for my handsome brothas... ever notice how a chick will reject u, then u see the type of guys she actually deals with and most of the time they end up being average at best (no homo) just stating facts from my personal experience these chicks REALLY BE INTIMIDATED
💯 you ain’t even lying… worse is how easy they make it for those guys and I’m just like 🤦🏾♂️… you gonna work hard for a 1 million dollar company but won’t give the same effort for a 1 billion dollar enterprise.. ? 🤔
Tbh I. Can't stand MOST of them for this exact reason. A dude IM WAY BETTER LOOKING THAN/more swag/more charisma/stronger/faster/can fuc and fight (highly trained) BETTER THAN gets the "king" treatment and have his way with her while I get cold shoulders and avoidance BC SHE'S INSECURE BY ME. then these CLOWNS either try to be "bruh bruh" with you or try to act "hard" around you...be wanting to fold him up right in front of her just cuz on some beast mode type shih. Don't want that case though 💪🏾🦍🤣💯🧔🏽
They want a man they can control and they can't really control the good looking guys. They want a man that is going feel like his lucky to have the woman
That's right! And besides being good looking, alpha and sigma males don't tolerate crap from anyone, esp women! We will dump her ass if she is a b**ch and disrespectful, even if it means being alone. A couple women I had I had in my life in the past, I dumped them with NO problem because I'd rather be single and alone than with some b**ch but unhappy at the same time.
@@x97s they be obsessed with perfection. A lot of them naturally focus on what they don’t have because of how active women be on social media. It’s way worse for they mental health then most men
A lot of women are jealous creatures. When you have the full package, walking in your masculine(emotionally intelligent) & GODgiven purpose🙏🏾❤️🔥👑your light will definitely frighten the low vibrating demons inside most nice looking women. She hates that the handsome man wakes up with external, and if truly blessed internal beauty that doesn’t wipe off like the makeup and fake plastic of the modern era #YouDaPrize #RealKingz🙏🏾
for me, older women who are passed their prime be on me HEAVY, but chicks around my age act so scared/shy that it comes off as they're disinterested when ik they're attracted to me. it truly is a huge mindfuck
It’s just that the older women understand the error of their ways. You see older women respect their effort and they know that it takes the same effort often even more to be with a bum or a man she is not attracted to… they learn the hard way
Bro, I thought I was the only one going through this. Not too long ago, this woman complimented me on my hair and eyes right in front of her daughter who was my age.
EXACTLY...Even handsome guys get rejected or friendzoned. There's no perfect way to pull a Female. they are like Cats.. they warm up to Men on their own terms and it's nothing Men can do about it but play the game. Lick your wounds and get back in the Game.
Sometimes being handsome she raises you up so much in her mind, that there's no way to go but down, because you can't live up to the person she created in her head. But a not so attractive guy can surprise her and get her because she didn't think that much of him at first. And she'll be less guards around a not so attractive guy.
Brushed it off when she said she was insecure around me and it bit me in the ass later on. She was physically a dime and I absolutely ignored the red flags because of the physical attraction. Ultimately, she had a little girl mentality, played these mental games back and forth. Had to let her go. On to the next but this time with more wisdom. Appreciate you Rom.
I noticed some women are very shy around me where it can even come off as disinterest. They tend to ask me more personal stuff about how many bodies I have ect. I still smash but it can get a little annoying especially when I know they want me
I had a woman reject me after saying I’m handsome and I’m a nice looking guy. She had some baggage though. She’s like 37, divorced with 2 kids. She probably felt I deserved better and shouldn’t be settling for her. If that’s the case I agree with her..
I am 55 & back in the day I got rejected! Quite a few times! 6 foot tall 195 lbs.. Baby face! I got the smoke!!!! Some told I was to good looking!! And some said they need a ugly man!! They actually told me this!! 80s 90s but I still got mine! Gvb
Ahh the women who acts likes she's the shit but nervous and can't help being interested, when you try to build comfort and calm her down she takes it as weakness. Maybe she's deluded or maybe she's scared of being hurt, either way she can't let go and needs to always be in control. You can't lead a women like that, and she won't even enjoy sex because she is too busy being self-conscious worrying about what others think of her.
Delusions and women being scared because they know they aren't right in the head. Is the reason why a lot of women become single mothers by bad men. Assumptions are toxic. Seems the only way a woman can avoid putting bad karma on herself. Is to self reflect and become aware of her nature. If not no one will attend to her dilutions for long.
