My word is that once you've deeply gone through yourself you'll understand that the only person you need to bother yourself about is actually YOURSELF. You can care about your partner, be attentive to them but the focus must be entirely on you. We often fail to love people, because we often don't know what it truly means to love ourselves. Self-love is the real foundation. This helps you to truly know and understand who you need to build a relationship, when to bekezela and when to leave or break away from the relationship. Once you what self love is, awubekezeli noma yini and you become courageous about your choices. Yes, the psychological state plays a huge role in what we choose to do, even beyond relationships. The healing process is like walking through hell because there are some dark parts about you that you need to fully embrace.
So does this mean that people will always break up and they'll go for another person that fits in to their current "vibration"🤔 because we all adjust, learn, change and grow everyday?
Sheesh there is soooo much truth to this! And it’s triggering too because our partners are a mirror to what is going on internally with us. Anyway, the one I have now, ukumyeka, cha!
Man gets attractive as they get older the 39 yr old trevor noah is much more Handsome than the 25 yr old trevor noah......Goes WITH ALL MAN.. Even Lorch Before he joined pirates
