Success Breeds Jealousy | Trent Shelton

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Many people hate on you because they want what you have. Success breeds jealousy -- that's just facts. When you come from the same environment as someone else, your life reminds them of what they don't have. You keep doing the work and grinding. Shake off the haters because they have the same ability as you to get to where they want to be.
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@antonioarzadon61 5 месяцев назад

Your biggest haters are your friends and family… your biggest fans are strangers

@GadisBaliLivesAbroad 3 месяца назад

No, this is not always true. Strangers are nice to you because they don't know you that well. Give it time. As soon as they know you at a deeper level, they will start being jealous if you have what they don't have or if they think they are not doing better than you. Heck there are successful people who are jealous of people who are not as successful as them but are improving or having something good going on in their lives😅. These strangers, if they become close enough, will start comparing their lives to yours. Everyone experiences jealousy to a certain level. Jealousy is a human trait. However many are mature enough to be able to handle it in a healthy way and learn to be grateful for their own lives and be happy for others.

@Aggie4life77 24 дня назад

This is very true! It’s because you family and friends saw you through the growth from being the average guy like them to being great. They want to know why it didn’t happen to them as they grew up in the same environment, etc.

@daniel_najar 2 года назад

Family/Friends are always the biggest haters & non-supporters

@jordanmitchell9742 2 года назад

Facts

@theevolvingmindset333 2 года назад

💯

@Lonewolfalchemist Год назад

Thats because as “family” the social norm is to stick together when we come into earth as animals.. once a bird leaves the nest you never see it return.! Period!

@minnieshadesofbeautyllc5395 Год назад

Crazy

@sandradukes3819 Год назад

You ain’t never lied! It’s the strangers that will clap for you & NOT fam (in some cases). What a’shame Smh

@Tony-ib2vm 4 месяца назад

People want to see you do well, they never want to see you do better than them.

@stassimarlowe9108 2 года назад

When they are jealous,it only means you are doing something right. It's going to be alright

@shakurwonders5216 2 года назад

That hits home

@KATALAMBANOIT 2 года назад

Yep

@venessatymes7306 Год назад

🎯

@ChrisWalker-tu9fb Год назад

You're absolutely right they can't hate you for nothing it gotta be something about you or something you have to make them hate it irritates their demons and it makes them realize their short comings on something they could have done great.

@anonymousn3910 10 месяцев назад

They dont like others succeeding or doing better than them..they worship the two horned ugly goat, these demons reside within them...hence they conspire manipulate and lose ......while we with pure intentions always win.

@imma-gucake Год назад

Hating on other people's sucess meaning you aren't working for your life.

@trafficjon400 9 месяцев назад

Yes, because nobody in life has time to such behavoir and hate because of lazyness has no excuse? plus abuse can slow down life to a stall for some using their own issues not related to Jealousy on others adding more insult to injuries confusing it because of a fight triggered with no reason and allready fixed a jealousy trip last week. then the family doesn't have a clue what is going on and solving it is immediate and prompt but not taken care of kind of lost in the back unsolved. . this is where the loss of Family Bonding is dismantling and needs to be cought solved wile its still fresh. with out notice simply meaning being care full and the L-O-V-E that use to be so helpful in solving issues faded in to the darkness eventually Gone with no more repare left over. Jealousy should be a top issue because it can destroy all.

@mustasheolll2020 7 месяцев назад

It usually means you are trying.

@alfa1210productions 3 месяца назад

Thosee people are clowns😂😂😂

@ZeldaPark 8 месяцев назад

A lot of people get jealous when you are successful.

@susieblanco2722 Месяц назад

They hate it because they still trying to figure out how you got out the same place they still stuck in

@Gibson-md9yi 9 месяцев назад

Your biggest haters are the people that tell you how happy they are for you

@blessedchildofgod9112 2 года назад

People just naturally jealous I ignore them ..keep focusing on me ...after awhile they will fade away

@trafficjon400 9 месяцев назад

just keep walking.

@samotivationbysami Год назад

Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.

@brynne77 Месяц назад

You make a good point.

@rik-keymusic160 Год назад

If your unsuccessful; people hate Of your successful; people hate Conclusion; as long as you love yourself, your good. Keep going !! ❤

@venessatymes7306 Год назад

🎯

@DaOnlyMayor 6 месяцев назад

I don’t care where I’ve ever been in life. I’ve never ever hated or been jealous of anyone. I’ve always felt what is for me is for me. I’m genuinely grateful for what I have and always wish the best for others. I don’t compete with anyone but myself

@tkkay4801 5 месяцев назад

I'm the same.

