your lives are precious people, i believe you never doubt yourself, you are good the way you are independent of what you are externally and internally, never give up regardless if the situation is bad, continue, you will succeed.
@@em7654 your lives are precious people, i believe you never doubt yourself, you are good the way you are independent of what you are externally and internally, never give up regardless if the situation is bad, continue, you will succeed. And share your situation and fellings to people.
Luckily no one has abused me, but I get uncomfortable at a shoulder rub too, in 5th grade I remember my art and crafts teacher rubbing my shoulder and I pulled away and liternally started crying, and the teacher was like "oh you liternally are crying just because of something like that?"
I am a 23 year old. These videos make me feel as if I am not alone. I tear up when I watch these. I needed these as a child when I was being abused . I tell my therapist about the videos. I use them as a coping skill to help validate my younger self and my present self (because of the effect of the abuse stays with you) and I have you to say thank you for helping me cope with the emotional distress. I watch these videos as a coping skill. I'm so glad these are available so openly. Children and adults who are experiencing abuse and are not able to get support in person have things like this to fall back on. I would love to share my story with the channel. I think a video about it would be very good. You guys are amazing.❤❤❤
I am a 23 year old these videos make me feel as if I am not alone I tear up when I watch these I needed these as a child when I was being abused I tell my therapist about the video I use them as a coping skill to help validate my younger self and my present self because of the effect of the abuse stays with you and I have to say thank you for helping me cope with the emotional discussion
@Destiny Croucher I am so sorry. I would say for now try and stay away from home as much as you can. Sleep at a friends place or a family member you can trust. And if you have a family member that you can go to and they can help you report your parents that's also a good idea. It's very bitter sweet because it's not ideal to be in the system after being separated from your parents when they're reported social services. Foster care is not the best but honestly I believe it's better than the abuse that you're going through. Half and adults who you trust and who believes you help. Do you have any siblings? This is definitely not expert advice. This is a very difficult situation. Is there any way that you could set up your phone or camera and get video or audio proof? Are you left with bruises that prove this situation? I 100% believe you. It's hard when parents are very good at lying and saying that you made everything up. That's how it is with my father. I know right now it must be very difficult because there's not many people you can go to when in quarantine/self isolation. I believe it's a good idea to learn some self defense.
@Destiny Croucher my dad did similar things to me . I wasn't completely conscious so there wasn't much I could do. I woke up on the ground in the living room. Self defense is your best bet at the minute. And find a friend you go to everyday. I will look up some more advice to comment again
@Destiny Croucher do you have to go see him? Keep trying to find a friends parent to tell. I wish I could help you learn self defense. Maybe you could get a sound recording on your phone?
This is hard cause I tried telling my mom over and over that my dad was molesting me and each time I was called a liar, moved to new states and never helped. I finally was able to leave but the damage from lack of help as a child never left
your lives are precious people, i believe you never doubt yourself, you are good the way you are independent of what you are externally and internally, never give up regardless if the situation is bad, continue, you will succeed.and share to all peoples.
I don’t watch this cuz that something like this has happened to me...I watch this so I can understand this world better...so that I can understand how I could help someone else
I agree, I grew up with the Internet. When I found these videos I didn’t think anything of it and just watched them. I’m 13 now and I’m glad I still watch these videos
I still haven't managed to get real help. my mom knows everything that's happened to me (almost everything, I've never told anyone Abt what happened with my brother or my neighbors) but she just tells me that it's over now and I'm safe and I should get over it. I was in two sexually abusive relationships and I can't just get over that. and I don't think I'll ever be able to get real professional help. I'm only 15, and I've already been abused by so many people so many different ways. it upsets me. these videos make me feel a lot better though. it makes me feel like there's hope, and that I'm not alone. thank you guys, so much for these videos.
Jesus, I really recommend you open up to a teacher, therapist, or someone else in your family. You should also probably let your mom know about how you truly feel.
There is hope, you can heal. Please know that you deserve help. If you feel strong enough, please talk to your mom about it and tell her that you need to talk to a prodessional. Or if there is someone else you can trust, tell them and ask them for advice. You're valuable and you deserve help.
