Stepmom Gave Away my PS4 - r/ProRevenge

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My mom died of ovarian cancer at only 55 five years ago. It broke my dad's heart. They had been together since college and were the same age, with my dad being a month older.
I'm 22, and am about to graduate college with my degree in chemistry when the main events start to occur. I went to college on a full ride scholarship. This is important later.
My dad met my now stepmom when she was my mom's nurse at the hospital where she spent her final days. My stepmom "Grace" played all the right notes to gain my dad's trust.
She was empathetic to him, nurturing, comforting after my mom passed.
I was seventeen and old enough to sense that she was just trying to weasel her way into getting my dad's resources, but it was up to my dad if he wanted to be in a relationship with her. I was in my final year of public school and had just won a scholarship to attend college out of the country the following year.
My dad mourned my mom for a year and that whole time Grace would check in on him by phone every month or so, in my opinion to scope out the possibility of sinking her hooks in him.
After a year passed Grace took the gloves off and went hard after my dad. Grace was only 40 when she and my dad started seeing each other. I didn't like her but at the same time my dad at least didn't seem so depressed anymore, so I tried to be less pessimistic about her and give her the benefit of the doubt.
In my gut I didn't trust her, though.
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@neilsanchez6933 2 года назад

“I had to make her homeless as a wedding gift” 💀

@Big-boss12342 2 года назад

💀

@AkuLunical 2 года назад

💀

@belol69 2 года назад

💀

@bullymonk710 2 года назад

💀

@darkwings3605 2 года назад

💀

@unownassassin1583 2 года назад

I hate how grace got mad that she didn't get ALL the money even though she STILL got hundreds of thousands of dollars

@Arandomperson234 2 года назад

Ikr that is still a lot of money and some people are greedy

@ravennevarez5514 2 года назад

im sad the son did not sue that b___ch for catfishing the dad for the money that the son should have had but hey that kid probably got more money from renting the house

@Lazydiety 2 года назад

Bruhh shes so gready she got 80% 80%!!

@pootissandvichhere9135 2 года назад

I want money to play games and have opportunities to go to events. If you drop a fat sack of cash, sure, I’ll be happy, but give me tons of games and social opportunities that money would buy me and I’d be still just as happy! Greedy people play a game of who has the highest number and it’s stupid.

@binhanh296 2 года назад

Well, that's everything gold diggers ever think about, they just want more and everything.

@laneleach 2 года назад

1st story not a jerk, he has complete rights to do what he did, 2nd story I feel for him, not a jerk.

@poopinbabe8972 2 года назад

The stepmom isn’t even his actual mom how can she give his PS4 away it’s like a random stranger is now in charge of ur items

@laneleach 2 года назад

@@poopinbabe8972 I never mentioned that but yeah, that's not cool.

@thesixthkid7689 2 года назад

2nd Story is feels on a personal level even though our situations aren't the exact same. They're influence exposed, I'm influence shamed.

@wasoncethere1228 2 года назад

Oh no not a PlayStation 4 😱 now we know what the end of the world looks like. You never know maybe she brought it for him so in reality it would be hers and he's just borrowing it. Don't forget that children. What you think is yours actually belong to your parents. Because they buy it not you.

@johnthelion999 2 года назад

@@wasoncethere1228 It likely wasn't her who bought it. It was likely his dad. Who died and gave him the house. So everything that was in it that was his dad's is actually his by that point, even the PS4, which Grace gave away afterwards, it seems. Which just means she gave away something that wasn't hers.

@YellowCyanXY 2 года назад

“Stepmom Gave Away my PS4” If someone gave away ANY of the things I own without permission, they should DEFINITELY watch their backs no matter who they are.

@danielstokker 2 года назад

Ive hurt people badly for far less , respect you know people seem to forget it sometimes ...

@boja8875 2 года назад

My "sibling" was doing that regularly. Throwing away my things while "cleaning" shared rooms, never ever knocks to go to my room, small things like eating my food was almost daily problem, sold my old bicycle (without me knowing of course), than graciously giving me few bucks back and that I think only after our father remark, taking things he liked and than declare that its his... Yeah. "Everything his is his and everything of others is his" I resignedly used to joke. Best part - our parents never saw it as a problem. Still have to hide my things in our childhood home, where we both have some. Jolly childhood, really.

@mgc9965 2 года назад

@@boja8875 Sell his ps4

@boja8875 2 года назад

@@mgc9965 I definitely should have done that 😃

@SharkInTheDarkness 2 года назад

Ong ong bruh, They better watch they Back meat if they be doing that

@SinBlxze 2 года назад

after seeing so many of these stories I realized I spawned into this world with level 50 luck

@toasterwaffle5384 2 года назад

Same bruh

@Black_Templar_ 2 года назад

Yeah... well so far i guess, we will see.

@Black_Templar_ 2 года назад

If anythimg like this happens i will inform you guys/ internet lol

@thatoneguyffs 2 года назад

50 luck is that high??

@SilentVinyl 2 года назад

@@thatoneguyffs maybe most likely

@dustinasche 2 года назад

Story #1: NTJ, the step mom was clearly a con-artist and deserved far worse than being made homeless. If there was a way to challenge the father's will and deny her everything, I would have done it in OP's place. Story #2: NTJ, the mother is absolutely violating the wishes of her daughters by involving them in her social media career after they've expressed that they don't want to be involved anymore. If she's too self-centered to respect their wishes, she's not a good mom and deserves to have her career ruined. Admittedly, the mom has some merit saying "this is how I pay for your room and board, etc.," if the children are still dependents, but if she really cared she would try to find a way to transition her brand to accommodate her daughters' desire for privacy. Story #3: NTJ, but there probably could be a way to get the sister onboard with being honest about her condition that the OP just hasn't thought of, yet. People with ASPD, true ASPD, only think in terms of cost/benefit to themselves. She will listen to reason, but it has to be the right kind of reason. Make it clear that the BF will eventually find out, and that it will be more beneficial to her long-term if she's honest now. Story #4: NTJ, the kids DO know and ARE growing up with their mother, because the aunt who adopted them has been more of a mother than their biological mother ever was.

