If you live in a 1st world country, your life isn’t average, you are in the top 20% globally. We live such privileged lives and don’t know how to be grateful for it.
🦍 Bianca you’re a genius. EXACTLY! There’s no immediate reward when we do our habits, they’re so boring and dull in the moment, that we want to instantly skip them in favor of more fun immediately rewarding things, lesser pleasures. But I think the highest pleasures can ONLY happen if we stay committed to these boring baby steps. Delayed fulfillment. You just identified what I’ve been subconsciously struggling with for aeons. We work so hard with our mini habits and after doing them feel like it’s not paying off. So it’s so easy to procrastinate to things that offer immediate and higher reward. Also when you said “What do you get jealous of?” To determine like what we want or our core values, that was genius! It’s such a good question. I’ve literally never heard that anywhere. Right, our heart cares about something SO MUCH that we can feel that way.
I have been working on my dreams for 4 years but I have not achieved much success. But one thing going good with me, now I am enjoy doing activity which lead me towards my dream. Thank you motivation!
Dear Bianca, I Just want to say thank you for making your content, your messages are incredibly practical and helpful and really help me tackle my inner fears and go after my dreams. Please continue making videos, your voice is so needed in this world❤
You serve others by leading them to the good life, but in order to do this, you must forge the path for yourself first. This is the hero’s journey. Failure and demoralization are prerequisites for identifying with the hero. Hope and dreaming are prerequisites for failure. Self hatred is a prerequisite for resurrecting hope. Care, love, and forgiveness are prerequisites for self hatred.
Now days with the way things change, new technologies, new tools, even new entertainment ways shifting so fast is easy to forget about "long term", I wasn't thinking more than 3 years in my projects but with your video I internalized what you said about massive amount of success requires time. Thank you for sharing!!
Thanks Bianca!! You are the big tough sister that i really need🦍 Also just wanted to thank you for the July challenge...it really helped me a lot❤️ Will be starting for the ongoing challenge! Once again thank you so much 🍀
People under estimate the time it will takes to get where they want to be. Whatever your initial thought is multiple it by 5 to 10. Appreciate the journey along the way and commit to 1,000 to 10,000 Hours into it
🦍 This video feels serendipitous to stumble upon. I’ve been having thoughts very similar to what you’re saying here, and a gnawing to start a project way out of my comfort zone.
🦍 I am still working on turning my vague idea of what I want into a concrete goal… did the exercise which I think has moved me closer to having clarity. Thank you!
Yeah exactly right I really do mean it too when I say my girlfriend inspires me and she motivates me to get better to do better not only for her but for myself she will see the effort I will give her the life she has never had and it's all because of this video
Bianca, you aren´t 1%, you are 0.0000017%. S H O C K I N G !❤!❤!❤! It's amazing to hear this from you. Thanks for mentioning the "detail" about the first world and considering those economic and social aspects.
I am going to give a example based off of that I would say Eric Thomas the motivational speaker he came from nothing he was once homelessness he ate out of trash cans but look at that man now he is in my eyes the number one motivational speaker in the world I want to be a motivational speaker like him which is exactly why I watch these videos
Other people that are more successful or have more than me or a lot more than me I see people that have a lot more than what I got or more than what I have
I want to be known as a guy who fulfilled his potential exceed took nothing made it into something as a person who gave back single handlely pulled off the impossible who was reliable fulfilled his duties his responsibilities and obligations who became the most successful person in the world who never forget that they came from the struggle who remained humble and even when they become the goat of goats they still didn't act like they was better than anybody or looked didn't look beneath people just because they were rich successful but they also treated people how they wanted to be treated who took someone and lifted them up who solved the homelessness problem but the poverty problem the worldwide hunger problem but also someone who was not a quitter but a fighter someone who did do everything that they said they was going to do
Its not that i want it immediately but im 50 and ive been hopping from job to job for the last 30 years and then getting told i need 10 more years is very hard on my morale. Nothing has ever worked out for me no matter how hard ive tried
@@alcerz984 10 years might not be as necessary when you’re older because you’re gifted with experience. When you’re my age it’s easier to think long term because we have no experience but we have time. When you’re older you might have less wiggle room BUT you have so many experiences and hopefully more wisdom so you can make more strategic decisions efficiently
Yeah exactly right my deadline is within two or three years I actually believe I can do a lot better I believe am capable of a lot more I believe have a lot more to offer I believe I have a lot more to contribute I love the hard working part exactly my point you should want to be that way in other words I prefer it to be a struggle I prefer it to be hard I rather have it be hard and literally and figuratively a struggle nonstop and I really do mean a literal and figuratively a struggle and in every single way than once I finally get the results it will be that sweeter and in every single way too for example I am struggling to reach that next level of success but I keep getting closer and closer to achieving that next level of success yeah exactly that's all I have to do is put the work in just like I keep saying time to put that work in but also the key is hard work and that's because I don't like handouts if I don't have to work for it than it ain,t worth it
I lost sleep over the fact that I am trying to become the most successful person in the world I lose sleep because I want to take care of my girlfriend that's my why she probably doesn't even love me but I will take care of her anyway like a real man supposed to do
