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Actress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you.
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0:00 - Intro
0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun
0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh
2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases
3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch
3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others
5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers
6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person
7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener
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@junejunejuniejune
@junejunejuniejune 2 года назад
I'm really surprised you've never done a video on Dolly Parton. Shes absolutely magnetic, tactful, and makes everyone around her feel wonderful. Her energy is genuinely beautiful.
@ratimiras
@ratimiras 2 года назад
She is the best!
@MCmammajama
@MCmammajama 2 года назад
I was an extra on a show she made - she was a walking beacon of joy and positivity and left everyone feeling great. And she sang a song perfectly in the first take. An absolute legend.
@amberlee6878
@amberlee6878 2 года назад
THIS. Hands down the most likeable celeb I’ve ever seen
@YG-rr6zv
@YG-rr6zv Год назад
And she has big tits!
@brianbarnicle8052
@brianbarnicle8052 Год назад
Good recommendation
@adriannelson6039
@adriannelson6039 2 года назад
Hope this helps: 1. Magnetic effect of having fun 2. Soften your tease with a laugh 3. Mix in compliments with your teases 4. Use warm platonic touch 5. Make your life relatable to others 6. Give expansive answers 7. Turn the conversation back on the other person 8. Be a likeable listener. Also, read 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie. It's good.
@user-fw8js2yq4n
@user-fw8js2yq4n Год назад
Thankyou for such a considerable put out! 👍🏻
@user-fw8js2yq4n
@user-fw8js2yq4n Год назад
Would appreciate if you can mention any other references on the same topic
@Candyy248
@Candyy248 Год назад
Pufff expensive answers :/
@efi5611
@efi5611 2 года назад
I found that a way to make people let their guards down is by talking about those things that we usually try to hide. When you confess to those embarrassing yet universal experiences, you can really see the relief coming out of people, and it’s really likely they’ll confess back. It is important, however, to keep in mind who you are talking to, the context, and how you deliver it
@AmineBourasAB6HD
@AmineBourasAB6HD 2 года назад
Exaactly 👌🏽
@user-fw8js2yq4n
@user-fw8js2yq4n Год назад
Helpful ...thank you 🙏🏻
@dunnowy123
@dunnowy123 Год назад
I also find addressing awkwardness to be the best thing you can do. When something's awkward, just acknowledge it with a smile or a laugh
@SuzD0n
@SuzD0n 2 года назад
I am on the Autism spectrum. Thank you *so* much for this entire channel and taking the time to break down the social rules which have never come naturally to me at all. I think a lot of autistic people will feel the same. I would watch the hell out of playlist on what normal social interactions are meant to look like!
@skydaddy2692
@skydaddy2692 2 года назад
you are very special, here have an award
@Dreamer-rg4eb
@Dreamer-rg4eb Год назад
@Miguel Mayorga Jr. tag me when you get the answer
@user-fw8js2yq4n
@user-fw8js2yq4n Год назад
I can relate myself with you ...going through more or less the same kinda notion so please share your findings with me as well ...it would be a great help ...thank you and god bless🙏🏻
@SuzD0n
@SuzD0n Год назад
@Miguel Mayorga Jr. @Dreamer i really like this one. Not so much that I want to be liked particularly, but because it taught me to have more positive interactions generally because i have no real idea what good conversations 'look' like.
@SuzD0n
@SuzD0n Год назад
@Skydaddy I just looked you up. So, you're annoyed because your vendetta against this channel isn't working? Why would you even spend energy on that?
@syberyah
@syberyah 2 года назад
Honestly, I feel like most of this can be summarized as just "agree, expand, and make people feel important." Agree with what they say and expand on their thoughts, but also expand on *your* answers during small talk. Make people feel important by listening well, complimenting them, laughing at their jokes, etc. :)
@user-fw8js2yq4n
@user-fw8js2yq4n Год назад
Thank you for your thoughts ...really helpful ...please let me know if you have any reference to give on the same topic as I am really struggling with learning to make deep conversations as being socially awkward person and inability to express myself and comprehend my thoughts and yet have the urge for such conversations.
@syberyah
@syberyah Год назад
@@user-fw8js2yq4n That's something I struggle with, too, and am still working on myself. One thing I struggle with, in particular, is I might have something I want to say, but for some reason I just let it float around in my head the entire conversation instead of saying it, so something I've been trying to work on is reminding myself and getting up to the courage to just *say it.* I don't know if that speaks to your specific situation, but I hope it helps!
