I feel like the ones that are bashing you or the ones that are 12, 13 and 14. There's no way that there's grown adults out there that are saying this shit about you.
Truly can't believe Coleens STILL getting away with this ish! She needs stopped, Adam u are so strong, lost my fiance to the way she made you feel when it was all happening! Proud of u buddy 👏🙏😘💪
She most likely has legal advice now telling her not to at the moment. And even when or if she ever does, she'll play her usual innocent me routine and she'll go overboard trying to sound like she would NEVER do anything to harm kids blah blah blah.
For everyone telling Adam to take a break-- he never asked for this to be leaked or told by Kodee. He's doing great for handling this with zero preparation for being literally retraumatized online.
If anything - when you’ve experienced trauma - getting support from others who went through the same - is part of what therapists often recommend via group therapy. This is prob helpful to all affected by the “weenies” group
Im mid 30s watching this. It sounds so freaking strange to hear 'we supported her during her divorce' and you all were 14-16. What in the world was Colleen thinking. She is/was emotionally stunted. Arrested development believing it was appropriate to talk to minors about very adult content.
She's extremely immature. She's not very bright either. She's a grown woman who makes vlogs crying and trying to get people to compliment her while she constantly says she hates her hair (this has been going on for years). She's on Tik Tok all the time as an adult still interacting with minors. Yeah she's got issues.
Same, mid 30s and enjoy Adam's content to stay up to date on things I've no time to keep up with. This whole thing is just baffling. Why would you surround yourself with children as a 30 year old?
I'm in my early 30's and I'm also shocked... even these college girls feel young to me.. but high school kids? middle school!? I couldn't even be in a chat with kids that young when I was in my late 20's.. why would I want to? it's so so so weird...
AMEN 🙌 I remember hearing about this group chat back around 2016/2017, Im only slightly younger than Colleen and thought it was absolutely bizarre even at that time.
For me, it's Colleen's blue-check friends on her socials reprimanding her fans for daring to ask for a response, and gaslighting people for commenting under posts of her & her child... saying stuff like "there's no valid reason to comment about a child" when no one is even talking about Colleen's child, but rather a child that Colleen wronged 😩
I literally have full on conversations with myself constantly. Would choose that any day over talking to a minor. I'm much better company for myself than a teenager lol (I'm 26)
a diary, hobbies, hell even her having a child of her own wasn’t enough to curb her predatory behavior. so it’s not a mistake. she’s deranged and sick in the head like any other p*do. she will need professional, legal, and medical interventions to ensure she doesn’t harm others
I've noticed quite a few well-known content creators (especially the og ones like Colleen), exhibit textbook bully behavior you'd see back in school... except it's like on steroids. With the rise of yt and social media, it's like all the 'mean girls' (and guys) were suddenly given a ton of money, fame, and power to abuse as they liked. A lot of the stuff Colleen did to Adam - treating him like a doormat, the guilt-tripping messages, using other ppl to take him down... like, these are all very familiar tactics to ppl who experienced bullying as a kid or teen.
hey adam, i’ve held back on commenting because i’m 31 years old and i haven’t wanted to make you feel uncomfortable. but after seeing your last video and then now seeing you use your platform to once again amplify the voices of even more victims, i’ve gotta speak up: i’m so fucking proud of you. you are a FORCE that *will* be reckoned with; just think back to colleen shaking on stage clinging to that mic for dear life. you are so brave and so strong and i truly, truly hope you are taking damn good care of yourself through all of this because reliving trauma is harder than any words can describe. keep fighting the fight, but know that a *big* part of that fight is looking after yourself ♡ also, from the perspective of both a 31 year old and a parent of an 11 year old child, i am disgusted, i am appalled, i am furious, i am sickened by what this woman, these people really, have done to you and the other children whose formative years they decided were theirs for the taking for their own selfish, despicable reasons without a second’s hesitation or a shred of remorse. colleen ballinger needs to *completely* lose her platform, and that’s not something i say lightly. you don’t get to groom children and remain an influencer. absolutely not. once again, i’m so proud of you adam. i’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. you deserved exactly none of it ♡ (idk how donos work on yt comments, i hope they don’t take a huge percentage as ik $10 already isn’t much)
@@jordann96x. Someone traumatizing minors IS a big deal. Be glad people are speaking up. Don’t tell someone supporting a traumatized victim to “ get a grip”. Protect kids
Every other adult involved in this situation has completely failed to act maturely, and yet here Adam is, fresh outta his teens and into his twenties using his platform to introduce other victims. He has handled this with so much grace, even as other people continue to let him down. Adam has created such a safe haven for other victims and those who have been taken advantage of. It warms my heart and I’m shocked that he still has managed to create such a unique safe space out of such a hard experience
I agree, they way Adam acts and presents himself while going through what he is and having to re-live years of his life and being way more mature about it then the actual adults in the situation speaks volumes. Just look at Colleen’s video response singing and playing a ukulele, very childish behaviour in the middle of something so serious.
