Sociopath Reacts To Famous Psychologist Dr Ramani 

Right??

Really? She comes off as extremely disingenuous to me. I'm not her target audience at all, but it feels like she just says whatever words will make the most viewers go "omg so true" (which is why the comments in her videos are full of THOUSANDS of "narcissist survivors" who are simply convinced that everyone who ever wronged them must be the personification of evil).

@@Slayer3264Yeah, I both like her content and yet something about her rubs me the wrong way sometimes .. Maybe it’s the sort of natural smirk paired w a penchant for pop psychology.. idk

She has knowledge but her content is click-baity and views oriented. I prefer channels that talk about healing. Typically they have less than 30 000 followers bc they don't care abt clout but quality. When she talks she's interesting to listen but as many ppl say there's something off. I think it's bc she cares too much abt views and fame so people notice it in her energy. Ofc I am sure her content helped many ppl, but eventually we have to move on to healing and not obsess over narcissists.

You spelled narcissist wrong ;)

Wow....same! U described it perfectly.

Intruiging. I have foetal alcohol syndrome and a ton of childhood and adulthood abuse (different types of abuse for each) and I'm pretty much the opposite interestingly. I have antisocial traits apparently as well. Sometimes infamy can be useful. But either way I don't really care what I am and masking is a strategy for me although I'm not very good at maintaining it for more than like 2h. I am extremely emotionally shallow as a puddle. I would go insane having strong feelings and empathy etc. It would be too much for my brain to manage, so I guess it's good I don't have it. A question - you have a lot of deep emotions, do you wish you didn't or do you find you are better with them?

Thank you for this insight.

Omgg yesss before I knew I was autistic I thought I was sociopathic for pretending to be heartless

I was dealing with the same problem for years but i think now that i found people that accepts, loves and protects me just the way i am, i can be my own self now

I relate to this so much and it's awful. Being treated that way and having your emotions invalidated is very damaging. Even if the other person didn't have the capacity to empathize, that uncaring response can really change how we treat ourselves in the future and it's so sad.

@ArtisteRel exactly, it led me to not reporting crimes against me because I didn't want the negative attention. How to turn it off and be "okay".

same with my mom

sorry you guys have to go through this.. hopefully our generation breaks the cycle. Much love

Same and it’s made me a bit too tough and desensitised to others as I think, well get yourself together 😮. Got told when I cried to my Dad who raised me (aged 8+) it was weak to show emotions, & to 🤬get away & wash my face & come back when I could compose myself. Suppressed everything for decades 🙄🤯

Less so in psychopathy. Many psychopaths have had a normal upbringing.

Spoiled is the number one offense. The worst of the worst.

​​@@kevinowens6010I so agree. The spoiled brat psychodynamics of what you are referring to is the Malignant Narcissist. Also know as the "Dark Triad" consists of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Psychopathy, and Machiavellianism. Also, prominate features of sadism. They are the most dangerous on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder spectrum. These type of narcissists can devour a covert and vulnerable, overt narcissist. These type of narcissists are the worst of the worst. They are capable of anything and everything, due to the psychopathy of this disorder. I feel the psychdynamics of malignant narcissists is more serious than psychopaths and sociopaths, due to the prominent psychopathy alignment of this disorder

​@@kevinowens6010they usually are not spoiled, especially sociopaths. The whole lore of a sociopath is their rough past, trauma adding up, its a survival mechanism to danger, not even close to them being spoiled. But, obviously, there can be special cases in which that happened.

​@@sarahleahBvery true,there are several serial killers who had normal parents.

😂🤣

I thought the same thing

And attractive female saying sorry is a very clever disarming move 😉

It is rareeee that I actually mean I am sorry when I say I am, and I’ve gotten to this point where I told myself I wouldn’t say sorry for the things I wasn’t sorry for. But then that led me to planning out when to say sorry so that I could manipulate the situation and get them to see me how I want them to see me, essentially “more bang for your buck” is how I would describe it.

So funny because she is the walking embodiment of “sorry, not sorry”. 🤣🤣

YES!!!

That would probably threaten Dr Ramanis ego

That would be the collab of the century!

@@sweet2sourrpls tell me ur joking

PLEASE

Thanks for this explanation, makes so much sense. I've wondered about that. It doesn't really feel like empathy when you're around them, it feels like once again it is all about them.

