Stop Making These Plus Size Style Mistakes That Make You Look Cheap | The Glow Up Guide

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@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

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@lolal1026 5 месяцев назад

Hit the nail on the head. What angers & saddens me is that plus size people are judged as lower class or not worthy by some. I sometimes used to tell my husband (RIP) who was a successful business owner be careful what you wear when meeting a client, you will be judged (sadly) by first impressions & not the smart & good person you are. It has happened to me.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

It's a subconscious reaction in a lot of cases but sometimes, it's intentional. Always look your best because you never know who you're going to meet. 😉

@marshacallahan3348 4 месяца назад

A great list of things that we all need to know. Being a plus-size woman is not an excuse to look sloppy. Being neat and presentable is something we should strive for every day.

@irismartinez5753 5 месяцев назад

I worked with a beautiful plus size woman and she was the most stylish and most coordinated woman I have ever known. I used to compliment her all of the time. It doesn't matter the size is how you carry yourself as well.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

🙌🏼

@lindabooker8199 8 дней назад

I am completely agree with all of your points, especially about fragrances & jewelry. Wearing rings on all your fingers or stacking rings not meant to be stacked is distracting & takes away from the beauty of each individual piece. And frangrances should make people want to take a step closer to you not a step back.

@houston5568 5 месяцев назад

I have learned alot this year about clothing especially for plus size; one of the most important thing I learned is tailoring: I have big hips but a smaller waist; to get the pants to fit well the waist always is big; if I got something from a more upscale store then I will get it tailored: though I have found some great pants from Walmart that I had tailored that are really very nice.

@lisa8990 5 месяцев назад

Oralia after watching your videos and feeling like you are being critical, by today I realized that you are just offering your advice. I appreciate it and have learned a few things from you. Thank you.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

I'm glad I'm being helpful!

@kindredcreativecorner6927 5 месяцев назад

These apply to all. If I saw a slim super model in wrinkly clothing I would think the same as a plus size in wrinkly clothes. Thanks for the assessment.

@305triCIA 12 дней назад

What great content! I wear modest clothing and all of your outfits are so modest and classy!

@carolconickmcclellan6992 5 месяцев назад

Wrinkles UGH! I will be moving my steamer from the sewing room to my closet. All your points were spot on!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

I find steaming to be a bit meditative, lol.

@ronnieb111 5 месяцев назад

Melissa, you have expressed your opinion perfectly eloquently and rightly so I agree with you %100. 😊

@YourNextStep1234 5 месяцев назад

Totally agree with you! Speaking of perfumes, would love to hear your top recommendations (especially vanilla based). Thx!!

@charlottehetherington8720 3 месяца назад

I totally agree with all your points I know a lady who wears very very nice clothes but where's them too small and ruins the look

@kareno7792 5 месяцев назад

Agree with all your points. I really have to work on my posture. I tried standing straight the other day and boy was it hard to do. I could only stand it for so long and then went right back to slumping, lol.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Keep trying, you can do it!

@shell2850 5 месяцев назад

I am so glad you did this video. Women need to understand that "less is truly more." People will address you by the way you dress, and sometimes it's not the way you intended it to be! Thank you so much for this.

@maryannbeatty8473 Месяц назад

I still iron.....everything!

@wendykornfein3337 5 месяцев назад

Most don't take the time for these issues. Thank you, Oralia.

@lynnettewooden4933 4 месяца назад

I put it on the pulse points

@flufwix 5 месяцев назад

I hear your disclaimer and know you mean this with kindness. I’m not sure about the term “cheap”. Do you mean “unwilling to spend money” or “trashy” or “inferior” or “lacking taste”? (I checked out some dictionary definitions) I am wary of labelling people because of personal taste. There’s real risk of offending, especially people who can’t afford anything but low cost clothing, and it suggests that people should follow one specific set of rules. Posture is a risky area to mention as some people have medical conditions that impact their posture. I’d hate to think we’d judge them as “cheap” fit something they can’t help. As for too much perfume, that’s inconsiderate of others and chipped nail polish looks unkempt. Totally with you on them.

@SunnyDays00 5 месяцев назад

Either definition of ' cheap' is to be avoided. You can have less expensive clothes..but wear them well..ironed..not ripped.. not revealing too much skin..not too tight etc etc etc. Lets not get triggered on purpose

@abcstyles Месяц назад

I agree because “cheap” means “worth more than it costs” and is not a negative term because it can be applied to a company like Quince.

@girliegrandm 4 месяца назад

Don’t forget glitter!

@tgardenchicken1780 5 месяцев назад

One thing that kind of turns me off is very long nails. Even if they are nicely polished, all I can think of is all the dirt and germs that may be under those nails. It is a personal thing for me. I agree with all the points you made in this vid.

@barbarareed3661 5 месяцев назад

You made some very good points.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for watching!

@susanbandaries9706 3 месяца назад

Thank you for the tips!

@Oralia_Martinez 3 месяца назад

Happy to help!

@barbmckee1938 5 месяцев назад

Thanks so much for this reminder! I struggle with self esteem but you are helping me with confidence…I still can’t imagine wearing a belt although I am your height and weight and you look great in belts…baby steps I guess. Thanks again.