@Rick-the-Swift
@Rick-the-Swift Год назад
Hi K. Try this trick: You have a coin. One one side, keep in mind that there are plenty of people, thousands, or millions who would love nothing more for you to just keep to yourself and not bother them with any of your views or thoughts. They dislike your presence so much, they don't even want to see you. Those are the A-holes, who you've allowed to control your life for too long, and it's time for you to take the power out of their hands, and back into your own. On the other side of the coin, there are just as many people, more in fact, perhaps billions who have been yearning to connect with the wonderful and amazing person that you are. They want to hear your deepest thoughts, as well as your quirkiest humor whenever it arises, because they just want to get to know you more and more. They are like puppies, or little children who constantly long for your affection, and your attention, but never despair if you don't give enough. They are perfect angels, like you, and they'd never want you to feel guilty for not spending more of your time with them, however they will be happy to soak up what ever love and joy you have to offer at a moment's notice. Hope this helps, and feel free to bounce a few messages back and forth with me if you want to practice a little, although there would never be any pressure of course. I just happen to be one of those little angels on the side who would love to know more😇❤‍🔥
@salmanuel4053
@salmanuel4053 2 года назад
Seeing how she responded to Noah's surprise visit matches what some fans have said after encounters with Millie.
@2Chenzzzz
@2Chenzzzz 2 года назад
She basically matched Noah's energy. Even if she doesn't sound super excited all the time, it's only human. Can't be over the moon happy all the time.
@RubikoOne
@RubikoOne 2 года назад
Maybe because it wasn't a surprise visit
@Bearforceone
@Bearforceone 2 года назад
@@2Chenzzzz Raymond come on, she was noticeably annoyed he was there, it's blatantly obvious and matches so many other interviews shes done, don't fall into the trap of defending someone just because they are famous.
@2Chenzzzz
@2Chenzzzz 2 года назад
@@Bearforceone or don't fall in the trap of attacking someone just because they're famous. She didn't look annoyed to me but just low energy. But even if she was annoyed, maybe she and Noah had a little fight recently. You don't know what's going on with their lives. She's a teenage girl who may not be socially perfect on camera. What a shocker. I literally see people calling her out for interviews she did when she was 12. Like seriously? Don't people have better things to do than to knit pick on a teenager's imperfections.
@PsychologyRefresh
@PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад
These are some tips from us: - Practice good personal hygiene - Smile a lot - Display open body language - Listen to the other person - Ask questions - Give a compliment - Ask them for help
@mamouilletten1562
@mamouilletten1562 2 года назад
Oh it's me ! It makes wonders.
@glauberbispo8922
@glauberbispo8922 2 года назад
damn dude, ur list is something that everybody do lol
@Manmade023
@Manmade023 2 года назад
Thanks for saving my time
@fendershredder1185
@fendershredder1185 2 года назад
I’m not really socially challenged, but I’m always trying to improve myself and this channel has taught me so much and, in my opinion, made me a better friend and a better man. It gives me the tools I need to be and stay confident in situations I may not be familiar with. If you’re watching this channel, congrats on trying to be a better you!!
@raybankin8342
@raybankin8342 Год назад
Thx
@AnovaNina
@AnovaNina 2 года назад
Interesting. Watching this video, although I found myself agreeing all tricks in theory, I don't feel her likeable (or charming), instead I feel a bit uncomfortable during some clips. This is also the only one time I have different view about characters demonstrated by this channel. Then I asked myself why I feel this way. Surely, I don't have definitive answers. But maybe, just maybe, tricks are only one part of equation. There is something deeper in someone's personality or character at work.
@specialagentA
@specialagentA Год назад
Yes, I agree. I think you can't "make" someone like you no matter what you do or how you act. It is also about your personality and how that fits with someone else's.
@IndieRockerHippy
@IndieRockerHippy Год назад
I find it very hard to like Millie too. Something about her just seems rude and a bit bossy. I know people are gonna give out to me for saying that but it's how i feel. I can't warm to her at all. My intuition tells me nope
@Faeriefungus
@Faeriefungus Год назад
Thank god for you! She comes off so entitled. I didn’t want to be only one disliking a child lol
@sakuranovaryan9261
@sakuranovaryan9261 Год назад
I do think she is bossy and careless but I don't think she's a bad person. Some clips I can see she can fun to be with and can actually compliment people. Maybe if she recognizes her own behavior and puts effort she'll become a better kinder communicator. She's got her flaws but also her merits. Just my opinion.
@IndieRockerHippy
@IndieRockerHippy Год назад
@@sakuranovaryan9261 Very true. We all have things we can work on. I notice i can be snappy with people when it's not my intention at all. Like the way i say things sometimes sounds very abrupt. I've noticed it recently and it annoys me so i'm really gonna try and work on it.
@Introvertedalpha
@Introvertedalpha 2 года назад
Love the advice about the magnetic effect of having fun! Thanks for this video.
@djtdawg87
@djtdawg87 2 года назад
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
@mamouilletten1562
@mamouilletten1562 2 года назад
Red is definitely a sigma male .
@nikam4167
@nikam4167 2 года назад
AGREE!!
@SPARTAAHMAD5
@SPARTAAHMAD5 2 года назад
Red is the goat 🐐
@sarahmclin2434
@sarahmclin2434 2 года назад
I'd love that!
@SnakeyBlakey
@SnakeyBlakey 2 года назад
All I ever hear people say about Millie is how annoying she is and how they can't stand her.
@davidb8373
@davidb8373 2 года назад
That’s because she’s arrogant, rude, interrupts her costars, and will physically bully them. The only reason people treat her well is because she’s famous and pretty.
