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Stephen Fry meets an ex-gay therapist. Segment from "Stephen Fry: Out There" 

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Stephen Fry meets the founder of NARTH, Dr Joseph Nicolosi and also interviews a former patient Daniel Gonzales and his mother Carol Ann Gonzales-Totten
Video clip is from the two part documentary "Stephen Fry: Out There"

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@Bigvader
@Bigvader 9 лет назад
If homosexuality is a choice then so is heterosexuality. I have been a heterosexual my entire life. At no point did I make the "decision" that I was going to spend my life being attracted to females. Never once have I said "You know, I've decided I'm going to like tits."
@davidmaskey203
@davidmaskey203 4 года назад
Nicolosi doesn't say that same-sex attraction is a choice though. Living life as a homosexual IS a lifestyle choice. Also, why would same-sex attraction being a choice make heterosexuality a choice too anyway?
@eclaire_x88x
@eclaire_x88x 4 года назад
@@davidmaskey203 why would anyone choose to be in a minority, to be ridiculed and bullied out of choice. Saying homosexuality is a choice is by definition saying all sexuality is a choice...its ridiculous. You are who you are.
@davidmaskey203
@davidmaskey203 4 года назад
@@eclaire_x88x I don't think same-sex attraction is a choice and neither did Nicolosi when he was alive. Living that lifestyle is a choice though, how can it not be?
@davidmaskey203
@davidmaskey203 4 года назад
@puroB why would that make heterosexuality a choice though?
@eclaire_x88x
@eclaire_x88x 4 года назад
@@davidmaskey203 it's not a lifestyle choice its who you are it's part of your identity. You can no more choose your sexuality than you can choose your eye colour. I dont see why anyone would chose to be marginalised.
@sabrinafrolich5669
@sabrinafrolich5669 5 лет назад
Telling the anti-gay therapist that he could easily pass as a gay man and his reaction completely made my day. Thanks, Stephen 🏳️‍🌈
@michellea9857
@michellea9857 4 года назад
It’s oldest homosexual activist trick in the book
@michellea9857
@michellea9857 4 года назад
ric david thank you for your beautiful testimony, I am so glad you found healing and restoration in your sexuality.
@kevinellis8079
@kevinellis8079 4 года назад
Literally typical
@alexbennet4195
@alexbennet4195 4 года назад
ric david I pity you babe
@WestEndPianist
@WestEndPianist 4 года назад
The best moment is when he sort of realises Stephen is right and tries to "correct" his mannerisms. Priceless!
@aidangreene414
@aidangreene414 5 лет назад
THe amount of disgust in his voice when he said NARTH lmao
@omairsh8
@omairsh8 3 года назад
In that classic dry British delivery :D
@Brood98
@Brood98 5 лет назад
Here's how Dr Nicolosi described one of his patients in his book: "Thomas James walked into my Encino office - a strikingly handsome man, about six feet tall. His face was smooth, tan, well-scrubbed and moisturized; his eyes were an intense blue that matched the pastel color of his polo shirt. He was wearing crisp chino pants and polished brown loafers. I offered my hand and gave him a smile. Tom returned my greeting with a quick, forceful handshake, then dropped his lanky frame into the tapestry-print chair toward which I had motioned him.' Yeah dude that's how straight guys talk about other men kek. This dude gayer than Liberace lmfao.
@loodlebop
@loodlebop 5 лет назад
I actually think there was some homosexual related scandal with this "therapist" or one of them in recent years, which would explain this excerpt
@Dehzee
@Dehzee 5 лет назад
holy wow, thanks for posting that.
@bossman1944
@bossman1944 5 лет назад
he was hot!
@PainfulRenegade
@PainfulRenegade 5 лет назад
That Liberace link... lmfao...
@Cyba_IT_NZ
@Cyba_IT_NZ 5 лет назад
I bet a lot of catholic preists wish they'd thought of this business plan first. As a way of finding young gay men and getting paid for it, it's brilliant. He's not as silly as he looks.
@AKmacintosh
@AKmacintosh 7 лет назад
Stephen Fry is the best, instead of getting angry or combative with the ex-gay therapist he tells him he could easily pass for a gay man, the look on that guys face was hilarious.
@JonathanDeLeon-em4px
@JonathanDeLeon-em4px 5 лет назад
The video was edited to look that way. We didn't get to hear Dr Nicolosi's response. He probably had a good retort to Stephen Fry's cheap shot.
@thegreenmage6956
@thegreenmage6956 5 лет назад
Actually, it was quite cruel of Stephen, and I am quite shocked he could show such self-conscious weakness.
@Crypt0n1an
@Crypt0n1an 5 лет назад
Actually that might be one of the worst things I've seen Fry do. Clearly it was meant as a cheap jab and the man took it as such. This is propaganda or at the very least a very partial view promoted by a gay man, I expected better from Fry. I'm not an advocate of conversion therapy but if people want to try it why is it any of Fry's business, as long as there is no coersion or adverse effects people can do what they want. These days we have 200 lb + men wanting to become women which is an infinitely more complex thing to do.
@nemo9864
@nemo9864 4 года назад
@@Crypt0n1an You know what else is messed up? Trying to convert gay people.
@Crypt0n1an
@Crypt0n1an 4 года назад
Hell's Bells If the conversion is desired by the person in question and there is no coercion then i see nothing wrong with that. The days of forced conversion are long gone. Try again!
@lucasmcloughlin4917
@lucasmcloughlin4917 7 лет назад
"You could easily pass as a gay man." The look in the guy's eyes is priceless. lmao
@jesuiscequejesuis2267
@jesuiscequejesuis2267 5 лет назад
Probably because the therapist was once gay (according to what he says in a video in 2015).
@elidrissii
@elidrissii 5 лет назад
Yes because it has nothing to do with the conversation being had, and is a retarded comment that distracts from the subject.
@jackmargetson2264
@jackmargetson2264 5 лет назад
Must have been edited, but I get you, funny either way 😂
@hummingbirdcity
@hummingbirdcity 5 лет назад
...and the sudden change in hand posture.
@thelastfreedomfighter2646
@thelastfreedomfighter2646 5 лет назад
Maybe because he's proving his point, that we have free will and that being gay is A choice, so we all could be gay. Too bad the masses of sheeple that liked this comment have no idea that this is an unprovable and popular statement yet you all seem to have opinions based on 0 evidence.
@sophiejameson4064
@sophiejameson4064 5 лет назад
I'm totally heterosexual. I couldn't make myself sexually attracted to other women. That's why I'm sure that the idea you can change someone's sexual orientation is just foolish.
@Nayshjin
@Nayshjin 5 лет назад
@Hairy Chinese Kid Nothing wrong with that tho
@Nayshjin
@Nayshjin 5 лет назад
@Hairy Chinese Kid alright
@kylekinnett6093
@kylekinnett6093 5 лет назад
Wait so you for you as a woman sexually that hard set for you? Because ive met grils who say they are straight but would hook up woth an attractive enough female
@childrenofbodom33333
@childrenofbodom33333 5 лет назад
@@kylekinnett6093 thats being bisexual and not admitting it
@kylekinnett6093
@kylekinnett6093 5 лет назад
@@childrenofbodom33333 ive often wondered about the subject
@matthewscott1091
@matthewscott1091 5 лет назад
“Did you abandon your faith?” “Yes I had to abandon my faith.” I swear one of the number one killers of faith is religion. I too saw one of these therapists when I was 15. Before that I saw several others but they didn’t like me because I put them all in their place.😉 I respect everyone’s path but I am thankful I kept my faith. I actually married my husband in an LGBT affirming church. My mom walked me down the aisle & *yes* she’s come a looong way. We met at 19 and just had our 13 year anniversary. 🧡🙂💙
@laurawillits176
@laurawillits176 3 года назад
I love a happy story. Glad you found your love.