What is empathy then?😅

Yeah or for animals

​@@thembelihlenombewu2802when you feel the pain of the other Person, you DONT make about yourself but you want to comfort them and be there for them.

I think empathy is an ability, a 6th sense if you will, but compassion is actually caring for others. as a default empaths have a lot of compassion but it can be bullied out of them if they are hurt too much.

100% yes. Then they should be referring to people who can.

I don’t get why they even go into the field if they’re aren’t going to train and have openness but then again I lack cognitive empathy 😅

@@sweet2sourr Because not everyone has to specialise in every aspect of their field. It's like with every other field. I assume (and hope!) that you wouldn't say: "Oh, you're a doctor? Can you check what's wrong with my hearing? Oh you're a surgeon? Why don't you go and train and have openness to treat my hearing issues, then? I don't get why you even went into the field if you're not gonna do that". :-)

I have a degree in this area. People with BPD, NPD, HPD, & ASPD are quite expensive & time consuming to help. Usually they come in just learn how to get better at whatever they're doing wrong. Most are not self aware.

@@sweet2sourr what he said is actually not a dumb argument, you should learn to use your braincells. then maybe you’d comprehend the similarities.

For Sociopaths their compassion for some family members is not the same as us. They don't feel love, empathy nor care. Their idea of love for someone is total control and domination for someone. They call it "one-sided love" which is an oxymoron and doesn't exist except in their deviant minds

And around 02:02 she's blinking a lot there too talking about narcs

She’s not an actual narcissist. She has traits but she faked her diagnoses

@@pinkdollangel how do you know? seriously asking :)

@@pinkdollangelI get it! How do you know you’re causing trouble if you don’t feel anything or bad about it.

Kanika, when you say you did awful things to people because you were bored, you did feel something, right? Like amusement, alleviation of boredom, etc but absolutely zero remorse, guilt, shame, discomfort?

lol it was told to you from the start? bc seriously...

Your health and safety is priority and take care of your children. Look out for repeat patterns in your children. As adults we he can navigate counselling and recovery if he chooses. Children rely on you for guidance , safety, learning about his illness and their upbringing , moral compass, strength, resilience an ongoing determination to face challenges.

Did his mom supply him with drugs and alcohol when he was 5? How did he get it. Not that I don't belief the entire story, it is just that I know too many people that lie.

​@@Cyhcg5uhgbwhy assume she was lying instead of considering the possibility that maybe there was drugs and alcohol in the house because the parents were abusing them and left them laying around? Or maybe the person who abused them gave them these substances?

It’s okay to feel. You’re actually a stronger person by facing your emotions. To run away from your emotions is weakness

me too. "too sensitive" all my life & had had raging OCD by the time i was 8/9

I can relate

This is so interesting. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Probably because you were “in charge” of your emotions.

me too. it sucks. i am constantly ready to jump off a cliff cuz i swear i can't seem to properly enjoy life as a result

Ted Bundy was a law student, too😂

Me too. And I got a law degree as well lol. It's very not relatable to me when ppl talk how fun their teen years were, how they broke the rules, did crazy things etc. I was silenced, tormented kid and breaking "rules" wasn't even option. I wasn't "A" student, bc I couldn't focus due to anxiety, but beside of it I was perfect "poster good girl". I was in perpetual state of anxiety, afraid of my strict mum and school peers bullying me. When ppl talk abt their "fun" teen years it's nowhere to my isolated experience. I didn't think about "fun", I just wanted to be be left alone in peace. It was all survival mode. As an adult I am not a rule follower, I see all the flaws in society, law, injustice etc. And I work on un-doing my harmful "good girl" conditioning and being my authentic self. I agree that being forced to be always nice, quiet and obedient is tragic and surpresses normal development. Not to mention how isolated I always feel comparing to ppl my age who had more freedom and were allowed to be themselves, try new things etc.

@@TejubescDM If you'd be interested, although sometimes painful, counseling( with a credible, GOOD psychologist) was immensely helpful to me in dealing with long term P.T.S.D. & other diagnoses from heinous childhood abuse. You don't want to get tossed in jail...&/or continue to have your adult life destroyed, as well. You do, & ALWAYS did, deserve much better than that.

@@larakeller2478 Thank you for reply. I definitely have CPTSD. I had therapy but it wasn't very helpful and had to figure out my issues on my own. Glad it's helping you.