@payt00n
@payt00n 2 года назад
@@davidb8373 where u getting this info from?
@Bearforceone
@Bearforceone 2 года назад
@@payt00n The footage of every interview shes done, if you can't pick up that shes being rude that makes all the more sense why you are here learning how to read social cues.
@payt00n
@payt00n 2 года назад
@@Bearforceone everyone she's around seems to have a good realtionship with her so. She seems like an ok person who's very extroverted, can u explain exactly how she's what you described cause I guess I'm not seeing it
@Haik0
@Haik0 2 года назад
@@davidb8373 pretty ? :D
@ErisWriter
@ErisWriter 2 года назад
I need to see a video on Adam Driver. He seems to defy every good social rule but is still generally considered charismatic. I thought maybe it had to do with being attracted to him but even straight males love him.
@dawfydd
@dawfydd 2 года назад
Maybe everyone is secretly attracted to him? haha, Yeah i don't much get it either.
@Kagemusha08
@Kagemusha08 2 года назад
Would like to see this to. He's an odd looking cat. I guess some women might be into that but I can't see it. Fantastic actor but he's also had the misfortune of being a part of the disaster of that is the new Star Wars, which seems to have hurt the career of nearly everyone involved other than him.
@TheOscar401
@TheOscar401 2 года назад
Honestly, it would be more appropriate if this were a “habits that make people dislike you” video
@vdcg2010
@vdcg2010 Год назад
Agreed, I don’t watch a lot of tv so I didn’t know who she was but I would have definitely not used her as an example on how to make people like you, quite the opposite
@theevilgenius1229
@theevilgenius1229 2 года назад
I personally think she is faking it and acts older than her age ...doesn't make her magnetic
@InfiniteEpitaph
@InfiniteEpitaph Год назад
Well she is a child actor and lives a world that forces her to act like an adult, lmao
@shreeshanthkadam
@shreeshanthkadam Год назад
@@InfiniteEpitaph exactly.
@yamyam493
@yamyam493 Год назад
They are told to act overtly mature in the interviews. It's part of their media training. Plus being a child actor tends to make you grow up faster.
@JustinDAMusic
@JustinDAMusic Год назад
I find her extremely annoying
@dilemma713
@dilemma713 Год назад
THIS
@AnymMusic
@AnymMusic 2 года назад
let's also not forget that she's British and that British humor is often more sarcasm based which can indeed be seen as mean by others
@etaylor8028
@etaylor8028 2 года назад
I’d say American humor is waaay more sarcasm based. British humor is more self-deprecating and dead pan.
@etaylor8028
@etaylor8028 2 года назад
I’d say American humor is waaay more sarcasm based. British humor is more self-deprecating and dead pan.
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim 2 года назад
@@etaylor8028 agree with you 100%
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim 2 года назад
Hugh Grant and Dame Judi Dench would like a word with you
@_rhea.b_1305
@_rhea.b_1305 2 года назад
Lol yeah I’m British too, but she’s just self absorbed
@JamesYeang
@JamesYeang 2 года назад
I love these videos. For me, the best way to use them is to listen to a point, pause practice one example, before moving on to the next point
@damnitimp8269
@damnitimp8269 2 года назад
I don't think she's popular for being liked or charismatic, I think she's famous for being well-disliked by people
@premkumaralakunta7899
@premkumaralakunta7899 2 года назад
She is Flat earther
@anotheryoutubeaccount5259
@anotheryoutubeaccount5259 2 года назад
Wtf
@hacker_19833
@hacker_19833 2 года назад
Yes
@MrMertakhai
@MrMertakhai 2 года назад
Pretty sure she's famous for being the leading character of one of the biggest tv shows
@roqayamuhammad7867
@roqayamuhammad7867 2 года назад
True, I don't like her because she desperately seeks attention in literally every interview and constantly interrupts people.
@dr.jenniferma3914
@dr.jenniferma3914 Год назад
Interesting. Although I agree with your advice, I find that the clips of her were "off" and didn't land well. Maybe she isn't the best example? The whole catering thing didn't land at all.
@YouLoveItBiatch
@YouLoveItBiatch 2 года назад
She really didn't want to share the stage with Noah did she 🤣
@realitylime4896
@realitylime4896 2 года назад
She’s the last person I’d use to model any sort of positivity.
@user-fr8xv9gz7e
@user-fr8xv9gz7e 2 года назад
why
@siennad587
@siennad587 2 года назад
@@user-fr8xv9gz7e look up Millie Bobby Brown rude or arrogant. She treats her coasters in interviews like they don’t matter. Especially Queen Sadie!
@limbo3545
@limbo3545 2 года назад
To me, her body language felt weird and annoying. I don't know her, but she is not the person I would perceive as sympathetic.
@blue_red_screen
@blue_red_screen 2 года назад
@@isismorrissey9075 old enough to have good manners. I have seen multiple successful teenagers who are respectful, kind and humble
@shaysplanet
@shaysplanet Год назад
@@siennad587 her and sadie are great friends. millie is an extrovert whereas sadie is an introvert and millie clearly gets super excited in interviews especially in the ones where she was younger. when you’re a kid you talk over others, she’s grown a lot and this isn’t a fair take on her.