@lizmillan1 5 месяцев назад

Great video . I would add excessive make up to the list. Oralia , would love it if you could do a video about how you started as fashion consultant. Was it since you were a little girl with a great sense of fashion. ? Were you the girl always made up with out a hair out of place . Thanks

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thanks for the idea, maybe I'll include it in a vlog?

@carolirvine7663 4 часа назад

I love your videos. You give excellent advice and not just for plus size, but or everyone. I would add Downy wrinkle spray which helps reduce wrinkles in clothing. When I am pressed for time I spray a garment, smooth the wrinkles and hang it in the bathroom after I shower. Fake nails are, inexpensive, easy to apply and give a polished look. I buy the short ones in a neutral color, for me long red nails are a no, no. Wigs have become less expensive and good quality. I have two in gray, my natural color, close to my usual style.They are great in a pinch when having a bad hair day. I hate pantyhose but knee high stockings give a smooth look to the lower leg. There are toeless styles that can be worn some sandals. Self tanner works well to make the lower leg look smooth but leg makeup works too and is easier and washes off. If you look good you feel good and genius is in the detail no matter what size we are and less is always best. Oralia, keep up the good work.

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

You look so good in the outfits you showed us tonite I luv them on u 🎉

@Daria-bg3ds 5 месяцев назад

wow. I got dermatitis on my eye as well ...and I recently started using Luminare eyedrops again. Would have never possibly connected the two. Thank you!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

I'm still not sure. I started adding makeup and it came back. I'm going to re-add things one at a time so I can find the culprit!

@lindabenson1237 5 месяцев назад

Once again O you hit the nail on the head.❤

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@lolly5519 5 месяцев назад

Great advice. Thanks for sharing.

@Leftrightnow1530 5 месяцев назад

People who wear too much perfume often do so by mistake. They keep adding more and more frgrance on until THEY can smell it, (because they had worn so much of it before, their nose no longer picks up that scent,)

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

I see how that can happen, thanks for sharing!

@rebeccakramp2020 5 месяцев назад

I haven’t watched all the video yet so I don’t know if it’s mentioned, but one that comes to mind to me is over grown hair. A nice styled haircut looks very polished and pulled together.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Very true!

@shereewilson6827 5 месяцев назад

Great one Oralia! I love the series! You look mahvelous honey!!❤❤

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@e.maevillalba6820 5 месяцев назад

This is such good video!! I watch you a lot. I’d agree with all you say and I appreciate the reminders. I’m bad about posture. We naturally straighten up or fix our expressions in front of the mirror naturally but if we are leaning on things or all slouchy, we are literally a pushover. We can’t stand our ground. We know how to stand. I’m so bad about this but working on it. Anyway, always looking to improve. Thanks so much.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

You got this!

@theperfectlyimperfectpianist 5 месяцев назад

Oralia, I am new to your channel and love your videos and classic styles! I would love to see a future video on what to wear to flatter a thick waist and big belly.

@helenmckeown8963 5 месяцев назад

Yes pkease

@auravee3268 5 месяцев назад

Every point you have addressed are true. As a child my mother always said is in the constitution of the garment not the label that makes it a quality piece. She was in the textile industry she knew what to look for in garments. She also said to learn to coordinate clothing to look your best. I always struggle with that so I go to Pinterest to see how to coordinate clothing. And regarding fragrance I never saw it that way. You have opened my eyes. I am guilty in using a bit more. I thought I had to be in a cloud of scent… mi ignorancia.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

I'm glad you enjoyed it! 😃

@conniepleasantnails 5 месяцев назад

The Glow Up series is nice and these are all great tips. I need to hear that posture reminder. I can be a slouch queen…🤭

@pammcardle40 5 месяцев назад

Amen sister!! I love you, you keep it real and are ao relatable. Thank you for all you do!!❤️❤️ That necklace is awesome!!😁

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thank you, and I’m glad you enjoyed my video!

@abcstyles Месяц назад

Although I agree with some of the points in this video, this video is for those people who are not sure what to wear or how to wear it. But, if a person feels comfortable and confident in what they’re wearing, then they should wear it, regardless of another people’s opinion because another person’s opinion is more about that person than it is about the person wearing the item.

@josephinerimmer6888 5 месяцев назад

I never ever buy anything that requires ironing. I hate it, a touch up with the steamer is all they need.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Yeah, I steam everything - irons are kind of dangerous.

@sharronwolfe7711 5 месяцев назад

A great video and I agree with every point! One thing that has always really irked me is the now waning (thank God!) trend of distressed jeans! I totally agree - they just look tacky and cheap! So many influencers say they add texture - if I want more texture I’ll add a boucle blazer! Thanks again for another great video! Really appreciate your perspective!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Totally agree. It's something I'll never do because it just doesn't resonate.

@spaceytracey1894 5 месяцев назад

I really enjoy your videos. ❤

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Glad you like them!

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

Luv that skirt and belt and top

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

That's a nice look

@ladylouise1969 5 месяцев назад

I agree 100%!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

So glad you enjoyed it!