When I was 16 years old at my first job, one of my managers who was 29 at the time, would talk to us about her sex life, her abundance of sexual partners in detail, and she would even show the minor boys photos of her on a strippers pole with barely any clothes on. She also trauma dumped on us about the abuse from her ex husband who was her baby daddy and his new wife. No one really thought of it as weird because we all considered her a friend, even though she was legitimately our manager and superior in a work environment. We were so young we didn’t know how disgusting it was. She even invited all of us minors to a Halloween party at her house and provided alcohol and had some of the minor boys sleep over. My other coworker reported her to the higher ups when she realized how weird it was and nothing was ever done. She ended up getting pregnant by one of my coworkers who was of legal age at the time, but was significantly younger than her. This type of behavior needs to be stopped. Children and teens get taken advantage of all of the time unknowingly. And then when you reach a certain age, you look back and realize how inappropriate it was and by then it’s usually too late. Good for you Adam, on sharing your story and helping other kids to avoid this type of behavior from grown adults because it is wrong and it needs to stop.
This… is absolutely disgusting. But it was not any of your guys fault. That behavior is unacceptable from someone her age and sadly there are many many stories like this. My sisters got her first job around the same age and the manager (male 35+) would talk about shit like that too and invite them places and when they would decline ( because they literally got school the next morning like helloooo? They are children!) he was suddenly like out to get them… because they didn’t hangout with him?? Reported multiple times and nothing. Disgusting.
hi, i am so sorry this happened to you and your feelings are 100% valid and i hope you’re doing okay, genuinely. however, trauma dumping under adam’s video may come off as a little insensitive especially w it being of the things colleen was doing to him and they discussed it in the video. i’m not trying to be rude whatsoever and i’m sorry if i come off that way. i hope you’re doing good with all you went through. you’re strong. never forget that.
It baffles me how a lot of “adults” over Twitter defend Colleen and her actions while telling Adam that he needs to get offline. He is 20, was revictimized and retraumatized, and has probably had no time to organize his thoughts while dealing with anxiety. It is hard to go against someone who has been a powerhouse in the RU-vid community for longer than a decade and y’all should really be defending him.
Tampon boxes have directions, most companies have how to on their website, period tracker apps have info articles, there are a ton of web pages and dedicated spaces that can teach women and girls everything they'd want to know from puberty to menopause. Colleen could have referred that girl to any of those spaces or her doctor. Instead she sent her a video of her eating a tampon and asked a group of kids to go do the same. She needs help and shouldn't be around children. Something happened to her and her siblings. They were raised with a very unhealthy and dangerous mindset.
I’m 32 and this is extremely disturbing. If I knew one of my peers were engaging in this type of behavior🤦♀️ Call CPS, call the Cops, call the FBI and possibly the morgue 💀. It’s gross 🤢 🤮
Honestly they were talking over each other so much and not making sense half the time…but I’m glad they were at least able to validate Adam’s story 🤷🏼♀️
I feel like no one is stating the obvious… She is SO juvenile, she literally related more with 15 yr olds than people her own age. Without privilege to the background of this bizarre relationship history she had with her fans, I have always thought she acted like a spoiled bratty immature child. It is more than inappropriate. She needs to be held accountable.
@@maridgx I was cracking upppppp like time and place ladies 😂😂 they couldn’t have hit it before going live ? 😂 I’ll give them the benefit of doubt and say they just needed that courage to speak freely Lolol
This was the most shocking video to me so far. Just to hear those girls validate you and to realize the extent of the conversations and how she clearly has no concept of boundaries! So crazy! You were all so young and then the girls got kicked out when they were of age!!! I don’t think that’s a coincidence at all. Colleen clearly has a 14 year olds mind and sense of humor and for some reason needs to feel cool with that age group despite her age.