Not really, she knows a lot but she particulary dehumanizes narcs, they're people too. She talks about the disorder in a very derogatory way that instills a lot of fear and rejection, it's not a big deal and it's quite easy to get rid of a narcissist. If you stay with a narcissist then you have serious mental problems that attracted the narcissist in the first place and they have nothing to do with it, they are teachers in the lives of those who know them and that many don't know how to take advantage of because they LOVE the role of victim. She also talks about narcissism as if it were something exclusive to the narcissist when in reality we all operate from a narcissistic state, obviously some more than others. Everyone has narcissistic, psychopathic or sociopathic traits.

@@vinitotinto4827 Incorrect. Narcs dehumanize others and in the process they dehumanize themselves. And no, not everyone exhibits psychopathic or sociopathic traits. If that's how you see yourself, then okay, but to project such traits on "everyone" is narcissistic of you, unless you just don't have a handle on what those traits really are.

What do you mean by 'honest'? And yes she is entertaining.

​@@vinitotinto4827"They're people too" -- it's a shame the narcissist won't consider that for their victims when they're chronically abusing them. Dr. Ramani has helped survivors immensely. She doesn't sugar coat it. She validates survivors and helps give context to what is happening to people in situations where they are being abused by a narcissist. It's fine to have empathy for the narcissist -- after all, it's what separates non-narcissitic people from narcissists. However, people should never forget how they are. While we're feeling empathy for them and people are saying "they're people too," they are hurting people without remorse for their own selfish means. People are objects to them. The destruction they leave behind without care is unforgivable.

​@@vinitotinto4827so you're a narcissist huh

Besides the water. I actually laughed today 😂❤.

You can start to regulate as HSP person even with cpstd...we have a life that has depth, richness and the ability for intimacy. stimulation (which is how they get their juice) is a poor substitute.

I have CPTSD from childhood trauma so I understand what you’re saying. I get triggered a lot but I do really well in high stress situations: it’s odd.

Therapy and meds help

I hear you. It's absolutely draining.

Yesssss that's why I've been studying sociopaths ...I'm going to grab some of their confidence, emotional deadness, and self care / grooming. Yep.

What if I told you we are all nodes of the quantum field/ facets of singularity: One cosmic mind psychotically squabbling its nonsense eternally and multidimensionally. Psychopathy is the ultimate cosmic expression of creation. The spiritual community keeps implying sociopathic behavior is "divine". Your "friends" dont give a fuck about you, you are all most likely just using each other as tools of sorts. Its how source expresses itself in this realm...there's a certain level of transparency to it.

@@thisnameinvolvedsounds like you’ve never given freely without expectation before

literally the first thing the doc said was ever psychopath is a narcissist but not every narcissist is a psychopath. So u dont make much sense here.

Weirdly enough, I agree with you. Being plain narcissists get so emotional

Oh yeah!! The placidity of socio/psychopaths is very mellow to be around. Beside them, the Narc feels like a Mexican jumping bean in a hot tub roof. The difference is that Narcissists need the Fuel, or supply they receive from other's emotional reactions to them. SP/PP'S don't have a Need to keep eliciting emotion from those, around them. ( HG Tudor)

I don't think she would because that's not going to do anything to help people who are victimized by these people. She's busy doing purposeful work.

Best comment of them all by far !! You're setting boundaries & protecting yourself. Good on you. Sucks about the little bird. I probably would've chased the other feathered fuck away so at least he didn't get to enjoy his heinous snack !!

I had very similar experience with a pigeon. I've thought to next time not think twice and do what my heart tells me. Empathy to animals is something I don't want to change and I don't think you should either. There is enough people who don't care. I work on being assertive with humans. In. ex. if I see someone being bullied, I get the courage to react and use my empathy in productive way. Too often society thinks that being good/kind means being quiet and agreedable but I realize I need to stand my ground and react for injustice. I can't imagine "bragging about empathy". I've developed social anxiety bc I cared too much and had problems with attention bc I was hypervigilant and couldn't focus on myself/studying etc. My high sensitivity caused me mental health issues so if someone thinks you can "brag about being empath" clearly they didn't experience my issues. I'd remove my sensitivity without blink if I could. I want to have conscience but not feel bombarded with everybody emotions 24/7.

