Stop People Interrupting You in Conversation (5 Tips). This is How You SHUT THEM DOWN!

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It's not easy to stop people interrupting you in conversation. If you're more of a passive communicator, it can be challenging and daunting to try to claim your talking space and stop people interrupting you. But if you want to get your voice heard, whether it's in chaotic meetings at work or casual conversations with a group of friends, you need to learn how to stop people talking over you.
It might sound difficult to do, but when you use the techniques that I share in this video, it can make the process much, much easier. And don't worry, they won't make you look aggressive at all. They will simply allow you to get the space you need to be present in the conversation. And to "condition" people to know that they can't interrupt you in the future. Let's put an end to the frustration that you feel when people interrupt you.
Timestamps:
00:00 How to stop people interrupting you.
00:59 Do you give up too quickly?
03:14 Helpful body language technique
05:00 I'm not finished yet!
07:36 Deal with it in private
10:14 Use the framing technique
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@green4black Год назад

Thank you - the simple raised hand and “I’m not finished yet” is a confident, assertive, graceful alternative to an aggressive approach I’ve sometimes witnessed in meetings: “Would you let me finish?!” Love your channel!

@kararonin Год назад

Thank you very much!

@Maya_s1999 11 месяцев назад

What if someone is trying to undermine you and the interrupting is part of their strategy to diminish your influence? Would you have that private conversation in that case? Could you make a video for the scenario where group meetings are used by ill-meaning individuals as opportunities to undermine co-workers?

@eriyonadams2353 7 месяцев назад

I straight up say I'm not done talking

@TheCrain 2 месяца назад

I'm very timid as well. I find just straight up saying "Hold on please or 1 second" and then continuing my sentence to help. I have a lot of practice at this because I have a long distance friend who will literally not pay attention to what you said until their paragraph is over. He tries to interject and when I stop he just continues on. Lol Frustrating sometimes but funny when I think about it.

@kararonin Год назад

Did you find these tips helpful? Which one will work best for you?

@bernardmithi4718 Год назад

I love your videos. Keep up the good work

@mnsuchak Год назад

All vides are helpful. Great work !

@DoctorSoyemi 6 месяцев назад

❤ Quiet Speaker! You don't have to allow that interruption. ‘Fight for your talking space’. I got that. Thank you for the Valuable tips 👏🏽

@rolandovillareal4385 6 месяцев назад

Thank you very much Cara. I suffer from childhood ptsd. This podcast is very helpful. It gives me the ability to have control in my conversations and overcome my own fears and insecurities.

@archangele1 4 месяца назад

Great advice. There is one thing to consider though. Are you taking too long to make your point when talking. I have heard people many times say 'Please, get to the point". My father used to say to me, when I would ramble on about a certain subject I was trying to talk about to get to the point. He would also say 'You're loosing your audience'. I just mention this because a lot of times when I have had to deal with a 'talk over numnum' I noticed that I was rambling on and on about the subject and taking too long to get to the point. Not saying this is always the case, but sometimes it is and it is something to consider.

@rokaskundrotas4805 2 месяца назад

That’s a very common and frustrating thing that happens in conversations, especially at work, where important issues are being discussed.

@We_Must_Resist Год назад

Very good. Not aggressive or rude - just factual and open to negotiation.

@kararonin Год назад

Yes! I'm glad you enjoyed this video!

@Irinacraft Год назад

Just found your channel this morning and binge listening your videos, very helpful for my career, thank you!

@kararonin Год назад

I'm so glad to hear that Irina! Thank you for binge watching 🤗

@glorymkhonza8578 10 месяцев назад

Powerful and useful information, much appreciated

@sunvaj6754 Год назад

Kara, your 5 tips are really great! Now, I know how to defense myself. Thanks for sharing.

@user-qi3tc6xy4z 11 месяцев назад

Great advice, thank you

@vickbennett4637 11 месяцев назад

I just found your channel and great content. I have been in sales for 25 years and your subjects are very enlightening! Keep it up!

@ChristFan868 Год назад

I'm so happy I found this channel. Thank you Kara.

@kararonin Год назад

I'm so happy you found my channel! Thank you for watching!

@user-xs5dp4gw8e Год назад

That's what I like about my computer ... I can interrupt anytime I like 😂

@clausmte1 Год назад

I found of all the tips very helpful. Thank you very much for your videos!