You HAVE the right to get professional help, I think she doesn't care about it, however she should, you're her son/daughter If your school has a psycologhist talk with him/her, the same if in your city is free some kind of mental health service I hope that someday you get the professional help that you DESERVE, you're not alone (Sorry for bad english)
That is a sad truth, but you should go to someone who will believe you, there’s always someone who will believe you, I’ll be here if you need me and I’ll believe you
Ya We need to teach children how to defend themselves because sometimes people just don’t care or don’t do anything and you need to know how to deal with it yourself as well
I was abused by my dad. All you need to know is there is DRY BLOOD STAINS on my carpet/rug. My dad doesn't see me much anymore and has been sued and we cannot see him. My mom, sister and me can't. I like these. They make me feel not alone. I'm 13 and still am abused to be 100% honest but not as bad. Just maybe an eye bruise or scratch.
I am also abuse by my dad. Me my sister all time feel uncomfortable around my dad were didn't like him. some time i tell to my mom when she know that my dad touch me inappropriately she talked to him and divorce him. I love my mom so much she make me secure now I'm 14 and live alone with my mom
Please know that you can ask for help with this. It is wrong that anyone hurts you and you deserve to feel and be safe. If there is an adult you can trust, please tell them you're being abused.
I was abused from 5-16, my dad would beat me... He never... Touched me, he would only hit and scream and kick. He would let his girlfriend at the time do the same, and he would encourage his other girlfriends or wives to do so. I've been in foster care twice, and he got us back both times. It only started getting better when he met his current wife. He doesn't hit me anymore, I'm 18 now... He's gotten so much better, but he still has a way to go. He's expressed his remorse and regret of how he raised me. He has two babies now, and I'm confident he will do better with them, but sometimes I'm still scared that he's going to hurt them too... But I'm hoping he does better.
I hate being touched because of abuse, trauma, and I am neurodivergent with sensory issues. I still live in the toxic household that holds my trauma and my bad memories. I want to get out of here but I cant.
I am a 9 year old. My perspective is cyber-bullied by fake friends. For YEARS, I've been cyber-bullied by my "friends" who WERE very nice to me. I couldn't realize it because they were nice the next day as if nothing happened. I am now going to tell my parents about this situation. Thank you, Fight Child Abuse, for helping me realize this.
If anyone wants to talk then I’ll be here or if someone just needs a friend who will listen then let me know, I don’t mind listening to what you have to say or if you want to get something off your chest, but for everyone who’s still here, y’all are very strong to go through what y’all went through, keep staying strong and don’t give up
I'm here because I'm in 5th grade and there was this substitute that was looking at girls and boys inappropriately. Almost all the girls in my orchestra class were talking about him and how the teachers did nothing about it. Even the principal did nothing about it. My mom always told me to never let someone look at me inappropriately. But it didn't happened to me, it happened to people I knew. And I was so 🦆 off. I told me teacher about it and she said it could be a misunderstanding. He even went to the girls bathroom! Like, what a ped0! A girl even cried about it too. Luckily we haven't seen him ever since. He looked 70 or something
When i was a child i was sexually abused and i even told it to a teacher and the prinicple but they made it look like i wanted it to my parents who we talked to. I was around 8 or 9 back then.. My parents took me out of ghat school and i never seeked therapy to work on what happend. I am an adult now and im still struggeling on processing the incident so it took mebover 12 Years until i wanted to hug my mom again, thats how bad it was. Im not going into detail because it was so long ago, but this shows not every Principle or teacher actually listens and helps.
I was always bullied physically and mentally by my own parents. They did terrible things to me And they continue to do so. I'm 15 and every time I remember how I was beaten and locked in a dark basement when I was only 2 years old .. It's a terrible feeling. You say Why don't I confess to anyone? Yes, because I have no choice, our policemen are beasts, orphanages are terrible. Everyone just doesn't care. I live in one of the CIS countries.This is a country next to Russia. For the first time in my life, I told an adult, it was a psychologist, she told me that there was nothing she could do to help me. Of course they don't beat me anymore , I can already take care of myself. I'm leaving at 18. I repeat I don't have you But I'm glad that there is such a channel They(my parents ) still tryna kill my mental sos
Oh My God! I am really shocked when I read what you have been through. I am really sorry for everything that happened to you. Do not despair. Once you have not received any help, you can move on from all this. Do not let these bad memories control you. There is hope in this life. I wish you a happy day💗
Because I am in a Christian family I never got abused or anything like that, i am 11 and I am from South Africa I just love watching these videos for if someone in this world will need help with abuse and other things like that so if you ever need help tell someone you trust, this world can be cruel to people, if you feel like you need help you can also call you police
I was in a Christian family and was abused. Thousands of people have been abused by pastors, priests, friends and relatives who are Christians.Religion doesn't protect anybody.
Sorry to say darling but Christians can be abused too. I am happy to hear that you feel safe but know that danger can come from anywhere especially when you least expect it.