@lollllolll. 2 года назад

I highly doubt Grace ended up homeless however, leeches like her have a tendency to have several back up plans, seeing how she's in her 40's, she definitely has funneled more money from other innocent people, but on the positive side, she thought she had a safe life ahead, and she spent thousands like an idiot. So it's still a win

@hyunryu6077 2 года назад

What do you mean by people with true ASPD, psychopaths or? Because what you said isn’t necessarily true for sociopaths, at least that’s what I know

@megamushroom 2 года назад

Benjamin Glaubinger i definately agree with what you said for story four :') 🌈 ❤ 🌈 ❤ 🌈 ❤ 🌈 ❤

@truekurayami 2 года назад

With the father story not a jerk. I can understand the love he has for his daughter and wants to see her happy, but at the same time that little secret of hers could easily destroy countless lives if it is kept hidden. So I would support him in telling any significant other of his daughter's about this secret so they are ready to protect themselves incase the daughter goes off the deep end.

@megamushroom 2 года назад

Akuma Imayaruk oh...

@chrislanglois8275 Год назад

it may push them away or them finding out eventually in some way without understanding may break them. we cant know the future, it may b better for every1 to b secret, mayb her next bf would b the 1 or it might drive her over the edge for him to tell the bf. she could break and go psycho cuz he told or drive her to suicide or to nvr have any more relationships and just stay in contact with her dad or cut all contact and find the next bf and try to have good life together. sounds like he raised her well. but also that line of "daddy wouldnt dare" sounds like she needs to get off her high horse as well as deep down begging him not to with actual emotion. i dont think she doesnt have emotions, i think she just cant tell like a radio being turned way down to 1-5 out of 100. so minute that she cant tell but their still there and they do influence her. love is a powerful emotion, mayb its influencing her in the slightest way like a 6 instead of the usual 5s or less shes felt all her life to in her own way beg him not to tell. we also have a 6th sense sometimes and she could possibly tell that the bf would leave if he found out. 1 things for sure at the very least she feels fear that the bf would find out.

@mjareacts2731 2 года назад

Story #4 the birth mother definitely doesn't need to be in those children's lives right now. I went through something similar with my own mother back in the early '80s, and although even back then I had a pretty decent understanding about what was going on, I was very lucky that my grandmother (on my father's side) took me in and raised me. Me and my mother fully reconnected when I went in the military at 17, and for about a decade up until her death we had a fantastic relationship. The mother needs to get her life together before trying to reinsert herself back into those children's lives.

@ampstudios4169 2 года назад

For the last story: in some cases the parent can have all visitation rights stripped from them unless under supervision of a social worker or someone in a position like that (my uncle is supposed to be like that because he went to jail on drug charges but my aunt got custody of the children again and was having trouble with 6 children)

@warriorontheedgeoftime4224 2 года назад

If you don't show your children respect, how can you expect it back.. My son left home a year ago after getting his degree. I moved home 3 months ago and I found bits belonging to my son. It only takes a quick phone call to check if he wants me to keep it for him or get rid of it, like giving said items away. I would never just give away someone else's belongings, not mine to give away. I fell out with a chap years ago, we stopped speaking and lost contact, however I had an item of his at my home, which i never got rid of and years later down the line, I saw him and returned his item, he was surprised I'd kept it, but was grateful to have it returned. Never throw anything away, including people...

@megamushroom 2 года назад

Warrior on the edge of time YAY

@PickleRick-qi7wp 2 года назад

I've personally been abandoned at about a year old so I totally understand the feeling of hating your mother I've hated mine my whole life. And it's caused multiple issues on top of other things.

@WranglinChip 2 года назад

I hope you are feeling better from that trauma.

@ThisisKyle 2 года назад

Same kind of situation with my mom, her mother was to worried about smoking crack that she couldn't take care of her and my mom had to be sent away and raised by her grandparents. Unfortunately my mom still loved her worthless mom to the point that when her mom died of covid she actually cried for her. Maybe I'm just messed up in the head but I made sure after consoling my mother I went to the other room shut the door and proceeded to cheer and thank God for taking such a horrible bitch from this world.

@megamushroom 2 года назад

@@ThisisKyle oh...

@LondorsImmortal 2 года назад

Story 3 is kinda scary because we don’t know how it ended I think most people can agree the boyfriend should be told before he actually proposes but the daughter is clearly very good at manipulating people and even if the father tells the boyfriend there is a chance that if the daughter doesn’t admit it the boyfriend wouldn’t believe.

@lollllolll. 2 года назад

Nah, seeing how we're speaking about the father, he has an entire archive of official paperwork to prove her diagnosis.

@onioni1496 2 года назад

it is honestly like she care about the boy because she doesn't want him to know but why tell her dad not to if she doesn't care or feel emotions about people

@chrislanglois8275 Год назад

@@onioni1496 the way i see it is how a show called "person of interest" said it, 1 character is a specific type of sociopath and a girl says how "she thinks that character does emotions its just that the volume is turned way down." might b similar, i dont think sociopathic ppl have no emotions at all they just dont feel them the same way as we do. if were to compare the character and this girl i wonder would the character feel things on a volume of 10 of 100 and this girl feels things on a volume of 1-5 of 100 and its so minute that she cant actually tell? but it is sort of better for her to tell him, if he chooses to stay and asks her to b more open with what she thinks and stuff cuz she doesnt rly feel anything cant ask her how she feels she might like their relationship more and feel something. hard to say the other thing that cuts deep is the fact some ppl cant handle being with some1 who feels no empathy, the best part i think is it doesnt sound like shes a narcissist. but also seems a bit on her high horse thinking "daddy wouldnt dare". so she at least doesnt seem selfish or entitled and does seem to like being with the guy. the only thing is what do her impulses tell her and will she 1 day cheat or leave him. its just as likely as any1 else but also no emotions holding her to him. shes not as emotionless as a doll or robot but shes close, shes neutral about almost everything. also something to think about a friend of mines gf nvr felt happiness except thru love, her love for her parents i think. but rage and depression most of the time sometimes both at the same time sometimes in the middle would b emptiness. then she found my friend and for the 1st time in her life she felt rly happy and love. was cuz she was still born and certain parts of her brain had rotted b4 she b4 she was revived so parts of memory, emotion and motor functions and w/e didnt function or connect with other parts of her brain as they were supposed to.

