Advice for the whole comment section: If they won’t give you their time. They’re not worth it. You are worth so much, and I promise you, you will find someone who values you as much as you value them. This is why it’s worth it to not give up. Everything is going to be so good so soon if you keep moving forward. The worst thing you can do is give up on yourself. Love yourself more than anyone else because you are the main character in your life, and when you have no one, you will have yourself. You are worth learning to love.
i actually needed this. it feels no one gives a shit about me other than my bf and idk..just feels weird to have him as the only person who seems to genuinely give a shit about me. not even my "friends" check in.
The same happened to me too he told me that he needed me, that he thinks about me every day and I couldn’t even count how many times he told me that he loved me.. but after that look he left
Yeah I understand, I don't have an ex neither but i'm in a relationship and listening to this song makes me miss my bf like he doesn't like me anymore and i'm crying (like it's not real but I feel that way)
This is the perfect song for overthinking about how you are 26 in 4 days and don't have a career or anything meaningful in your life while other people you know and your exes have steady jobs, starting to move in together and having a family. Its like you're standing in some void and you cant move forward
Aren’t we all a bunch of sad and depressed teenagers with a good taste of music? :/ Edit: thanks for the likes and I randomly commented this and i didn’t mean to limit the age or anything as u guys said Depression has no age im so sorry if i ever offended anyone 💕💕
In case anyone wants to know, that is Atsuko. She's mourning the death of her son and drowning it in alcohol. The anime is Yu Yu Hakusho. She's the main character's single mom.
he looks so down today. i was about to come up to him to check him out when i realized that it wasn't my responsibility to do so and that he's waiting for someone else to do it. i was the one who stayed beside him but he never saw me.
You were a good person for being with him, you truly cared for him, it was his mistake if he didn’t see you there. Keep your head up, things will feel better soon. ❤️
I was sexually assaulted by two people I trusted more than anything; I was in love with one of them. He helped me get through the pain of the first assault and then proceeded to do the same thing to me months later. Still trying to heal 4 years later.
i'm so sorry that happened to you. that's messed up... i can't promise you things will get better, but i really hope they do. you deserve to heal and i hope you can. i love you and i'm always her to talk if you want to. 💕
That's horrible im so truly sorry. I know you will heal and I hope one day you'll be okay. You have all the right to keep hurting. Im so sorry and i wish i could give u a hug :( ily❤
I'm so sorry to hear you've gone through that. I went through an eerily similar thing 4 years ago as well. Healing requires time, and love, and acceptance. It's terribly hard, but eventually you will make it through, and you will heal. 🌻
Im sorry.. I cannot tell you to forget him because that would just make you miss him even more. But It takes time. I promise you that you will find someone that will love you so much.
If it really means so much to you, you HAVE to tell him, itl be a weight off of your chest and you wont have anything to regret later on, but dont expect him to say yes, just to acknowledge
@@memereview7415 but then again though, it would be putting a strain on him and conflicting him which could possibly put more pain on all parties involved. While I agree, such strong feelings sometimes should be said, sometimes you gotta let them go and let them be happy even if it isn't with you. It's a painful part of life but you will have your own happiness later. It really depends on the circumstances but if it were me, I wouldn't tell him and let him go to his new happiness. My time will come. (again it varies from circumstance though)
You should tell her how you feel! I told my crush and even though I didn't work out I have no regrets, it made me into a different person that I love even more
@@CamdenNotThePlace Hang in there, bud. I've been there, and it's rough to feel that way about yourself. But every day brings more moments to forgive ourselves for all the things we feel embarrassed and upset over about ourselves. I'm still going through the fight myself, so let's try and keep up the good work, yeah? I believe in you. :)
Same, and now I'm in a relationship with someone i really love and care, but i fucked up 2 times with him bc of my sense in self sabotage. I'm trying my best to not lost him, he's an angel and the love of my life i don't know if i can handle lose him 😭
Yeah I feel that. But if you feel like you self sabotaged it, it’s probably because they’re making you feel like you did. I felt that way until I realized my reasons were valid, but they threw the whole “I’m sorry but if you really feel that way then we shouldn’t be a thing anymore” kind of thing. We tend to overthink when somebody makes you feel that way when in reality it most likely isn’t your fault as to how things happen. People are just immature sometimes.
falling deep in love and she says “you deserve someone who can give you everything” although i’m looking into the eyes of “everything” i’ve always wanted.
