My INFJ translation, “There are these people who could be communicating and valuing each other better than they are, and if I could just find exactly the right words to say, create just the right environment for them to work together with less misunderstanding and conflict…”
That's exactly what i thought , as a Ti user (infj) i find myself constantly thinking of better ways to get the work done or at least catch up and get the result i want.. (it's like when you use a navigation system and it keeps giving you new options even if you miss an exit..hope the analogy made my idea a bit clearer 😅)
I'm not 100% sure of my type, but a lot of things do align to ESTJ, and this is something I struggle with a bit. I've realized though, that everyone has their roles in life, and I have to trust that people will be able to do those roles, and I can't oversee and have control over every aspect I encounter.
@AMindnamedAdam That's true, especially when it comes to my current goal of trying to be a better conversationalist, and just better with people in general. In the past, I've had friends explode out of nowhere and stop being my friend because they said they were tired of me pushing them around all the time. It didn't seem like that way to me, but after learning about typology, I guess I can see how some people might feel that way. I don't get why they didn't just tell me there were upset though, I hate when people do that, they just expect you to read their minds. Something I've realized is that I don't rely on reading body language, it's not even something I think about. What made me realize this, is my sister-in-law asking me to talk to my brother about something, and then asking me what his body language hinted at, and me being a bit confused because I wouldn't know where to begin with that, I'm really bad at reading faces. Is it the same for you or?
Yeah I drew so many diagrams to "fix" power cables to make them all the same from computer, phones, vehicles, and other random house hold appliances. Then scrapped and threw them all away when I realized it'll never take off cause the amount of money it would take to implement only Government Mandate/Law would be able to fix the problem of "Buy my new cable for that one particular device."
