your future self will thank you.
There is a rush with starting something new that is different than the satisfaction of seeing something all the way through. There is definitely some documentation out about it. Google it, read and about it and understanding that fact can help a lot.
I’m like this too. I struggle because I highly value my health and I meditate and exercise but I feel like I have to take add meds during the week to keep my life from slowly i threading into chaos.
Good job Echo for pulling this gem back from three years ago. I keep hearing Jody's voice now, "Done! Gone!" with that Canadian accent. Good excerpt. My latest trick is thinking of Susie Green from "Curb Your Enthusiasm." She banned Larry from her house and at one point he is begging to use her bathroom. She tells him "No, you're banned. What, does my word mean nothing? A ban is a ban." That actually helped. Funny show.
I wish I could say something to Jody here, but the best thing for me was to try doing 100% discipline as a "test" for a week to see how it effected me. I would not break promises to myself because I was just doing it for the week and was tired of being in my limbo state. Doing it under the premise of being a test was crucial for my mindset. I also realized subconsciously that I felt like I "deserved" happiness for doing some task I needed to. Sometimes that comes, sometimes it doesn't, and I realized how much thinking that way messed with my mindset, and how entitled it was. I was subconsciously looking for a method to enjoy mundane tasks... Which I should never expect to! Merely sitting down and asking yourself what would be that much better than what you are currently doing is great too. For example, I could do my homework, or hang out with friends. This made me sad originally, since I was missing out on hanging out with my friends. But I then realized how forgetable hanging out with friends was on a daily schedule. You don't remember those things, you remember hanging out with friends on the weekend for a long time because you got your work done earlier in the week instead of goofing off! I am by no means disciplined, but I am definitely getting better!
Something I am havjng trouble with was the critique of self. I.e, I would NEVER feel like I worked out enough, or studied enough. Admittedly trying to work on that now, but that's another detrimental thought process to look out for.
Mr Mitic, Sir, I appreciate your dilemma. If what you want is to get the book done in a night, like Jocko says get it in your head that this is the mission. Visualize and actialize. However I am often not like Jocko, but I still admire his Jockoisms. What I do at 33 with a similar issue to yours. Is to read 10 books over ten weeks and give myself options. Keep those books on hand and choose the one you are ready to read, take the time to contemplate the others as far as youve read them and each time you finish a book add one more to your, immediate library. Some books I read over a year or two, but I contemplate them in the mean time and as I continue to grow, my new experiences and understandings grow with every page of each book I read. Find your style. Keep growing. Stay focused brother. The bottom line is discipline, the means is maliable. Experiment and get out of your comfort zones.
For Jocko consistency is key. For guys with the minds of artists the stages we go through in life throw us curveballs. Respond with a change up, be flexible, dont force change, shake up your routine and dont wait for windows of opportunity to come, work harder to find those windows for change. Think differently than you did yesterday. For guys like us, if you agree, are not a consistent continuation but an anthology of opportunities.
Thanks, these guys inspire me everyday to "stay on the path" determination in life is key. Never give up. Accepting failure as who you are is much worse than death. Get some!
After watching again. Jocko really nailed it. Know where your responsibilities lie. Life changes and we have to keep up to keep growing through every life stage as it comes. Dont compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
Same music so helps me at gym..,nice to hear how it also works for jody....plus leave i gym so happy...after good fitness and good music,,,nice to hear its other people's //go to........ thing too..yea music and also these podcast really help with all my issues going on //// with just life in general.. And the issues that many of us struggle with ..that others just don't understand,,,I find this platform that Jocko does really helps me and bet it really helps others to ....to just understand ...each other..,and shout out to echo...looking jacked as always...,,,,,,#8
Made me think about my current situation - i think i need to set the end goal on any task before i can actually focus on it. Once i can quantify the end, i can reach the end.
