In my magic / real kitchen I make the most delicious lobster tacos which I made last Saturday. Thanks for reinforcing the idea that we don't need to accept the crumbs of someone's mediocre pizza or any of the sub bizzare conditions they impose with it. #IamEnough ❤
Joining this school is some of the best money I have spent in a long, long time. This is me saying this. The first time I heard the monthly price, I gawked. But the amount of value and intention put into this work, the clarity, the kindness, the practical offerings that give tangible instructions. I'm floored. We are lucky to have this made accessible to us. Thank you for what you do Edit: I'm clearly an AA and I'm listening to things very, very frequently. Amazing how I everytime I hear a video I watched before, I'll always hear new things and gain new understanding. I've been trying to find insight for years. It's painful, scary, and overwhelming to feel hopeful. But I think I do.
You are the most wonderful person. Your work is amazing and you have no idea how much you have helped me personally. You are amazing and your work I’m just so thankful I feel indebted to you! Lol many blessings!!
This was spot on and it helped me realize why I did the things I did in my 2yr relationship that just went south. I’m seriously thinking about joining to go further into the why’s and learn how to reprogram my stinky thinking
I ever read once (more than once actually) about the field of play of AA with DA, and how that creating safe field outside the relationship will help the AA to not sabotaging their relationship with DA. The safe field will include the supporting family bonds and a good therapy. Since then I often visit Thais videos, especially when feeling down, and learn that I'm more an FA on anxious spectrum. It's kind of having sessions to drag my thoughts on conscious level - besides meditating. Since then as well, I admire how well she contours her makeup, and she's just so adorably beautiful!
This clearly explains it for me. The personal growth to know ourselves is key to show up the best version of ourselves in any relationship. Transformation and growth is an ongoing process. Thanks for your great daily insights. 🙏
Thank You. The part about seeing the big picture and not focusing on single outcomes but more on the actions I take to move forward is a really helpful point :D
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your knowledge, you’re hands down my favorite self-help channel. I’ve felt so depressed and hated myself for as long as I can remember and for the first time in my life I feel like there’s hope so thank you so much.
Thank you. This was fabulous. . From that story, I see exactly how I violated or had no boundaries after my divorce in a new Country. Reminding me of changing schools a few times when young. I know that I can be a better friend to me now than the person who wasn't telling me truth and found with another person. he was saying in her presence were just friends.i said in front of her we had 1 requirement. No lying. no thanks. Not friends like that. I need language improvement to feeel more connected here, I was willing to do anything to have the German help i needed during the last 3 years. I see it was meaning I gave to the situation than him. But he had the one on one requirements from the beginning. I see fear of abandonment on both sides . He , not willing to lose me, even though we were quite different and me not willing to be alone trusting I'd get help from someone at another time. Or that I couldn't do it myself. I made a deal with the devil
i love that i found you, i wish you were in my area. I have enrolled in your courses because i love how easy you breakdown things and you are so warm and accepting. Thank you for sharing this knowledge with us 💚
This is such special info...you really have such a crazy evolutionary purpose for peoples’ lives...thank you so much! This will change the planet once everyone catches on...💚
I'm not sure if it's like this for other people as well, but while the kitchen story makes perfect sense, the problem I run into is that the food in my kitchen feels DRASTICALLY lesser than the food of the other person. I often think of it being the equivalent of trying to quench thirst by drinking your own spit. Great video as always!
Idk if it's the same way for you, but what I found was that when I was alone by myself I was ok with my life, hobbies, routines, but when I met someone, what they had to offer through the time spent with them was so much better that I wanted more and I didn't want to be alone again.:/
I have always been a self isolation person. It might be from a emotional neglected childhood or from PTSD. IDK. .... Why do I keep intentionally or unconsciously pushing people away.
Do you have a belief that people are a threat to your safety? Is there a belief that you will get rejected or embarrassed? Can you think about a time you pushed someone away? What were you thinking at the time and what were you protecting? It's always valuable to uncover the negative core beliefs to start working on the stored subconscious beliefs that are activated and create the need to want to push people away
It depends what you are looking for...there are online communities that also meet in person, at least before covid19. You often have to see it as an investment in time, energy and resources for everyone involved.
I found the email about this video very helpful. I am including below in case it might help someone else. Excellent video! Thank you. Personal Development School To: Fri, Aug 14 at 11:11 AM Hello wonderful community, Happy Friday! This week, you will learn how to recognize the root causes of your loneliness. We will be focusing on the anxiously attached individual, but this video does apply to all Attachment Styles. You can check it out here. The three key takeaways are: Loneliness is less often based on the amount of relationships you have in your life, and more often based on whether or not you’re having deep and meaningful interactions. Ask yourself: do you feel seen? Do you feel heard? Do you feel understood? This is often a piece that is missing in relationships that can contribute to your loneliness at a subconscious level. Other contributors to loneliness are: (1) disconnection from self, (2) fears that we carry into relationships, (3) shame, (4) behavioural adaptations as a result of being hurt by someone, (4) a competition-based mindset that creates separation between yourself and others. To learn more about how these factors can create a sense of loneliness, watch the full video! By understanding why you may feel this way, you can begin taking action towards correcting it. I hope that you have a wonderful weekend! With gratitude, Thais Personal Development School, 999 Edgeley Blvd, Unit 3, Concord, Ontario L4K 5Z4, Canada
I've been listening to your videos for dayyyys after escaping an abusive relationship a few months ago. I really want to put in the effort to grow and improve myself so I can be secure in myself, so that I never end up in that situation again. I've started going on dates and noticed my AA becoming activated again and I'm proud to say - I saw it, I noticed it, I met myself with compassion and kindness, and now I've changed direction to focus on myself and it really is helping me not feel so FOCUSED on whoever it is I am talking to or crushing on. I love it! Thank you so much!
Love your videos. Been watching them everyday, since I realised a few weeks ago that I have an anxious preoccupied attachment style. I've faced a lot of rejections and have found it quite difficult to deal with them so I could totally relate when you spoke about rejection. Can you do a short video speaking about rejection in this attachment style, if possible? Thankyou! :)
Thais? There should be more comments on this. It’s direct to the core and means so much. Keep up the amazing work. 4 years, 10 years … the advice will still be relevant. Thank you 😙