This channel is so golden. It feels like they really understand you in every video, unlike others. I feel so comfortable and understood when i watch these videos
I’m so happy this is a channel kids can find! I’m watching these so I know what signs to look for in my kids when I have them one day. This is wonderful and helpful. Thank you. It’s nice to see people who want to make a difference.
I don’t know why but how abused you are feels like a competition. Like I’ve been “abused” and bullied but since most of it was verbal or small amounts of anger outbursts which I wouldn’t really call abuse and more just people with anger problems taking it out on you once in a while or not handling a situation correctly really small things such as kids my age touching me in places I don’t wanna be touched or forcing me to takeoff my clothes and getting upset when I didn’t it doesn’t feel valid because you be hearing stories about people getting beaten bloody and stuff and having lasting trauma even though you don’t really have lasting trauma and laugh about it sometimes And people with way more problems than you have and then it feels like your problems and stuff are so small and minor and happened years ago that they don’t even matter anymore or when you do a good job at something but somebody else did a better job so you don’t feel like you did a good job anymore
Abuse is still abuse. It doesn’t have to be worse than the others. I know this sounds wrong but sometimes I compare myself to others stories and think maybe if I was abused a little longer I would be affected like them. That’s understandable but if it affects you it immediately converts to Trauma. It’s okay to feel this way. Just don’t let it get in your head.
I was sexually assaulted for 6 years starting when i was 9 it ended in 2018 at 15 because i forced my mum to kick him out but thats as far as it went, i only went to the police after he kidnapped my younger brothers in December 2020, i spent so long keeping it to myself i started to think it wasnt a big deal and that since i dont have any major problems from it (i do like a lot of mental trauma but I thought I didnt) i ended up convincing myself that there are other people who had it worse, i went through high school being the therapist friend where my friends complained that they had a bedtime or that they couldn’t go somewhere all minor normal things all whilst i kept quite about what i was going through. Its hard and unfortunately even if your abused pushed you to the brink of death youll still think “but was it that bad” unfortunately its an addiction to the trauma, our brains try not to make ourselves the victims and so we make excuses not to feel sad but its 100% ok to be upset, even if it is something as simple as someone calls you names and verbally insults you that is still bad an damaging to your mental health, it is hard to accept abuse and bullying of any kind but when you do you can then get help you can find ways to grow and overcome it all. Any form of bullying or abuse is completely valid no matter how small you might think yours is, it is still worth talking to someone about and getting any help you need in order for you to heal
@@zariahharris929 I hope he got the death penalty. Target practice or laboratory mice should be more accurate descriptions for predators than calling them human.
I am a 33 year old. I have not been abused...well, not a lot, anyhow, myself. But, I have many around me who have been. Some as children... I watch these because I just feel they have such wonderful messages. I wish this was around when I was in school. I am so happy this resource exists for kids now and hope many children get to see these videos and know they can always get help and are never alone.
I’m 11 and Scottish/German I have a German and British passport, I can speak English and German and I love it! But I got bullied in an unnoticeable way for speaking German. It started when I tried to teach the class some German in primary 2-3 (?) I said a phrase in a weird way, and this one boy bullied me up until now about my German side, making fun of me and my nationality. He went as far as to bring nazis into it. I only recently told the head teacher as it got worse when he was moved up a year into my class. For a while after having a talk with him it got better, but recently he started again. It is the summer holidays now but it still hurts inside when I think of him bulling me. Not just because of my nationality. I feel really uncomfortable talking about being half German now and hate when brits are made fun of. I’ve become more fidgety and emotional now too. Please. Don’t bully of make fun of people because of who they are. P.s I’m also lesbian/queer/she/he/they and I’m happy with myself for this!
I know how it feels. I was also bullied because I am German, and there was this kid in my class who was interested in WW2. But he said the German’s where like “Satan”, for which by then I had broken his nose. It shows that just becaue what happened in the past doesn’t make people who they are today.
In Yr 7, there was this Yr 8 girl who accused me of locking her locker lock (Like TF?) and she kept on coming back even when I told her to stop. Finally, she came up to me when it was my friends Bday and started cursing me for my German linage. I threw my half-eating food bar at her, then after her said go to 🦆 hell I slapped her in the face with a 9kg lunch box, causing her to get a slight concussion, and landing me in a 3 day suspension. 😁 Still don’t regret anything.