@ceej8456 2 месяца назад

Same

@sararichardson737 Месяц назад

It’s the only way: celebrate others, celebrate y’self. We’re all in this together, be the party.

@haitiqueen0119 Месяц назад

Amen!

@BrolyKing801 Год назад

All because you start loving yourself these decepticons hate that with a passion success breeds jealousy 😭😭🤣🤣😎😎

@Movieclips_101 Год назад

Speaking facts that’s why I stay to myself and move in silence 💯💯

@Thoughtsnprayers35 8 месяцев назад

This❤ I have been blessed so much in the past year it’s ridiculous! I have shared it with no one❤

@positiv3vybz236 2 года назад

My biggest support is from strangers but you taught me that before I saw it. I don't even look to people I know for support, because I know that's not where I'll get it from. ❤

@KATALAMBANOIT 2 года назад

Yep

@Recoverywithtamye Год назад

It’s easy for strangers to support because they don’t know you to hate. 😂 I get it.

@Kerrviii Год назад

Yes. I have been hanging around the wrong people because even my own family is terribly jealous of me.

@JaylaNovie-vi3gu 11 месяцев назад

Same here!! It's no surprise! Keep winning!! Keep moving forward!!

@trafficjon400 9 месяцев назад

What have you done to deserve it? lol not funny but.

@trafficjon400 9 месяцев назад

my family think i deserve it because i have no reason to give them not too be jealous. i'm not a Genius at soving family problems but just because i can do one thing they expect me to do all of them. makes me want to vomit some times.

@shaq9361 21 день назад

there a difference between and family and relatives. Family is your children husband/wife. relatives are sisters brothers mothers fathers uncles aunts. I'm here to provide for my family not relatives.

@thehitman602 Год назад

I have never been jealous of anyone or anything.

@_slickthebarber 3 месяца назад

Same, I’ve never ever had the thought to dislike someone I know or don’t know because they are happy and successful. It’s never crossed my mind. It’s wild

@ShayShayShay37 2 месяца назад

It’s because you admire them instead.

@mitchmoshiri1742 Месяц назад

Same. I had a buddy that became a millionaire and I wouldn’t literally brag about him.

@terrigelbaum8066 3 дня назад

Neither have I. I think it's a waste of time. Your success is my success. I'm always really happy for someone else's happiness.

@emilyjoansmith 2 года назад

*Jealously reminds them of what they don't have and what they wont do* POWERFUL! Whatever energy comes to you give back the energy of Kindness and empathy

@linhngo7398 Год назад

Friends are more likely to rise to envy. You started from the same place.

@sigmasiren777 7 месяцев назад

And family.

@motionmuse5684 5 месяцев назад

I've been flat broke and peep still severely jealous. Can Only imagine once my business starts to take off🎉❤😂

@sandradukes3819 Год назад

I am a genuine cheerleader as I like see folk rise above their circumstances, better themselves & win. It’s insane to me to even comprehend that there are individuals who are extremely troubled when you have a level up mindset and are striving to get ahead. Huh??? And even more disturbing, it is often someone in your camp or individuals who have close ties to you. What’s alarming is finding out that they’re even harboring such feelings. However the weirdness will eventually surface. I guess it’s the crabs in a barrel mentality. SMH

@rcoll60743 11 месяцев назад

You are so on point, I totally agree with everything you said. Making lemonade out of lemon is just amazing!

@blessedchildofgod9112 2 года назад

Yop and you gotta be careful around these haters they will hurt you ..thanks for the video it's helping me

@jeremyjackson9382 2 года назад

But some people don't see jealousy When they actually have a vision

@berenicemartinez9238 Год назад

Facts and most haters are from family

@divinejustice8359 2 года назад

Success is very subjective. Everyone has their own definition of success bc what one person sees as success may not mean the same thing to another person. Always work on yourself and compete against your self to achieve better for yourself. Never compare yourself to others because everyone’s journey and purpose in life is different.

@user-ic9lm5si2n 4 месяца назад

When they envy you they will point out every mistake you make because they are mad you didn't play it safe like they did.

@jordanbird5617 2 года назад

Sometime people get so jealous over you as motivation to become a successful somebody if themselves in life.

@stevenminor2241 2 года назад

THIS ESPECIALLY TRUE IN BLACK AMERICAN CULTURE.....

