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Here's the thing. A LOt of Ryan's advice is just about having good boundaries. But this WILL NOT turn a f*ckboy into a boyfriend. It'll just help you separate the f*ckboys from the boyfriend candidates. I just feel like, with respect, sometimes Ryan talks like you can change a guy from one type to the other by having good boundaries. And you can't. But being able to sort them out still helps.
Interesting take, Lisa 🙂 With respect, I would like to think that I teach creating healthy boundaries on this channel to the point where any woman has the power to say NEXT! 👉👉👉 You can poke and prod at men to figure out which category they fall in, you can even give them a chance to maybe show you a different side of themselves... but no, we're not doing or advocating for any sort of *wizardry* here. We're not here to change men. (Good luck with that; not so much.) We're here to become expert sorters and omnipresent when it comes to our desires and how to fulfill them -- something my course will nonetheless help you guys crush faster too btw 😉
I appreciate all of your advice Ryan. However, I do find trying to have a relationship so exhausting. I ran out of patience with these schmucks. I am a mature woman and it amazes me how many older men behave like primates. I have encountered quite a few who lack class, respect and just normal human decency. Yes; I am selective but I'd rather be by myself than be miserable.with just any man.
I'm 3rd-generation Irish (maybe not first generation but it's in my blood) and these texts have all *totally* worked on me as a younger person 🤷🏻♂️It's not so much whether "this text" or "that text" works, it's the mindset behind them. That's what I want to stress here. You're reclaiming your day and not putting up with nonsense; that's it ✊
This is soooo true! I had an ex - bf who’s Irish and he turned the tables on me called me psycho because he’s confused 🤷🏼♀️ you can see the problem is him because nun of his relationships lasts.
Been talking with a guy. Every so often I get the "hey how are you" or "how's it going" texts. I usually respond just "good" and wait to see how he follows up. Usually he sees how bland he's being and adds more words in the next few texts lol.
Never clicked so fast😂 I was in #3 situation. I came to him twice and third time I said no. If he would not come to me...well, thank you, next. Thanks God he understood and came😂❤️
I love your dating tips, and text ideas especially! Helps a girl like me navigating a little better thru the "dating jungle" (let's face it...if is like wild kingdom out there! 🦁🐯🐻 LOL) But I do have a question...what do you do if did start sexting too early, gave him way more availability than you should, even though you haven't met the guy yet?!! Ikr??!! How do you diffuse situations like that with him in the future? He has his good points but I also don't want to come across as the "Good time girl" he can fall back on. HELP!!
Ooh yes. My boyfriend has a horrible time having a text conversation after telling me there’s always something to talk about and got upset that I’m a learn as I go person or ask add-on questions versus just asking someone a bunch of stuff about their life. We’ve gotten into arguments and almost broke up once or twice but we work together so I text him an apology and we fixed things on our break. I had to come to the realization it wasn’t about me and learn to be more patient and he actually started doing a really good job of having text conversations. ❤️ I told him I know he’s trying and I appreciate it so much that he’s working on doing something that’s important to me. Its really our only issue and he’s really good to me so it’s worth working out. Let’s not forget I sent a message that was supposed to say I still owe you for the headache. I got back a ‘?’ Autocorrect changed it to I still owe you head. 😂😂 I told him I wrote headache and he just responded with lol. I want him so bad but I’m thankful he’s so respectful.
Joys Pedro1 Spells are from the devil and will only backfire later from what I’ve heard and so I don’t recommend them. Just let God take care of it and move on if you need to,it’s painful I know from experience (not married but from 2+year relationships) but honestly it’s for the best and I’m glad I wouldn’t have been truly happy had we stayed together.
I really liked this. Sometimes I struggle with how to say something so that it’s politely honest but doesn’t make a guy feel like I’m shutting him down completely. Great video!
Ughh that last text! Wish I had the chance to send it lol. Anyway I think he did catch my "not anymore interested" vibe once I stopped replying to him and that's why he deleted my number and unfollowed me out of nowhere, and all I thought was "yeah Ryan already told us it's time for NEXT👋" . I feel so much relieved now! Thank you 🤗
I love your advice! It's so solid and these "texts" videos make it directly applicable to our lives. I've been in all of these situations! Wish I would've had some of these suggestions to go by instead of skating on eggshells trying to say something nicely or neutrally But nah you're like "be a savage!" Haha love your content 👌
@@datingcoachryanpatrick your video today worked like a charm today. It was amazing the response I got from my boyfriend today. It was seriously outstanding!! I wanted to say so bad to my boyfriend..Ryan Patrick works!!!
Ryan you are GENIUS! I used the first one “Hey, I’ve gotta handle some things...but I would love to do this in person! Let me know and we’ll set it up😊” It freakin worked and got a response in less than 2 minutes!!🤣
Happy Launch Week!!! YEET! My oldest daughter has gone through a pretty crappy break up (she’s 23 OMG I’m old) and I have been sending her these vids. You’re officially generational!! 🙏🏼❤️
Hi, just wanted to say that your videos are proving to be really helpful, it is really amazing how you're able to keep the humor and interest going while still helping people so much and spreading important information. Thanks!!!