@olamaf1060
@olamaf1060 3 года назад
i’m so happy for you 🥺❤️
@gribwitch
@gribwitch 2 года назад
Your so called "marriage" is a sham. It is an offence against your Creator. Your counterfeit relationship is mocking His intention for us. And God will not be mocked. Perverted love is not love.
@Fyrdman
@Fyrdman 2 года назад
Hopefully it falls apart
@jaystone5036
@jaystone5036 Год назад
Awwww..I know it's 4years but this is heartwarming
@Er558858
@Er558858 8 лет назад
Haha 'you could pass as gay' 😂
@chickennoodlesoup3738
@chickennoodlesoup3738 8 лет назад
+Emily Charose his face..
@Er558858
@Er558858 8 лет назад
+Maria-Elena Martin Haha yep
@jeffc5974
@jeffc5974 8 лет назад
+Emily Charose There's a reason people get into that field.
@SuperEdge67
@SuperEdge67 8 лет назад
He didn't like it did he..
@MaartenvanHeek
@MaartenvanHeek 8 лет назад
boy he looked shocked upon that comment
@Asiangirlshot1
@Asiangirlshot1 7 лет назад
The face of the dr. when the interviewer said he might look as a gay man (stereotypes) is just priceless.
@mach9002
@mach9002 7 лет назад
he looked really gay at that moment xD
@TotalyOzzFan
@TotalyOzzFan 7 лет назад
Ahaha i love that moment :D He is So fabulously offended XD
@SusanOnTVShows
@SusanOnTVShows 7 лет назад
I love Stephen Fry's zingers.
@DissociatedWomenIncorporated
@DissociatedWomenIncorporated 7 лет назад
He almost looks scared that Stephen's going to ask him out. I'm not entirely sure that facial expression is _merely_ offence.
@PhiI93
@PhiI93 6 лет назад
It was like in that moment his world came crashing down on him, I love how Stephen didn't attack any of his ridiculous ideas but that last comment in the end was just a beauty.
@letolethe5878
@letolethe5878 6 лет назад
"What faults in myself do those characteristics I'm attracted to represent?" Oh my god, that is horrible, tragic, so, so cruel.
@laurawillits176
@laurawillits176 3 года назад
Horrible trap. No way out. Let's just love each other, whatever we are.
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
lol you moron... that's exactly the truth and your ego is not allowing you to accept that you were hurt and it's not your fault.. it's okay to accept that you were shamed regarding your sense of masculinity growing up... it's not cruel to be honest and help people who might want to heal from that trauma and not sleep with other men.
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
@Charlie121 lol it doesn't matter if I'm insulting you or not, moron. You're still wrong and I'm still right because I gave a logical answer and you did not.
@isacgoncalves425
@isacgoncalves425 2 года назад
@@cursedmoonfilms so how can masc gays exist if just a matter of embody the male caracteristics?
@lllccc1288
@lllccc1288 2 года назад
@@isacgoncalves425 for the most part they dont exist, their masculinity is just anger. and they will still be insecure
@THISxISxTHExMOMENT
@THISxISxTHExMOMENT 5 лет назад
"60% of our clients are teenagers" That made me sad... what a horrible person. These kids need support and love, not 'therapy' with some quack. (Im a straight female btw)
@Macca-95
@Macca-95 5 лет назад
Personally I have zero issue with adults doing this type of "therapy". I do not think it shows efficacy and I don't agree with it but if they wish to try it then that's their choice. I also have little issue with a, say 16-17 year old who chooses of their own volition to do this. I do not like the parents calling up for the child because they found him jerking it to gay porn, that is not right.
@TheIsambard82
@TheIsambard82 5 лет назад
@@Macca-95 No 16-17 year-old would choose of their own volition to do this, Macca. If they do, then they should be oriented towards a sensitive therapist who would help them to discuss self-esteem and internalised homophobia.
@thegatorhator6822
@thegatorhator6822 5 лет назад
@@TheIsambard82 Lmao what a warped view. I knew a guy in high school who was exactly like that.
@tommarsh9180
@tommarsh9180 5 лет назад
I had the same thought. of course more teens are confused by sexual thoughts.
@photostudio5861
@photostudio5861 5 лет назад
This guy, Nicolosi, is clearly gay himself and he may get off on hearing teenaged boys discussing their fantasies. Nicolosi will be doing the perp walk one day. Edit: OK, never mind. Nicolosi is dead.
@littleladytomboy
@littleladytomboy 9 лет назад
It's very interesting to me how most conversations about homosexuality revolve almost exclusively around gay men...not even a word about lesbians,as if they don't even exist.
@ian-op5fv
@ian-op5fv 9 лет назад
Gay men are more often ostracized, that's why.
@atomosvrial1708
@atomosvrial1708 9 лет назад
littleladytomboy I think the problem is that most homophobic organisations are led by men whom have no problem watching two women make out.
@justanotherutuber3
@justanotherutuber3 9 лет назад
littleladytomboy cause what man doesnt like lesbian action
@lilyperry2000
@lilyperry2000 8 лет назад
I think its because many religious anti gay organisations hate gay men more than lesbian women. Or maybe theres more cases of Gay men being put though conversation therapy. Either way, I think these organisations are gross.
@SkyBlueDevilsNest
@SkyBlueDevilsNest 7 лет назад
Guys like watching girls makeout but girls that like watching guys do that are weird and gross. Cuz it's totally fine to objectify women but not men.
@JustinHeretical
@JustinHeretical 8 лет назад
Oh come on, that guy can't turn gay people straight! He really isn't that ugly.
@dontwannadie7634
@dontwannadie7634 8 лет назад
SICK BURN!
@stevefromct168
@stevefromct168 8 лет назад
+Justin Heretical Good point.
@MrSupermonkeyman34
@MrSupermonkeyman34 5 лет назад
I thought it was really clever that they started the interview with daniel giving the impression that the therapy worked so you focus more on the ethics behind what dr nicolosi is doing rather than whether it is possible or not because clearly the ethics is the most important aspect that should be considered.
@ZacharyAlexanderGoh
@ZacharyAlexanderGoh 5 лет назад
The undoing for me when I came out to my mom was when she said she wondered if only I had told them sooner, how they could help me from there. I was infuriated. Honestly, both my parents should know better, but sadly, they’re blinded by their blind faith, but it was nonetheless what made me realise I had lost my parents to their concept of God. It is an immense pity.
@late8641
@late8641 4 года назад
I feel sorry for you, I think parents should accept and love their kids unconditionally and not try to form them to fit their own narrow view of the world. This is why I despise religion and favoring personal superstitions over reason and evidence.
@JoeDirtisawsome
@JoeDirtisawsome 9 лет назад
Lol his face when Steven said that he could pass for the gay man 😂😂
@Tuesdayjoe66
@Tuesdayjoe66 9 лет назад
Joe Dirt Yeah..he looked like he could kill didn't he?
@Demonlord468
@Demonlord468 9 лет назад
Joe Dirt Thats because he is gay... he admitted it in the Vice Interview! LOL Kinda ironic huh?
@kansas66701
@kansas66701 8 лет назад
But it's true...the doctor does seem gay, and I thought that when the cameras were first on him.