Yeah I've experienced that alot they go for the guy who they feel superior to. When I was younger i did get girls chase me alot then later women rejected me alot They don't like you if you have a critical mind and speak your truth either
It’s crazy how last week I’m just now understanding this and I’m 29. Mayne this shit real I’ve been told I’ve been handsome my whole life and never understood why I get left on read a lot and women just don’t be wanting shit to do with me. Lol.. I still get a lot of pussy it’s just I get turned down a lot too. Especially from the badd ones. They most definitely the most insecure
Love this video Rom! It’s so true and to add, some women will get a handsome man and purposely try to sabotage him. By trying to fatten him up, or is ok with him dressing down or homey! I had this woman before and she straight up told me that she was trying to fatten me up. Every time she went out, she’d come back with some cookies, cake, ice cream, etc! Because she knew I liked sweets and it was a weakness of mine. Lol, I had to let go. But I said all that to say you are absolutely correct on this topic!
I’ve been rejected plenty of times. I’m convinced that most western women today don’t know what they want. And even if they do, how would they even know when they encounter that man? These women today don’t even look. They’re so quick to dismiss a man as a “bum” or a “dusty” or any other judgmental, derogatory term that they use. I like to use the transportation analogy; many women will (ignorantly) assume that a man is broke if he’s on the bus or train. That man could actually be a millionaire that just prefers public transit, or he probably owns a car, but didn’t feel like driving that day. I’m so sick of these gold digging women. They don’t know a good man when they see one. Being handsome is only one of my good qualities. I’m also a man of great character that would never physically abuse a woman or cheat on her. Shallow women will realize their mistakes and regret their immaturity, but by that time it’ll be too late. All the good men will be taken.
I get called a player by people at work often, gym. I don't talk about my personal life, i dress nice, i love colognes. I'm over 6 feet around 200 pounds solid build, light blue eyes and European accent. When they call me a player i don't say anything that i'm or not. I just keep it pushing
i started laughing thinking about when this woman i lived with was on the other side of the bathroom door where i was grooming, putting colonge on getting ready for the day and she yelled at me to hurry up, that I was worse than a woman 🤣 and would often question where I was going looking nice. its true, they want to be the center of attention always.
You Have Too Accept The Way God Made You Get In The Gym 🏋🏽♂️ Focus On You Purpose ✅ Keep Yoo Eyes On the Prize & Stay On Yoo Grind Everything Else Will Come Later 🏆 💯
Its funny how they are turned on by men desired by other women but they will also try to make a man feel guilty about being handsome or successful. They will label men as arrogant or shallow. They try to make you shrink yourself to their comfort level. Examples: Will and jada. Also the heir to the throne in the coming to america sequel
Looking at the "ugly/sexy" list,I think I qualify 🤣. Women may admire a "handsome" man. All people admire beauty (regardless of gender). But most women I know find a guy that has "charisma" and a cool/calm demeanour sexy. The complaint is often that good looking guys have little else to offer outside of good looks.🤷🏿♂️. Statues are usually put in museums where they can be admired by all. Nobody wants to cuddle with a marble sculpture
I'm never dating an ugly guy again. They have been the craziest in trying to "keep me in line" so that I wouldn't stray. Uggos will cheat on you just the same and then you will feel extra stupid for giving him a chance and pouring into his confidence.
they think i’m gonna play them and don’t give me a chance for that reason, only way to actually get them is through sharing conversation IRL and showing them i’m more than just a handsome face
Summer 2020 I had a woman 13yrs my junior that I considered stunning (to me, a solid 8 w/o makeup. 5'2", 110lb Salvadoran Mestiza with a hourglass body and long silky black hair) tell me she was intimidated by me but she never would elaborate. We dated for bit and after one night she texted me about the next date and how "she had to look better for the next date because I had her f*cked up". Never did understand her intimidated or look better than her comment but I wonder if this is what she meant (again I thought she looked WAY better than me. Gorgeous. 8 w/o, 8.75 or even 9 with makeup; I consider myself about a 6) Unfortunately she was tew much so I cut her loose
Guys need to get over this looks thing…I’m an average looking guy and throughout my life very pretty girls have liked me because according to them I look like a man…so if woman understand that a man isn’t supposed to be pretty why won’t men🤦🏾♂️…Uncle Rom deciphered the code a long time ago…ITS IN THE BODY!!!🤦🏾♂️
@@RomWills and to add on Uncle Rom once I took your advice on body game I went from being handsome to those same women to sexy….by the way I’m not buff I’m naturally slender it’s just that now my muscles are more visible and defined and also I’m relatively stronger than them which turns them on even more🤷🏾♂️
Yes! As women I can say that men should look rough or presentable, but not be on that ‘model pretty-boy shit. ‘ Because it’s too feminine 😖 Men are not suppose to be prettier than us ladies! lol A man should not take longer than us to get ready, or constantly check himself out in the mirror. A man shouldn’t be taking selfies everyday like he’s in love with himself smh 🤦🏽♀️ We woman find men who do less with their appearance to be more attractive! So forget all the earrings, nose rings, excessive jewelry. We like men to be simple. Have a beard and dress decent. You don’t have to be a runway model lmfaooo Average- looking & ugly men are MoRE masculine in the face and it’s a major turn on 🗣🗣
nah bro, these chicks just dont know wtf they want. i compare it to broads who says she wants a huge d***, but cant handle it once she actually gets it
Haven't experienced a lot of rejection.I tend to get along with women.Most of my relationships were long term.Even side pieces.See it's all about friendship first then the sex.