@maryjane4432 Год назад

@@chrislanglois8275f I were dating a sociopath I would want the family to tell me. The fact she is hiding it is a huge red flag. Plus would you want to take the chance and have kids with her, knowing her diagnosis? She could pass down her poor mental health. Who’s to say she wouldn’t snap one day and kill him or the baby, or torture them. Her diagnosis is pretty severe. She already has anger issues. Who’s to say she wouldn’t manipulate and abuse their husband and child. Dad even sad she feels no emotions, is incapable of love or guilt. Dad needs to tell her

@warriorsorb1111 2 года назад

"You're too old for video games" No one is too old for video games

@hollyhayes9640 2 года назад

I'm 33. Just bought a PS4. Someone is never too old to enjoy something. ☺️

@warriorsorb1111 2 года назад

@@hollyhayes9640 exactly

@megamushroom 2 года назад

@@hollyhayes9640 YAY

@zestytriss5282 2 года назад

My 50 year old mom is still playing candy crush😂

@warriorsorb1111 2 года назад

@@zestytriss5282 my grandmother does too 😂😂😂😂😂

@chrismayor737 2 года назад

For the last story: My opinion, as an educator, stick to the kid. Kids are way more reasonable than most adults think. If he, as the oldest, does not want any contact, respect it. It is his life, and his relationship with his biological mother. Anyone else has no legitimate right to say, what is the best for him.

@GameCyborgCh 2 года назад

"Kids are way more reasonable than most adults think"

@Raging-Lion 2 года назад

Agreed

@megamushroom 2 года назад

@quetzalpacheco exactly

@chrislanglois8275 Год назад

kids r also more intuitive than us most of the time and need less to think on their feelings, less time, less data. they feel what they feel and sometimes know better than any1 when its a strong enough feeling. but it also depends on how mature they r deep down especially in that decision they make. which i think this kid was very mature for his age. he was mad but also forgiving while knowing somehow that she may not b ready yet and may nvr b ready and that its best to wait. probably also made that decision as much for himself as for every1 else. seeing the worry in the dads eyes and looking out for his sisters and following how he felt about her and all they got is time so wait and see if the mom can prove herself to b a good non addicted mom.

@Oroborus710 2 года назад

As someone who became estranged from my drug addicted, neglectful mother (egg donor as I call her), I can tell you for a fact that the adoptive mother in the last story is doing absolutely the best she could in that situation. It was first the mothers responsibility to properly care for her children, and when that failed it became the kids decision whether or not they want their birth mother in their life.

@Ardkun00 2 года назад

We don't know why she went to prison or how she treated her kids before.

@james82257 2 года назад

@@Ardkun00 the oldest kid definitely does though

@megamushroom 2 года назад

Oroborus egg donor! I like that thanks!

@megamushroom 2 года назад

@@james82257 true

@wolfbyteblair3672 2 года назад

On the 4th story I was adopted by another family member. I can say it doesn't matter the intention the op has because when I found out I was adopted and the reason behind my adoption I was around 10. And I had been forced to see her even though I didn't want to. Now I'm 23 and I feel like an outsider to everyone. Both family adopted side and biological. I can't even be around friends cause it feels like I don't exist. Countless therapists agreed that this all started the moment I was forced to see her before I was ready.

@megamushroom 2 года назад

Wolfbyte Blair oh no im so sorry omg 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢

@jamiegladwell8770 2 года назад

For story #2, I wouldn't put it past the mom to steal and sell/donate the hoodies somehow as a "loophole".

@Callsign-Konig 2 года назад

I can relate to the OP of the second story. My mother was really into social media for a while and would post things about me that just weren't true. I had asked her multiple times to not do that but she did anyway. So I felt like my privacy wasn't being respected and honestly lost trust in her for a while. And still to this day she and my father take photos of me when I'm sleeping,baking,etc. and because of that my relationship with them has always been kinda rocky. I never go out of my room nowadays for fear of secretly being photographed. It is especially anxiety inducing because my parents say they will show those pictures on my 18th birthday (it is kind of a tradition where I live), which is extremely emberassing. Especially since I think I have undiagnosed anxiety issues and I am worried of what my friends will say and what they will think of me. It is honestly scarring. And before anyone says anything I have talked with them. I have told them that I don't like having pictures taken and if they could please delete the ones they have now. Anyways thanks for reading my rant. Love goes out to you

@user-sl4ds3mt8v 2 года назад

Well, I'm not a specialist or something, but i suggest that, if you live in a city, get couple of your closest friends and go somewhere away from your home, where chances are really small of you getting on the photo. I think this will help you feel little bit more comfortable. I'm not an expert and don't know all situation, so this is just my suggestion

@Callsign-Konig 2 года назад

@@user-sl4ds3mt8v Thanks for the suggestion but we live in a rural area and I'm not exactly allowed to be far away from home without my parents knowing exactly where I am. I also still have to focus on my studies. But as soon as I'm old enough I'll probably follow your suggestion. I actually want to move to New Zealand (18 353 km away).

@user-sl4ds3mt8v 2 года назад

@@Callsign-Konig Why do you want to go that far? You got annoyed by your parents that much?

@Callsign-Konig 2 года назад

@@user-sl4ds3mt8v It isn't the only reason. The main reason is that I love speaking english but I live somewhere we don't speak english. The USA has too many guns and terrible healthcare, the UK is in a tight spot rn with brexit, Australia has too many spiders, Canada is too cold and so New Zealand is my choice. If the situation in the UK gets better when I'm ready to move out then I'll also consider moving there.

@ruishuangfu7199 2 года назад

@@Callsign-Konig man new zealand is cold asf too

@elderpaimei5509 2 года назад

story 1, OP was such an idiot for not at least getting 50% of the money. you gotta protect your dad's assets. Ivan probably is the boyfriend prior to grace meeting your dad. it's highly likely grace slowly killed your dad as she's a nurse and she has better access to drugs that are legal to use but only in ample amounts. I have a sister in law who's an S2 physician, meaning she basically could write a prescription for more dangerous drugs not available with your normal prescription. she could give her close nurse friends morphine and other strong drugs like antidepressants without proper protocol. how hard do you think would it be for your GRACE to get herself drugs that could slowly kill the dad???

