Stop giving marriage benefits! 

Besides doing too much, we talk way too much! Oversharing while he gathers intel to exploit us with. These men ain't caring about us like that. Zip it up!🤐

My 8-year old daughter read a mailman trying to squirm his way in..in her words.. “ Mommy he’s a nice guy, but he looks younger than you and you are way too beautiful for him... He’s not on your level.. “ ... enough said.. bye mailman.. lol

Keep your ears open, legs closed, and guards up...

“If somebody you love does not approve of this man, end the relationship.” TG

"Stop giving boyfriends the benefit of a husband." TG

Don't be desperate for love!!! Many people don't know what is real and pure love. Some people don't even like or love themselves!!

My Grandmother always reminds/says, THAT AIN'T YO HUSBAND. That ain't yo husband!!! I always wondered why she would always say this, but life taught me a time or two. Smh

Stop believing when a man tells you you his wife after only a few dates. He becomes a false prophet at that point. Men throw marriage proposals around like mounds of dirty socks. See the red flags. Don’t ignore them. Use your time frames that Tony speaks of. Use your intuition and discernment from God. Stop ignoring God and yourself.

As a girl who was physically and verbally abused as a child by my ex stepdad I can vouch for this. Please don’t leave your children at just anyone’s house and listen to your kids when they tell you they don’t like someone!! God bless you🙏🏾✨

You can pay with sacrifice, or you can pay with regret. -TG

A whole lot of my single female friends get carried away over a guy, some even thinking of letting them move in with them, only if he does something simple and small for them like take them out to eat and pay for a $20.00 meal or pay for them to get their hair and nails done. I be like REALLY!!!!

I did some silly things in my 20s/early 30s...thank goodness I've let go of the foolishness and been on my celibacy journey for nearly 2 years...no ding ding without the wedding 💍... and no soul ties to worry about...i feel great!

“When you’re desperate for love, you can’t see straight.” 👂🏽👂🏽👂🏽

I know soooo many of us weren’t ready to hear this message. But it’s definitely worth the blessings that come with not giving into instant gratification.

Desperation will have you up the creek without a paddle 😩

I liked this before watching it 🔥 No cap. God speaking through Tony Gaskins has literally saved my life and pulled me out of toxic disrespectful relationship nightmares. I'm forever grateful. God bless you brother

I had a friend from kindergarten we were like twin sisters that even thought alike. She started dating this guy that was a friend of our families. I could not believe she was serious about him but by the time I found out about it, it was a full relationship even though he was married and we all knew his wife. I let her know repeatedly this relationship was wrong. The closer they became as a couple the more distant we became as friends. The people who encouraged the relationship convinced her I was jealous of her relationship especially since I was single. Eventually, he left his wife and married my friend. The red flags before they got married became fire engine red with sirens and all in the marriage. Unfortunately she had no one to talk to because she had pushed her real friends away. And she was embarrassed. Not long into the marriage he started having an affair with a family friend that we all know. Eventually he divorced my friend and married the family friend. There is so much Tom Foolery woven into this whole story that you couldn't believe it. But when Tony says be cautious and listen to the people who know and love you, he ain't nevah lied.

😩😂 “ If you’re raising Dennis the Menace then you don’t need to be dating anyways” TG

You telling us not to send inappropriate pictures and somebody will say "well my face is not in it!" 😒 Thanks for constantly reminding us to honor and value ourselves in a world that disrespects and objectifies women.

5:25 facts, if they don’t want you... you ain’t gonna feel welcome

Yassss "Just because your being cautious doesn't mean your scary"- TG....Grownboys always try to convince you that your doing to much when your not Sis!!!

STOP giving BOYFRIENDS the BENEFITS of a HUSBAND!! 🎯

🗣 LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN!! Tony said a WHOLE word about WISDOM 🔥🔥🔥

“You pay with sacrifice or pay with regret!” 💥 BOOM! You said that Tony. Great message today.

“PAY WITH SACRIFICE OR PAY WITH REGRET” My new saying. Putting this up on my wall TOOOONIGHT!!!

☺️😂 “You in here cooking in ya Thong” TG

I don’t understand why it’s so hard for women to grasp about entertaining men around their children especially daughters. Have we not seen and heard story?🤦🏽‍♀️

"You can pay with sacrifice or you can pay with regret!" WHOOOOAAAAA!!! THAT TRUTH IS FOR REAL!

Preach. I had to learn this lesson the hard way. BF benefits no more. Actually I told a guy I'm dating that BF/GF really don't mean anything. Because he was trying to test me for what he could get from me in dating. Talking about we would be a team. No we are not sir. Was I wrong lol. I don't think I was.