​@@lidewijcroes1795you're right about the first part. Completely wrong on the second. Empathic people definitely already have the ability to be narcissistic. Just because a person -feels- for you, does not mean they are not feeling -from- you. People tend to conflate narcissism while selfishness. They tend to be selfish people, but that doesn't mean they are a narcissistic. It's a personality disorder. Self-absorbed, & self-serving, yes. Empaths are just as capable of this. I say this because I am one. There is a dark side, if not kept in check.

@@lidewijcroes1795 it's irresponsible to use them interchangeably. Being selfish doesn't help co-dependency. Learning to detach does. The language you use has meaning. This is how everyone ends up thinking their ex was a narcissist, instead of actually doing any work. Language matters.

@@lidewijcroes1795 can and should are two very different topics. I'm not trying to be rude here, & I'm sorry if I am coming across as condescending. This is very serious. Yes, it's good people have opened up about about mental health, but it has allowed for culture that is literally mocking serious mental illness. People's everyday anxieties, & mild depressions sudden become a red herring. It is not the same thing as debilitating mental disorders, & it's not okay to act like it is. Talking about it like it is will have consequences. We have been seeing them reflected in our culture, & will continue to.

same, sis. :( hang in there ❤

same.

Find a way to build up or rebuild yourself. Find a way or make one because the alternative is worse. Keep trying, keep going and don't give up on yourself.

Same

🤣 I’m screaming

Yeah, she also often uses the phrase "[...] they're gonna be crying for a week". I thoroughly enjoy people's idiosyncrasies 😸

It's funny that she does experience genuine empathy to cats. According to her, she feels ill if an animal gets hurt, so somehow she learned to detach to feel empathy towards people.

Narcissist love animals because the latter have simple minds and are usually submissive. I know three narcissists and they are the same. And they like babies. Until they become independently thinking kids.

@@Mariet31 or maybe she realates to them because she is an animal herself. sticking to her primal clan.

She wouldn't

Needless to do

as an empath I don't care what people think, I can be brutally honest over the internet bc it's so liberating not having to deal with everyone's emotions, but in person I care what they FEEL so I keep myself small 🤣

Dang how did you end up there?

Well if she's lying about her whole persona why would she do a ldt

She claimed that she feels so little about anything that she could pass ​@@ParmyJan

You think a sociopath cares about this?

everyone is allowed to talk about personal things on youtube. she does not claim that she is the fountain of wisdom; she just shares what she knows from her personal point of view AND THAT IS WHAT RU-vid IS ABOUT

👏🏼 finally somebody said it !

Have you yourself ever considered treatment.

she's just milking it for fame while she can.

I was wondering about him. I watched one of his videos once and he was displaying everything he was discussing. Gave me the creeps. Red Flags. Glad my gut instinct was right about him.

@@nesxya yet he's still responsible for all the knowledge you currently have on being "creeped out" by him. He admitted many times being diagnosed with those in most of his videos, so I don't think it was your "instincts". He's pretty honest and open about his diagnosis and uses that to disseminate knowledge to help others as his narc supply.

That sounds more like narcissism.

Honestly thats just a bad relationship

Yeah I'm sorry too. I learned to cry quietly too

And I’m sorry that happened to you. Know you are worth more than that even if you have to fight your doubts of it every day❤

Yikes!!!

Lacking remorse doesn't make you a sociopath. Quite a bit more diagnostics needed to diagnose someone with aspd 😂😂

@@nutech1810 well he’s diagnosed npd bpd and some other things too 😳 Just based on this video she made me think it could be more than the npd lol. I sure do know how to pick ‘em.

Sociopaths handle there own company well.

Sociopaths don’t abuse people, wtf are you on about woman….Sociopaths are loners, indifferent, callous similar to a psychopath, they don’t give a fk about your feelings….I think most of you don’t even know what an sociopath even mean….ASPD, sociopath is not the same…ASPD is basically a person who has issues with authority problems, stealing, convict, landing in prison, that’s ASPD etc. ASPD basically means: against the social laws. Sociopath belong to criteria ASPD because they share same traits but it’s not the same. Sociopath: genetic, severe trauma, both required. ASPD: learned behavior by growing up in a rough neighborhood. You people need to educate more about this topic…..Sociopath: psychopath, it’s simple. Only sociopaths have emotions but more muted, blunted way. And Kanika Batra is not an sociopath, she’s an narcissist. I can read her like a open book.

