Staying Together After Cheating | Couples Can Survive Infidelity

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@HappilyCommitted 4 года назад

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@percivalngidi5985 3 года назад

Hi I need your help, my wife cheated on me I am not sure if my wife is remorseful, but yet she says she wants to make our marriage work. In my mind I want to give it a second chance my heart still loves her. I caught her with the guy coming out from his house. I am so confused right now, I trusted my wife so much.

@pinoyako4001 3 года назад

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@miguelrebolledo6291 3 года назад

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@aswaldcastillo2446 3 года назад

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@andrewnyangau5329 3 года назад

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@davonte2498 Год назад

never thought I'd see myself searching this up yet again

@jayfword117 10 месяцев назад

Anyone that has cheated had multiple times when the thought that they shouldn’t be doing it popped into their head and they still did it. It’s not a single decision. It’s a constant string of not making the right decision.

@thegratitudeattitude67 Год назад

There's always observers shouting "you are worth more". And it's like "what if I love them? What if I don't want to start afresh?"

@ipassingthrough Год назад

Maybe stick around and find out

@gregfam6250 7 месяцев назад

A broken mirror put back together still has plenty of cracks. Anyone who consciously cheats on you, takes the necessary steps to hide it, book a hotel room, check in, and put on a condom knows every step of the way _exactly_ what they're doing. You can decide for yourself if that's someone you want to invest any more time and emotion 'healing ' with, or if it would better to spend the same resources healing yourself and finding the person who deserves your love and your loyalty.

@faithfaith3329 Год назад

Once broken can never be the same again

@kiokosalaam8059 2 года назад

Absolutely right. Only stay if you can fully consider the right reasons to. Including but not limited to them being accountable. I’m currently in a relationship where I have been cheated on in the beginning and he has since and still is 110% patient, understanding and accountable for what happened. He’s made changes for not just me but us. Going to therapy and healing from what made the person cheat is important too! Always remember cheating is most likely the reaction of someone that isn’t healed. It’s not your fault

@bobfrankfurt9449 Год назад

May I ask what kind of therapy he seeked? I am in a similar position... I betrayed the woman I love and I am in need of help... After watching some videos I do feel I am on the right path, I just need a bit more help and guidance. What kind of therapist should I be seeking? Any books that you could recommend perhaps? Thank you greatly in advance.

@ivoncabanas3216 Год назад

I recommend the 7 principles for making marriage work & seek a therapist that best connects with you. For me I needed a therapist that specialized in trauma and so did my partner. We are also doing couples therapy on top of doing individual therapy.

@gracehenegar8365 Год назад

thank you for posting this comment i really needed to see it, working through the same thing

@austinkelly9446 Год назад

I’m the one who cheated and I’ll live with it the rest of my life. I told her everything two days ago. Should I send her this video or would that be selfish of me.

@hectormanueco9339 Год назад

@@bobfrankfurt9449 any good tips?

@SarahJones-zq4eg Год назад

I guess this might be a successful reconciliation story. My parents have been married since 1996 but for the longest, I thought I had the ideal, perfect family. We're 3 daughters, me and my two twin sisters. Then last year I stumbled upon dad's old and dusty, abandoned private journal in the basement and I wished I had never read it. They cheated on each other. First mom gets caught in the act with dad's then best friend in his house, on his couch. The journal stated she was on top of his friend. Dad punches the hell out of his friend and calls her bad words. Obviously she gets dumped first but then they worked it out, mom buys him a new couch, helps in the moving out process, etc. Then by 2000 (they're married by then and I'm just 2 years old), dad cheats back in revenge but he confesses. They worked that out too; he was forgiven immediately..she went lenient on him...I'm going to assume it must be out of guilt and because she was forgiven, she couldn't be a hypocrite. No one knows (not even his nor her parents, not a single soul) about what happened except their counselors they went to at the time...then off course me who read the journal. My twin sisters are ignorant of this detail. I haven't told anyone I read his journal. If I had never read the journal, I wouldve never suspected of anything happening between them. It still shocked me reading those details.

@joehilton6951 2 года назад

My heart felt easier after watching this. I have no idea if I’ll go back to her but this made me feel like the world hasn’t stopped. It made me feel in control again

@user-ek4pw7uc2t 11 месяцев назад

Wait until it hits you again in few coming years memories don't fade

@richikakashyap6616 Год назад

He was the bestest boyfriend ever…He wasn't toxic he did everything to make me happy and loved me very much. That's what makes it 10 times worst..he was ả perfect green flag for me but what i did was so worst..i made mistakes several times in 3 years of our relationship…hể forgive me every time…but I always took advantage of his kindness😔..Even if we break up, I will not be able to accept that the boy is not in my life now…This regret and guilt is killing me.. I cheated on my boyfriend who was amazing as a partner.It's hard to let someone go that you perceived as your future.🙂..I apologized countless times and told him how I feel about him but. It wasn't enough and no matter how many times I say sorry..because it was not a small mistake though..I made a million mistakes and I threw away a loyal boy who always there for me no matter what situation was..That boy loved my parents more than me..he always tells me to fulfil my parents dream..he motivates me always ..but I know i am the worst girl ..He always gave his 100% in this relationship… At the moment I simply wish I'd just not cheated or taken my boy for granted.💔…

@ethanluedke3165 Год назад

What’s worst is that you didn’t trust them already and saw the warning signs and you were proving right. Gonna be a tough few months for me that’s for sure

@EsHaQ2024 10 месяцев назад

ONLY If both parties are willing to take accountability. When one person tries to rebuild the relationship, & the other one doesn't, then it's useless to stay together. Especially when children are involved, it's difficult to.

@amyj.4992 2 года назад

I've witnessed my partner be authentic, and honest before. I know she can earn my trust back. I have no doubt, however I want to see how much I mean to her and what she is willing to do to heal and unite with me. I want to be united with her, she had to go through her issues. I understand deeply. Deep down she is a wonderful person, and just got caught up in a bad crowd of people. We all go through it. I am ready to start a new chapter with her on the right foot together

@marvinmanalastas7093 5 месяцев назад

Curious, how have things gone?