@TheClassicWorld
@TheClassicWorld 8 лет назад
+Tim Bultitude He almostlooked like..he himself actually is gay. Makes perfect sense to me.
@DabIMON
@DabIMON 7 лет назад
He keeps men from being attracted to other men by making them think about little girls? I wouldn't really call that a step in the right direction...
@MsCatwoman111
@MsCatwoman111 Год назад
That's not exactly what he said.
@No_name860
@No_name860 Год назад
Nice try, get behind me Satan. Stop trying to stop other people from the living their life how they would like. Not EVERYONE wants to be gay. Get over it.
@charlesdavis7087
@charlesdavis7087 6 лет назад
Thank you Stephen for being on earth.
@andrewt836
@andrewt836 3 года назад
Amen
@morbiusmorbius4906
@morbiusmorbius4906 3 года назад
Thank you
@maxuabo
@maxuabo 3 года назад
Happy to help
@tedmccarron
@tedmccarron Год назад
Thank you Dr. Nicolosi for being on Earth!
@shelleythompson2049
@shelleythompson2049 6 лет назад
So if a man beats a woman its the mothers fault, if he's gay its the fathers fault. Ahahahahahaaaaa... I really hope this guy offers a refund. How hilarious.
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
lol the reason this stuff seems to affect you enough to write such a silly message is because your ego is threatened since you've built your identity around something that comes from shame and trauma early in life. It's okay to admit and overcome that shame... it wasn't your fault.
@fuckgoogle9061
@fuckgoogle9061 2 года назад
@cat man do so if parents raise 5 children and 4 are straight and one gay you are claiming that they were amazing parents for 4 but shitty parents for one? If a family raises a gay child who becomes a doctor, lawyer, professional athlete, actor, etc they failed them? I can see your parents sadly failed you in the intellectual department
@GN.24.7
@GN.24.7 2 года назад
@@cursedmoonfilms you’re in every single comment section cope, u ppl made a world that allows 2 major world religions to compare us to rapists and pedos, oh but our egos threatened says the bitch who worships a literal rape baby
@helenchelmicka3028
@helenchelmicka3028 7 лет назад
major props to Stephen Fry for interviewing him so calmly and respectfully. I'd be shaking with rage at something so monstrous
@theblueadventurer615
@theblueadventurer615 3 года назад
I actually think Fry is the idiot here, so that's the least he could do.
@bagelz3359
@bagelz3359 3 года назад
Rage is a sign of not being in control , calm down and breathe , think about tittys or something calming
@jackoblllllllll
@jackoblllllllll 3 года назад
@@theblueadventurer615 why do you think that Frys the idiot?
@cursedspider
@cursedspider 3 года назад
@@theblueadventurer615 how
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
lol you're pathetic if you think this is "monstrous".. it's the truth, you lemming.
@TimPalman
@TimPalman 8 лет назад
"It's bad enough being an adolescent most of the time than to have interested parties from either group trying to recruit you" truth
@lauralil6886
@lauralil6886 6 лет назад
well said.
@lizardas
@lizardas 6 лет назад
rob saxon, that's a direct quote from Stephen Fry at the end of the video.
@lauralil6886
@lauralil6886 6 лет назад
i know. i see the quotation marks. my reply still stands.
@Baalur
@Baalur 6 лет назад
When I first heard him say that I thought: He might get in trouble for saying something like that in today's political climate.
@lizardas
@lizardas 6 лет назад
Why, Baalur? What kind of trouble? Stephen Fry has a formidable intellect, and he isn't confrontational in debates. He would walk all over anyone who took issue with what he said, but in the most polite way. He speaks eloquently about his own homosexuality.
@robertshaus5941
@robertshaus5941 5 лет назад
Proof any fool can get a Ph.D.
@Naptosis
@Naptosis 5 лет назад
@@itsmetheherpes1750 There in Moscow you elect the closeted terrorist as President\Dicktaster, and gangs go around unzipping their trousers, taking their tiny, frozen, Russian grapes out, and pee on innocent men to prove to themselves that the closeted feelings they have inside, aren't real. To go out hunting for defenceless gay people, who don't do individuals, nor society, any harm, means that you doth protest too much. Try therapy. Or castration.
@aeonjoey3d
@aeonjoey3d 5 лет назад
he's more like a soulless ghoul preying upon his fellow gay people (bc he's gay af) battling forever with his own internalized homophobia, and used that self hatred and decided to make money off of others to keep himself occupied so he stops thinking about DICKS lol
@franciscoantonius8583
@franciscoantonius8583 5 лет назад
No, he is not fool. As a gay, I acknowledge that his theory is true.
@TheThreatenedSwan
@TheThreatenedSwan 4 года назад
Cool it with the antisemitism
@ozurking4748
@ozurking4748 4 года назад
Well i do have a PRETTY HUGE Di--
@Lukemooredrums
@Lukemooredrums 5 лет назад
Ah shit. i was straight, watched this guy and now i love the shaft. He's good!
@xdman20005
@xdman20005 5 лет назад
"i used to be homosexual, but i had to stop, becuase it made my eyes water"
@P3t3rPizzarelli
@P3t3rPizzarelli 5 лет назад
Congrats, I’m so proud of you
@uberethair
@uberethair 5 лет назад
Richard Roundtree is a treasure, you should love him
@fraser1614
@fraser1614 7 лет назад
I love the doctors face when Stephen suggests he could pass as a gay man
@pauligrossinoz
@pauligrossinoz 6 лет назад
Fraser Budd-Brophy - he's thinking: _"Shit, I'm busted - he knows I'm actually gay, and there goes my income stream"._
@ItsNotRealLife
@ItsNotRealLife 6 лет назад
Fraser Budd-Brophy As soon as i saw him walk across the room i had a doubt about him
@tonygilder7912
@tonygilder7912 6 лет назад
Peter Really? That is the Brit mentality where all the boys have been buggered buy age 9 for generations. No mate, all boys don't fancy cocks. You can "slipper em" all you want but the world is littered with grown blokes who will never get over it. Remember that the next time you want to accuse a man of being a queer just because he disagrees with you on the topic. Believe it or not, some boys did not like it when the vicar wanked him.
@ItsNotRealLife
@ItsNotRealLife 6 лет назад
Tony Gilder What ARE you on about?
@tonygilder7912
@tonygilder7912 6 лет назад
Peter What are you?
@doctorfeelfunny584
@doctorfeelfunny584 7 лет назад
Does he teach Asians not to be Asian, tall people to be shorter, or just the gay to straight thing?
@josephmckenna8780
@josephmckenna8780 7 лет назад
well said
@ashaank
@ashaank 7 лет назад
Why people just don't understand that "live and let live" is beyond me. Well said btw!
@usha3938
@usha3938 7 лет назад
*disclaimer-I fully support the rights of the LGBT peeps* The issue with gay to straight "therapy" is that sexuality is mostly a mental thing, and people's minds are in some aspects, more malleable than their bodies. It's why you can indoctrinate people.
@ashaank
@ashaank 7 лет назад
"sexuality is mostly a mental thing" - you what mate?
@usha3938
@usha3938 7 лет назад
ashaank much like every aspect of your personality, it mostly happens in your brain. That's why I put the disclaimer at the beginning.
@onelusciouslad7841
@onelusciouslad7841 3 года назад
"People are gay because parents" Me, a gay guy, with two loving and accepting parents: hmmm...