I'm not depressed... I look at the world from a different point of view... I have supportive parents I love myself. Life isn't easy ya know.. and valuing other people's opinions used to be my first priority but now I don't care.. we only live once and worrying about some people just looking at you is bs but sadly we overthink.. even though I don't know what you go through its gonna be okay in the end I promise you.. even though Im not in your life, if you try your best in something.. and NOT give up it'll get better you'll feel peace once in your life just try
@@sarahjoseph8646 please don’t think about committing suicide or self harm. Never let bad things make you feel like you have a bad life. We all go through pain sometimes but it’s not called life if there’s no pain :) I’m happy that you feel better now, but if it ever happens again always remember that there will always be better days ahead.
I’m in a happy relationship nearly 2 years, but this song still makes me cry. This is either going to be the guy I’m going to marry or my biggest heartbreak and that scares me so much.
Omg I'm literally in the same situation!! I'm just so scared, we're still so young so will we be able to marry each other really?? Or will we break up?? I'm so anxious😔
Please, don't take that time for granted. I was in the same boat and in the end, it was heartbreak. Cherish the time you have together and love him like it's your last day together. That is my biggest regret.
I've been with my loved one for three and a half years and I'm also really scared, even though there's literally no sign of us spliting. we are each others firsts too. if the breakup ever comes the world will never be the same
This song is so well-written. It manages to be emotive, relaxing, and danceable, all at the same time. I love seeing guys like The 1975 come along and create pop music with actually meaningful lyricism and quality musical construction.
I wish I was more attractive looking to people, because thats what people go for, NEVER THE PERSONALITY, NEVER FAITHFULNESS OR LOYALTY OR WHAT BUT ATTRACTIVENESS
Sometimes, I don't like how I look either, and I happen to experience some symptoms of body dysmorphia. For instance, sometimes I don't like my skinny arms or, especially, my height of 5'5" for a guy like me. That said, someday, we will find someone who will not only find us attractive in some way, but also love us for the people we were meant to become.
I’m in love with someone who doesn’t feel the same or at least won’t communicate how he feels towards me and there I am giving him my all and not knowing if he is gonna reciprocate the same.
So I fell out of love with him and now I feel empowered it’s such a great feeling and y’all it does suck but damn does it feel to be able to love yourself the way you loved them ✨🤍
He left my heart years ago...but he still lingers in my head reminding me everyday that I will never find someone like him. I left him seven years ago. I broke him. I broke myself.
They way u looked at her and danced with her makes me feel that shes the one for u. those months that i saw u staring at me and walking pass by me by accident makes me feel im just a somebody else for u. damn its hard to forget u.
Finally met the person I relate to so deeply and when he confessed he liked me, he said he’s moving away for university so he wanted to be just friends. We haven’t talked in months :)
I know it sounds cliche but things happen for a reason. You never know how this interaction with this guy might turn out in the future. And even if he isn’t the one for you, plenty more will come and you will find someone, one day who is just as compatible with you, if not more. I know it hurts, but give it time. ❤️
SIKE nah thank you. It’s really hard for me to think of being compatible with other people, bc I feel like that’s so rare for me. But I think Im just subconsciously setting myself up for failure by thinking like that. I’ll try to be more open to possibilities. Thank you!
Hope M it’s such a rare thing to find someone who relates to you that deeply. i don’t think you want to lose that. even if you just stay friends, it’s good to keep in touch with him. a simple “hey, how you’ve been, long time no see” and maybe you can have a decent conversation. just some stupid advice from a stranger, but then again it’s your choice. do you really want to lose what you had?
This is how it sound like when you play it in your car radio while driving thru the city under raining night, breathing the cold air or put your headphone on, walking on the street of lamppost in city and sometimes you sitting on a iron bench looking to an reflection on any puddle infront of you.
i'm sorry for whatever you're going through. you're extremely strong do you hear me? you'll get better. things will get better okay? please keep moving forward !! :)
it’s very beautiful if you can still be like that for her this comment made me cry, let times flow always remember change is never a bad thing in the long run❤️
Please don't look back and say, "oh no they are breaking and need me". They don't Please for the love of God become healthy and move on my parents made that mistake and I found out why my mom didn't like my dad, they will always seem like the one But do know we our hearts can break but become stronger. Hope everyone that reads this is healthy and loves themselves
I’m scrolling through the comments and feel everyone’s pain. My life has been hell, but I have my good moments sometimes. If you don’t experience pain, then how will you know true happiness? They say the strongest people get the most challenged. Continue to be strong and continue to survive these challenges. If you give up, you won’t know what could happen in the future. It takes time and patience for things to get better. Remind yourself everyday that you’re worth it cause you are. Every one of you is beautiful and I’m so sorry for the pain and hurt that you go through in order to be happy. Just be patient and let things take it’s course. It’ll get better, maybe not now or anytime soon, but it will. I love you all.