@kararonin Год назад

I'm glad you found this video helpful Claudia! Thank you for watching!

@cyrilgeorge5644 Год назад

Very practical tips...thank you Kara

@kararonin Год назад

Thank you so much Cyril!

@rdel4575 Год назад

This is great advice. Thank you.

@kararonin Год назад

Thank you RDel!

@livinglegendsempire6893 2 месяца назад

Great tips

@transitionsnc Год назад

I've had men become outright angry when I have said, "Please let me finish my thought," when I am interrupted.

@Himmiefan 8 месяцев назад

Keep standing up to them!

@starrystarrynight9822 4 месяца назад

That's a shame, isn't it? Very disrespectful.

@transitionsnc 4 месяца назад

Yes. It is. Unfortunately, it happens once in a while.@@starrystarrynight9822

@papabird4425 15 дней назад

I've had women do the same thing. And men. This is a thing people do.

@minato4203 9 дней назад

Then you have encountered an immature human being. And there’s no point to continue my conversation.

@rebecca.smith. 11 месяцев назад

This is excellent !

@kararonin 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@chrispine7572 Год назад

The speech was well spoken thanks a lot for this guidance it's working incredibly keep it up you are helping a lot.

@kararonin Год назад

Thank you so much!

@moonermuhammad420 Год назад

You are a gem. ❤ from Kenya.

@Carroty_Peg 11 месяцев назад

love love love!

@pinkpastelstudio 6 месяцев назад

Summary: [00:27] 💼 Fight for your talking space. Don't give in to interruptions easily. [03:14] ✋ Raise your hand to signal that you're not finished speaking. [04:22] 👀 Make eye contact with the interrupter to convey your seriousness. [04:51] 🗣 Directly tell the interrupter that you're not finished yet. [06:00] ⚖ It's the interrupter's fault, not yours. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. [07:25] 🗣 Have a private conversation with the chronic interrupter to address their behavior. [08:35] 🛑 Reset their expectations and set new boundaries to prevent future interruptions. [09:02] ❗ Use strong language to convey your message clearly and make an impact. [09:43] ❌ Avoid passive communication that dilutes your message and confuses the other person. [10:11] 🛑 Deter interruptions by using phrases that set expectations and request space to speak.

@asifmuniruniverse7732 Год назад

No! you informed me truth about some people thoughts

@asifmuniruniverse7732 Год назад

I understand their all game of business now

@robnkellfrancis2518 10 месяцев назад

What about in virtual meetings?

@flowerchild89 9 дней назад

I have a coworker who does this. It's so irritating. She's rude. She puts her 2 cents in on EVERYTHING!!! All day. Ugggg

@mach1gtx150 6 месяцев назад

I work with a guy like this and he doesn't back down with the stop sign and my continuing to talk. He just talks faster and louder, and he doesn't even care. So how about a back hand instead?

@christopherbowers268 Месяц назад

If she keeps trying to interrupt me but I can’t understand what she’s saying because her mouth is full, so I still use the hand raise technique? My concern is that she’ll think I’m about to slap her and inadvertently bite down. Asking for a friend.

@periteu 6 месяцев назад

I just start saying "im talking, im talking", when other shut up, i continue.

@rudbeckia885 26 дней назад

How bout on the e phone ?

@samanthaperez7859 10 месяцев назад

3:20

@asifmuniruniverse7732 Год назад

If they wanna to do Interruption of my words, no problem I think they already doing that

@rapatel1642 9 месяцев назад

Its time to obliterate the interuptors.

@taliazane7334 5 месяцев назад

As the meeting leader, some people need to be interrupted. They're aggressive, sending the wrong message to the team, spreading negativity or annoyingly repetitive or rude. If you're being interrupted also think about why.

@sineadgrier2182 8 месяцев назад

Brilliant

@stummkind 3 месяца назад

Only watching this video makes my blood boil again. I had a meeting last week when at times I had a hard time bringing one sentence through and three different people interrupted me. Yes, I understand that i need to take over responsibility for adopting a more assertive speaking style and setting boundaries, but still its so disrespectful and overpowering. For talking with the interrupter personally: at this point I would have to talk with nearly every person in my company.