You can usually bribe them with money, sex, or assets and sometimes they might consider leaving you alone as long as they know somebody's helping them they will see it as an opportunity to advance themselves if you make them think your building them up. Building them up is the secret to getting them to let you leave. Their biggest fear is being left alone and forgotten. So if you want to find a way around this don't tell them what your plans are and don't encourage them to express their emotions because they lack it. The only time there nice to you is when they know there getting some sort of benefit from the situation. There not as as smart as psycho paths or sociopaths because I actually wasn't diagnosed with narcissism so she's wrong in saying we are all co dependent. Some of us rather just build our own wealth in secret and make them think we are broke all the time so they don't steal what we worked hard for..

Agreed but they are so hard to deal with they really are

@@ashleypearson7848yes they are extremely difficult

so true narcissists are mostly just exhausting

Malignant Narcissists are very harmful and very difficult to deal with.

Especially the covert ones! They're superficially nice...

sorry to hear that, wishing you the best

I wonder, how old are you?

I see it more as being reactive. Change your surroundings and it just might be all the help you need. I've been a scapegoat for both of my parents all of my life. The more time I spend with people who are not toxic to me, the better I feel and the better I am. I wish you the best either way.

That's just righteous anger, don't let it cloud your self image brother!

Took me 37 years to realize being in such a situation but only after my narc mother broke me to get her control back. If you are going through this shitshow and you start noticing how your feelings change than at least you are able to reflect and introspect to some extend. Use this, cultivate it, understand yourself, don't get lost in apathy, pitty or hate towards others or yourself, but don't deny them either. It might feel much easier to succumb into this dark feelings but it's worth breaking the circle by maintaining empathy, even for decades if necessary.

Eh not quite. Empathy is more of a generalized understanding of how things can affect another person. For example, a dog dying can make a person sad. An empathic person will relate to the sadness and know why consolation can help that person. Calling this narcissism doesn't make sense because the experience involves willingly and genuinely trying to connect with another person. Someone without empathy will not get why the person cares so much about the dog or will think their emotional reaction is stupid and that it's a waste to bother with emotionally because it's not happening to them. I've had people actually tell me this. "It's not happening to me so why should I care?" Even admitted to having to pretend to care to protect their image so they look like a caring person. This is an example of narcissism because the focus is on self image only and even downplays the emotions of others.

To me, a true empath is someone who cares about the well-being of others more than themselves. This usually creates a lot of problems such as lack of boundaries, limited self expression, and generally not advocating for oneself. You don't have to be a mind reader to experience this. An empath may be devastated just hearing about bad news that may have happened to someone. This is what makes them (unfortunately) so easy to manipulate.

That’s not what empathy is. Emotional Empathy is an ability to “put yourself in someone else’s shoes,” and understand and feel what they’re going through. And this isn’t guessing what they’re going through, it’s them telling someone what they’re going through, and that person EMPATHIZING with them. What you’re referring to is an antiquated version of someone “empathic,” popularized by the character in Star Trek The Next Generation, who was able to see into someone’s feelings like you’re describing. That isn’t empathy.

You’re not quite familiar with Empathy and Empaths

Lol what a narcissistic perception on empathy 😂😂

I have also been VERY intrigued by this question!! Commenting here, just so that I can keep tabs on this question, and see if there are any interesting answers. Speaking as a non cluster B autistic person, myself, whose empathy and ability to read people has massively improved from psychedelics! I always wanted the best for people, and human suffering always bothered me. But I had a hard time instinctively understanding and relating to people! Whereas psychedelics have helped me FEEL them more, so that I can now empathize with and relate to them better! Plus I've just generally become much more interested in other people, and I feel closer to them, and like I have more in common with them, than I used to! Not that I'm at all perfect at reading people now, either, but I'm still better at it than I used to be. And I have definitely asked myself if it could help sociopaths, too. Intriguing question. :)

I'm happy for you that it has helped you so much. The healing properties of certain herbs and fungae are at best misunderstood, at worst suppressed. The human body actually has specific receptors for these substances, they are like the key to the door. They have been used for healing and communication with other realms since the dawn of time. But there is a growing interest in them, and rightly so. Psychedelics have a lot to offer in terms of mental and emotional conditions because they open a window to the spiritual from where astounding healings can result..@@InterstellarDreams

Most probably only a short term effect, while the experience is on. Once down, the old patterns will kick in, denying that they've just had a life changing experience. Or to glamourise it and parade themselves as having done a very cool thing. To have a lasting effect, the trip would have to be repeated, perhaps multiple times so that ingrained patterns can begin to change. I'm just theorising here, I have some experience but I wouldn't call myself an expert on the healing properties for mentally ill people. It's still a largely unexplored area.