jelle boerma You should tell her King you only live once and we both know you’ll regret it you don’t tell her how you truly feel about her and if she doesn’t feel the same don’t worry King you have your whole life to find your true Queen hope this helps
i remember her leaning close, all the moments we laughed, all the moments where i said to myself I'm so lucky. the way her eyes shined when i was around, the way she would hold me tight. all the times we were there for each other, in the good and in the bad. i craved her not for her body but for her, all that she was and all that she is. I. miss everything about her but sadly.....nothing last forever.
I wasn’t looking for anyone and all of a sudden this guy popped into my life and it was beautiful and then he started falling back and he found someone else. They’re making it official in a few days. He bought her a ring .
You can tell someone how you feel because you're hoping to get what you want/think they'll reciprocate, or you can tell them because it feels damn good to be authentic and speak your truth. Fuck the rest 🙏💚💜💙
she's prettier she's more curvy she trusted she's kind she's smart she's playfull she generous she everything im not... but I could never hate her... because.. she my sister
But youre also many things shes not. She doesnt have the amazing music taste you have for example ;) don't compare yourself to her its not fair. You're amazing in your own way. Start trying to love yourself a bit more :)
I can definitely recognize the envy of someone who seems better than you, and it's quite a complicated feeling to have, but I want to tell you that no-one is perfect, and this applies to all of us. Having our own flaws, like depression and anxiety, doesn't mean that we're bad people. While I believe that many people have gone through some dark times, including the majority of this comment section, I also believe that this is what makes them brave souls. Adversity is a horrible thing, but it can also have a positive impact on your character, and as such you can grow stronger from the experience. 😊
honestly, i love this comment section. it makes me feel like im not alone when it comes to other people. that im not the only one who doesnt feel enough or loved. just remember that i love you all even if i never met you, please eat and drink something. you guys are so brave and strong.
That’s okay, hopefully you’ll find someone better who won’t make you think of him. Most importantly ☝🏽, you don’t need nobody but yourself, remember that. But I understand the feeling of wanting something
Did you tell him you were in love? I am asking because it's amazing how many times people won't risk the pain of rejection. If you have ever truly loved someone the rest of the universe could crumble and fall away and as long as you were with them you'd be just fine with it. Also.. if a person is rude to you when they tell you they don't feel the same, they aren't worth the time anyways.
he obviously doesn't see how great you are, he's missing out. Wait tell the person that genuinely loves you for who you are to come around. I promise they'll be there on day.
Same for me, I can’t even explain it , maybe my conscience feels that being alone is better but I think it’s worst and it hurts me :( I even don’t feel comfortable with the few friends I have , sometimes I juste think that there’s something wrong with me. I feel what you’re saying so much and hope everything will be soon good for u !
I love the comment section when people try to support each other. Without judge, without bad word, without toxic motivation, just pure from heart to heart ☺️
i was always listening to this song after my first break-up. that was heartbreaking, but now i'm happily in a new relantionship. keep going guys, give your heart a second chance, you won't regret it, trust me.
Same, in April my gf at the time broke up with me and it took me months to get over her. Now, I finally am in a relationship with my crush and it's amazing
i swore that I didn’t want them anymore and maybe it was me being stupid again but when I realized how quickly you had moved on to a better healthier relationship, it just completely destroyed me
Not to be mean, but if they moved on to a better & healthier relationship, then that probably says something about you, if it is, then find that problem and make sure to fix it, take it from someone who’s had experiences just like this
Find the mistakes from this relationship, grow from it, learn. And give yourself time to heal, give yourself time to sort yourself look at what went wrong and where. I know you can improve, i believe in you❤️
@@catalinadog157 yeah, tbh i was in a pretty dark place and that made me think I wasn't 'relationship material' so I pushed the person away and everything literally went to hell, no worries tho, I got to learn and grow from the experience and your comment would've helped me a lot at the time
someone was really interested in me but at that time I never found any feelings and it was the wrong time for me so i shut it down. It sucks cause now i have feelings but they definitely don't feel the same way - "I don't want your body but I hate to think about you with somebody else" is my entire life now
I’m in love with my childhood friend and I know he’ll never see me the same way. For eight years now I’ve observed him from afar. Time and time again I’ve seen him falling in love and I know it’ll never be me. No matter how hard I try to forget about him, I just keep remembering. Even if I try looking for someone else, i always end up comparing them to him..