@AmanSS890 11 месяцев назад

Your success reminds them of what they weren’t willing to do to be successful themselves. People are so worried about other people that they never put that energy into working on themselves. At the end of the day it’s there problem not yours. I had someone say to me “ all you do is work on your business and body. I was sitting there and like in my head I was like “💭 who is going to work on my goals YOU just keep hustling don’t worry about the haters they are just back round noises you hear when you are trying to get work finished 😅😅. Some people can’t even get up early to go for. A walk or do some exercise for get about being successful 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ 1) get up early go for a walk or jog Make a Healthy meal 2) listen to a education podcast about money , exercise, goals , ex 3) read a financial book at least 2 chapters 4) spend time with my kids 5) spend time with my husband 6) work on my business Work on my routine Everyone body is different some people need more sleep some people need less.

@ChrisWalker-tu9fb Год назад

I don't feel like it's your success they hate they just hate you and they always hated you when you wasn't successful but now that you have become successful it just irritated them real bad and they can't stand it and I can guarantee you that if it was anybody else doing the same things they will be happy for them.

@terryejackson7363 2 года назад

Yes, that’s so true. Also being beautiful and driving a vehicle that’s you making look good.

@cloudnine735 2 года назад

People underestimate this

@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 2 года назад

Success definitely does attract hate! If you are a God-fearing person you will not suffer from jealousy you will be full of faith everyone gets jealous but there’s some people gets jealous every single day! That’s their primary emotion!

@KATALAMBANOIT 2 года назад

Faith doesn't trump jealousy unfortunately. But yes with God on your side there's absolutely nothing your haters can do. Amen!!

@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Год назад

As a god , I enjoy haters hate and their disrespect but set strongest boundaries with them

@prophecyrevelations5653 Год назад

Man! U hit da nail on da head. As a successful black business owner I get hated on alot, especially by other black males but I do what u do. I try understanding, putting myself in their shoes. Then Ion blame em. I am amazingly blessed & thankful. Favor ain't fair! So if I was them lookin at my life...I'd be jealous too. Nap cap! Doesn't upset me at all. How u gon be mad at me for what God did🙄. People sum else!

@ezotheceo Год назад

Run that bag up 🤝

@rcoll60743 11 месяцев назад

I am a black man business owner as well, I can relate to what you are saying. I love to see my brothers doing it right, don’t hate just learn and put forth an effort and you can achieve success like anyone else.

@trustoldpaths1415 2 года назад

Of course , and chasing success ,as the world defines it, breeds emptiness

@venessatymes7306 Год назад

🎯

@alakeee 6 месяцев назад

loners are the most successful just saying

@annmarshall5615 11 месяцев назад

Everybody does not have jealousy.

@AmorosoGombe 2 месяца назад

This is true. I've had a friend even sabotage a deal out of jealousy.

@Sheisme120 2 месяца назад

“If I was in their shoes, I’d be a hater too.”🎤🎤🎤

@LeoDarden-dc1ph 6 месяцев назад

I'm homeless I sleep in a tent I don't have many friends but people around stare at me show jealousy of me talking behind my back but I work everyday I stay to myself I needed to hear this

@originalgoldengoddess 9 месяцев назад

I don't have time for jealous people... I'm not jealous... i clap for people and i do it genuinely because i like to see other's win too. 🏆 ❤

@tradslnd9872 Год назад

Bro I only noticed my potential then they started hating. I havent even made my first move yet 😂

@Movieclips_101 Год назад

Facts 💯

@1594simonsays 9 месяцев назад

couldnt have said it better. theres no friends out here

@alfa1210productions 3 месяца назад

Like crabs in a bucket. Clowns😂😂😂

@NickM_FirstofHisName Месяц назад

My childhood friend...this mofo hated me because he saw everything good that I didn't notice about me. All my qualities that I was blind to...

@zibratesmom-giftsforlife8751 2 года назад

Needed to hear this today! Just had a close friend call last night and unload on me that I was talking down to her and being really rude to her. I know that I know I have not been doing this. But her life is messed up. Makes sense. That’s why your title caught my attention to stop and listen. Thank you, Trent. You’re an encouragement as always. My husband said what you said, just listen to her and love her and find ways to affirm her.

@debrawerner6039 2 года назад

I can relate

@wherehaterzdoe3428 2 года назад

First off women aren't really friends with each other. Misery likes company. That's why a lot of post wall females destined to die alone try and convince a young hot girl to dump her bf. Never listen to them.