@pencilwisdom6161
@pencilwisdom6161 Год назад
Finally more women charisma breakdown. This channel definitely doesn't analyze women enough. I've seen several videos using Zendaya in the thumbnail but there's no video breaking down her interactions and she has this sort of quiet charisma that is worth noting. Stop using her as clickbait!
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 2 года назад
This message is for someone who needs to hear this and will fully understand it... You are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life. You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness (Forgiveness is for you; forgive your parents or anyone whom we have chosen to hurt us, to begin the process of healing and freedom. Remember: Forgiveness is for you to be freed, healed and happy. It’s a RESET BUTTON) and practice gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever. Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly no matter what ✨❤️ - Nat
@Yoko-gv6pd
@Yoko-gv6pd 2 года назад
Oh, is it that simple 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Yoko-gv6pd
@Yoko-gv6pd 2 года назад
@Short & Sweet Tea Channel no, just forgive everyone on the earth and the moon
@ramonabaumgartner8194
@ramonabaumgartner8194 2 года назад
reset button? sounds a little toxic, forgive but never forget, don't let someone screw you over too many times, treat yourself good and don't forgive every bs, it's unfair to yourself
@what-jh4iq
@what-jh4iq Год назад
@@ramonabaumgartner8194 In my humble opinion, forgiving and letting someone hurt you are 2 different things. You should forgive but not forget, unless the person truly loves you and cares about you and you are sure he/she will not hurt you again. People that hurt others clearly have a problem with their selves 😉 So it's best to defend yourself respectfully and forgive them for their immaturity, in order to free your heart of all that negative poison. A wise man once said: The acid damages the vessel more than the one that it falls on.
@what-jh4iq
@what-jh4iq Год назад
Thank you a million Nathalie for these words, it really softened my soul remembering this. Now I can rest, I love you beautiful person
@thinkbooth
@thinkbooth 2 года назад
For anyone seeing this, you will achieve your dreams, all you have to do is never give up, work on yourself everyday and watch Charisma on Command
@lunct5211
@lunct5211 2 года назад
Cringe
@oliverford5367
@oliverford5367 2 года назад
She's a very talented actress - Eleven in season 1 has very few lines yet expresses a lot of emotion. That's why she's popular, not so much IMO due to a charisma outside of her roles.
@PopCrusher
@PopCrusher Год назад
yes, exactly! i think that’s something a lot of people miss with Millie’s acting. Eleven is a girl of few words, yet Millie expresses so much emotion just through her facial expressions and body language. another actor by the name of Sebastian Stan, who plays Bucky Barnes in the Captain America movies, is really, really good at this. Bucky doesn’t speak much for himself in these movies, yet the emotion on Sebastian’s face is so clear that we as an audience can understand Bucky without hearing what he’s thinking. it’s a skill, and Millie is mastering it.
@oliverford5367
@oliverford5367 Год назад
​@@PopCrusher She's among the best child actresses of all time, possibly will be among the greatest actresses of all time. I'm excited to see where her career goes when ST wraps up
@corail53
@corail53 Год назад
@@oliverford5367 Highly doubt that. Most child actors don't end up with long lasting careers. Tv especially.
@TheSinlessAssassin
@TheSinlessAssassin 2 года назад
I'd suggest Bill Hader as another person who embodies Charisma on Command because of how instantly likeable and relatable he is, and would do well to illustrate what it takes to be a good storyteller.
@joeuong
@joeuong 2 года назад
Agree and expand = Improv‘s “Yes And”
@artsymindful6385
@artsymindful6385 Год назад
I think the relatability point is a big one, we like people who we feel like we can understand and can relate to. It’s a hard thing for a celebrity to pull off because superficially it can seem like their life is so out of touch with ours. But at the end of the day we’re all not as different as we think 😊
@danielflowers7293
@danielflowers7293 2 года назад
Not sure who she is but I do love the fact that I pick up on this little lessons! Thank you for posting this.
@PikRabbit
@PikRabbit 2 года назад
thank you so much for this vid cuz i was wondering why people didn't like it when I was teasing (prob a bit too much)
@koreanpizza17
@koreanpizza17 2 года назад
I appreciate all your content sir!
@luiiiandmovieee
@luiiiandmovieee 2 года назад
4:57 "we all face the same complications" Nah, we don't. We all have complications, but not the same. And saying that as a famous rich kid is quite ignorant (and yes, I'm sure it's not easy to grow up as a child-star)
@yamyam493
@yamyam493 Год назад
That statement was quiet strange, but I think in context it makes sense, because teenagers seem to think all eyes are on them and get embarrassed easily. I think she was trying to compare the situations to make it appear more relatable. She was probably also trying to downplay her situation a little bit. She may be rich but fame doesn't equal that she leads a better life. If you've seen the way child stars turn out, it'll be a miracle if Millie makes it out alive. I know, 'I'd rather be rich and depressed rather than poor and depressed' but considering all the terrible unspeakable things that happen to child stars, sometimes it's better to be poor and depressed.