Adam, it is crazy to see how you have grown in your mindset over this past week. You’re literally there to give others support and validate their experiences. Good job mate
I’m wondering if Colleen has a new weenies group that she chats with and also uses? It would be interesting to know since she’s still living the same life and who her new group of minions are.
I don’t think she has a new weenies group but i think she stills talks to teenagers that are blinded & groomed by her that she “trusts” that were in that group, i don’t think she can’t get away from that weird & disgusting dynamic she has with her fans, she needs to vent to those who are her yes people even though she doesn’t know them but she sure thinks they’re her “friends”
She most definitely has something similar if not the same thing. No way she doesn’t still communicate w the fans or they wouldn’t dive behind her so hard
you know this is really helping me recontextualize a relationship i had with someone older than me around the same ages as you guys were. thank you for talking about it. i doubt id have reconsidered those memories without this chat.
People telling Adam to take a break…apparently you’ve never been groomed, and mistreated by a narcissist this way. You’re lucky. Take the win and shut up. When you finally get the chance to tell your truth, and to realize that you weren’t the crazy one, but instead the victim is something to celebrate.😂 keep going Adam. Until you feel better about all of this. I see you, I believe you and also believe this is fked up and wrong to do to a child when the “victor “ is a grown ass adult/ she’s a complete loser, and pedo. I have zero respect for that, or anyone who harms an innocent child in any way. Especially in a sexual manner like she has. Support a predator if you want to but it sounds like bull Shit today.?
However has he changed his mind about Daniel E Carroll. Since the people going after Adam now were saying the same things he said about Danny boy wanting his truth put out there a month ago.
I'm not saying Joshua's perfect. But I know that hes a recovering alcoholic. So he's probably going through this twelve step program and Taking responsibility and apologizing for the things he's done. He was so sweet to her and so in love with her. I think she made up all the abuse Stories just so it would give her an excuse because she was feeling Like she might get caught for fooling around on him with eric.
She groomed them.. she made them feel important by sending them things before anyone else knew. So she knew she had them under her control and she vented to them while manipulating them in doing so. It’s not about being stupid enough to tell underage fans details that could come out as drama, it’s about a grown adult grooming children thru many different ways and utilizing their emotions and feelings against them.
I feel Becca reached out to me in 2018, when Colleen turned on me. Only two weenies treated me like a human being. Adam and Becca. Thank you to both of you. ❤❤❤
I hope all of you consider pressing charges against her. Something really needs to be done because she's not sorry which means she may even still be continuing her behavior
This is so weird!! Even now you can feel how young these girls are (Adam you always come across as older than you are) and it was still years ago that she was engaging!!!
The one thing that bothers me here is - how does she have a time for all this? I mean... she was married, she has a child, she obviously has to work, then she sometimes comunicates with friends and family...how on earth does she have time and mental capacity to have multiple group chats and than also communicate separately with all those kids....what the actual fuck? is she crazy? i'm in my 30s and group chats are my nightmare and my phone is always on silent. no way in hell i'm typing all day.. I need my space. Anyways... take care Adam
@@BhavyaGala395 dude, I'm single and without a kid and no way in hell would I talk to kids in that way 😂😂😂 or get into some crazy shit like that... Haters back off? Lmao what? She needs to chill.
Feel like a key word w this story is *enmeshment. The Ballinger siblings seem to have no concept of boundaries - which makes me wonder about how the parents raised them.
Am I the only one noticing the amount of these people that said they stopped being a part of the group right as they are becoming adults? Whether it was because of them leaving or getting kicked out. Makes you wonder how strange the chat was to get suddenly boring when you grow up.
Can we just take a moment and admire how strong Adam is. If something like that happen to me, I would not be brave like Adam and would probably keep it to myself. I wish good luck to Adam ❤
You dealt with a narcissist for many years. My mentor was a narcissist and had me trauma bonded to her for over 7 years. It broke me in every way imaginable. You are in the right to be exposing her. These sick individuals will never take accountability. Remember, it is a mental disorder. They are incapable of empathy and live to feed off of others. You will be so much stronger in the long run for this, and you will have better boundaries because of this. Im sorry you had to experience this. You are not alone. Us who have also been victims of narcissistic abuse see you.
