And then the stick from the backyard just finished me😂 I was laughing but at the same time it hit a little bit too close to home for a flat girl like me.
As someone who used to get skinny shamed all the time, the minute I am no longer underweight they start saying I should stop or I'll be fat. People never shut up no matter what you are
Thats what happened to me. I used to be very skinny and people always told me to eat more. And I was!! But then I started eating bad things like oily food and sweets to gain weight. I slowly addicted to them plus having depression added fuel to the fire and now I am obese. I feel like there is no turning back and more depressed! Hate my life. Iearned not to listen to what others say but it is too late for me. So save yourselves.
@@shmwmlam3953 no it's not late for you You can still get in shape if you do simple Exercises everyday and replace the fast oil food for healthy froutey food that you would love ... drink more water believe me it's not impossible ... It's require some patient and loving your body ... 💙
@@DIAMOND-77 Thank you for your kind words! ❤ I know I should start love my self but it is very hard when you are drowning in depression. I have few good days and when things start to get better something happens and my depression come back.
@@Wenixi people make fun of those type of women by grouping them as “sassy/quirky” so they’ll stop calling themselves that. That’s how bullying works lol
Everyone wants to be enormous in America, and everybody wants to be skinny in Korea. Two Polar Opposites instead of everybody just wanting to be healthy and in the middle, average.
@@amber619pop I don’t think anyone wants to be enormous and skinny is becoming trendy now again too so I don’t think that’s accurate, or at least not in America.
@@yesplatinum7956 they do though. They want to achieve that "thicc" look as they call it, or to have big butts specifically. But then when they do they don't know how to stop or go back when they realize you can't just gain weight in one part of your body without gaining weight all over.
Funny thing about America is that if a person on the receiving end of all that skinny shaming throws back a fat joke it’s suddenly completely unacceptable.
It's like that in the UK too. Double standards are so dumb. Like, if people can't handle having things thrown back at them, they shouldn't talk crap in the first place. lol
I couldn't even laugh, though I can tell it is probably funny. It's terrible to be bullied and then live in a society that gaslights you that you aren't really being bullied because your body type is on all the models and most famous people.
@@consciouscrypto3090 yes it really is. I'm always so hesitant to talk bad about my body type now because it's the "ideal". But I hated being skinny and was told all of the things and worse growing up. Now that I've gained weight, if I say I want to tone up, I'm being "fat phobic" 😐 you can't win tbh
@@prettyprincesslexi that's why, fuck 'em 🤷 I now give people the evil eye if they say something skinny shaming to me. I just glare at them silently until they stumble to say something or leave.
As a child I was always skinny shamed, my bullies called me a "stick with no friends." I don't think they have any idea how much their words haunted and taunted me, and honestly neither did I until we were having a discussion in Spanish class about the topic. I decided to just share my story, because I had heard other people say they were bullied before, and I had respect for them for overcoming such adversity. It felt good to get off my chest. We all have different body types, and we're all amazing just the way we are.
I am so sorry this happened to you ;((all of my life I have been fat shamed. I weight 52 kgs and my height is around 5 foot 3 inches but as people in my class are so obsessed with being skinny or being on diet they always troubles me for being healthy
@@Amreen__ actually I am chubby. Whenever I gain weight, my cheeks gets chubby. So it shows idk. They just look at me and tell me to loose weight its so annoying
"People who do heroin have very pretty body!!" 🤣🤣🤣 As a former heroin addict (edit: who is also Korean), this still made me crack up!! Literally, before my mom realized I'd become a total junkie, she'd compliment me on how good I looked. Of course I was always on the chubbier side (straight up obese before puberty 😬), but ain't no way in hell I looked good or healthy!
As a woman I knew of course that men also go through some shaming here and there but when I heard the “are you even a man” and “if you are a real man” it got me real hard , men really do go through toxic judgment but they have less room to express themselves, I am glad that this guy does it, it’s very important
I think the worst part is people thinking we are healthy Just because we are slim 👀 meanwhile I may be sitting all day, not eating healthy food and not exercising. If at least we started to gain fat with a non healthy lifestyle, it would be a visual cue to make a change
@@amber619pop it's not that. Not everyone gets bullied. It's not about the average weight ones. If you are on the scale of being naturally little underweight or just about underweight, then you start to hear comments.