@@InterstellarDreams Thanks for your reply. I am self-diagnosed autism/adhd and would like to try them as I have heard positive things from both online people and people I personally know.

@@yobrojoost9497 I hope more people with neurodivergent brains can try them to see what the outcome could be.

Thank you for your honesty.

Thank you from the very bottom of my heart!!! I am so glad you didn't victimize yourself, or demonize your abusers. That's class! I am an empath with BPD, & almost certainly undiagnosed ADHD. My boyfriend also has BPD, probably ADHD & could be a little schizophrenic & almost certainly a narcissist. We are both alcoholics. We also both come from broken families with histories of abuse & childhood trauma.We probably won't make it, but over the past 3 years, we have supported each other getting sober. That couldn't have happened without some level of self-awareness. We are trying to support each other through the trauma, but the levels of emotional baggage, cognitive dissonance, & social contagions have made it near impossible.

This is so real and I appreciate you for being honest ! This is amazing ! A lot of people do not have this self honesty, would play the victim and not admit their role in the toxic relationship!

I love that you got to this perspective! I was stuck in victim mentality for years and it took a long hard look at myself to realise how i was the one who had kept myself in these situations and how there were things insde me that need fixing, so I'm not so willing to allow those types of people and that type of behaviour in my life. It stops you from wallowing in hate for them, and makes you focus on yourself, and wanting to change for the better, to avoid doing that to yourself ever again. You see so many broken people in the comments of videos on narcs or ones like this, and its not like you can tell a broken person "look at yourself, how did you contribute, it isnt even really about the other person", because you'd just be accused of victim blaming. But it isnt about blame at all. Your's is the first comment I've ever seen with this perspective and i wish i saw so many more!! Good luck to you!

@@autisticcaroline2005 What role in the toxic relationship is there to admit as a child that is being abused? The options are becoming homeless so you'll get abused while being hungry, cold and scared all of the time. Or maybe talking to CPS who will do shit if your abusive family is good at masking and pretending everything is fine. That is just one scenario. But even if you are in a romantic abusive relationship and you don't have a support network outside of that, you are completely on your own and traumatized on top of that if you leave. There is no such thing as victim mentality, there is co dependency and having to choose between the devil and the deep blue sea.

No, their idea of love and empathy for someone special is not love, empathy nor care but total domination and control of that person. It's stalking or obsession not love.

Sociopaths are only able to have empathy for themselves.

Wouldn’t it kind of be like they’re protecting their possession? Like it’s a personal insult for someone to do something to their property, and whoever is special to them is like their favorite thing.

@@larryc1616 that's more on par with narccacism or typical BPD, Or psychopaths, A sociopath wasn't born without empathy, its not a missing part of the brain at all, its there, just all messed up, So the levels of sociopaths on a scale one could argue that some of them can form bonds, I think we mix up psychopaths and sociopaths too often, psycopaths are born, sociopaths are made

I knew someone like this her kids where the most spoiled ,i'll spirited mean kids and she had me baby sitting for free☹️ i noticed she only had empathy for her kids when they offended me she never told them to stop and be Nice but when i said something all hell would break loose.

Don’t say things like this, if you have nothing nice to say then don’t say anything please. It takes nothing to be kind

Shes not. She knows wrong from right. A little bit of empathy and kindness goes a long way

@@Musarrat19 towards who? There are plenty of people that deserve forgiveness this person isn’t one of them

she doesn’t deserve forgiveness bc why???? bc she has ASPD???

says the little imp hating in the comments 🤣

The original " Dark Empath".😳😂

How weird that I was just discussing this book with a friend yesterday. I haven't thought about it for so many years.

It doesn’t even matter to them how long a relationship they’ve had with someone they will turn on any and everyone until they have nobody left

Can we make this a top answer. I want to here it!!!