@tatattaylor Год назад

Even though it wasn't physical, it still hurts me to my core. I was engaged and moved out. That was a year ago this month. He has apologized and working very hard to rebuild the trust. I'm still struggling to fully let go and move on. Some days I don't think about it and other days I just want to scream. I'm already a high anxiety person and trying to let go is very difficult. Now I feel like I'm going to war with myself. I just want to be able to forgive and move on with him. Trying to see if it's even worth it now?

@tatattaylor Год назад

**He said he wanted to make the relationship work. I had finally let go of what happened...but unfortunately, he met someone and decided to move on. He never told me until I found out he moved her into his home a month after meeting her. I have no regrets about trying to make the relationship work even with the aftermath.

@DD14396 Год назад

@@tatattaylor so sorry. How are you feeling? It's great that you don't feel any regret for trying. At least you know you did all you could and never have to look back and wonder. How did you manage to let go? I'm struggling to forget....

@tatattaylor Год назад

@DDD I remind myself that, I've already given so much of myself to someone and it didn't work. I accepted someone who lied constantly, cheated, and simply didn't consider my feelings. I will not give him any more of me. I changed my number and said enough. Plus, this world is filled with so many amazing people I can meet. I want to thrive now - not struggle to move on.

@ankdaggdag-hy3zf Год назад

Exactly going through the same thing

@savannahroberts1211 Год назад

I’m in the same boat 😕

@rachealnansubuga7318 4 года назад

Thks for this video. My heart it's really in pain after being cheated am trying my best to give back him my trust but it's really hard for me. Becoz I can't forget it

@nadiabegum1930 4 года назад

The level i understand you on is unreal. The saddest thing is times he blames me... or times he feels he doesn’t need to make anything better or make me feel safe. My heart is in pieces its been a year since he cheated and in that year he done more cheating with others flirting, calling women, and his forcing me to get married by next month or he will leave. But i still dnt trust him and he doesnt understand

@juliojr21 4 года назад

Nadia Begum dont marry that man.

@taminamurch341 4 года назад

He blames for his cheating.. It's been 14 years he hid everything.. Then he told me without any remorse or guilt.. He is still the same.. I am stuck because of kids and he is the only man in my life. I so lost.. He hates me.

@Lightskinlightning 4 года назад

You shouldn’t forget it by any means but if you choose to forgive do it after you get your self respect in line a lot of folks don’t give themselves the time to heal

@allisonroath2531 4 года назад

Racheal Nansubuga the hardest part is to not think about it

@_icognita_9961 Год назад

In my opinion, it depends on the overall quality of the relationship. And if the other person has shown signs that he can not change, AND ESPECIALLY if the experience traumatized you, DO NOT try just because others will tell you you didn't try for it or to show "modern". ON THE OTHER HAND if you still wanna try, if you feel like it can work and if the other person wants to make it up to you DO NOT BREAK UP because society tells you that you have to.

@standground7956 8 месяцев назад

Society shouldn’t tell you that you should dump a cheater. The cheater let you know that by cheating you. It’s laughing material to the cheater if you decide to forgive them and remain. You’re basically telling the cheater to do a better job hiding the cheating; they most certainly will.

@deadend5385 3 месяца назад

Just came here to see the comments of people who have gone through the same thing as me, being cheated on by my wife, 6 years together, 2 years and 4 months married, a 4 year old girl. Just found out yesterday that while she was staying at her mom’s because of a fight we had, she hooked up with someone. At first I wanted to get back at her, but now I don’t know what to do, is it even worth staying and get over it?

@mszgigi0518 Год назад

I can’t believe I had to search this smh. Married for 5 years & he betrayed me 🥺 he’s apologetic but he knows the trust won’t be there overnight. I’m still on the fence if I even want to stay with him anymore…

@j.s2507 2 года назад

I never heard him say he was sorry or take accountability. I guess that's my answer. Thank you for helping my heart to heal a little

@nathanjarrelle 2 года назад

Cheating isn’t a mistake, it’s a choice. A bad choice.

@aneatrice28 Год назад

mistake (n.) an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong

@viktorialoves1 Год назад

For 15 minutes pressure, ruining whatever was built as a deep, strong relationship. For 15 minutes pleasure, you destroy someone's life forever.... I am not the same person anymore and I won't be..... Simple as that, if you don't want to be with them better break up, then cheat.... The pain of the breaking up is way less than the pain and the mark left from the cheating

@jasmainjasmain2906 11 месяцев назад

Can’t have choices without one being a mistake.

@JLang-bn3hs 9 месяцев назад

It was no mistake and not an accident. It wasn’t an evil decision. It was a decision to do an evil thing. No consideration for the spouse. Intentionally inflicted wound. An international decision that could cause fatalities. Purely evil intent. These intentional decisions don’t come from someone in love with you. Do not try to”rebuild” because it never was and there is nothing to build on. The Bible even suggests divorce in the case of adultery. Hell no.

@standground7956 8 месяцев назад

@@jasmainjasmain2906 Cheating is a bad choice 100% of the time. It’s the one choice where you know it’s a bad choice every single time. Cheaters cheat because they don’t think it’s a mistake or a bad choice.

@fannyjacob8535 2 года назад

The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *Minslegend!.* .🙏🏼

@waffletoast6997 Год назад

I love her so much, I can’t bring myself to let go

@kishore-anand 9 месяцев назад

No strength to even watch this video to the end. Just can't stop crying .

@HappilyCommitted 8 месяцев назад

We're so sorry! We are here for you ❤️

@philiciaragsdale1296 2 года назад

Learning HOW TO forgive is the catch! It’s almost been a yr & i can’t forget the bad . Thanks for the video

@icewallowcome9168 Год назад

How did it go?

@hairdresser1300 Год назад

It's tearing me up

@Down_Triangle Год назад

Thank you for this. It's been a few months and sometimes I feel weak for not being able to fully let go of the pain that I went through. My partner has been very patient with me and takes full responsibility for what happened.

@hairdresser1300 Год назад

I've buried it for almost a yr. My anger has been seeping out here and there. This weekend I am a volcano of emotions.More sad than mad now. My partner too has taken responsibility but still says he doesn't understand how it happened. We have 30 yrs of marriage. I wish he never told me

@standground7956 8 месяцев назад

@@hairdresser1300 Why not divorce and move on remembering the great times you all shared. Even good things come to an end, cheater let you know the end has arrived by cheating on you. They’re too pathetic to break up so that’s their route. That said, why don’t you end the marriage. Isn’t it better to have a fiber of self respect and be single than to remain with a known cheater?