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
lol you're dishonest.. every same-sex attracted male including myself is that way as a result of early experiences having to do with one's sense of masculinity. Saying you felt no shame from your father, older brother, or male peers growing up having to do with your masculine identity and simply stating you had "loving and accepting" parents is such a lazy way of protecting one's ego. It's alright to say we were sensitive and felt shame causing us to identify more closely with our mothers and later have a sexual response to masculinity as an attempt to repair the lack of healthy, emotional connection with other males.
@onelusciouslad7841
@onelusciouslad7841 3 года назад
@@cursedmoonfilms No, I had good male friends, wasn't more attached to either one of my parents, I've always loved both of them as much as each other, I have an older brother, we never really fought or anything, never felt any shame from him or my father, never really had any shame from my family so no, I'm just gay, it's literally just how I was born, saying that, what? Masculine experiences make you straight? That's not how it works my guy, you can be super masculine and be gay, you can be super feminine and be straight, you can be way more attached to your dad and be gay, you can be way more attached to your mother and be straight.
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
​@@onelusciouslad7841 lmao you're being dishonest and protecting what you think is your identity, I get it... it's hard to admit it, but it's easy to understand. If you are born male you are by default hardwired biologically and psychologically to be straight. You don't "become straight" by any experiences lol stop being dumb and pretending it's the same thing as becoming gay through experiences. One becomes gay over time and can happen unbeknownst to anyone in the family because things that might not seem traumatic to others can be very real to some boys who can be born more sensitive temperamentally. It is a combination of temperament as well as shame moments having to do with ones sense of masculinity. To be gay is the antithesis of masculinity lol... the entire psychological process behind gay thoughts/feelings are nothing more than an attempt at reaching healthy emotional male acceptance and affirmation. Masculinity is not the same thing as macho or acting like a "bro".. lol if you're engaging in gay sex, you're trying, in a maladaptive way to repair your lack of sense of masculinity.
@ianmoore9846
@ianmoore9846 3 года назад
@@cursedmoonfilms you should run your ‘antithesis of masculinity’ theory past some gay rugby players ...
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
@@ianmoore9846 lol that's a weak attempt at argument and a strawman fallacy. Masculinity is not "rugged macho man" or a "rugby player". You can be as big and muscular as Mike Tyson, but if you crave buttsex, you are not masculine. You wouldn't have that sexual attraction if you got the healthy emotional connection you needed from masculinity as a boy.
@Accyber
@Accyber 5 лет назад
6:12 - 6:20 "That means the therapy is working" Nah man that means the kid is trying to say he's cured so that he can get out of this wacko "therapy" that his parents forced him into
@Raivan31
@Raivan31 9 лет назад
My mother was cold and distant (not mean, just ...there...like a piece of furniture) and my father is a racist, biggoted, sexist, narcissist, who once arranged for my older brother to beat the shit out of me for his entertainment, another time he allowed my brother to use his Great Dane to attack me (I have some large holes in me now, thanks for that guys, real top shelf stuff that) And I'm not gay.... or even all that traumatised... well..ok... I live with a constant rage, but apart from that I'm ok.
@IEatSkrubsMyGrub
@IEatSkrubsMyGrub 9 лет назад
Call childline rite nau
@Portubed
@Portubed 9 лет назад
***** It's not about condemning anyone, for crying out loud. It's about helping them precisely with the issues that they lived in their early years, especially with the parents but not just that.
@Bigbub66
@Bigbub66 9 лет назад
Raivan31 I've never seen someone's emotional presence as "like a piece of furniture". It'd be funny if the story weren't so sad.
@cornelishenk4569
@cornelishenk4569 9 лет назад
Raivan31 I would kick my brothers ass and then hit my dad with my strong back pimphand.
@aliendruglord
@aliendruglord 9 лет назад
***** what a load of crap you've been brainwashed to believe lol it's unbelievable. you do realize there is homosexuality in NATURE. and there is actual scientific proof to support it, a basic google search could tell you that. your opinion is not only wrong, but also very disrespectful to arguably about 15-20% of the population.
@alluvermin
@alluvermin 7 лет назад
Everything you ever needed to know about that man and what his motivations are is revealed in the fear in his eyes the moment Stephen tells him he could pass for a gay man
@pauligrossinoz
@pauligrossinoz 6 лет назад
alluvermin - yeah, he feared for the loss of the income he derives from his abusive "'therapy". He's just a greedy charlatan.
@ineffablemars
@ineffablemars 6 лет назад
He probably is a self hating gay.
@poorenglishjuggler
@poorenglishjuggler 6 лет назад
alluvermin yes ashamed of his gayness.
@singu7764
@singu7764 5 лет назад
Have you ever heard about video montage?! No? ;)
@jrtien
@jrtien 5 лет назад
Really? You can get all of that from the expression he makes? Thats a huge leap.
@81Mace81
@81Mace81 6 лет назад
5:55 It seems Dr Nicolosi would rather his patients fixate on 'little girls' than grown men.
@itsmetheherpes1750
@itsmetheherpes1750 5 лет назад
be careful, P is a part of the LGBTQIAPK+ community, and it is protected by law. are you somehow discriminating ? it is illegal, and you can get in trouble for it. are you a Nazi ? is that it ? go ahead, explain to the court about how you are a Nazi. do you know what Nazi's did ? ha ? you piece of shit. stop discriminating.
@81Mace81
@81Mace81 5 лет назад
Ha, being called 'uptight' by someone who clearly fails to grasp the concept of comment frivolity.... dude.
@81Mace81
@81Mace81 5 лет назад
Err I THINK you've got the wrong thread as A) Nobody here said they were homosexual, and B) Nobody even mentioned 'Born that way' so I think you'd best read a little more carefully in future ;-)
@claudearmstrong9232
@claudearmstrong9232 5 лет назад
NPC #947382746578 Perfect! But, those with irrational hate for all those who share the truth about the acquired sexual preference for same gender sex are far too invested in their warped nature to face themselves and apply common sense facts against their choices. That's not to say that they cannot change their tastes, it is to say that their PRIDE lassos their self-respect and causes them to rise up in irrational protection and promotion of their damaging choices to then inflict their life style on all others they can possibly convert to their form of religious faith.
@81Mace81
@81Mace81 5 лет назад
@NPC #947382746578 No deflection needed. You clearly have an inability to accept comments on humorous face value. My remark is a completely valid (whilst tongue-in-cheek) observation. I'm sorry for you that your bigotry makes you feel the need to respond with such bitterness.
@thomasarthurmaj
@thomasarthurmaj 6 лет назад
Much respect to Stephen Fry for sitting down to talk with someone with whom you disagree fundamentally. Takes courage. More of us need to do the same. Maybe we’ll learn more than we expect.
@ivaneidedesousa4738
@ivaneidedesousa4738 7 лет назад
Laughing my eyes off just looking at the face of the doc when Stephen says he can "easily pass a gayman" !!!!!
@lukedixon9426
@lukedixon9426 6 лет назад
Ivaneide de Sousa look again closely, its clearly an edit of Stephen interrupting him, and him listening
@MOTIVATIONBYDAR
@MOTIVATIONBYDAR 5 лет назад
@@lukedixon9426 Exactly
@BenWillock
@BenWillock 8 лет назад
I had very little to do with my father until I was 18 and was very close to my mother and I'm pretty sure I'm not gay.
@BanAaron
@BanAaron 8 лет назад
+Ben Willock What they say is, if you hate your father then you want to be with men to regain the closeness with a man that you never had. If you hate your mother then you become repulsed by women and therefore prefer men. You can't win. They want you to be different and will tell you whatever they have to, to change you.