I feel like she would roast him😂 or like prove him wrong when he criticizes women

She has a video on it

She is not a psychopath and no one can be diagnosed a sociopath because it's a blanket term. So she is not credible.

She does have a video on it

because sociopaths can't feel shame.

@@BigIndianBindi-jy1cz What are you talking about? Deep-rooted shame is involved in the development of narcissistic personality disorder.

@@almawade2603not always. Not every person with NPD is capable of feeling shame

My recommendation if you want to hear it: Sam Vaknin (You Tube) would be a better catch to learn about Narcissm because he teaches clinical psychology and psychodynamics!! Tudor makes up his classifications and is sometimes funny and will serve a little truth here and there but it's grandiose fiction... And he is obsessed with Meghan Markle look at his videos about her... millions it's pathetic 🫢☺️🪄

Have u listened to Sam vacknin, he's also a narcissistic psychopath amd he teaches how personality disorders develop in the brain x

Yeah because some people are actually aware that cops are incentivized to lie and arrest and imprison as many people as possible for any reason possible because then these people cant vote and they are forced into legal prison slavery. Companies pay the prisons and governments to make sure X amount of prisoners will be working for however many pennies a day. This is easily available information and the Constitution EXPLICITLY says slavery is legal for prison punishment. It has nothing to do with whether someone has broken the law. There are perfectly law abiding citizens who still get targeted and abused with police power until the cop can arrest them on "being suspicious" for recording their surroundings and the cops incident. Youll be so calm until a police officer opens your door while youre on your lunch break eating a salad and illegally kidnap you because you were acting suspicious (this is kidnapping and unlawful detainment and illegal to do) This has actually happened. Dont come crying to the people trying to help you when you realize they were right about cops.

When you have no standards ig

People who love animals are vegan ❤

They’d call her out probably

@biggsapp89 I've read a lot of comments by people who are expecting Dr Ramani to do videos with self-aware narcissistic people, including Kanika Batra! I couldn't even imagine her doing so; although, she did participate in Red Table Talk sessions with a well-known one. 😊

@@cyndigooch1162 thanks for the i fo ive never seen it

@@sweet2sourrlol, call her out on her PhD and many, many years of research and experience? Just like how kanika is “calling her out” by agreeing with almost everything she says? Grrrrl, wth are you talking about?? 😂

Rami uses a person's name to describe a condition...she is dispiclabe for that. She is foul ​@@sweet2sourr

Why? People with cluster b disordera deserve help and recovery too

@@sexygirlmax2019exactly !

this is exactly why dr. ramani's videos are so harmful. she may be knowledgeable on some of these topics but at the end of the day her aim is not to heal cluster-bs but to garner views and villainise them under the guise of medical accuracy.

​@@sexygirlmax2019What do you mean "why"??? Why to protect yourself?? Is that really your question?? Because if it is you are the perfect candidate to learn why the hard way. Only mental profesionals can help them, if you haven't understand that yet, God help you!

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Right!

I'm not assuming this to be true, but if she doesn't have empathy at all there's a chance she had seen other girls breakdown or get upset by being called that so she used that as an excuse to get to do something unacceptable for fun because she knew it would be viewed as a believable reaction, and then dismissed. For a toxic person that situation would have been consequence free entertainment.

@@ArtisteRelThat’s definitely a possibility. She’s also talked about cognitive empathy. Where she’ll know something the expected/accepted reaction socially so she’ll act on it, even if she doesn’t feel that way herself. I’m also personally exhausted by the overuse of the word “toxic” in the mental health community and online in general. It’s pejorative and doesn’t actually address the problems, only throws on a unless blanket-label.

yet zero empatthy for possibly seriously injuring the girl she pushed. i feel like it wasn't empathy that motivated her but revenge.

My brother is cluster b. As he sees me as his ”property”, he violently attacks anyone who would try to attack me. I see it as Kamika seeing her friend as part of her-self and violently counter-attacking the person who, essentially hurt Kamika. It’s difficult to explain but pretty much bad idea to attack any friend/relative of cluster b-person, you are attacking them directly, that’s how they see the situation.

I assume that she has some empty for her own kind and have wrath for people messing with her business.

You might have been misdiagnosed

@@aussiejubes no definitely not. I’m just not the flappy hands type.