@alfa1210productions 3 месяца назад

I can relate too. This again shows that when you're a good person, hate is not personal. It means nothing negative about you, only about the other person.

@normasaldana1546 2 года назад

TRENT YOU ARE ON THE MONEY WITH THAT WHO CONCEPT BECAUSE I'M PROUD OF PEOPLE WHO WIN, AND I COME FROM NOTHING SO YES I'VE BEEN BLESSED WITH NOT HAVING THE FEELING OF JEALOUSY.. YEAH!!!

@trafficjon400 9 месяцев назад

God is very much against any form of pride? so if you know blest then you might want to do what blessed comands you to prevent your believable lake of fire. Read Scriptures and PRIDE is number one sin God HATES AND JEALOUS OF THE MOST OF ALL OF SINS ITS THE GREATEST ONE. APOLOGIST WILL BE APOLOGISING NOT PREACHING.

@newzealandroadster День назад

Its so true your biggest fan is strangers💯.

@marymonsterandcreatormary3783 2 года назад

Jealousy overcomes my enemies on Social Media on my creation of characters.

@GypsyNomad912 2 месяца назад

My family is extremely jealous in general..They can't do what ive done..They know im mentally stronger

@jenniferbrown8568 Год назад

My entire family and friends and all I did was become a nurse I’m like we that broke

@davidtoles.teamonelovesqua5371 2 года назад

Going through that right now 💯

@vladt6038 7 месяцев назад

I never understood jealousy I've never been jealous of somebody doing better than me I got friends who are richer than me but I learned that instead of focusing my energy on hating those friends or being jealous I learned to learn from them and because I hang arround them I've got to live a preety good life and am going up in life. Jealousy to me is just laziness from the human people focus on the wrong energy and they just don't get that, I have lost friends when I decided to do well for myself in life all cause they got jealous. It's truly sad to see that cause if people stop being jealous and focus on themselves everybody can find success jealousy is just human weekness and laziness.

@angelau9382 2 месяца назад

I can tell there is Bible in this heart. My safe place. This advice helps one to grow in all areas...in Jesus name.

@jeantuite-actress--imdb Месяц назад

I’ve had the most friends when I’m kind of in the middle. If I’m going through a lot of challenges or at the other extreme super successful I get the frosty treatment

@jigglybutt__ Год назад

Are they mad because you haven’t fold or because you aren’t DEAD?…

@NezzysPlace 5 месяцев назад

Jealousy is the fuel that lights your fire 🔥🔥🔥 to go extra harder!!!!

@Aboogie_aboogie 2 года назад

Just like the Jealous person who disliked your post SMH‼️‼️ Life 🗣🗣🗣

@user-si4yh9tv4k 5 дней назад

Yes all facts I had to drop a so call friend because of jealousy, and envy.

@cloudnine735 2 года назад

I agree with everything but that everyone has this emotion. There is not a single soul i am jealous of. I have so many people jealous of me at my job. I'm likeable, do my job and received a promotion, plus I am not too bad looking. Jealousy is a disease

@normasaldana1546 2 года назад

I don't know the feeling of hating someone who has everything in life, I'm actually proud of them

@cloudnine735 2 года назад

@@normasaldana1546 right! I'm proud of people. If they have something more than me I will ask them how they did that. I promote and pump people up.

@tanafaithrenay1111 2 года назад

I can relate I deal with the most out of jealousy at work and by family members. They're threatened by who you and the great qualities you have. Keep your head up!

@andrewstanley Год назад

Right now, I’m like “Let it be the final blow” sigh

@lorrainegartrell1907 Год назад

The thing I see is if you say something from a good place simple request and the person reacts with pent up anger rage and frustration you then gotta step back and say whoa that’s too much unnecessary unfounded anger in your response. In other words haters seethe within and see you as a perceived threat. They from time to time they blow up. Note also they certainly can have more than you. They just don’t want you to have any more than them not even a little bit. ❤

@stevenjenkins7301 2 года назад

As usual, you nailed it! Thanks for another awesome video my man!

@ZenTradeGame Год назад

It’s definitely happening to me. Thank You! 💪🏾

@user-yr2fo5kv6z 3 месяца назад

True that! I wrote a book about escaping human trafficking and the haters are vicious. They're always looking me up on social media,to find fault or dig up dirt.🤨🙄

@nic3715 Год назад

But we work hard that's so unfair.!!!