@Atlas65
@Atlas65 6 лет назад
I had a gay roommate. And he didn´t really get well with his mother, but did get well with his father. All the straight friends that I have that don´t get along with one of their parent is usually they don´t get well with their father. Maybe it has to do with what Fraud talked about the Oedipus complex, so it makes perfect sense that t is the other way around with gay men.
@onionhead9414
@onionhead9414 6 лет назад
apart from fucking men in the ass , no you're not gay at all Ben
@markc5504
@markc5504 5 лет назад
Stupid statement. Does prove anything.
@markc5504
@markc5504 5 лет назад
I meant, does'nt prove anything
@jessesmitg2137
@jessesmitg2137 6 лет назад
This is so sad. But so good that that young man was finally able to accept himself for who he is. For everyone out there, never let anyone tell you there’s something wrong in you or something that needs to be changed. Gay, straight, bi, asexual, unsure, whatever...it’s all perfectly normal and ok.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou Год назад
That's simply not true. If you were truly interested in science, surely you would acknowledge that homosexuality is an outlier and therefore the very antithesis to normal.
@Newt.--.Jaeden
@Newt.--.Jaeden 5 лет назад
Considering my first ever notion that I may prefer men was when I was 6, I doubt it's about trauma
@cursedmoonfilms
@cursedmoonfilms 3 года назад
uhh a 6 year old boy doesn't have any concept of attraction towards another male unless he was shown that likely through abuse... or you're being dishonest... or it's just that the shame moments from masculine forces (such as the father perhaps) likely happened very early for you
@Limemill
@Limemill 3 года назад
Of course they do. Every gay I know has been attracted to men from early childhood the same way I knew at 6 I was attracted to girls. My first crush that I can remember was around 4 or 5 y. o.
@Limemill
@Limemill 3 года назад
This is complete bullshit. The amount of straight people raised by single moms is the same as the amount of straight people raised by couples. Likewise, as many gay people emerge from two-parent families as they do from single-parent families. Finally, there’s no statistical difference in the amount of gay people raised by gay couples vs straight couples, whereas by your logic, in the supposed absence of any ‘masculinity’ in gay couples, their children should ´become’ gay too, which is absolutely not the case. Last but not least, in animal species with two distinct genders (which is not always the case) that are not bisexual (like dolphins), the percentage of gay animals remains stable across generations, much like in humans. Given the most different parenting setups there exist in nature (two parents, one parent only, almost no parenting at all, the whole pack is parenting, etc.), for sure this has nothing to do with examples of ´masculinity’.
@Limemill
@Limemill 3 года назад
@cat man do Why the hell would you need a source for something that is true unless proven otherwise? Give me your sources to the contrary coming from respectable peer-reviewed journals and not the Christian Science Monitor. By proxy, if you compare, say, the black and white populations in the US, the former are twice as often raised by single mothers, but the amount of non-straight blacks is roughly the same as that of whites (give or take, depending on the poll it's either the same, slightly lower or higher by one percent point; never will you see anything close to a two-fold difference).
@Limemill
@Limemill 3 года назад
@cat man do I *have* been talking about prorated figures, obviously, not the absolute numbers, hence percentages being mentioned and not people. Cool, if you're saying this is well established send my way: 1) Say, a couple dozen of studies in renown peer-reviewed journals by recognized researchers in the field and a few meta analyses of the totality of peer-reviewed evidence demonstrating a clear correlation between single-family parenting and prevalence of gay children (there cannot be any causation established since there's no clear-cut consensus on mechanisms affecting sexuality); 2) Data of similar provenance showing that, in relative terms, black people have as many more gay people among them as there are more single-family households as compared to whites
@brookaboo92
@brookaboo92 9 лет назад
These....sick....bastards. I want to cry and scream and cry some more over this kind of shit; "healing" "resolving", this is so messed up it makes it hard for me to even keep living on this planet...I feel so sorry and so ashamed of my fellow humans for doing things like this to innocent people
@blackraider777
@blackraider777 9 лет назад
Anna Sigurdsson you sound like a nice christian
@Siorse
@Siorse 9 лет назад
Anna Sigurdsson I seriously hope you are trolling, because otherwise you might be one of the most deluded, self righteous people I've seen. Perhaps you should get some help for your apparent metal conditions.
@SusanRoseArt
@SusanRoseArt 9 лет назад
Anna Sigurdsson Anna, your vehement protestations tell a story about what is going on inside your heat and soul. You are possibly the angriest person involved in this discussion so again I ask you, what has happened in your life to make you feel such anger? To you, this is personal, you are incensed, you are oozing hatred. Some people are anti-gay, that is their right, but you take it to the bowels of the earth. Sweetie, I think for your own peace of mind, you get some therapy and then, not only will you see all your "facts" are wrong but you will also discover that you are causing offence and hurting perfectly nice and genuine people. Love makes the world a happier place, not your tornado of unkindness.
@annasigurdsson6755
@annasigurdsson6755 9 лет назад
RosebudliasCabochons I'm the angriest? Did you read the original poster? But you are right that I'm angry when they turn a sexual perversion into a human rights issue.
@jamesboyd4597
@jamesboyd4597 9 лет назад
Anna Sigurdsson Wow, just wow. Please just stop talking. The bullshit coming out of your mouth is vile and horrendous. Homosexuality is NOT a perverted sickness. YOU are the one that is brainwashed by religion. Religion spawns fear and hate, and clearly you are full of hate and fear of Homosexuals. They have to be one of the nicest groups of people in the world, and certainly don't hate like you do. Unbelievable.
@nicksum29
@nicksum29 8 лет назад
Perverse. Don't know why one human being would try to twist someone's mind so abominably. Just evil.
@nicksum29
@nicksum29 8 лет назад
***** Being evil is gay.
@nicksum29
@nicksum29 8 лет назад
***** Charming.
@roder51
@roder51 8 лет назад
+Ghenghis Khan Your book. Your rules. You go to hell.
@gattamelata1940
@gattamelata1940 8 лет назад
+Ghenghis Khan: and isn't that what you would like? Homophobes usually are repressed homosexuals
@joe4316
@joe4316 8 лет назад
+Ghenghis Khan Were you born that ignorant, or did you choose to be that way? You have no authority over who goes to hell, you self righteous twit. Not that there is sufficient evidence that heaven or hell exists.
@ConstantThrowing
@ConstantThrowing 6 лет назад
god I love Stephen Fry so much. What a thoroughly decent and morally consistent man. Truly.
@gribwitch
@gribwitch 2 года назад
Homosexuals ( of which Fry is one ) are "morally consistent" ??? Ha-ha ! Try consistently immoral.
@ConstantThrowing
@ConstantThrowing 2 года назад
@@gribwitch hahaha that's absolutely true if you're an ultra religious caveperson and live in the dark ages.
@Electric-Lady
@Electric-Lady 3 года назад
Kids, don't ever let society tell you who you can and cannot love. If there is a Higher Being, it created you exactly as you're meant to be.
@TryingtoTellYou
@TryingtoTellYou Год назад
If a higher being did this to me, I'd like it's address and a baseball bat.
@joelgough4638
@joelgough4638 7 лет назад
Great interviews.He didn't try to fight with the counsellor, he listened, assessed, and presented what he had to say.
@rywilk
@rywilk 9 лет назад
"Are you happy?" "I'm satisifed with my sexuality". That doesn't really answer the question...