If youre sure about not being misdiagnosed (since what you describe would need a whole lot of social and interpersonal awareness at a very young age, which tends to be incredibly difficult for autistic children, but its a spectrum so who knows), a comorbid Cluster B personality disorder is still a likely possibility. People diagnosed with ASD exhibit higher rates of personality disorders. So you might want to look into that. Especially since you dont only seem to lack empathy, but youre able to manipulate people you call your friends which would require you to be able to read them. Its very interesting, because all of the autistics I know have a very high moral compass, completely seperate from them being able to feel empathy. Though thats just anecdotal.

I think you might have both. Because what you describe is not typical for autism. I'm nd myself and actually know quiet a few people with autism, ADHD or both. Actually all of my circle of friends except maybe 1 person is also nd. And none of them is like that at all and it is also not in the diagnostic criteria for autism. But it is for antisocial personality disorder. You can have both diagnosis and it isn't actually that rare, because a lot of autistic people have c-ptsd from early childhood, either due to a homelife that was abusiv3 or because of bullying ect.

@@rockabillymuffin I just don’t accept that the validity of my official diagnoses is either incorrect or incomplete based on three anecdotal examples. As a child peer-to-peer relationships were always been rife with conflict/friction/misunderstanding’s; the classical issues associated with ASD and relationships for that developmental stage. At the same time though, specifically in an education environment (20+ kids, 1 adult), adults in that environment always gravitated to me. In hindsight it was because I was always the smartest, well read on current affairs (special interest), great vocabulary - I was a little adult. Something that’d solidify the relationship is - oddly, I guess my meltdowns and shutdowns. They were kind of enigmatic in that in appearance they seemed identical to all the other troubled kids - but the causes and remedies were so much different I guess. Teachers became emotionally invested in me. I mention this because it points to I guess a ton of trial and error in dealing with adults punishing me. It taught me that I can make things better for myself if I misrepresent the truth. Reading that last sentence - I urge you to refrain from pathologising it; instead recognise that it’s a very neurotypical thing. I - look I’ve written so much this is exhaustive. I’m on mobile which is so glitchy + I can’t even proofread at this point. I just don’t see how using pattern recognition + past experience to extrapolate likely outcomes of social interactions equates to a cluster b personality disorder. Of note I was in weekly modified CBT from ages 6-18, and mention of “keeping friends in the red”, it’s just me offsetting the times I choose to be demanding - instead of not asking for what I want - with like, ‘drinks/food is on me’. I can be a brute, I apologise for it in advance, and quite frankly I teach those around me to unabashedly vouch for themselves.

I really appreciate your honesty and I actually have BPD too !

Oh my God ! Yes! This !!!🙌

I think she is faking it for the views, not really a psychopath

THAT'S ME OMG PLS HEAR ME OUT I'm a narc abuse victim and I've always scored v high on bpd tests(ik they're not a diagnosis). Normally I have lots of empathy, even for the worst people. But when poeple hurt me a lot, i become apathetic. I feel NOTHING while calling someone I care about a "bitch", saying lots of other hurtful things. And later when I calm down, the crushing guilt returns. I've been trying to solve this problem but I can't find info on this and your comment seemed so relatable. Sorry for the long rant.

Parenting isn't for everyone, unfortunately some of us parents don't figure it out until after we've had a child lol. I'd just work on expanding your patience. It might not feel like it can be done but it absolutely can. Both my husband and I have when we wanted to improve our family. There's a lot of good videos on RU-vid and some books too. It doesn't happen over night, it does take time but it's so worth it. 🙏 Good luck. 💛

but then ASPDs lie...🤔

As objects

They like the role that the animals play in their life. They don't actually have emotions for them. They bring enjoyment to them.

sociopaths do have feelings, and are capable of genuine care and love, its just rarer than it is for neurotypicals. psychopaths cant. that's one of the differences.

It's not anti-help so much as it is these disorders are a gnat's fart above impossible to treat. Dr. Ramani is the world-leading narcissism expert and knows from the research she's conducted that this is the case.

Botox and Lots of plastic surgery

​@@dreamlove361her generation looking old before their time like back in the 1950s and back. history repeats itself..

Well, yeah. Psychopathy is born. ASPD is a cluster b personality disorder that is caused by intense childhood trauma/ and abuse

personality disorder actually do seem to have a fairly significant genetic component

​@@sexygirlmax2019 and spoiled rotten. Add some good looks and privileged you get a real monster.