@ws8668 2 года назад

What if your other half doesn't admit to cheating but the evidence is just too strong?

@karynanne9322 2 года назад

Exactly.. Like they believe their own lies and will never admit to it. The proof was said to be someone else's not theirs so i go w/my intuition even after he took my self worth and destroyed me almost completly

@Random-rt5ec 10 месяцев назад

I stayed for the kids after catching my wife cheating & that was 17 years ago. Today I wish I left her because we never rebuilt the trust & without trust she has been nothing but a burden that I have to monitor 24/7. Her lover dumped her and I'm nothing but her 2nd choice, that is a tough pill to swallow.

@Ur2ez4me81 2 года назад

Don’t put yourself in predicaments where things like this can happen. I remember years back I cheated on this special woman who I did love at the time but made bad choices with getting drunk at a party & one thing lead to another. After the fact I felt so dirty inside & was immediately ashamed of myself. One of the hardest things if you have a conscious is that you can’t hide it from you’re lover & it hurts so badly that it gets to the point that you have to confess it. The hardest part is telling that person & crushing their heart. They are never the same after that & even though we have been together for 20 years it still hurts bc I love this person 😢 if I could take it all back I would it wasn’t worth it…

@JEJE-xl1wp 2 года назад

U are spot on

@3ggyt0ast 2 года назад

same here

@michelleroman2552 2 года назад

My bf cheated on me with his ex gf , and It’s been like four months. He says he regrets it but it’s so hard to move on…

@Ur2ez4me81 2 года назад

@@michelleroman2552 I know it is

@michelleroman2552 2 года назад

@@Ur2ez4me81 reading your comment, and seeing him in your shoes, Idk what to do… how did your wife get over it?

@florenceepseatemanyangweaw8061 2 года назад

I feel that trust can never be earned again.

@Everydaylife360 2 года назад

So true

@jaylampa2621 Год назад

I'm praying that we can get back together. I know we both suffering. Hopefully, one day I can go back here and comment that we were both together again.

@bobfrankfurt9449 Год назад

Best of luck to you both.

@icewallowcome9168 Год назад

How did it turn out?

@kaeliguerrero9406 Год назад

Please let us know how it went

@bryxonevano7318 9 месяцев назад

Any update bro?

@auroraborealis4320 2 года назад

What about self respect? We are strong now but I am so hurt, I feel robbed, deceived, humiliated, taken for granted, disrespected by both him and myself it’s really hard to stay I want to but because I can’t help but feel these emotions sometimes and I feel bad because he feels shit about what he’s done and I feel bad for bringing it back up, I have nightmares about it....i think to myself why don’t I just find someone who won’t treat me like that

@camisnyder3460 2 года назад

I be feel exactly the same as you do.

@thenameischoya8149 2 года назад

I think the same way. But its like 50% of men cheat. Thats facts lol what are the chances of not going through this B.S again. Especially with kids involved.

@lizbethcastellanos9703 2 года назад

im going through the exact same thing... wondering how things worked out for you??

@papalit89fan33 2 года назад

if you feel that emotionally unstable about him cheating on you the best would be to leave him even if it hurts that man doesnt love you if he was able to betray you and embarrass the shit out of you like that, he may regret it but he still doesn’t deserve your love or your trust

@joptiks7062 Год назад

Time apart if possible can help, but also keep in mind plenty of people cheat. You can’t guarantee that you’d get with someone else and the will stay faithful. Cheating seems to be fairly common these days

@42BETWO 2 года назад

If she throws you away to make room in her heart for another man, and the affair fails and you reconcile, you do so as unequals in fidelity, personal integrity, and sexual experience. You are ‘restored’ to her heart as less the man you were before the affair. You have a new identity along side your once unfaithful (now remorseful?) wife: recycled trash. No matter how hard you try to improve yourself in your own and in her eyes, your status remains second best to that ‘better man’ she chose over you- until she got caught.

@HelloKittyFreak96 2 года назад

I’m here because my husband cheated on me by having pictures of my young aunt on his phone, he knows what he was doing with those photos. My aunt had very explicit photos on her fb and he screenshot all of them and had a folder of her on his phone. When I found the folder I broke down, I couldn’t believe who he was using to relieve himself, I looked up to that aunt but then again she’s beautiful and she loves to flaunt everything on social media.. I was only mad at him obviously… I was embarrassed I didn’t tell a soul because I love my husband but I didn’t trust him, it’s still hard our sexual life has suffered, he’s a good person but I feel so disgusted, disappointed…. It’s been 3 years and we’re still struggling, this aunt is a close family member we see her every couple of days due to family gatherings. My heart sinks when I look at her and I can’t help but compare myself. My husband has apologized millions of times I know he’s sincere but I can’t let this go. I feel ugly, jealous, betrayed, heartbroken 💔 but I’m trying because I love him. I NEVER thought this would happen to me or to US.

@biracialsnow Год назад

Yep I am here, on this channel. He cheated, but we both want to stay together, so now it’s just about trying to move forward. It’s tough, definitely don’t feel good

@SpFrSpaZ Год назад

What have you done to move forward? I’m trying to figure out what to do as well

@ireneluke6330 7 месяцев назад

This is the best video that I have watched. Very helpful. Thank you so much for this I feel that I can get on the road to recovery and work on my relationship.

@HappilyCommitted 7 месяцев назад

Glad it was helpful!

@prersgirls 2 года назад

Thank You for this commendable video. One of the best advise and information I have found.y D day was 101 days ago and you nailed the information.

@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад

Thank you for watching! Happily Committed Team

@danielmccray9222 3 года назад

My partner cheated due to the relationship not failing in both of our parts and my partner has always struggled with mental health and during this time fell into drugs and alcohol. They tried using another person to replace me and make the new relationship what ours was at the beginning. Ik first hand cheating isn’t black and white. Theirs a lot of factors that go into someone making that choice. After it was said and done they realized that I was the one. I was the one that deserved that spot in their life and that they had lost it and chose the wrong path to take. We are now working on things and going through the things that lead to those wrong choices. Our decisions aren’t for everyone to follow. But depending on the circumstances you can survive this and come out stronger. And have an even better relationship than before. It comes down to how much love is really their and the circumstances that lead up to the wrong decisions. If someone cheated bc of an ego or to fulfill a sexual desire than no leave move on.