Why didn't I get these great tips some months ago😩? The man I really liked now considers me a nun because of my standards and boundaries. Thank you though, Ryan!
@@adday. Thank you Adda for answering,but I think I showed him that I liked him. He's just not used to wait to become physically intimate with someone whom he has been vulnerable with,been always kind and supportive and opened up himself to. He's my ex-classmate and I enjoyed getting to know him during corona and communicating with him over the phone during two months almost every day. Yet he took my boundaries(such as not to sleep together at first dates etc) personally and acted angry or offended after meeting us together but said everything was fine. He probably hoped that I change my mind since the strong chemistry betw.us. Maybe we have a different view to that topic and I avoided talking about it clearly too long, but I really liked him.I've seen men get frustrated when they show how attracted they are to you but you want to wait before becoming intimate. Some of them try to insult you with some random thing to comfort you later to the bed.( It is so common these days.) This man hasn't offended me anyhow,but I couldn't trust his latest behaviour and blocked him for good😔
Ryan I absolutely love your videos. However, are we able to get this class for free or less for the price that is up now? Due to all that is going on rite now i’m trying to save up as much but I also am very interested in this class. I understand your time is valuable and that’s also why it comes with a price but like i said i am super interested now that my love life hasn’t been at its best. Thanks for your time :)
Totally understand. A few others expressed interest in the course, but it just wasn't the best timing in terms of price, commitment, etc. All I'd say is get on my email list at www.boyfriendblueprint.com/enroll at the bottom of the page. I can't promise anything immediately, since enrollment will be closing for this session soon, but down the line, I'll have more offers, perks and deals to get more involved and maybe even opportunities to work with me, if those kinds of things interest you 😉Hope that helps!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thank you Ryan for taking the time to answer me back. I will definitely be on the lookout for those. Really helped me out to be more clarified, thank you! :)
Hey guys, (This is wendy, changed my name to my middle name) responding to all your responses sense I guess i should have made myself a little more clear in the beginning. @Ryan Patrick , I suppose these text would would while used on American men. I tried and of course they worked. But they don't work on a different culture, because I tried there as well. Maybe you could set up a video to help us girls out who are dating ling distance 🤔 and trying to keep it interesting. 🤏⚘ just a smudge. 🤗
Tbh, if I ask a girl "wyd?" And she says that, I would probably break up with her. Its literally just asking what shes doing at the moment. Like bruh. EDIT: Better Grammar.
Thank you for another great and helpful video :) But, oh how I wish to sign up for your boyfriend blueprint online course...if only I wouldn't have to see where my money comes from at the moment...yaaay to that happy student's life :)
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Have watched and typed up soooo many notes on my iphone lots of your texting advice and wow makes me feel so bold and in control. They work tho makes them try harder now i've got me one whom understands me and we love DIY and crafting. Painted his place last month and so much fun! Everyone please take NOTES and dont be afraid to hit SEND !!! Staight up love will come!! Thank you Thank you Thank you 🙏 😊 ❤️ 💕
Ryan, I would like to Thankyou, you have helped change myself as a person to learn to value myself more. You have helped me to realise where I was going wrong with men. I've now finally after three years of nothing but heartache, been seeing a man who is doing everything you said he would do if I changed my behaviour 😂 I even refused a Friday night date he asked for because I was busy 😁 I've never had the confidence to say NO incase he lost interest. But he didn't and i have a 3rd date with him on Saturday night.im holding off for the 30 days no sex 😂😂 and you pop in my head every date I'm on with him, thinking what would ryan say.... 🤔 🤣😂🤣 YOU ARE GIVING US WOMEN HAPPINESS THANKYOU Julie from the UK
I have to try this out..I wanna capture his heart again. Which text would be good to send to an ex that is talking to another girl, but still loves me. HELP PLEASE 🥺
Don't mess with exes, Mari. You never hear me talk about getting your ex back. There's a HUGE reason for that. Once the trust is gone, *it's gone* . #neverlookback On to the next! 🙂
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Knowing your worth requires six dates before you slightly mention attraction to his body? Idk man seems so outdated. What if we're just into it? Does it have to be sex or love?
I know someone for the past 29 years that we’ve had a relationship together but your sissies friends but shows that he has feelings more than friends even other people could tell but he won’t tell me could you help me
Would love your take on this: What does it mean if someone I was seeing long distance randomly texts me the link to the song Knights In White Satin? Thank you.
Loving this and definitely taking the advice ... all I need to do now is try to actually get to a first date without the guy flaking or ghosting me before we’ve even met!!! (Been online dating sites for several months and not 1 date! Not even a social distanced one!) What am I doing wrong?? Honestly I’m chilled in my approach but also wear my heart on my sleeve! I must be attracting the wrong men!