I honestly just went down the rabbit hole of your videos, first I’m so sorry what you’ve been through, secondly I really hope you get a true apology not a bs one like her last video “addressing” it with bs. I’m in my 30s but can’t imagine anyone doing this to my daughter. I heard about this then but honestly kinda forgot about it like a lot of others, then saw you on dad challenge podcast, then went to all your videos and truly am sorry Adam! We are behind you!❤ It’s sad the people that think you are doing this for “attention” when they clearly are ignorant and don’t know you didn’t even re start this. Sorry but kodee pisses me off. Anyway again we stand with you Adam!❤ can’t wait to see when/how she addresses this honesty 🤔
I had a friend that spoke to her too, I always had an ick feeling…she knew Flynn’s name before it was announced. Colleen is crossing the line! (I say crossing because I don’t doubt she doesn’t have a new chat going on) There’s no way she can cover this up. I’ll send you all some reiki 💗🙏
@@bobbiedaniel9347 I literally said if someone knows a babies name before it’s announced isn’t creepy vibes …. Everything else she did is creepy vibes 😒😒😒😒😒🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@nzarzecki Ok so not just me who noticed. I get really thrown off by hectic energy, so the whole time I was just trying to be as understanding as Adam was being lol
So many people don’t realize how life changing a lot of this info is. Everything he shares are personal revelations he has had about the situation. During his most tender and formative years he was groomed and used and stringed along by one of his idols, as well as conspired against. When I was 15 I was obsessed with Green Day, if the band members did this to me I wouldn’t have handled this quite as well as Adam is-AND so publicly.
for real, when i was 17 i LOVED a very small local musician (will wood for any fans out there lol, back in 2017) and i reached out to him on insta, and even commented on one of his videos asking him out to prom. he said something like "no lmao" and looking back im sooooo grateful it wasn't someone else bc i could have been manipulated so easily.
I’m in my mid 30’s and have a teen, I look at her friends like total babies and I could never imagine talking to them about anything remotely adult unless it’s from an educational standpoint and EVEN THEN I would not speak to anyone’s child other than my own about anything like that anyway because that’s overstepping boundaries!!!! and her discussions topics!? Fave positions? Send me pics? No I’m sorry.. She’s got no excuses 🤢
I completely agree with you! I'm 40 and my kids are 19, 15 and 8. I would be horrified if this happened to any of them and I couldn't imagine being in a group with a bunch of them. How can you have anything in common with teens? Like it makes no sense to me especially someone of her age unless they're a predator. That's literally the only reason an adult would engage in this kind of behavior with a bunch of teens they don't know or have any connection to.
People who dont see the problem with the situation are in denial. If you remove the names and identies of the involved parties, the concept of this all is still so foul. Karma will come. Adults who are platonic friends with MINORS are such a huge red flag. There are reasons for everything but no excuses
Holy. All of this is so enlightening… always felt a weird vibe with Colleen but liked watching all her vlogs. She deserves all the negative energy coming her way all of this is just messed upppp. Talking like this to CHILDREN… and being obsessed w her ex… and talking about her DIVORCE with CHILDREN. I never knew any of this. Jesus. She’s mad weird and I ALWAYS had a weird erky gross fn feeling about Cory… weird and nasty person. Both of them are. Glad you’re all using ur voice and telling ur story. Hope you all heal from this. 😳
She will probably place all blame on past trauma and not take ANY genuine accountability. It’ll be like how she spoke fast when ‘apologizing’ for the latina girl skit
@@Raya-ir4tm Another latina here and I agree with you. The whole time I was just cringing because it just wasn't a good skit. An actual comedian could take that same skit format and make it actually funny. She's just not funny and the accent was bad.
I cringe at even the thought of sharing all of my traumas with a bunch of kids in a group chat.. the fact that a well known famous person would do that and not even think twice about it just blows my mind. that’s actually so weird?? 😭
That tampon video from Colleen actually blew me away...cause of the demeanor...it's like another Colleen..she seems so prude and acts like sexx is not to be talked about or in her podcast she acts sheltered at times....but clearly from all the stuff she said on the group chat is very open minded and of no consequence ..like she isn't addressing children or young teens. It's bizarre. This has changed my mind on a lot. I feel so betrayed assuming she was a good authentic person. This is hard cause I really looked up to her for a few years.
I've been watching the clips of her Miranda and older content and it's so disturbing how many sexual/body related conversations she has with younger people on video.
This whole situation is so frightening. What’s more frightening is people excuse it because it’s in the “past”- if this is a habit, it’s happening “now” as well in some way.