Ladies please stop allowing these dusty grown boys isolate you.....from real friends and family.

Right! It doesn't make them eager to walk down the aisle with you if they're getting the cow. Make him earn all of you, ladies with a ring.

I am going to pay with sacrifice and not regret! I want God's best and will wait on Him. :-)

I’ve Never Ever.......... felt comfortable sending or receiving Naked Photos of Anybody. Privacy should be private! 💯

Exactly! Stop Now! God, Total Celibacy and Self Loving is the Keys to happiness.💯💯😳

I'm glad you mention pics because way too many people think it's the standard to send pics to men they haven't even met, because men have convinced us it's now a standard part of dating. Look, even the people who work at these phone companies can see you! Many have mentioned on Twitter and Facebook that your pics come up even when you called just for troubleshooting.

Even after you decide to trust a new man enough to introduce him to your kids, still never leave him alone with them!! I never even left my child's own father alone with her because of some red flags he gave me. I've heard of too many things...

And Tony telling the truth because there are women out here that are freely like that with different men around their children… ladies be cautious please!!! This good knowledge right here

Fear is not of God!! Amen 🙌🏾

Dnt be round here cross eyed!! 🥴😵‍💫 lol Tony you are truly a blessing, dnt let nothing or nobody tell you otherwise.. WE SO APPRECIATE YOU❤️

Uncle Tony is absolutely correct about the text messages. I watched the trial of the police officer that killed the guy in his apartment. At the trial they pulled her messages In court . Came out she was having an affair with a married man. In court The lawyer read all the nastiness she wrote in those messages

Don’t even ask me for any kind of pictures. Period.. And stop calling your boyfriend that you been with for years you’re husband. If he haven’t asked, he not your husband.

I’m 25 years old & grew up without a father….. never had a father figure & my mother is not very involved in my life… I say to this to say I greatly appreciate your videos from the bottom of my heart because i feel like they have truly saved me and my daughters life in one way or another because people are really crazy out here & I was very naive. Please don’t stop

This happened to one of my childhood friends, I seen the signs her man was controlling and abusive and he got into her head to cut me off cuz I don’t want her to be “happy “ now the men is giving her black eyes and beating her upside her head. He even got her to cut her father and brother off cuz they didn’t like him either. So clearly wet don’t want her to be “happy” 🤷🏽‍♀️

And Tony is telling the truth about that blackmail. Dude put a video up on social media of him and his child's mother engaging in activity. Its sad because she has older kids (sons) And they got teased in school... Don't do it!

Three questions: • How do you keep your guard up without attacking (to protect yourself), but also allow yourself to fall for the guy? • Why do men 50+ cheat after 30 years of marriage and leave the marriage? • How do you know if your family comes from jealousy or wisdom?

Also listen to Tony about not sending naked pictures. My ex and I did this and someone ended up stealing the SIM card out of his phone. They not only had my pictures, but also my name, address, number and all of our text history. Never again...

We love you Tony. Thank you for keeping us in CHECK!!!🙏🏽🔥

Tony is teaching better than y'all are commenting, liking and subscribing! Help somebody! Listen! To God be the glory! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Thank you for your videos and advice. I spent all year last year learning about men and watching your videos. I met someone new and eventually asked for nudes/sexy pictures and I told him I don’t take/send those type of photos. Eventually he ghosted me and I’m so proud of myself for not sending any photos, not sleeping with him, and many other tips I learned. Thank you

I'm listening & I value every word. Some of this is common sense or should be, but a lot of people don't know better. Thanks for the message as always a lot of good points 🙌👌💪

I used to be so desperate for a relationship when I was in My early twenties, until I started watching your videos. I’m super cautious now. I feel like I’m more cautious than I should be 😆. I see now that it’s a blessing that I’m not a person that easily trust.

Yessssss say it stop giving benefits to a boyfriend hallelujah

Thank you Lord for brother Tony. Continue giving him the strength to go on each day. Thanks for your work Mr. Tony. Be blessed.

I was desperate for love ignoring all the red flags lesson learned though now I know my worth and what I deserve which is way better now!!!!

This is wise advice from an older brother. Thanks, Tony!

No doubt this wisdom is difficult. No doubt that Jesus'teachings are by far most difficult because many times we want to be cushioned and coddled. But it's to keep us safe, wise and effective. Everything has a cost. Just depends how much you are willing to pay. These videos have been a life changer and I know for many of the ladies here. Keep up the good fight ladies even when you feel alone and no one understands. You ARE NOT ALONE! ❣️❣️

"Pay with sacrifice or pay with regret"! I'll pay with sacrifice! Thank you Mr. Gaskin for your confirmational word 🙏

Such a wise and very much needed message from Tony! Very grateful for this, Mr.Gaskins! Thank you very much! May Our Heavenly Father Continue to Bless and Protect You and Your Family IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN!!!!