@cherissegranger8275 3 года назад

What if the person didn't physically cheat but via social media convos, pictures and videos/video calls going on for about 3mnths. They've never met the person but planned to. The person didn't tell u about it but you found out from a coworker who's connected to the person they virtually cheated with?

@michaelsilva3202 2 года назад

so your the plan b

@michelle-h 2 года назад

@@cherissegranger8275 I’m in the same boat :p

@brittaniesmith1817 2 года назад

I recently found out that I was cheated on after our one year anniversary. It was all over the phone. It broke me. He promised me loyalty, protection, love. He promised I was the only person he wanted. I’m so hurt. But, I love him. I can’t just make my feelings from the last year disappear. I want it to work.

@resueah7257 2 года назад

Very hard when someone's words don't align with their actions. I'm so sorry

@christinezechner2643 2 года назад

you are dumb dump him !!!

@papalit89fan33 2 года назад

if he broke all of his promises its not gonna work anymore, that man doesnt love you and he doesnt deserve your trust or your love i hope you left him

@icewallowcome9168 Год назад

How did it go?

@shop.super.nova.orb. Год назад

I am now in college and have been with a girl for 7 months. I told her in the 4th month that I had sex with 2 people the 2nd and third month. I was on drugs (not that it excuses anything). And when I told her she threw up and it was the hardest thing ever. But we wanted it to work and I got clean and dropped some friends and am genuinely a man now instead of a boy. Gave her my life 360 and face I.d in my phone for security. And we’re stronger than we’ve ever been but only because we took it slow and had the conversations that needed to be had. Just make sure the persons remains fully accountable and shows true remorse and change and you should be fine. We’re stronger than ever and I can’t thank her enough for giving me that chance :)

@kashujain9507 Год назад

Thank you so much for this advice❤️

@priyankagaikwad5561 3 года назад

Thanks a lot sir, after critical situation I m watching this video , and I m healing.

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

I'm glad the video was helpful for you, Priyanka. Coach Natalie

@elizabethsoto2958 4 года назад

You guys give good advice ❗️

@HappilyCommitted 4 года назад

Thank you!

@starsandoval6526 Год назад

I really love this man and I believe in the good of people of each person that's why I'm trying to make it work out but I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing anymore

@jadaramirez2761 2 года назад

I cheated on my partner by sending txt messages and it’s been a year now. And we been together for 5 years as well so it is possible to rebuild and forgive and move forward. Every relationship and every person is different. I’m not saying you have to stay with the person that cheated, just saying it’s up to you to stay or leave. I never cheated again after that because i didn’t want to see him hurt like that day he found out about those text messages. It ain’t worth it.

@ipassingthrough Год назад

Well, it was just emotional cheating on your part right? Just texts? That's not the same as physical and emotional cheating, that's when the line is truly crossed. It's better to move on from a cheater, would you stay with a rapist? That's what cheaters basically are, they rape their victim's psyche

@-MdRakibulAlam-A Год назад

I wish all the cheaters die why you guys even belong to this beautiful world you Don't you belong to the streets feel sorry to that guy my brother you could have run away cause once a cheater always a cheater.

@thanks_man1268 Год назад

He should've left you

@simplyaeri76 Год назад

I’ve been with this guy for 5 years.. met eachother when We were 19. He’s a year older than me. I’m 24 now and he’s 25.. I messed up this time 😞🥺.. He caught me cyber cheating .. looked through my phone and seen I was sexting another guy and flirting with him .. didn’t send him nudes or anything but the guy saw me twerking on my close friends story.. and he broke up with me instantly. Yet, he’s cheated on me in the past, I looked through his phone and seen him messaging multiple women, flirting with them sending emojis to em and complimenting them while we were together, even saying raunchy shit to em and I confronted him about it , even though I took him back… several times. We’ve gone through hell and back yet I did something like this one time and he’s completely over me… yet we’ve still been talking, meeting up having sex etc.. I feel stupid because it’s not really want I want but idk how to feel rn .. 😞

@justxkaytm9186 Год назад

How did you guys manage to work it out?

@vibewithAlyssaMone Год назад

I have never stayed with a cheater & I’m trying to fight for my marriage it’s definitely harder than I expected …

@standground7956 8 месяцев назад

Welp, get a divorce, don’t stop now.

@Dabman687 Год назад

Still 4 years later I think about it. I still get treated bad once in awhile. I get told mean things that I won’t forget. It’s hard that she did that to me. She told me we were never going to be together forever. I’m so lost. :(

@bobfrankfurt9449 Год назад

It sounds like you need to move onto a better partner... If they are continuously hurting you that could be a sign your partner is a narcissist. Seek counselling perhaps? Read some books that can help you understand and figure out what to do. I wish you all the best.

@sohininath6865 3 года назад

Thankyou,,,for giving some positivities , within all the negativities.... As usual "time heals" But, everytime certain things pop up and it breaks me into pieces 💔💔 Now, it's somewhat a comparision got in to my head!! 😭

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

Thank you for watching the video, Sohini. Coach Natalie

@sarahbakhshandeh5670 4 года назад

I was waiting for that 👌👌👌👌👌

@TheLaurents2014 3 года назад

Its hard to hide a broken heart. I just found out that my husband was been cheated on me. But he just said sorry to me once with no feelings.. We have a one year old son my heart and my brain is fighting right now.. i wanna divorce but not at the same time cuz i dont want my baby to have a broken family... please help me 😢

@artcruz5603 3 года назад

I'm in the same situation I don't know what to do she said it was more than once 😟 we've been together for alsmot 12 years now and have been through the best and worst times in our lifes. .. our son is 5 years old and I love him to death i dont want to ever hurt him and make him feel like i felt growing up with my parents split up and what hurts the most is that it happend 3 years ago and discussed it and got passed it and i forgave her and just a few hours ago she came clean with more details that she lied about out of nowhere... i don't know what to do or how to feel.. what I do know is it fucken hurts cause our son is so amazing and beautiful and I dont know how it ever came to her making a decision like that 😕