anyone else sad over people you never dated? ..i left without ever saying anything to my crush....literally felt magnetically attracted to him since he interviewed me last year, barely knew him really -- but his voice and gaze made me melt....i didn't want to cross professional boundaries and we worked in diff departments so avoiding him was easy...i left this january without saying a word because i always reject myself before others do ......(i don't know if i imagined hearing my name in his conversations with my managers who sat behind me and whether i imagined his gaze on me sometimes but i wish i hadn't left what i felt unspoken....)
It is better that way, some people are meant for only pit stop in our life. But your feelings are valid and you might learn something over your feelings for him. I hope you will find another guy and he will give you the same feelings you have for him ❤️
@@shaaadah4858 Thank you. I wouldn't feel bad if I had expressed interest and got rejected. The problem is that I don't KNOW if he WAS interested because I never gave made any move or gave him any opportunity. I failed to say anything the last week of work. I think rejection is better than regret. I really feel like he would have probably asked me out or asked for my number if I even bothered to talk to him the last week of work. Oh well.
I kissed mine and we never got to date cuz she supposedly said she didn’t have time for a relationship but soon after was dating someone..I’m not sure that was the reason.
Lyrics: So I heard you found somebody else And at first I thought it was a lie I took all my things that make sounds The rest I can do without I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else Come on baby This ain't the last time that I'll see your face Come on baby You said you'd find someone to take my place I just don't believe that you have got it in you 'cause We are just gonna keep 'doin' it' and everytime I start to believe in anything you're saying I'm reminded that I should be getting over it I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else I don't want your body, I don't want your body I don't want your body, I don't want your body I don't want your body, I don't want your body Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone Get someone you love? Get someone you need? Fuck that, get money I can't give you my soul 'cause we're never alone I don't want your body But I hate to think about you with somebody else Our love has gone cold You're intertwining your soul with somebody else I'm looking through you while you're looking through your phone And then leaving with somebody else No, I don't want your body But I'm picturing your body with somebody else
hi lovelies if you’re having a rough day just know that there’s always a brighter day ahead and if no one shows you love i will because you deserve to feel happy and i’m so sorry things are rough but please stick around i know it’s hard but it’s gonna be okay 🥺❤️
my ex gf gave me a promise ring while fallingforyou was playing at the concert. i haven’t listened to the 1975 in a while for a reason, idk why i did this to myself ffs
oh this comment broke my heart, i hope someday you can listen to the 1975 without feeling any pain..i still think of my ex girlfriend when i hear “the night we met”, but it doesn’t hurt anymore, i don’t think of her during the entire song, she’s just a little thought in the back of my mind, you might not be able to stop her from popping up in your mind but i promise it will stop hurting someday💗💗💗💗
he broke me. he emotionally drained me and manipulated me but the worse part is he called it love. he was my everything and now my biggest regret and heartbreak. but i cant hate him, i dont think i have the heart to. i just wish him the best and hope that he learns from the way he treated me.