@pattystovall-cowart3987 7 дней назад

Hi Oralia. Can you tell us what exercises you do for your back muscles? I have poor posture also and have a hard time standing before my back starts aching. Thanks for you help. Patty

@lynnettewooden4933 4 месяца назад

What's faster streaming or ironing

@lulu6618 5 месяцев назад

Gosh what an excellent video! A so agree with you on logos and about denim especially. I struggle with jewelry though. What are your thoughts on Iris Apfel? I love her boldness and style. I don’t think I could pull it off though. Thank you

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

What I truly appreciate about her is that she stays true to herself, and does it with confidence. She's the epitome of personal style. 😉

@adrianznt 5 месяцев назад

Hello Orália; Happy New Year🎆🎆🎆✨✨✨!!!... We're off to a good start with the choice of the Leather Skirt in this video; You can't go wrong with this key piece; the choices you made in both parts of the Video prove this; with you very Elegant and Classy in the first part (incredible!!!) and in the second part you highlighted your posture (excellent choice of jacket and matching Skirt)👏👏👏!!! Hope you have a great 2024👏👏👏!!!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thank you! You too!

@betmo 5 месяцев назад

well said!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@francoisesmet4793 5 месяцев назад

Top as usual ! Bisous from Brussels 💋

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thank you! 😃 Bisous!

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

What kind of exercises

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

What do you think about long nails

@lynnettewooden4933 4 месяца назад

Where can you buy a streamer from the a store rather than order one

@Oralia_Martinez 4 месяца назад

I’ve gotten one from Target.

@margreetdegraaf4078 5 месяцев назад

You look beautiful without the eye make-up!

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much 🙂

@jennifersmith6747 5 месяцев назад

On the fragrance issue? Because some people see nothing wrong with skanking up the area they are shopping in ( public spaces) with their use of weed. They smell like they went out driving hit a poor innocent skunk , stopped the car and proceeded to go roll in the skunk carcass like a dog in poo. I Need my scent bubble . Not to the use a bottle a week ( oof ! That will trigger eye watering and migraines even in D&G Lt. Blue! ) but some trail . An enticing amount not a tsunami .

@diannevoss7822 5 месяцев назад

This was really good. Also I’d add wearing too much makeup. Your makeup shouldn’t come through the door before you do.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

I had that one down but figured I'd offended enough so I left it alone, lol. But I would definitely address it with a client privately. 😉

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

You look good without it

@Leftrightnow1530 5 месяцев назад

There's a difference between being a maximalist and wearing lots of jewelry and people who just pyle on the entire jewelry box.

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Yes, there is.

@barbaradaley4175 5 месяцев назад

Is your light blue top a sweater or a blouse? May I have the info to purchase that top, please?

@Oralia_Martinez 5 месяцев назад

Of course! It's a top, and here's the link bit.ly/3Getx3p. I love it, it's one of my favorites!

@lynnettewooden4933 4 месяца назад

Steaming or iroing

@RitaVernoy 5 месяцев назад

Great content, one of my peeves is dirty shoe soles.

@peggyekena9966 5 месяцев назад

I have watched you long enough to know that you would never purposely hurt someone's feelings. I agree with you about looking cheap when showing too much skin; just wish the younger generation watched your channel too! I'm right there with you when it comes to the distressed jeans! Never understood the trend; all the young people wear them! 🙄 Too much perfume and cheap fragrances are terrible! For older women, I think nail polish colors should be either natural looking and not wild colors that a younger person wears. Keeping your hair color and cut appropriate for your age will also make one look better. Long and flowing gray hair is not attractive neither is the skunk stripe down your part. Also, pastel colors in your hair looks ridiculous and cheap. Great video! 💙

@lynnettewooden4933 4 месяца назад

Its 491953

@lynnettewooden4933 4 месяца назад

Hi O

@jennifersmith6747 5 месяцев назад

To the looking cheap by wearing too much jewelry - I read in a fashion book that the author had a client that did that . She wore a ton of real gold chains and it was so much that though she was wearing a fortune in gold all the time she never got mugged for it on her walks home in the city. It was so much that it looked like it couldn’t be real . She looked like she was wearing cheap Claire’s junk because of the lack of edit .

@lynnettewooden4933 5 месяцев назад

Ur looking in that body con love it on you ❤️

@nickystripe3303 5 месяцев назад

I absolutely hate distressed jeans and will not buy them. I also can’t stand stretch jeans. I don’t know why it is impossible to find jeans without spandex. I wish I knew where I could find some actual good denim jeans. Also, I have a few pieces of clothing from Cato‘s, but I stopped shopping there because they are entirely fast fashion. They want people to impulse buy clothes that are so trendy that they’re going to be out of style in a year or two. I can’t stand fast fashion because it is bad for the planet.

@sarahdeveau4881 5 месяцев назад

I haven't watched the video and probably won't because I'm dismayed by the use of the word 'cheap.' It's a term grounded in classism and misogyny and not something I would have expected to see here. Think about what it really means, how it's been used and what you really mean when you're using it. I hope you might reconsider.

@abcstyles Месяц назад

Totally agree about the misuse of the word cheap.