@luiiiandmovieee
@luiiiandmovieee Год назад
@@yamyam493 yeah I think she meant it that way too, but it came out kinda ignorant. She probably didn't think about it. You're right, her situation isn't the same but she's a teenager like every other teenager and some problems are the same + she has to deal with it in the eye of public. I wouldn't want to switch with her because like you said being a child star is dangerous and not really healthy. Nevertheless she does have privileges that she should be aware of
@S7jose
@S7jose 2 года назад
Bro she’s definitely not a “likeable listener”. She’s basically the opposite in all the videos u see of her lol
@user-bf6td9qc2s
@user-bf6td9qc2s 2 года назад
Ikr
@siennad587
@siennad587 2 года назад
Seriously she’s so rude to her costars in interviews. It’s like they did no research. Poor Sadie see those interviews?
@blue_red_screen
@blue_red_screen 2 года назад
Because she interrupts others?
@siennad587
@siennad587 2 года назад
@@blue_red_screen doesn’t let them speak….. talks over them. Overly all cocky and arrogant, Like her opinion is the only important one. If you don’t think that’s rude, you must do it to and think it’s ok. Edit- I’m not saying Millie is a bad person. Shes just someone that we don’t need to learn from. She has a lot of growing up to do.
@blue_red_screen
@blue_red_screen 2 года назад
@@siennad587 I asked a question I never defended her
@ChristianSoschner
@ChristianSoschner Год назад
Fantastic content. Thanks for putting it together
@jenniferbyers1375
@jenniferbyers1375 2 года назад
For some reason MBB just really annoys me in recent years. I am not sure it’s the overly mature / sexual styling or all the negative anecdotes I’ve read online - it’s all pointing towards her becoming a Kardashian real soon. I think Sadie Sink is the lovely one.
@Proximity94
@Proximity94 2 года назад
Same. I never really liked her.
@tomsmith4241
@tomsmith4241 2 года назад
Have a good day everyone
@leobardomunozjr9151
@leobardomunozjr9151 2 года назад
Awesome video 🙏🏼👍🏼
@Etrehumain123
@Etrehumain123 2 года назад
fascinating thanks !!
@bonechawneomusic
@bonechawneomusic 2 года назад
We probably have greater awareness of these strategies than the charmers using them.
@harshitgera9987
@harshitgera9987 2 года назад
This is a solid breakdown, yo. 💯
@ronin6272
@ronin6272 2 года назад
Love the content
@shawnishere1494
@shawnishere1494 2 года назад
Jimmy Fallon fake laughs at everything tho let’s be honest😂
@montehull6438
@montehull6438 Год назад
Very nice video!
@hurrBl
@hurrBl 2 года назад
6:35 “you don’t wanna dominate the conversation by talking all the time” then shows a clip of Neil deGrasse Tyson why do him dirty like that lmao
@kristalgic1534
@kristalgic1534 2 года назад
I honestly don't find Millie charming at all based on what I see here, and I usually agree with your videos. To me, she still comes off as spoiled and self-centered, and a lot of her attention on others seems forced. Like she asks questions without actually caring about the answers.
@luiiiandmovieee
@luiiiandmovieee 2 года назад
I completely agree. When she asked the guy (I don't know his name) about his life, she immediately interrupted him to ask another question
@mihalalus
@mihalalus 2 года назад
She's still a kid :) and no... Being able to vote does not make you a mature adult :))
@blue_red_screen
@blue_red_screen 2 года назад
@@mihalalus being a kid isn't an excuse for rudeness
@siennad587
@siennad587 2 года назад
@@mihalalus plenty of kids aren’t rude like Millie. So now what’s the excuse? She’s also 18 now. Compared to her other costars she’s a brat and a diva. Go look up interviews see how she treats her costars and their opinions.
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim 2 года назад
@@mihalalus then she needs a time out. The kids in my family know respect and decency and are good kids
@stevet6447
@stevet6447 2 года назад
That background music be fyre mane🔥
@RKamomil1
@RKamomil1 2 года назад
You can clearly notice she’s no that nice and genuine on her reactions. She’s seems more to me like a mini version of Lea Michelle
@__-bz7wh
@__-bz7wh 2 года назад
This channel helps me overcome my autism, thanks you.
@loveinthematrix
@loveinthematrix 2 года назад
I’m on the spectrum too, this helps fo sho
@TPGKDUB
@TPGKDUB 2 года назад
2 things that I always have pleasant encounters with food and pets 😊
@satriapradana3022
@satriapradana3022 2 года назад
Good attitude can makes people like you
@GregorPQ
@GregorPQ 2 года назад
Great burn, respect.
@melindadgw2587
@melindadgw2587 2 года назад
I can't put my finger on it, but I find this girl extremely unlikeable. When you are at the top of your game, people become sycophantic, exaggerating their charisma, humour, good qualities. This seems to be the case here (not by charisma on command but the people interviewing/around her).