@zuxianchong 3 года назад

i would first like to say that everyone heals and deals with things differently. my mum was cheated on by my dad and she ignored him for 2 years. took them a year to even start speaking to one another. and now it has been 8 years since my mum found out, they aren't separated because they stayed together for me but what i can tell is they really have lost that bond between them. they dont hold hands or share kisses or even sleep on the same bed anymore, but they do talk and go shopping and go out for meals. if u think u can deal with it mentally and come to peace with urself just to keep ur family as one then by all means, but sometimes it's better to move on as well and find your own happiness again, i do hope u find ur answers soon

@EarCandyAsmr 3 года назад

Only you can decide. Only forgive him if you can truly forgive him. You don’t want to be in a bitter relationship the child will feel that energy

@fiae2897 3 года назад

@@artcruz5603 The pain is real especially when she has cheated more than once, firstly go and get yourself checked over at a sexual health clinic, even to this day people don't practice safe s.x then don't try to work out things on your own, get some help 🙏

@leelew.1462 3 года назад

You'll show your child your happiness when you're happy. Don't ever be miserable or unhappy staying in a relationship for your child.

@imsayingthis 4 года назад

Thank you for giving me hope that it's worth saving for.

@HappilyCommitted 4 года назад

Glad the video was helpful to you! Coach Adrian

@cipryan96 3 года назад

It's not. She will do it again.

@nataliagoncalves7396 3 года назад

@@cipryan96 you are really bitter. Leave people alone and focus on your life.

@weareone5429 3 года назад

I hope things are working out for you. 🙏

@nataliagoncalves7396 3 года назад

@Kenya Hughes .. see wath i was saying..

@ludydargin8189 3 года назад

Thanks for this. Im in this situation now and Its clear to me and I know now how to deal with it . Its very infornative for me thanks so much

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

You're welcome, Lucy. Coach Adrian

@user-yj9ko3jh7g 2 месяца назад

I was married for 52 years to a cheater. He cheated on me after 6 years when I had 3 small children. I let him stay because I loved him and I thought my children needed him in their life. He was a terrific father and they adored him. Our relationship was never the same. I never allowed him to enter my heart again. I came from a dysfunctional family, abusive and I had walked away from them. I had no support. I took the blow and did the best I could. Took care of him when he finally died of Cancer. I do not regret staying as it helped my children. It was a very hard decision . I loved him but kept him at a distance until he died. He made a d3cision that was selfish with no regard for me or my children. You do it , you own it.

@user-vt2ce2jc4r 2 года назад

While so many channels advice ppl to break up or look down on couples who have forgiven im glad for this channel. So many say once a cheater always a cheater which is not true. There is no heart God cant renew.

@crystalcarls489 Год назад

I got cheated on yesterday😢 But luckily I forgave her because she promised me that me and her will get back together and we never break our promises

@edub650 Год назад

She will cheat again. It runs further than sex. She doesn’t respect you.

@katrinagarnett3256 Год назад

Thank you for this.

@auaumoana 10 месяцев назад

I have been married 11 years, together 12. My husband admitted to cheating on me when I was pregnant with my first daughter. But he said it didn’t count because we weren’t married. Well fast forward to 11 years later 3 kids together, and 1 recent miscarriage I just learned that he cheated on me two months ago. He admitted to it, and when I talked to the other woman she said it only happened once but after learning he was married she cut it off and she said he tried to do it again, but she told him no. What upsets me is that not only did he cheat and admit to doing that, he tried to go back for more with her and didn’t bother to mention that. He also said that he was incredibly drunk and high. I am so devastated and I am trying to figure out what to do.

@theresachiorazzi4571 3 года назад

I could never never trust or forgive a man that would cheat on me thank god I had a good man we had a great life he’s gone now it was just his time. But I’ll always love him he was the best

@teymyneytor 3 года назад

Many thanks, I have been researching "can a relationship be repaired after cheating" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my co-worker got cool results with it.

@michaelsilva3202 2 года назад

you got self respect but a lot of these comments do not

@angs1979 Год назад

Currently going thru this and we have a 4 year old son. So hard to stay to make us better but so hard to walk away ..

@seanmckenna1863 10 месяцев назад

Current in the exact same situation how did it go.

@bonneyirang6239 2 года назад

Thank you sir for your beautiful advice it feels so good after watching your video but can't forget what he did with me it is very hard to forget n painful 💔💔

@nataliagoncalves7396 3 года назад

People tend to say that whoever does it once will do it again. But its completely unfair and it is absolutely a lie. But people have a tendency to generalize. And this is horrible for couples who have gone through many challenges and want to be together. So don't give up hope. If there is dedication, recognition and true love, everything is possible. Do not listen to negative people with phrases made. Each couple is different. Be happy

@user-dh5ww9gz8f 3 года назад

Thanks bro this gave me hope

@Thornaroundpetals Год назад

This gave a hope 🙂

@ynot_0-0 10 месяцев назад

Whoever does it twice can do it again?

@matinaki1644 10 месяцев назад

As you can see from the comments "this gives me hope". Yet the glass is broken. Yes, couples can survive but at great cost for the one cheated on.

@kikijammer 10 месяцев назад

Uhmm sure they can change, but I aint gonna be the lab rat to test if they actually change

@MrFlacco Год назад

😭 the pain is too much 😢.

@ragnarironwolf535 2 года назад

I like this video. My significant other cheated on me and everyone is saying to leave but in my heart I still love my other half. I said weather we stayed together or I left I would forgive. It only happened because I work so much and never around. I been working so hard to save for a future that I didn't see the signs

@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад

I know how hard this can be Ragnar. Let's set up a coaching call so we can talk about your relationship and determine what you should do next. www.happilycommitted.com

@boarderfalife 2 года назад

The reason it happened is NOT because you were working so much, its because your S.O. is selfish. Don’t ever blame yourself.

@papalit89fan33 2 года назад

you may love her but that woman does NOT love you if she was able to do that to you and it was not your fault because you work a lot, that is not an excuse to cheat on someone

@RS-rh9kp Год назад

Whats the update?

@celestialovelysoles8302 2 года назад

Thank you for this 🙏🏻🥺

@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад

Thank you!