@I am Fighterman I know for reals but then I have to remind myself like in the video I was born like this and everyone is different and thats ok cause it be boring if we all look the same. I think everyone is nice looking no matter what size.
Same when I was younger I thought being called weak, bony, and a cloth hanger were praises. But idc now cuz I love the way I look, I can't help it I have been like this fir my whole life so they can go eat nuts. Who cares.
@I am Fighterman literally my sister is on heavier side and I'm skinny and literally 2 months ago when my cxn sister was getting married everyone one told her to eat less cuz she looks fat and told me to eat cuz I look to skinny and bony. Like wow.
Especially in America, skinny shaming is more common than fat shaming now. People are always rude to me just because of the weight that I am regardless of anything else, when they are bigger than me 🤷♀️ They feel like skinny people insult them just by existing..
@@amber619pop people get confused with slim and weak, they think we don't eat enough and are very weak. while for some that is just not the case, I've forced feed myself so many times so I'd just look normal.
@@ayeshaali8105 i lack of appetite. I often don't feel hungry, Just nauseous or pain. Most of the time I have to force myself to eat. I've managed to keep stable but I'm terrified of becoming a skeleton. I enjoy food and I like eating. So many people take For granted an appetite. It is so easy to forget to eat when you don't feel hungry. Baker pizza are like you're so lucky I wish I had that problem. No no you don't. Or just go eat a hamburger. Giving birth and breastfeeding was awesome. I became so hungry I loved it. I wanted to eat so much and I got to enjoy it, And I didn't have to force myself it was great. But after that kids were done breastfeeding one of my hormones change or something but I start losing my appetite again. Except for when I was pregnant I've always been slender and athletic. I used to think it was pretty cool. As a kid I used to be able to fit through tight areas anywhere I could fit my head in. I used to fit between bars and fences just because I could. When I was 10 I once explored a closed off historical site, By slipping through the bars. I got to walk along the roof of a old coastal Fort, Under the light of the moon. Kind of looks like a stone castle. As an adult in hindsight I realized that was dangerous of Me. In my defense I was very careful with every step I took. That was a thrilling adventure. Nothing bad happened but I was breaking rules. Has someone who is usually very obedient, Is the throw cane from just breaking the rules. But it also gave me a lot of anxiety. Then I decided that that 1 experience was enough for me. Like even as a child I have a like bucket list of experiences. Since I was obedient one of my bucket list things was too As safely as I could Not be obedient. Sneaking on to the Fort, Because my parents didn't care. My dad would have thought it neat although stupid because of danger. I didn't have fear of actually getting in trouble with my parents. However what I felt bad about in guilty is that it was fun stuff and it was a rule not to go over there and I was breaking that rule, But I felt it was worth it. I took the risk. Cop showed up to search the area. I went down to my belly waited for the cop to leave. That was enough excitement for my rebellion, For quiet a long time. I snuck out feeling and pretending like I was a secret agent. Someone who was always a responsible one, I have my own personal little triumphs that I keep close to my heart.
*As a woman,* I appreciate the shout-out to toxic femininity and the kind of women who promote it, that man just want wanted to invite her to his favorite grill spot but she grilled him instead 🗿
@@backmatthew7992 Thank you, I'll update my comment. I feel as if the line between the two can be very transparent, so I'm glad to know the difference. 🌻
@@bananaiceream Well, what can I say, 99% is not 100% :) Beliefs are genderless, so women (and men (and in-betweens)) like me are and have always around ;)🌻
I'm a girl. I'm not that skinny and I get skinny shamed all the time. Sometimes I want to leave my family cuz that's not "caring" as they say anymore. And I love your videos
@@realjn2657 are you 15 and live in your parents basement and have no life skills? Sounds offensive right? well that’s pretty much what you have done with your last comment.