Wean I was fourteen I had a boyfriend I really liked him but then he touched me in a not so good spot and I told him to stop and he doesn't and started talking about all things he wanted to do to me and I don't know what to do but then I realized I need to tell someone I told my best friend she was very mad she told me to tell my mom but I don't I blocked him and don't talk to him but it still hurts and I have nightmares all the time about this. I don't know what to do my mom side that if same thing like this was to happen to tall her but I cant 😖
The thing is we get told what to do in these situations, but we can’t do anything because we just freeze up or forget what to do. I’m going to be honest, I feel bad for these people, and the people who’ve had to go through horrible things. I wish I could help these people, I wish I could stop those people who do bad things. I alone can’t, but with us all banded together we can stop this. It won’t be easy, and it will take a long time, but we can fix this together.
I wish when I was in high school when I started to be aware of things that my special education case worker teacher did not sweep under the rug about my home life bc my home life at times got to be too much.
When I was very little I didn't know that I was being molested by my cousin I was around 4-6 and he was around 8-10 every time my family would visit his family he would take me to the room alone with him and make me touch him and he would touch me I didn't like it and I told him that we needed to stop but he forced me to like it.... I haven't told anyone because I don't want to start trouble in my family I'm 11 and he is 14-16 he doesn't really do it that much but he tries to sometimes...... But I Tell him to stop.....
I been through something like this. When I was 12 I had this tutor named Maria. She was 1 year younger then me and she forced me to do a lot of things I didn’t wanna do. One of them was forcing me to touch her sexually and inappropriately. Maria would touch me sexually and inappropriately, sexually abuse me and make me do it too. I regret not telling my parents about it sooner. I should have told mom right when it happened. And when mom found out she just came up with an excuse: Maria is just a kid she didn’t know better she’s just curious. But fortunately I stopped seeing her after I told my parents
about 6 months ago i was over at a friends house, we were really close and i went over there all the time so i was comfortable. she lived with her godfather and godmother, her and i were asleep in her room and home alone with her godfather, i was laying on the bed on my phone when he walked in, she was still asleep. before he walked in i had had put my phone down and started to go back to sleep but he came in , i stayed laying there thinking he would just leave, but he came over to the bed and rested both of him fists on my thigh, i was laying on my back, and i was comfortable with her family so i didn’t think anything of it. but then he slid one of his hands to my down area and began to rub it , at this point i froze litterally, my hands and legs and for some reason my tongue were all numb and tingling , he then began to lift the blanket to do god knows what but i pretended to cough thinking he would leave which he did. i just remember begging to sob and my friend did what’s wrong and i said i can’t tell u. no one knows to this day besides one of my friends but she doesn’t really care. i’m only 14
i listened to the whole thing and i'm shaking a little as i type this, it's difficult and it hurts but i want to say it. i haven't had anyone to talk to about this,, not a therapist because i didn't know mom already knew i was abused and i didn't want the therapist to tell her because i didn't know she knew and the only other adult i ever spoke to about this was my boyfriends mom and it's,, not as comforting with her because it's not who was there and she's never experienced it so she can't give me the advice someone has gone through it can give, you know? i've had more than one sexual abuse encounter. the first one i was so young i was in JK i believe i only have blurred visions of the young (but older than me) boys across the alley that took off their trousers all the time to show me ,, what i didn't want to see. they always pressured me to take my clothes off too, i didn't because we were outside in public the one time i was alone indoors with them it happened, i exposed myself because of their pressure and i was so uncomfortable. i don't remember what happened after that. this is,, the worse one. as said in the video, most of the time talking about the abuse stops it but for me, this time, it was different and it was painful to go through no one in the house believed me at all, and there were a decent amount of us it was me, my mom, her boyfriend, her boyfriends sister, the sisters husband, and their kid. their kid who was a few years older than me, and she abused me sexually. i think i was 7 because it was the same time i was attacked by their family dog. my abuser was around 10 i didn't remember telling my mom about it, but the day i got the courage to tell her she said she already knew. i was shocked and wanted an explanation, she said i had already told her a few months after it was happening to me and all they did was move me to the basement because they didn't believe me. all 4 of the adults disregarded what i, an incredibly young kid, had said and thought i was lying. they just moved my room to see if i wouldn't complain about it anymore . considering they did nothing to help me, i guess i did stop talking about it. why would i lie about something like that as a child? i didn't know what sex was until my abuser told me what it was and made me do it. my abuser made me do so much sexual stuff, sexual roleplays, everything. i didn't know what they'd do to me if i said stop or told anyone. my abuser pressured me to lie and steal from the adults, hence why they didn't believe me i suppose. my abuser wanted me to be under their wing constantly and i didn't know what they would do to me if i didn't listen. i thought they would hurt me or yell at me, i was so, so scared. i have memories of sleeping in the abusers bedroom and then in the basement with a blur in-between, but growing up i thought i had just migrated there on my own because of how nice and cold it was. being down there kind of sucked though because if i wasn't being sexually abused, i was forced to listen to my mom and her boyfriend behind the curtain having sex and it was just so uncomfortable and disturbing for me at my young age. even after getting