@Mortablunt 2 года назад

The idea of Grace slowly killing her husband sounds quite likely.

@princessmarlena1359 2 года назад

Agreed

@timothymoore2966 2 года назад

You forgot one thing buddy the new guy was around his age so she would have been messing around with a minor. Attention to detail. In terms of killing the guy idk

@darkigor20 2 года назад

Assuming someone is a murderer just because said person is a jerk to her new partner's adult son isn't quite accurate

@elderpaimei5509 2 года назад

@@darkigor20that's how murders get away under your nose. You think that's not enough reason? Lol strangers barging into your life and suddenly getting more benefits than what you should have, should be ground for suspicion. Also, administering of wrong medication, or overdosage of dangerous drugs actually killed patients in the past, but ruled out as accidents. Again how hard do you think it is to kill someone from giving him wrong medicine, especially if that person is ignorant in medicine??? With how lacking the interest of the OP is to knowing what might have happened , im guessing he didn't even have his dad autopsied, or didn't properly reviewed the report.

@dominikdobrotic8298 2 года назад

OP's future stepmom when the OP's mother passed away:"Tragic. Tragic!"

@Dianhery 2 года назад

Blogger mom: kid, you should sell those!

@GameCyborgCh 2 года назад

I would just wear these just because

@agsilverradio2225 2 года назад

I would report that mother's social media account.

@sunstreaker913 2 года назад

I'd hunt that blogger mom down.

@The_dandy_zombie 2 года назад

with story four, my dad was an addict and you know thats enough to feel like you cant really trust them. as hard as that is especially when the mom is just out of jail and hasnt yet proven that she can be better

@dbaker3876 2 года назад

yea my mom has this thing where she will shyow her arms and say "look dbo i aint got no needle marks im clean" yea meth dont really leave needle marks lol

@renewahnke9433 2 года назад

Story 2: He should just get a matching tie for it for more upscale events

@princessmarlena1359 2 года назад

The second story reminds me of a friend of mine who had to move away and change his name because of his dad who was a local politician. He hates his dad, who neglected him except to yell at him or pressure him to get all A+ grades and to be a doctor, a lawyer, and an astronaut by age 25. My friend was constantly pushed into the public to keep up his dad’s image.

@bluecat2991 2 года назад

Story 4: Absolutely NAJ. The boy has a right to choose who he interacts with. That's the first big decision we all make and we need to learn how to make that decision wisely.

@cesaremarianopasqui7535 2 года назад

Bruh i would literally burn a room of the house of somebody dared to give away my PS4 without asking

@invicta66andshootmenow57 2 года назад

Me too this person pure evil

@macairhead5137 2 года назад

Same

@Mikailjaffer 2 года назад

I swear if my imaginary step mom did all that right after the ps4,I would’ve punched,destroy her stuff and her husband.wait no I wouldn’t but I would’ve punched her if she wasn’t my step mom or mom

@CursedSFMS 2 года назад

I can drink to that

@valerune192 2 года назад

she being a psychopath makes the whole thing a lot scarier. If her dad gave her a good reason to get back at him, she wouldn't have any problems doing so.

@dragonix8527 2 года назад

Sociopath, there's a difference. She isn't inherently dangerous. The dad said she got proper therapy and was living a stable, healthy life.

@king9noah657 2 года назад

For story 3 I'd use it as a test to see if he truly loves the daughter

@Kaltar_ 2 года назад

It doesn't matter if he loves her though because she doesn't love him if he leaves her that is his very right and you should be okay with that because finding out the person you love literally doesn't feel anything special towards you would be awful and if he would leave her she would not even feel sad about it maybe angry but not much else

@potatopirate5557 2 года назад

Wow. I understand that the blogger mom's identity, ego, and income... and let's be honest, at this point, addiction, are all wrapped up in this conflict with her child and that must be hard for her. And there might be even more behind all of that which explains how this became important to her to begin with. I do sympathize with that... BUT, as a mother, I can not imagine disregarding my children's feelings... And on this level! They are going to so much trouble to fully express their feelings, valid concerns, and healthy boundaries and she is just trampling all over them. She is making it clear to them that literally even the feelings of strangers on the street matter to her more than theirs do and she is completely oblivious. Wooooow.

@ThatDeadBakka 2 года назад

story 2.: i dont blame you for not wanting to be part of the influencers way of work. its not right for her to force it on you. you have the right to be safe in your own home and that includes having a say in whether your ok with being in the social media all the time. op ,: you deserve to be asked first.

@Yewro2000 2 года назад

Yeah it definitely sound like Grace was trying to gaslight the op into thinking she owned the house

@brokovnik 2 года назад

alright. getting a bf is normal but GIVING AWAY A MAN'S/WOMAN'S PS4?!?! thats 69 steps too far

@brokovnik 2 года назад

@Lu0z9 yeah

@A_HUMAN_YT 2 года назад

0:00 1st story 9:15 2nd story 12:48 3rd story 17:03 4th story

@rggang3419 2 года назад

Thx

@markcaetta3912 2 года назад

tbh, story four sounds like my life a couple of years ago, 2015, 2016, ect. i am a 12M and i lived with my mother in these years. i was with my father and it made it better and i loved him and still live with him to this day.

@stillpixel9233 2 года назад

Last story. The "mom" made her choice when she left her children. She doesn't get to change her mind now after her kids have been raised for her by someone else. She may have given birth to them but she is not their parent and she clearly did not have their best interests at heart. When you bring life into the world it is a gift and she chose to squander that gift. Now she can deal with the consequences of her actions

@stillpixel9233 2 года назад

@@blakumvanrollope7480 it was established why she was in prison, she was an addict. However if it was for a virtuous reason then that would have been mentioned as it'd be pretty important information. I'm still of the opinion that she made the choice to leave her kids, she could have gotten clean and got herself together but instead just continued to neglect her kids in favor of chasing a high.

@bluedragonfox 2 года назад

@@blakumvanrollope7480 She left her kids alone for 2 weeks that is way she was is prison.