I got skinny-shamed after pregnancy. I used to have a curvy shape, but then exclusive breastfeeding plus a huge amount of stress quickly reduced my weight until I could see my rib bones. What had hurt the most was the skinny-shaming came from my relatives. They told me that I wasn't eating right even though I almost puked trying to eat a lot. I even cried on lonely nights, thinking I'd nver b pretty again. But don't worry guys, I got my way past them and learned to deflect their opinions of me and learned to love myself each day. ✨✨✨
breastfeeding also somehow made me lose weight and I was back to my teenage to early 20s weight and never gained weight anymore. Don't take them too seriously. What's important is you have great immunity and ur energetic. Those are the best health indicators. My mum keeps on saying I'm even skinnier now. I'm not bothered cuz I have good amount of energy and don't get easily sick
As a skinny person, I feel attacked 💀 Also here in India people tell me I'm too skinny and say things like "You'll probably fly away when the weather is windy" 😂 and stuff but after watching this American stereotype, Indians look so nicer to me now 💀
@@auricia201 same 😂 ik it’s like a joke but I genuinely do struggle walking in strong winds haha. It doesn’t help that I live in an area with lots of hurricanes either
Awww 😢 Well, I’ll tell you you’re very beautiful the way you are! Don’t let anyone make you feel bad, and do things that would make you feel good about yourself while sticking to your true personality 💕 - From a random internet stranger
fr people pointed it out so much and did the thing of putting their fingers around my wrist. I honestly got so insecure of it that I did anything to try and gain weight, but if anything at least korean standards made me feel a lot more comfortable with my body. ppl shouldn't be pressured to be that weight tho
@@NAKOYAH I feel u so bad, i HATE when they put their fingers around my wrist. It's so repetitive, tiring and annoying, how do they expect me to feel when they say it makes them feel bad? I also gained a unhealthy obsession with gaining weight but at the end i'm learning to accept my body as it is in whatever stage it is. I did found comfort in the stuff about Korea too lol
.....In East Asia skinny equal to pretty.This kind of things make me questioning my east asian beauty standard.America born East Asians are less attractive to me i guess now i know why
In Africa where my skinny size invalidated me as a woman, I too almost became bipolar in the UK, for being hunted down for the "secret to my pancake booty size 00 self. This is 100% accurate.
I'm sorry but can we stop generalizing a whole continent? I wouldn't have said anything but africa has various cultures. It's a known fact East Africa in particular has skinnier people overall and appreciates a very thin frame. Africa is not just one large country people
@@thebender3118 dude, youre saying that to someone who lived in africa. im european but i dont wanna doxx myself every time i speak, so sometimes i go "in Europe..." now tell me hoa thats racist. if op wasnt from or hadnt lived in africa youd have a point, but why on earth are you monitoring how people tell their personal experiences in the country or continent theyre from
@@thebender3118 they were just saying “in Africa.” When they were in Africa, they were skinny-shamed. The commenter obviously isn’t generalizing the continent lmao. If I saw a 3 year old driving in the USA, would that be generalizing the country?? Would I have to say I was in Salem, Oregon or something? 😟
I've always been under weight growing up, and was made fun of "go eat a burger," "she must have an eating disorder," or was questioned by teachers "do you have enough to eat at home?" So I'm glad this is getting some light even if it is in a comedic way ^_^
I hated it growing up. Kids in school would call me bulimic, anorexic, skin and bones. Say "ewwww, I can see your bones." I was bullied so bad. Even during the blazing hot summer I would wear long sleeve shirts, a jacket and long pants to hide how skinny I was. Then some idiot decided to call me skeletor as an adult. Since then I would try my best to overeat bc I absolutely hated the name calling. I've finally gained weight and am thankful for it bc now people leave me alone. They used to always make my weight their business. The only person that ever complimented me back then was a Chinese guy. He said "you're American?! Youre so pretty! I thought all Americans were fat !"