@zlrivo Месяц назад

Nothing is fair in life

@jeantuite-actress--imdb Месяц назад

Sometimes with friends like this who needs enemies lol😂

@zlrivo Месяц назад

For real bro

@casioplayer5815 2 месяца назад

A had a man on RU-vid curse me out because I made a comment on a woman's channel. I responded by saying "Be blessed Sir and have a beautiful day" and he never responded. When people show their angriness toward you, show them kindness.

@landofgoshenstudios6402 2 года назад

That was powerful

@venessatymes7306 Год назад

Amazing grace...I once was blind but now I see. When a person is about making the world a better place and has a generally positive outlook on life, they can miss noticing the hating jealous people in secret competition around them. Until the jealousy and hatred grow so intense they can no longer afford to be oblivious to it. Praise God for seeing what I could not see and protecting me through it all.

@mynameischucky.charlesleer4363 6 дней назад

Bruh, I’m so glad I saw your video because everywhere I go. I had jealous people hating on me 24 hours a day seven days a week but what I do I just ignored him friends jealous family members yeah we go through the drama.

@princessp1361 2 года назад

i need to hear this i also wanted to make a youtube like this love this i love the positive keep up the good work

@roeghmazaman8973 7 месяцев назад

People harm other people to make themselves feel better about themselves, people get jealous of other people’s Money other people’s marriages other people's education other people's beauty other people’s happiness etc. And I think alot of people ate cruel to them, God protect the People that are high achievers. I say to the high achievers that I am proud of them. Thank you for this wonderful video.

@OfficialYoungShadow416 2 года назад

Factssss 💯💯💯💯

@CarlosRodriguez-mj8cz Месяц назад

Been a year working from home making a little bit more than in previous jobs and most importantly doing something I was trying for 4 years, finally I'm able to sustain this and I'm very proud and happy.... Funny things is that this has been the year that most of my "close" friends have told me to get back to a 9-5 because they think I spent too much time at home, even though I work less, better and with less stress 🤷🏾‍♂️

@LloydMajor Месяц назад

I have a bunch of haters that are "WITHOUT A CAUSE"!

@akaMonkeyBusiness Месяц назад

You Rock. May God bless you even more!

@mzreeforeman300 2 года назад

I love your messages!!! Keep inspiring

@MrRepsMrReps 11 месяцев назад

I lost so called friends after I started my business which became successful

@belindagrimm9261 2 года назад

I appreciate you, thank you

@444EverGreat Год назад

Wonderfully said fam.. this changed the way I see things I definitely just got to the point today where I realized I can’t allow those who don’t like me or hate on me to steal my joy. Preciate you speaking on this. 💪🏾 keep being great!

@saisavvi7109 2 года назад

EXCELLENT 👌 VIDEO 👍👍👍

@cornettconstruction2432 Год назад

Facts Bro!!

@michellelewis9470 2 года назад

Love that I tell people that all the time

@staciehaneline9533 Год назад

Thank you so much for this video.

@tinawhite2560 Год назад

Its always family MEMBER .LIKE THIS I GRAB THEM AND GIVE THEM BIG HUG THEY TRY KEEP MOVING . YOU FEEL NUMBness no feeling they have for you

@robinspiker3394 2 года назад

Oh so true!

@amandafevrier6717 2 года назад

Exactly 👀 !!!!!!

@TaraMac1437 2 года назад

Love you Trent💗

@monique4579 Год назад

Thank you.

@moroyal7813 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for this message. I really appreciate it.

@anthonysbrand29 Год назад

I got my shoes line business at age 24 years old from I get alot hate in my own family friends and co workers it’s crazy I get alot love from strangers in different countries more than my own hometown

@LD-nq1ve 2 года назад

WOWWWWW!!!! 🤭🤭🤭Sooo TRUE!!!! Facts!!!

@brearegans6952 2 года назад

Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved.

@sharondouglas1149 10 месяцев назад

You are spot on Bro!

@cookingsingle4887 2 года назад

Love this video.

@tucoramirez9729 5 месяцев назад

Y own brothers and sisters are extremely jealous of me for buying my first home, it's unreal how people hate on family

@LloydMajor Месяц назад

Thanks for the class!

@02drpyro День назад

I’m a success in almost every way. Successfull marriage. Nice home. Nice cars. Successful career and still holding it down pretty well in the looks department even in my early 50s. The only thing is that so called friends or associates just keep flaking on me. They’ll just do something so disrespectful that they force me to cut them off or they’ll say something like I acted “funny” with them. I hesitate to say this because it may make me sound arrogant but I have to wonder if people are jealous or I’m being hated on🤔