@stillpixel9233 2 года назад

@@blakumvanrollope7480 that it does

@JR-qw6eb 2 года назад

Blogger mom: She is the jerk. Maybe some sort of court injunction?

@ameliashostak4764 2 года назад

I feel so badly for the dad whose daughter has ASPD. I would HATE to be in that situation, but I do agree the boyfriend has the right to know, and if Grace isn't going to tell him, then someone needs to. Marriage is so SO easy to get into but can be VERY difficult to get out of and I think the bf has the right to know what he's getting himself into! I would just hate being the dad and having to be put into that very awkward situation. Good on the dad for looking out for this dude.

@builderdog3875 2 года назад

the 3rd story made me feel bad for sociopathic people, I mean, they're born without the ability to feel emotion and get judged for it. That's like judging someone for having special needs.

@RabblesTheBinx 2 года назад

I mean, they have an intellectual understanding of what is right and wrong, regardless of their own inability to feel empathy or understand what right and wrong actually are, on an emotional level. Make no mistake, they're every bit as responsible for not being evil douchenozzles as, say, someone with PTSD, bipolar disorder, and a bad temper (like myself). I may not always be able to control my emotions or temper, but guess who has two thumbs and is still going to prison if he hauls off and punches someone: this guy. When people don't want to be around me because they don't want to deal with a potential meltdown, guess whose fault that is: it's mine. They aren't judged for their lack of feeling, they're judged for their reprehensible actions. The fact is, they tend to be very, _very_ bad people. Also, _psychopaths_ are the ones born with ASPD, sociopaths develop it later in life.

@builderdog3875 2 года назад

@@RabblesTheBinx I'm not sure how to respond

@jedimastayoda112 2 года назад

The difference is the special needs person wont cheat on you and burn your whole life to the ground on a whim without remorse. Never stick your dick in a psychopath.

@Rio..o7.. 2 года назад

Story 3 absolutely should keep his mouth shut, it's none of his business what the couple choose to share or not

@durema9720 2 года назад

@@RabblesTheBinx Completely agree about PTSD part because I had a man who were having short periods meltdown and then he goes back to normal. It happens randomly and basically we just shut up for a second ask him if he is good and wait for him to answer.

@dragon.9093 2 года назад

I am also A diagnosed sociopath you can’t feel any emotions whatsoever and what you would describe as guilt or sadness doesn’t really exist granted I wasn’t born a sociopath but my life has changed to the point where it made me become one I will say it has made relationships difficult

@dragon.9093 2 года назад

@Alex Pokrandt all the time I end up scaring away the people that I get in a relationship with because they think I will kill them

@dragon.9093 2 года назад

@Alex Pokrandt thanks but it doesn’t bother me

@ReedYeeeet56 2 года назад

Keep your head up,mate.I know you'll pull through

@dragon.9093 2 года назад

@@ReedYeeeet56 thanks

@dragonix8527 2 года назад

I think you're lying, and I don't understand why. I have had ASPD since my childhood, and I have never heard of a sociopath not feeling emotions. In fact, we're prone to sudden, extreme emotional outbursts. We feel emotions pretty strongly, actually, and that is a well documented fact of the condition. What we don't feel is empathy. We're unable to put ourselves in someone else's shoes, and think about how other people are hurting. We don't experience grief or guilt, or love the same way others do. However, anger, happiness, sadness, we definitely know how those feel. What do you gain from pretending to be something you're not?

@brettholley7095 2 года назад

Blogger mom: No means No. You could choose to take this opportunity to sit down and have a full discussion on consent, what it means, and proper conduct yet you're upset because you can't control your child like they're an extention of your body.

@mathdarven5634 2 года назад

1st story: Not a jerk. Would have probably (metaphorically) hit her harder and sooner. "In my house, you live by my rules or you leave at once." OP was really kind to let her live in the house despite knowing how she was. 2nd story: ... Sorry what? I mean not a jerk but what? I don't know how it is abroad, but in France, using a child like that is kinda forbidden by at least image right laws, child protection laws, and probably (since you're using your child's image), child labour laws. So, lawyer it would have been. 3rd story: Not a jerk, kind of in the same situation than this girl myself (by which I mean there's a diagnosis). I know how I can be and being like I am, I wouldn't accept to live with someone with said person not knowing that. This dad would be doing the right thing by telling him about the ADSD. If the guy love her, and he seems to, this will avoid their relationship being crushed by said ADSD if he discovers it too late. She may think that she will be able to keep her mask forever, but every mask cracks when you wear it everyday with the same person. 4rth story: That's a complicated one to give an opinion about, like you said, a big piece of the puzzle is missing. Why did her sister go to prison? Is she an overall mentally stable person or is she able to raise kids (not only financially but mostly psychologically)? It's obvious for the oldest kid, he doesn't want to, shouldn't be forced to.

@myrandomcorner3460 2 года назад

For story 3 I would tell the boyfriend without hesitation the moment he mentions wanting to marry the daughter if the daughter told me all that yah everyone deserves the right to know and make an informed choice..

@dragonix8527 2 года назад

Not his place. She is an adult and that is private medical information. She's not hurting him at all, and it sounds like their relationship is healthy. He has no need to know if she doesn't want him to, and breaching that trust is not only a horrible thing to do, but also illegal.

@myrandomcorner3460 2 года назад

@@dragonix8527 are you out of your damn mind you think its not his place to tell the boyfriend that 'hay my daughter is a known sociopath that is the type of girl you should not be involved with if it was me yes I would tell him the guy has the right to know as the girl is known to not feel guilt, remorse or emotion and acts to look normal you do not let someone get involved with someone like that if you know about it.. medical or not trust or not not telling him would be dooming him more than likely and saying it seems they have a healthy relationship he even says she puts on a front and is good at attracting men do you think she will not just find someone else eventualy who interests her and not tell the guy she is with as she will see nothing wrong with it

@dragonix8527 2 года назад

@@myrandomcorner3460 Congratulations on showing that you know absolutely nothing about sociopaths. Fact: Sociopaths account for just under 3% of the human population, as some form of the disorder is found in quite a few people. This means that you have met numerous sociopaths in your life and likely never realized it, because 99% of them aren't dangerous or threats. Fact: Sociopaths feel emotions just like everyone else, and in fact, sudden emotional outbursts and lack of emotional control is one of the key symptoms of ASPD. Fact: It is a federal crime to reveal someone's medical information without their consent if they don't pose an immediate threat to themselves or others. Fact: Sociopaths do not feel empathy or remorse, but are typically very keen on social queues. This means they completely understand right and wrong, and with proper therapy and support (something the OP straight up said she has) They are completely capable of forming long lasting, healthy relationships. You're both an idiot, and have just shown yourself to have less compassion than a sociopath, because at least sociopaths are capable of faking it to try and fit in and make people around them comfortable.