Which websites are you on? What are your profile pics like and what does it say? Do you have parameters on sussing a guy out early on and eliminating quickly? Are you too 'friendly'?
AD J - Pics are natural ... nothing sleazy. I have parameters and know what I’m looking for. I’m not over available nor am I over friendly - admittedly been guilty of that years ago, but not now.
@@nickynewman6642 I'm probably one of the few that genuinely enjoy online dating. I tend to meet good guys and generally have (had) good experiences 🙂.
How do I expect someone to ask me out on a date in this pandemic situation ? I feel like guys would be paranoid to do that cuz I myself am like that when it comes to actually seeing new people.
@@marigra6449 I tried to explain and he got very cold and distant basically like oh I get it I'm not worth your time you've found a new catch, i wish all the best for you. I told him that's not what I meant and wasn't trying to come off rude but I fear it may be too late.
I said NO to his first date asking, he got so unsettled, and keep setting up dates later. I said NO to his first going to his house asking, he got so scared and started to plan beach, and nice restaurant dates. So, remember to put yourself up there. Anything you don't like (maybe just a tiny bit), say NOOOOOOO.
Ryan, I seriously cant tell you how much I am waiting for the BB course to start. I am so sure that only your guidance can save me from my bad dating life and begin with a new fresh longlasting future with guys!!..i seriously cant thank you enough!.btw I enrolled in your basic program and lets gettttt goinggggggggggggggggggggggggggg nowwwwwww... ❤️
WHOO HOO! Welcome to the party boat, Aditi!! 😄 So happy you're pumped and on board!!! Only a few short days away now until registration closes and *the fun begins....*
I went on a date yesterday and he really seemed like he was cativated & smitten over me. He kept smiling looking at me and I could see that we have alot chemistry towards eachother. He even hugged me twice before leaving. It seemed like he didn't want me to leave in the first place. Also, he complemented me saying he loved my earrings. But i'm scared I made a bad impression on him somehow. He tried to kiss me & I told him I don't kiss on the first day. I also told him i'm valuable & have standards. He appreciated that I have respect for myself. But I'm just scared that he isn't going to text me anymore because I havent talked to him since yesterday. And I forsure am not going to text him first, so what should I do?
I’d say move on if he doesn’t reach out to you again. Just like Ryan says, you are learning to sort through guys. I bet that guy respected you because you told him your time is valuable. If he doesn’t have good intentions, you know he won’t make any effort to talk to you again and then you will know you should move on. But if they do message you back, then that means they want to pursue you. Remember to respect yourself first. And don’t give into any of those tricks guys use to take advantage of you.
Nah, I'm sure you did great 🙂He can have his own hangups going on. Do the best you can and never look back. If he comes around, great. If not, well... you know... NEXT! 👉👉👉
If he can't Respect your boundaries and has a problem with them then he isn't going to treat you right period. Don't be afraid there's a lot more guys to date out there!
Is it just me or the level of sass in this video through the roof? Especially 7:45. I can't stop laughing. 😂😂Also thanks for the advice, even though I might not use it since my first reaction to romantic attention from men is PANIC
The vdos made for helping boys to date says that if she is not replying you right back, or if she is not initiating contact ever , etc shows that she is not into you but Ryan actually tells us to do the same. So I m basically confused now 😅😅.
Idk who needs to see this but please don’t think too much about all this, if you like someone show a little interest, and BE YOURSELF... if they don’t like it well NEXT
"Sext me not" if a guy approaches me this way early on, he ain't even on my list of guys I want to get serious with. I don't care much for flings either, so he's a "Buh-Bye" guy 👋 To me, it shows he doesn't respect me.
Thanks Ryan I’ll let you know how your advice worked out for coz I’m planning to use your ideas . I just love your video totally awesome. I watch them everyday n learn new stuff ty
Like seriously, if a man is this stunted that we need to socially train him like a frigging puppy, he isn't worthy of any attention. Annoys me. Men need to up their game, the onus shouldn't be on women to reply in the right way
Tank you Ryan for your amazing vidios. Theo are very helpfull. But now we are in a lockdown and i am wondering if you have advice for dating in this time. It is really hard to date because there is nothing to do besides taling a walk.
I did have a guy that was all the time making questions on the text and I wrote to him " hey ...i don't like talking about me on the textes ...i like to tell you in person, if you wanna know let's meet ! , after that text he never answer me and I blocked him !
I just asked my boyfriend if he would be mad if I Kissed a Girl responded that's your business then I said would you be upset or would you want to watch he said get to the point so that did not work
Tell him if he is busy accessing porn then he won’t be accessing you! You are the real deal and porn is emotionally cheating! If he knows it hurts you then he needs to quit. Non negotiable.
That definitely might require a more clinical approach with help from a qualified mental health professional. Porn addiction, if it's to that point, is a *real* thing that needs a multi-faceted strategy to address 😕
