Stella Barey | Getting into Adult Films, Narcissistic Fathers, Authenticity & Kinks #17 

Charlotte you truly have a gift at interviewing people and just allowing them to have a comfortable forum to share there stories.

The conversation about narcissistic parents was so profound. Charlotte I admire your ability to dig deep with guests, you inspire me to do the same in my personal life :)

Stella is so aware and conscious and talking about your dads was so extremely cathartic i can't even explain to you. knowing someone is going through the same and talking about their own experiences is invaluable

One of my favorite things about Stella is how smart she is. She is pulling quotes left and right out, sharing her perspective eloquently, and creating space for great conversation. I loved seeing two women speaking so openly about the things that many are too scared to say, but deep down we resonate with. 10/10 y’all

this is truly one of the greatest pods i’ve listened to. truly so eye opening & her authenticity is refreshing and inspiring

genuinely the most insightful episode i have ever seen, thank you stella & charlotte

Im so happy your podcasts are back ! Keep them coming

Wow !! Not what I thought this interview was going to be about !! 2 great minds speaking to each other was what I enjoyed the most !! I’m a chick from Melbourne that honestly just appreciated indifference’ and duality’s of this pod !!! Slay sis slay !!

Loved this - please keep these conversations going

Loving that you’re posting again, loving this episode 🫶🏻

Found the conversations discussed incredibly eye opening and healing. This podcast is truly important. Thank you for sharing Stella and Charlotte.

this was so lovely. esp the segment about narcissistic fathers/sibling dynamics like hearing other young women talk about that was so healing😭😭

Charlotte, you are my favorite podcast. An amazing conversation. Thank you for your insight and thank you for this.

really happy you’re back♥️♥️♥️♥️

I love you guys !!! ❤️❤️❤️ I’m so happy the podcast is back

This was the best thing I’ve ever heard, seeing you two interact was so interesting, you two are so similar and different at the same time

This is one of the best interviews I’ve ever seen in my life

damn this episode was so good, i love introspective you are with your guests it's so awesome to see/hear you guys be so real

i loved this episode so much. char you were amazing. and stella just gained a new fan 🫶

your best interview yet!

love this episode so much. the part about narcissistic parents hits really hard bc its very much how i feel now that im years into my healing journey (i mean not fully but for sure a lot)

Glad it’s back!!

Absolutely amazing podcast! 💗💗

LOVED this, really mind opening topics

oh my god this is the best podcast episode i've listened to

This episode was sooo good.

Love Stella!! Such a great episode

This is the best podcast episode I’ve seen

Interesting Charlotte. I followed your career when you first started on Instagram. Good to see you all these years later and your progression. I subbed. I’ll check out a couple more vids. Peace ☮️

Charlotte this was amazing!!

yasss glad you're back!

You are both so mesmerizing and have such interesting and profound perspectives

Wow. Felt like the only one who thought these types of things or thought in these ways. Hope there are many more people like this out there b/c there aren't where I live in Hawaii (at least in my current social group). I know the obvious answer is to move but I also feel like I'm pushing the envelope (for me) in a way by staying in my hometown and continuing to hang out with my same friends who are not nearly as sensitive or emotionally aware as me. It is lonely, but I feel like if I can show/influence them how to open their minds, that might give me insight on the larger issue of teaching ppl stuck in their own ways how to grow/heal. I don't want them to live sad, angry lives forever and I know I can help. Especially while we're still young! And I think that could be a valuable tool b/c so many people (especially older generation) that cause harm and destruction in the world are emotionally inept, hurt, and confused and if we could heal them we'd save a lot of suffering. I relate it to if you guys hypothetically remained in contact with your dad's and tried teaching them to grow/heal/open their minds and hearts. It's like I'm friends with your dads when they were 25 and I have a chance to change their life trajectory now lol. But I totally understand why you don't keep in contact atm. Nowadays the primary reason I keep in touch w/ my old friends is to test out my theory lol cuz we no longer really relate. Idk if what I'm doing is right, but I'm learning to accept uncertainty. And I don't know what kind of career I should choose b/c I'm super interested in these types of things, but haven't yet figured out how or if I can make money off it (maybe therapist?). But seeing you guys find success and forge ur own paths is really cool and just hearing other people talk about these things reassures me I'm not crazy haha so thanks.

I love Stella so much she is amazing

i loved this episode it was really interesting

Top 3 eps for sure

fav interview with stella

@charlotte you are an amazing moderator, listener and so good at this. All your questions make the listeners super relatable. You are so talented on this lol

Amazing podcast

Welcome back

That quote is amazing 19:25

It feels therapeutic to hear about you guys talk about narcissistic parents from a neutral standpoint. I’ve always been so angered by it but it was nice hearing your guys’ takes 🫶🏽🥹

When she talked about stretching her mind and how it doesn’t go back to the same size….that’s so funny….like I feel like she must have meant that

Some of this shit this girl says is disturbing. She met homeless vets who talked about who they murdered and how they beat their wives and came to the conclusion she wanted to have an adventure??? I’ve heard her on multiple podcasts and while her life seems so enticing at first glance it appears to be much more troubling. But more power to her. Live your life. Just confused as to how people find her so enlightening..

Yessssss!!! This what I want !!!!!

Love them both

char will u plssss link the narcissist fathers lecture u were referencing

Love Stella

u are both sooooo cool 💜

damn that made me smile

love it

Love it

YESSSS

2x is the only way to listen to podcasts

Add chapters please!

the algo might limit exposure using the p word in title as opposed to “adult.” idc i love the realness, just sharing info x

I wish Stella was my best friend

Haha crazy shit that dudes life changed at 32:45 she literally scooped him from the homeless shelter

ive never related more

She inspired me to start (:

Camera was set on her for like 20 minutes😂 why have a guest if you’re not going to show them?

did you knew theres Heung-Min Son playing soccer brev? big likes

The interviewer is a thousand times hotter.

Today's role models...great.

miss you c me

lol why are you deleting comments that don't agree with your guest?

I’m not

Backdoor princess

wow how inspirational ! ..........................................................................not

Thank god tiktok is baned in my country

Being open doesn’t mean being whore😂😂😂😂😂

nah

felt like you were underlining judging

i feel like the interviewer is lowkey pretty judgemental with her reactions and responses

This is what happens when you don’t have father

Why do your guests always have a better posture than you? And how is that professional to dress like this for an interview?

she’s kinda amazing