To all the teenagers and kids here reading this, I want to just send a message of hope that you're worth it and the journey that you're on is worth it no matter how hopeless it may feel. I was 16 years old when the original version came out and was at one of the lowest points of my life, depressed and suicidal blasting this on repeat every single night because of the emptiness I felt in my heart, that I could never be the person that anyone would ever want to be with or think is worth it. I listened to this song all the time until I was 18 because it gave me a sense of warmth in all the cold I'd felt in where my heart was supposed to be, and as hopeless as I felt this song and a few others were my others to somehow help me never give up.. Now I'm 20 years old and I'm reading the hundreds of comments and see where I used to be in a lot of you and I want you to know that you're worth it. Every little thing that you do in the day to keep going forward even when you don't know what's going on or where you're going in life, you have to keep moving forward however you can because you don't want to ever die before you have a chance to accomplish any of your dreams. When I was 15/16 I was clinically depressed with horrible anxiety and ptsd from abuse and trauma I had lived through as a child, homeless with my brothers and mom living in between hotel rooms and friends houses sometimes. I had absolutely no idea where I was going with life and what to do because I had lost everything and only blamed myself and didn't understand why I had a hole in my chest and this feeling that would never go away, keeping me up at night crying and just asking why.. I kept moving forward until I was 18 and in my first semester of college I actually died, and it was the scariest experience of my God damn life. I got sick due to a reaction to nicotine inhalation and ended up dying during my first semester in college when I was at a time I thought life couldn't be worse. Then I came back to life and had to spend nearly a week in a hospital bed recovering and all I could do was think because I couldn't speak, and I was so scared bc nobody had knew at first and barely anyone came to see me bc I didn't really know anyone yet being my first semester and all I thought about was how I didn't want to die alone.. i just didn't want to die where nobody would remember me, nobody would have ever gotten to see what I wanted to be, I wanted to be somebody else and this song played in my head when I was in the hospital, by the time I had gotten out, I had made a promise to myself that even if I don't know anything about what I want to do in life, I'm going to do my best to figure out how to be happy because nothing scared me more than dying without knowing what it is to be happy and feel free.. The past two years have been an absolute journey for me as I learned how to come to terms with my past in learning to accept what I've been through, and my mistakes by realizing that we are all human.. aside from all of the horrible things in the world, all the different people, all the religions, and cultures.. we all just want to be happy inside.. I had a dream the night after I got out of the hospital that one day, I would be able to find a way to slowly begin making the whole world happy. This is my first time listening to this song slowed, and now I'm 20 years old and I just want to let you all know it's worth it as long as you keep moving and begin to allow yourself to heal by unfortunately having to feel and see the horrible things because life can get so scary.. but we don't have to be alone. We have each other and no matter what I want you to know that I love each and every one of you and believe in you when you say that you don't want to feel anymore, but I want you to understand that you are greater than the sum of what other people have done to you or kept away from you. You are not the cause of any violence, hate, or disrespect given to you simply because you want to be yourself and be free. I had PTSD from childhood as well as anxiety, and developed depression when I was 9 from how it made me feel. It took me 20 years, but I was able to find out what the meaning of happiness and I have some advice for those that have no direction and want to just feel better and try to be happy. No matter what happens, I let my mind be free to think about everything, and let nothing stop me mentally from getting higher and happier with my life. The mind can't heal and be free when you hold yourself back from thinking things even if you think you're not ready for them. It takes looking at everything honestly and finding out what it all means to you, so you can understand what your life has been, and dream about what it can be. Everything starts fading away once you open your mind to all the things in life, even your deepest horrors. It gets scary at first and I'll be real with you, accepting your past and everything you've been thru, wondering what it all means and what the cause was and how to grow from it but I promise, once you do start to accept it, everything starts to really awaken and get beautiful. And if you're wondering where I am after doing all of that, I'm about to move into my very first apartment all on my own, I have a job where I make decent money to be able to survive, I don't have a lover but I have realized how to be happy without one. Life is full of horrible, fucked up, twisted, disgusting, and unfair bullshit, but we cannot give up, because baby we're all we've got. And I'm typing all of this in hopes that maybe even a few people can read this and find hope. Because nobody on this planet deserves to feel as hopeless, lonely, and empty as I did to the point I even tried taking my life. But I will tell you one thing, everyone does deserve to find the happiness, love, courage, and freedom that I get to feel everyday now. We all want to be somebody else but what you don't know is that somebody else is already inside of you, because you're all that you need in this life. You can be who you want to be so long as you keep moving, keep fighting the pain, keep crying, keep taking moments in the bathroom alone, keep sitting in your room when you need to, but please. Allow yourself to think about how you can try and one day be free.. think about the person you want to be, the things you'd want to see, the things you want to create, and then as time goes on and you move forward, you'll slowly start feeling lighter, and you'll begin to find some trust in yourself that you can be someone amazing in your own eyes and that it doesn't take being someone else to be happy, all you have to do is find out who it is you truly are beneath all your layers and walls and it takes time. But I promise you, one day you'll all make it out of your own minds. Under all of my layers, I'm a man who wants to save the world from all the pain everyone feels because nobody deserves to feel that pain that was never theirs to have, so hopefully, this will be a beautiful start to a change in the world even as dark as it may seem now.. I love you, you're worth it, your emotions are valid, and you are beautiful at heart and mind. I hope this helped anyone 💗💗
I asked if this was going anywhere and he said, "I think I'm just using you, you're the only person who will just sit and talk with me all night". I never spoke to him again, but those words have echoed in my mind for 8 months.