out of that household, for many many years going on i still had to deal with hearing her and her other boyfriends have sex. i hated it so much. i was also a very light sleeper, and to this day i still am-- probably because any small sounds make me think that there's some sort of sexual stuff happening and i don't want to hear it the trauma was so bad i guess i forgot that i told anyone about being sexually abused, and i was left with guilt and dread for years of being abused thinking i would be hurt or be in trouble. i thought no one knew and i didn't know what would happen and the one damn day i got the courage to say anything, working myself up and crying to my boyfriend and his mom about it so they could help me tell my own mom, it was all for nothing because i learned they didn't care, they didn't believe me, the abusers parents didn't even talk to their kid about it or ask anything, to my knowledge. the abuse didn't stop until we moved away after their vicious dog attacked me, attacked me worse than it usually did anyway. the dog had always nipped at me and sneered at me whenever i was near, it hated me when i barely interacted with it. the day it attacked me was when we were just eating dinner, and the owner (my abusers mom) defended the dog saying, "stormy didn't mean it!" that when we were able to move, i think?? i have faint flashes of memories of having my nose stitched up and the hospital room, there's a picture of me smiling in a camera in my moms room but we were still in that house i hate that picture. i once had my abuser on facebook and my mom still does, i've had the temptations to just,, ask why? why they did that to me. but i just cry and stare at my paragraphs that i eventually erase because talking to them will hurt and pain me i just want those memories gone. i want to ask them, i want to know one of the worst memories is when i first moved in to that house, and it is vivid. my abuser was standing on the stairs that curved up to the second floor and they whispered to me if i wanted to have sex. me, not knowing what it was, said i'd ask mom first since... yknow i didn't know what it was or if i was allowed to do it they became alarmed and kept saying "nononono" and had convinced me to just follow them and do what they said. i was unfortunately one of the unlucky people in the minority that didn't receive any help from speaking up and it has lead me to have so many trust issues and painful memories. i'm sorry this was lengthy but it genuinely feels good to get it off my chest, to those who will listen and to those who may be able to say something to help or anything im 18 now and i still cannot cope with this, and recently one of my favourite video games showed that one of the characters had suffered sexual abuse as a child and it just dove me into a spiral of my own trauma and it's been really really hard for me to deal with it recently and i guess,, that's why i kept coming back to this channel after finding it the first time because i felt like i was maybe being heard for once, since no one else at the time had believed a word i said. at the beginning when the boy said "if you're watching this, chances are you have something on your mind that hurts to keep secret" it just hit me hard it wasn't a secret to my mom or any of the other people in my house but i haven't been heard. i wasn't heard. i have been unable to cope or talk about this properly to anyone, and i don't want to burden friends with something so traumatizing it's overall so difficult to talk about because it's so damn painful and there wasn't anything that would help me say something. hearing you say to speak out made me want to type this and to share what i had to say,, it's absolutely horrible that no one believed me or cared but if you're being abused and if no one does believe that, keep trying keep trying to tell them because the aftermath of me saying something then not talking again made my trauma so much worse maybe if i kept trying something would have changed, but i don't remember, i might have been too distraught that no one believed me so i just didn't bother again thank you for spreading awareness on this channel, it helps and means a lot, it's genuinely comforting have a good day/night everyone
I'm so sorry this happended to you. You didn't deserve this and never should have gone through that. I hope you or are getting better. Take it easy on yourself and know you aee worth so much and do matter. I hope you get help and justice because you deserve it and am so sorry no one belived you, that's f*cked up. It's sad how victims aren't belived and brushed off, its really messed up and makes me so angry. Be safe and hope/wish the best for you. Your also so brvae to tell your story because I understand how painful and scary is must have been. Again, know you matter and are worth so much. I don't know if this helped and sorry if anything in this message was offensive, I just wanted to say something. Have a safe nigh/day as well
@@user-wh3cs2vc3t your comment made me smile, thank you so so much it's even weirder that they didn't believe me because would a literal 8 year old child lie about that?? it was very fucked up and incredibly frustrating-- it still is and i have really shit trust issues now because of it thank you so so much for your comment,, it truly means a lot and i appreciate it tons thank you for being so kind and taking the time to read what i had to say
@@AmethystBound I hate when people don’t believe in victims because it wasn’t their fault and they are being brave enough to reach out for help and I really admire when victims do and then people either are too lazy or are too scared to believe either way it’s fucked up. Remember your last doesn’t define you too and you’re so much stronger then it, abuse is scary and especially when your a child it’s hard to comprehend and their things from my childhood I am just processing and reliezing that wasn’t okay because sometimes it feel like your last follows you but you will get stronger and it will get better. I hope someone listen to you because you deserve help and wish the best for you. Take care and be safe. :)
@@blackqweenmars it's likely nothing can be done about it now, especially considering it's been almost a decade since that happened, and as a child i was blamed for everything so automatically believed it was my fault growing up so i was too scared to tell anybody at all
i was touched by a classmate in kindergarten and the feeling is very, VERY confusing. it’s like i want to tell them to stop but i don’t want to make them hate me because they are my friends or family.