@vijikumar2088 3 года назад

Thank you so much it is very painful though but as you said it’s better to be united than being right so I’ll try to fix my marriage as advertised by you

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

I'm glad the video was helpful for you, Viji. Thank you for watching. Coach Natalie

@vijikumar2088 3 года назад

@@HappilyCommitted welcome dear

@dequanmiles6767 2 года назад

After finding out myself it's hard to honestly stay and after my girlfriend whose also my babymother not only cheated once but twice with two different ex boyfriends. She claims she didn't have sex and both times I caught her texting. It's getting harder and harder to honestly trust her anymore and I wonder myself if this relationship is honestly worth it.

@Low_Key_ Год назад

I cheated my boyfriend two days ago.... couldn't stop thinking about it so i just told him the truth....still feel guilty about it and im slowly walking the " im a terrible person" path...didnt know that cheating is actually a reaction to trauma...yet this doesnt fully explains the why i did it...we still decided to give it a try...i dont know what to do...and i kinda seek answers for my problem...idk why i shared this to yall Have a nice day anyways x

@gabybiemo420 Год назад

How isit going now

@cierraaustin2144 Год назад

It’s okay love, you shared it because it was heavy on your heart and we are here to help, support, and understand the situation. Please keep us updated on how it workouts for you two, and I’m praying for growth, forgiveness, and your relationship.

@niaer4632 10 месяцев назад

i know the feeling man

@glencoco1616 10 месяцев назад

I’m in the same boat as you.

@estherkieyakinyanjui7220 Год назад

Trying to forgive but it's very hard I feel that he can never change

@trash8280 2 года назад

My wife cheated on me just recently, the very second I found out I forgave her. A couple days later I could tell she was feeling bad for eat she done because I have been a damn mess even though I forgive her it's not a easy thing to get over. I can tell it's going to take time to heal over this. I have been having horrible nightmares of being in a room with her sitting on the edge of the bed and me sitting in a chair unable to move or look away while someone who I can't make out comes in and has their way with her. I literally can't even get it up when we try to be intimate with each other. It has gotten a bit better over these couple months and we're both making it work. I haven't been the best husband lately with having a drinking problem. 55 days sober now. But yes you can move on after this or if you truly love one another at least try if you think it's worth the time. I love her way too much just to let go of 7 years in the drop of a hat.

@rambojones8711 2 года назад

Going through this as we speak...I have no proof but I feel my wife has cheated on me when she went on vacay in VA..I don't no what to do

@sellers8133 Год назад

@@rambojones8711 Trust your gut. Mine has never led me wrong and just like you I had suspected it before I was able to confirm it.

@kwikest Год назад

going through the same thing at the moment. just found out about my wifes 6 month affair with another man. im broken. please tell me, 5 months after your comment, is it any better?

@orange2352 Год назад

@@kwikest if you both want it to work, it WILL get better. Both of you got disconnected... connect and build your relationship stronger than ever.

@truthtalks-honestyunleashe2796 Год назад

@@kwikest hit the gym bro grow some balls she belongs to the streets

@gavincosgrove Год назад

At the end of the day if you love your partner you wouldn't cheat in the first place 🤷‍♂️

@Trickorvr 3 года назад

We have been together 21years and I just find out the first 3 years she was cheating with multiple guys. Now everything is different. I use to like our story, especially the first years. Now it's all tainted. 21 years and 2 kids later, shes not the same person. Shes remorseful but it doesnt change the past. The trust is gone, I gave her the freedom she wanted and this is what I get. I even confronted her what was the third guy and she said I was crazy. I was ready to break up then but she lied and I stayed. Even worse she did it 1 more time after that conversation. She said I should believe her thats it and after that was all us, I dont believe but dont want to start a new chapter

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

Thank you for reaching out, Jay. I understand what you're going through. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Natalie

@glydellarciaga2839 3 года назад

Me either even if Im not in your situation.

@-MdRakibulAlam-A Год назад

You Don't have any self respect mate just tissue for her to use.

@christinejoycalatin2933 Год назад

it is so hard to forgive.. :( i can't get over it.. even if i cry everyday.. :(

@simonfranklin7659 7 месяцев назад

I could never ever be physical again with my wife if she cheated. Its the biggest turn off in the world.

@Mr_Stratosphere 4 года назад

Seriously this gives me hope. That's what I didn't understood. That my commitment and love is so strong that I hope that we have a new start. I know that I need time to get over this pain but. I don't know why. I don't want to throw 9 years away and my best friend (girlfriend) & my lover in crime like worn out socks. I know that we had tough times but I always had the opinion that we're growing on these hurdles not break. Thank you for this video. It gives me hope. And no matter what... I'm going to fight for her because we are human and anybody else does Tripp sometimes.

@mljrotag6343 3 года назад

@Dillards Shopper Exactly right. Cheating is never a mistake it is a decision.

@camilak7218 Год назад

i wish i could.. i can forgive him because i know he feels very guilty, but i truly need loyalty, not just about cheating but about respect and having my back.. i already fought too much, felt unloved and now i feel like i have no other choice than to let go..

@burns919gk Год назад

It’s definitely hard when we where engaged and going on the second time of her cheating with the same guy. Little more difficult when we have a child together. Hard to hear she wants two people but knows she can’t

@jaredkaye3669 Год назад

My wife cheated on me when she was not invited to a funeral. I found out by her sitting me down and forcing me to get antibiotics for being exposed to throat gonorrhea. She said most people break up after hearing this. I assured her I would forgive her because my favorite saying since covid 19 has been, "Forgive your abusers!" That night I couldn't sleep and started asking for more information. Her initial response was she didn't know but she told me more and more which I didn't like. Even though I said I forgave her, her best friend who hates me heard me tell my wife "Tell Sancho I said hi" responded in spanish telling my wife to translate "I will introduce you to him". My wife's friend speaks english but forces translation because it is part of her detatched hatred. The crazy thing was I got angry for 2 hours and wanted to break up because I cannot compete with her friend. Whatever... I have to forgive everyone because from their perspective I am emotionally abusive and they are fighting for what they believe. I have to demonstrate forgiveness to all. In the end the only person that can control my anger is me.