@aryaosel5638 2 года назад

On the topic of story 2 is my mom used to have a blog about my sister and them one day some random person my mom doesn’t know talked all about my sister, immediately afterwards she closed it

@user-en1mj8uc5f 2 года назад

A lot of the "am i the jerk" stories have the victim as the, quote on quote, "jerk" lmfao. It doesn't make sense.

@OK-yy6qz 2 года назад

That's like 90-95% there's very rarely a story where the OP is clearly the jerk. But then again people usually know when they're being jerks

@azure-cladassassin5425 2 года назад

"I gave away your PS4. You're too old for video games." "I rented out my house; dad gave you more than enough money to get your own."

@thedevilsadvocate788 2 года назад

Is OP a jerk? First one: Nah. Well done. I would probably have told her to move out the moment your father died. Second one: Nope. Pretty legitimate. I mean, I understand your mother needs to make money and she's an influencer, she needs to cater to her audience to be able to put a roof over your head. However, she should never involve her children without their consent, at least after they are about 5 years old, because they start having their own social lives. So no, requesting privacy and not to be involved in your mother's things is pretty legitimate-sounding to me. Third one: Err... hard to say. On one side, it's your daughter's private life you are getting involved with, but everything is about tact, you know, and on the other side; she might not feel the compulsion to do the right thing. I would probably explain to the daughter (who cannot feel guilt or has little conscience altogether) that because of her state of mind, she will need to have this discussion, because as much as you love her, and that she did a lot of work on herself, she knows what she is capable of, and while she cannot understand fair or unfair, right or wrong on an emotional level, she can understand logical arguments (even if she can willingly disregard them. Sociopaths are fascinating in that regard). But if she still refuses, you might need to explain this to her boyfriend in way that does not demonize her. Or you can reach out to a professional. For the last one: Not necessarily. Well, kinda. But then again; leaving your kids to go on a bender? That's a pretty big no-no. Although she could be allowed visitation in a secure, neutral area, she would need to be with supervision to avoid any escalating. The best way to start allowing interaction between a birth parent that committed severe negligence and their biological child is through supervised emails with legal guardian's supervision. But once again, we don't have all the details, and it is hard to make an opinion with just once side of the story.

@nautilus1398 2 года назад

I feel like the boyfriend has a right to know. (Story #3)

@thedevilsadvocate788 2 года назад

@@nautilus1398 oh, he definitely should be told, but whether or not it's the father's place to get involved... Hard to say

@gabrielfreire3732 2 года назад

@@nautilus1398 oh He should get to know but think of it you have an very rare condition Who makes persons with that condition apear like demons to the societ making it a way that ur partner might be scared of you and run away soooo you decide to wait until you two are in the peach of your relationship wait for ur bound to be unbreakeble but then your father Just tell him and He rap off scared caling you names or worse teling everyone destroyng your image and ruining your life all because ur father coudnt keep his mouth shut ur now bound to be badly treated every day the father is a Jerk He needs to wait his daughter do that in her own time explaining exactly how it fells to be her then it would be understandeble and not have such an impact

@docomega7862 2 года назад

@@thedevilsadvocate788 I think he should tell him as a last resort. She won't accept any arguments based on morality and will probably reject any argument that isn't in her interest. In this case, the father should talk because he he doesn't know, then his life might get ruined when the daughter has enough of him or simply is tired of faking

@tankeroftanks 2 года назад

So I would like to put in my 2 cents. With the last story it seems like (And this is with our host of the channel as well) people are thinking the sister isn't letting the kids see her. But from what I am hearing is that she is abiding by the wishes of the oldest while the others don't even know their biological mother. If other people see/hear this as well please let me know

@boi_0706 2 года назад

the reason she doesn't want the kids to see the mother is simply the kids aren't ready and still hate the mom It was the kids choice

@ninja_kitten-1 2 года назад

1st story: she crossed a line that shouldn’t have been crossed 2nd story:respect goes both ways you don’t like pictures/video of yourself so be it 3rd story:I would personally tell her Boyfriend 4th story:let the girls see her but give the 9 year old some more time

@exclusiveextremo5799 2 года назад

This is why I always say, be grateful with what you have, it could have been worse

@86jpw 2 года назад

Story #1. Dude should've moved into the house. Make it the family home. Would've saved a lot of money from paying rent himself. Also he's to passive when trying to avoid telling someone off no wonder she tried to walk all over him.

@samuraijack3900 2 года назад

No way, he told her off in the best way possible for himself. He let her know she wasn't worth his time and moved on with his life.

@Saiyan485 2 года назад

No the OPs making more money from renting out the house and they have money on the side from inheritance and a well paying job that they're able to up their living standards lol. To me. It seems like he was being passive for the sake of creating an even bigger blow to his stepmom when he knew all along he had the power and she couldn't do anything, playing along to not make her look stupid. For ex: Kinda like not wanting to embarrass ur friends and call cap when they're lying. He let his stepmom build on a relationship with the guy with the guy thinking all along it belonged to the stepmom and it was her house, it was a fantastic wedding gift lol and shocking realization that the home got stolen away from them. Love to see it

@klarajanovska2335 2 года назад

As someone from Czech republic a cannot believe something like that happened. However I agree with the way OP solved the whole situation and gave Grace, what she deserved.

@dechha1981 2 года назад

My ps4 cost me $400 and is NOT just for videogames. It also has movies and TV shows and you can get streaming apps. I would be P*SSED if someone just gave away one of my playstations without asking me.