When I was really skinny, my family all said, "You need to eat more!" They told me they thought I was on death's doorstep and couldn't stop talking about how bad it was. The moment I started gaining weight, they all started saying that I was going to be fat. My grandma had always been the worst. My genetics shaped my face to be really full no matter what I weigh, so my grandma always said mean comments about it. I have realized that it doesn't matter what you weigh, people will always judge harshly.
Hi dude, I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your channel and the jokes that you make. Your videos always make my day. I'm blessed that your channel is always there to brighten my day. 고맙습니다 !
I was the opposite. I was bullied for being chubby as a kid in America. I became anorexic and everyone loved me, they had to sometimes catch me from passing out in the halls but it was charming LOL. I've seen boys get bullied for being skinny though, that's definitely true. Not just by females but other males!
So in the black community women get bullied for being skinny like literally by your own parents lmao. But in other communities they don't see skinny shaming is a thing because they see that as the standard for women. But for MEN THEY GET BODIED FOR BEING SKINNY LMAO
@@JuanAntonioGarciaHeredia you can be skinny and still havd breast and shapes. I'm telling you it's different in the black community than like the Asian community for example or the white community. White women can be skinny and still have c cup sizes and be fine, while as black women are seen better if they are THICK and possibly a little bigger in size than thick with huge asses usually. (The chests don't matter as much)
God, skinny shaming...this happens to me all the freaking time and the one who loves harassing me the most about it is my mom. I'm African and here women must have curves and shit according to the gross men standards. My mom even went as far as buying fattening pills and odd sugary stuff for me to take (Still didn't work lmao highest weight I reached was 43 Kgs back when I was a teen before taking the pills, and last time I checked before a month or so, I was 39 Kgs, yeah I know that sound awfully skinny). The issue is, I eat normally, I eat junk food, sweets, and everything since I was young, but I don't gain weight. I was skinny and small sized (Now as an adult am also short as hell, 148 cms) since I was born. Everyone assume something is wrong with me, but I'm healthy and I eat well, ugh! I did even have moments when I thought maybe living in someplace in Asia where they love people being so skinny and they go as far as starving themselves for it would be a bliss for someone like me that how much it bothers me. Whenever someone judges my weight, I get hella pissed off lol
Welp if no one's told you today, you're gorgeous! That sounds like literal hell, and it's stupid to think that only thicc women are beautiful/attractive. I mean, I don't want to sound weird, but I'm a woman and I find some slender women EXTREMELY attractive(and it's usually because they also have one hell of a personality). Seriously! Every body has its own tinge of beauty so healthy and happy is all that matters! 🌻
@@onceagain569 Thank you very much! I really appreciate it and I also agree that all weights and heights can be pretty so I don't get why everyone are so obsessed with forcing others to look the same which leads to lots of insecurities and mental issues. Especially if you're naturally skinny or naturally more on the thic side, it can be very annoying when people judge you for something you can't easily control. Just like getting judged for skin tones. I love my weight, I'm very comfortable with it, it's among the few things I genuinely like about myself so when I get judged for it and get told to change it, it truly irritates me lol
I will say if you ever do decide to move to somewhere in Asia because of your weight, be aware that not all Asian countries have the same standards for weight. I know in Korea a lot of people try really hard to be impossibly skinny but in Vietnam many people have told me that I’m too skinny and tell me to eat more
@@cl-jp3uv Yeah, I guess it depends on each country's overall mindset. I wish others would just mind heir own business instead of constantly making unwanted advices.
I remember reading somewhere that a Korean Girl group idol should weigh max. as much as their height in cm's minus 120. Which means if you are 167cm's tall your maximum weight should be 47kg's. That basicly means no curves, thighs etc. at all.. If it is natural, fine, but most of them have to starve themselves to reach those measures.
I "love" the formula for the ideal weight, trying to look scientific on a stupid and harmful beauty standard 💀 That's as bad as the ratios for body measurements (like waist/hip ratio etc..)
Not all people are obsessed with curves and big data booty like Americans I think Europeans like Russians , Swedish people have great body proportions.