@cipryan96 3 года назад

No, it can't. Don't prologue the suffering. Cheating is not a mistake but a choice. NOTHING can justify cheating, stop blaming the other person for not giving the cheater attention or some other bullshit reason. If he's not happy, communicate with the partner and try to solve the problem. If that does not work leave the relationship. The cheater is a selfish person and do not think of consequences, they just want to feel good. Leave and move on, no second chance for cheaters.

@kitziarodriguez5990 3 года назад

It’s it always true. In my case I constantly asked for things to change, I constantly asked for the reassurance, the live everything. I always asked for things to be fixed & they never were so I felt like I wasn’t being cared for, so I did it. Once I told my partner we had a long talk about it, we both saw our wrong my face your for change & help & if not being even cared for. Not saying it was their fault cause I took full responsibility but were 100x better than what we were in the beginning

@cipryan96 3 года назад

@Christopher espinosa that right, and you must learn from those mistakes. But that with your future partener, the one that you cheated on deserves better. 🙃

@Chrisadore11 3 года назад

@@cipryan96 well, buddy. I was the one who was cheated on...

@Chrisadore11 3 года назад

@@cipryan96 you made me have second thoughts on coming back to her... 🥺😥

@cipryan96 3 года назад

@@Chrisadore11 don't do it, she's do it again 100%

@spartancamm1177 Год назад

God I found out 3 days ago she was talking to other guys when I was struggling, I’m so broken and lost

@user-np6tf8zx1u Год назад

I feel you. It was the same for me... During one of the hardest times of my life

@jaylansreen1068 3 года назад

All i wanted is to get Married and to be with someone who will love me forever. But why it is too diffecult to achieve and guys always to hurt me.

@leelearnsya8619 Год назад

I'm here because I can't get over how she did me. I can't stop obsessing over the person she cheated on me with. I'm angry at her and I want to beat him to a pulp. I want to get over it and forgive her because I love her so much. She isn't perfect and neither am I but she's a wonderful mother and I always saw myself growing old with her. But I'm smart enough to know if I can't get over this and I can't stop thinking about taking revenge on the guy she cheated with then I will only be doing my family a disservice by continuing the relationship. I know she deeply regrets her actions but that doesn't take my hurt away.

@milisele Год назад

going through the same. how are you doing now? did it get any better? im scared i wont be able to forgive and move past this.

@lucye5752 Год назад

I want to trust him again but I don’t think I can 💔

@GalaxyKnight 4 года назад

I already give him several chances but whenever I asked him something to make clear he behaves so crazy and always avoid all the matters and talk about another things...even I can understand sometime that he lies but still he denied all the time how could I able to fix it..I just want him as he was before...but I can't express my emotions to him..

@alexmaldonado-lopez7868 4 года назад

I’m not sure if that will work SaH

@christinaronaldo4217 3 года назад

I am in your situation right now

@raiden_ei_shogun Год назад

It's so ironic that after all the times you've reserved yourself to someone who took time and effort to earn your trust after a long time, broke it again. I'm sorry for my imperfections, but I never had to put our relationship to risk-cheating. I thought I told you so-let's fight for everything but not for a broken trust. But here we are, I've been betrayed, again...

@montyolson366 3 года назад

I was cheated on and my heart is just broken he hurt the trust between us and he didn't tell me for two years ,,, I want it to work but I'm in so much pain emotionally

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

Being betrayed by a loved one can be very hurtful. Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dcXBu3NqAOQ.html Coach Natalie

@keidmaster 2 года назад

It's not going to work. He kept that for 2 years?? I hope to the high heavens you got rid of that A

@jojoramirez8070 2 года назад

My boyfriend cheated on me with someone older then I am and when her and I found out. She blocked him in everything and so I wonder if she hadn’t done that if I’d still be the one he’d be fighting for. Because at the end of the day he was planning future plans into a year in advance with her.

@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад

Hey Jojo, I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend cheated on you, I know how heartbreaking that must feel. Regardless if she blocked him or not the biggest concern is that he disrespected you by cheating.

@chillrian 4 года назад

I just want to say thank you...

@Pia-Noise 4 года назад

It works to you?

@maximosmendoza9660 Год назад

Thanks you man I’m been in the biggest problem in my life is hard to forgive and give second opportunity and I think is worth it if the deserve you that’s my problem

@fredrickoyamo2528 2 года назад

I hurt my wife badly! I thought I was going to lose her but she stayed with me. Knowing that she is fighting hard to heal it breaks me even more. I wish I could go back and 'be faithful'. I destroyed something wonderful and I don't know if I will ever forgive myself...

@papalit89fan33 2 года назад

i hope she gets out of there and finds someone who would never betray and humiliate her like that

@fredrickoyamo2528 2 года назад

@@papalit89fan33 😐

@meli9976 3 года назад

just want to know other peoples opinions: He cheated on me multiple times it’s very hard for me i just found out. We are still together after a very hard week of fighting and crying together. It’s my first serious relationship and i hate that it went like that. We had the perfect relationship we were so happy. He said he had no real reason he was just dumb and didn’t think. I don’t know what to think he lied a lot but i’m really sure he loves me. He told his friends he regrets it so much and he didn’t leaf after i tried to break up with him, i even hit him a lot because i was so angry and frustrated. But he stayed and tries everything but i just can’t forgive him. Please let me know what you all think... :/ sorry for my english

@telekbalazskristof 3 года назад

Hey! I am in a similar situation... Its been two months and I'm still going through these cycles of wanting to break up and then wanting to have everything back. It's fucking hard and it tears me apart. But I can't yet choose... I think what you need to do is take the time to make the decision and figure out what feels right - imagine a future with that decision and see if you feel any regret with that future. I hope my advice is good and helpful to you. But you are the one who will have to make the decisions... My relationship was really good too I loved her more than anything and I treated her right - and now I'm just not in love with her anymore I don't know if I will ever love her the same way I used to... I really miss that... She said shell make it even better this time and I want to believe her but yeah... I hope the best for you - I understand how you feel rn. (all I know is that in two months if you stay w him and he tries his best you'll maybe feel a bit better and almost the same amount of uncertain as now)

@meli9976 3 года назад

@@telekbalazskristof thank you for the advice! I will try to be happy with him again. I know i need time to figure it out but i just can’t imagine to have the same connection to anyone else. It’s just so much pain to know it won’t ever be the same as before. People told us we were the best couple. We never had any problems ever. It’s so hard to understand why he could do that. I hope everything will work out for you :/ I wish you the best i know what you feel like.. thank you

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your story. Being betrayed is very hurtful. Please watch this video. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dcXBu3NqAOQ.html Coach Natalie

@christilinedawson788 2 года назад

@@meli9976 hey I know its been a while and I'm struggling with the same thing..can you tell me how things went?