@razvan412 2 года назад

as a gamer, if anyone ever sold/gave away my gaming consoles, they aint living near me ever again

@tolkienblack 2 года назад

I kinda think your dad knew what the deal was. He seemed to know he was on his way out and made sure everyone was set and gave her what he felt comfortable knowing you and your family could live without. It sounds like she made his last days better. Maybe he wanted to show her appreciation for that

@gagepetersen4533 2 года назад

Yeah man, when my parent and step on one side decided to get rid of things of mine because they decided I didn't want then, I lost all respect for them and haven't really seen or talked to them much since. Mad disrespect.

@penguinsmovies 2 года назад

Gave your PlayStation away to her cousin "I AM THE STORM THAT IS APPROACHING"

@Ness_and_Sonic 2 года назад

About the mother wanting photos. I'd try to get the mother to join in activities that wouldn't be fun. Are there any games with cartoony graphics that have the difficulty of Dark Souls and are coop? Maybe the mother could be convinced into playing a video game that kicks her own butt over and over again for her a blog entry about joining kids their hobbies. I'd suggest an Overdrill in Payday 2, but I don't think it has split screen and you'd need two other players on top of that, plus the game is rated M, so it might not be good for a blog post as it would look bad on the mother when you think about it. Actually, maybe violent video games in general would be a good thing to get the mom canceled if she doesn't pay attention to what the kids play like most parents I know do.

@ReedYeeeet56 2 года назад

Smart idea if you ask me,lol

@Ness_and_Sonic 2 года назад

@@ReedYeeeet56 The Hotline Miami games could do wonders. They're violent, hard, and unsuspecting based on the name alone.

@williamnoragami8043 2 года назад

Cuphead and hollow knight are good ones. Graphically appealing, for kids and hard.

@Ness_and_Sonic 2 года назад

@@williamnoragami8043 I forgot about Cuphead. It is challenging, so I suppose it might work. No clue about Hollow Knight, though.

@ReedYeeeet56 2 года назад

@@Ness_and_Sonic Hollow Knight doesn't give you any hints in the game which makes it even more challenging

@kathryncampbell4432 2 года назад

I’d say that the situation with the dad and the daughter (I could be wrong), the daughter could be more personally afraid than she’s willing to admit. She might not feel a strong sense of guilt, but she does likely worry about this other person’s opinion. Basically, she’s being self conscious; and it’s likely going to cause her problems with her relationship if she doesn’t get past the hurdle, and try to give a little trust to this person.

@Thywhocook 2 года назад

1# don’t touch a man’s ps4 2# Ivan was probably some Yugoslavian war criminal

@karensbadapples8337 2 года назад

All the drama, and his actual tipping point was her petty PS4 theft🤣😭😂

@essencer.9494 2 года назад

My mom isn't a drug addict, but there are other issues, and I was taken from her. Well, I ran away with my brother, but we were in the process of being removed from her custody. CPS was pretty clear that was happening. Anyway, I didn't want to see my mom. And I was forced to. And it was just me taking care of her, and ignoring my needs- after losing my mother.... even though she neglected us. Parental difficulties are very HARD on a child. It's confusing, and painful, and A LOT for anyone to take, especially a child. I wish someone protected me from her.

@gashnal 2 года назад

people who are diagnosed sociopaths are manipulators. Shes not telling her boy friend because its in her best interest to be with him, people with this disorder are methodical, manipulative and only do things that benefit them. so telling him is the right thing to do because the future husband is going to wake up to this fact eventually on his own and regret marrying her.

@LoreEclectic 2 года назад

With the last one I think that one is 100% up to the kids. And the family trying to get her to force the kids to see their mom is ridiculous. Going to see your parent in prison is really difficult and with their relationship to her that distance was something they needed. If the kids in the future want to meet her then let them. But the chances of the mother retraumatizing these kids who just got on track is sadly pretty high

@natepolk9663 2 года назад

Wtf is a "Gangster Hoodie"? - Sun Tzu

@CursedSFMS 2 года назад

It is better to cum in the sink then to sink in the cum -Master Oogway

@gustavbtw6046 2 года назад

The fist story is just fuck op. NOT THE JERK... God vid again😊🥳

@matthewleo4721 2 года назад

Wait?? How was grace not the jerk

@gustavbtw6046 2 года назад

SHE IS it's the person who made the reddit post who's not the jerk

@matthewleo4721 2 года назад

@@gustavbtw6046 oh ok sorry:(

@gustavbtw6046 2 года назад

It's ok 😄

@doctorpoke2 2 года назад

@@gustavbtw6046 I know that you think grace wasn't the jerk, but OP stands for the person who made the Reddit post, so I might be reading this wrong but it sounds like you think grace is OP, the person who wrote it is considered as "op"

@shejking24 2 года назад

I am not suprised that Grace was from Czech republic, it is very common tactic for middle aged czech women to pray on older people in forgein countries.

@Jae71822 2 года назад

As someone who’s mother is an addict, story #4 set me off, addicts are addicts, it’s a disease, having children around them is unfortunately dangerous, and having a kid being left and forced with the mom causes resentments, I know, I am in that exact situation

@tankeroftanks 2 года назад

@C.G.Gaster 2 года назад

got the same message as well. I think most, people like the close family of op, only think that the kid doesnt know what they are talking about or they dont pay attention to that detail.

@determinatoinDetergent 2 года назад

Story 1: The step-mom is the jerk for acting like she owns the house and gave away your ps4 without your permission

@thejakefromstatefarm6768 2 года назад

You’re not a jerk you’re a legend!

@dokix144 2 года назад

Stepmum:Gives it away Me:Gives her credit card and says you dont need it

@CursedSFMS 2 года назад

Megamind: No Money?

@kuramayoko23 2 года назад

You don't take kids to a prison. Not the smallest ones and certainly not the oldest who's 9 that doesn't want to see his mom yet. She did the right thing not taking them to see her. Now that she's out of prison, she needs to PROVE she can be a mother and not fall back into whatever got her arrested in the first place. If she can do that AND the oldest child wants to see his mom again, then and only then should they see the mom. It isn't up to their mother, it isn't even up to the original poster, this narrows down to the kids involved. That is how I see that issue.