Tony you done did the thang in 15mins you peeled it back boo!! Listen to me now!! Point blank PERIOD.

“Listen to me now” 😂 😂😂😂😂😂… I love it here. Thank you for the wisdom Tony

Great advice Tony. I'll say this because I wasn't privy to it until I heard if from the ladies mouth. Sex is extremely important to them. Sex is a job (OnlyFans), sex is way too keep a man, sex is a way to control a man, sex is their reward from hard work. I was shocked to see women mock other women waiting on marriage.

If you are raising Denace the Menace you don't need to be dating anyways. LOL

I don't know why that woman had fear of this message of what's being said . Bro Tony this message was so on point and full of wisdom. Am receiving every golden nuggets that God speaks through you.

Listening to these videos has shown me areas to work on. I talk and reveal way too much to men. I talk so much I can't hear or sense God's discernment.

Tony, I thank you for your gems of wisdom. I can truly feel that you are passionate about this topic and have genuine care and concern. Thank you so much and may God continue to bless you and enlarge your territory!

But it seem like Tony marriage is perfect from the outside in 😩 A man who love you, provide you and the family, spoil you and have 0 thoughts about cheating on you seem perfect for me. I understand what he is saying but I think we all can honestly say we would like to be blessed like that! It’s good to see a great example to give us all hope!

This man is SPOT ON

Thank you Tony, this is real God-power advice for the ladies. Loved hearing a man telling the truth so women will respect and love themselves. That way they can avoid being damaged by the world system. Stay valuable and beautiful, ladies, the way God created you. And if they don't respect that, they don't deserve you and you don't need them.

So proud of how much I've grown. Thank you for taking care of you in order to speak truth. Healthy vs unhealthy.

Very Deep and Relevant message. Nothing is free, pay now, or later. Pay with sacrifice or regret. This been resonating in my spirit lately. This is some deep stuff! The sooner we wake up, the better this world will be! Be blessed everyone!

😂😂😂 Tony hit us with the one hazel eye open @ 8:45 "slightly lower the guard" slightly! lol...we get it! 🤣 👊🏾

Hello Everyone, have a blessed day. Thank you Tony 🙏🏽

You always keep it 💯 God bless you I’m working on my soul tie! I haven’t spoke to him in a month.I love that you’re here helping us to do the right things.

Pay with sacrifice or pay with regret!!! ✊🏾✊🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Discernment! Trust that Holy Spirit and allow the brakes to get put on.

Been going through this with my 21 year old daughter. LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP, LISTEN TO YOUR CHILD & YOUR MOM! Isolation, not talking to people, all of a sudden pulled back from everyone, after seeing my granddaughter daily. My granddaughter is 3 & threw a fit when they had to go to his house. (Thinking they were in happy though) as if I didn't want her happy, and that's not the case. We can see what they don't see!

Good Word you spoke that message!!!!

Thank you, Uncle Tony! I receive this

Great message Tony. Thank you!

Hallelujah! Yes Sir! Thankyou Mr Gaskins. Amen and Amen!

Powerful message, thank you! 🙏🔥

Thank You Tony!🙏🏾

Thank you for this raw honesty !!!

Speak on it Tony Gaskins! Nothing but the truth! Blessings to you and the Queen🙏🏾

Powerful message Big Bro! Thank you for always keeping it 1000!!

Just got on and Yay a talk with Tony popped up! Perfect timing! 🙏🏼👏🏼 Be Blessed! Great short video!!

So much 💎💎in this message.

I needed to hear is this! Oh yeah! On time......

Great message!

Thanks for the Message ... I needed to hear that 🙏gonna play it over and over again

Now you brought it with this message!!!! Thank you, bless you....

WOW! 🤯🤯🤯 Such an important video! OMG! Thank you so much Tony!

Amen Tony Gaskins

Wow this message was POWERFUL. Tony I just thank God for you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 You are such a BIG blessing to this world Your words changed/and are still changing my life Thank you God,Thank you Jesus

This is the first time I heard someone give advice and said don't isolate yourself. Thanks so much for this 👏

AMEN YOU ARE SPEAKING THE TRUTH BROTHER IN CHRIST 🙌🙌

Tony preachin' and teachin' 🖤🖤

I’m 23 year old college student I learn a lot from you

I felt this deep within my spirit. Amen.

Thank you! I felt that one 💯