@IndieRockerHippy
@IndieRockerHippy Год назад
Same. Can't warm to her at all.
@get_yo_facts_ryt
@get_yo_facts_ryt Год назад
Same
@cjparrott
@cjparrott Год назад
something phony about her....
@P0rnCoachWill
@P0rnCoachWill 2 года назад
Whether or not MBB is arrogant or rude, these are good examples of how to do things well. In fact, one could argue that her rudeness is evidence of how powerful these techniques actually are because they still have positive effects.
@oliverford5367
@oliverford5367 Год назад
Is she still popular in spite of rudeness, because she's undeniably an extremely talented actress? She's admired for a role where she hardly speaks but expresses a lot of emotion. Maybe people accept the person because of that talent?
@raybankin8342
@raybankin8342 Год назад
​@@oliverford5367 Yes. Because TV has the power to help shape are minds and views.
@ElectricIguana
@ElectricIguana 2 года назад
I like Eleven in Stranger Things, but this video actually made me like her less. And I like her sidekick Noah. He seems quietly confident and caring, whereas MBB and Fin Wolfhard come across as attention seeking in their clips. Maybe it's out of context, but it seems really bogus that she would tell her best friend Noah to go back stage, implying he's ruining HER silly little interview. That clip is gross to me.
@Bearforceone
@Bearforceone 2 года назад
100%. She didn't even act like she was happy he was there, it was all about her and she was clearly very annoyed he "stole the show" when it was supposed to be about her. I'll be real here, Charisma on Command should've picked up on this, as a channel that is supposed to be teaching people about social awareness, they clearly aren't aware of how people don't like Milly Bobby Brown because shes famous, majority think shes an attention seeking narcissist
@anotheryoutubeaccount5259
@anotheryoutubeaccount5259 2 года назад
@@Bearforceone really
@Vivi_9
@Vivi_9 2 года назад
@@Bearforceone I can actually understand her attitude here, she was probably thinking "oh they just see me as one of the cast, are they not interested in having me on my own?"
@Bearforceone
@Bearforceone 2 года назад
@@Vivi_9 Everyone tries to see it a different way but the countless interviews and accounts of people who have worked with her are too overwhelming.
@sakuranovaryan9261
@sakuranovaryan9261 Год назад
@@Vivi_9 interesting take. Could be accidental speaking of her feelings.
@mathyre232
@mathyre232 Год назад
@Charisma on Command in your podcast you asked a question about who you should make a video of next. Do a video about Christian Bale’s charisma!
@kyatrixxkush9312
@kyatrixxkush9312 Год назад
Hey Charisma on Command. It would be awesome if you did a podcast with Vanessa van Edwards. It would be interesting to have two charisma experts having a discussion and you would both learn from each other immensely
@Rick-the-Swift
@Rick-the-Swift Год назад
OOOoooohhh, I LOVE this idea!! It could be the most charismatic connection we've ever seen between two people, or it could be an awkward battle of egos, mounted with the pressure from a large podcast audience, to see which of the two comes across as being the most charismatic!!😍🤩 To put even more pressure on them, we could do an audience poll afterward to see which one get's the official nod for having the most charisma😛 Let's jump on this winner, I'm thinking it will be HUGE!!
@Rick-the-Swift
@Rick-the-Swift Год назад
@rainymayfourth
@rainymayfourth 2 года назад
Nope. She comes off as someone whom your close friends really wont like around. Its like she s the kind of person who s too dominant for others to have real fun in a room.
@operastarlet
@operastarlet 2 года назад
That sounds like someone who is intimidated by confidence
@Vivi_9
@Vivi_9 2 года назад
@@operastarlet that sounds like an excuse for toxic behaviour
@Bagels4eva135
@Bagels4eva135 2 года назад
Aaah interesting way to put it
@sakuranovaryan9261
@sakuranovaryan9261 Год назад
U r entitled to ur opinion. And I know what ur talking about. It's hard to navigate that vibe where a person is being too dominant? I don't know the right word for this. But gotta recognize this can happen to anybody. I'm a very non assertive person but I can feel like getting assertive sometimes. But I keep in mind to reciprocate. Make sure everybody is having fun. We shouldn't put restraints on ourself and express genuinely. But we should also not steam roll over people and mistake it for "confidence"
@Olivetree80
@Olivetree80 Год назад
She doesn't seem overly confident, she's just an expressive extraverted person.
@deemosisland3340
@deemosisland3340 2 года назад
Hi, I really like your content. When someone asks me a question like what is that book about and then I start explaining, they end up looking very bored. What should I change?
@jamesyuille9534
@jamesyuille9534 Год назад
Loved the ti clip where Trudeau gets ignored!