I remember watching this when I was 9 and didnt understand any of it, But I was S@'d when I was 13, in the hands of a family member, in my own home. Im 16 now, going 17 in July and he doesn't live with us anymore, thank God.
Wow...This is so...Amazing now im feeling better.Bicuse of you i see its not ok to let someone touch you,thank you for everything🥺 now i leave a normal life.Im from Serbia and i dont know english that much.But now im happy
I have been sexually abused by a high school boy who were older than me as a 8th grader when I was 13 and he touched me on my bottom. He forced me to touch the part between his legs by actually grabbing my arm/hand to touch his private parts but I didn’t. We were sitting together in the bus since there were no seats. And he told me not to tell anyone. So, I kept a secret for a few years. It made me feel sad, angry, disgusted, scared, and anxious about it since I thought that something bad would happen and I didn’t know what to do about it so I kept it secret till 10th grade. I decided to tell my mom and she understood me. Only my mom and dad knew what happened. A few years later during post Covid, he dropped out from school and I felt reviled since I was so nervous that it would happen again. Since that incident, I learned a lot about how to protect myself for that if it happens again. I am planning to tell my school eventually so he doesn’t do it to anyone else. I can still remember the trauma and the situation since it is always on the back of my mind. I am constantly looking around to make sure that nobody else does this to me the same way I went through it. I also don’t like being touched on my private parts, my back, or my shoulders since it reminded me of the abuse that I went through because of that person who did it to me and it made me uncomfortable, disgusted, scared, and anxious.
They should make an abuse on our government who refuses to help the people during the COVID. Or the school system for ruining someone's life for accusing that person by bring false statements as a result of expulsion.
What makes me upset is the letters they get sent are probably real kids who sent them letters. Makes me sad just knowing these awful people who do this exist
I was abused by my math teacher..and I couldn't help it but just praying to God ..I couldn't tell my mom about it as I was bad at math and my exams was in 1month .. after that I told my mom dad and they rescued me
Sexual abuse and r•pe are my biggest and worst fears. Ever since I learned what it was, I feel like I can’t trust adult males. I’m always paranoid that I could be kidnapped and bad things could happen to me. I cry over the thought of that potentially happening to me.
These Videos are Proof that Bill Gates doesn’t really care about People or else They would be funding these Kinds of Videos. I am greatly Appreciative that the Barbara Sinatra Foundation has taken thee Initiative to Educate People about These Things in a Way that directly addresses the Victims as the Person to Focus on. Children often forget and or never learn that They deserve the Respect of a Person, because: Children are being dehumanized and that much is proven by the almost complete Absence of Children’s Rights to make their own Decisions. Which is part of Why so many Adults are Bad at making Decisions, because: Children are often disallowed from making their own Choices to learn the Decision making Process.
I was never molested, But these videos really make me feel so empty and sad for the victims/survivors who had to go through this. I don't know how you felt, I don't know how you are now. But I just want to know if you're okay
My crush touched me... my leg,in my parts...but the worst isnt it...i didnt tell my friends,or parents,they are too religious...they always tell me that when im sad its drama...they will never understand me...it was in the past year...i...i...I WAS 11 YEARS OLD AND MY "CRUSH"12,he forced me to kiss him...thanks for the video...it makes me feel confortable for i telling you guys...now im 12 years old,and i am dreaming about my ex-crush diary,bc in school some of my classmates showed up his diary...and it means"Lyvia,do you wanna make sex with me?"he are 12 years old...but to be honest...i really loved this video,tysm!!