@arranbreckenridge7055
@arranbreckenridge7055 6 лет назад
After the interview it's revealed he's still gay and he and his family are comfortable with that
@arranbreckenridge7055
@arranbreckenridge7055 6 лет назад
After the interview it's revealed he's still gay and he and his family are comfortable with that
@lukedixon9426
@lukedixon9426 6 лет назад
Ryan Wilkinson Something I'd like answering is, let's say somebody went for therapy, managed to stop fornicating with same sex partners, but still has the "urge" to, does that mean they are still gay ? If you say yes, then how do you explain recovering drug addicts? Recovering addicts will, for a long time, if not always, have the "urge" to do drugs, but they fight it. So you are saying an alcoholic, who hasn't had a drink in 5 years is still an alcoholic because they have fairly regular urges to have a drink ? Russel Brand admits he'd be high all the time, but it makes him a worse person, is he still a heroin addict? Non sense. Like with anything, if you create a pleasure pathway in your brain, it is incredibly difficult to shut that pathway down (9 years they say). This is why I hold the point: the only evil thing to do is tell a person they can't change, not to help them to change.
@GN.24.7
@GN.24.7 2 года назад
@@lukedixon9426 false equivalency, homosexuality isn’t the same as being an alcoholic which objectively is a choice
@GN.24.7
@GN.24.7 2 года назад
I mean would you expect him to be happy when he lives in a world where 2 major world religions call for the damnation of ppl like him?
@Romanticoutlaw
@Romanticoutlaw 5 лет назад
Stephen Fry is my hero. I first learned about him through his voice acting in games, and his performance was so remarkable that I had to know who was behind the voice. He gives me renewed faith in humanity.
@DamaXion
@DamaXion 5 лет назад
Stephen Fry looks so disgusted talking to the doctor, but he still keeps his composure and never raises his voice, he' an amazing man!
@tedmccarron
@tedmccarron Год назад
He himself is disgusting so he's really not much of a position to be disgusted about anything.
@Fingeringmyboarddude
@Fingeringmyboarddude Год назад
@@tedmccarron reply?
@generouslyfat
@generouslyfat Год назад
​@@tedmccarron be quiet you nonce
@LFOVCF
@LFOVCF 9 лет назад
That Doc's face when SF said he could pass as gay, lol...his face was like a smacked arse! lol
@Harry-qr8jr
@Harry-qr8jr 7 лет назад
"Well there was this girl when I was 13" ..."good triangle of containment, picture that girl" HOLD THE PHONE You just asked some guy who thinks he's gay to picture a 13 year old girl and see if they are attracted to them.
@LuciferSpiro1993
@LuciferSpiro1993 5 лет назад
When "I" was 13. Not "My classmate" when I was 13.
@SuperRoboats
@SuperRoboats 5 лет назад
"well when I was 13 years old, there was this little girl at school..."
@harry99072
@harry99072 5 лет назад
"The good news is that you're not gay anymore, the bad news is that you're a peadophile"
@marcuspainter4885
@marcuspainter4885 5 лет назад
Harry Potter my thoughts exactly!! I was like wait..... What?! And he says being gay is the problem.
@mannfan12
@mannfan12 5 лет назад
Well when I was 13 there was this boy....
@m.f.5739
@m.f.5739 Месяц назад
It's very telling how calm and polite Dr. Nicolosi stood while the interviewer tried to provoke him and was very arrogant towards the end. He knows that he's right and knows about all the people he has helped, so he can only slightly smile when confronted with this kind of sarcastic ignorance. His books were a great help for me, I was really on the path downwards because of my SSA when I first discovered them, and even though he's not with us anymore, he changed my life to the better. This man is a hero to so many men.
@coreycox2345
@coreycox2345 6 лет назад
I was pleased when my sons told me that many of their gay classmates were never even in the closet. This is an improvement from the way I remember school. It does not seem healthy to teach people not to trust their instincts. (Except when these damage others.)
@nazarenogualco1199
@nazarenogualco1199 4 года назад
@Politely Correct There is not a "homosexual gene". Dumbass.
@ALITISA78
@ALITISA78 7 лет назад
Ive spoken to my son in regards to some people being attracted to the same gender and some are not and never to judge. So far my son is wonderful with everyone whether it be sexuality/ race or a deformity he treats everyone the same. If every parent taught that to their children I believe the next generation would be a lot caring in nature.
@Fyrdman
@Fyrdman 2 года назад
You're clearly not suitable to be a parent.
@sebastianrolan-sayanez664
@sebastianrolan-sayanez664 7 лет назад
LMAO Stephen Fry to Nicolosi; "I am always interested in the phenomenon of metrosexual; without being the least bit offensive, I would say you fit that, rather well . . . You pass by GAY." What a memorable line to remember for future use!
@gasmaskboi19371945
@gasmaskboi19371945 6 лет назад
It made me smile when Stephen said what I was exactly I was thinking. That the guy could come across as a gay man.
@Torthrodhel
@Torthrodhel 5 лет назад
I like the subtle experiment he runs by telling the guy he could pass as a gay man. Anyone sensible knows that 'metrosexuality' isn't a sexuality at all, just a fad, pure nonsense based on gross stereotype. And would duly laugh it off, or give an "are you serious right now?" squint, or something along those lines. But this guy took it as an ultra-serious personal insult, and gave Stephen basically a death stare. I'm not even going to go into what I think about his method of encouraging his clients to lust after children rather than adults. For that alone this 'therapist' should be put to a firing squad.
@Dom20002007
@Dom20002007 3 года назад
It is not an experiment. It's a stupid stunt done for the cameras in order to discredit his ideas. Notice there was no opposition in terms of facts? His reaction was a clear edit which may not have even been to that statement from Fry. Notice they do not include his verbal response.
@Torthrodhel
@Torthrodhel 3 года назад
​@@Dom20002007 you say "discredit his ideas" as if his ideas require any discrediting. So call it whichever word you like (stunt or experiment, meaning basically the same thing just in a different tone). Allow me to repeat. The guy, under the guise of therapy, encouraged his clients to lust after children rather than adults. ^ is that alone not enough? Seriously? Lemme just answer my own question... it is. It is enough. There shouldn't even be a question over the validity of his "ideas" after that. What are you on? He's running a torture factory for people he has a prejudice against, there's nothing more to it than that. And if you require icing on the cake, then the fact that he wouldn't subject his own kid to it is a fifth nail in the four-nail coffin. Given all that, Fry could be dressed as a clown, jumping up and down and shouting "boo hiss" for 50 minutes and the result would be the same. Really doesn't matter. I was just appreciating that he teased an extra bit of bullshit out of the clear and obvious pile of bullshit, that's all. Was a neat trick, fun to pick up on.
@Dom20002007
@Dom20002007 3 года назад
I am just calling out dishonest and poor editing by Fry and his team. You seem quite emotionally invested in this topic. Where have you got the idea that he gets men to think sexually about children? I'd like the reference for that. Certainly none of his lectures on RU-vid advocate that. They all talk about addressing the underlying trauma. Again I haven't heard that about his child but ultimately his therapy would not work unless his child was willing. Your rather potent emotional reaction is why there is little science in this area which is to the detriment of homosexuals that are not comfortable with their sexuality.
