@Jay O. you don’t know women. Yes, she’s fed up but it doesn’t mean she was already seeing someone else. It means she’s just realizing this doofus doesn’t really even care about her. She was waiting for and expecting a grand gesture and he proposed in the car. No emotion, no fanfare. She probably had doubts about his true feeling for her, but this solidified it and made it real.
Bro seems like he got tired of living the player life and now wants to propose and settle down. This relationship screams done and the breakup long overdue.
Yea....she been moved on. She was just planning her exit. Women know 6 months to a year that they are leaving. They just start stacking their dollars while smiling in a man's face.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you people are so lame. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 me and my girl been together over 9 years (longer than anyone we know personally) we cannot for the life of us figure out why people don’t mind their own business. Trying to Shame people who won’t do what y’all want them to. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@rm5282 exactly, it makes her look crazy to complain as opposed of being grateful considering the amount of Black Jezebels out here that haven't and will never be proposed to....She KNEW what type of fella she had within those 10 yrs...THIS is a 2 sided dusty, senseless look for BOTH parties.
Bro could’ve done a little better than that😂. He could’ve at least setup a romantic dinner and told the staff that he’s planning to propose. It’s not that hard.
10 years while you're in you're 30s and 40s is way too long for a man to figure out if a woman is for him or not. By then we should at least know our purpose
True but why be with him that long? She was already with im 10 years with no proposal and it was alright, now it's a problem and she wants out cause he finally proposed? Seems like if he never proposed they'll be alright and their relationship would've went on for 11,12,13 years etc lol🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
@@jaamal6369 I think if he put in effort at the proposal, she would have most likely said yes or gave it more thought. That half assed proposal on top of the wait time is what did it. And I don't blame her.
@@jaamal6369 who knows? maybe the only reason he proposed is because he sensed she was getting ready to end the relationship, and it was his attempt to get her to stay.
He sounds like a narcissist. Even when he's proposing, it's all about himself, his feelings, his needs, his wants (this ''I'm proposing to my girl, how ungrateful she is, it takes 10 years to know someone's true color and more me, me, me into it) and zero consideration for how she felt about him, the proposal and the overall relationship.
I kinda feel her on this one. I was 19, young and dumb in a relationship for 8 years, lived together. No ring and at the end, I was emotionally checking out. I became aware of the conversations and attempts to keep me in the relationship once I finally worked up the courage to physically distance myself. For her, This could’ve been the straw that broke the camel’s back.
They deserve each other. He's stupid for putting no thought behind it AND waiting that long and she's stupid for being with him for 10 years when he didn't do it in year 5 😂.
I'm 38, and I must say I've had a many girlfriend that has fell into the "waiting game"... the dude just be keeping the good girl on ice until he finished playing around, then when he gets old and tired of the streets he'll double back and come inside (with the broke down d lol) waiting for the good girl to take care of him. Young ladies, plz don't fall for it. Love isn't always kind and sometimes you just have to know when to walk away... don't sacrifice all your young years being an option, you deserve to be the prize.
Agreed up until the last sentence. I don’t think you people realize that when you say one person/gender is the prize, you’re also saying the other isn’t. Thinking like that is the type of thoughts that lead to being alone forever bc you think you’re better than any and everybody
@@TheJJMonsta I don't see where they get that they're the prize, because last time I checked, a prize comes with things in them. Us men are the ones always having to show what we got worthy to make them feel like they got something. We're the prize. They just lay down comfortable with the man that will make her life easier in exchange for some cooch every so often and maybe a cooked meal
I got a feeling that they both have been with other people throughout this 10 year span and the actual relationship has been over for a long time. Her energy says she definitely has another man💯.
If your upset about the time it took for him to propose, she should have been left. Why stick around for 10 years if it was an issue. They both need a time out.
Of course. Sisters won't be in a long term boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship unless they are living out their 304 life. They hang on to that man to make it appear as if they aren't 304s.
And he's one of them ''don't wanna be a player no more'' dudes. A manipulator to the bone...did all the foolin' around & now you wanna settle down''? GTFOOH
@@listentoauntrobin9617 I don’t think it’s the fact she didn’t want him. It’s the fact that he waited so long and proposed in the most non romantical way.
She had 10 years worth of patience and at what was supposed to be his best moment he still gave her no respect I get it. Now after seeing that she knows for sure he will get no better. Also I'm probably sure they both been messing around and she probably got something else going and he noticed and tried to lock her down. I get it.