Idk how I can across this video lol but since I’m here…I can confirm what you’re saying is true! I date down in Looks, because I want to be the more attractive one in the relationship. Lol Also because average-to- -ugly looking men, have developed a better personality because they didn’t have to depend on looks to get by in life! So they’re more interesting & more intellectual : ) They’re more willing to please you. So there’s nothing but benefits, with being with an average or ugly man. My Husband of 14 years is average-looking & this is the best relationship I have ever had 🥰 He’s extremely confident & hard working. I’m blessed to have him 💯
I heard C. Boogie talking about interacting today too. Honestly the it's the only way to get it. You , Cousin T. Tau , & C. boogie have excellent videos, but we have to get out there and put in the work.
Naturally us as humans are attracted to attractive people. So it makes sense that majority of people care about looks, although there is an exception to some rules. Us men want an attractive woman and attractive women want an attractive man. I only date women who find me attractive looks wise and personality wise. First I just make sure they view me as attractive looks wise based on choosing signals, how they interact with me, etc. You mentioned a great point. Generally women want a guy that’s attractive, even unattractive women typically prefer an attractive looking guy, but she does want to look better for sure 💯! Like I’ve seen 9 women with a guy who is a 8 or 7. If the woman is a 7 I had seen her with a 6 maybe, but sometimes I see the ones where they are about the same in looks. Of course there are the women who choose the unattractive guys and I was explaining this to several people, but there are also men who do the same with women, they’ll choose unattractive women for insecurity reasons and what not. But biologically looks do matter to BOTH men and women. Also what does each number on a rating scale mean? I personally hate the number scale and would rather use words or terms to describe someone’s looks. For me 1-10 goes like: 1-5. Unattractive in general (I don’t believe an average looking person exists, it’s either they’re attractive or they’re not) 6. Somewhat attractive. Like a woman I would say is kind of cute. She may have nice eyes or features that make her a little cute, but other parts of her physically could be better. She’s still dateable. That’s the lowest I’ll go for me pursuing a woman. 7. Attractive. A woman who is cute. Not fine or sexy, but still dateable. 8. A woman who is just pretty. She’s not a model. 9. She’s damn near on her way up to be a model. 10. The finest woman to exist. She is very attractive from head to toe. Beautiful face, a healthy body, never looks terrible even on her “ugly” days, etc.
I’ve been given the “ I’m not good enough for you” line by plenty of Women. It gets annoying sometimes because I don’t think I’m like this extremely good looking dude either. I’m just your average Joe.
The main reason she does that or any woman is because she's not ready. Being with handsome men period is hard work for a women. Because we have more options than them. It's not rocket science. 🙂
Nah this ain’t it.. we want an average looking guy because he’s more focused on family & kids.. his priorities are his loved ones & taking care of his family… not validation from outside influences and in turn this make him a better husband & father. Very good looking men are usually selfish with their time & use most of it too make themselves more desirable to the opposite sex in which case most woman looking to start a family avoid at all costs because we already know he’s not ready to settle down & he’s still enjoying the bachelor life.
This is just annoying to see. I'm fairly good looking guy who gets attention where ever I go, but I'm not searching for it or looking for the validation, it just comes. I want to have family and kids, but women so far that I've approached just don't believe me and then they try to make me jump hoops to prove it, which gets really tiresome. Especially when ya just want to find that good woman. Anything else just signals to me that she didn't take me seriously and I stop trying immediately.