@Torthrodhel
@Torthrodhel 3 года назад
@@Dom20002007 he says so in the video. And, there is little science in the area because it is an 'area' based entirely on a prejudice, and not valid in the first place. If anyone's uncomfortable with their sexuality, then all there is to that is social stigmas, and social prejudice. We don't even need sexuality categories in the first place. What's wrong with just being attracted to whoever you're attracted to, and not being attracted to whoever you're not attracted to? As is the case for literally everyone (nobody's attracted to everybody of any particular gender after all). Who even cares what gender anyone is? Why not just allow people to love who they love and be with who they want? Of course, I speak in terms of not doing harm. If you're attracted to underage people, that's doing harm (insufficient opportunity for personal development before making such decisions). There is no special type of harm done between people according to whether they're the same gender or not. It literally makes no difference at all. It's like you're saying the reason there isn't enough research into flat earth, phrenology or lizardman aliens is the emotional reaction of people like me. It's nonsense made to satisfy people scrambling for comforting beliefs in a messed up world, taken advantage of by those who want to prey on and increase prejudices. People like him. And once again, you have no reasoning to waive away his decision that his own child is too good for the emotional torture he subjects other peoples' children to. If there is nothing else so revealing, it's that.
@Jesse3beards
@Jesse3beards 7 лет назад
LOL! There's an ad on the side of this video to "Atlantis, All gay cruises"
@MatthewBaran
@MatthewBaran 7 лет назад
Lol, my ad was for Grindr xD.
@BoarhideGaming
@BoarhideGaming 7 лет назад
I hate to break it to you, guys, but Google makes these ads based on your internet search history.
@Jesse3beards
@Jesse3beards 7 лет назад
BoarhideGaming Yeah, we're watching a documentary about gay rights. I'll have you know I use incognito mode for my gay porn.
@MrSpruce
@MrSpruce 7 лет назад
Well saved Jesse.
@weaponofmassconstruction1940
@weaponofmassconstruction1940 7 лет назад
I'll have you know that there's no pussieeeeee!
@wamyc
@wamyc 7 лет назад
At first I was like, Stephen Fry... you were so close to Nicolosi and you didn't kill him on the spot! Then, after an extremely polite and measured interview, Stephen pays him the compliment that he'd pass very nicely for a gay man. I'm dying. perfection. Stephen Fry does not disappoint.
@craighicksartwork
@craighicksartwork 6 лет назад
Someone trying to talk round Stephen Fry... Good luck with that.
@chadfalardeau3259
@chadfalardeau3259 3 года назад
Only Hugh Laurie can keep up with him
@drew8235
@drew8235 5 лет назад
I mean... the therapist really does seem like he's in that line of work because he himself is gay and absolutely cannot deal with it, perhaps due to some childhood trauma with his father finding out. One of the interesting things you learn early on in studying psychology is that when a person is completely and totally against something there is usually a very specific reason for that, often because they're guilty of the very same thing.
@jordankimball2104
@jordankimball2104 8 лет назад
HAHA that "doctor" just described every dudes relationship with their dad. Wait maybe Im gay. lol
@blacksmith67
@blacksmith67 8 лет назад
+Jordan Kimball I was just thinking something along those lines. I loved my mother, was distant from my father... why am I not gay?
@dankojones846
@dankojones846 8 лет назад
😂😂 so true.
@ErdTirdMans
@ErdTirdMans 7 лет назад
Look, if everyone who sucked a dick from time to time was gay then we'd both be gay
@tonygilder7912
@tonygilder7912 6 лет назад
Jordan No, just gay dude's dads.
@tonygilder7912
@tonygilder7912 6 лет назад
Mila That is stupid. It really is. Patients come to HIM. He does not go out and kidnap anybody. Hi hasn't lied about his data. I notice Frye acted like a punk and cut his interview up and then found some little queen and his mother. Pure propaganda. And again, all Frye had was an insult that the doctor could "pass" as a gay man which is just pathetic really.
@AnytimeMinutes
@AnytimeMinutes 9 лет назад
He did NOT approve of being called metro sexual. Haha
@hermanhelmich
@hermanhelmich 5 лет назад
6.36 the hand movement and look on his face is priceless and says it all HE IS
@holden4620
@holden4620 Год назад
Okay , “these clients can trace back to a time when they were trying to get their fathers approval” . So can everyone else 😂
@extravirginoliveoil7967
@extravirginoliveoil7967 5 лет назад
I was a capitalist; after many many moons of praying to my lord Fidel Castro and a lot of acid I'm now a communist.
@randy9865
@randy9865 5 лет назад
All praise the redistribution of psychadelics
@smallstudiodesign
@smallstudiodesign 3 года назад
Meanwhile ... People’s Republic of China ... totally communist ... and rampantly capitalist. Clearly you’re poorly schooled in global economics and politics. The opposite of communism isn’t capitalism ... it’s not even democracy ... it’s fascism.
@patti6178
@patti6178 3 года назад
I have no idea what this means or why this comment is in this video, but it's hilarious
@jakejones2329
@jakejones2329 3 года назад
"You could pass as a gay man" LOL called him OUT
@AngloAm
@AngloAm Год назад
I am amazed at people who can even talk to these people politely.
@rud5101
@rud5101 3 года назад
I don't understand how you can have a smart, hard working, wonderful child, and think of them as a failure because of who they love. Christians really are something else.
@mattcast44
@mattcast44 6 лет назад
Dan Gonzales says: "I eventually came upon Dr Nicolosi's book in my university's library." That's not what books and libraries are meant for, mate.
@fergochan
@fergochan 6 лет назад
Dan and his mother seem like amazing people, and it makes me glad to see him happy with himself. On a completely unrelated note though, is the thing with Stephen's collar intentional?
@ADHadh
@ADHadh 6 лет назад
I like that Mr Fry went in not to attack or ridicule him, but to hear him out.
@sayno2lolzisback
@sayno2lolzisback 6 лет назад
Stephen Fry is a wonderful interviewer! He doesn't attack anyone with his own agenda but merely, lets others set forth their own. He knows the viewer can make their own conclusion about what they are witnessing.
@SeanShimamoto
@SeanShimamoto 5 лет назад
OMG, Mr. Fry, I’m sure a huge fan!!! I haven’t even started watching the video but I’m already happy that we have you as our champion! I’m a 45-y/o gay man and I’m very proud of being gay and after feeling that being gay was a curse...I now view being gay as being a gift! 😁 I was raised by two very loving parents...and my dad was a blue-collar worker who took my bro and I fishing, crabbing, camping, taught us to change our oil and work on our trucks...and when I told him I was gay, his ONLY question was “are you happy?” That was his ONLY concern. I knew I was gay since I was 9 years old and had a loving ultra masculine dad...so that therapist’s views are completely skewed. As I was watching the video, I loved your wit when speaking with that quack.
@edwinostberg8768
@edwinostberg8768 5 лет назад
bruh just be yourself you dont gotta be proud of it or tell your story on the internet. just live your life and dgaf what people think man you do you
@SeanShimamoto
@SeanShimamoto 5 лет назад
Edwin Östberg Dude, did I hurt anybody with my post? I AM being me, and for the first time in my 45 years on this earth, I DO feel good about myself. Sorry that me having self pride for the first time in my life offends you but after decades of feeling shitty about myself, I’m not gonna feel bad for expressing myself in a manner that’s not offensive to the vast majority of people.
@gonufc
@gonufc 5 лет назад
@@edwinostberg8768 To be far mate, it wasn't exactly irrelevant to the content! Just gave a persona reflection on the video- it's hardly on the spectrum of "Worst/ Nastiest RU-vid Comments"! @Sean - I'm a straight 29 yo male but I couldn't imagine a better response from your Dad- especially in such a nervous, vulnerable situation.
@thecomicchannel5078
@thecomicchannel5078 3 года назад
I disagree with sending kids unwilling to this kind of therapy, but it should be available for those who personally seek it. We want a free world where we all could get what we would want to. I don't like that people mock the Dr Nicolosi. He has not offended anyone, He never went door to door picking up gay people and forcing them to have therapy. His door was open to those who wanted it instead. Also it's fun how none realized that what Nicolosi says, already appear in the same video. The gay interviewed, is a grown adult, next to his possessive over present mother, and I don't see his dad in the scene. People call bigot people like Nicolosi instead He had a very open-minded view. It's so sad when people reject his theory because might hurts their emotions.