@elenae497
@elenae497 Год назад
This video could have been more about why we feel that something is off with her. She is not genuine. She is an actress, who is learning how to Act to be likeable, and she is not really good at it. This could have been a clear example of how to catch someone who is lying to you about their genuine interest and kindness. When she sais something relatable to everyone, like watching Hannah Montana, she immediately says- and she was watching the Godfather when she was 8. She indicates that she is special and gives an I’m not like other people vibes. And when she asked , hey tell me about yourself, she did’t even look at the other person, who laughed not only because he was surprised, but he also felt that it is awkward. She is not interested in you, she just wants to be likeable and quirky.
@_valor
@_valor 2 года назад
Solid tips. Also, didn't know that some people dislike the girl so viciously lol they need to chill
@alphphet3376
@alphphet3376 2 года назад
Awesome ✨👍😂
@PrimalEdge
@PrimalEdge 2 года назад
of all the people in hollywood that you could have leveraged skills from to help make people "instantly like you" she si without a doubt down towards the bottom. there are no shortage of videos showing her as rude, arrogant, and an attention hog. look at the way she disrespects her costars. she is insufferable t best. I love your channel and watch everything you put out - for me, regrettably, this one missed the mark.
@sdl2320
@sdl2320 2 года назад
She's 18 years old...give her a break.
@blue_red_screen
@blue_red_screen 2 года назад
@@sdl2320 old enough to have good manners. I have seen multiple successful teenagers that are respectful, kind and humble
@willfungusman8666
@willfungusman8666 2 года назад
@@blue_red_screen why care about good manners?
@blue_red_screen
@blue_red_screen 2 года назад
@@willfungusman8666 🤣🤣🤣
@sakuranovaryan9261
@sakuranovaryan9261 Год назад
Umm I don't like Millie in general but I didn't see her disrespect anybody yet tho?
@hugo-lp2wc
@hugo-lp2wc 2 года назад
This is one of the first time where I think that the example isn’t good. The things I hear outside of the set is that she isn’t really liked or well percieved and this vid didn’t show me the opposite. The advices are really good doe
@brutusjudas5842
@brutusjudas5842 2 года назад
Content Suggestion: Dealing with authority and/or Office Politics.
@Cunnysmythe
@Cunnysmythe 2 года назад
She's coming off as thoroughly unpleasant in almost all of these examples and I didn't even really have an opinion on her before
@modilly916
@modilly916 2 года назад
Yeah she rubs a lot of people the wrong way so she was a weird choice as an example for this video
@clarice4426
@clarice4426 2 года назад
Agree
@anoncspan4129
@anoncspan4129 Год назад
I respectfully disagree. I thought her charming.
@jordanfreeman7393
@jordanfreeman7393 2 года назад
Analysis on shawn from psych por favor, lots of value there
@shout4637
@shout4637 Год назад
Agreed 👍 with previous comment.
@chelsea7229
@chelsea7229 2 года назад
To echo what others have already said, I don’t think she’s a good example of the the things you’re talking about. I don’t think she seems like a terrible person, but I certainly wouldn’t call her likeable or charismatic either. She just seems really young and arrogant to me and not someone I’d want to spend any time with.
@TheHumanRanger
@TheHumanRanger 2 года назад
I love playing D&D ;)
@improvementspace9632
@improvementspace9632 2 года назад
You are improving and you are upgrading your skills as you subscribe to this channel. That's the best thing you can be doing right now
@deathrow5581
@deathrow5581 Год назад
Can you please do a video on Muhammad Ali? He was so confident, charming, charismatic. Please do a video about his style
@baron8463
@baron8463 Год назад
Thanks for sharing, enjoying all your content. I think you may have been slightly off on one of your reads, at the four minute mark when you said it was hard to relate to her comment about the catering I don't think she was sad to lose out on the catering I think she is a nice person who got to know everybody on the set so she was sad because she was saying goodbye to the amazing people who made her awesome food. When ever people cook for celebrities they make it extra nice for some odd reason....
@micnubinub
@micnubinub 2 года назад
Hey guys could you do a video on Frank Lundy from Dexter?
@antonionader4455
@antonionader4455 Год назад
Espectacular
@thatRyzzle
@thatRyzzle 2 года назад
Oof, I find her endlessly annoying in interviews. She regularly cuts off her co-stars or interviewers, and all in all she just gives off narcissistic vibes. So no, I will not take these tricks to heart.
@wildninjaturtle6715
@wildninjaturtle6715 2 года назад
I've never watched stranger things but as soon as I watched an interview of Millie I instantly disliked her... I don't know why.
@jacobbj
@jacobbj 2 года назад
Idea: COC, How to fight your past self or past image that still hunts you?
@kemsolid
@kemsolid 2 года назад
I know we're seeing the best side of her, but she seems like a very magnetic genuine person!
@Rebe8d89AH
@Rebe8d89AH 2 года назад
Millie reminds me of Adele in some interviews. Also when she speaks in interviews she's emulates older celebrities (vocabulary, confidence etc.) but is at the end of the day, a teenager so it can probably rub people the wrong way.
@norajohnston1763
@norajohnston1763 7 месяцев назад
Curious if theres a video on what to do when your in a convo with someone and others coming into the event stop your convo to say hi. How do you keep the person your talking to feeling focused on. - without ignoring those trying to say hi.