I've been following everything that has been going on with this Colleen situation and I just want to say, you have been handling everything so well. I also still am disgusted that Colleen went to you and others when you were all children about topics that were not appropriate to speak to minors about at all. I am 27 and could never imagine going to anyone underage about adult issues like divorce and intimacy.
shoutout to these girls, ik it must’ve been difficult for them as non-youtubers to appear live and even more difficult to do it while talking about past trauma
You guys are still soooo young, I’m 26 and it’s odd to hear you guys know much about a older woman’s divorce! All that random stuff about their relationship burned into your brains tf much love!! You’re so strong for speaking up
ummm if she didnt want DMs with kids exposed , then dont DM kids ? they will surely screenshot everything ? like colleen did this to herself. he's not exposing, she simply has 0 judgement. if u wanna risk talking to kids, then your messages will end up leaked 100%. so just dont befriend kids when ur 30. its crazy how adam is always being blamed for her actions
you are handling this WHOLE situation w grace and understanding. the way that you not only share your experiences but also allow other people to have theirs as well shows maturity and respect. you have dealt w so much these past few weeks that not many people could handle. i’m so grateful that youre using your voice to help not only yourself but others to take down people who are using children. the behavior from the other adults is disgusting, disturbing, and appalling. you are using your platform to spread the word and allow others to process their trauma as well. it’s amazing how you let them have their voice and don’t make it all about you (like some other people have). you deserve all of the justice and good vibes your way. we’re on your side!!!
If you’re someone about to tell Adam to talk about something else; please remember that he got pushed down and mistreated for years after this all ensued and that whole time NO ONE BELIEVED HIM. That’s emotionally and psychologically devastating and he deserves to gather information and understand HOW he and others were mistreated. Please consider this before you start to write something; the words you say are directed at someone- a real person with a real life and family and community.
I’m in my 30:s and I just need to say I would NEVER engage with kids that way! Also, how brave are you Adam, I’m so proud of you! You’re so well spoken, wonderful and I’m sorry you were done so dirty ❤ I’ve followed you for a long time and usually don’t comment, but I felt I just had to! ❤
Today I was in Jaclyn Glenn's Live/Premier and I asked her to make a video about Colleen. Majority of the chatters were aware of the situation and supported you. 💙🦉✨️
I was on the twitter live, wild to hear everything. Im just glad you can get your truth out there at the very least even if nothing comes of it you got it out there. Sucks that this happened because of Kodee but proud how youre handling it.
ok no sending pics of breastfeeding and sending photos of her husband w those captions and stuff like that are just?? i'm 16 and that's legit so creepy i know it never got sxual but literally adam when you talk abt them and then your story abt dublin and abt how much she mentioned her hotel it LITERALLY scares me to think that they very much wanted to escalate it to physical stuff but it didn't get to happen i wouldnt be suprised if other ppl come forward and it actually DID escalate to that level i'm happy you weenies got OUT but so scary to think that there are tons of fans who HAVENT!!!!!
and now the mention of getting the girls to babysit!! like??? i watch too much true crime to think that it's NEVER just "uwu babysit for us!!" which is a MASSIVE line to cross for underaged fans but no STOPP this is setting up you guys to get physically SA'd and like trafficked??? omg edit: omg the tampon thing STOP IT
@@sozi6451 same and now i find out colleens brother was ALSO dming fans and telling them they cant tell anyone abt their convos??? Like how deep does the Miranda Grooms rabbithole go omg i'm so angry by this
sending breastfeeding pictures to kids is really strange to me, Theres nothing inappropriate about breastfeeding obviously but I don’t think she should be sending pics of it on Snapchat to kids…. That really shocked me
@@RiniDiamandis it’s just so hard to see all this go down. i was a huge huge fan of miranda/colleen when i was a kid, she was a major comfort in my life. to look back and really realize what she was exposing us young kids to every video, and how she’d normalize things and make them seem not serious, and just make jokes on being molested/ very sexual jokes. it’s awful. to know that she’s been acting this out towards these minors that were her fans. she needs to be investigated and sentenced for this. just like shane dawson, james charles, and every single influencer who does the same things. it’s devastating how nobody takes something this bad, serious, just because they’re youtube personalities
Don't worry about making "too much videos" Adam! This is youtube and it's 2023, people here love long content and appreciate your hard work. The more people make a video about situations like this, the more people will be able to share their experience or even realize that they were used and abused by adults in their lives. We shouldn't let people normalize this disgusting behaviour.
honestly props to the girls like they are high as hellll and are talking about a traumatic event which can make someone feel extremely vulnerable so props to them
I think she chose to ask for advice/dump on children because they don’t know anything about marriage/divorce. They’re going to automatically believe and take side with her because they literally don’t know better. If she talked to an adult they would call her out for playing victim & make her face reality.