There are 4 stages of getting over someone. 1: hurt and heartbreak. This stage is probably the most stressful knowing that this situation is a fresh wound and it still needs time to heal. 2: Overthinking/flooded thoughts. This stage tests your mental stability and really messes with your brain. You think of all the things that you could’ve been with that person. Personally, this is the hardest stage for me. It’s like a war inside your brain that makes you do things you never would normally do. 3: Memories and nostalgia. Now, you miss the feelings you had and you crave them. You still feel emotionally bruised and you almost forgot about the person, but you didn’t forget about the feelings you had. Now is the time that you might try to move on with someone else but in the end, nothing works out the way you want it. You just wanna forget about the person completely but feelings might still be there. The final stage (4) is accepting and moving on. This stage sometimes can last for a long time depending on how fast you are able to move on. This stage you most likely will try to focus on yourself and in general you will need self love and know your worth. You realize how badly the situation impacted you and you’re afraid to go through that again. Sooner or later, the right person will come into your life while you’re not even focused on it. When you learn to love yourself and not be so desperate to find someone, the right person will randomly come into your life without you expecting it.
I just miss the nights we would talk to each other for hours even some days going from 10pm to 5am i miss her but i don't want her back yet i do so much and its just wack man
My favorite thing about this type of videos is reading the comments and seeing how broken everyone is. We all have different reasons and backgrounds but then we feel the same emptiness and void that seems to never go away, until we feel that euphoric state. Everything seems so great and u want to hold onto it forever. Then some time after those lows you reflect on it and release it wasn’t that bad. Maybe you were just being dramatic and that’s supposed to make u feel better but it makes me feel dumb. To not know how to handle my emotions ,especially when it comes to another person. If it’s me, okay I get it sometimes I can be a pussy but at the end of the day that’s what life is, highs and lows. Learning from experience and realizing that we have less time in our hands each day. Well who knows we can die tomorrow or in 30 years and that’s a trashy move but for that same reason I decided to not give a fuck and do what I want. That was kinda long and ew feelings but you get me To whoever is reading this, I got you.
not crazy at all because kids these days are too retarded to understand that their life has just begun. disclaimer to everyone: dont do whatever you want bad fucking advice
@@heftymagic4814 yes I'll do whatever the fuck I want. You're mad cuz you probably made so many mistakes growing up, or probably didn't make any and regret it now because mistakes help you learn (not talking about killing someone obviously)
hey. all of you who are wondering why you have this “un fillable” void in your life.. it’s because Jesus is yet to fill that void. He will bring you happiness, pure joy, success, and He will be your definition of love. He never promised to take away the storm, but He did promise to be with you through it. Jesus is the only one who can fill that void. Sex, money, drugs, relationships, porn, social media, alcohol, partying will never be enough to fill that void. Only Jesus can.
if you ever need to talk i can give you my instagram and just know that theres so many people who are going through the same thing and you arent in this alone and it gets better. head up your crown is falling 👑 :)
It’s not that I’m afraid to be alone, I’m great at it, it’s just I’m afraid to let someone that close to me again, anyone else relate? thanks for the likes guys but i finally did it, i got a gf again and hopefully this goes better than the last
Im sorry that happened, you don’t deserve something like that to happen to you, no one does. You’ll push through the pain and the hurt, you’ll be ok. ❤️
How can being in a relationship sometimes feel so heartbreaking... he's good to me but not to himself and I hate to see it happen but it happens. We're almost three years in and I often relate more to the breakup songs than the love songs. I don't know if I'm terrible or if it is the situation
Recently, my boyfriend broke up with me on friday and this is the most heartbreaking weekend for me ever. Luckily, I have a friend named valarie who was keeping up with my shit and who is there for me. But what's sad about all of this is that he told me to promise him to never break up with him but he broke up with me instead cause he found another girl. and its so heartbreaking to see him with somebody else because I was literally planning on getting married to him and everything. I'm so used to waiting for his texts when he gets online and now its just nothing, and it breaks me. When he broke up with me though, he said I can always count on him and that hes my friend. I texted him a while ago like hey and how are you n stuff and he never replied so I just deleted it. Its gonna be a rollercoaster for me to get over him because I dont think i can find another person like him. I'm not telling any of my friends (but my friend valarie) about our breakup cause I told them we were gonna last forever, etc and its just embarassing. BTW this was a long distance relationship and he fell for a girl in his class.