@lordxrz6588 2 года назад

He did the right thing honestly. The idea that she just went up and started dating after the dads was already a bit of a red flag, but she took it to far by giving away the sons stuff.

@bluemenace04 2 года назад

As someone whose compassionate for their relationship partner, neither one of anyone in any relationship should keep secrets from each other. Everything about each other should be known if they are truly serious about each other. Me and my lady keep no secrets from each other and we've told each other our darkest secrets we aren't proud of.

@mrthorian8096 2 года назад

I may not have any relationship experience, I wouldn't keep secrets either, communication is key after all, however, I still see a reason for just one exception for temporary secrets, and that is if you are planning a lovely surprise like the partner's birthday or some other milestone

@banishment149 2 года назад

11:56 There are people who have kids, and profit out of them. That's the first generation of them.

@joshuaeddings5642 2 года назад

My ex used to work at a restaurant and at one point in time she was getting harrassed by a coworker at work. She hates confrontation so it took her about a month before she even told me what was going on. When she did I wanted to hurt the guy but she told me not to. I don't have large muscles, i'm not particularly skilled in martial arts, and i'm not exactly the sharpest tool in the shed. But I do have something many people I have fought seem to lack and that is the will to stay on my feet no matter what. My gf knew this because she saw it firsthand. 3 times I have almost died and 3 times it was my willpower that saved me. I know without any shred of uncertainty that had I given up and let myself fall I would not be alive today. I guess what i'm trying to say is never give up

@VarmintLP 2 года назад

The house guy is absolutely fine. It's his right to decide who lives there and also she has no right to decide what goes where if she doesn't own it. If anyone would give away something from me without telling me I would have a meltdown since it was still my stuff and at least they can ask for my permission.

@megamax898 2 года назад

Her being named Grace is so ironic.

@Iron8127 2 года назад

If it were my case, grace would be out of luck. Because my PS4 doesn't work. And she'd just be ruining her relationship with her relative. If it wasn't a broken one, I'd change the lock to the room the ps4 was in and make sure I lock the door everytime after I enter the room, and before I leave so she can't give it away without permission.

@tankbeast8480 2 года назад

It’s the kids choice if you abandon something you lose

@ampstudios4169 2 года назад

Second story: if I ever were to become internet famous I don’t think I would even put my full name (my name I go by is in AMP, Aiden motion pictures) or my face, much less my own children if I have any.

@kelefgaming2795 2 года назад

Interesting, only 24 people in the entire Czech republic have name Grace

@Helld00d 2 года назад

And you don't really need a scholarship to go to university in Scandinavia since the schools are free. This story seems made up.

@kelefgaming2795 2 года назад

@@Helld00d exactly

@yeeyee6562 2 года назад

I feel bad for him losing his ps4 but I feel bad for my friend Phoenix who’s ps5 slid of the shelf and broke into many pieces

@pricklyboyangel7903 2 года назад

Why did you even deal with grace at all? As soon as she went out with someone the same year dad died she would’ve got the boot and I can’t believe how much dad gave her in the 1st place

@mrarroyo1990 Год назад

Story 3- I think YTJ that's like saying you are required to tell someone that you've had bouts of depression or suicidal thoughts. These are deeply personal and not yours to tell. On top of that people who are psychopaths in this nature often have cost analysis and how to best improve one's life or, if they do want to seem normal, will just play the part of the perfect spouse since they get something out of it which is appearing normal and being able to have companionship. Their version is more having someone to assist them in day to day activities and to gain benefits from but they are still getting something useful

@ivautomata 2 года назад

To be honest about grace i cant see any proper solution besides the one the guy did. It was a clever and a master plan i definetelly would do the same in his position and i feel sorry for his dad.

@therealikitclaw8124 4 месяца назад

Oh my god, don't get married after 6 months.

@matthewgwozdz3824 2 года назад

If anybody sold my ps4 I too would be pissed, relatable

@literallyali99 2 года назад

As someone who hates their mom for similar reasons as the oldest I can safely tell you the person at the end of the video is not a jerk, especially if the mom didn’t leave because of prison, if she chose to leave and do dumb shit that led her to jail that child says he fuckin hates her, believe it. My mom left. I had two mindsets cause I already had some issues, I was simultaneously totally infuriated and wanted to take a bat to her, I also felt like I couldn’t live without her, but she had also 100 percent chosen to leave and I knew it, I was 4 and I watched her slam the door. If he says no don’t make you’ll damage him more than you could understand, things will get very unpredictable, especially if he’s adhd or autistic or somethin. Even if he ain’t his attitude will totally change. Prolly much angrier at least

@casekocsk 2 года назад

IDK where story 3 took place, but I believe in some countries, someone can sue for damages when divorcing his/her spouse if they withhold a vital piece of information that will make that person to never marry them... ie: pretending to be rich, not telling that s/he is in massive debt...

@theduck3072 2 года назад

In my opinion for the guy who's mother is an "influencer" I would find a lawyer and sue her fucking ass because that's literally an invasion of privacy and she needs to understand that he doesn't want to be video taped and have a photo taken of himself and if she doesn't abide by that then she needs legal action taken against her

@abishai3234 2 года назад

In case of kids being used by their influencer parents - Philippines is the country to look up to. Their constitution expressly protects the right to privacy - children included. That means that posting your kids photos on social media is an actual legal offense, and it's enforced. Good job Philippines, other countries should learn from this example.

@kermings 2 года назад

Bruh iam from Czech republic and when i heard that grace was from Czech republic i was like: "boy oh boy"

@Tokilainen 2 года назад

You can't be diagnosed as a sociopath. Neither is psychopathy something you can diagnose. It's called Antisocial Personality Disorder.

@Wonderwice84 2 года назад

Guy was smart except for getting engaged after 6 months of dating.

@StruggleGaming 2 года назад

I've learned that when it comes to people dating your parents. If you don't like them and they come across as bad for any reason you should speak up. It will always be considered.

@casekocsk 2 года назад

There's a superstition in my culture that when someone died at certain days or hours (I don't really remember), they will take along someone close to them (in other words, someone else will die soon after)... But if we think about it, it's kinda makes sense... Since human can die of a broken heart...