The sad thing is that there are people like this out there -- who will choose their partner over their own child, even if the evidence is slapping them in the face.
As a mom. I will NEVER love a man more than I love my baby. ever. Even her father. If anything ever seemed off I would be gone immediately. Don’t care who you are or how much I love you. I will ALWAYS love my babies more.
Personally if this wasn’t acting considering that the daughter was probably 18 or 19 I would have just left I mean especially if you’re of age I don’t care if you’re visiting leave just leave
This is currently happening to me, and I wish people would see it. He’s so narcissistic and every time I mention it, he says the same things. “Why don’t you love me?” “Do you hate me or something?” “But my love language is touch!” “No, it’s okay. I understand. I’m not your real dad.” (To my mom) “Why does she treat me like this?”
I pray for you, dear. may you get away as soon as possible.😢 Maybe reach out to a close friend or family who will, in turn, help you get out of there. 🙏 🙏 🙏
This is exactly my dad's father and I managed to escape thank god. It's even worse when people start telling you how good of a person they are. It's so painful. I'm with you, I've been there. I still sometimes have this happen to me because I can't completely avoid seeing my dad's father until I'm 18. My dad's father is also narcassistic af and he's said all of these. You have my support and I'm sorry I can't offer more. The best thing I've found is sharing my story and experiences.
How could a mother believe a random guy she met over her own damn child?! That’s crazy. Your children always come first. She only met him a few months ago.
I hate when moms let their boyfriends act like this to their children and the mom turns a blind eye. People say "well its hard to leave a situarion like that," or "she really just didnt know" Bitch i dont care how hard it is, you protect your children and get them out of the situation. When there are so many red flags like that and the mom refuses to believe the child, i blame the mom almost as much as the man because she kept him around her kids.
If u have kids u have no excuse. They should always come first 😢 i broke up with my kids dad 8 years ago and i havent dated scince because i dont trust random men around my kids i would rather wait till my kids are adults and leave home and im happy to wait and if i miss out on my soulmate its worth it to protect my children. Nobody and/or anything will ever come infront of the people i made come into this world . My kids mean far too much to me to put them in a bad situation EVER!!!
Not my stepdad, my mom’s boyfriend. He moved in when I was 12, almost 13. Didn’t take long for me to see he was verbally and emotionally abusive, mostly towards me, and he was a sponge. I told my mom that was what I thought of him a few months in and that she should get rid of him. Her response was that one day my sister and I were going to move out one day and she wanted what she wanted… My sister was almost 18. I wasn’t even 13!!! Worse, I was denied the right to go to college because I had to get a job out of high school to help her support his sponge ass! Do you know how many years of his abuse I put up with?! Technically I still put up with it because they’re still together and I’m 50 now. Do the math… This is why I started seeing my guidance counselor in 7th grade, an actual therapist at 17 and I’m still in therapy today. We won’t even talk about the “father” in this situation. He was worse… My mom sure knew how to pick them, didn’t she…
This is awful! I know it might be difficult, but can't you distance yourself from them? After all this time, they're still causing you pain. It's never too late to achieve peace and happiness.
And this exact situation happened to me. Still no one cares and they are both still together. I am the one who was abused, spoke up and was in return alienated from the rest of my family for “lying”, I’m “crazy”. He told me he touched me like that because he is Italian. I feel gross and like I want to die. Them, they are somehow chillin and completely fine. That acting was bad but on point. :(
Idk why people always want to protect those that abuse others. Those people that did this to you are completely evil. I hope you're old enough to cut ties with all of these people, and receive the help you need. 💕
I’m Latino and I don’t like how they used a Latin guy for this role again with the stereotypes misogynistic, aggressive, creepy, uses money to as a weapon and possibly likes to do S/A I’m so fed up with them and life lesson channels suck bad.
There are also a lot of positive Latin examples out there in addition to this predatory one. Portrayal of these characters is important to prevent others from falling prey to others like him, and to validate the survivors of those who went through something like that.
8:13 i just wanna say as a spanish person that we ARE touchy like we hug and kiss to greet each other but men don't just touch your leg the second they see you ;-; ma'am that is NOT a culture thing
Guys and gals , regardless if the parent is blood or not , your child should come first . If they seem uncomfortable with a parent or expresses discomfort , listen to them and dont force them to interact with said person Edit : dude ( creep in the vid ) blink when you talk , its creepy 😂
What makes this even grosser is that some kids who are exposed to this will think its ok and likely copy this behavior while joking with their friends or siblings
This brought up some traumatic memories for me cause I experienced something like this and I never told my mom about it until I was 19 cause I was to embarrassed to say anything
I completely understand that. My father doesn't know that I've experienced this kinda thing from his dad. I'm 17. I plan to eventually tell my dad but I'm waiting until I can withdraw money from accounts my dad's father has access to. It's pretty painful to listen to people compliment my dad's father and how he's a good man but he's really a scummy person. I'm so sorry you went through this experience. Nobody deserves this.
Am I wrong for hating the mum more than the step dad? I mean, what he did was VERY wrong but the mum let it happen. She sided with the step dad instead of her own daughter. She accused her daughter of lying. I just feel so bad for that girl for experiencing that.