@seankirkham3488
@seankirkham3488 3 года назад
I mean, he does say that he see's teenagers and adolescents which in my opinion is a sign that he isnt all that great of a person. For adults seeking it, while I disagree with the therepy its their choice. Any therepist worth anything wouldnt see a child given that conversion therepy is seen as a form of child abuse and they are obviously being sent there by their parents.
@thecomicchannel5078
@thecomicchannel5078 3 года назад
@@seankirkham3488 yeah I agree with you regarding the fact child shouldn't be forced to go.
@GN.24.7
@GN.24.7 2 года назад
his “view point” says that homosexuals could be cured, this view point is objectively anti homosexual, my god u ppl will allow any sort of anti homosexual bigotry
@kinfmin443
@kinfmin443 3 года назад
"People are gay because parents..." - Then why did I become gay? Even tho I have a loving family...? 🙄
@MrGarmanarnar
@MrGarmanarnar 5 лет назад
Stephen Fry has such a great way with words
8 лет назад
This reminds me of Sacha Baron Cohen's Bruno scene with the religious fanatic/anti-gay "therapist".
@zeokhann
@zeokhann 8 лет назад
6:45 plot twist
@Neimonster
@Neimonster 6 лет назад
Not really, I could tell he was as day as the gay is long.
@MysteriousDrella
@MysteriousDrella 5 лет назад
That trippy 'spacemusic' while he enters the office of the 'doc'. XD
@bvbocan1
@bvbocan1 4 года назад
When Stephen Fry told the Gay Shrink that he could pass for a gay --- LOL --- the look on his face was priceless. I had the same thought as Stephen Fry
@sadikmeah4057
@sadikmeah4057 5 лет назад
Did that therapist say he told one of his patients to focus his thoughts on a little schoolgirl and hold that thought??? Did anyone else find that disturbing? So he wants people to stop being gay and instead he would rather they were paedophiles?? Nuts
@catherinegillan4404
@catherinegillan4404 7 лет назад
it just shows what a lovely man steven fry is to put himself in that position
@katowonatt8054
@katowonatt8054 5 лет назад
The face he put when he was told " you can pause well as gay "😂😂
@Herfinnur
@Herfinnur 6 лет назад
That thumbnail is hilarious 😂
@Jakers457
@Jakers457 8 лет назад
Sometimes I feel America is quite a radicalized country.
@Mexighetti
@Mexighetti 6 лет назад
Two years later and this is an understatement.
@EdwardOberon
@EdwardOberon 6 лет назад
IT IS and always has been.
@deidara_8598
@deidara_8598 6 лет назад
No wonder people get shot down and killed almost every day there, and if not for the guns, I'm sure knife sabbings and car "accidents" would raise in popularity.
@eridaniss314
@eridaniss314 5 лет назад
ending environmental protections; including gutting species protections, monetizing state parks, and allowing huge corporations to get away with pollution - just for starters.
@FukaiKokoro
@FukaiKokoro 5 лет назад
We have christains and conservatives trying to start christain sharia. Love how christains who also tend to be republicans literally twist the Bible so much to fit their own personal and political agendas to the point they are going against everything in the Bible. Their religious and political views don’t match up. Like how it’s against their Bible to consume shellfish, but they just twist that around to fit what they want. Like how it’s against heir Bible to judge another persons sins as when they do that they are taking the role of god and acting equal to god and will be punished once for their sins and another for the sins of the person they judged. So basically that means if a christain judged a gay person they themselves will be judged as if they where gay on top of their personal sins. But they twist that so it’s ok for them. I could go on and on and on. Here’s some political hypocrisy’s. Since christain fundamentalists tend to also be extremely conservative, like how they act like they the conservatives/ christains are the minority and are being censored like with free speech online and are the snowflake victims when in reality it’s the polar opposite. Or how they continually give tax cuts to the wealthy, that goes against Jesus as in the Bible the wealthy do not go to heaven unless they give everything of worldly possessions away. It’s easier to put a camel through The eye of a needle rings a bell. They love the constitution and consider themselves constitutionalists YET ONLY when it is in their best interest. They do NOT like it when the constitution goes against their belief system.. Which is super hypocritical. They dislike Muslims because sharia law and act like America is so above that shit yet EVERY chance they get they push for a religion based government. I could go on for ages.
@HandyRaib
@HandyRaib 8 лет назад
And that, kids, is called brainwashing.
@dragonmartijn
@dragonmartijn 6 лет назад
Don't forget to call all other things also brainwashing.
@kingthief9118
@kingthief9118 3 года назад
Yep, you can't change someone's genes with talk therapy
@robintropper660
@robintropper660 5 лет назад
HUGE RESPECT for Stephen Fry! He dares tackle really difficult subjects and treat them seriously and even handed!
@gribwitch
@gribwitch 2 года назад
"Even handed" ? Fry set out from the start to discredit conversion therapy and his pro gay cynicism about it was on display throughout.
@Coleo20
@Coleo20 6 лет назад
I really enjoyed this video. I get the impression it's part of a larger documentary. Do you know where I could find it?
@cabronicusmaximuschingonic1062
"I now look at gay porn...!" Dude, he is STILL looking at gay porn! That should tell you something.
@userwl2850
@userwl2850 8 лет назад
i love gay men,,,,,more girls for me.
@SonarTheBat
@SonarTheBat 6 лет назад
The face when the counsellor was told he could pass as a gay man was priceless.
@chamboyette853
@chamboyette853 5 лет назад
I would pay to see this guy get publicly interviewed now.
@LemonsAndSalt69
@LemonsAndSalt69 2 года назад
As a heterosexual man, I say to everyone: love whomever you want, love whomever you are attracted to. You get one life, embrace your sexuality, embrace your love-life.
@datrandomguy128
@datrandomguy128 9 лет назад
Omg when he sassed that guy out! I died!
@JeGaysus
@JeGaysus Год назад
Amazing! I am proud of you for thriving!
@BritmanGB
@BritmanGB 5 лет назад
The look on his face when SF said he could pass as a gay man. LOL
@GioGoiBoi1
@GioGoiBoi1 5 лет назад
OMG I ADORE STEPHEN AND EVEN MORE SO WHEN HE SAYS “you could pass as a gay man” !! haha WOOOO
@pro_master-en7dr
@pro_master-en7dr 8 лет назад
I am cringing so hard. This is so sad. Poor people who feel the need to go to such a therapy. I am so sorry for them. I hope they will find peace with themselves.
@Kitties_are_pretty
@Kitties_are_pretty 3 года назад
It's so weird how they edit this deceptively. It's cut to imply he's an "ex gay" at first, and then it's revealed that he's not. It's just such an odd thing to do with the footage they got.
@stype8468
@stype8468 5 лет назад
In life you do what you want. It's up to the community to keep you in line.
@kaizokuAUTO
@kaizokuAUTO 5 лет назад
Fry is a gift to the world.
@samedz3966
@samedz3966 9 лет назад
It's quite the opposite from what the therapist said. He's using forced nurture to try and "cure" a natural urge
@bk-6445
@bk-6445 3 года назад
His voice is so soothing
@caroledrury1411
@caroledrury1411 Год назад
I embrace the variety and choices we are now given in today’s society as opposed to the horrific narrowmindedness of yesterday
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