Like what in the 2-6-5 do people want these days? From 'fat-shaming' to 'skinny-shaming'. Yes his vids are funny and also raise awareness on those topics like these. It's the end of the vid and we can tell he puts the Blood, Sweat and Tears in every vid 👏👏👏👏. 2:24
As a person who was very skinny her entire life and couldn’t gain much weight until high school, skinny shaming is real. Very real. Body shaming is not exclusive to one group.
My whole life I struggled with skinny shaming and everyone just been saying "oh, how it can be offensive? bullsh*t". I cried so much and I hated my body. Even after bodypositivity became popular in my country in those publics were only puctures of girls with curves and never pictures of skinny girls. Only after my 20 I realized that my body is ok and I don't need to explain to everyone that I eat enough and I'm not on a diet and not fckng sick. So if you're familiar with this kind of problem just believe me- people will hate you even if you are Amanda Seyfried (who is my goddes), so fck them, love yourself and spoil yourself ❤
This is so annoying tbh, like people can't goddamn stop talking about others bodies. You relate to this sht more when you're Asian, even your distant aunt who you saw in your hometown hundred years ago would start talking about how skinny you look, your bones are popping up, you need to eat more blah blah blah blah. But if you eat more and gain some weight, they will start talking nonsense that you need to lose some weight, then you'll look good, how hypocritical.
Not asian, in my country things aren't that extreme. But I think that, if someone is much slimmer than the average person, it's normal for people to notice and be concerned. After all, one can get skinny due to an illness. But as long as someone is healthy and has a healthy lifestyle, the weight it has is the weight it should have 🤷🏻♀️ We also need to accept there will always be outliers Growing up it was common for people to point out I was very slim. It gets a bit annoying, but I understand where people are coming from. Thankfully my mother never thought it was a concern, as long as I ate well
"why should i go on a date with you when i can order a skeleton on amazon for 12.99 OH MY GOD hahaha" I get skinny shaming yes, Even as a girl I get it and well, I remember calling doctors and they are like "why are you so slim?" it's just the way I am. I eat 35 crisp packets a day, 5 icecreams, a pizza, pasta and cheese.. and they're like hey why you so slim~
Same, 90% of my meals consist of things with high calories and fats and my meals are big, yet I don't gain a single pound, not even an ounce! I'm stuck at 106 lbs. Not to mention I try to tone my body by exercising a lot, I get the effects of being athletic (i.e. lots of stamina, strong legs/arms, fast running speed, etc). My grip is also very dangerous too in my left hand. Still, you would never know cause I don't get the physical effects (i.e. visible muscle gain, etc). I mean sure I'm a girl, but girls can get toned too. Legit I'm a Minecraft stick with power, punch, sharpness, and fire aspect enchantments 😮💨 my dad is the only adult to never tease me about being skinny... it truly is a messed up world we live in...
@@-LaMimi- If you actually took the time to calculate your TDEE and your caloric intake, you'd be able to figure it out. If you're serious, REALLY do your research on how the human body works. I used to be on the opposite end where'd I'd say I ate a lot less than my skinny friends yet was still fat. That's just not how life works. It is super RARE that anyone's TDEE varies between someone of the same age, weight, height, and sex by a lot more than one snack's worth of calories. For example, one person with similar stats might be able to stay skinny and have a couple more chips (2300 calories) versus someone having to settle for one serving of chips (2000 calories maintenance). Skinny folks are just normal people who are better at balancing their CICO without noticing.