@@crazybutcutecherry I have, yes. But that should have been included in my explanation. They are more touchy with each other than Americans, but they aren't disrespectful about it, like the guy above was being
I have this boy in my class who sexually assaults me, and other girls in my class. About 3 days ago he touched my butt and said: 'Oh sorry'. One of my friends told me he touched her boobs and butt. And about a month ago he told my best friend: 'I wanna have sex with you' He thought i didn't hear him, but i was literally next to them while this happened. And that's not the worst part. When me and all the girls in my class were changing ANOTHER BOY OPENED THE DOOR WHILE SOME GIRLS WERE IN THEIR UNDERWEAR. Thank God he didn't look tho. My male teacher also opens the door while we're changing, he did this multiple times. And he has a girlfriend. All the girls in my class are EXTREMELY UNCOMFORTABLE. And the worst part is, i just started 6th grade. Update: Me and the girls in my class have gone to our teacher and he forced the boy to say sorry, the boy said he did nothing wrong and started crying. At the end the day, the teacher believed the boy because he's like 'the favourite child' instead of 11 girls.
It was bad enough but the fact that you're 13 at most makes it more disturbing you shoud talk to a adult if you haven't already I know sometimes they just don't give a damn or even tell that you're responsible for it or you should just forget but you should try at least Stay safe❤
In sixth grade there was a teacher that would call the girls sexy and other INAPPROPRIATE things he was also a gym teacher. He had also been doing this for years before I got there- I was warned to stay away from him. Thank goodness covid hit in seventh grade and I never had to see him again.
Im so sorry, you all deserve better. You made me realise that I’ve been sexually assaulted. I was only 12 and a boy in my class came and slapped my butt outta nowhere and i didn’t realise how bad that was at the time and you’ve now made me realise. Thanks so much. I hope you okay
8:18 Oh my gosh, this reminds me of this older guy that had groomed me online. I tried convincing myself that his odd behaviors were just a cultural thing or that something was mistranslated since he was from a different country. Pretty sure there's big differences in any culture between people being friendly and people being creeps. For example, it's common for friends in the French culture to greet with cheek kisses but in most cases, the kissing doesn't actually make contact. That would only happen with family members (like kids who affectionately kiss their moms on the cheek, not something weird) or between people who are dating. I know there's a culture too where hold-handing between friends is a thing too but in both these examples, consent has to be involved.
The sad truth is that when parents go back into the dating scene they would choose their partner over their child, and the kid just sits there as the second option. And whatever the kid says the parent blames or faults the child. Edit : My classmates name is Fabian and he is also a total creep.
I am glad my parent’s never broke up and went dating for another, also, I can relate to you. When I was 7, I got harassed for over an year by a boy 1-2 years older than me, his name is Anthony. I forgot his last name though.
Honestly I as a 13 year old has been sexually assaulted by my mom’s bf at 12 and this is kinda relatable as my own mother didn’t believe me or my lil sister when she was sexually harassed as well beware she was only 8… it disgusting how much this has happened
sam think happened to me but my step broth but he full on made out with me its sad that its more then makeing out he is 14 and i am 9 ngl its straight fucked up
5:40 Oh boy I remember when my dad's father did this to me a few months ago, especially in the car. He'd also touch my butt and make comments on my body. He did it even when I kept trying to move away and got offended when I moved away. Sometimes he still does it if he gets the chance. These videos are therapeutic in a sense that it validates my experiences but it's also very disturbing to watch. I do appreciate when people talk about these things, and can sprinkle in a few careful jokes that are still respectful but funny to help make it easier to talk about. Humor is my coping mechanism. Also you might call the acting bad but that mother reminds me very heavily of my dad's mother because she is delusional and crazy. My "grandmother" is literally that insane. She literally constantly said stuff like that to me. This feels almost identical to what I went through. The most unrealistic part of the argument is "go to your room" instead of taking out the wooden spoon.
im so sorry, i hope your dads father suffers a great deal of severe pain, for what hes put you through, youll heal and get through it, it wasnt your fault and you are enough
@@mellohighh Thank you and I'm not an advocate for violence but I think it's excusable if inflicted upon someone who is known to have been inappropriately touching kids. I wouldn't wish the experience on anyone.
Seeing these stories in the comments make me sick, im so sorry if you’re experiencing this. Please don’t be afraid to speak up, if your family member doesn’t believe, report to the police.
Recently discovered you and I love your stuff! Currently binge watching your videos and laughing my ass off. Also, cant figure out your accent but I love it! Keep up the good work!
OMG IM EATING RAMEN NOODLES AND I SLURPED THEM UP LIKE “CFKFYUXXDFGYUXDGFKYUXDRGUDRGSDYRKGSERUUFGSEUUKRFGES” cuz that was a crazy, crazy, CRAZY sighting 😂😂😂😂😂
The truly sad thing is, children get treated like this EVERY SINGLE DAY in this his disgustingly evil. world. But what's even more heartbreaking is when no one believes them. The youngest person to ever give birth was 5 YEARS OLD ! No it's not a typo is said 5 . They're pictures of her with her painfully distended belly showing, and some right after she had her son, I believe it was. And to this day, they have no idea who did this to her.😢
😂😂😂The noises with the coke. Yes being Portuguese I can confirm in Spain it's like that obviously. In Portugal it's different we just jump on people's legs.😂😂😂😂😂😂
I watched this video a few years ago and it disappointed me because I didn't expect the bad ending 😞. I wish there was part 2 of it where the daughter finally got justice.
I have had a middle aged mom before, and she has never been a wine-aholic. Also as someone that went through something similar when I was younger its just disgusting and so sad. I have pstd, schizophrenia due to trauma, anxiety, depression its just awful.
"You were RIGHT THERE! What, are you fucking deaf?"😋 I love it when ppl get called out on ish like that! I hate it when ppl play dumb, or they try to play us as if we're the dumb ones! Spanish ppl are really touchy? No.....
As a father myself,I would never be in love with someone who hurts,or touches my children inappropriate I would rather be single and happy than be married and my kids be hurt,But I found a girlfriend who is a great mom and treats my kids right ❤