I have problems focusing on the things I need to do, like studying or doing work and my mind always drifts off into another place that is more "more fun" to me. I don't know how to fix it and I want to become better, but I am stuck at this mental block. It may even be my discipline that I have issues with to as well, I do something but I always try to find a way to get out of it and not to finish it. Like Jody Mitic, I used to be very determined on the things I was doing, going 100% on the things I want/needed to do like studying, but I just have seem to lost it and I want it back. I am trying to fix it now and hopefully get a my future straight because I have big dreams that I want to conquer, I just need to fix this block. If anyone has any tips that would be helpful, hopefully Jocko or Jody would see this comment and could add some input as well!
I Love what Jody Mitic says he is not there right now vs ten years ago. For me up to my early 30s I was a risk taker. I would make decisions on a whim, I ran every night when I got home for 30 mins. Now I am the total opposite of that, wallowing in procrastination, sigh! but I am still hopeful.
Viv Aquariius Everything Jody said sounded like my ADHD. I’m much better at life since getting treatment. Really. Take ownership of your brain and get the tools you need. Everything Jocko says about discipline and leadership is a great foundation for high performance. But a strong foundation will crack if the soil hasn’t been prepared. So know thyself and learn how ADHD works and if you have one of the 3 subtypes. Get the tools and build the systems and disciplines to manage it. Your future self will thank you.
Perfect timing.. I’ve got a major biochemistry exam this week to study for.... I need to recognize which distractions are important (getting the kids to and from school) and which are not (social media). Actually, I’ve had friends message me to make sure I’m still alive!!
You rock! Hope to see you arround. I would like to interview live with you guys on the topics of extreem ownership and addiction. Maybe we could frame Mcconville as a modle for a topic an talk about addiction and empowerment of women.
I think this is a good comparison into how an add/adhd person handles tasks vs normal people. Discipline & will power are a part but mental disorders are a real thing, peoples minds will work different (like a bi polar person as another example) so it is can be more difficult for certain tasks but more beneficial in others like physical activity
I'm an overweight slob that lives in a pig sty, but since the other day I started listening, I now use an ash tray instead of ashing on the floor and putting my butts out on the wall, baby steps👍
question for Jocko. said he has trouble sleeping in other videos. for the days you are trying to sleep at whatever expected time.. and your mind or body disagrees and end up being awake till 3 am.. how do you combat that, do you just say if icant sleep at this time , screw it i wake up anyway? goal would be sleeping by midnight give or take and up by 7 or 8, and some days here and there be im staring at the cieling till 3 or 4 am..
Thank you SO MUCH for this video, guys... __/|\__ I REALLY needed to hear this right now! It's very appreciated!(...) And I just wanted to let Mr Mitic know that the 'rants' wasn't bad and it even has been very helpful... at least to me!.. By the way, at around @12:xx Mr. Willink & Mr. Echo was talking about what Jokco had 'become'... I think it may have something to do with IDENTITY which I've heard psychologists online (although I can't remember who specifically) talk a lot about the importance of!.. (it could also very well have been one of the MANY TEDx Talks I've seen!!?) Keep doing what you do, you're truly helping people! Best of luck with everything! //Brian.
“Line these up as an exercise in discipline” But to do this, you need to know the discipline you’re trying to build. For me, the discipline is to keep connecting with the “Why?” that I’m going for.
Never met this AD+ Champion. But I know that is a basic fact. Champion. Someday... Oh baby. That jargon is warming my caucles lol. Love you Jody. Yeah-yeah you too Jocko. Lol. Hopeful doesn't even scratch the definitional surface. Thank you. Trauner too. Personal Heroes+. Over,
I find it beneficial to break down a large task into smaller daily tasks. For example, when I translate a book, I assess how difficult it is and from there how many words I can do per day, could be anywhere between 1000 and 4000 words. Then I #getafterit. I know what my daily quota is and it's manageable. Watching the word count meter going up as I type is also motivational in its own weird way. I think, "Great! Only 400 words to go", and so on.