As a "too skinny" american I can say I have been compared to a stick, a skeleton, and many more skinny objects. I've also been told I'll blow away in the wind
as a skinny person, maybe south korea doesnt seem like a bad place to go to, i also have high metabolism and a lot of people either are jealous of me or keep saying "u should be lucky ur skinny" to be honest its not that fun
Random story/rant time: I've always been on the skinnier side since I was young and basically my relatives loved to skinny-shame me while masking it as concern. My grandaunt, aunt etc would always tell me that being too skinny was considered unattractive/ugly but they weren't being intentionally mean (from their POV, they just thought it was normal). Then years passed, puberty hit etc and I was at a normal weight, but I wasn't as exceptionally skinny as I used to be. My relatives suddenly started thinking of me as fat. I was about five feet/153 cm tall and weighed about 100 pounds/44-45kg and according to them I was fat. I was at my aunt's house and I was feeling sick when I went to sleep in her bed and as I was trying to fall asleep, I heard her talking to my sister and talking about how my thighs were so fat and how much weight I had gained. I woke up later feeling terrible plus I had an allergy reaction so that worsened the day and made it one I would never forget. Afterwards, even though in retrospect I was perfectly healthy, I decided to on some self-imposed diet and did calorie counting. I limited myself to 700 calories a day and hated myself if I did not follow it. I was in school during that time so I ate breakfast early in the morning at 6am (I can’t stand a heavy breakfast so I would usually eat a small bread and my mom would expect me to eat in school) and didn't eat anything else until dinner. Sometimes I ended school at 6, went home to shower and then had my next meal. I ate porridge practically everyday until I felt like throwing up. Whenever I took a car home after school I got severe motion sickness and kept wanting to throw up but there was nothing for me to vomit. I was dizzy, weak and tired all the time and really thought I might die. My legs were trembling when I was walking and I just felt so nauseous all the time. Every time I ate, I would gobble it up in minutes and my stomach would hurt like crazy. I just kept drinking water to satiate the hunger and squeezing my stomach every time it growled in class (which was quite embarrassing). That, coupled with a bunch of other stuff I was struggling with, just made so drained and sad everyday. In the end the diet collapsed (not me lol, even I almost misread that line) for reasons I don't feel like going into but I only plucked up the courage to tell my mom (and no one else) about it many months ago/last year-ish. She felt really guilty but I felt even guiltier for burdening her with it when technically she wasn't the one skinny/fat (?) shaming me and she didn't really know what was going on, so I tried to brush it off and changed the topic, and mostly she has forgotten about it. Even now, thinking back it does hurt a bit, but I got over it, and the only time I can feel so honest and open about it is right here on the internet with a bunch of strangers. I haven’t felt the urge to lose weight since then and I am eating healthily now, and overall I think I’ve gotten over it?? And just needed someplace to rant. But to anyone else reading this who might be going through something similar, I hope you can conquer this period as well. Don’t let anyone else tell you how to feel about your body; it’s YOURS for a reason. I learned that after a lot of tears and pain, but it’s never too late. P.S. I may never reply to this comment because I'm using one of my numerous RU-vid accounts and not my "main" one where I create videos, for anonymity reasons.
im from india. I remember in college we had a guy who was 6'3" and he had a gf and one time in class she was skinny shaming him and telling him to go to a gym. I wish i had spoken up then, but i was really shy back then and couldn't talk to people .-. im glad they broke up he deserves better
Just a vent or something for me to get off my chest. Im a skinny person, when I was little, no matter how much junk food I ate I would never gain weight. It got so bad, that my doctor had to monitor my weight because I was so underweight for my age. My family always told me, "where does the food go?" And to be honest, I didn't know how to answer so I said,"I'm not sure." However, now that I'm older my high metabolism has slowed a bit but its barely noticeable. However, on top of that I'm skinny I'm built like a box, I get shamed for it. It really annoys me when people point it out, like I already know, I can't change how I was born. It runs in my family so I guess it was inevitable for me to have it. I'm jealous of people who have curves when I don't..
When I was skinny I was skinny shamed and after I gained a lot of weight due to antidepressants I am being fat shamed, people will never be satisfied about how we look. At first it was hard to accept my weight fluctuation plus the mean comments about my weight made it harder but now I am accepting myself as I am. Just a reminder to anyone who still struggles with self love and self esteem, you are beautiful just the way you are, please don't forget that and don't let people's comments make you think otherwise ❤
I love how your concepts are so current and need to be said. And your format for expressing the wrongness of these positions of hate are so impactful being that they are comedic in nature! We all need to laugh and learn some lessons along the way. Thanks!