@cheskaann1125 2 года назад

Hi, how is it now?

@gugumillicent8505 2 года назад

I wonder why when a woman has cheated it's almost impossible for a man to forgive the woman but when a man has cheated women forgive almost all the time ?

@iamuniverse3154 2 года назад

Only a manipulated woman will forgive her cheating partner because she justify and tolerate his cheating

@gugumillicent8505 2 года назад

Very true

@melvinmolly4151 2 года назад

That is because sex is what mainly WOMEN put on the table for a relationship.. (men do not put sex on the table, because women, if they really want, can have sex, just about anytime).. When a Women cheats on a man, because someone whispered some sweet nothings in her ear, that man she cheated on him with, gets what she put on the relationship table for free!!!!

@honeyful1667 10 месяцев назад

@@melvinmolly4151It's because men think that their cheating should be acceptable and that's it ..

@KevinBaird75 3 года назад

Thank you...

@BellaClarie Год назад

My ex has contacted me after 2 years.... He has been contacting me little by little. I recently got out of a relationship and I started dreaming of my ex while grieving the loss of this one. I have been so angry at him.... but he has told me even though we both tried dating other people, that he still loves me and he has changed. I feel confused right now.... And I just feel overwhelmed by everything. I will think carefully before answering his calls or texts back....2 years is a long time. I cried so much, and became so depressed when he cheated 😔 I was deeply in Love at the time. He also wasn't the best person. I tried finding love again and failed. I'm trying to process all of this....

@himanshinogia6131 3 года назад

If I have cheated on someone. Now he is scared of trusting anyone. But I want to make things right again. What should I do

@HappilyCommitted 3 года назад

Thank you for reaching out, Himanshi. I understand what you're going through. Please watch this video when you get a chance. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-tgAX_dzBReM.html Coach Natalie

@evelinadymanus922 3 года назад

This video would help me a year ago and save me a lot of stress -i wouldn't give him another chance only for him to cheat on me again He is narcissist-he doesn't see anything wrong with what he did

@lillooney5476 3 года назад

Does your ex partner ever message you since the split?

@user-pz6xc7mt7t Год назад

i cheated on my fiancé and regret it bc he’s not happy anymore.. he’s starting to not care about me and our relationship… i’m so stupid and i don’t want to end our relationship but he keeps talking and acting like he wants it to end…

@deehernandez3940 2 года назад

This video gave me hope. I was the one who cheated multiple times and take full responsibility. He too admitted to cheating before. Right now we are both broken. We both want to work it out take accountability of our actions. We both know it will be hard but it’s something we both decided on to work on. I feel like I will get a lot of hatred for this comment. But this video did give me hope to never stop working on our relationship as long as we’re both willing to

@HappilyCommitted 2 года назад

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@235nick1 4 года назад

What if you live down the hall from the person your partner cheated on you with? How do you get through something like that? I need advice desperately. My partner doesn’t care to move, so I’m stuck living in the same building a few doors down from this person they cheated on me with

@elisabethkaligka2775 3 года назад

Get out of there, as fast as you can. Your partner should agree to never, I mean never see this9 person ever again. This is for your mental health. Otherwise, it's not worth it. Sorry.

@Taiofemi69 3 года назад

Who knows, maybe your partner is sincere and will change. After all, nobody’s perfect, right?They even promised to marry you. So is it worth it? Marriage after infidelity is a tricky proposition. But if you love the person, forgive and forget, move on and live happily ever after. Just like in the movies. Marriage can be a blessing, but it can also break your heart, especially, if you think you've reached the end of the road. There's no easy path to divorce. So is it worth forgiving someone who cheated on you? Of course. Do it, living with hate is not a good way to live. Is it worth forgetting about it? No. Your experiences in life make you stronger (and hopefully smarter). It's time to examine your feelings about yourself and your marriage. It is understandable that you are hurt by what your husband did. However, he has apologized for it and stopped his relationship with her for you. Now, it is up to you to forgive. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It gives strength to move on. At this point you might have tried marriage counseling and probably hire a good lawyer, to best find the truth for proof in court I suggest you google search" hubtechhack ethical” to help you get proof from your partners device remotely for evidence. Sometimes it's worth saving a relationship and sometimes it isn't. Only you know the answer to the question of whether you should get a divorce or you're better off staying married.

@mazthebear Год назад

I refuse to stay with a cheater

@maricarl9004 Год назад

It’s hard to deal with someone who doesn’t learn to he’s mistakes he doesn’t value your forgiveness and he keep doing what he has done.

@namgyal-la Год назад

Feeling little better after watching this video, i am in 6yrs long committed relationship and my bf cheated on me since 1month. I caught him red handed with all pics two days back and i am devastated and heartbroken, He was a good person bfore and we were in such a happy relationship phase while we were together . We gt in long distance relationship since 1.5 yr and cheating happened. When i caught him he accepted everything and apologised and promised me this wont happen again.but i am completely broken and keep on imagining things of his cheating. I am in confused state whether i should brkup with him or forgive him coz i love him alot and i can’t imagine my future without him but i wont b able to trust him like i do. I am worried he might do it again too and scare to loose him too. What should i do 😢its very painful

@lowawol2112 2 года назад

I just found out my wife of almost 13 years had been cheating on me for the last 3 years. The reason she was finally able to break it off and tell mewas the other person was a narcissist and was gaslighting/blackmailing her into staying. I want to make it work and I hope it's going to get easier

@michaelsilva3202 2 года назад

dude 3 years come on have some respect for yourself. just go!!!

@chantyd2590 2 года назад

That is so sad :( sorry 💔

@keidmaster 2 года назад

Does she want to make it work? She's been doing this for 3 years. Doesn't matter if the guy was a narc or not. She still had thought and action to carry this out, not tell you until HE made her life horrible. and now she told you. Where's her guilt?