I watched these vids today at school and I decided to come back to tell how I was feeling well I watched them... I felt like I was gonna cry even though I know nothing that bad has happened to me, my sister is causing me stress and I haven't seen my dad in about a month, when I heard he's coming over on Friday I got very excited, also I wanna tell some more stuff but I'll put it on a different comment
The first time I was SA’d it was by my uncle. I would always hangout with him bc he was one of my only friends, one day we were in his room and I was 6, he was 27. He told me it was normal and that it would feel good. He took me on his bed and r@ped me. I’ve only ever told one person and she believed me. The second time it was my cousin on my mom’s side, he was 15-16 I was 12, it happened the night before thanksgiving. I told the same person, but I begged her not to tell anyone, she didn’t. But eventually I told my some of the family and they thought I was lying.
But it was my fault, I didn’t didn’t mean any shorts or pants just a bra, underwear, and a oversized sweatshirt which is what I always wear to bed, me him and my other cousins were playing hide and seek in the dark, the second round he wanted to hide with me, he made me sit on his lap bc it was a small space, he said your my favorite cousin.nothing else happened after that round but then once my other cousins went to bed me n him decided to watch a scary movie, I was abt to sit on a separate couch but then he said no come lay down next to me, I did bc I trusted him, he put me in between his legs while I laid down on my back, my head on his (yk) and he slowly moved his hand underneath my shit and started squeezing my bra, it hurt but I didn’t say anything, I knew it was wrong but I wouldn’t say no, then he went down into my underwear and started rubbing and touching me I wanted to say stop but it couldn’t come out, I was scared, when he went in to f¡n&er me I said I’m tired and ima go to bed. And each time sm was walking past the living room my room he would be on his phone acting like he didn’t do anything, I spelt with my girl cousins that night. My teeth wouldn’t stop chattering the whole night I didn’t even want to close my eyes I was scared he was going to touch me again but I eventually fell asleep and I woke up the next morning and I forgot what happened that night, but then I got in the shower and remembered everything, the way I wouldn’t say no, the way I felt so uncomfortable, the way he touched me. I couldn’t even look at myself in the mirror I felt disgusting, when I got in the shower and I felt numb. I just stood there. I didn’t even wanna touch my own body to wash my hair or anything. When I got out I was shaking. But I acted normal after I got out of the bathroom like nothing ever happened, now I will never watch that movie ever again. I was 6, & 12.
I was sexually harassed and touched by a former classmate. He would say lots of things about woman's bodies and say I love you to me out loud. Cause I told my family about the abuse I have not seen him in 4 years. And I have to keep blocking him from my social media accounts in order to prevent him from contacting me.
I was abuse by my dad HE touch me a lot when i was 10 - 11 HE left touching my back and also shoulders And hE ever open my shirt infront of me I was really uncomfortable. My mom use to see that my did open his shirt But she didnt do anything she just calm...... I tried to tell mom What happen. She always Said that she Will tell him I Mean my step dad already Change tho.....we become far away........hE does not touch me..... But still when hE open his clothes Made me uncomfortable but....... Mom always see So...... What i wasting time with my dad is,....... I need His wifi pasword and only that and if i have solusion about him taking he’s clothes off i avoid it,move to the other room.
I wish I could tell someone about it, but she said it was just a joke. You guys know your stuff, I want too tell someone about what she did to me, but I cry at just the thought of it. I'm 11 years old, and M touched me just a few months ago in the Applebee's bathroom. M is my sisters friend and Co worker, even M and I were friends before she "Touched" me. She even winked at me while she was walking away from the bathroom. I couldn't look at her for the rest of the day after that. She hurt me a hell lot more on the inside then the outside, because all that was months ago! And I'm still upset about it. I don't know what to do....