She seems to crave validation and can't function unless she has a pool of people ready to make her feel good. It's completely inappropriate and it makes me wonder about her and her brother's upbringing - between this and the obvious body issues, I think their parents probably lacked boundaries and never praised them, only criticized. Hoping the best for their kids.
all the things she did to you and all these other kids is just so sickening to hear. keep your head held high adam we are all here to support you and hear you story since it wasn’t hear 3 years ago 🤍.
I think it's really important that you and the other people speaking out are showing that there are all kind of innaproriate relationships that adults can have with teens. She should have been a mentor and big sister like friend for you guys. She especially shouldn't be wanting the kids to console and be unloaded on. edit: I don't know what you think, Adam, but it feels like she was using you guys to feel "young" and get attention. She knew she would feel cool amongst teens and acted in ways you should only act with adults (if you are grown).
So disgusting. A 30 something year old woman talking to LITERAL CHILDREN about her soon to be ex’ husband’s penis size?! If this was reversed and Josh was talking to CHILDREN about his ex wife’s vagina/ breast he would be in JAIL
Proud of u! This isn't easy and it's hard to realize how someone has manipulated you as a teenager. I fell for Colleen's family-friendly nature and vlogs especially. It's crazy how many people she fooled.
Please dont listen to the people bringing you down. Colleen would absolutely love it if you stopped making videos, shes hoping it would all blow over i bet. Youre STILL very young, i cant even imagine how much you had to go through when you were younger, its so vile how they made C out to be a victim at her big age when she should have known better. Adam youre so loved and supported by so many people and youre also helping those of us who were preyed on, to realize how predatory some adults were when we were younger because not everyone knows what happened to them was grooming/abuse.
Sending you so much love and hugs during this horrible time! We're all here for you and are proud of you for standing up and being so vulnerable and honest. I wish you wouldn't feel at fault for anything because non of this was your fault! ❤
I want o start by saying, I love what you are doing....this all needs to be said because too many people bring teens into serious situations that truly have nothing to do with them and way to "adult" to look for validation from such young people. But....I love listening to you talk. Lol. Hearing you say "yous" while talking to them tells me us Texans aren't the only ones with a "yall" word. Lol. Love it.
Well done, congratulations and most importantly, thankyou❤️ you’re not only helping other people going through it with her, and other influencers, but even just “normal” people, how an older person can manipulate a younger one’s mind
I know this is silly, but I am so thankful to you! It's really inspiring to see your bravery and strength, how you are standing up for yourself against this groomer and predator! Because of you, today I used my voice and told the staff from my uni about the mistreatment of me and other students by a lecturer (he is a bully, gave us insane workload, disappeared for a month, changed the course structure midway, intimidated us during the final exam). I cried but I told everything and I thought of you ❤ I was the only one in class who dared to speak up first, but the staff is taking it seriously now. So thank you again for being so brave and strong!
I always believed you Adam and never understood the hate you got years ago the first time you told your story. ♥️💙 been a viewer since the beginning!! Allegedly.
I've held back to comment because I am 33. Colleen and the Miranda hype was something I saw start, grow and unfold into these situations and it's so heartbreaking. But I need to tell you like many others already have but; the way you carry this Adam is admirable and I am proud of you. I could never have handled this as you have at 20. Nontheless at 17. I am sorry Colleen, the Ballingers and Kory has done this to you and the others. No one has deserved this. It's gross to me how they've used , spoken and groomed to you. Can't even phantom. The comparance I have is that I mod for creators and where we're very strict on that people have to be 18 but also that creators WON'T interact with fans in this way simply because ; you're not their friend. Doesn't mean people can't support or that the creators aren't thankful for their fans but there's boundaries , CLEAR ones and we won't create para social relationships, it's so so so dangerous. It has happened to me too but with people my own age only just last year. And I felt like ABSOLUTE dogsh*t. So to imagine this happening to you all at these ages makes me furious. You're so strong in this and I will support you from the sidelines because I think this will be my one and only comment. Everyone stay safe out there, internet is a weird place. ( edited because my grammar is terrible as I am non native English speaker)
the disturbing part for me is Jessica being involved in such chats, because her kids are currently that age or about to be teenagers... like this could happen to your kids? but I'm pretty sure she keeps them pretty sheltered