I know it’s tough. Not in the same situation, but I can relate in some ways. Dated this girl for a while and was confident it was gonna last a long time. I was the happiest I had ever been. Then she ended things and it crushed me. It takes a long time to get over somebody you love. Trust me. I know, I’ve been there. If you ever need to talk to anybody. Let me know and I will listen
When your emotionally unavailable because of trauma and having to bottle everything up and force your self to smile everyday and your whole life you feel like your the only one who’s really gonna know what it feels like to feel a certain way but are so afraid of showing emotion because your afraid of the rejection it may lead to, and then you meet people that want to know what you went through but your scared that they leave like the past other did, or they just don’t care anymore so you shut everyone out and they move on and they’re happy with out you and u just think about what could have been if you just opened up
sometimes it's really hard to open up, and that's okay. it's something everyone eventually has to have the courage to do, but it can take time to be ready. just know that there are people in your life who love and care about you and if they truly do, showing them emotion won't lead to rejection. if anything those people will receive you with open arms and accept the way you feel, hopefully prepared to help you through it. you matter! i know opening up is scary but bottling things up will probably only cause you pain, i've done it. trust the people you care about, you are so strong. truly you are. you are so important and special and i know we don't know each other but that doesn't change the fact that you matter immensely. please never forget your worth
One of the most important people in my life was & is like this ☺️ we weren’t able to keep our relationship because of those reasons, worries, and issues. It hurts on my end... cause for example- I want to be there her... the one I love but who struggles... but I couldn’t & can’t always be. Thus that is also the reason behind why we no longer talk... But you know what my biggest dream is? Which may definitely never become reality- it’s... that one day she finds the strength to make & build relationships- and to feel secure enough to do so. Then....maybe, just maybe, I can be in her life again ☺️ but I remain certain that my never happen... so even if it can’t be... I’ll still wish her all the best for her life & keep our memories deep in my heart.
I’ve been best friends with this girl for well over a year now. During our friendship I started dating and fell in love with a different girl. During that time I pushed my friend away because she warned me about who I was dating. She was right and the girl I was dating broke my heart. But my friend was there the next day to make sure I wasn’t alone. I watched her deal with heartbreak too and was there the same way. We’ve always kinda loosely mentioned feelings here and there along the way but never anything serious. Overtime we’ve grown insanely close and my feelings have grown stronger. She’s my best friend in the world and I’m crazy about her. I’m leaving for the Marines in a week and I just wanna tell her how I feel. Everyone says she feels the same but I don’t know. I’m normally real confident with women but she just leaves me speechless everytime. Fuck
most times i listen to this song, i’m sad, it’s 3am and i’m crying myself to sleep again but today, it’s 12:21pm and this makes me happy, i’m vibing but i’m sad, maybe i’m getting better? finally getting better.
I saw everyone else doing this and I absolutely never comment on anything but she took her own life last year and I still miss her with everything I have. We had a daughter that we lost and things were never the same for either of us, I still wish she would’ve found somebody else who could’ve been stronger for her
I’m so sorry for your loss, I know you might not believe me when I say this but things will get better for you, I promise you that you’ll manage to find happiness somewhere in this dark world. Keep your head up or your crown might fall ❤️👑
I'm so sorry to hear this, I know it gets so hard it's almost unbearable but I swear a new sun will shine for you. I hope it all gets better soon, keep your head up champ
I’m sorry but also it’s not your fault and I bet you were strong and did your best. What happened is really sad and I can’t begin to understand the pain but I don’t want to place blame on yourself or think if you were better you could’ve stopped it.
I used to have a HUGE crush on my bestfriend and we hung out so much that I ended up growing a STRONG one sided emotional codependency on him. I don't anymore but this song definitely takes me back to when I would cry every night listening to sad music trying to drown out my unrealistic dreams of being with him forever. We've drifted a lot in the past couple of months and I miss him a lot.
First time listening to The 1975 since everything. We used to blast them all the time, and I wasn't able to listen to them without going to that dark place. Something about this song just kind of puts it all on perspective. I miss them a lot some days. But I'm just glad I'm able to listen to The 1975 again.