@ceciflwrmtn
@ceciflwrmtn 2 года назад
I think charisma on command was paid to feature MBB for her PR.
@arvinthravishankar9960
@arvinthravishankar9960 2 года назад
People need to love you for who you are. Don't try to be "likeable" person.
@TheOscar401
@TheOscar401 2 года назад
I disagree to an extent, you don’t have to change who you are but if part of your personality is something negative like abrasiveness or being argumentative(not talking about MBB), then don’t be mad if people don’t want to be around you
@sunshine3914
@sunshine3914 2 года назад
Just came over from a dating site, & those boring c**** need to make an effort, if they want to be considered likable.
@epictom3423
@epictom3423 2 года назад
Epic
@ranguy1379
@ranguy1379 2 года назад
Please consider a video on Billie Eilish. I can't believe you haven't made one already. She is one of the few people who are unapologetically themselves, though of course, she can afford to be because she is good-looking, likable, famous and rich. But still....lol She is at least very different from other celebrities. Should be an interesting video
@kanib.7928
@kanib.7928 2 года назад
Your comments are as great and as helpful as usual. I don't want to condemn this actress, but something I can't put my finger on is rubbing me the wrong way about her responses in your examples. (I'm only mentioning this to try to learn from it. I don't want to jump to negative conclusions unfairly.) Perhaps she is an introvert? She doesn't seem focused on her conversation partners. Or like she's having a good time. I know that I can get like that, and unintentionally not show my feelings, when really tired or distracted. I wonder what she can do (while being true to herself) to not inadvertently rub ppl the wrong way. I'd love to hear your answer. Regardless, these were good tips and I wish her well. I hope ppl cut her slack and she cuts others slack, as we are all imperfectly human. 💕
@yamyam493
@yamyam493 Год назад
I mean, she is still a kid. 18 is quiet young, and she definitely has anxiety over interviews, especially since she's criticised so awfully in the public for making irrelevant mistakes as a child. She probably just wants to finish the interview as fast as she can. I know I would.
@elenachristian9860
@elenachristian9860 Год назад
Oh good, finally two people who remember she's a kid and that not everyone comes off well in interviews. Neither does Johnny Depp, but for some reason people make excuses for him.
@kanib.7928
@kanib.7928 Год назад
@@elenachristian9860 I didn't realize she was a teenager. I don't really follow the show's actors. Thank you for letting me know.
@RavW1776
@RavW1776 2 года назад
Have you all ever considered creating a charisma university program focused at teenagers -- with speaking more slowly, simpler words, etc? As a parent of a child who has had lifelong struggles with regulating his emotions and genuinely TRYING and WANTING to be funny and playful (but regularly misfiring and failing to understand why his peers take offense), this has been one of the most challenging parts of parenting! How to help an 11-year-old get past this? (And all the more so because he's getting at the age where he needs to be having his parent NOT "pre-pave" the road for him before playdates -- to discuss/warn/give a heads-up about the challenges that will inevitably arise, etc.)
@eliet8944
@eliet8944 Год назад
And now she is engaged
@kloassie
@kloassie 2 года назад
Okay .... and what was that 10-second rule you baited us with in the thumbnail????????????????????
@rizalways
@rizalways 2 года назад
Exactly what I was looking for...
@groglorb8980
@groglorb8980 2 года назад
I thought the 10 second rule is what happens when the 5 second rule fails?
@jcssbb
@jcssbb 2 года назад
People like her?
@lynnpetti3817
@lynnpetti3817 Год назад
Loved the catering comment. She’s British.
@dr.jenniferma3914
@dr.jenniferma3914 Год назад
Her with the blonde hair and long nails seems like she's in character.
@maxfootballfanschannel9561
@maxfootballfanschannel9561 2 года назад
How to remember this
@Leto85
@Leto85 2 года назад
I like her by choice.
@karenpeterson2698
@karenpeterson2698 Год назад
I agree about how wonderful Dolly Parton is
@garycoachclinton
@garycoachclinton Год назад
Lads, I need help… I am setting up a event. A charity event. Now, what I need help with is, interacting with dozens of people, so... I want to treat each individual that comes up to me in a well lit positive regard, how does one give great attention and joy to one person and in a matter of a second you meet another guy, and then another guy. How can one mange to be super respectful and awesome to each individual, and give decent time to them?
@brunoabreu6547
@brunoabreu6547 Год назад
7:53 Bolsonaro ignoring trudeau HAHAHAHA
@shemaiahanwar3171
@shemaiahanwar3171 2 года назад
Have you seen yung filly’s sidemen video. He displays personality traits such as polite and inviting. I believe it is clear that it would make a great video to describe these characteristics.
@willfungusman8666
@willfungusman8666 2 года назад
No
@user-lz2dy1uf1m
@user-lz2dy1uf1m 2 года назад
maybe you can analize yujiro from baki the graplre he can get agresive and thats intense and intesting he can be wise and deap and badass some people try to demonize him and its corect he isnt compationate but he is himself and he loves his son
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