I just stood there, in complete terror. I'm so stupid, I haven't wore a dress since it all happened. I've never been good at talking about my feelings. I was wearing a dress without any shorts the day M (M = bad person I don't like anymore.) Touched me. She didn't make me do the devils dirty deed, but the way she was grabbing me! So violent! If you've never been sexually abused, that's great. That's very good 👏👏👏👏
You must tell a trust person about it, that isn't fine or good, luckily I haven't been in these type of situations but still, I feel sad and worried for the people that did, I hope M gets what she DESERVES (Sorry for bad english)
Okay so here's just a few things, I have a friend in my sisters grade that I love he's my bff but my sister hates him. It makes my life hard I have anger issues and I'm only 10, I'm disappointed to admit it but I even swear sometimes... I can't help it... Also I have problems with being lgbtq, I'm aroace and I feel like I need a crush or else everyone will think I'm weird... I cry myself to sleep sometimes, I feel like ending it all sometimes, some of my friends think it's a joke when I say stuff like that... My friends like to take control of me and it makes me hurt, once at my school it was recess and I was looking for something to do, I went over to kickball and no one was being nice to me, so I went to play tag, same thing... So I went to play soccer and they ignored me and I finally broke and I sat down and cried for the rest of recess, the teachers at my school were NO help at all... Well I'm glad I got some of it out, if you see this I really need some help
I really don't know what to say to help, but if your friends make you feel bad, they're not really friends. Maybe u can try talking to your parents or someone you trust
I am 10 years old and sometimes my aunt mistreat me if he doesn’t take me kind what’s my mother lives next sometimes she’ll tell me to a Wash as well and I always get annoyed. I know he’s my cousin but what is his birthday? I love it love it and I mail I’m not my little cousins papá one time when I pulled the chair set a call as I was going down to color yourself so sorry I didn’t know what to do and I’ll be right there. I said, what did I do what I said and I didn’t accidentally gets really did but I didn’t know he will fall off the chair and we go into argument after that I tell mom what happened I tell mom about her sister yes, my aunt is my mom’s younger sister and mom fix it One time in school in a line in the cafeteria when it was recess time I was behind me Benjamin wasn’t behind me. Second time I was behind me and Benjamin my friend was behind me. I freaked out because he wasn’t there before, so I just love it. I love you dad I got a referral when I got picked up at the end of the day mom told me that I got a referral and that wasn’t me because I never got a referral before and she asked me a question and she said what is it my sister and I said yes and when I got home I was your mom’s room and she told me to stay in my moms room and her argument from auntie and my mom and auntie said you have a attitude and mom told her not to give her attitude and I was happy that I told mom what happened because she told her sister that I got a referral and that was not normal because I never got a referral for 4 years when I started first grade and say auntie used to be very funny and very silly when I was like younger when I was eight years old I love you like a moody teenager, and yesterday and Thanksgiving my aunt was in and her phone and never spoke to her sister, my mom and auntie only spoke to my mom whenever she said that the food is ready and I was mad like she wasn’t doing my thing and she was happy Yeah, I spoke to her a lot because I love her I love my mom
Last year in 2023 I was sexually abused. It hurts because some people say im dramatic and it wasn’t abuse. I noticed it getting weird with me and my friend. She would have extremely intimate conversations with me about me having a sexual relationship with my old crush. I couldn’t even have a popsicle without a sensual conversation. Then it went to both that and her sexual life. She started talking about what her and her boyfriend do in the bedroom. Keep in mind, we are both minors. This wasn’t okay but I put up with it. She started intimately moaning when I would try to go downstairs. That’s when it got way worse. She started touching me as this channel says “the parts your bathing suit covers.” She also had hit me a lot. I also had a friend’s uncle refuse to let my friend stay in the car with me. That whole day he had been creepy, calling me “a beautiful sweet little girl.” I began to cry. I cried in the backseat terrified. This was after the incident with me and my ex-friend, so it made it worse. It took me months to speak up. This channel is so nice and I hope next time (If there is one) I’ll say something. If you’re going through a similar situation, you’re not alone and there are people who can help you
Im 23 and i lived child on child sexual abuse when i was between 7 and 12. And i have never told my parents, only recently have i talked about it with a psych. And honestly i am still so afraid to tell my parents, i feel like a child when i think about it. It fucked me up, but now i feel like its too late to tell my family.
What happens when your parents threaten to hurt you even more if you try to tell someone about it I was I was when I was beaten untill I looked pale and purple
Good enough talking about it to your adults around you who see it as a “little problem” compare to they problem and say I can solve it by myself but I can’t find any good way to settle it alone I’m just 15 who deal with depress low self esteem anger issues and because I was “too good” in class so they’re someoen bullying me bacause I’m a nerd
At six years old when I was in the first grade, my mom and her boyfriend sleeping together one night and I saw them and they both said come join them and I was like no thanks but they insist and they told me to take my clothes off nothing but my underwear I did it because I was curious child but after that, I felt really disgusted and her boyfriend told My mom That he really likes to sleep with me again so my mom told me to do that and stuff but I’m OK OK now but to hear that made me not want to trust adults, but I got in help and currently I am somewhere around 10-13 years old
I’m too scared to tell someone abt what happened I only told some friend’s.. I feel like if I told someone abt it would kinda be my fault to:( I’ve never felt something like it and I was happy I was getting that attention but I also felt sick from it..