As a guy I feel sorry for this woman. He obviously doesn't respect her enough. If a man loves a woman the very least he would do is make an effort so the proposal is a memorable moment, but the harsh reality is he didn't. The disrespectful tone he has with her afterwards doesn't do him any favors as well.
@@evaphillips2102 And she'll be mad when someone else accepts that ring soon especially of things don't work with this other guy she probably messin with
@@jedi1sgl .....no no no stop deflecting I'm black&I'm sure he black I HAVE NO WHITE FRIENDS (no offense) therefore we not qualified to speak on other communities WE CAN ONLY SPEAK ON BLACK PEOPLE&IT DOES HAPPEN FAR TO OFTEN
@@jedi1sgl yeah idk where he gets his info. I’ve dated this girl for two years and proposed to her this January (3rd year). I see most black men propose after high school or college.
Why would it take you ten years to figure out if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone?! That means you don't love them and you're not willing to put in the effort for them! Sorry excuse of a man.
@@mateaukalua4426 But he still had a roof to live under. If he really loved her, he would declare her a part of his soul and not just some girlfriend. He could’ve just been staying for 10 years because he felt obligated to and it was a soul tie so if he left, his girlfriend would be sad.
They both need to just move on.......away from each other. It happens sometimes when you want something and the other person doesn't want what you want when you want it. You then change your mind and change your feelings about that person. In short, they have to go out of your life.
Because he's so ungrateful he can't even be romantic with his proposal and that just confirms her fears, that he's never going to put much effort into making these moments between them special and memorable because he just doesn't love her enough to do that much for her and expects her to just settle and be "grateful" for whatever mediocre half assed gesture he does.... For the rest of her entire life! And she just realized that's not the life that'll fill her cup, give her meaning and fulfilment and feel truly loved!
I mean he did propose while they was "still ina relationship" n she stuck around that long so that let him thinking "5more yrs" that her fault n his for continuing foolishness
I doubt he has any assets to risk losing judging by that pawn shop ring and low budget proposal after 10 years. My man would NEVER. She probably realized he's *only* doing it to stop her from leaving now that it has been 10 years of no real commitment.
This is sooo embarrassing smh 🤦🏾! Not only did you wait 10yrs but got broken up with after the sloppy presentation & proposal of a decent ring 🤦🏾. The fact that she rejected this so fast leads me to believe that she was just looking for the right person to leave you for, for the last 5yrs Lbvs 🤣! Shits sad B 🤦🏾.
I understand but if he hadn’t proposed would she had stayed? 🤔🤔 I don’t understand. I also don’t understand what’s so different about him to where it took 10yrs. I’m sure he did more for his homies in 2yrs or less. I honestly think they both are tripping.
Phil, this isnt 1980 sir. These modern day women are out here running way more game than the men nowadays. This woman doesnt want commitment because she's highly likey seeing other men. She's actually doing this dude a favor by not marrying him. This is not wifey material.
The brother probably saw videos of guys being rejected in public when proposing.he probably felt insecure that’s why he do it in the car I can’t blame him 😂😂
Uncle….Season change…. You can live with them (shackin)or not….Propose to them in a fancy restaurant, house,park,helicopter,car…etc….It doesn’t matter….I’ve learned if she’s not feeling it…..She knows what too do….. Kick Rocks!!!! To her defense(video) 10yrs is a mighty long time….I’m baffled
In a car, after 10 years, with a pawn shop ring?!? He simply proposed to stop her from leaving the relationship. He didn't want to be a husband to that woman or it wouldn't have taken 10 years to do so.
@@emptynester547 No it's not. The chick in the vid was right. Could have took her to a nice elegant restaurant & surprise her, with some roses.. the whole 9.
@@titanlegend619Thousands of proposals around the world happened this way within 3 years of courting while not living together. It is 9000 times more romantic than what that guy did in a car after 10 years because his player days ended.
Dude are you serious?!!! 10 years?!!! If I was that woman. I would have left you a longtime ago. Then the way you purpose!!! Wow!!! Then you wonder why she is acting that way towards you?!!! But you know what? She was stupid enough to put up with that junk!!!
I’m lost at the complaint about where he gives her the ring. Accept the ring and shut up about all that romantic nonsense, you already had a decade to do all of that.
